Love these--rules for life, not just pick-up. Here's a summary: - 90% of guys are on the receiving end of shit tests; few are on the giving end. But giving shit tests can imply a lot of value and make you "special" - Shit tests are NOT insults, i.e., "You're ugly." No. - More subtle--giving a girl a hard time via connotation/implication instead of denotation (literal meaning). I.e. comment on her fashion--"I like that sweater, how you're bringing the 80s back". Back-handed compliment, saying you like her style but implying it's out of date, puts her a little off balance. - Girls' common shit test: "Do you say that to all the girls?" If she had added, "...because if you do, that's creepy and weird", that would be a direct INSULT, not a shit test, which is indirect, fun, a challenge, putting her on the spot. - may give her an urge to qualify/explain/excuse herself - shit tests are a frame control adjustment, i.e. "You and I wouldn't get along" (her: "Why wouldn't we get along?")--places you as the higher status person - "shit test" is a broad category. It comprises anything that has the purpose of 1) keeping girl on her toes, 2) activating her instinct to explain herself, and 3) asserting your high-value frame RULE 1: GOOD FRAME. You are an attractive person. Girls like you. You're busy and have a cool life; any girl who becomes a part of it improves her life. You're interested enough to talk to her, but you're not easily won over/impressed because you have a lot of experience with women. Good shit tests come from good frames. Just the frame itself can be an ongoing shit test, applying subtle, constant, implied pressure for her to qualify herself, to compete for your attention. - no shit test should be reactive or defensive. No insults. No giving a shit test in return for a shit test. RULE 2: GOOD HUMOR Be mildly amused. I.e., imagine she's always had a crush on you. You're not at all worried about how she perceives you because you're CERTAIN she likes you. Even if she's a little negative, you don't take it all that seriously. "Annoying little niece" is a good frame to take toward her. Sweet, nice, want good things for you, but I'm the grown-up and you're the kid (but don't insult). Just tease. Decent frame is 70-80% of the battle. RULE 3: INSTIGATE to build value. Use a little inappropriate or impolite language in their presence. A lot of guys try to be on their best behavior around hot girls; when a guy does not, he sets himself apart. Todd wears black T-shirts, which bar staff often wears. Generic. Girls often mistake him for bar staff and may ask him a question, like, "Where's the bathroom." Instead of being polite, or literal, or qualifying, Todd may say, "Why the fuck are you asking me?" which shocks her into apologizing, and Todd then says, "I'm just messing with you. Hi, I'm Todd." Harsh, over the top, but gets their attention and conveys unscripted high value / willingness to be polarizing and validates whatever else he says, because he's apparently willing to be brutally honest and doesn't give a shit what she thinks about him. Willingness to offend if necessary. - do NOT try to offend! Will fail at game. But do NOT try to NOT offend. - DISQUALIFIERS incorporate all 3 rules: A disqualifier is any indication that you're not interested. Hot girls aren't used to guys not being interested, and that's why disqualifiers work. "Girl, you just blew it." Less harsh: "Easy; if you keep that up, I might stop liking you so much"--more positive/playful; also incorporates push-pull, which is very effective. - "We might not get along." Not, "You're a bad person." - ANYTHING ODD = opportunity to tease. Can be friendly/joking or apparently serious, where she (temporarily) feels she horribly offended you. Misspeaking: i.e. "Literally" (glad you didn't do it figuratively); dropping something or being klutzy. Be calibrated; don't always have to say anything but can use facial expressions. Main thing is to *take the opportunity to tease*, not every time, but be aware of every opportunity and take them where useful. RECAP: 1) shit tests are important. - good FRAME, vibe/attitude/HUMOR, and INSTIGATE, don't insult (be able to explain as a complement) 2) opportunity to shit test after practically everything she says or does; be aware; do tease/shit test or be boring 3) play with shit tests. Most guys don't do nearly enough. Just put it out there.

@SammyCee23

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I actually skipped watching the video and just read this.

@TheRumpelstinskin

3 жыл бұрын

nice

@exploretheadventure9444

3 жыл бұрын

thanks man

@nilon5327

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you very much!

