How Women Judge Your Value

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When you talk to a girl. She's sizing you up. Are you confident or timid? Do you have friends and good social reception? Do you know what you're doing with girls? Are you successful? Are you "cool"? Some of these things she figures out over time, but many of them she knows almost INSTANTLY based on specific behaviors that are "honest signals" of your value as a man. If you get these behaviors wrong, you're not going to get girls above a certain calibre... if you get them right... let's just say, you really want to get them right...
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  • @roundededge
    @roundededge5 жыл бұрын

    World of warcraft taught me everything I need to know about leveling.

  • @drewalexander3062

    @drewalexander3062

    5 жыл бұрын

    That shidtt made me laugh out loud haha! Just seeing World of Warcraft on a pickup vid, dagg hahaha

  • @bahaatamer1245

    @bahaatamer1245

    5 жыл бұрын

    Try RuneScape! 🤣

  • @Airless_

    @Airless_

    4 жыл бұрын

    /flirt

  • @christophermakransky1184

    @christophermakransky1184

    4 жыл бұрын

    I want so bad to like this comment but I can’t ruin the 666

  • @serge9103

    @serge9103

    3 жыл бұрын

    Drew Alexander yup dd

  • @anglv777
    @anglv7775 жыл бұрын

    let's all raise money and get todd a new jacket

  • @ChevalierGaucho

    @ChevalierGaucho

    5 жыл бұрын

    Indeed... That jacket is not high value fashion at all!

  • @lukelelievre754

    @lukelelievre754

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's good enough though, it's like 7/10 level. He could still be one of those people who's so successful that they just don't care. Some celebs are like that. Justin Bieber has had some pretty shitty low value outfits in the past year. Baggy basketball shorts with a plain looking t shirt and some vans. Just cause he doesn't care

  • @thekingoffactnotfiction4813

    @thekingoffactnotfiction4813

    5 жыл бұрын

    Bieber can afford not to care because of his high sexual market value and high social market value, just his name exudes value.

  • @anglv777

    @anglv777

    5 жыл бұрын

    you must be fun at parties man I said it because he's wearing it in every video, not because it's a sign of low value fashion or smth....

  • @devontemoericke493

    @devontemoericke493

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@anglv777 stfu

  • 5 жыл бұрын

    Todd, give a raise to ur editor video guy. he is a BEAST.

  • @gogyoo

    @gogyoo

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nice try, Todd's editor

  • @marcospaulo7895

    @marcospaulo7895

    5 жыл бұрын

    Bem que ele podia aumentar msm

  • @WolferiousHalo

    @WolferiousHalo

    5 жыл бұрын

    There were around 7 cuts in the entire 15 minute video.. There is nothing beast about it.

  • 5 жыл бұрын

    chora mais.

  • @sfrealestatedealmaker6001

    @sfrealestatedealmaker6001

    5 жыл бұрын

    How is the editing beast? 😐 it’s seems like simple edits ...

  • @343frankieboii
    @343frankieboii5 жыл бұрын

    The highest value and richest guys dress down for comfort

  • @anallyons1262

    @anallyons1262

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Fun Dude lol how so?

  • @cellshaded

    @cellshaded

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Fun Dude Would be funny if he owned the shop haha.

  • @spicecrop

    @spicecrop

    5 жыл бұрын

    Actors maybe. People that are famous maybe. Mostly rich guys want to flaunt their money if nobody knows them.

  • @psychologicalsuccess3476

    @psychologicalsuccess3476

    5 жыл бұрын

    True.

  • @benfrank8649

    @benfrank8649

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I dress for comfort! Who cares if women are not impressed? If they need a stylish guy, they can go elsewhere

  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander4 жыл бұрын

    Todd, You are a legend bro. One of the things that I love about your content is that you keep it real.

  • @reynoldswrap26

    @reynoldswrap26

    2 жыл бұрын

    Uncle c

  • @colin6673
    @colin66735 жыл бұрын

    I don't think I'd want a girl who judges me on what brands of clothes I wear 😂

  • @voltage3692

    @voltage3692

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @colin6673

    @colin6673

    5 жыл бұрын

    Indeed, I feel sorry for them men who fall trap to these women. It's a damn shame. It really is

  • @chuck1052

    @chuck1052

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's the kind of girl all men should avoid, a Gold digger.

  • @qEnergize

    @qEnergize

    5 жыл бұрын

    Colin The truth is bro.. as long as you’re in good shape and wear well fitting clothes you’re golden! I get almost all my shit from H&M and places alike but since I make sure they fit really well I can make the outfit look really high end 😂

  • @colintheodore8657

    @colintheodore8657

    5 жыл бұрын

    For a moment i thought when did i wrote this comment ? Wtf

  • @jamesferguson1460
    @jamesferguson14605 жыл бұрын

    Todd's so fucking good at explaining concepts that it's almost impossible to be content with any other teacher

  • @JoseEspinoza-ij9lb
    @JoseEspinoza-ij9lb5 жыл бұрын

    After being following many pick up guys I can honestly that Todd is the best one. This thing of the subtlety is key. He's the first one who approaches this. He's the mature version of game. I've improved my game so much thanks to him.

  • 5 жыл бұрын

    100% fax. he is REAL. no clown no fake dudes to market to market no shit. just straight fire.

  • @dudemeister421

    @dudemeister421

    5 жыл бұрын

    you mean going RSD style where you pick the girl up in the middle of the street and carry her on your back for 20 meters through a crowd like a creep doesnt sound like good game ? who knew.

  • @estebanfuentes8354

    @estebanfuentes8354

    5 жыл бұрын

    You haven't seen AlphaMaleStrategies

  • @JoseEspinoza-ij9lb

    @JoseEspinoza-ij9lb

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@estebanfuentes8354 No, and actually I'm pretty happy with Todd's program results for me. I had to stay with one girl because having many was too much time consuming and I have other things to focus on besides game.

