"When she holds you to incredibly high standards but holds herself to low standards" 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

@bacugan11

Жыл бұрын

can anyone explain why this is a red flag, genuinely confused @Daryl Lights

@daryllights

Жыл бұрын

@@bacugan11 Because she will have you performing at your best for her and won't put any standard of behavior and treatment on how she handles you!

@Ivellios23

Жыл бұрын

@@bacugan11 Yellow, Red, and Black flags (card) are sports analogies on how serious the infraction is to a relationship. Yellow - damages relationship... it can work, but both have to work harder for it. too many can still cost the game/relationship Red - Serious infraction. While a few can be explained, the ones Courtney mentions cannot be so easily dismissed. While you can still "win" the game, ie marriage, odds are it'll end in Divorce or untimely death. 2 get you ejected. Black - Walk. Now. Do not look back. Game forfited. You will end up dead, or lose your sanity/dignity. Nothing good will come from this relationshit outside of a few minutes/hours of fun... then run, run as fast as you can. Compulsive Liar, Klepto, murderer, are all Black Flags for me. (Not all inclusive) Despite what Courtney says, Crazy is a black flag for me, and those that blatantly brag about it, I don't even need to date to find out. If you're just looking for a good time, fine, but then run, run your ass off.

@imenelaidi2193

Жыл бұрын

@@daryllights huh? By the way you phrased it i think the person thought that you meant a woman who puts you on a pedestal and idolizes you but has low self esteem

@leehogg4624

Жыл бұрын

You said it right. My ex would have high expectations of me yet those same rules didn't apply to her, ... At all.

1. Princess/Petulant behaviour 2. Negative about relationships (talks bad about ppl that surrounds her) 3. Mind reader talk (expects you to do something without asking for it) 4. She calls herself "crazy" (when she is proud of doing certain obsessive or possessive behaviours) 5. Talking over you or interrupting you 6. "All men are trash" "I hate men" kind fo statements I do recommend you guys watch the video for more understanding of each point!

@Mykhos

Жыл бұрын

Thx for the shortcut. 👌 Video is good too.

@aaron-damonkassner4715

Жыл бұрын

The last one, I’d just walk out w/o an explanation. Idk if that’s toxic of me but sounds really stupid!

@JohnBrown-ig5nc

Жыл бұрын

@@aaron-damonkassner4715 I would too. You have to respect yourself

@rogerwilliams5366

Жыл бұрын

Number 4, So True!!!

@BigTyronie

Жыл бұрын

My last ex was sweet and nice for a few months. Then she did 1-5 routinely for the next 8 months and then i dumped her and she said “we should go to counseling”😮

This is why I've always said, regarding fathers with young daughters; DO NOT TREAT THEM LIKE A LITTLE "PRINCESS"! That s**t will NEVER get out of their head and you'll just be setting them up for a very long dysfunctional, unfulfilling, unhappy, lonely, angry, cat-filled, adult life.

#7 A woman that can never admit she’s wrong/apologize. 🚩🚩🚩 My ex didn’t even apologize when I found out she was cheating for 1.5 years.

@danjsilve

Ай бұрын

Never met a woman who is accountable for her actions.

@kjc1878

Ай бұрын

The old your crazy not cheating saying

@allanfischer9417

Ай бұрын

My father lived to almost 96 y/o and never once did I ever hear him say he was wrong or apologize. I didn't realize it at the time, but he was an absolute narcissist. Failure to self evaluate and admit wrong is something I always look for and if it is a pattern, I avoid it like the plague.

@likearollingstone007

27 күн бұрын

Which is most of them

@paulholterhaus7084

20 күн бұрын

You mean there is such a thing as a Woman Who apologizes...??.........Have not seen that..........Paul

I went on a date a few weeks ago. This woman made horrible assumptions about me and then followed it up with 'I have a really great sixth sense of these things'. I told her she was gaslighting herself so she could believe anything she wanted to. I eventually had to block her. This was after one date. Talk about dodging a bullet.

@mattbutler9119

Жыл бұрын

Good for you for getting outta there Justen! That was a setup for the future & it definitely wasn't gonna be a bright one. Stay safe & God bless!! 💯

@johngonzalez4298

Жыл бұрын

That definitely wouldn't have lasted

@edward1857

Жыл бұрын

holy sht dude, You made the right call to run from that nightmare.

@antonboludo8886

Жыл бұрын

Good that you spotted this early.

@carlosverde-datingtips7001

Жыл бұрын

I hear ya - Justen! This is a good example why you have to be very careful who you get involved with these days - because they could possibly ruin your life, and perhaps the career that you’ve worked so hard for. You have to pay really close attention early on in the relationship, to see if you can spot any red flags before it’s too late. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

Don't forget when she says "it's either me or your hobbies/friends/career" That ended my last relationship and is a red flag for me.

@spasmodik666

Жыл бұрын

Yes, the proper response to the ultimatum is goodbye.

@Motherfaulk92

Жыл бұрын

If whoever you’re with can’t enjoy spending time with you and your friends or always gets upset when you spend some “me” time on something you enjoy. Dump her. Those are the worst

@dr._breens_beard

Жыл бұрын

Good on u king! No one, man or woman, deserves their significant other asking them to choose something so extreme.

@eggpod4567

Жыл бұрын

One of my uncles exes did this. "It's either me or your daughter" Bitch got kicked out the next day. Lol

@oldv1288

Жыл бұрын

Haha *(fires up the Hellcat and goes for a cruise)* not that I have a Hellcat but point is we'll pick our hobbies

“Shopping is my hobby” is another one for me.

When first date is a job interview, constant questions about finances. When she hides her mobile, and her whereabouts, along with not responding or ignoring you most times. When she acts differently towards you when she is in crowds. When her parents are constantly fighting or insulting eachother or others. When she is almost always pinned to the phone. When she orders you around and tries to control your life. When she refuses to split bills or does any kind of work at the house. God im old, everything is a red flag now, and life is depressing.

The "all men are trash" saying is an instant turn off for me. This is coming from a guy who's comfortable joking about 99% of topics without taking much personal. My last relationship involved that quote once a week and our convos would ALWAYS end in awkward silence.

@traelee684

Жыл бұрын

Usually when a woman says "all men are trash" 9/10 times it means she's never been able to keep one around.

