If you want to stand out in a way that makes you higher value than other guys, you need to watch this video. And for more on value in general, go to the link in the description.

@SammyCee23

4 жыл бұрын

Okay, I've seen plenty of guys who have no money, no status or even jobs and they pull really hot girls. Like, these guys are burnouts and degenerates even. How does one explain this? Is it just game alone?

@SPINERbg

4 жыл бұрын

As a student in a suboptimal financial possition, your free content has literally saved my social life more times than I can remember. Thank you!

@timmyschannel5

4 жыл бұрын

Any promo code for the master class Todd? Please :)

@robs9557

4 жыл бұрын

What is the Earlybird code for checkout?

@donaldbiden9492

4 жыл бұрын

@@SammyCee23 drugs... usually coke or molly

Todd, even during this CRAZY time, you’re still delivering!!! Honestly dude, thanks so much for this… This is critical! Congrats on all the success, and be safe man!!!

Your casino example is so on point. Another way to look at it, is to have a unique set of values. A lot of guys are just "rich guy" or just "party guy", but as you build multiple value offers into your life you become a much better mate.

@sirrobinofloxley7156

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, my gauge is not how rich the bank account says, but how rich in character I'm made.

@improover113

Жыл бұрын

@First Principles Hey could you pls say more about this variety of values and how they make the game better?

Sales and marketing is very closely related to dating

@renaldonelson970

4 жыл бұрын

Yep. Derek always says if you arent getting results w girls you either have a value problem or you have a marketing problem

@youknowwhatyea4472

4 жыл бұрын

It is a really great start, a truthful personality is also great to have, so a good salesman has a great advantages and a lot to teach if he gets women real values and doesn't think of himself better then what he needs to be to learn to girls really like and value. Sorry said that in a to complicated way, if he is arrogant he is going to fall short in other areas, in relation to his long-term business deals and give the wrong impression to perspective buyers making sure they don't trust him. A good salesman should know the value of trust, right?

@kishanchali8752

4 жыл бұрын

It's really funny cause the 'value' that Todd talks about isn't really value. For instance, there are many guys in academia, doing work that does great service to the society but pay little attention to game. The real value comes from what we do as individuals in the society. Unfortunately, women prefer some trivial things.

@arthurandrews113

3 жыл бұрын

Yep. That’s why both arenas are referred to as a marketplace.

@Gohan9112

3 жыл бұрын

@@kishanchali8752 You're giving girl the value by making her feel a range of emotions that she probably has never felt before. Value doesn't always have be in form of charity.

*UVP is conversing what you have and "what you do"* *USP or unique selling point is where you would tell someone "i am better than the rest because of this and this"* *Positioning is the space you occupy or try to occupy in someones mind* Positioning is often the strongest of the three since here you explain why you can deliver on your promises

@Brelicity

4 жыл бұрын

Very cool comment

Todd you're such a genius. I'm focused on things other than game for the moment but I still watch all the videos you send out in emails because I find your insights so impressive.

Man this is an awesome video . It highlights the insane journey a guy with women goes through , and when he meets a dime that challenges his value that he bring to the table. Thank you Todd! We all have that one woman that's so stunning that we forgot we are playing the game not there to admire her beauty during the date and interaction

I’ve always presented myself as a reformed bad boy who has traveled the world and is a corporate success with a high value lifestyle. What really closes the deal for me as crazy as it sounds, is when I tell girls I’m an ex heroin addict. Merging the two and being brutally honest about my experience & how I overcame them, literally always drops panties and they almost always share their deep dark shit in return and this builds absurd amounts of rapport because it’s honest genuine connection. At first I used to be afraid of this fact and hide it, now that I’ve owned it it’s my “nuclear bomb”

@sirrobinofloxley7156

2 жыл бұрын

Doesn't your gambit just scream out to her nurturing side, and that you've demonstrated change, and change to be a success is perfect to her model of the world about how men can win. You also drop the bomb of being an addict to something known to be incredibly addictive and extremely mind boggingly difficult to stop, which marries right into her models of a) that she's always experiencing men who treat her like heroin, which annoys the bits off of her, and b) that you have championed life, displaying that you can take her on the most empathetic emotion provoking that she could ever perceive. Plus, you must have had lots of money passing through your hands, and you were spending it on something which made you feel good, so now she wants to make you feel good, hahah

