This video is a monster in terms of content, so I'll let it speak for itself, but a few quick reminders: 1. If you like this sort of deep analysis of game, check out systembytodd.com also I've just announced a world bootcamp tour... details at: www.toddvdating.com/live

@dhruvrawat430

4 жыл бұрын

That thumbnail is lethal 🤘

@zlozlozlo

4 жыл бұрын

So Todd, what's your all time highest FIDE rating?

@sydneyloli5849

4 жыл бұрын

I've just introduced your teachings via YT to my AFC friends who just got out of LTRs. They're thoroughly impressed and are looking into The System. - I swear by your system because it took me out of beginner/intermediate (who got solid numbers and dates) to intermediate where I take women home. (Thanks bro). When I sort out my finances, I am definitely doing your bootcamp!!! (-because I'm sick of solid 7s, some 8s and that rare 9. I want solid 9s & 10s and an occasional 11 and my daygame needs work).

@javiervalera9566

4 жыл бұрын

Hey Todd, what are your prices for a one on one session?

@superniftysuzy1

4 жыл бұрын

Hi Todd, I am 29 year old woman who is in-shape, feminine and kind. I have been dating a 48 year old man who is very successful divorced and with a small child. We only get together for dates on Sundays. Is this a red flag?? We did sleep with each other last week which would make him my second partner. Just wonder if I am wasting my time??..

I just listen to Todd for pleasure. His theories are so sequential and satisfying... i should probably go out and talk to girls.

@massimiliano_mogetta_bartolini

3 жыл бұрын

You are an indoor guy so you should lure them to come inside before :)

@hireecejulie

3 жыл бұрын

Bro just by leaving the house your chances of getting laid go up by about 15%

In Todd we trust

@justagenosfan

4 жыл бұрын

lmao

@blackexcellence6092

4 жыл бұрын

LMAO YAH

@ebeb6924

4 жыл бұрын

Todd wants your money in exchange for selling you false promises. But you're so gullible and desperate that you're willing to hand over your credit card information anyway.

@musical_lolu4811

4 жыл бұрын

It rhymes. Nice.

@karna5998

4 жыл бұрын

@eric lin yeaap

One of the best videos you’ve ever put out, thanks for posting

He is the most practical and realistic coach i ever learned , from him you knew its 0% bullshit LOL.

@Bom-pff

4 жыл бұрын

Why "LOL" though?

@Matt-ym3if

3 жыл бұрын

He’s the best teacher by far I wouldn’t describe him as the most practical though - employing his advanced theory requires a high level of nuance and is difficult in practice whereas other coaches are more realistic because they give more basic advice such as just go out there and say she’s cute

Great stuff!

This guy gives the best dating advice at the moment. Free of the fluff that RSD has put out for the past couple of years.

@redfolgers2233

4 жыл бұрын

i agree rsd became some weird spiritual inner game shit..still good content but far from this type of raw practical hardcore game...i noticed that fluffy rsd stuff was making me soft

@josuastangl7140

4 жыл бұрын

Todd was the first PUA I discovered and he got me into RSD. Now things are back to just Todd.

@stevetheiii477

4 жыл бұрын

Joe Leslie you must not know Alpha Male Strategies

@Adrian101882

4 жыл бұрын

@Steve The III strongly agree, but I suspect most will first need to get viciously knocked on their asses first to really tune into what he's saying. Even a purple-piller might find AMS to be a bit too extreme, but getting psychologically demolished by a woman has a way of opening eyes, ears and mouths (red pill)

@stevetheiii477

4 жыл бұрын

@@Adrian101882 yeah ams advice is more suitable if your already a high value male or by guys that are completely fed up with females bullshit and want to take their dating to the next level but this reqùires you to really work on yourself before attempting most of his strategies like flaking on dates, Todds advice seems more reasonable for average guys but thats why you gotta get on your purpose

Wow, this video is amazing Todd. Definitely a "monster" when i comes to content AND the perspectives you want to be coming at game with.👏🏾👏🏾👌🏾

"The context, I'm interested; the content, I'm not sure marginally interested"....huge!