@drip369

Жыл бұрын

If you want to challenge that narrative, you can just ask if that makes a woman a dumpster since trash goes in and out all the time hahaha we need more ladies in this side of the world

@Speedgamer2015

Жыл бұрын

@@traelee684 the same type of women who wonder why men don’t approach them anymore

@Erkki146

Жыл бұрын

Why wouldn't you just say farewell to her after the first time and never see her again? Do you not consider yourself a man? Or if you really think she was joking, wouldn't you make it clear to her, how much you do not appreciate such a "joke". If she continues, back to point 1.

@shredder767

Жыл бұрын

Fr bro, why would I be with someone who hates me?

I was in a relationship like this for 3 years. I felt trapped and drained. When I finally broke up, it felt like I came out of prison.

@jimmydelia8956

Жыл бұрын

I agree with you there man! I was in a relationship like that as well.

@milforddc

Жыл бұрын

I feel you. My last relationship was 5 years ago. It lasted 4 years and it was draining. I am out of the relationship business and just do casual hookup for fun. Works better for me.

@E.W.C.1993

Жыл бұрын

Do you mind me asking why you were in it for 3 years?

@J1Z06

Жыл бұрын

Likewise!

@FLeXJun

Жыл бұрын

Same. Never been happier. I’m so full of life right now

Now I know better why my marriage broke and couldn't have lasted. You are almost 100% describing my ex-wive. The only differences: She considered herself normal and me crazy, and she wouldn't talk over me, but she would reject my arguments in any discussion, get angry and shut down. Which goes in line with "I won't tell you what I want, you should know". Both of us had their issues. I saw mine, promised to work on them and often failed with this. But she didn't see hers. Too bad I can't leave her behind, we have kids...

@jasonx-ray3921

7 ай бұрын

Still, there will come a day and you should slowly prepare for it. Daydream about it. Plan it carefully and find joy in it. Squirrel away money and valuables. Figure out what you are willing to leave behind and take with you. Most important, buy spy cameras and buy a watch that audio records conversations. These things saved my butt. You need to start stacking the divorce evidence in your favor now. Also, take notes of what happens in a journal. One other thing, through false claims by your soon to be ex, the court will likely send you to anger management counseling. Go to anger management counseling long before the divorce so she can't play that card on you. Talk to divorced men and find out what happened to them so you can be ready. Do all this because she is getting ready to do the same to you. And watch out for the traps and set-ups she is laying down for you to fail. They all do it. Trust me.

@johnsparks9641

5 ай бұрын

Sounds like my situation. I am working on myself now.

@marguskiis7711

5 ай бұрын

you was a horrible husband, I read

@davidmoskowitz1801

4 ай бұрын

Most Women want the man to change - but not themselves.

@kinetictheory9012

3 ай бұрын

​@marguskiis7711 you clearly can't read. Women are usually the problem in relationships.

I was catching up on the bud light controversy going on and this video played next and I really was so impressed, yet very refreshed to be hearing a woman talking about warning signs on bad women. This was AWESOME! And Courtney Ryan you are more than AWESOME to do this video. A wholehearted thank you sharing this

If a girl is constantly posting on tiktok, *that* is a red flag

@mrbill2600

Жыл бұрын

Obsession with social media is a red flag.

@randolphkersey5155

2 ай бұрын

@@mrbill2600 Exactly! If they go to CNN or facebook to get all of their opinions and marching orders AVOID.

@MrParallell

11 күн бұрын

If a girl OWN a TikTok account.

@jameslyons4919

7 күн бұрын

Lol

When she only talks about her life and doesn't ask about yours. Run, you're wasting your time.

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

🙌🏼

@chucklombardo8167

Жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan do u thongs look gud on men courtney

@sunnyrawal656

Жыл бұрын

@Oji Have fun being single then for the rest of your life

@elevateddave7310

Жыл бұрын

It's a clear indication that someone is a narcissist. Stay away from anyone that's that self centered.

@justinbrockwell8396

Жыл бұрын

Very true. And it's shocking how common this is too. If I ask questions (because I'm intrigued to get to know someone) it should be normal for them to reciprocate and be interested in knowing me back surely??

I was married to someone with all of these well defined red flags for 15 years. It's not a bad relationship, it's an exercise in not taking your own life on a daily basis because you feel like you couldn't bear to live without your kids, and that's the knife they quietly slide into you and twist, and no one else is aware that this is how the relationship operates, or can figure out why you're chronically depressed and anxious. I also know other men who are still in relationships with vvomen who tick all of these boxes. It's pure desperation.

@sko1beer

10 ай бұрын

Putting up with it for the children is every married man’s moto

@ernest1576

8 ай бұрын

My hats off too you brother I wish you well as have done what your doing now my kids are all grown now but I know where your coming from

@lookupthereupinthetrees9860

8 ай бұрын

@@ernest1576 cheers mate 👍

@Ratinevo

8 ай бұрын

Man, I don’t know what to say.

@FullContactCoder

8 ай бұрын

I feel for you brother. I was also married for 15 years and it was soul crushing. My ex-wife had a very abusive childhood and suffered from so much trauma she never healed from. 10 years in, she was finally diagnosed with Bipolar disorder, and things marginally improved for a time. Only reason I stayed for so long was I couldn't bear to be without my kids, and even more so couldn't fathom leaving them with her and not being around to help shield them from her crazy making behavior. Been divorced for 12 years now, kids are grown and doing well and I see them regularly, They are really the only relationships I have at this stage in my life. I stopped dating a few years ago, as I refuse to put myself through that kind of anguish again, and it seems the dating pool is filled with self-absorbed women with loads of undealt with trauma.

Thanks Courtney. Sometimes it's good to get reminders of the red flags from previous relationships - time heals old wounds, but then you start feeling nostalgic for that person and... well, yeah, this was a good reminder of some of the reasons why I ended it! The "talking over" thing was by far the worst, and this ex gaslighted me HARD. I didn't even know what that term was until I came across it months after we broke up. Appreciate the vid (and the reminders!)

If she's constantly posting on social media that she doesn't care what people think about her. Not only does this indicate that she's frequently being told by others that her behavior is bad, it also indicates that she doesn't understand irony. If you're communicating anything about yourself via social media, then yes, you care about what others think about you.

@clydekimsey7503

Жыл бұрын

Yes, I see this a lot

@laturista1000

Жыл бұрын

women of all ages spend more time on instagram talking talking on and on and sharing endless lingerie and bikini cleavage pics of themselves. The posts go on and on all day everyday. These women live in their own selfish fantasy world, perpetuated by the simps that follow and like their selfish narcissistic posts.