@jeroenverschaeve3090

2 жыл бұрын

That's a script, not a summary :D

Says it will be shorter. Ends up being 26 minutes of pure gold

This is possibly the best explanation/breakdown of shit tests I've ever heard. Very organized and easy to follow

Production quality great. What a good camera, some care to framing, lighting and audio can do.. Props on the editor, too.

@chr1staki

3 жыл бұрын

And the hair stylist 👌

Girls are talkative by nature. Verbal game is a valueable tool and really makes a difference in approaching women. High appreciation for Todd's effort.

@natalydavidsmith3118

3 жыл бұрын

You need to know how and what to listen for and what questions to ask. Ask the right questions she will talk your head off.

@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027

3 жыл бұрын

they have to be more picky due to a 9 months pregnancy, so use words to determine if you are who you present yourself as

@ShawnFX

3 жыл бұрын

@@natalydavidsmith3118 Can you give examples of which "right" questions to ask the girl. I'm hanging out with this chick from Tinder this Saturday. Want her to feel comfortable around me and i want to escalate things so she is the one who wants to smash me

If you guys have any questions about giving shit-tests or have good questions in general, comment on this video and I’ll try to get to them throughout the day.

@Trump-A-Bad-MF

3 жыл бұрын

Hi, can you make a vid about wtf do when you're at home with a girl 2 days ago I did my first ever daygame pull but I didn't have sex coz I don't have any idea what the fuck do when you're at home, thanks pimp

@AskToddV

3 жыл бұрын

@@Trump-A-Bad-MF Yeah, I usually address these kinds of questions in my programs, but not so much publicly. It's sooo easy for this type of info to be misconstrued or taken out of context. General stuff... work really hard on getting her chasing and participating in any and all escalation if possible. Beyond that, go slowly but purposefully, and be willing to back off if there are signs she's not comfortable with things.

@alexgordon7697

3 жыл бұрын

Does chasing = qualification, or are there other ways girls participate in evaluation and narrative? If so, might there be shit tests that provoke physical investment as well as verbal?

@hectortovar2814

3 жыл бұрын

Are congruence tests the same as shit-tests? Someone wrote that from the point of view of women, the number-one emotional priority is safety and security: "It would be most convenient if a woman could simply ask each man whether he would be able to adequately support and protect her and her offspring. But, of course, he would then lie in order to obtain sex. So she must test." From the point of view of men, we want to sort out gold-diggers, that give you fake indicators of interest in order to obtain material gains. That is my case these days that I am fifty-five years old. So truly, I am looking to develop "real" as opposed to "fake" disqualifiers. In this video, the guy is insulting to the girl. How to I develop "shit-tests" that are subtle and fulfill the purpose. kzread.info/dash/bejne/f3eqw6ikeMfHZaQ.html

@SuperSymbiote1

3 жыл бұрын

How do you deal with the different types of rejections and when do you walk away and move on to another girl?

Loving the frequency and quality of these new videos, Todd! The GOAT of pickup

80s fashion is unironically fashionable in 2020.

@hardstyle3196

3 жыл бұрын

Forreals, thats what i was thinking when he brought that up😅

@senseichanel6352

3 жыл бұрын

Music as well

@reallifehorror

3 жыл бұрын

80s been fashionable since the fucking 80s

Some girl said I was too young for her I was 21 she was 28, so I said so what I love older girls and I don't care about the age and pulled a picture of me with two grannies. 😂😂 I did it as a joke but I felt like I completely destroyed every bit of this girls confidence

@MyFootYourFace

3 жыл бұрын

You probably creeped her out with the grandma fetish.

Todd actually adressed why he wears black shirts!! Around 15.00

@cellshaded

3 жыл бұрын

15:00

Loving all the new uploads Todd!

1.Shit test are important if not you are boring 2. comes from your frame, the vibe or the attitude, having a playful and flirting notion rather then reactive 3. be instigating not insultING 4.if a girl ever called you out you should be able to say it was actually a compliment, have plausible cause

The editing is pretty good. I like the additional visualisation.

the way you break down game specially the insult vs shit test with the "plausible compliment" etc....you are truly an intelligent individual. I hope you make a huge living off your craft. Both men and women owe you a bunch

Lmao “you n I wouldn’t get along” chick hits me with “yea you probably right” 😐

@hireecejulie

2 жыл бұрын

Take it even further and make it fun. "No seriously. If we dated, my hair would be falling out, I'd need to start wearing a toupée like Donald Trump."