@fuzzypanda1684

Жыл бұрын

Your experience is the yin to my yang. Over the past 10 years I've spent incredible amounts of time and energy improving myself in every way I could, sharpening my strengths, transforming my weaknesses, and building myself into the man I want to be. Yet after doing tremendous amounts of work, I've somehow made things worse. Girls are less interested in me, I get fewer job interviews, far fewer offers, and all the while people who have known me for any length of time comment on how much I've improved myself. I went from having ok jobs and getting laid occasionally to not having a job in the past 3 years and not getting laid in...well the last 3 years. I never had a great reply rate with the girls I'd meet and get the number of, but now I literally have hundreds of unreplied messages in my phone from the past 3 years of approaching. At this point the only reason I stay in shape and keep approaching is because it's f***ing hilarious how bad of results I get.

@alexanderwindh4830

Жыл бұрын

First date or second? When you tell them.

@filipbelciug

8 ай бұрын

​@@fuzzypanda1684you're definitely doing something wrong because I did the same and my results and confidence only improved. Are you having any social habits? Are you sociable? When you talk to girls do you make risky jokes and have fun experiences to talk about - or you bore them to death with your 'self improvement' lifestyle? I'm sure you built your value in those past 10 years so now it's only a matter of communicating that value to women in a way that's attractive to them

@fuzzypanda1684

8 ай бұрын

@filipbelciug My confidence improved dramatically as well. As for social skills, I spent many years learning and practicing those. Now I'm a very outgoing guy who has no problem talking with people. I actually enjoy talking with girls, and definitely prefer risky flirting over boring small talk. I know pretty much everyone who works at the places I frequent, and was even invited to work with a promotion company in the bay area after meeting some guys in the club scene who told me I had the energy and charisma. So my social game is pretty good at this point. Good area to point out though.

Thanks todd, you more than anything else were the single reason why I've been able to move from intermediate direct . . . Which keeps you stuck in 6-7.5 ville and graduate into having more and more success with genuinely stunning women . . . Love the breakdowns and technicality of it.

I like how you mentioned that even while you were teaching, you still had learning moments in LA. Even pros run into challenges that continue to shape them.

18:25 This is spot on Todd, that's exactly what happened to me... girl was super eager to meet, crazy attraction... I came, didn't close and she basically got a weird vibe and that was the end of it... I was too much in my head and dropped my value.. live and learn

@kishanchali8752

4 жыл бұрын

Where did you find her?

Best Todd V video I've seen. Nice to hear the humbling experiences he had in the past, because he learned from them and has experienced progress.

Whoa, dropping so much gold with those last 2 videos. Thanks a lot! I'm really enjoying those videos out of the old and repetitive ones.

Todd v is the goat of giving game advice Thank you sir.

This video will convert for the masterclass like crazy ;) Can't wait to watch this weekend!

Hey Tod, I've been your fan for around 2-3yrs now and your stuff is just getting better. When I receive ur new video upload, I'm on it. Quality stuff. 👍

I’m glad that you mentions the fact that you doubted yourself on that date. That’s happened to me before. Sometimes forget to not put you on a pedestal cause your just like us but with experience and practice.

Love the marketing/microeconomics analogy - makes so much sense.

By this time I know more about Todd high school and middle school dating life than I clearly remember mine.

this is my first KZread comment ever I think, and it's just to say this was the best KZread video information I've been lucky enough to come across. I constantly psych myself out and doubt my own prop which causes me to not escalate and fail, specifically with the highest value girls who I'm most into. Thanks Todd. Appreciate you.

Awesome video Todd! Please make more videos on value and please keep tying in business to dating. So much value when you frame it that way!

Completely shifted my whole perspective of game, never considered any of these variables. I’ve been neglecting to offer what makes me unique.