  • @andremorales819

    @andremorales819

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@dudemeister421 depending on how and when you do it... could work wonders.

  • @jdci75
    @jdci755 жыл бұрын

    Here's a novel idea. How about seeking a sense of self-value rather running around chasing female validation?

  • @TheFenix800

    @TheFenix800

    5 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely!

  • @Beepbopboh

    @Beepbopboh

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh snap!

  • @thedatepro

    @thedatepro

    5 жыл бұрын

    Word 👊🏽

  • @edge2991

    @edge2991

    5 жыл бұрын

    I smell mgtow

  • @hideawayglobal

    @hideawayglobal

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol, you have no idea what this is about... If you don't want a batshit crazy relationship then you have to know how to handle yourself. This is about how to handle yourself when given a difficult situation, i.e., a girl throws an insult at you. Another example would be when you go try to talk to a girl you think could be interesting and she throws you some bullshit. This is about taking control of your life and not being a submissive male (my father is very submissive so I know what this looks like). This is not about chasing female validation. Women are the literal gate-keepers of sexual selection, which is proven in biology and evolutionary psychology/biology. If you want to get past the gate then you have to know how to. Men are very, VERY, disposable. You only need about 10 or 12 men to impregnate every woman on earth. That is why it's important to know what you're doing. If you want to have a fulfilling relationship you have to know how to handle yourself in difficult situations and how to see the reality of things. Do some research, "Inspirational Sports Teacher". The most inspiring thing is showing people that they can do whatever they want when they want IF they know how to do it (as long as it's not creepy, bad, or harmful).

  • @Marcus-je6bl
    @Marcus-je6bl5 жыл бұрын

    Get a life you really love living is always Rule #1 fellas

  • @thewaterwarrior9817

    @thewaterwarrior9817

    5 жыл бұрын

    Word

  • @crossandres7

    @crossandres7

    4 жыл бұрын

    What a Man!

  • @Pimp-Master

    @Pimp-Master

    4 жыл бұрын

    Also it wouldn't hurt to read from "The Red Pill Handbook" a couple minutes per day.

  • @aw__ar3812

    @aw__ar3812

    4 жыл бұрын

    powergirl901 fr?

  • @josephgallo4625
    @josephgallo46255 жыл бұрын

    The toughest part of leveling is "maintaining" it. It has to become a part of your personality or women will see through it fairly quickly.

  • @guitar300k

    @guitar300k

    Жыл бұрын

    If you think you have to maintaining it, it's probably leveling behavior

  • @bahaatamer1245
    @bahaatamer12455 жыл бұрын

    I seriously consider myself to be lucky to find all this stuff before I'm even 22!

  • @pumpituppowell

    @pumpituppowell

    4 жыл бұрын

    Explore17 I found this stuff at 15. Now 26. Good luck on your journey!

  • @barryseaworth

    @barryseaworth

    4 жыл бұрын

    Im 27 and have known about it for a few years. Only now do i give a shit about women and im struggling a bit.

  • @Kingarthurjohn

    @Kingarthurjohn

    4 жыл бұрын

    Explore17 try 15 mate actual goldmine

  • @paulbarnes9490

    @paulbarnes9490

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@barryseaworth Why give a shit about women when they won't give a shit about you ?

  • @paulbarnes9490

    @paulbarnes9490

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Aaron B Well said sir.

  • @SseriousGgamer3
    @SseriousGgamer35 жыл бұрын

    Let’s all take a second to thank KZread , Todd, and every dating coach that helped you improve socially. If it wasn’t for these guys millions of us including me would still be confused and virtually useless when it came socially. 🙏🏼

  • @123telamon
    @123telamon5 жыл бұрын

    It looks so complicated for my simple mind, i'll only focus on having a degree, get a good work, and be a better version of myself.

  • @hichk1991

    @hichk1991

    3 жыл бұрын

    that's good but you can still be a pussy! if you dont have good skills with women you'll basically struggle finding the right woman you want

  • @1greener
    @1greener5 жыл бұрын

    Got excited at 5:28 cause of my receding hairline then realised what you meant

  • @sss.sss.5996

    @sss.sss.5996

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂

  • @anallyons1262

    @anallyons1262

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lmfaooo same bruv but honestly just shave ur head when it's bad enough and work with what u have, grow a beard workout etc

  • @hooikidz
    @hooikidz4 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes Kmart clothes are actually pretty nice and some designs are basically the same as you would buy branded items. I like to mix both expensive and cheap as long as it fits well with the outfit.

  • @thelegendkillersshittyduff1335

    @thelegendkillersshittyduff1335

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's the key it fits well lol

  • @andromedagalaxynebula5751

    @andromedagalaxynebula5751

    3 жыл бұрын

    Marshals and Ross dress for less

  • @tschedi
    @tschedi5 жыл бұрын

    You have your own style and that's why we like you - honest, logically information. A rare sight these days.

  • @chrisss3749

    @chrisss3749

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha hey Todd. Making fake accounts to comment on your lame click bait videos is such a LVM move homie

  • @rohitdas1669
    @rohitdas16695 жыл бұрын

    Fantastic topic. I don’t think I’ve seen it anywhere else

  • @oantimido
    @oantimido5 жыл бұрын

    Great content. Reminds me of Adam Lions back in the day talking about the PEN model psychology and how you should learn some behaviours (Nice Guy, Bad Boy, Leader) and then mix and match them according to the psychology of the woman you are meeting... and them stop using them and be yourself (a new and better version).