The cool thing about Todd's content is that the better your game gets, the more sense his videos actually make when you come back and re-watch them. Much love ToddV.

@OHHnoYOUdidntMAN

3 ай бұрын

100%

Enjoy the video (I think it's a really good and important one) as well as the special offers on The System systembytodd.com and Value Masterclass toddvmasterclass.com.

@hireecejulie

2 жыл бұрын

This segment encompasses so much, it's basically: How to run game -- in a nutshell. THANKS TODD

You are the G.O.A.T, Todd. You are changing many men's lives with this amazing useful advice. Many thanks boss.

This channel is gold

Your videos are packed tight with value. We are a lucky generation. Thank you

I’m going to have to rewatch this one... quality vid bro

That was the most educational 26 minutes that I have ever experienced. Those graphics were amazing. They increased the impact, context and understanding of the material 100%. Sometimes the media is part of the message. I'm going to watch this several times to just marvel at how the graphics enhance the golden information in Todd's presentations.

@Koettnylle

3 жыл бұрын

Do you say that to all the youtubers?

@brookvalley907

3 жыл бұрын

@@Koettnylle Just the somewhat cute ones.

@hardstyle3196

3 жыл бұрын

😂 yall too much

Quality video Todd!

Nice, glad to see you back Todd... Can you do a vid on quarantine game?

Loving the edits

Great vid Todd.. request if you mind:: can you do a vid on Boundaries, what they are, what not, how, when, exemple, mindset, psychology..??? Appreciate the content as always 💪

Todd is the real G.O.AT. Every day I wish I can afford your course. 🚀

Game is so vague and unconstructed until todd came in and constructed it properly and make it so clear, its so brilliant how he did that , he is for sure the best dating coach ever existed .

This was incredible, thank you.

Great discussion on Frame Control. However, coming from old school seduction community background, it seems Todd's equated congruence tests with shit tests. Not sure it that is correct. Another clarification I need from Todd is whether he also equated the old concept of "negs" with what he labelled as "disqualifiers" or "false disqualifiers" since they both demonstrate confidence, fun, a lack of neediness, and a discriminating attitude. Reminds me the concept of "Prizing" coined by Joshua Seltzer. It also reminds me Chris Odom mechanics of generating short-term attraction through a combination of pumping buying temperature (C&F) and disqualification. In addition, Todd mentions it but if it is deducted that if I man "shit-tests" the girl; then, it is one way to create attraction through role-playing. In this case, Todd explicitly covers the goals of role-reversal: you are the one with higher value and you are screening her to make sure she qualifies herself to you. The best role to play involves having more social value than her. And eventually, this should be the reality as your Game develops.

So should we try to offend girls? Todd: *yesn't*

Hmm defently i will stay to watch untill the end 👏🏻

19:31 “You are acting like a child. I’m done.” Huge disqualifier

This will be a short video. 26 minutes of gold content later… our never before discounted program is 50% off. Love you man thanks for doing what you do!

"I am not easily impressed." As a notorious cynic, that sounds like my favourite frame of choice. 😂

Since when being in a relationship became this complicated, that one most even take a phD in female thinking?

Nice new graphics. One I've used frequently, I like your style but I don't know what it is.

thank you for this video! now i know why this guy on tinder was asking all those weird questions, i don't think im gonna see him after all!

Good words, Todd 👍🏾

Love the graphics in this video and that background is dope. But why is todd avoiding the camera so mcuh?

I cracked up within the first 30 seconds. Lol

@donbarry1

3 жыл бұрын

Me too 🤣

I love shit testing. I start out my openers with ‘You play the guitar right?...’. If she answers No....then I hit her with a ‘You would be a lot sexier if you did’ (but you have to be fun about it)....and she instantly starts chasing. All down hill from there. I love getting shit tested too....its my favorite part of game. They melt when you are witty. Eye contact + shit testing and passing=gold

@chuckiegravesfield3170

Жыл бұрын

don't forget the smile. shit test without smiles may cost you.

gold as usual

I like how you censor out all the curse words expect for ‘shit’ tests, lol

great video

Thank you about your content. Till now i never saw a video about handling when she bring up her 'ex' or her crush into the discussion. When she does it, for me it's a done deal - dont want to be in any connection with her any more. But may be i'm wrong. Thanks, Eran (from Israel)

Hahaha these are all golden... I love "shit testing" guys (have never heard that term before). Everyone loves being teased. "You and I would not get along" is such a good one but has to be done after a well established banter and in response to something superficial like thin or thick crust preference, nothing too serious.