Amazing video!! Really one of the best of the best

How do I stand up to my wife’s boyfriend?

@KingBowserVlog

4 жыл бұрын

I've been having trouble AMOGing my wife's boyfriend

@robertl.7657

4 жыл бұрын

The question should b ,how my wife stand up ,to my strippers girlfriends

@vanillamindscream196

4 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha

@SmoKeYJoE024

4 жыл бұрын

With divorce papers.

@stefansosa5037

4 жыл бұрын

Simping at its finest😂😂

I like to listen about your past failures Todd. It makes you more human and more real. It shows that we can all become an advanced player like you and it teaches us what you have learnt from your mistakes.

Well said, your value you sell is comfort, safe, fun and a unique quality that makes you, you that's not available to others. Figure out that and build on it and you should see success.

Awesome video, really valuable material! Thanks Todd!

You're the prize ,PERIOD!!!

This was actually pretty eye opening to me. Now you explained this so nicely I am wondering how I didn't think of that myself, how I could be so one-dimensional. I was about to give up hope completely because there's no way I'm gonna be world's best XY. Since I came in contact with Red Pill / Pickup content and the concept of value I always kinda implicitly thought I have to push everything to world class level. I had a hard time reconciling that with who I am at my core and also my moral principles. But now it is *so obvious*. Sure it's a good idea to always improve in some area or another but ultimately what's important is my unique blend of qualities. I can't and don't want to be world class in one specific area, that's just not how my character works. But I can certainly offer average or better than average on most important aspects. Thank you! You helped me understand (rememeber?) something very imprtant today!

This was really valuable, thx Todd!

“Hopefully the product you’re selling is of value” 😂 😂 😂

@Blazerghost

4 жыл бұрын

J. C.O. Are you saying your Product is in SHORT supply? 😆

@TheRumpelstinskin

4 жыл бұрын

@@Blazerghost maybe it just need a SMALL investment

@Joshyyoshi1

4 жыл бұрын

@@TheRumpelstinskin Hopefully she's impressed by my CAPITAL GROWTH

@bricktea3645

4 жыл бұрын

@@Joshyyoshi1 lol

@renga19

4 жыл бұрын

Bigmacbook he might have a MARGINAL ANALYSIS... wait mine doesn’t make sense... it’s HARDER than it looks. There we go lol 😂

Really priceless exclusive informations. Great job bro. Subscribing...

Great stuff, Todd. Perfect business analogy. Commenting for the crazy KZread algorithm.

Love the video, thanks Todd! :)

Great job Todd

Damn what a video. I can't believe you put this out here for free.

I met so many women because of you these last few months and my understanding of man-women relationships has exploded, everything seems so clear now, thanks Todd

@myepicaccount5514

3 жыл бұрын

Mind sharing your experiences? I could use some help too

@pierre_richet

3 жыл бұрын

@@myepicaccount5514 honestly I went into this habit of going out everyday and talk to at least 3 girls. I quickly became really good with having no shame, letting go and being fun while I speak - even though It was reaaaally awkward sometimes but it's okay, the girl will always respect you for the effort you made. But I still became comfortable with those situations while I was just acting like I don't care because I really don't. I was doing this until I meet the love of my life. (by the way, my biggest motivation with doing that was to not fuck everything up the day I'd meet the love of my life) The most important thing for me was to understand the principles of the social dynamic Todd teach, the mindset of being the treasure the girl should chase and at the same time, being myself and letting my soul speak without looking like I was using some method to seduce. So practice, mindset, and sincerity are the key words for me.

Lovely video Todd ❤️ thanks for changing our lives

When you are actually out there consistently going out and taking action and out there actually attempting to create world class results, you just end up finding out that time and time again the world of game consistently reflects Todd's principles. Usually anything you are struggling with, there is a part of Todd's teachings that deal specifically with that area. Almost like...maybe he has done this before ;)

TODD this is brilliant one of your best...

Great story Todd.

This is crazy. I've just found this video after reading Charisma on Command's book by Charlie Houpert. Their first step was 'conviction' to believe what you say and act out. Todd absolutely nailed this! :)

Gold. An OG game expert. Thanks Todd.

