"Instead of getting depressed about it, get excited about it". AMEN to that! 💪👊

@fuzzypanda1684

Жыл бұрын

Easy to do for a while, but if all you've experienced is failure, eventually it gets harder and harder to have that mentality. It's hard to feel confident when your mind is reminding you "this is the 135th night in a row you've gone home alone. If you're so high value, why the hell do you go home alone every single night you go out?"

@bigball6392

2 ай бұрын

That's why putting smaller goals can help with feeling the successess and help to fix that little mistakes that hold us back. Instead of "go home with a girl" say "go approach 10 girls tonight". Goals are overrated, it's the discipline and choosing the most optimal action in given situation is what makes us high value.

3 Reasons Why Men Descend Into Low Value: @1:03 - Society needs good little obedient betas @6:20 - Evolutionary pressure @10:56 - Hard to find people who can teach the rare skills to be High Value

@freedom4659

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for specifying those 3 parts

@pajdeg2831

4 жыл бұрын

@stealth797 @10:14. -Easy decisions hard life, Hard decisions easy life.. ..a lazy person wants the instant satisfaction versus a hard working person who aims/hope for a bigger reward in the future. btw. high value can have different meaning for different people.. high value for someone who can get benefits from you, high value for your family, high value because you're a kind and care taking person, looks, social status etc. When guys sort of "fake" high value I believe its equivalent to when woman fake youth and fertility with make up, dresses, sensual talk etc. You bet they don't like it, same as men don't like when that woman gets her cloth off and they see she's not what she advertised ..lol

@joyfulsavage9905

4 жыл бұрын

True.

@kishanchali8752

4 жыл бұрын

@@pajdeg2831 High value can be developed. Otherwise only a select group of men would be getting women. That's not the actual case.

@jabss7847

4 жыл бұрын

What are the high value skills according to Todd ?

You're like father we never had Todd

@prasathviswanathan267

4 жыл бұрын

So true man!

@jimbeam4140

4 жыл бұрын

you nailed it.

@patrykk9831

4 жыл бұрын

@Kish B. The idea is that most fathers teach nothing their sons. Most of them just want dominate or control. You see it as 18/25 years old and not as 7/8 or more

@jakechamberlain2206

4 жыл бұрын

Dude for real

@netdsrisakulwan

4 жыл бұрын

Thats so on point bro

Todd went from wearing a black t-shirt to no shirt at all!

@sovietdeathstroke6713

4 жыл бұрын

What you guys talking about? I only see the window screen

@DanteLikesRock

4 жыл бұрын

Lol wtf i dont get it

@dandcc9192

4 жыл бұрын

more like went from having a torso to not having a torso at all

Hopefully this dose of reality can be motivational for you, rather than an excuse to make excuses. Let me know your thoughts, and also any lessons or insights you've had from personal experience along these lines. Stay safe and make the most of this opportunity to work on yourself and your life.

@prasathviswanathan267

4 жыл бұрын

Is there any good playing chess?

@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027

4 жыл бұрын

lol thought you were gonna say "only one who cares about you being high value is you and maybe your mom" ; )

@jimbeam4140

4 жыл бұрын

@@melbango1 I get it. My two Gen Z daughters seem immune to inspiration and I feel helpless and it's very hard. I think Todd is more than a dating coach. So much of what he says is helpful far beyond dating but but because he's "just" a dating coach people can easily tune him out or dismiss him as misogynist. He's not. .He's actually an important voice on the internet and I put him up right up there with other important inspirational youtubers like Brene Brown, Jordan Peterson and Sam Harris. You trying to get your son to listen to him is admirable.

@krzysztofsmogorzewski-majc2266

4 жыл бұрын

Todd I love your content, but I strongly disagree on quote "The only person who wants you to be high value is you". On average there are many other people, that want you to be high value (I'm not saying they will help you get there), because you will be useful to them. On the other hand so many people are conditioned to think about themselves, as low value, that it is really hard for them to change- it's basically changing everything, even your family will treat you different. In the end I would say: The only person willing to put effort in making you high value is you! ;)

@onyxia2294

4 жыл бұрын

Its not in my nature to make excuses so its da other one :p

The end of your video can be summarised as "When the going gets tough, the tough get going".