@Leondrius

Жыл бұрын

That's why I stopped posting stuff, because I really don't care what other people think.

Everyone, Courtney is right. STAY AWAY from crazy girls. Speaking from experience, you'll be sacrificing so much of your dignity and happiness for someone who wants the sympathy of being the victim but doesn't want to fix anything so they can continue playing the victim and getting sympathy. No one is worth that kind of psychological abuse.

@crazykev6491

Жыл бұрын

AMEN!

@peterandreadakis3851

Жыл бұрын

Actually, exercise intelligence and discretion and avoid most women who, these days, seem notably lax in character when it concerns men and relationships. I'm 84 so rest assured I know whereof I speak. I have absolutely no idea how you know "the one." But I do know that only a few couples are heaven sent. Be careful where you put your cock.

@simons.2281

Жыл бұрын

I had three relationships like this. Needless to say that 1. I am a fucking idiot and 2. these relationships messed me up big time. You completely lose yourself, doubt yourself constantly ("is she actually right, am I doing something wrong?" etc.), you're being emotionally drained to the point of severe depression - just to be made to feel bad about being depressed cause you "don't care enough" for your SO. 0/10 don't recommend.

@kelligart4847

Жыл бұрын

​@@simons.2281 I feel you man. I had 3 toxic relationship. And i always do the same mistake. I had doubts at the beginning, leave, they come back and then i make compromise, sacrifice and jump back blindy into this relationship. I recognize my mistake only when its past the end. I feel dumb and weak, need to be more firm with my boundaries.

@crustyzimmerman3324

Жыл бұрын

Possible narcissistic personality disorder there, also lookup borderline.

My ex said to me "All women are crazy we(women) just put on a veneer of sanity" ... As a man I took this as gospel as there are no truer words ever said by a woman.

@josephcoffman2441

Ай бұрын

It is true. 99.999% of women are Batshit Crazy.

Courtney - thank you for making this. I was recently dating someone who had #2, #5 and #6. She would complain about how nearly all men were obtuse and sexist, but then she would talk over me and often dismiss my opinions. When I take a step back I realize that most of this behavior was driven by insecurities she has. I know it’s not my job to fix her, but I wish I would have called her out in a kind, but teasing type way. She would talk about toxic men. I feel like the word toxic is overused. What does it mean to you in reference to men or women - people who have so many issues they will drag you down?

One more warning sign: If she drinks too much ...RUN! away from her

@larrykippings

10 ай бұрын

100% agree, this is the biggest red flag.

@michaeljeffery7466

4 ай бұрын

​@@larrykippingsIt's crazy because all women do this. I haven't met a woman that doesn't display atleast half of the Red-flags mentioned in this comments section.

@tholbrook422

3 ай бұрын

Glad I quit drinking

@ttv_chiefer

Ай бұрын

Needed this.

@FlyingTigersKMT

27 күн бұрын

Not just drinking but lying or excusing or justifying it by saying it's only social drinking or I drink because you're here and I feel safe... ummm... yeah... I know you drink without me too because you drunk text me all the time.

My half sister is "proud" of being a "b!tch". She "owns it". She's nearly 60, over 350lbs, smokes 3 packs of 100s a day, has no husband, no kids. She does have 5 cats however. She's destroyed every relationship she has to her actual family. She surrounds herself with human trash and people who exploit her. The one constant she's done throughout her entire life is create nothing but issues for those around her. My favorite quote from her is, "I can't be taught, because I refuse to learn." She's the embodiment of red flag.

@7oy

Жыл бұрын

Hence why she’s an overweight 60-year-old virgin.

@MC-rb5tf

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like a nightmare…

@DavidMatias79

Жыл бұрын

That's sad

@Jay_88_

Жыл бұрын

@TheDoogieT 😂

@bananaemon2339

Жыл бұрын

Yr sis is a bro, sorry pal XD

How about if she constantly criticizes and insults me. That should be a red flag.

@OleDiaBole

17 күн бұрын

Hahahaha... Thank you for a good laugh. 😊

@b43xoit

10 күн бұрын

Yes.

I definitely needed this. Something I found to be a red flag is when she says she is "too nice." None of the nice women i've met call themselves too nice, but every woman i've met who has, used "being nice" as an excuse to be flirtatious and act inappropriately with men while she was in a relationship.

I was involved in a five month relationship with a woman who had all these red flags. Talking to her was like attending an exorcism.

@edwardx4979

Жыл бұрын

Lol 😆! Really that bad, eh? Good job you got away from the devil...

@djmistatsoez750

Жыл бұрын

Lol same

@simonlusby6683

Жыл бұрын

haha

@carsonrobinson3447

Жыл бұрын

Yuck. I’m sorry dude.

@TheSnedmeister

Жыл бұрын

😂

Honestly it's refreshing to hear a woman speak for true femininity and try to bridge the gap that currently exists. It's usually just men talking about it but we need both sexes involved to find a solution this current day problem. Thank you for all that you're doing

@an_omega_wolf

Жыл бұрын

@IAlwayswin I feel you mate. I wouldn't blame women for it though because they're internally different from men. I just believe that we should respect both sexes equally and find a middle ground. If we don't, we're headed towards (technically already are in) a major crisis

@DrBoX89

Жыл бұрын

I second this. It’s very refreshing and it’s nice to have your egalitarian viewpoint here.

@an_omega_wolf

Жыл бұрын

@@DrBoX89 Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate it. My research work forces me to see things from both sides always so I have it to thank for the trait :)

@genestone4951

Жыл бұрын

Please don't fall for it. MEN are making plenty of great content on this topic. This is just a woman trying to monetize MGTOW/MRM. There's no reason to seek out a female for this type of content.