  • @MetalSniper245
    @MetalSniper2455 жыл бұрын

    This guy has great insight. Not even from a pick up perspective but in a spirtual one as well. He has great awareness of his mindset and that of others

  • @evanlaurence2862

    @evanlaurence2862

    2 жыл бұрын

    Really agree with you. Logic is high up on the spiritual ladder, as are boundaries. Also Todd has a very subtle but solid capacity for compassion.

  • @staYcooL478
    @staYcooL4785 жыл бұрын

    Todd want to talk fashion after wearing that uniqlo jacket for the last 5 years!?

  • @arthur1338

    @arthur1338

    5 жыл бұрын

    He didn't said he 's high level in fashion tough

  • @mara8456

    @mara8456

    4 жыл бұрын

    Watch more of his videos to increase his revenue stream from KZread. Put links in some of your posts to stores/sites that sell clothes that would work for him.

  • @crackinglad7644

    @crackinglad7644

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@arthur1338 he doesn't seem to consider "fashion level" as a separate thing though, basically what he's saying here is "if you dress cheap and not classy, you are sth like 1 to 5 out of ten, period". Maybe he has this special "youtube jacket" just to make vids, otherwise he prefers boutique, game-compatible stuff

  • @MrHav1k
    @MrHav1k5 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff Todd.

  • @mattk3083
    @mattk30835 жыл бұрын

    Seriously spot on! Your work is changing lives. At least mine for sure. And this may be the best video I've seen on the topic. Thank you for all your hard work!

  • @Feraluce
    @Feraluce5 жыл бұрын

    Great video Todd. You have a great perspective on these things.

  • @ceeIoc
    @ceeIoc5 жыл бұрын

    Some guys are completely clueless about how they dress or look. And most people won't say anything to be polite so they go through life thinking they look good. I went with some friends out to a party and one of them wore a GIANT baggy suit thinking he looked good! I just told him his suit is way too big but didn't want to insult him so I kept it to myself. Sometimes people just cannot see things the way you do. Its out of their comfort zone and reality. One of my wings was balding and he looked 50 yrs old. I told him to shave it off completely and he looked 1000% better and 20 yrs younger. Few months later hes back to his old balding look. Either you have fashion sense or you don't.

  • @thekingoffactnotfiction4813

    @thekingoffactnotfiction4813

    5 жыл бұрын

    People have different appeals when it comes to fashion, don't tell them what to rock. The best thing is to learn what they like and find the best fit for them so that they look and like what they are wearing.

  • @Caroda_band

    @Caroda_band

    5 жыл бұрын

    Clueless? erm No! We just don't care about such trivial sh*t. Simples

  • @ceeIoc

    @ceeIoc

    5 жыл бұрын

    Caroda it helps you look more attractive. First impressions aren’t trivial. Everyone should strive to look their best.

  • @Caroda_band

    @Caroda_band

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@ceeIoc but why? Don't get me wrong. I understand the importance of cleanliness but what you wear? Im not that shallow. I would find out more about the person by just talking to them.

  • @ceeIoc

    @ceeIoc

    5 жыл бұрын

    Caroda hygiene is a totally different topic. How you look is the first thing people notice about you. Without the initial physical attraction, girls won’t want to get to know you, especially in a cold approach situation. Do you like pretty girls? Do you like girls that dress well? We are all shallow to some extent. So you can increase your chances of attracting people by dressing well. It’s not difficult.

  • @Happybeargamer
    @Happybeargamer5 жыл бұрын

    I got the system for the purpose of finding a good girl and having a relationship, it worked, got my first girlfriend about 2 weeks after getting the system. We broke up today and I'm going back into the field on Saturday, she wants me but she cant deal with the drama rn, so shes gonna keep me in the friend zone but the PREMISE is that later we can get back together (she wants to call regularly and meet every week). So imma go out and find other girls cause shes gonna take some time to be ready, but the system has given me so much, and such an massive improvement to my quality of life. Even in my job search the knowledge of social interactions has given me huge confidence in interviews.

  • @breakingthemasks

    @breakingthemasks

    4 жыл бұрын

    Can you define what a "good girl" is to you? And can you mention where you met her? And maybe just update us on where you are now, dating wise... Has your success continued?

  • @heartdice2512
    @heartdice25125 жыл бұрын

    I love being told how and what I think ♡♡♡ that's when I feel like the person talking to me really respects me

  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander4 жыл бұрын

    Love this!!!

  • @Li72428
    @Li724285 жыл бұрын

    Hi Todd! Can you make a section in the system dedicated to "Body Language" and "Alpha Behaviors In Groups"? Great video as always boss😎

  • @yungjefe7423

    @yungjefe7423

    5 жыл бұрын

    Bboynaughtylegs just work on being an alpha, fuck some bitches, be healthier... or you could look it up I’ve seen some videos on body language

  • @Li72428

    @Li72428

    5 жыл бұрын

    Don't be so triggered kiddo

  • @SammyCee23

    @SammyCee23

    5 жыл бұрын

    Todd himself is not a fan of the term "Alpha" and the silly man-made non-sense social constructs built behind that word.

  • @usernamechecksout9901

    @usernamechecksout9901

    5 жыл бұрын

    Alpha just means "leader" u dont have to adopt all possible masculine qualities tho that would be cool. Basically, a leader is assertive, gathering logistics from everyone in and out of his group, dominating conversations, can emotionally stimulate his people in a positive manner, rewarding and punishing behavior, finding solutions, always knows what to do, the undeniable figure of authority.

  • @mayadeeb8293

    @mayadeeb8293

    4 жыл бұрын

    Bboynaughtylegs o

  • @sunnydee196
    @sunnydee1965 жыл бұрын

    My grandfather always told my brother to dress/groom himself like he was about to meet the love of his life that day. I think that is good advice. I've been blessed in my life with dating quality men in long term relationships. Mutual attraction, trust and respect are key. Good luck!