This guy is genus.

one of your best videos Todd, this is gold!! thanks man

room chilly todd? ;)

@bernhardknipperdolling7419

4 жыл бұрын

That's not a bug, it's a feature. 15 years of cold approach pick up will give you rock-hard nipples that women find irresistible

@salmark9080

4 жыл бұрын

he owns that shit haha

@issac7787

4 жыл бұрын

Proudly owning that dad bod. In Todd we trust

Great content here, save this one guys. Several of these ideas have been spread over many other videos, but the connections Todd's making here about everything that's involved and how to progress is really spot on. Thanks Todd!

Thank you Todd, it was a great video for me)

"Jenifer Lawrence"😑 send him home😂😂

@raphaelsanft5086

4 жыл бұрын

It's a german guy saying this.

This video explains so much of the levelling behaviour that guys learn on their journey through pickup - great stuff!

This actually made so much sense comparing it to previous relationships and how they played out based on the very start of meeting a girl. Thanks a bunch for this video.

Todd, please make a video on your philosophy on learning! Like how you accomplished so much in so many diff fields. Thank you!!!!

Having her feel nervous as i normally am that whole part was incredible to hear. Thanks for that wisdom im gonna seriously evaluate my methods after that one lol

@ritaaleksandrovna4518

2 жыл бұрын

I never get nervous around men but I enjoy watching men get nervous around me. It feels good and it’s super cute ☺️

If a girl knows she can have you, your value goes down.

@RnBCutz

4 жыл бұрын

Not really. Sometimes girls like me and give me that look. When I do my approach sometimes they might be on some insecure shit and auto reject me because I may be intimidating. But if a girl reject me and don't see my high value through my approach I will never talk to her and look at her again. Basically ignore her. Then if she actually wants you let her come to you. Never ask her again. Don't allow her to play games with you if she ain't reciprocating.

@CommandoMaster

4 жыл бұрын

Hot girls can have any guy they want.

@luminousb9272

4 жыл бұрын

True I guess but that's only if she doesn't know you've got more to pick from.

@abhipawar8422

4 жыл бұрын

@@RnBCutz Exactly Same thing happened with me.Chick was staring me for 1.5yrs in college.She got intimidated on approach.

@Aryeh-o

4 жыл бұрын

thinking about this too intensly distracts from behaviors that suppprt your value and life quality

Little specific details like this is what makes this into art of itself.

italians have a word for this...its called sprezzatura: it means "a certain nonchalance, so as to conceal all art and make whatever one does or says appear to be without effort and almost without any thought about it". trying without appearing to try

@rbcompound3774

4 жыл бұрын

Italians in the chat, tell us how it's pronounced.

@modernistmatt2658

4 жыл бұрын

Not Italian but English and obsessed with Italian style. So we would pronounce it as sprettsa -tura.

@rbcompound3774

4 жыл бұрын

@@modernistmatt2658 Thanks man. Helping people like that makes me real horny.

@Joseph-rd9yo

4 жыл бұрын

That word doesnt even exist ahahah

@blacktortoise6812

13 күн бұрын

Perfect word like chiascuro

20 years ago when I started game there was nothing but infield practice, no you tube channels about pick up, just solid work. I managed to reach the master level to use the modern terminology. Nowadays after a very important relationship went south and all sorts of advice available on you tube I feel a complete wreck unable to get back on track. Damn it!!

Damn those subtle neg plus rebuttals part are smooth af... I’d totally pay 💰 for a list of those, lol

Man I'm so lucky to have found Todd. your words are my religion. I don't question what you say I just do it and it's working wonders. I'm actually enjoying game now. cus even when I mess up atleast now I can breakdown why and fix it

All of Darth Valentine's game in a nutshell.

@GGGmod1

4 жыл бұрын

If only you knew the power of the game!

@josuastangl7140

4 жыл бұрын

lmfao hahaha, haven't heard that one befor

Except that every 5, views herself as a 9 or 10.

@CommandoMaster

4 жыл бұрын

She also rates guys on average a 7, but won't give any guy a chance unless they are famous, high social status, wealthy, good looking, tall, and a perfect 10.

@vapeking466

4 жыл бұрын

Social media is making the 5s feel like 9s and the 3s feel like 7s. Its really got things messed up plus feminism and women no longer "need" a man is just a bonus. Throw in the fact that the majority of women are only interested in the top 20% of men and I think this just shows how shallow of a creature we are dealing with.