Dope content !!

THANK YOU TODD!!

I grew up with a misconception of humility, in which I did not pay attention to selling my personal characteristics and my background well, conceiving this attitude as something presumptuous and show off. I went to learn games recently and with it I realized how the perception of value that my classmates and women who have known me the longest is different from the ones I have known in a short time, mainly because there was a set of characteristics that did not make a point of highlighting new people to my social circle. It is essential to present their most striking and valuable characteristics well for you to sell yourself for girls and to your professional life.

Terrific content

Great video. There is this thing we humans have that is unique to everyone - character and Spirit. Both are kinda invisible(to the eye), but not to the senses. Also they are in a way visible, through your behavior, how you carry yourself, etc. but are different(an added layer) than your identity, the primary combination that moves your behavior. So, thinking in terms of value is great and it helps you to have a better perspective on things(richer perspective), but remember, these are just words. Plus value is only perceived. That means, the person who looks at you is the one who determines the value, not you. That's why there are people that can see you as low value if you have lots of money. Strange right? No, not really. And there is a reason for that, it's in them, not in money, not in you. So, just remember to not live Life in terms of value to others, rather in what is valuable to you. Because other people both have very different way of perceiving value than you and also very often don't know what they want. The example Todd gave with the beautiful and wealthy woman, is priceless. For many reasons and with many layers. It points out and illustrate perfectly the perceived value. She most probably had no interest in money or looks, because she most probably was swimming in it, both literally and figuratively, due to her social life, appearance, etc. Plus, she being smart points out that she most probably is not blinded by material things and resources... they are easy to find. People with character and Spirit on the other hand.... which she sensed in Todd, with her female intuition and sense... NOPE, extremely hard to find and they can't be valued, because they are unique. That's why everyone in the End realizes that those people and connections, with people with great good character and strong positive Spirits are the real wealth in one's social life. And that's what happened in his head - he perceived his own value through the eyes of others, and then through his own, and that deadly combination is what sabotaged him. The small things are those who are dangerous in the long run, because you barely can see them, and even sometimes you don't. But at the same time are able to make enough change, exert enough effect on your life, to change the course and everything with it. (like drawing lines, and a small tremble in your hand will lead the line in totally different ending and place in(time and) space. ;)

@sirrobinofloxley7156

2 жыл бұрын

That was really great and in your conclusion it reminded me of the warning saying "The Devil is in the detail", meaning be careful and know to look out for kinks, pun intended, lol, and have your defences and gambits pre-empted. I enjoyed reading your writing.

Great content

Solid content.

I'm a drummer in a band and I think it helps me in the dating world.

Good content, thanks

Todd we need you to put all that knowledge in a book !

Got the Value Master Class. Its great.

b ruhthis stuff is simultaneously extremely great information, but also stressful to actually face. Honestly tho appreciate the knowledge bombs

Brilliant man.

Hey Todd suggestion for a video: How to quickly find out if someone is right for you or not? Like maybe some kind of clever check list? Ways to test her? First of all a lot of guys are really thirsty and desperate so they mix up being horny and having sex with having a relationship (which can lead to absolute disaster) and second of all, a lot of girls are really really good at hiding their true personality and/or their past in the beginning, but then all the bad stuff comes out later when youre emotionally invested in her.

@robertl.7657

4 жыл бұрын

Look her social circle!!!

@josuastangl7140

4 жыл бұрын

@Day Night & @Robert L. Both really good points!

@Fuddylarper

4 жыл бұрын

If you dont have the skills to filter chicks you likely dont have the strength to walk away from red flags anyway.

@kishanchali8752

4 жыл бұрын

@Day Night What does each of those points tell about her? What does it have to do with being intrinsic?

Congrats, you got my sub

Great video

Amazing content as always, thanks Todd!

Highest level but very valuable advice

Hi Todd, I have just listened your last post about finances in Spotify and it was a great. I love that you decided to teach us how to be successful in other areas of life. Cheers, Alberto

Bro he just described all my “boring” photos.