  • @colinl5985

    @colinl5985

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sound like good advice. Note taken... 😊

  • @rollwiththetroll7497

    @rollwiththetroll7497

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm definitely alone in this, but as a self-made success with a very high income, I dress like absolute dogshit because anyone caught up in that is just a flat-out failure. Dressing well is, ultimately, approval-seeking. Being comfortable and doing whatever you want with "fuck you" money is a real man. Millenials - get tough, and SUCCEED, not SUCK SEED :)

  • @igwadaa3422
    @igwadaa34224 жыл бұрын

    You really are amazing. I love the way you give roots to people who will really deeply work to get what you bring. For the others they can pay you and get results... so you are paid by the lazy ones. You are so clever man, thanks for your work brother.

  • @chr1staki
    @chr1staki5 жыл бұрын

    Dooooood! Great video. Thanks so much, Todd. 🤙🏽

  • @crazyharmless666
    @crazyharmless6665 жыл бұрын

    I never take anyone’s word as truth when they are trying to sell me something.

  • @faiznordin8157

    @faiznordin8157

    4 жыл бұрын

    He has receipts. There’s no problem taking someones advice even if they try to sell you something, as long as their advice comes from a proven result

  • @andromedagalaxynebula5751

    @andromedagalaxynebula5751

    3 жыл бұрын

    Its free advice on KZread

  • @John_Conner222
    @John_Conner2225 жыл бұрын

    Ahhh, so that's what it's called. So I guess I should thank you. I've been asking the question for years about trying game if you are not at the level you want to be. For example I know I want 9s and 10s and I have had pseudo success with them (I learned that while 7s and 8s were always taken, there was usually a good chance 9s and 10s were not because most guys were too afraid to approach. However I would always lose the girl because my level was some where between 6 and 7 and my charm wore off too quickly. I still approach and talk to women in kind of a nonchalant manner because I'm not in my 9-10 bracket yet but I am getting there. I wonder what the best way is to practice game while you are transitioning leveling brackets until you can actually play ball. Thank you Todd, this was the missing link I knew existed but didn't know how to define.

  • @issac7787
    @issac77875 жыл бұрын

    Just when I thought I know everything that needed to be known, Todd spit some facts that made me rethink about game. Todd's Plan

  • @alexmoon273
    @alexmoon2732 жыл бұрын

    I'm genuinely impressed at the level of accuracy and realism this video has.

  • @kiffy2634
    @kiffy26345 жыл бұрын

    I watched the whole thing I swear

  • @remruati4131

    @remruati4131

    5 жыл бұрын

    @V J Its Because you are stupid and can't learn.......

  • @Pimp-Master

    @Pimp-Master

    4 жыл бұрын

    Todd breathes very stealthily.

  • @hurrifanc.3434
    @hurrifanc.34345 жыл бұрын

    For someone who usually refuses to buy any content I bought the system and let me just say it's pretty concrete it's extremely versatile and most importantly it's complete it doesn't leave out anything.

  • @kehbab

    @kehbab

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cool dude

  • @truegematria7024

    @truegematria7024

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hurrifan C. Does it include night game or only daygame

  • @hurrifanc.3434

    @hurrifanc.3434

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@truegematria7024 both he has multiple videos for each

  • @MarvCentral

    @MarvCentral

    5 жыл бұрын

    I’m wondering if once you pay for the course, do you access to it for ever or for a certain amount of time?

  • @AthletismeQc

    @AthletismeQc

    5 жыл бұрын

    MachineGunFunkyMan 365 day access

  • @Danimal77
    @Danimal774 жыл бұрын

    This is insanely amazing advice Todd.

  • @Max-bh8tg
    @Max-bh8tg5 жыл бұрын

    Todd’s game is so much more effective than most at RSD.

  • @maserati1990
    @maserati19905 жыл бұрын

    Solid content.

  • @sonofsarek
    @sonofsarek4 жыл бұрын

    Note: the best game is being 100% honest and not caring what she says or thinks. She can either get on board or get lost.

  • @mike_r91
    @mike_r915 жыл бұрын

    Had to comment. Another great Video 🙌

  • @StephenSteelDaCrook
    @StephenSteelDaCrook5 жыл бұрын

    Gotdammit Todd. I'm in a fucked up time right now and I know that's a prime price for that product. But you're videos get my buy and as soon as I have I have the extra (now even now extra) it's a high priority. I hope you understand this when I say that I appreciate your honesty and that's why I chose to study under you. Stay blessed bro.

  • @sawyerbass4661
    @sawyerbass46615 жыл бұрын

    All these tips are presented like they're the main criteria for most girls. Income and looks are all that matter to most girls. Being well dressed does a lot, but being a very easy-going person that also fits the clothes in terms of personality means a lot more. Essentially, a guy in a suit who's kinda nasty and trying too hard is worse than a nice, good looking dude who's friendly to everyone in a professional way.

  • @kensaiix
    @kensaiix5 жыл бұрын

    "leveling" aka practice and experience

  • @tommysalami7593
    @tommysalami75934 жыл бұрын

    Great vid, especially towards the end

  • @andreaslarsson3999
    @andreaslarsson39994 жыл бұрын

    Great video!as always!

