Thanks once again my guy, coming through with reinforcements

Excellent video

Why haven't you been posting as much? I always look forward for your content. Great video brother

hey bro - can you make a video about "should you take your ex back after they had a rebound" ? would love to see your thoughts and views for this one

She got tired of being treated with respect and loyalty and kindness and thoughtfulness. She is a dismissive avoidant and 31 years old being controlled by a narcissistic mother.

@derwoodhamburger

8 ай бұрын

Bro I could be wrong here but from my experience, A woman with a narcissistic mother is likely to be narcissistic herself. She will play victim, never take accountability and always blame her past. Dismissive avoidant is always difficult to handle aswell. Always choose peace

@walkertranger5746

8 ай бұрын

@@derwoodhamburgerthank you for that brother! I’ve never been in a position of loving someone and walking away. I’ve always lost love and ended things. In this situation had to come to recognize it’s been the death of a thousand paper cuts. Lil sharp needles being jabbed into my heart one at a time and slowly bleeding out. I’m building the courage to telling her that I’m done.

@derwoodhamburger

8 ай бұрын

@@walkertranger5746 I know what you ean by death by 1000 cuts bro. That's the hardest thing. When you walk away she will respect you more no matter how she communicates that. She might seem a little pissedoff at first but regardless she will be forced to respect you. Women need love, men need respect. God bless you bro look after yourself

We were together 8 years then apart for 3! We kept in touch during the breakup and stayed civil, but never spoke about our personal lives. Then finally she messaged about seeing me and we started up again. Everything seemed different in a great way. She was more open and relaxed, our communication improved. It felt like we moved on from so many of our past problems. Then about a year in, the old "her" started creeping back in. Shutting me out, being secretive. Caught in lies. About another 6 months go by, and she dumps me again thru a Facebook message. She could never do the hard stuff face to face. And now she is with someone new already. I doubt she will ever come back a 3rd time, but if she does I have to be ready to say absolutely not. I love her but don't want to go thru losing her ever again. This is awful

@newwaves8159

7 ай бұрын

I’m sorry to say but you didn’t date a woman, u dated a child with deep underlying issues. If you take her back it’s your fault. It’s like looking in your refrigerator thinking something different will appear. Literally disappear and work on yourself. Change your phone number if you have to it will be worth it.

@DarthVeach

7 ай бұрын

@@newwaves8159 Trust me, I know that now. I honestly don't think she will be back again. I said some pretty horrible things that I am not proud of, but I hit a massive breaking point

@eliotruben3442

6 ай бұрын

I did this for 11 years. Don’t do what i did.

Any situation where No contact isn’t a good idea? Obviously self improvement is always the answer.

So what do you think about Corey Wayne’s idea of when she reaches out make a date?

What if you actually accepted the break up and said that you still loved them but appreciate the honesty and thank her for the good times. Since then 5 months nothing and I won’t reach out but I am intrigued to know what are the possibilities there. She did like me and I took her for granted and she fell out of love. I don’t feel Too upset about it today. I miss her but I can live with it 😊

This is also why i stopped saying "let me know if you change your mind". When you keep it brief, i think itd better. They most likely already know at the time you dont want to break up, so if they change their mind they will let you know anyway

im not even hoping anymore that i'll get unblocked. After almost 1 year and a half being blocked, I simply let go. It is what it is. Even if she unblocks after few years, I wouldn't reach out anymore. I accept my loss, I focused on myself, my grind and stuff, but my case with this specific person is simply done. Redpill community helped me much, in sense of moving on and focusing on myself, but do I have any hopes with her? no.

@eliotruben3442

8 ай бұрын

This comment made me feel hopeless lol 😅but I’m sure it doesn’t matter now

@ConfidencePT

8 ай бұрын

My ex broke it off two years ago just gone. She has hovered and reached out this whole time. I last saw her 18-months ago. She was still reaching out till the end of June this year and still hovering on my socials til a month ago. This, despite telling me that she's dating someone new two months ago.

@trance499

7 ай бұрын

@@eliotruben3442 dont feel hopeless, your gf might reach out to you. just do what redpill teaches us, always strive to be the best version. But im specifically telling for my own situation, she is childish and immature and most stubborn chick ever, didn't unblock after year and a half. I did some mistakes but they were no big deal. I moved on from her for a while. But that doesnt mean your gf is like that, yours may reach out to you. Stay strong

She very stubborn

Any advice what to do have after having a dumb argument with your girl? I fucked up by arguing back, just wondering if I should let her be for a few days? Thanks

@MasculineEnergy

8 ай бұрын

First of all. Arguing with women is pointless. Just don’t do it. Control your emotions better. Let her come to you. If you have issues let me know. If she’s getting distant you can save this

@evanb259

8 ай бұрын

@@MasculineEnergyit's only been 2 days since we spoke but wondering if I should wait for her to reach out or should I reach out in a few days.

@Truthseeker77-up2ks

8 ай бұрын

@@MasculineEnergy What do you do/respond if they start the argument?

Whats your views on an ex stalking your social media while in a new relationship? She unblocks to view my stuff then blocks again trying to be sly

@giovannij1368

8 ай бұрын

It's definitely indirect but, try not to let it drive you mad. Don't reach out

@itzrxlm3268

6 ай бұрын

My ex is doing this too. I broke up with her, she followed my new TikTok and views it somewhat regularly. She views all my stories on Insta, and added my new Snap just to remove her request right after. I take it more as her trying to bait and see if I’m still as emotionally reactive as before. Personally I know I still am inside but I’m not gonna show it

@Kopite19877

6 ай бұрын

@@itzrxlm3268 is she dating some else?

@Kopite19877

6 ай бұрын

@@itzrxlm3268 she in another relationship?

find a hotter girl

I've been in no contact for almost 8 weeks since she broke up with me, I very much doubt she's coming back even though we had a strong connection. I don't think any of these videos even apply to me as we were only seeing each other for a few weeks. They only come back if you were in a long term relationship with them.

@Originalman360

8 ай бұрын

No disrespect but WTF are u watching & commenting? Are you blaming HIM for her not coming back? Grow a set will you!

Does this apply if you’re blocked and she’s seeing someone else?

@ConfidencePT

8 ай бұрын

I'm in this position.

@Kopite19877

6 ай бұрын

Does she ever unblock you and block you after?

@eliotruben3442

6 ай бұрын

@@Kopite19877 how would I know? Isn’t that why I’m here on the video?😂

She is in a rebound coach I mess up she said me in her will never be together I’m going no contact she had the new guy text me from her phone she said why u telling me you love me if I’m in a relationship plus she said me in her wasn’t met to be in he give her so much peace I ask can we be friends she said no I’m blocking on everything still

@eliotruben3442

8 ай бұрын

You need to re read this lol it doesn’t make a lot of sense

@Taybaby2000

6 ай бұрын

Why you want a woman who getting dug out by someone else?...Just think about all the positions he had her in...MOVE TF ON...ITS THE ULTIMATE BETRAYAL...WHATS WRONG WITH U PPL‼️

@miketheentrepreneur

5 ай бұрын

@@Taybaby2000 Damn!

@Taybaby2000

5 ай бұрын

@@miketheentrepreneur 🤣🤣🤣

It doesn't matter if she'll be back. You don't take them back. You move on.