@connorkonen5770

4 жыл бұрын

Varun Gawande holy shit that is such a good quote!

@cristal_spark

4 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/X6Jn1beQgpeshpc.html :D

@Kochos

4 жыл бұрын

not really dummy

@Trump-a-Tron

3 жыл бұрын

cringe af

@realivanberezin

3 жыл бұрын

You sound like Spook

F dating.. after watching this, I realised I need a life coach around..

@daniellugo6955

4 жыл бұрын

Good bro get your shit together.

@enriquerivas8578

3 жыл бұрын

Kippa DR : can i give u some free tips? Pamper yourself, its sounds corny but its the answer to everyone’s questions . See that everyone is of equally beautiful value and realize that romance is just a micro game inside life. Romance is of course conditional and resembles a marketplace where the set of rules (our combined “value” of: looks aka genetic health; personality aka emotional lifestyle and beliefs) define which product sells better. Let go of any need to achieve and see life is a blank canvas meant to be shared. We can do anything we want in life but the trick is in being a little frugal, a lot hedonistic, genuine 100%, and being easy on ourselves. There’s nothing to prove because all people are pretty much alike and all ideas come from the same source.

Women don’t want you to advance yourself. This is SO true. My ex girlfriend, who was a GREAT girlfriend otherwise flipped out when I decided to go to grad school. Did not support the effort at all. Seems crazy, but true.

@Thadon33

4 жыл бұрын

Bro, this is interesting. I didn’t realize this before. Did she just encourage you against furthering your education?

@sdes2841

4 жыл бұрын

I had a similar situation myself. My theory is that if you go to grad school, you won't have the money to fork out for an engagement ring any time soon, which annoys them.

@Thadon33

4 жыл бұрын

Maybe they feel like if you get that education, you’ll leave her for someone more educated

@richstevenson1

4 жыл бұрын

KZread Admin - Crazy, but true. She seemed to respect higher education before I decided to attend. In fact, I think the idea that I was an electrical engineer may have helped me get a date with her in the first place. I’m not saying she’s a Golddigger, but she ain’t messing with a broke fella 😉. When I think about it, the craziness started during the grad school application process. An otherwise perfect girlfriend started bitching that I was studying too much for the entry exams. After I was accepted, she started saying things like you’re a “Smarty art fellow now!” and “Mr Ivy League” and similar statements. She got really cranky all the time! Hey, just keep in mind that this is a thing!

@richstevenson1

4 жыл бұрын

@S Des I’d agree with you. I’d also add the “time rationing” associated with grad school (and the time not spent with her) may also be a factor. As you know, this is nuts!

"Oppressively difficult to be high value" Definitely true. I became high value. And i did it with a crap ton of suffering. Dealing with massive failures, and persevering. Years of discipline, taking big chances, and mostly succeeding. I worked while others partied, and when everyone passed around blame or fled, i stepped up. Sometimes i was the only one between success and failure. I had to make the difference personally to make projects and events succeed. I never got promoted until everyone else failed, then i stepped up, after the others fled. Used to be ignored by women, and treated poorly by some men. Now i command respect, both personally and professionally. But it took me constantly self improving from the age of 15 to the age of 30. Just remember, high value is relative. But any improvement is worthwhile.

@joyfulsavage9905

4 жыл бұрын

Congrats bro. Welcome to the 1%.

@enriquerivas8578

3 жыл бұрын

thisisn'tmyrealname : but wouldn’t you enjoy life more if you were easier on yourself ? You know, i did something similar to you for years but eventually renounced superficial “fame and glory” for living the life I truly cherished: being more time home, being more joyful 😀 and pampering my inner child 👶 daily. Do you think life was meant to be “won” by 1 out of millions? Maybe theres more to life than superficial success and others opinions of ourselves. Nowadays i prefer to 👏 at a movie on tv and live frugally than me being 👏 at just to feel accepted. It’s not a competition you see, it’s a vacation.

@konstantin7788

Жыл бұрын

@@enriquerivas8578 Congrats bro. Welcome to 99%.