@Chavezoid

Жыл бұрын

@@genestone4951 ...She's hot tho

I just got out of a 3+ year relationship with a woman who portrayed all of these except #5. She always wanted her way. If I ever questioned what SHE wanted to do at any time, she’d erupt into full out crying screaming, telling me I’m a piece of sh*t a**hole, and much worse. I let that happen though, I had seen past her red flags for years. I wanted to fix her/grow with her long term but she only got worse. Every fight was my fault. even when she did something to upset me, I’d call her out for it, and then SHE’D get mad at ME because she didn’t know how to take accountability for her actions. Literally EVER. I’d have to pry an apology out of her (if one ever came out). It got to a point where I never told her how I felt in our relationship, every fight I kept quiet and apologized to her because I didn’t want to deal with more fighting/bullsh*t. It got to a point where I felt I was walking on eggshells just to talk to her. But again, I WAS part of the problem. I had a hard time providing for her, which is what she clearly wanted/needed in a man. My response was to work my ass off and make more money, to get us out of this situation. In return, I showed her close to no attention for months, If not years. I showed the attention I could, but again, I worked 15 hour days, 2 jobs, with a 3rd side hustle on the weekends/in between jobs just to crack maybe 2k a month. I struggled with finding decent paying job for a long time, and the two I had still payed minimal. We got worse because of these problems on both ends of the relationship. I relate to this video because these red flags came out within the first 6 months of dating, and I completely disregarded them, and she portrayed ALL of those listed above (almost). She was extremely immature, and never took accountability for any of her actions. To anyone reading this, let me save u years of time, and If you discover these red flags, whatever you do, DON’T avoid them. Don’t let your boundaries down for a woman. Long term, it will absolutely damage you as a man, humiliate you, and turn you into the worst version of yourself. I promise you. I loved this girl to death, even though she completely broke me inside. She did change me in many ways for the better, but the red flags far outweigh the green. Bottom line, men out there. If a woman portrays these red flags, confront them about it, and if they can’t own up to it/offer to work on it, you HAVE to walk away. Do not be afraid to walk away. Do not stay and let her eventually walk all over you, which will happen if you don’t deal with these red flags early. Just decided to rant here, haven’t spoke to almost anyone about my breakup, nor have ever been able to tell my ex about how I really feel without her erupting then me apologizing for how I feel. Thanks to anyone who read this, and I hope you can understand what the long term consequences of avoiding these red flags really can do to you as a man. Stay safe out here ❤

@patmiddleton3947

20 күн бұрын

I’m glad to hear that you finally got out of it.Hope you’re staying away and glad you’re getting it off your chest and not keeping it bottled up inside.Sorry you had to end up apologising for saying how you felt.Don’t fall into that one again will you,and hope you’re doing better now. God bless.👍

You are explaining very well, in each video, what situations are or are not within the discussed issue. Reading the situation is very important. You are also very warm and smooth in wording everything

I dated a girl who treated me and our relationship like a joke even after I gave her a second chance and I couldn't take it anymore so I walked out on her and even though it hurt I knew it was the right thing to do. 3 months later I find out she was lying to me the whole time and found out she was on onlyfans. Best decision I ever made that day I walked away.

@greedisgood827

Жыл бұрын

Way to trust your gut. That thing will save you from pain misery and suffering

@jakefromsikorsky666

Жыл бұрын

based

@jpowell2603

Жыл бұрын

Good on you brother

@pcguysoffgridcabin

Жыл бұрын

post link lol

@MATRIXULSTAPANULOUTVERSAL

Жыл бұрын

@@pcguysoffgridcabin NOT BEFORE YOU SHARE YOUR MOM'S

I had an ex say, "It shouldn't be too much to expect to be treated like a queen!" Worse still, inside I thought, "OMG is she right? Am I doing it wrong?" 30 years and we're still happily married - just kidding, I think we broke up that week. 😁

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

💀 😂

@atifulislamasif7893

Жыл бұрын

You had me in the first half

@oscarmorales-cn3hz

Жыл бұрын

30 years and we're still happily married... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@laturista1000

Жыл бұрын

Red Flags Her: "I like being spoiled." "I'm used to a certain lifestyle." "I will not delete my bikini instagram pics." "I need more followers on my IG." "I like being pampered." "God will send me a good man." "I deserve this!" " #bossbitch "

@justingary5322

Жыл бұрын

@@CourtneyRyan I really appreciate your content Courtney I've been watching your videos for over a year now since my junior year now I graduated from college last month

A lot of points you mentioned were in my last relationship. We were never able to have open and honest conversations without it becoming an argument, she would always talk over me and finish my sentences even though that wasn't what I was going to say and wouldn't let me say what I was actually going to say. I couldn't be vulnerable with her or even honest so I admit that I resorted to lying or witholding information to avoid conflict. There were some good times, but overall a difficult relationship that I learnt a lot from. Thank you for your video 🙏

I’m glad that someone is speaking out on the whole astrology thing. I never understood the basis for it in the first place and it’s against my moral values anyways but it is a lofty way to go about dating. Having either the same or at least similar moral values that goes beyond looks is key.

To be honest my mom has always talked badly about men in her life and would always say, "all men are trash." I've heard this quote since I was a young kid. Needless to say i have the same mentality she does when it comes to it but I'm learning to be more self conscious and having a negative outlook is resulting in my misery. I took a long time to realize this about myself. Your channel is mind opening and I appreciate it so much.

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this! I’m so happy to help. Hugs! ❤️

@DavidL-wd5pu

Жыл бұрын

Keep up the good work, self development and growth should be a life long process, and fulfilling journey. My personal journey was deprogramming my dads fundamentalist christian indoctrination. Now I'm a Universalist and feel like I can do almost anything I put my mind to. Good luck.

@karlburmeister1552

8 ай бұрын

Good to hear. Parental programming is hard to break. This shows that you're becoming your own person.

@Cantthinkofahandle117

7 ай бұрын

The women in my family have always talked trash about men. It makes us feel like a piece of shit just for being born. You also feel like everything wrong is your fault because it's always the man's fault. Even when you do your best to do something right but didn't work out. She'll think it's your fault and you probably did it on purpose.

@gregoryritchie7852

7 ай бұрын

My mother truly believed that any problem in marriage of friends was ALWAYS the man's fault.

I dated a girl once who was fond of telling me, "if you REALLY like me, you would do this for me." I dropped her like a hot potato and never looked back! Keep up the good work Courtney - you're the best!

@marcmays48

Жыл бұрын

Respond with: "If you REALLY loved me... you wouldn't resort to emotional blackmail, and silly mind games." Sadly, I don't think that these women are self-aware enough to see the humor there... 😂

@ShadowbannedAccount

Жыл бұрын

The gaslighting is amusing lmao.

@uaking21

Жыл бұрын

My ex and I lived 2 and a half hours away. She told me if you loved me you would have moved here by now. Thank god I’m out

@jarretthardcastle83

Жыл бұрын

Classic attempt at control through manipulation.

@shotbytim9624

Жыл бұрын

That ultimatum is an immediate disqualifier

She just threw basically every girl under the bus.

A gold mine of wisdom! Somewhere there is someone implementing one or more of these and being saved a lot of anguish and damage.