@TheUnplugged1

7 ай бұрын

Do you bust All the guys balls or just the cute ones 😂

The background reminds me of the visualizer of The Recipe Kendrick Lamar and Dr. Dre

Todd: this'll be a little short *25 minutes later* Todd: alright we're gonna wrap up the question :)

@jewellove870

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly what I was thinking.

@boenrobot

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly like with in field approaches... "I have to go shortly..."... an hour later, still talking.

@OHHnoYOUdidntMAN

3 ай бұрын

@@boenrobot LMAO

I called that a backhanded compliment

People need to actually like these videos man 😆 come-on guys.

I have a question for you, Todd: What is a time when you've seen someone with almost no game get a hot girl. Or put another way, what is the most unfavorable situation you've seen work out for a guy.

Todd legitimate question here.. Big fan btw. I want to be open and honest you say it gives my power. How can I be 100% honest and somehow still retain all my power as if I never told them anything? Is this just not possible?

Dang! I already have those!

Todd always coming with the value

Hey Todd, do you have a podcast ? If so, where can I find you ?

Bro first vid I've watched of yours in years. So much damn value. BUT did you just say CLUTSY twice? (Also this would be considered a shit test, right?)

the key is to give more positive than the negative that will put you on a better mindset

Sir, could You give some insights on how to deal ˝shit tests˝ from girls when they pair up ˝against˝ you? For example, you're in situation where you talk to two girls (there is some level of attraction from their part or at least one of them shows clear signs of attraction) and they come up with some scenario(s) which ˝shit tests you˝ and they back up each other frames. It's much harder to deal with it like in 1 vs. 1 situations..

As good as the quality of the new look is, I suggest using less of the pop-up animations. Less is more in this situation. They're a bit cringy sometimes. I suggest keeping in the chapter and sub-chapter titles though.

A shit test should be funny and shouldn't be something she can't change. That's what makes it funny.

This man is spitting gospel 🙌

I've always just naturally done this, we always just called it teasing. Is that the same thing?

Are there any videos on the channel that convey how to make conversation, man to woman?

@fangsinyourneck3444

3 жыл бұрын

search 'todd v intent'

Thanks for being my dad Todd.

What do you think are good responses for tests of your "arrogant" or "too confident" frame? Things like: Who do you think you are? You're kind of arrogant Do you really think you're that hot? etc. And what's the mindset of passing these?

@hireecejulie

2 жыл бұрын

Like the man said, non serious attitude. Treat her like a little brat, bless her heart.

Bro, could you make a video on how not to depend on wingmen to go out for daygame and start enjoying it on my own.

@hardstyle3196

3 жыл бұрын

Ahhh forreals😂 if i dont hit my wingman up, chances are i aint going out that day

@chrisjfox8715

3 жыл бұрын

A wingman can screw with your natural flow.

@joshspiker

3 жыл бұрын

Better to go alone, if at all possible. Most guys have zero game. It's very difficult to find a guy at your level (or higher), who you also vibe well with.

@chrisjfox8715

3 жыл бұрын

@@joshspiker yeah I know dudes that definitely get their share of girls but some of them I just can't tag team with. Their approach and pacing is just way different than mine - doesn't feel natural. Too much headspace spent trying to get in sync with their rhythym so it's easier to just go it alone. Let my fuck ups be my fuck ups with no one to blame but myself so I can get better.

Todd, recently I came across a girl who I used to hang out with. She was a bit “surprised” and she didn’t even invest to have a conversation with me. What do you suggest for this kind of situations? I was looking at least to make her laugh or reduce the tension of the situation (she wasn’t very happy to be speaking with me but we exchanged a 1-2 minute conversation)

@stillperspective488

3 жыл бұрын

😂bro

@Lean_s

3 жыл бұрын

@@stillperspective488 was kind of funny but I would like to have some advice for releasing the tension, do you have any?

@stillperspective488

3 жыл бұрын

@@Lean_s better initial conditions. give me your skype we can have a talk.