  • @tomasdelgado2300
    @tomasdelgado23005 жыл бұрын

    love your content todd wanna get the system but i dont have any money :/ greetings from chile

  • @alexanderthegreat1276
    @alexanderthegreat12765 жыл бұрын

    it's funny how people want to be "alpha", and still listen to everything someone on the internet says, and are adapting it. the whole alpha concept is BS anyways. there are men with certain qualities, and men who lack of them, nothing more and nothing less. if you want to be "alpha" you need to go YOUR OWN way, and you need to be 100% confident with it. you have to know that your way is the right one. an "alpha" doesn't care about how much women he attracts, or if he's attracting any in the first place. he just does attract them. dress the way you want ! if i'd be rich, i'd be dressing the way i'm right now ( people keep asking me if i'm a drug dealer ), because i like my clothes. of course you should have good looking stuff as well, but you don't must have them if you don't want to. an alpha doesn't chase around looking for girls, constantly trying, to adapt what girls like. an true alpha goes his way, and tries to improve himself every day. of course you need to be able to attract girls. but you don't need to attract all of them ! it depents on WHAT YOU WANT. if you want to sleep around like crazy, maybe you should really listen to what he has to say, and then go for it ! but first of all you need to actually know yourself, and what you want ! if you want a relationship, you need to know it, and you need to know as well if you're ready to have one in the first place. you need to know your weaknesses as well as your strengths and you need to be 100% honest to yourself. you need to accept yourself and at the same time you need to constantly improve yourself. don't put the focus on girls. put the focus on yourself. that's the main thing. i don't want to give this guy bad promotion though. cause infact, if you want to learn about conversations and how to keep them going, he's your man. really smart, as well as confident and experienced.

  • @matiasdelapantera9739

    @matiasdelapantera9739

    5 жыл бұрын

    MGTOW woot

  • @sffrost3175

    @sffrost3175

    5 жыл бұрын

    I agree. Being this “Alpha’ is simply Put as living for yourself. Seek Happiness for you. Don’t take nothing but what’s good for you. If people gotta look to become Alpha It probably won’t happen. Take the word Alpha out of it. Just change so you stop Living for Approval. Do what suits yourself. Push every day. Love the Hard times more than the easy. That’s Living. A lot of people won’t change because they want others to like them so they give up. It’s A Life style. Anyone can be “Alpha’ whatever that is. Just stop this BS and live.

  • @lightning8948
    @lightning89485 жыл бұрын

    this is really insightful; very well done.

  • @xavierlopez6545
    @xavierlopez65454 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video, I started suspecting a few months ago that the way I was acting was working perfectly with hotter girls, and not at all with lesser girls, and I noticed a differentence but was very confused by it, I didn’t get why it seem like the hotter girls were started to look at me more, while lesser girls didn’t seem as interested in me anymore You gave me a lot of piece and clarity, I believe this was actually a fundamental problem with my last relationship, while my woman may have been a hot girl, I think she saw her self as lesser, and the more I grew and became more attractive, it was like our relationship worked less and less, while I was left confused because other woman were responding well to me, but not my own, I think she saw herself as a 6, and was afraid that if I out grew her too much that I would leave her, funny because I saw her as a 10, woman what you gonna do, i suspected for years I out grew her, but wasn’t sure because I was too focus on my finances as being the source of our problems Thank you for this video sir

  • @okaminess

    @okaminess

    Жыл бұрын

    “Lesser girls.” 😂 male nomenclature is a curious thing.

  • @8triagrammer
    @8triagrammer5 жыл бұрын

    Todd, any chance you can put the entire written version in the description? Some of us prefer to just read the info real quick rather than watch a video. Just a thought...

  • @user-ys6wv1bq9l
    @user-ys6wv1bq9l5 жыл бұрын

    Hey thanks for your time, bud, but there's really only three things that matter. 1. Have security 2. Be genuine and confident 3. Don't give a damn, and make that clear.

  • @jaimedegonzaga9722

    @jaimedegonzaga9722

    5 жыл бұрын

    The problem with point 1 is that people with high IQ´s can´t have "security" since talking to retards (80% of the population) makes them nervous since their replies-consideration-empathy are different. That is why even if you HAD security, the experience says that most people are retarded and will put you in a bad experience and that would make you nervous.

  • @packrcch
    @packrcch4 жыл бұрын

    the most important thing that he said here is to make sure that your life is one that you truly enjoy and are proud of FIRST. don't make the terrible mistake of building a life that you hate so that you can get a woman. don't do it!! you need to be thoughtfully calm and happy in your life first. then the objective is to find a partner that adds to your individual happiness.. regardless of how she looks, take the time to find out who she really is before you go too far in. she is a complete person just like you are. she has a background and a past just like you do. she is physically attractive to you now because she is not yours. after a few months with her, her physical uniqueness will not be the same unless she also has the personality that allows you both to be truly happy together. and please please don't let her make all of the decisions about birth control....

  • @afro__g5217
    @afro__g52175 жыл бұрын

    How women judge my value? Let them judge me however they want. I don’t need their judgement to change my value or worth. I’ll do whatever I want in my life.

  • @charlesluberisse4737
    @charlesluberisse47375 жыл бұрын

    The system is a legit how too book! Your lesson plans and road map are making game so understandable

  • @zbridgjpxupzm
    @zbridgjpxupzm4 жыл бұрын

    It is not high value when you pay for top fashion brands, it is when they pay you to wear them!

  • @willdickens7712
    @willdickens77125 жыл бұрын

    Very good explanation i can see the things your saying in the club life.

  • @VincentGordon
    @VincentGordon5 жыл бұрын

    You're backgrounds are so soo good. You could probably make money off of them alone haha. Enjoyed the video btw

  • @AttreyaBhatt
    @AttreyaBhatt5 жыл бұрын

    Some of these comments below about the system seem really fake.

  • @La.Ron9

    @La.Ron9

    5 жыл бұрын

    Attreya Bhatt facts

  • @888records

    @888records

    5 жыл бұрын

    Because they are, lots of companys fake reviews. Even the famous ones.