Good stuff

you are amazing dude

You have a point That’s a science - so that’s a truth Everything is clear I will practice it Thank you

I totally get this story of the girl Todd. Sometimes we don’t need to know the value. Just come in strong and confident.

"I just liked the color" Perfect, I certainly got a unique pale white that I can bring to the table. Come to Papa!

Notif squad

"proceed with confidence"

@ferguson1376

3 жыл бұрын

underrated comment

18:13 LMAO savage. well thanks for your honesty

dozens of years, i started watching your stuff when i was 17 ahaha, now im 20 and i wouldve never imagined where i am, i love girls, thanks todd you're awesome, i was knee deep in simp shit

@myepicaccount5514

3 жыл бұрын

Mind sharing tips? I could use some help too

@jonywalabi2647

3 жыл бұрын

@@myepicaccount5514 that's very general, Overall biggest things are being present, confident, dress well, have hygiene on point, and that's most of it, being good with girls is a branch of being social

Deadass... I think Todd is a fucking genius! This analogy with sales just shows us the boy’s wicked smart. Goddamn!

What I get from this is that this unique proposition of value you have to sell is more of an experience than a material thing or a colective of defineable stuff. It's a common marketing technique these days: you add value to something by implying an experience to it. It's an old tactic, like all adds for booze is basicly selling a good time, but now we have this "gourmet" or "enhanced" experience suggested in coffee shops or other things that were before some mundane practice. So, what I learned from this video is that you have to conveign to the girl that time spent with you - not only by numbering the things you have to offer, but also by a sinergy that only you is supposed to be capable of putting together - will be a good time; not only: it will be a better time than if she decided to go with another dude.

didn't expect a synopsis of Baudrillard's theory of sign value in the beginning of this video

your so cool tod. Im just nervous for a date lol to much for me. thank you allot for your insights and knowledge, helps allot. kiss and hugs

I really like everything Todd lays out in this video, however experience shows that it can only take you so far. With everything moving to online, and humans being the primitive creatures that we all are deep down, the elephant in the room of the next guy being hotter never really goes away. The very nature of dating apps gives women infinite options at their fingertips and many of them know this and treat dating accordingly. Even moreso than back in the day where online had a stigma and approaching in bars/clubs or through friends was more effective. I'd love it if Todd did a mindset video about how to cope with the fact that every girl you're talking to has access to several presumably hotter guys through the swipe of her finger VIA Tinder. How does one handle being that replaceable when you presumably would like some kind of relationship? I think maybe an "inner game" video about that topic is in order.

@chio1877

4 жыл бұрын

TheHvk you have to realize good looks aren’t the only form of value, nor the most valuable

@aminebencheikh6403

4 жыл бұрын

I think that your question stems from insecurity. A girl that has an attachment with you, and to whom you've given a good experience and showed valuable traits, is not gonna leave you for some random hot guy on the internet. Especially if you have a unique value proposition.

@josuastangl7140

4 жыл бұрын

also looks can be improved drastically, if it's so important to you! Working out, diet, haircut, clothing... or simply taking better/professional fotos for online profiles

@LV-md6lb

4 жыл бұрын

Other guys listed good comments, I'd give a comparison: there are also hookers, pornography etc but it's not what we're looking, thus live like i5 doesn't exist and use broad daylight ;)

@kishanchali8752

4 жыл бұрын

@@aminebencheikh6403 How can be sure about that? Frequently we see women dumping guys and go for another who has better looks. How do you explain this?

Need a breakdown of scenes from the movie Public Enemy, Johnny Depp

Your good traits and value will shine through if you're having fun

Very good. I will stick with my music but spice it up with other things.

Hi Todd V great content as always

I just realized I'm "low value" and have no concrete proposition, BUT in that I'm also not unique. Nice.

@guaranisalice9447

4 жыл бұрын

sorry but that's a lot of those guys also hahah

@victorespino5650

3 жыл бұрын

Everyone is unique. Most just try to change themselves to be a good fit for the other person, instead of just being yourself.