I once had a girl brag to me about how great she was about cutting people out of her life without caring at all, guess what happened to me, lol. Other notable red flags I've experienced include "I'm not friends with girls they're drama" -if they cannot make friends with their own gender, run. THEY are the drama. Being hot and cold, always take indecision/confusion as a no for your own sake. "I never apologize" is another big one. Everyone makes mistakes, but if you encounter a girl who is not willing to own up and recognize her mistakes, and properly apologize for them, run. Gaslighting and emotional abuse are also huge red flags that are unfortunately pretty common in women. Women who shame men for having emotions or try to challenge your manliness always show huge red flags. Gaslighting such as calling you crazy when calling out poor behavior or trying to humiliate you in public are huge red flags. Women tend to abuse more socially and emotionally than physically so it is important to recognize these signs early as red flags, or they'll come back to bite you. I've found that people usually will show you exactly who they are, we tend to just not want to see it when they are the opposite gender.

@pcguysoffgridcabin

Жыл бұрын

Al Bundy once said, Don't try to understand women. Women understand women and they hate each other.

@stevesyncox9893

7 ай бұрын

That is incredibly astute..

@thefuturekidsofficial

7 ай бұрын

Yeah, girls cutting people from their lives, run as fast as you can

@jinpachibobochan3532

6 ай бұрын

Very true about girls who can't make friends with other girls. My exp is that they hang out with guys a lot since guys are easy to make friends with any girl that looks good enough, so to say, ignoring her flaws, etc. These girls sometimes have rather loose commitment abilities. Like, they have a boyfriend but are already on the lookout for a new one, etc. constantly trying to upgrade, stuff like that.

@mulungielijah1578

3 ай бұрын

This happened to me too, I didn't think it was a big deal and ya in the end she broke up with me. She tried to be friends with me because I think she was still attached to me, idk. I let her string me along for awhile and eventually I realised I wasn't healing and finally cut her off. I expected her to leave me alone but she started hanging out with my friends(which she didn't do even when we were together) all in an effort to get back in my life. She broke up and cut off all her exes so I wonder what made me different. She also has a hard time making friends with other girls.

I'm 61 and, in my experience, most women have at least one of these, especially the mind reader one. Maybe I've met bad women all my life. I just don't trust my judgement when it comes to choosing women. It's why I quit dating 8 years ago and why I will never get married again.

@shotbytim9624

Жыл бұрын

As far as the mind reader thing is concerned, it's not so bad if she just accepts having made a mistake in predicting you. If she really invests a lot of energy in being angry about it, that's where the problem is.

@dickbanger8924

Жыл бұрын

Wise choice sir

@emanuelmota7217

Жыл бұрын

I'm 64 and gave up dating about 8 years ago. I realized that I just don't have what the women I'm attracted to want, and I don't want the women I'm not attracted to. Good thing I've got pets and a hobby.

@katemiller7874

Жыл бұрын

I thought that when I was younger then I matured and realized it after a very kind man told me.

@mudd8844

Жыл бұрын

Me either

Thanks for spending the time to create and share this content awareness❤️ 🙏🏾

Genuinely appreciate you looking out for guys. Not all women have such good self awareness

She talks about her astrological sign a lot. Nearly every time I've met a woman who is into astrological signs, it's to justify the lunacy in her own life.

@jboyd__

Жыл бұрын

Facts lol

@magicalesquilax7232

Жыл бұрын

I can relate to this one. Hahaha so true.

@danielschaeffer1294

Жыл бұрын

It also shows she has no brain. Astrology is bunk.

@RandomHandleLol1738

Жыл бұрын

Omg I ran over so many schoolchildren! I’m such a caprisun!

@micks9254

Жыл бұрын

I laughed at that. So true

My ex-wife buried all these things until we were married for a couple of years and then it all started surfacing slowly after our first child. It didn’t truly surface until our second child and then she figured out that it wasn’t about her all the time. It was real work and she didn’t like it. That higher standards for others was definitely there and the birthday needing to be for 1-2 weeks surfaced. Then it was vacations with her girlfriends and not family several times a year and her slow roll into 3rd wave feminism. All her friends had shit marriages while ours was stable. Rather, I was stable. I come from a family that values the sanctity of marriage in good and bad, so I stuck with it even though she changed drastically. I realized that with hindsight that her flags were buried when she was around me until it became too hard for her to disguise. If she had even one of them when we were dating, it would have been done immediately and I’m sure she knew that. I know men and women can sustain a certain amount of hiding themselves until they just can’t endure it. I would measure a woman, now that I’m almost 50, by the company they keep and for how long. Also, I would look at their family. I ignored that her mother was on her third marriage. When you grow up with three dads, then you might never learn that a husband is something you should fight to keep. Her father was an alcoholic, so how could she trust another man if her father was untrustworthy. When I was in my 20s I didn’t really understand how detrimental that could be to a woman’s mental health and expectation of men. It makes perfect sense now that we are divorced. Dedication, respect, unwavering trust, and loyalty mean nothing to someone that has never seen that growing up. She was not the right person although she played the part until life got hard. Red flags were there. I just needed to know how to get them to show. Thank you for helping men find them and make the right choices.

@wetcrow_com

Жыл бұрын

You are 100% right. I have ignored the red flags several flags, hence the term love is blind. If you go through this 3-4 times, then everyone thinks it is your fault. People do change after hiding their true self. I do not do that. I communicate my feelings from day one and expect the same from anyone I am involved in. Bad communication is a recipe for relationship failure.

@MortalThe

Жыл бұрын

Oh man, that is such a prove to that theory that: " women marry men hoping they will change , while men decide to marry a woman hoping that she will not change".

@daveg4417

Жыл бұрын

My ex-wife was a closet dating psycho woman as well. She changed right after we married though. When I confronted her about it, her exact words were "I acted that way during dating otherwise you wouldn't have married me.". Talk about crazy.

@AmericanDuck

Жыл бұрын

@@wetcrow_com yeah, I was totally ok with those flags back then. I didn’t realize how it damages people. I was naive about such things. Men are so lucky that they can share stories and learn from others. I’m sitting my son down when he’s 15 and covering all of this. He already sees his mother differently now that he lives without me in the house. I’ve said nothing, to not denigrate her, but he brings stories of frustration from her anger and drinking binges. It’s sad. I can’t make any moves to get primary custody unless she makes a major mistake. I hope she changes for my son’s sake.

@mrbill2600

Жыл бұрын

@@daveg4417 As she lied to you going into the marriage ... grounds for an annulment.