  • @onthearth1
    @onthearth15 жыл бұрын

    Leveling is some incredible thing... I think women can genuinely feel when you're attracted! Attraction is not something you can fake. In that sense, I tend to get high level of women aka my type of women( tall, tanned, brunette, tight ass..) because I'm genuinely attracted and they can feel it... like I'd approach than make out under 2 minutes just with solid eye contact! You don't need more. While on the contrary I'd fail with uglier women! Thing is after women have seen it all, you want to come off as authentically attracted!!

  • @randallflagification

    @randallflagification

    5 жыл бұрын

    onthearth1 great point man! I have the best success when I’m genuinely attracted and I feel no anxiety just a genuine need to approach bc of my attraction towards the girl. It 100% comes through in your body language, the girl can sense the sex coming off of you, and she can’t help but feel what you’re feeling. I used to have horrible success with 6’s and 7’s but great success with 8’s and 9’s and I could never understand why.

  • @StephenVTran

    @StephenVTran

    5 жыл бұрын

    Well said. This is why I don’t spam approach anymore.

  • @zukodude487987

    @zukodude487987

    5 жыл бұрын

    I have had girls attracted to me despite me having no interest in them. They don't seem to get that i am not attracted to them, it takes them quite some time to see that i have no interest and some still try to cling on to the hope that i might like em.

  • @mrslick58

    @mrslick58

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@zukodude487987 lol same

  • @adrianrafa3ll

    @adrianrafa3ll

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yea honestly I pull more girls by hardcore disqualifying and the more and the less impress I seem works. For European women is different. They love when your just upfront.

  • @andreaskjrchristensen495
    @andreaskjrchristensen4955 жыл бұрын

    So make sure that you life is enjoyable and something you can be proud of.

  • @radi.inkrush
    @radi.inkrush5 жыл бұрын

    high value content todd. very impressed.

  • @LordMoopCow
    @LordMoopCow5 жыл бұрын

    way better than rsd rsd is like a standup comedy act now lol

  • @chriszin94

    @chriszin94

    4 жыл бұрын

    they removed the pick up videos from their channels dude, like wtf

  • @MyALPHAguy
    @MyALPHAguy5 жыл бұрын

    The truth is that Beauty rules it for 90%, the rest is social status and money It's quite the opposite of what Mystery says.

  • @azorahai5158

    @azorahai5158

    5 жыл бұрын

    but if everyone would know the truth he couldnt do money and ppl would rape , suicid more . LOOKS = everything

  • @seanmyles6023
    @seanmyles60234 жыл бұрын

    Wow bro very informative thanks keep doing what your doing

  • @vincecruz8410
    @vincecruz84104 жыл бұрын

    Man Todd is straight to point I LOVE IT

  • @johnacord6224

    @johnacord6224

    4 жыл бұрын

    You call this straight to the point? No offence but I must have missed something

  • @Thisisfifty
    @Thisisfifty5 жыл бұрын

    This is a great video Todd. For long term relationships the dynamic is different. A woman may not have any hope of extracting resources on a long term basis from a guy who is even slightly higher value than her. So if she is aware of this, she won't bother with him. If a guy is high value but thirsty, he becomes a target for parasites (gold diggers).

  • @koushikmullick8699
    @koushikmullick86995 жыл бұрын

    What’s the salary range table for each level ! 😀

  • @mianbh8706

    @mianbh8706

    5 жыл бұрын

    anything over million will do for over 10

  • @playswithsquirrels3799
    @playswithsquirrels37995 жыл бұрын

    Todd's advice just got me past a huge shit test, closed off body language, I just dropped the bull shit, recalibrated, escalated the situation to a kiss on the cheek. I even got up to leave, she pulled me back to sit right next to her. From there and more last minute resistance I was able to get a full make out and she had to stop cause she wanted to go farther, I respected that

  • @playswithsquirrels3799

    @playswithsquirrels3799

    5 жыл бұрын

    Had to take MANY risks to escalate and maintain a charismatic conversation, plus physical touch, risky risky. Well with it

  • @sffrost3175
    @sffrost31755 жыл бұрын

    Wow! This Video is All about Validation. Haha. Just Love your life. That Will attract people close to you. Don’t live to Impress. Live to Have Fun.

  • @shi1425
    @shi14255 жыл бұрын

    Your money and your social status/power... that's literally it.. I just answered in a sentence worth. You welcome.

  • @mtlicq

    @mtlicq

    5 жыл бұрын

    advice for lonely mafiassos and illuminati wanting meat, not relationship

  • @RobGravelle
    @RobGravelle5 жыл бұрын

    I wear a lot of the latest fashions, mostly John Varvatos, Robert Graham, and Armani. I've noticed that this will greatly affect what kind of women you attract. These kinds of clothes will often draw very sophisticated and slightly older women. If you're into tattoo-covered rocker chicks, don't dress like that!

  • @Caroda_band

    @Caroda_band

    5 жыл бұрын

    @C Cage Some people just have a way about them that appeals to a lot of people. Top Hollywood actors could dress in anything and still appeal to those same people. It is a personality that tends to shine through, not looks.

  • @Caroda_band

    @Caroda_band

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Black-Circle The guy in the video probably gets paid by certain fashion companies to spread sh*t like this :)

  • @the_letter_b

    @the_letter_b

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah, you basically need to fit the stereotype of the ideal guy of the type of women you're into. If you're a regular yuppie bro but into artistic women or legit hipsters (not just fashionable women), you're going to be fighting an uphill battle trying to get their interest unless they just see you as a "sugar daddy" who they can get to buy them shit while they sleep with/date the guys they actually want. Similarly, if for some reason you're into vanilla/basic/normie yuppie women yet seem too much like a hipster, they may think you're totally not their type even if you have a well paying full time job.