@luminousb9272

4 жыл бұрын

You make a good point, I've gave a girl a 7/10 when she asked for a rating and to be honest I was being generous and bumped her up, and she got offended about a 7, I told her that's actually good. Above average, she got more offended and I told her I take it back you're not a 7 you're a 4. Then she gave me a slap, I honestly felt nothing, no anger, no sadness, just a throbbing cheek to confuse her and slightly scare her I gave her a reaction she wouldn't expect and gave the biggest grin I could possibly make, but this bitch said oh my days you actually liked that. I cba talking to such a baby so I just walked out of the date, I think the meal was going to add up to like £40, so that was my way of letting divine retribution happen.

@ToDaXi

4 жыл бұрын

@@luminousb9272 Great story, gave me a good laugh

@PsychokoreUndergroundRap

4 жыл бұрын

@@luminousb9272 A women’s rejection is God’s protection

Love this content so much

Todd is the truth, I only listen to this man for social dynamics

Thanks man

Ringtone still haven't found what I'm looking for ;)

I met a woman the other day and got her number. We started texting for a few days and it was going really well. My friend works with her, and he knew I was interested. So he decided he would be my “wingman” and begged her to date me. Now she’s ghosted me. He ruined my game completely. Literally gave my power away lmao.

Reality is often disappointing.

@usernamechecksout9901

4 жыл бұрын

Then your ideals are unrealistic

@andromedagalaxynebula5751

3 жыл бұрын

Thanos

In a way, during some sets I've developed this voice in my head that goes "God, I hope this girl doesn't think I'm in love with her." I'm not sure why but I feel that helps with me giving too much of my power away or being nice 100% of the time. And real talk there's no way you should be in love with a girl you just met in the first place. Let her show you something.

@justagenosfan

4 жыл бұрын

Should use this as a pickup line

@nnnmmmable

4 жыл бұрын

The only way a girl could think that is if you overcompliment her.

@dynogems

4 жыл бұрын

@@nnnmmmable Not just over compliment but rather over validate her. Blowing up her phone. Always in her DMs. Liking all her posts. Always going out of your way to talk to her. Following her. Being needy.

@usernamechecksout9901

4 жыл бұрын

That’s cool bc you’re consciously not showing anymore interest than would be expected from a polite stranger. Through the course of an interaction she begins to notice and wonder, and her mind gets excited with assumptions as to why that could be. At the very least she gets curious and feels refreshed by this person who is more reserved than the other chumps that hit on her, and wants to get to know you a little more.

HUUUUGGGEEEEEE!!! do more like this .....perfect to download and listen to on your everyday walks through life

Thumbs up just for the Iron Man ref, great content!

amazing video for intermediate to advanced PUAs

2:57 You are the first guy to explain to me where this answer comes from. And the first to agree with me, that it is very condescending. Often followed by "and good luck finding other women who you find attractive". The last one is written somewhere, I get this so often it is always "good luck finding another woman who ".

The second a girl says “I’m not gonna fuck you” I’ve always gotten excited. In my experience, Todd’s right - it means you’ve at least succeeded in establishing a sexual premise to where she’s thinking about it. You just have to think of that statement of hers as a shit test and pass it. My response is often along the lines of “Who said anything about me fucking you? We just met.” with piercing eye contact and a smile.

I gave my power away because I was smoking too much and became dull.. not sharp. So fuck weed now. Damn

@hireecejulie

3 жыл бұрын

Does sobering up work for your game bro??

Great content! Maybe u should do a video on how to get back into game after a break up and after u lost some of the confidence u had. When I'm in a relationship I start spoiling girl that I'm dating and when we break up,some of that behavior gets stuck with me. I start being to polite with girls that I just met and everything else,that could be considered good game,feels wrong. How do we get the confidence back and how do we become cocky again? Yes,I have this problem.

Thats not a fancy thumbnail that is actually how people see todd

"mistreated or ignored or whatever" Worst fear of a woman: go home with a guy and be ignored at his home. Worse than getting killed, getting no attention...

Hey Todd have you made any videos on how to not give away your power and grow it?

Todd is rockin that Silver back Gorilla bod.

Attraction is one thing i always get physically attractive. but very rarely do i get attracted to her personality/character.

@Naijarianman

4 жыл бұрын

I have the exact same problem. I don't know whether it's me or them.

@CommandoMaster

4 жыл бұрын

Possibly their intelligence level is not high enough, especially early 20s girls.

@Skizzy461

4 жыл бұрын

@@Naijarianman It is definitely not just you, there's very little pressure for women to work on their personality.