This is a great advice everything you mentioned is true there are two things that I've encountered that have been red-flags when a woman constantly speaks about her ex or X's all the time that is definitely a red flag you don't want to get involved with somebody who can't put you as the only man in a relationship you should not compete with an ex that your partner has broken up with or is not in their life anymore into this is one that really drives me crazy is when women compare you to other men and they're always trying to say that these other men are better than you are that's a no-win situation

Last woman I was seeing had drama everywhere. Lots of groups of people she didn’t want to be around at work because they thought she was a “B” She also didn’t know how to fight fair and would just shut down or hang up on me on the phone. We couldn’t resolve anything because she was too immature to discuss problems.

Thanks for this, I’m a girl and didn’t realize I was guilty of some of these behaviours. Gladly not to an extreme but still I’ve made mistakes with these kind of things.

@wetcrow_com

Жыл бұрын

That reflects that you are a genuine person and always improving yourself. I always try to improve myself, knowing that I am not perfect either.

@omega0195

Жыл бұрын

You need to fix yourself

@NA-ud6qm

Жыл бұрын

Just want to say that Nana is a great anime. Great pfp.

@shaunwalsh85

Жыл бұрын

Nobody is perfect, and kudos for recognizing negative behaviors. The real question is, are you gonna grow and move forward? Or are you gonna remain stagnant?

@tjongejongeman8153

Жыл бұрын

You can make mistakes, and not be perfect, it is totally fine, what is most important is self awareness, and self reflection.

I had a girl break up with me a few years ago, because I "wasn't man enough for her, because I wouldn't buy her a new car" This was coming from someone who cried about being too stressed out with working 4 hours a day, 3 days a week. I still wonder if she's managed to capture her perfect man😂

@williamsporing1500

Жыл бұрын

She did you a huge favor brother!

@justinbrockwell8396

Жыл бұрын

@@williamsporing1500 absolutely!

@SirEpifire

Жыл бұрын

She'd have to beat her perfect man with a club in order to capture him.

@rmcneil1340

Жыл бұрын

Wow! Seriously? What's happening to my sex? God help us

@justinbrockwell8396

Жыл бұрын

@@rmcneil1340 no idea... can you please rectify?

Wow, where you been all my life Courtney? If I'd heard this 13 years ago I could have avoided so much trouble and loss. Lol. About fell out of my chair listening to it. Recently divorced, and she has a hard legit four of the six red flags and one of the remaining two is debatable. I subscribed immediately and starting my journey listening to more of your content. Thank you so much.

Ms. Ryan is right. I have experienced some of this stuff first hand and it ended as badly as you can guess.

I wish I didn't ignore red flags. I used to believe that I can change a girl, but I cannot change a person who doesnt want to change.

@ryder8328

Жыл бұрын

You can't change a woman.

@alexlilano1931

Жыл бұрын

@@ryder8328 Probably the modt naive thing I used to believe is that I thought I can change her by just being nice to her.

@black_knight_offroad

Жыл бұрын

You just can't change a girl. Or anyone. And expecting someone to want to is also a red flag for my own lack of self esteem. They are who they are. I now follow my intuition and live through my values of self respect and wisdom. They're guiding me well.

@larrykippings

10 ай бұрын

I’ve learnt the hard way that you can’t rescue/save/change anyone, and especially so when it comes to heavy drinking.

@birchgarden2238

12 күн бұрын

You can change a person. It's just bloody hard. Often times people want to change, but they don't know how, in everyday life their everyday behaviour shines through as the expression of their very core. As long as you're not able to touch that core, nothing is gonna change. In order to reach this core, you have to navigate through a labyrinth full of traps and obstacles. It's a lot of hard work, which I don't think most are willing to put themselves through.

Courtney, you must have met my ex girlfriend and took notes, she fit every red flag here. She made my life miserable, she was horrible. She broke up with me but I think she thought I would come running back to her, I ran so fast and I honestly felt better emotionally and physically. I was trapped and when she opened the door I couldn't get away fast enough.

@San-lh8us

7 ай бұрын

honestly my dude, if you're ever with someone and realises ANY of these, just break up with them yourself, that was the last favor your ex did for you, get you rid of her

Hi Courtney! I just gotta say, you are my new therapist [ LOL ]...no really. You are very grounded, realistic, and logical. I wish I had watched your vids when I was in my 20's, but alas...I'm 64. Being said, you have helped me understand my past experiences and made me feel better about myself. Rock on Amiga ;-)

To be honest I wish I saw this video when I was younger haha. I had such low self esteem I stayed with a girl only for the reason of having a girlfriend. Now I have self respect and these videos are helping me get more confidence in myself. Thank you Courtney!!!

@MrR40388

Жыл бұрын

What has to stop is putting women on a pedestal just for being women. The reality is either a woman will be wife or whore. There is no middle ground.

@jimmydelia8956

Жыл бұрын

@@MrR40388 Not quite and very disrespectful. I am just saying when I have a relationship with a woman I demand respect and compassion. Thats it !

I’ve commented on this lady’s videos before, and she’s excellent. Mature, clear, concise and helped me avoid difficult women in the past, thank you Courtney.

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the kind comment! 🤍

@sofiyahayes

Жыл бұрын

i feeel personally attacked.

@Rick_Cleland

Жыл бұрын

@@sofiyahayes 👀

@nightlord8756

Жыл бұрын

@@sofiyahayes Wtf, your offended for something that wasn't even involving you, wth did you smoked !? 🙄🤨

@SmashBrosBrawl

Жыл бұрын

Wooosh

I've watched most of your videos. For me personally, your fashion tips help the most. Fortunately (or unfortunately?) I usually already have figured most of this out for myself. But that FORTE hair pomade does wonders just by itself. Over the summer a lot of girls ran their hands through my hair! 😂❤

This is about time: an honest and reasonable advice from someone about some (though not all of course) women on dating. Thank you.

I dated a woman whose mother coined the phrase "I hate all men". I never heard any details about her father (which is another red flag in my book). Thankfully I broke up with her before things got too serious.

@Mikexception

Жыл бұрын

You was lucky by breaking My ex was like this - she kept relations around only with ladies, there wasn't any good opinion about any known to us or her man included me and my familly with highest level of criticizm. After 22 years we divorced - if I knew more in begining... But she was suppresing it many years and only after many years when she felt stronger on her feet she "nicely" developed narcism too.