  • @Raphael4722
    @Raphael47225 жыл бұрын

    Todd is the best dating coach in existence, hands down.

  • @leokuhn8958
    @leokuhn8958 Жыл бұрын

    Amazing Todd!🙌

  • @JoeyCap.
    @JoeyCap.4 жыл бұрын

    I was a 9 with legend status, and was happy every weekend to score multiple sevens and eights. (two 8s equal 16) You get lazy after while,...+ the nines and tens are sometimes too crazy or too much work and not worth effort ( with the odd exception)

  • @parsakaali4688
    @parsakaali46885 жыл бұрын

    The system needs some infield for the exercises. I'm doing "Yes and"- exercise and i don't even know if im doing it right. It is just so unclear, how to do it. Infield video needed to show how to do all the exercises in the system.

  • @KHhero

    @KHhero

    5 жыл бұрын

    Some of those "at home" exerises are more for training your mental reflex to respond to situations in the RIGHT direction when they happen infield such as "yes and" rather than "no actually" Example= Her: New York is a lot smaller than you'd think for people who actually grew up here... Todd: (Yes and) I've lived in a different city almost every year for the past 10 years so you could ALSO say I'm technically not from anywhere really (or whatever he said... also the "yes and" is usually said in your mind infield to not make it so "obvious" just to get you going in the right direction ;) Counter-example= Her: New York is a lot smaller than you'd think for people who actually grew up here... You: (No actually) I live in New York now even though I wasn't born/raised here so it technically IS "my city" your definition of what a "New Yorker" IS is just a flat out wrong/misunderstood opinion... So "Yes and" exercise basically trains you continue conversational threads in a reflex/attitude that's less likely to be shooting yourself in the foot ;P

  • @casper6414

    @casper6414

    5 жыл бұрын

    Download his old program from the rsd days "daygame" goes a bit more indepth with the exercises and some more infield aswell

  • @parsakaali4688

    @parsakaali4688

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@casper6414 ok thanks

  • @RikthDcruze
    @RikthDcruze5 жыл бұрын

    This shit opened my eyes! I'm getting quite a few girls but never the level of girls I want. I'm in 6-7ish mark. THANK YOU

  • @cirobarzollini6745

    @cirobarzollini6745

    5 жыл бұрын

    no, you're not. judging by your pic you look like a 1 or 2 lol

  • @OllieMawLe
    @OllieMawLe5 жыл бұрын

    Most of the clothes I wear I bought from charity shops and markets, its really not about the price of clothes its how they fit and if you wear them with confidence. Most guys I knows wardrobes cost about quadruple my own yet I still get more women. if you don't have a good sense of style then you need to put some time into listening to those who do, you really feel the difference and so do the ladies.

  • @breakingthemasks

    @breakingthemasks

    4 жыл бұрын

    Can you provide any links to style guys that are worth listening to?

  • @KeenestObserver
    @KeenestObserver5 жыл бұрын

    omfg watching this at 2x speed wasn't enough... Jesus christ.. Can sum up 60% of this video's content with 1 word: ''genuine''. People will be less attracted to you if you act in ways that don't appear to be genuine.

  • @vincentalykin

    @vincentalykin

    5 жыл бұрын

    Download the "Video Speed Controller" extension of Google Chrome or Mozilla FireFox to change the speed from 0.1x to 16x speed.

  • @TheSubieFan

    @TheSubieFan

    5 жыл бұрын

    Do you realize how fucking smart Todd is? This guy is the pua goat. Your peanut brain can't even understand all the things that he will tell you.

  • @Fearless-ex4iv

    @Fearless-ex4iv

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lmao

  • @mtlicq

    @mtlicq

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@TheSubieFan I gave you thumbs up. Its about time someone did. You're right Todd knows good points of pua, but the Keen Observer has a valid point too. and 85 thumbs ups

  • @benjisea
    @benjisea5 жыл бұрын

    Todd what did you do for a living before PUA? Why is PUA so much low ROI work to get results?

  • @50tigres79

    @50tigres79

    5 жыл бұрын

    I think he was a psychology student.

  • @juanappleseed

    @juanappleseed

    5 жыл бұрын

    He was an engineering student

  • @dmitrixallo7072
    @dmitrixallo70725 жыл бұрын

    Advice on getting to know -> meet -> hookup/date/ get a gf, also how to approach girls at uni when they’re not in your course, and how to not come off as boring/ not interesting enough

  • @modernissues7205
    @modernissues72055 жыл бұрын

    I watch your videos to help me at work, i have closed more deals nearly doubled my sales just by applying these lessons on every sales call/ meeting. I will most likely sign up for the System just so i can learn more. If your wondering what i do ,I actually sell advertising for the one of the largest advertising companies in the US

  • @mehwhyausername1
    @mehwhyausername15 жыл бұрын

    I appraise women on their drive, career success, abilities, and intellect. If she judges me on my fashion or height alone, and not my personality and goals, then she's not worth my time. I don't walk around wearing business suits or expensive trending clothing as an indicator of my "status". It's a waste of money, even though I make a lot, and this also filters the pretentious bichez from the cool nerds. You talk about gimmicks in this video, but can't even realize that wearing trendy clothing is ALSO a gimmick.

  • @mehwhyausername1

    @mehwhyausername1

    5 жыл бұрын

    wearing basics like plain well-fitting tshirts / vnecks and jeans is fine...

  • @arielvagus1618
    @arielvagus16185 жыл бұрын

    I think personality is one of the no.1 measure of how women judge men's value.

  • @thekingoffactnotfiction4813

    @thekingoffactnotfiction4813

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hell no.

  • @williamtim5893

    @williamtim5893

    5 жыл бұрын

    Virtuous ❤️

  • @FoxyChariot

    @FoxyChariot

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lies.