Thank you

@emnandoka

3 жыл бұрын

only 2 people said "thank you", i guess people have different problems. people like you are helping the world to be a better place for men and woman. Sometimes we dont see enough, cause general life is to troublesome in this times. Good thing that dating coaches like you are here the help men. Some day ill invite you for a coffee and thank you for all that you have teached me in the past few years (humble). thank you for dedicating your life to seduction. It is indeed a sacrifice, but in the long run a blessing. as long as i can say it with 30 yo. Anyway. Best for you.

Hey Todd. If you make a business school. I will join it!

Good shit

That’s the way I have been with girls I like, I assume that they’re also somehow attracted to me. It allows me to be confident and be myself, and I know that’s dope. Works all the time.

@AJ........

3 жыл бұрын

Yep...me too...assume they're into you and roll with it and enjoy the ride. There's too many chicks out there to be worrying about a bunch of shit with each one

Todd please tell us the pros and cons of The System vs Verbal Game academy. I dont know which one should i buy, because i wanna buy but have doubts

@sixpaths4989

3 жыл бұрын

1st Principles link?

This one goes deep

As a brand strategist, this is reductive but interesting. The human being as corporate identity is a given in marketing circles and we look through a naturally cynical eye, but depressing as the notion is, if you're reading this on an iPhone, proof positive right there that branding correctly leads to high value. The thing is, though, branding isn't just aesthetic, it encompasses values which breed loyalty. In other words, the outside should both reflect and declare the inside. If you fake it, you'll fail. Know who you are, what you want, where you're going and the impact you want to make on this world first, then carry that over into how you comport yourself, the way you look, the way you talk and the things you do on a daily basis and you will attract like for like. Consistency and integrity are key to building trust and loyalty, both in branding and dating. At least for long term success. Short term success is easy enough with a nice logo and letterhead, but you'll hit troubled waters if the drapes don't match the carpet (so to speak).

I was just with a girl tonight. First new one since before quarantine and definitely felt off my game. Fun interaction. But I didn't show intent at all

You certainly do have the "gift of gab"!

Todd you're confidence is great.. I like your channel but I have a suggestion.. because all your stories seem like girls take you but in stride.. if you want to get them to obsess over you.. try poking fun at them a little bit. They love it.. a good mixture is about 20/80. If I showed you the texts I get from girls these day your jaw would open no lie.. still like your stuff because you're right about all of it and brings a different perspective to the table..

As a doctor I would guess you got a nasal constriction, considering you often sniff in your videos, speak very fast and nasal monotonous. Repairing that, you would get a voice twice as good, overall better health(happened to me) and more views. Great channel, very good advice, following you for a long time.

@CarlosSilva-yp5vg

4 жыл бұрын

Nose candy bruh lmao

"When I was playing poker... "

@Hegemon1984

4 жыл бұрын

God dammit, I used to roll my eyes at comments like this... but Todd really likes mentioning his poker past lol

@KingBowserVlog

4 жыл бұрын

Lol

@wickedhyperstyler

4 жыл бұрын

@@Hegemon1984 True. I see two positives in those though. 1. You learn sth of his personal life. It makes him more congenial. 2. They're good analogies and make his points clearer.

Wow, painful but valuable story with the hot girl in LA. Thank you for sharing.

Todd totally just shitted on sky diving profile photos😂 felt like the man when I did Skydive Dubai but I guess jumping out of airplanes doesn't impress anyone anymore😂

That's all well and good, but what kind of bluffs I should incorporate on my button 3 bet range? What kind of poker channel is this?

@HyperNemesis

4 жыл бұрын

I see your comment and raise you one like.

Klk from DR

Todd this is fucking gold fucking amazing and could be the single best video you ever made. I wanna know though if somehow the thing that made you a uvp proposition for a woman was to fade away, would your girl lose interest in you never to come back? Is it what women mean when they say he ended up being just everybody else

"Back to basics." There was something about Todd's "intro," his "throwaway" remarks that the rich girl liked. If he had gone back to his starting point and stuck with the drill, he might have landed her. Maybe this point was, "you're not like all the rich guys I date." But when dinner was over, he had become "ordinary."