@ShaddyRaddy

3 жыл бұрын

That's why they look for dudes with personality lol

"Hi I am nice to meet you." What after that? Which tone to keep to not blow your cover? What is the place you are coming from?

write a book Todd!

The GOAT at it again

Guys this is a must watch, he is talking about very important stuff

Love the leveling framework from Todd but I've also heard that girls who are 9-10s get less attention from guys than 6-8s as they are seen as out of range. When todd levels girls is he talking about objective attractiveness or level of attention/demand from guys as I would assume the latter is more relevant to her pickiness

Dude has the default Samsung ring and forgets to turn the phone off during capturing of the KZread video. Todd you're hilarious bro.

Ur a best ... know that i m listening from morocco africa 🇲🇦

"Hey, Im an 8!" Loool

First and most difficult step: finding a woman of value. Second step: cutting her loose when she shows she isn't one. Too many thirsty guys who'll accept single mothers, women with significant debt, non-feminine or one who's throwing out more red flags than a Chinese Communist parade with her immediate behavior/appearance. Willingness to accept any of that because they're horny or are nervous and already developed a scarcity mindset is what needs to be avoided and I would like to see more videos on how to quickly identify the most common signs so that higher quality women can be focused on.

@kidfromcropu2812

4 жыл бұрын

hahahah throwing out more red flags than a Chinese Communist parade,true,have to have standards,her looks is not enough

Todd, I have a clarifying question to ask about the delivery of "game lines". You often talk about making disqualifiers and negs subtle, because it makes them seem "accidental" and "more honest". However, I remember you also saying (I believe it was in one of the verbal breakdowns from women) that you sometimes draw attention to your game lines by saying "Honest question" or "Can I be genuine". In which context do you use each strategy?

*watch todd v, donovan sharpe, and other red pill experts* *do not watch, the view, chelsea handler, mainstream shit* *it's not only what you eat is what you're made of but also what kind of information you consume and people you surround yourself with is also what you're made of*

Good video

This video is eye-opening

Her win mentality is still a thing if you two are in a relationship, or just when u first meet her?.

@bossgd100

4 жыл бұрын

Still a thing. And she should know that you are able to replace her quickly

Damn i miss pickup

Gorgeous thumbnail + 24 minutes of gold content = subscribed

@jackbrady9738

4 жыл бұрын

He's srsly good bruh

Lmao the “you’re maybe a starfish in bed, but you’re very attractive” comment kills me. Great content Todd, serious gold from start to finish.

Hi Todd , I get the feeling that we've reached the top when it comes to game theory, so u think we'll be able to improve soon ?

I've seen this girl at the gym for a couple months now, but I haven't got the guts to talk to her... how can I make that smooth transition and not be awkward about it since we have seen each other at the gym for a while now?

Great insight as per usual Todd you boss!! 🙏🙏

“I am Todd”

I talked to a Polish girl yesterday but couldn't get anything done. I think I did do disqualification. There was a point where she showed some interest but I didn't act like I'm not interested. Should definitely do this next time.

Of all the RSD guys Todd is the one who really upped my game. I can't really explain it but now when I talk to hot girls I am able to just have "normal" conversations with them rather then having to put on some act. Thank you Todd!

Todd is like the Stephen Hawking of Game lol an absolute fucking genius!!

Hi Todd, I want to ask a question. I have high consistency of keeping 8s, but any girl that I find to be 9s & 10s, I find that I'm often inconsistent. Sometimes I can keep them interested, sometimes I can't (even the same girls at different time). What do you think is tripping me up?

Legendary thumbnail!

Todd, thank you very much for sharing the knowledge! I have a question related to video. I already told a girl that I like her and except her almost no matter what. And there's positive feedback, but she's not going on a date with me. How can I bring back this "I like you, but I'm not sure yet", so she feel that she needs win me? Thank you in advance!

@Protestan88

4 жыл бұрын

Tell her that you were wrong and that she's not all that. Make her feel inferior. Disqualify her.

@angeloniousmagnumopus8403

4 жыл бұрын

Dont chase em replace em

*sees a student botch an approach* Todd: "Fine... I'll do it myself"

@diarmuidbrady8987

4 жыл бұрын

Yes I get it😉😉😉

@TheCls63

4 жыл бұрын

"I undersood that reference"

@hireecejulie

3 жыл бұрын

He knows what it's like to lose

Todd, my game is at the point that i can get a solid number and get her at the phone. After the phone call however i mess it up. What kind of text should i send after the phone call and when?

