More student infields like this would be great!!! It’s a lot easier to identify problems

@BeeTB1

6 жыл бұрын

Christian Romano true!

@peterg3947

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed, the problem with watching Todd's infield is he is so smooth I feel like I can't be like that so I don't feel like I learn much because I just can't pull off what he's doing. But watching guys struggle and make mistakes and have Todd explain what they are doing wrong, is so much easier for me to relate to.

@mac8485

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed. I feel like Todd's infields are so smooth you can't even tell what he's even doing.

@SwagMuffin567

4 жыл бұрын

Christian wyd here😂

@GGGmod1

4 жыл бұрын

@@peterg3947 Watching these guys is stressing me out. It's difficult to see this to me for some reason.

Seeing Todd's analysis of beginner infield is actually more helpful to me than Todd's own infield. Because when I'm out I THINK I'm doing what Todd does and I don't understand what's going wrong, and seeing this is like - oh... that's what I'm actually doing. Those girls responses look really familiar.

The dude is masterful at teaching this

@filmbuff4

6 жыл бұрын

trial and error

@animal0mother

6 жыл бұрын

In night game, RSD Julien Blanc > Todd VanDeHey, but god damn if Todd can't teach it so much more concisely. Unequaled.

@yesweepen288

6 жыл бұрын

Yes, but without master the inner game all these techniques are useless.

@animal0mother

6 жыл бұрын

yesweepen As evidenced by a time that I was hanging with a chick while we were both naked and she positioned herself so I was literally between her legs and I still didn't fuck her, yeah. You're not going to fuck if your inner game is shot to hell.

@80slimshadys

5 жыл бұрын

animal0mother true that dude, I had a girlfriend years ago when i was a teenager that would want me to fuck her and i would be laying with her making out, and i would always get a phone call from my parents telling me to come home every night when i was at her house and she would be begging me to stay and i would sit there up to like 15 mins saying no i gotta go or my dad will kick my ass while in that time, every time i could of fucked her then left, but didn't because i was afraid to take my shirt off in front of people, i eventually fucked her...but with my shirt on lmao, 2 minutes in her friend comes to the door and interrupts us, and that was the first and last time i had sex fml

Takeaways: #1 Get to the point (premise / man-to-woman) or else she thinks 1) you are scared of it 2) you are shady, manipulative or have an agenda #2 Get to the point in a subtle way: you and the girl have some kind of relationship developping Beginner mistakes: *Tonality (ending the sentences like a question) *walking behind her => creepy, uncomfortable for her, you following/chasing her; instead walk beside or in front of her *question after question => putting her on a pedestal (=> you are low value, not interesting and a burden), asking her to provide interesting stuff instead of providing something interesting yourself, she has no idea who you are (is this a cool guy? what are his opinions?); instead make assertions, statements, opinions, teasing *you need PREMISE (man-to-woman), e.g. "hey, you're interesting/cute", "we are not gonna get along" instead of platonic conversation... keep up the threshold for enough premise *if you establish the premise too late, she has already decided that you are low value, a burden etc. *if you start direct, don't switch to platonic conversation

@jackassfat

5 жыл бұрын

Number #3 : Be ready for spouse and child supports and weekly family courts meet ups!

that guy is obsessed with talking about yoga

@js83

5 жыл бұрын

Got a feeling that he likes to do Yoga and Therapy at the same time.

@chrisossa2022

5 жыл бұрын

Lolol.. Thought the same thing! Hmmm... Yoga fetish?

@barrona6314

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@marcuscross8051

5 жыл бұрын

@@chrisossa2022 There's nothing wrong with yoga. It's a good opportunity to perv at women bending over in tight clothes.

@critical8294

5 жыл бұрын

yoga girls usually have their shit together or are married sluts.

The first student video was so hard to watch but it was very necessary to see because it gives insight in a way of experience more than like reading a book fantastic Todd you just keep upping the standard this I don't know how but you are on to something man! Thank you and I think I speak for everybody when I say fucking thank you!!!

@jesusramos2231

6 жыл бұрын

Hurrifan C. Yeah it was painful and cringy af. Much respect to them for having the balls, though.