1. Your 'do in the thumbnail is LEGIT. 2. I have met the women you describe here and you are spot on. The birthday month thing, the calling themselves crazy, talking over/controlling/COMPETITIVE - YIKES. I run away and I run FAST. I have also found that once the first red flag is shown, it is inevitable that all of the rest come in short order. What I dig about your content is that nearly every vid you posts reaffirms that I am already doing, practicing and living what you say - before even watching them. Good to know I am on the right path as a man.

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

Thank you, Nathaniel! ❤️

@Illlium

Жыл бұрын

I feel like point five of interrupting/finishing sentences is a bit misleading. There's no other way of gauging the pace of the prospective conversations and how else are you supposed to know how many of the same wavelengths you're catching with another person? Talking is a two-way street regardless of context.

@SgtLube818

Жыл бұрын

@CourtneyRyan, @@Illlium I don't know if it's misleading or not, but the tone, context and phrasing go a long way with deciding if they are being rude or dismissive of what you're trying to say at the time, I feel like Courtney just wanted us to be aware of the negative aspects of it. I have a habit of finishing people's sentences sometimes. I try not verbally walk over people, but when I'm on the same wavelength with someone I tend to do it, more so if it's something we are both excited about.

These were great. Some obvious, but some quite subtle. Thank You

OH MY GOD! Thanks a lot for this. I am a sensitive guy and spent my intire life attracting girls like that, trouble makers with serious mental disorders. I didn't want to feel like i am a sexsist person for observing that, but, after this video, i am sure i am not. The "i am crazy" category was "the best" for me. Thanks.

@teastrainer3604

7 ай бұрын

"I'm a vegan" is enough for me.

0:14 - Princess/ Petulant Behavior 1:32 - Negative About Relationships 3:50 - Mind Reader Talk 4:48 - She Calls Herself "Crazy" 6:32 - Not what she says 8:20 - I Hate Men

Courtney- "No one is a mind reader and the girl you're with shouldn't expect you to be one either." Me-. AMEN, THANK YOU AND YESSSSS MA'AM!

Excellent video! I've dealt with all these issues and you're spot on. Number 7 is when she gives an ultimatum (and demands u join the Navy) the third time she pressures u to get married when u made it very clear both times before that you'd be the man and propose to her if and when u were ready. BYE! ✌🏼🍾🎆

Amazing content as always, Courtney! Your examples are so relatable and really help us understand the signs to watch out for. Keep up the great work!

I just realized that since getting out of an extremely toxic relationship, I don't make it the only topic of conversation, but I have talked about my ex more than I should. Thank you for posting this video. It really opened up my eyes to some negative attributes that I have developed and need to change.

Thank you , Courtney. I've always liked your content. It's always refreshing and encouraging to hear your advice . I'm so glad there are still women like you ( intelligent , aware , and grounded in reality). And in case you haven't been reminded today, you're also very beautiful.

God this is so spot on. Explains what I went through in my past

This is fantastic information Courtney, especially coming from a woman. One thing that I would love to see addressed more from therapists and other experts like you who talk about relationship issues, red flags and personality disorders on KZread is the distinction on inappropriate behavior at the beginning of a relationship vs in a committed relationship (common-law or married). I have an Ex who within 7 days of our first date she told me she was in love with me. 9 days after we met she introduced me to her Special Needs kids, who were almost 18 and had seen many guys come and go. Within a month she was pushing me to move in. I cut her a LOT of slack because of the situations she was dealing with. The romance, passion and chemistry between us was off the charts. Many of her behaviors were aggressively manipulative and controlling because I was playing the savior and chose to go down the rabbit hole with her. That's on me. But my point is some of her behaviors and expectations would be normal if they were at an appropriate stage in the relationship, not within a few weeks or a month! As I said I would love you to do videos on how to DEVELOP a healthy, conscious, balanced relationship, understanding that everyone is different and the pace isn't written in stone. I think for education, some sort of guidelines could be very useful though!!

Who else is a female that’s on here to make sure you don’t say any of these things? Lol i like these videos because it keeps yourself in check because all of us can fall into bad habits. The only one I can say I do is the interrupting sometimes but I’ve gotten way better, it was an anxiety/excitement thing for me. And I honestly hate when women do all these things too especially when they say “men are trash” pa-lease 🙄😒

@CourtneyRyan

Жыл бұрын

Lol, I love it! Honestly making these videos helps keep me in check too 😂 I used to be horrible at interrupting as well and it was for the same reason. None of us are perfect! Being willing to grow and make an effort is a green flag in my book 😇 thanks for commenting, Michelle!

Thanks so much, Ms. Ryan. It's truly such an aesthetical pleasure just to look at you. You are so beautiful and elegant. And the way you deliver your narrative is also great. You're a perfect storyteller👌

True I’ve been there and she really did my brain in. I was devastated when the relationship ended but that was the best thing to happen as it freed me to find a wonderful woman with no red flag traits

Amazing content! Your insight is helping me navigate the dating world. I think another red flag is if she says to you: “if you want to see me again, we will go here instead.” Or, “if you want to see me again, you have to do this.” The ultimatums are a huge red flag, expressing narcissistic qualities. I’ve had this happen to me before. I took out a girl to dinner (third date) and she didn’t like the food at all. She made a big deal about the restaurant and told me that the food tasted like sand. Right there, I knew it was time to cut ties. Once the date was over, she said to me: “if you want to see me again, I’ll be picking the restaurant next time.” I internalized it for a bit, until I told her that I was done. No one should be disrespected when you’re putting your best foot forward, especially when it is getting to know someone.

@Introvertedalpha

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing your experience and insights!

@J1Z06

Жыл бұрын

CONTROL,CONTROL,CONTROL!!!

@ripace554

Жыл бұрын

The ultimatums are shit tests. Not worth the effort it takes to pass them.

The 'All men are trash' thing is pretty clear cut crazy. My exwife had all these signs. Even as a divorced guy, I know there are good women out there, just need to learn from it and not marry crazy.

@drip369

Жыл бұрын

Next time you hear that I triple dog dare you to ask the girl if she is a dumpster because trash goes in and out of her all the time

@improvisedsurvival5967

Жыл бұрын

My ex didn’t say men are trash but she did blame me for things not going her way even though I had nothing to do with it. She refused to take responsibility for things she did. 🚩watch for this

So, I just want to thank you for giving good advice so consistently. I've experimented by doing your do's with the women I like, and actively practiced the don'ts for the women I wanted to leave me the fuck alone, and both worked like a charm. God bless you.

"I have no shame." Words and actions of ALL sociopaths.