@bigball6392

2 ай бұрын

I became high value without ton of suffering. Just: (discipline for consistency + right supportive teachers to work smarter not harder + utilizing natural advantages for that extra boost) * 6 years. Practicing optimistic constructive thinking helped a lot as a lubricant in this mechanism. I used methods from Martin Seligman's "Learned Optimism" book.

This was inspiring as hell

High Value Mind Set 1. Whether you have support or not, at the end of the day you are the only one to be accountable for your own actions and growth. 2. Difficulty refers to a challenge. Over coming a challenge leads to experience which makes your life easier. A good thing! 3. Find help, maybe hard work. Finding someone that is willing to teach you a skill will take time and sometimes money. Very nice outlook Todd!

Am I the only one who impressed every one of Todd's video is uncut? I'd like to know how you plan your videos

@OscarSegundo

4 жыл бұрын

Same! The way his brain functions is amazing 🧠 Thats how you know he really is about this life! He can go on and on.

@ajsuarez86

4 жыл бұрын

There’s some light cutting, but he can sure go off for 20 straight minutes while making sense throughout.

@diarmuidbrady8987

4 жыл бұрын

Theyre not uncut

@MarekGerlich

4 жыл бұрын

hey man this video is pure gold...just great

@antonboludo8886

4 жыл бұрын

Go to Mystery Method or RSD. They are teaching the same things since the early 2000s, which indeed work, BTW. These guys from 2020 are repeating things taught to them by their mentors from 20 years ago. The mentors are still fucking 20-year-old club chicks, by the way. They were the same age as the girls in 2000, but now these girl are no old, but these same guys are fucking girls who were not even born in 2000, haaaaa! xD

Perhaps one of the best videos I've ever seem on Self Help & improvement. Not only it is filled with valuable knowledge but also the way it is presented & organized is second to none. Thanks a lot for the video!

Omg what you said about women not wanting guys to go from low to high value is so true and harsh 🤯 never realized this. Thanks.

@thechiseledmovement9750

4 жыл бұрын

yeah its shocking af, coz i just re analyzed some situations in my mind

@enriquerivas8578

3 жыл бұрын

MauM / Mauro Miceli Consigli - Vivamos Mejor : Sounds harsh but it’s just fear, it’s like imagine not being sure if girl’s bodies are natural or implants, or buying a tv unable to tell if it was new or used and repaired. They want to make sure that we are solid and not some psycho behind our seducer facades.

@leedlbagginshield8492

Жыл бұрын

Yeah I have seen this in many married couples

Love this self-improvement material, man! I hope you come out with more stuff like this. Stay safe

Amazing video. This is so much more than just "dating" advice, you're throwing some deep anthropology concepts that I've haven't seen elsewhere.

If you don't fly your ship, somebody else will. No one will rescue you but yourself.

Thanks, this helped alot man. Sometimes its hard to persevere on a path like this, but this really helped strengthen my resolve.

You’re only going to grow if you test yourself and overcome the challenges .... love this guy. This video is spot on.

Solid Gold!! Best video of the month!! Kudos Todd!!

I'm staring at the crooked picture frame on the left hand side. As always Todd is blessing us with good game advice.

Awesome video 👏👏 One of your best, Todd! Would love to see more like it!

Thank you for making this video. The biggest part that struck home with me is how others in your life will often not support you becoming high value, even with the best intentions. Too often I've had friends and family who didn't support what my path towards growth (both in terms of Game and Otherwise), who didn't believe things were possible until I did them. To anyone else in a similar situation, I'd say truly believe in your own value, and while taking stupid risks is foolish don't be afraid to go out and prove to yourself who you really are.

Me: Yeah, that makes sense. **while eating snickers**

@einsteinidahosu1983

4 жыл бұрын

Ronit M Exactly I’m eating a big pizza.

@RobbySchechter

4 жыл бұрын

haha!

One of your best videos! In process of starting my 19th business at 60, perfect timing to see this video. Great motivational speech! The women come to you, fall all over you when you are striving to do big things, especially the younger ones, they can smell it. Absolutely correct that old female friends can be difficult when going into striving mode...

Man I was sorely in need of this video today. Thank you for putting all this effort in this video Todd. The last part really hit home. Also, the first part is a lot about intrasexual competition, a concept incredibly underreported and underrated.