@Mentosfresh132

6 жыл бұрын

Also a good reminder that everyone starts somewhere. I bet 90% of us starting out may have been much much worse than that :*). I remember starting out so bad I froze after my opens xD. However in a way this does make it easier to identify what problems we all may be having and to see what to NOT do.

@hurrifanc.3434

6 жыл бұрын

Mind Despot for sure kudos to them

@jackscar1890

6 жыл бұрын

Mind Despot Q

@warrenneilpillay2697

6 жыл бұрын

If you find it cringy it simply means you see part of yourself in it

I never get rejected at all.. cause I dont approach.

@fahrudincatic7363

6 жыл бұрын

Cumpilations impressive ....teach me lol

@adomede

5 жыл бұрын

Cumpilations I bet that’s the only way to never get rejected.

@donathanharris4230

5 жыл бұрын

1.987.200 i thought i was going to click read more and read.... the chloroform takes care of that.... or some other terribly hilarious/inappropriate punch line

@avisco01

5 жыл бұрын

Just wait for them to come to you....BALLER!

@onee

5 жыл бұрын

Mr. I know If you never shoot you'll never score. But you will also never miss. ;)

learned more from this 20 minutes than from 6 hours of tyler rants

Humans calculate social interactions so quickly, when you can read the code in the matrix you are basically a super hero.

I really like the "student infield" cuz they relate more to us normal pick up guys, cuz we make those kinds of mistakes as Well. Very creative Tod. It will really bring new clients with this material.

Yo wtf that's calfreezy at 0:05 😂 the odds of that happening

@CondemnedLegacy

6 жыл бұрын

Haha yeah that’s fucking amazing, didn’t even notice😂

@jphnlol4499

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@chrisossa2022

5 жыл бұрын

Holy crap how you even recognize that guy. I actually had to look up the word calfreezy lol

@adammm321

5 жыл бұрын

No way

@br4ndyaw4l

5 жыл бұрын

bro I thought you kidding HOLY SHIT

Wow, I remember watching this a year ago, and having no clue how to fix the students' situations, I was even worse than them. Now I could comfortably note the mistakes and have thoughts of my own about how to fix them. Keep working guys, and most importantly go out, and approach. If you don't approach it's a no anyway, but a no you'll never learn from. Oh and of course, thank you Todd!

When Todd explains game everything makes sense and falls into place.

I think it's better to stop a girl if you can, if you normally walk relaxed and slow you are going to have to speed up to stay ahead of her, it looks and feels terrible, of course you can stop a girl, get hook point and then walk as now you can control her pace as she isn't just going to speed off

Amazing how Todd breaks it down on how to approach if your a Newbee or intermediate in game.

A lot of the rejections you're getting are very easily avoidable and/or fixable. A lot of them aren't even technical in nature, they just involve understanding what's going on, and caring enough to do something about it. The understanding part I can definitely help with ;)... systembytodd.com/preview for more

I love this kind of detailed social analysis. It's so detailed and spot on, and it relates to every aspect of social interaction, not just dating.

that guy dressed like Tommy from vice city lmao

Wats the difference between a hot Yoga and Normal Yoga? Girl: Hot Yoga is hotter. 😂😂😂😂

@jackassfat

5 жыл бұрын

Hot yoga is juicier, is wet..is runny and lubricant...normal yoga is dry !

@michaelserdaris3507

4 жыл бұрын

@@jackassfat And that's why you ain't getting no pussy

@nakladanycandat1128

4 жыл бұрын

I would say smth lime: So its for hotter people or it is becouse of the heat?

I enjoy your comments and commentary on videos. From my two decades of trying to talk to women, getting dates, and getting rejections, what I have learned kind of aligns with what you teach and talk about.

I really like this video. I feel like I make a lot of these mistakes. I found Hearing Todd break these sets down was a lot more helpful than just watching guys who know what they're doing. Thanks for the video!

Man, I literally felt pain while watching Student infields... It was like jumpscares in cute kitten videos.

Very insightful.... Just got out of a 16 year relationship and so I've been out of the game for so long, these videos are very refreshing and insightful...

Brain: u cant just approach her Me: hold my anxiety.

Your infield videos are extremely valuable. Thank you for sharing Todd!