Todd why did you delete some vids from your channel?

Shit so how do I open now?

About the premise thing If you say something like "we aren't gonna get along" and she responds with something like "i dont care". What is the best save if a girl is being actively negative ...

@helgard36

4 жыл бұрын

She went out of her way to say "I don't care." when she could've just not acknowledged what you said. Seems she cares...at least enough to object. I'm guessing it could be a form of shit test....

@nosknut

4 жыл бұрын

@@helgard36 good point. Any ideas for comebacks? Just missinterpret like "ohh you want me that bad huh?" ...

How to deal with LMR ?

He's so right about how women are suspicious if you're too far above them when approaching. I was practice approaching on very low rated women (0s to 4s) and alot of the time they felt like I was humoring them and one even asked me if my friends dared me to talk to her to play with her.

this is EXACTLY what i’ve been doing for sooo long. I finally know why girls I want don’t want me back

This is all great, but no practice. It would be great to establish a simple coffee shop (Todd's dating lab:) or something as an experiment. Of course you would get the consent of people coming in. There you can see real examples of interaction and analyze them together with their outcomes

@koroglurustem1722

4 жыл бұрын

Btw, my comment showcases Todd's method of pull and push :)

Please what is he saying at 13:50?? I’m not understand Thank you

So what would be higher value than saying "I like you"?

the stones finally gave him the power to change shirts 💀

Fucking gold.

Great take aways. Actually like the longer vids. Thanks Todd!

this guy is smarter than dalai llama, mahatma, confuscious, any big mind you can think of, Todd is on another planet.

@adunnou2075

3 жыл бұрын

Breathe

personal question bbb

I find that pretending that the hot girl is actually ugly naturally will help Notice how it's easy to talk to and joke with ugly girls. If that same girl spirit switched with the hot girl, that same attitude may still get the ugly (now hot) girl It's kind of like shallow hall but in reverse Treat the hot skinny girl like the fat girl

@CommandoMaster

4 жыл бұрын

Hard to execute when your brain is programmed to be attracted to looks.

16:06 hear that siren guys? yea that's the sound that should blast through our heads every fucking day in life while hesitating taking action.

@x1sephirothx

4 жыл бұрын

lol looosing loooossing loooosing her

How to say "I like you but I am not so sure"? Whenever I said it, they were supine about it.

@usernamechecksout9901

4 жыл бұрын

Raphael Sanft That sounds like you’re asking for reassurance from them to escalate. It should sound more like, “ I want to like/trust you but something about you keeps throwing me off-[change subject]”

@raphaelsanft5086

4 жыл бұрын

@@usernamechecksout9901 No. It sounds like "I like you, but you are one of many".

@usernamechecksout9901

4 жыл бұрын

Raphael Sanft no wonder they fall head over heels for you bro

@raphaelsanft5086

4 жыл бұрын

@@usernamechecksout9901 no, it is about push and pull. Also, go fuck yourself.

@adunnou2075

3 жыл бұрын

@@raphaelsanft5086 idiot

If you're good looking enough and you have enough things goings in your life, game is not that necessary to bo honestz and in your day-to-day relationship is not a thing it will add a lot to it. I have mixed feelings with it.

I can't tell if she is feels nervous or a little creeped out by what I do, there's a fine line there. But she is definitely not relaxed and comfortable.

*THAT THUMBNAIL*

The ToddFather is back at it again with another great video

What is your product "The System" all about?

@channelmin3cr4ft

4 жыл бұрын

It’s the skeleton of game. O P E N Close. Open | Premise | Evaluate | Narrative | Close. In addition it has infield, a beginner and intermediate guide and has more content come to it over time. While that last statement has been true, now he has a new product coming out soon, so I suspect less content will go on “The System”.

I reco The System if you like Todd's teaching style and method.

How quick do you have to speak to her? Is it okay to wait for a minute, or is this already tooo late

Can you OPEN with a push pull?

@noahwallace3458

Жыл бұрын

Hell yeah I do it all the time you just can’t over use it it’s the same with everything it’s has to be balance to what the girl wants but that’s for the intermediate level once you become advance, you set it up where is she follows your lead? It’s no longer like she’s choosing to sleep with you I kid you not it really works.😂