Soooo true....Todd is the only guy so far that talks reality in such a clear way

Thanks for the video, Todd. It helped clarify a question in my mind, and give an answer.

Thank you for all you have given us Todd!

Excellent ideas! This will help so many people in facing this kind of situation. Proud of your work as always!

holy shit... inspired! thank you Todd! iv had mentors who I followed, give up in their journey to becoming high value because they found it too difficult (or whatever their reason was).. instead of moaning about it, I took it as a sign that if these ''mentors'' who I looked up to quit but I am still going, it makes me believe i am stronger than i thought i was... its exciting when people give up (not in a hateful way) because if I'm still moving forward with courage, i know i am on the right path... never give up 🙌

These are straight facts. Good work Todd.

Hell yeah Todd. Potentially your best video ever.

Todd, I must say, I really appreciate your work. You offer some really great advice. Keep it up dude!

Thank you for being my dad Todd.

This guy is the most wise person that I know, more than billionaires and most famous people, teachers, family

Answer: Because you can't descend into High Value

Thank you for posting. I really enjoyed this and found it to be inspiring!

Love the video/content. I just needed it now so badly!

I needed to hear that , thank you

Thanks Todd, came at a good time 😊

Your articulation is your greatest attribute todd

Thank for the awesome content Todd!

Thanks a lot just when I felt pretty discouraged. This helps me a lot. Staying in the game!💪👍

So much great, wise, and non polarizing advice.. Todd just dumping bucketfulls of positive vibes into our world. Long live Todd

You are a gift to this world Todd!!

Great video. I like the opportunity & inspirational approach you have. Encouraging. Keep up the good work man.

Exceptionally well explained. Great content as usual. I'd just like to add... I was dyslexic as a kid, bottom of the class. I ended up in a VERY well paid, exciting, glamorous job travelling the world first class and staying in top hotels, all paid for by my employer. Dyslexia taught me to work hard and believe in myself. I stuck doggedly to my passion. But I didn't have the internet as a distraction until I was already killing it at 35. The web can really suck away your time, work on skills and passions, the web is a tool for that. Lastly, take a holistic approach with incremental improvement on all fronts all the time. It really pays off. PS Don't trust BigTech.

@kishanchali8752

4 жыл бұрын

Can you elaborate on what you developed? What did you learn?

@cosmotect

4 жыл бұрын

"lastly, take a holistic approach with incremental improvements on all fronts." By this, do you mean diversifying skillsets? Because I have also been told to master a single craft. Which I find to be difficult, as it gets boring after a while. Right now I do 3D, music, game development, and also slowly taking up standup. Shifting focus allows me to stay interested in all of those, but the progress seems slow

@fuzzypanda1684

Жыл бұрын

I'd love to know what you do. For many, many years I was crazily ambitious. I'd take every chance I found, stayed hours after I'd clocked out, spent my lunch break researching and learning new skills, and even put together a presentation for my bosses when our company was struggling, highlighting areas I thought we could move into and take advantage of using our ability to maneuver quickly since we were a smaller company. In every instance, my ambition was met with either apathy or outright squashed by managers who I'm pretty sure were threatened by my assertiveness. I was constantly told to stop standing out so much and stop trying so hard. No matter what I did, success eluded me while my far lazier colleagues thrived and were promoted. After being fired from yet another job I decided to stop trying so hard and just go where the universe takes me. That was 3 years ago and I've been out of work since. Now I cannot find a job or get my foot in any doors. You had everything working against you and succeeded, I had everything working in my favor and failed, I'd really like to know how you found success.