TODD this is one of your best videos. Thanks. Day game, great set up, clear audible sets and perfect analysis. Agreed they make several basic mistakes. Neither seems to have any real character or emotion to speak of. Makes me realise I'm a lot better, probably due to a lot more experience. The first guy is also at a disadvantage due to his height compared to the girl. I rarely do walk withs, can't get eye contact. Better to do a front stop or stationary due to compliance. Or even better situational openers. Finding them is the tricky thing, you can't do them in a lot of shops due to cock block staff and most women hang out in women's shops.

better than RSD platitudinous content.

@decrepitCrescendo

4 жыл бұрын

Better than RSD's platitudes. Brevity bro.

It's not easy cold approaching when you're a beginner without any prior experience. You need to establish the premise quickly, show her your personality, and keep things entertaining and engaging her. Questions are needed to get information, but can't be used too much. The girl will quickly judge your whole package, like appearance, body language and tonality, and make a decision whether or not she likes you enough to continue the interaction.

Thanks Tod. I'm gonna learn from mistakes. I love that your a coach that can simply, and clearly express the Dos and Donts in ways everyone can understand

Hey Todd. We really like you BREAKDOWN infield videos. This is really unique and usefull. Hope to see more of it in the future! It shows reference experience which are similar and I can immediately relate and correct by these videos. Thanks

Amazing content as always Todd keep it up ! I would like to say approaching seems very scary especially if you can't ask much questions and need to come up with statements, opinions, teases and stuff out of the blue.. that can be really hard especially if your nervous :( practice i guess.. !

Good vid content Todd. Showing us actual breakdown of real approaches is very helpful. I notice that when I give a statement like " excuse me, hi I don't mean to bother you but I see you here and..( insert premise statement)." It seems like it may disarm them a bit and actually maybe look at you as empathetic to the uncomfortableness she feels that accompanies cold approach. You don't want her to feel your interview her for a job she isn't applying for w ?'s. Statement s are best, usually. In a way too many questions convey neediness. Also, validation is what we all seek. If she doesn't see the value in you validating her w your attention than she will dismiss you. That's why showing higher value behavior will make her want to get your validation/ attention perhaps prompting her to invest in the interaction. I' ve been working on this big-time in my life. Starting to see results after many references lol. I would love to be part of something like Todd does- like his team I mean. Anyways, im learning and just telling what I've seen work for me.

Love this page. Even videos of you are so sloppy, but that's how it is. It's not scripted James Bond movie interactions. And that's how ALL the other dating coaches teach it. This is real advice that I can actually implement. Cause I dont feel super personable all the time, and I dont exude confidence. But I don't need to. I can be natural, little nervous, not pumped or happy or whatever and still pickup chicks by having a simple conversation with a little bit of awareness of navigating the situation. So helpful and a relief too. If I go out 100 nights, maybe 10 of them I'm feeling amazing and confident and pumped and sociable. But I can be successful with this low key method. Good stuff.

Thanks por showing us some rejections as well, I'm kinda tired of seeing pure badass pickups, we all know that's pretty much unreal

Super high value content. Its always good to learn from a master but equally you need to learn from mistakes.

Do more student infield, I think it is easier to learn what you are doing wrong than what you need to do right

I like how (from what i can tell) in Tods system the question isnt about direct vs indirect but of graduating from direct as a beginner to indirect at more advanced levels because it requires more subtlety...

I can now clearly see my mistakes in throughout each of the individuals. Time to go to work on this! Thanks Todd.

Awesome Todd. Love student infield breakdown, very helpful, snd your explanations are super clear

Damn, how I missed your stuff till now? You are probably the only pua that can help me out of my "particular" condition...

This video was golden, I'm surprised you gave away all that advice for free!! Can't wait to buy The System!

Todd, I can't believe you put my favorite Aphex Twin song in the intro! Huge respect!

It's a gold mine. This video = 500 kg of gold. I would love to see more student in fields than the advance game of anyone. So much to learn from such stuff.

This is the best video ever! THANKS. Please More student infields like this would be great!!! It’s a lot easier to identify problems

thats's really a great stuff that you posted here. If you could post a series of mistakes that new rookies commit, can be a lot helpful to people like me. Thanks Todd.

Really loved the student infield breakdown; so interesting to see all the mistakes that I must have been making all these years!