Omg this hits close to home. I'm a divorced 47 year old guy. Since 2017 I've had 5 girlfriends, that I all met on dating sites, 4 out of 5 was Tinder and the 5th Bumble. All of them were so SOOO toxic yet seemed great in the beginning. I relate to EVERY point you made. Thank you for making this content because there's millions it seems, of videos warning women about toxic guys in the dating scene and being a man I can admit there's a lot of douchebags, but there's a lot of us quality men too. My question is: if a woman isn't directly talking in general terms negatively about men per se, but, she very overemphasizes how great and awesome women are, is that basically the same thing as misandrist speech and attitudes? A woman I was dating earlier in the spring who I'm not with anymore (because of all the red flags) on our first date when we were hanging out at her house and talking about music and watching KZread on her big screen TV kept going to these ' "I am woman, hear me roar" songs and clips, one in particular was by a Mongolian instrumental band called the Hu with guest singer Lizzie Hale from Halestorm called "A Woman's Song" I am not misogynist in the slightest but I actually found the song kinda offensive because the lyrics were stating that only women have admirable traits. But moreso my ex girlfriend's reaction to it, she was singing along and her commentary was like "yeah in Mongolia women are in charge and never disrespected" I nicely made the reply and questioned "well shouldn't it also be not cool to disrespect a man?" She just shrugged that off and I remember ar the time getting the clear feeling she had contempt for men

… And #7: if she says anything other than “general kenobi” when you break the ice with “hello there”

Thank you for clarifying things.

I like the video it explains a lot of confusion I've had with women. For example some can be or were sociapaths.

A customer at my work came in and announced to everyone in earshot that it was her birthday, and everyone, present company excluded, became really nice and complimentary toward her, and she just kept glaring at me with contempt and scorn, because how dare I not give her attention on her birthday....smh....people desperately need to embrace their humility and get over themselves! Thanks for the info, Courtney! You're totally an 11! 👍

I have ignored or justified a few of these warning signs in the past. My (now) ex-wife turned out to have undiagnosed Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) which made the relationship extremely unstable, I would not recommend it. What I would recommend is if at anytime the relationship feels bad or wrong than it's time to 'nope' on out of there. Life is too short to waste it on someone who is only looking for the next sugar-daddy or whipping boy.

You're saying the right things and seem genuine enough but so does most women until a person invests time in that person.

Similar to what you said.... always talking about themselves and when i talked about myself.... bringing the conversation back to them like my story/experiences dont matter...

I feel that when someone who is raised in a strict home finds freedom, they over compensate and either go crazy or try to control everything because they lacked power. Just my observation from living with a lot of these.

@mitus296

Жыл бұрын

That's very true

I've been on dates/dated women that do all these things. At first I used to judge them but now I just wish them well and move on. Great video thanks for posting!

😂 I've never heard of a birthday month , that seems extremely overboard. I get embarrassed enough by the day.

Thank you, for that insight. Also I’d like to add, professional men pick up on these some what little signs, and mentally turn in to the side guy. I tend to stick around to pass the feeling of warmth years after for her, as some men can be very difficult. I’m I wrong to help her feel that and remember it, I don’t know.

You are spot on with your list and if even one guy hears this and heeds your advice, he will save himself a lifetime of hurt. I should know, I have been married to a woman like this for almost 30 years and wasn't secure enough in myself to walk away when just about every one of your red flags manifested itself. I hope a lot of guys watch this and take it to heart.

One red flag is saying a guy that likes you is too friendly, while also getting pumped and dumped by Chad. That makes me feel apathetic.

I just left a 4 month relationship with a woman and here are a few things she did that this video touchs on. She talked about her negative relationships, how women are better than men and I should have known that she liked white roses after I sent her 24 long stem Red roses. She hated her job, boss, most coworkers and clients as well and was always complaing about work.

This is really helpful, thanks.

I used to know a girl that would say "guys are so dumb". I think this falls in the same category as "all men are trash". It's generalizing a whole gender and shows that they don't respect men. I've also met women who would say that "all girls are crazy" and think that their toxic behaviors were normal. My encounters with women who think this way were not pleasant.

A toxic person, is a toxic person, regardless of gender and these red flags can be applied to anyone. I think they mostly point to insecurities people have within themselves and are manifested outwardly in different ways. It's a good list, so take note people and work on insecurity issues within yourself for the betterment of all, I am.

I knew a gal some years ago who, when talking about her history, said of her ex-husband “he bought me a house!” NO, he did not buy YOU a house. He bought a house for the two of you; he bought ‘us’ a house.

@RandomUser25122

Ай бұрын

Yeah but she probably got all of the house after they split, so she was right in the end

I have to agree with you on most if not all. My ex-wife fit into just about all these categories during our long marriage of 4 1/2 years. I was never good enough, and my next marriage is going to have a few changes, I am going to a lot more vetting of weather or not they are marriage material.

I once ran into one woman that said all men are pedophiles and that she has a stalker... Her mother also pretended to be her online... She also had an unusually involved relationship with her brothers girlfriend... Pretty crazy...

@improvisedsurvival5967

Жыл бұрын

Run

"The moment I heard her say 'get out of my life' I knew it was over"- Lt. Frank Drebin, Police Squad

@randolphkersey5155

2 ай бұрын

Except when she calls you and profusely apologizes and you go over to her house and you find her butt-necked and spread-eagle on her bed and she wants you to spank her.

Great video! Thank you, Courtney!

Thank you for saying that we shouldn’t be mind readers. I’ve run into a couple that expected me to know everything and seriously that is just impossible. If you need something speak up and you’ll get it as long as it’s reasonable.

hi courtney! i’m not a guy, but i wanted to watch this video to see if i unintentionally showed these red flags as a woman. the only two i had was that i used to be a “mind reader” when not all guys knew what i wanted in our relationship and talking about my ex and comparing them to my ex when they’re two different people. talking negatively about the past and other people and calling it “venting” definitely wears out and ruins relationships so i learned not to expect guys to be so perfect when i haven’t communicated my wants with them nor worked on myself first. thank you so much for sharing!! i think this video would help out other women too to prevent damage in relationships :)

Lots of people, both men and women, still throw temper tantrums and act like infants. My mother and her mother were like this, so was my mother's brother as well as my own brother. It is a trait from my mother's side of the family. Luckily I do not have it myself. All of this applies to both genders, of course. Your choice of friends often says a lot about you.

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In suspended adolescence

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@@charlied8882 In my parents' case they were both in suspended childhood.