@LOGOASSASSIN

Жыл бұрын

@@fuzzypanda1684 TV commercials. A lot of them for premium cars like Audi. This one won a Cannes Silver... kzread.info/dash/bejne/m3-hu9NplcS0aLg.html

@filipbelciug

Жыл бұрын

​@@fuzzypanda1684 that's sad bro and I don't know your fights. But I do know what I'd do if I were you. I think it's time to ask yourself some really tough and ugly questions, like: 'Have I come across as a zealous while delivering that presentation?' 'Were there other interests at play?' (Maybe the lazy guys that got promoted are friends with the boss, etc) You must reflect on the possible mistakes you've made, or the kind of environment that sabotaged you (in case you don't believe u made any mistakes) and analyze why that happened to you. And develop solutions for it.... otherwise it'll most likely repeat in the future and you want to break free once and for all from this. PS, don't give up bro. My best victories in life came from my worst moments in life

Thank you for the video amazing advice, I have been pushing my comfort to become more high value during this quarantine and I have to reach out to some people for research and I have been afraid of doing that step but you said it best do the hard thing emotionally to become high value, thanks man

Thank you for supporting people around the world, greetings from Serbia :)

This couldn't of come at a better time! Saved to my favourites

Very good….I realise now that I’m lowering the value of myself to be with somebody who does not see me as high value….thank u👍

10.15 “Hard choices, easy life. Easy choices, hard life.” quote by Jerzy Gregorek. Athlete, coach, trainer.

Hey @Todd. Thank you. Video was very effective for me.

Great video as always! -JP

Yo Todd, just know you inspire many ppl in life to try to overcome fear. Cheers brother!

You are right about EVERY SINGLE THING YOU SAID! I hope more men listen to you and follow this advice.

Todd, I've seen watched a lot of stuff on youtube, this video was the most groundbreaking I've ever watched though.

Wow THX TOD!!! It is really clear to me now!

Great content, as always. Thanks Todd! You did a video with acronyms for the guys proper behavior and a matching one for the girls response to it. I can’t find that video and I LOVED it. I think the acronym for the guys was “frame”. Thank you Todd! And when will verbal game academy be ready?! I’m so ready for it. The System is excellent and I’m very excited for Verbal Game.

second video i watched the first thing you said in this one was so factual i subbed instantly!

Shit's tough. Shit's very very tough sometimes. Thank you Todd.

Take control of your life and purpose!! Always directed intention!!!! Take your mind to the next level

so much truth and motivation, thanks Todd

You nailed it, Todd.

Have you ever done a video about your background, education, steps to where you are now? You give more useful, practical advice than any shrink I've ever seen. I would love to know the story of the ingredients and events that shaped you into who you are.

@chriscarter3742

4 жыл бұрын

I've thought the same and I think a lot of it is due to his upbringing and being well read. He's said before his dad would make him go in the basement and read X amount before he could go socialize with his friends, just shows how powerful good parenting can be.

@CptAngelKGaming

4 жыл бұрын

Stop looking for canned steps to success in books and whatever. There is no explanation for why he's who he is. Same for similar people. This is just the way their brain functions. If you're smart and you take interest in how things work and are willing to take action, this is what happens.

@youwilllaugh3136

10 ай бұрын

Maybe it's because skrinks don't have actual life experiences

Oh my. Hats off for making that comment about women being scared of men increasing their value over period of time because it kinda reminded me a few such situations and it's really the case. Especially like you said: "they have a canvas and they learn to categorize and tell the high from low value" and if in a way break the pattern their system starts grinding I now recall so many situations where either my sister, my female friends or even the girls I met again after some time would get angry everytime I did something high value where "it shouldn't be so"

Gold, Todd! Describes a situation I’ve been having with my parents and I’ve found that few people understand this!

Great video. Thanks, Todd. Dope polo dude... I realized my mother and sister are my biggest adversaries to becoming high value. I have to totally no contact my entire family. Maybe when I’m where I want to be years later we can reconnect, maybe...

Boom let's go with Quarantine Todd

Not even exaggerating, every man should see this video.

3:59 - This is TRUTH! What I love about it is that people can continue to test you and you can USE THEM as a way to become stronger. If others test you and try to bring you down but you’re STEADFAST and continuing to GROW, you’ll be unbreakable and unstoppable!

love this specific vid very deep,inspire and motivate

When I entered high school, I wasn't popular or anything, but I became close friends with this girl who liked me throughout grade 9. Looking back, I see how she dissuaded me from persuing popularity and other girls through shit tests and getting me afraid of embarrassing myself, eventhough deep down I knew that if I persued popularity and other girls, I would be successful (after a learning curve). She reinforced the part of me that wanted to remain comfortable and went against the part of me that was a risk taker, and it is fully my fault for trusting her opinions over mine. I never realized that what she did was shit test until now. Never trust anyone elses opinions over yours, live your life on your own decisions because if you don't, youll be like me constantly thinking back and wondering what if