I usually ask how tall they are or if they can cook.

Hey Todd, How do I teach my brain to adopt a frame?

What happened to the RSD collaboration?

these aren't shit tests. these are banter and teasing.

I love giving a girl shit, it's one of the best things and a big fun part in getting to know a girl and gaming her. But; what if you're dealing with an already insecure girl, e.g. she's had a past where in she got bullied e.g. I almost feel cruel with girls like this to tease or give them shit, granted that i'll still do it, but y'know, it feels different.. I assume the solution here is to just be a bit more mindful about the calibration with these kinds of women. Also, i hope it isn't some kind of manipulation ploy from the woman to get me to back off more with my shit and use that to possibly gain more power over me and the dynamic between the two. I suppose it wouldn't be a big problem if it is as it would become noticeable and you'd be able to do something about it, like start giving more shit and just not get bitched down and obviously retaining your boundries, regardless of her insecurities.

@petermayer5903

3 жыл бұрын

100% - calibration is the thing to not crush a shy girl. the rest … jeez, assuming a woman might play insecure the fuck with your mind is unecessary suspicion … not healthy

@TheActionTourist

3 жыл бұрын

@@petermayer5903 You'd be surprised what they can pull and how calculated some can be don't be mistaken haha Granted it's mainly just 'some'. The more experienced and smarter, the higher the odds of skilled manipulation

I want his program.

Man this sounds really confusing. My wife left after 17 years together high school sweethearts. I have no idea how to talk to woman because I haven't needed too. This sounds difficult.

For some reason my cat is staring at this video with me… the last time this happened i was watching puss in boots 💀

Is it a good idea to use a shit test has a pick up line?

69 5-Star reviews - haha the devil is in the details.

Todd . What are your favourite shit tests ?

hei Todd When the girl teases me, is it a sign of interest? shit test?

20:30, 22:50, whole video backup for introvert

You’ll attract what you deserve no matter what games you play. That’s life.

Yo Todd sometime I'd want to be your student, I say sometime cuz rn it's not possible in multiple ways

Where's Todd V show available

@dylanjardon7136

3 жыл бұрын

All podcast platforms (Apple, Spotify, Google, etc.)

@jasonvin6940

3 жыл бұрын

What other channels do you recommend

For every muy thai kick there's a kung fu block bayBEEE

Stoic

..the out..yes indeed

This was basically just how to flirt, not much about shit testing a woman. A good shit test would be asking her to make dinner and just seeing what she does. If she says nothing and makes a great dinner, makes a shitty dinner, suggests ordering dinner, says no. Then you can evaluate if you wanna keep her or not.

Extend 50% haha

:)) whenever I get into one of those, where shes got a comeback, I just smirk :)) I take it as playful banter :)) and they know this. I have a lot of gfs.

A girl at work called me Diane as a shit test I looked her like what? I reacted. What should I have done?

Anyone else find it amusing that these test have become rather formally called "SHIT" test. You almost have to roll your eyes when you say it or encounter it.

In England 🇬🇧 Me: Do I like like I f-king work here Girl: Yeah you do actually Or No you don't look capable Me: I'm just kidding with you Girl: I'm f-king not. Walks off

so a shit test sounds like a back handed insult but with positive social queues (like a laugh, a wink, or anything positive)?

15:00

Hi

I need more of the subtle subtle stuff not the try hard stuff

shit testing girls: negs, tease ????

Hey Todd, I only have enough money to spare for one of your courses. Between the system, value masterclass, and the verbal game course you said was coming up, which do you think is the most crucial for success in game? Thanks.

@redonebenssayde2377

3 жыл бұрын

I'm recommending the systems, it's probably what you need in terms of outergame and results.

@uglyaldo3268

3 жыл бұрын

bro save your money read psychology books for free at the library literally talk to all kinds of people and learn how to talk to everyone and i’m sure someone will find you attractive

@OHHnoYOUdidntMAN

3 ай бұрын

Value Masterclass It has the basics of The System inside of it.

@OHHnoYOUdidntMAN

3 ай бұрын

@@uglyaldo3268 The point of these courses is that Todd has read the books for us, and combined and tested every single concept over the course of 20 years.

Disrespectful manipulation attract toxic people