  • @micaholson1052

    @micaholson1052

    5 жыл бұрын

    Watch dating in the dark, then tell me what you said again.

  • @oooo9570
    @oooo95705 жыл бұрын

    Deserves more views for well structured content.

  • @AronPowa96
    @AronPowa965 жыл бұрын

    Todd i bought The System and have had only a quick look for now. Is there an order i should watch the modules? (I.e. beginner road map first, or 8 week plan first etc.)

  • @pauledmondson5654
    @pauledmondson56545 жыл бұрын

    Sorry guys. I was an average pickup artist getting better with women but then recently stopped. Why? Who wants cold pizza. I'm working on a virgin. Keep chasing sloppy seconds or get a good girl.

  • @Higgs000Boson

    @Higgs000Boson

    5 жыл бұрын

    Agree! Keep in mind what kind of women you will attract with the PUA methods.

  • @kelsisco

    @kelsisco

    5 жыл бұрын

    Why would a girl want you? You must be sloppy seconds as well

  • @pauledmondson5654

    @pauledmondson5654

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@kelsisco I am.

  • @AnthonyPaulT
    @AnthonyPaulT5 жыл бұрын

    Im a 12 no wonder why im alone

  • @braydendiver8804

    @braydendiver8804

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same bro 💀

  • @the_letter_b
    @the_letter_b5 жыл бұрын

    You're right and guys in smaller (US) cities have a huge advantage here. It's far easier for them to stand out in these ways when many guys are out of shape and put no effort into their looks. The traits you described are way too common among men in NYC though. Seems like almost every dude is in good shape, dresses really well, and is extremely confident.

  • @ubza1234
    @ubza12345 жыл бұрын

    This actually reminds me a while lot about mysteries car string theory. But this explains more in depth the WHY cat string theory happens. Like, the mechanism behind it. This is allot deeper than cat string theory, but it's still really interesting ☺ thanks for the video Todd!

  • @i_love_crpg
    @i_love_crpg4 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like a lot of work for something that is not worth the equal amount

  • @LightnessOfTheLife
    @LightnessOfTheLife5 жыл бұрын

    what guys do the 10/10 girls look for? can I be an 11

  • @elmerovero7528

    @elmerovero7528

    5 жыл бұрын

    They don't know they are a ten, presumably they could be a 8. Treat them like a 7 lol but also have enough charisma, confidence, and good skills to back it up

  • @JW0121

    @JW0121

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fucking hell man its not that black and white omg, too may factors, some 10/10 will ONLY date rappers and elite men who have high class connection, others fuck coke dealers, and some just want a cool guy. Also depends on what an 10/10 is. Some instagram model with fake tits and lots of followers is no 10 in my eyes but for everyone else they seem to be...🤔

  • @salembeats1875

    @salembeats1875

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@JW0121 Well that's not to say that 10's don't date broke dudes. Like because they're 10 they transcend into aspects like personality and humor idk lmao

  • @rationalthinking8401

    @rationalthinking8401

    5 жыл бұрын

    LightnessOfTheLife If you exceed in a trait, you feel all its flaws. Because of that, in their opinion looks dont matter anymore and the other aspects become more important. Believe me, there are a lot Psychological aspects involved in choosing a mate. I will give you simple example based on the Big 5 regarding agreeableness: If a girl is a 10/10, she is most likely very disagreeable/competitive. No agreeable/cooperative guy in his right mind would want to be with her, because she will make a competition out of everything, which will annoy him and he will not play this competitions, which will bore and frustrate her. The alternative is, that he would want to be with her is that he sees social status as more important than a stable relationship and thats not a good foundation for a relationship. This means she will reject him. In reality there are many more things of this sort, but for explainatory purposes this example will do, i guess. Discussion is appreciated, so if you disagree, please comment your objections.

  • @mark3659

    @mark3659

    5 жыл бұрын

    The 10/10 girls that have a good personality usually date 9/10 guys that have a good personality...Bc those guys are actually amazed by those girls and they seem to have an interest of a long lasting relationship with those guys bc they know the guys wont cheat...it’s complicated af but yeah.. I’m a 9/10. Confirmed Bro

  • @liquidroom245
    @liquidroom2455 жыл бұрын

    Todd you are the best PUA on the web now.

  • @ramirofonseca9815
    @ramirofonseca98155 жыл бұрын

    That was a GREAT video. thanks for sharing the concept of leveling.

  • @MarcinGrobelkiewicz
    @MarcinGrobelkiewicz5 жыл бұрын

    U are telling contrary statements like horoscope.

  • @RAMB0VI
    @RAMB0VI5 жыл бұрын

    The main type of women: "Out of her league." Explains the epidemic of single mothers.

  • @mara8456

    @mara8456

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well, if she is a single mother, she picked a low value guy. They aren't the handsome/cool/rich guy that is a 9 or 10 that gets them pregnant. It's usually a lowlife.

  • @cedricmiller4370

    @cedricmiller4370

    4 жыл бұрын

    John Snow lol 😂😂😂 that part has yet to be explained tho yet they walk around like its a honor or privilege for a man to except that kinda baggage

  • @xavierlopez6545
    @xavierlopez65454 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate your videos, I believe everyone has a right to sell whatever they want if their not hurting someone, though I’m tired of feeling like every video I watch by certain other people are only about selling a product, at some point it feels like your just wasting your time by watching any of their videos if you don’t buy all the products, and I feel like you give people a choice to buy your product or not, and it doesn’t come off as this overly forced sales pitch they worked on for several months and hid it inside of video that pretends it has real value

  • @gammergq9741
    @gammergq9741 Жыл бұрын

    Todd is like a DR when it comes to men's dating advice so scientific.