@filipbelciug

Жыл бұрын

Had a similar situation but not cause of trusting a girl but trusting my very religious parents. I asked myself 'what if' many times, looking back at my high school years where I've seen I had great potential. But I managed to recreate that at my work through proactively building relationships on humor and trust and now I'm seen as popular lol My conclusion: never give up, you only have 1 life so you might as well make the most of it PS you can't change the past but you can learn from it and use those insights to make yourself an awesome present

Great advice, without enough high-value behaviors it will be very hard to achieve more than average in life and biz...

Definitely inspired. Thank you

What an insight that complicated vs hard is! I've always wondered why I just love getting beat up, exhausted, cold and fucked up and have no problem dealing with that, but when it comes down to do a even a mildly complex thing, I just don't want to. I'm not an idiot, I just don't want to fill out forms. I always want 0 complexity and maximum hardship. It has left me a fucking wreck at times and I've always wondered why I can persist through almost inhuman shit, but don't want to have anything to do with things that involve other people or managing things to make it happen. People are complicated and managing is boring. I was lifting rocks out of a field just yesterday. I love that shit.

The fact that you pop up on my KZread makes me feel deeply blessed. I believe you have an amazing impact on the health of the dating world 🎉✌️🌍✨

By far one of your best videos I looked this up and I’m watching it again because things have been difficult lately and it was getting me to a point where I started feeling down about stuff till I remembered it’s time to do something about it so while I’m working out I’m listening to this video and it certainly is not making me depressed it’s making me motivated

@fuzzypanda1684

Жыл бұрын

These videos used to motivate the crap out of me, now the depress the crap out of me because as I'm listening, I realize that I've learned everything they're saying and have spent years implementing it, yet I still somehow fail across the board. Nothing is more depressing that hearing "once you start doing this and see results, you'll realize how easy it is", meanwhile you're like, I've been doing this for years and haven't gotten any results.

This video is the one thats making me subscribe

Todd, are an absolute legend. Thank you for not turning into shit with the rest of RSD.

Being high value means you are in pursuit of your passions regardless of what other people think. It's a rewarding journey with many highs and lows. If you waited for the appropriate time to attack or hunt food years ago, you would have died of starvation first. When men began hunting in groups and began coordinating the attacks, survival rates skyrocketed.

Thank you Todd.

Absolutely amazing video

This video is pure gold.

Ive always enjoyed a good challenge and i know that the things worth having isnt easy to obtain. So hearing Todd say this stuff i feel gives me a lot more inspiration to become the man i want to be and that other people will loke and respect

Wow. This is a great one.

I like your videos. You are very intelligent and well-spoken.

This is Todd's best video

Well Todd. You are definitely inspiring me right now. Let’s keep going. This is a reality call for everyone. Who are you going to be?

I feel like the dangers of value chasing should have been mentioned, especially considering "high value" is extremely relative. For someone who grew up with nothing acheiving 6 figs/yr could be considered a monumental achievement for them, while other guys are low millionaires and don't consider themselves worth shit and strive to be high millionaires/billionaires. Same for fitness. When I was young, I told myself if I could bench 250lbs I'd be the shit. Now much older, I can bench 275 and have simply moved the goal post to 300... While it is good to constantly strive to better yourself, know that "high value" is hyper relative and subjective and you should also strengthen your inner character to love yourself with the condition you are currently in.

@CE-vd2px

4 жыл бұрын

Very glad to hear that. Im 25 and have experienced my first set of "moving the goalposts" and it feels like Im a loser or not going anywhere in life. Ive put in work and need to enjoy the fruits or risk wasting my life in paranoia

@enriquerivas8578

3 жыл бұрын

Jake Payne : this is number one advice most people should know, so happy you’ve nailed it. The term “high value” needs to be replaced in the community We need to understand romance is just a micro game in life, and life as a macro game is meant to be a fun joyful ride There’s obviously generalized goals as humans, survival and thriving being the most common given that we don’t want to die, but the thing is, it’s way easier to survive nowadays without being a king or the leader of the pack. There’s plenty for everyone. The wisest and easiest way of being an “alpha male” nowadays is just to embrace our personal favorite hobbies/ foods/work and being so full of joy that we’re always in a good mood, inspired, joyful and fulfilled It’s not about accomplishments more so than aligning to genuine lifestyles So, being a “beta male”/“loser” is all about not really valuing life’s varied fun and valuing us strictly as products. Unable to see there’s room for millions of sexy, healthy, fun men and women and relationships without the toxic, foolish and obsessive impulse to outcompete everyone.

@SomebodyFromEarth

2 жыл бұрын

Verry true

@salembeats1875

Жыл бұрын

For real I don’t wanna start a business lol I tried it once but it didn’t work out.

instantly seen that picture and wanted to fix it

This man is as real as a preacher right now 👍

Love your channel

Very well articulated 👌🏻

I’ve always wondered about this. I have close friends that are girls and whenever I tell them about my dating life, they are always telling me how I shouldn’t be meeting girls in public. They always say, “you don’t even know her, why are you trying to go on a date with her,” or, “you’re not being yourself,” or, “just get a girlfriend by being friends with her for a while and then asking her out,” 😂. Also, Incase you’re wondering, my guy friends say the exact same thing. So people really don’t want you to do better in general. I just love the bad advice that I get. It’s not like I haven’t tried being friends with a girl lol.

@thecoltsamuel8010

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly, I think most people simply don’t know what the hell they’re talking about. Society has put limits on what is deemed acceptable and they only reinforce those limits on themselves and others. Never listen to anybody that so willingly accepts mediocrity just for the sake of fitting in. These people are destined to be followers so they would never understand. Let them have their safe, boring lives and rejoice in the amount of opportunity coming your way. No need to rub it in, you’ll be so far ahead it wouldn’t matter

@connorkonen5770

3 жыл бұрын

@@thecoltsamuel8010 damn those are true words my friend. thanks for that!

@pecoguy

2 жыл бұрын

It's may be not doing better, but "doing something" because rules in real life =/= rules of according to society. Women have too much choice compared to men. Don't let them women fuck us with online dating, while asking us to still be traditionnal in our pursue, when they are NOT traditionnal in their choice.

@rishidaryanani5098

Жыл бұрын

I would stop talking to your friends about your dating life.

@adamkuc9440

Жыл бұрын

Daring tips from women is the worst thing. It’s like “work for 50 years and you will be fine” no, it’s a dead end.

In short my friends, YOU CAN DO IT!! 😎

Lots of good advice here. Very “Robbins-esque”

spot. on. Every word is 110% true. My family on both sides grew up poor. My dad decided he was going to make something of himself and went into tech and he succeeded but he decided to leave his family behind (and me to) to pursue those dreams and succeed at becoming the first family millionaire. Spent it all then died lol. Not mad at him, he did his thing and his company survives without me. He thought I was a loser and didn't want me in his company /shrug. What gets me upset is that I wanted to become a high value guy too but everyone not only chastised me but tried to pull me back down. I was tired of the way life was because I too had the same skillset as my father, not just an ego. Able to network like no other and understand technology like no other as well as be able to talk to be and bring passion to the table and get everyone excited. What I did not expect was everyone in my family and all my friends not only NOT wanting me to become high value but taking active steps to sabotage the process to make sure I fell back down. Tugging on the rope and trying to break rocks while climbing the mountain to prove that its not possible. This was the one thing I wish I had known about. It would have made the process easier and I would have dropped them all in heartbeat and saved myself so much pain and heartache. Eventually all my friends and family left me alone and exiled me. At this point its just easier to climb to the top of the mountain and deal with the last of the challenges instead of going back down. For me I was done with the bs and just start googling for solutions on my computer after work everyday. Other people were successful and were not pyramid scheme artists so I could be too. Digging through the TONS of bad mentors was another challenge all its own. Took awhile to get calibrated and sift through all the snake oil salesmen to finally find what I knew was good material.

The fact that you did this entire video without it ending with some "gueranteed" paid program promo to become the high-value is reason enough to justify a sub. Great video, man.