Dude I literally had that Aphex Twin track open in another tab and couldn't figure out why it was playing... I'm pleasantly surprised Todd.

Dude, this is so fing hard, the whole pickup thing. I watched almost every video out there of yours, and others, and all of rsd, and even more after that, and I feel worse now than ever before. wtf I feel pain

@user-zn7re1qo8n

5 жыл бұрын

I too feel your pain

damn you're such a great teacher how accurate are you with all the details, it feels like you have learnt from those same mistakes and improve

That was awesome...love the student infield breakdown.

These student breakdowns are very helpful.

You should make more videos like this. Great way to teach

I swear tod you know how to explain very well the game thanks homie keep it up 👍

Both times, the girl tried to walk super fast away from him. I don't think we should be overly analyzing this. Both girls have zero interest and they both wanted to get away from him.

@jeffycrew5084

6 жыл бұрын

yea but they could have still been flipped and got them interested.. that's the point. Getting advanced comes with getting girls that are initially not interested from the start , interested.

@Xtazieyo

6 жыл бұрын

Maybe they didnt care at all, maybe advanced game would have changed that - we dont know! Whats definitely true is that he comes across quite cringy and low value compared to someone like Todd (If you watch his infield for example). Its like another universe when you compare those 2 vibes - and girls will respond very different obviously!

@FelOld

6 жыл бұрын

Brian Da

@Zacksleeps

6 жыл бұрын

''Getting advanced comes with getting girls that are initially not interested from the start , interested.'' - I'm not sure that's really possible. She needs that base level of attraction towards you before you can get her (like how Mark manson spoke about yes girls, no girls and maybe girls). Even Julien in his infields where a girl is initially super uninterested doesn't get the girls. The closest i've seen him 'flip' a girl was that rude LA girl who was basically ignoring him who he eventually got too at least smile, but he never banged her. You just can't force a girl to be attracted to you with 'game'

@Xtazieyo

6 жыл бұрын

You need to become way more subtle than this. What do you mean with "base level attraction"? Is it that you are somewhat her type? Is it that you are not extremely ugly? It definitenly happens that a girl who was initially not attracted to you can become so through your personality/game etc. Not every girl obviously, there are some out there who wont give a shit about you even if you are super advanced in game - but denying that this plays a role is also very stupid. I have had women calling me "balding" or "weird looking" and I still banged them - it happens. There will always be a part of the social interaction you cant control but with a skill like game you can put the numbers MASSIVELY into your favor. You could argue that this one or some of Todds students are better looking/younger/more athlethic than him - but guess who gets the girl most of the time?

Todd bro u gotta do more videos like this this is it!!!!

Awesome vid Todd. Thanks for sharing. Btw nice haircut!.

Nice aphex twin usage

@Moviemaniac221

5 жыл бұрын

What's the name?

@huntrayisabeast16

5 жыл бұрын

Xtal is the song name

@anton3773

5 жыл бұрын

totally unexpected - in a good way

You are freaking awesome todd

summing this is.. mindfulness. this whole video is true mindful and beautiful layout of the concept.

please post more student infields with explanation, there are amazing

Splendid video. You should do more of these please

Great break down bro I hope u break more videos down like this

Todd Love your stuff. You're my number 1 guy whenever it comes to elevating myself with women. But slightly off script is there any way that you can possibly bless us with a playlist of the songs in your videos opening

Great infield brake down. please do more of these

Respect the guy for going for it

Damn that blonde in the intro tho

@ThePresentation010

5 жыл бұрын

@cyb3rpunk 2077 his mom

@jackassfat

5 жыл бұрын

she is my ex.

It's coming home boys

@jonnyvelocity

6 жыл бұрын

But she's not coming home with this guy.

@SuperLipapa

6 жыл бұрын

Robert Akerele imagine the scenes if England win ⚽️🥇🏆

@GodSavedMe.

6 жыл бұрын

For France maybe

@SuperLipapa

6 жыл бұрын

The Senate that Belgium team tho, u never know what they can do

@Vaz_Arm

6 жыл бұрын

C’est vient à la maison

Yo Todd. U nailed this video

Are you spending time in England recently? Any tours over here going on?

That's almost exactly what I do. But I usually bring up video games, movies or the environment around me to get an idea what type of person she is.

Hey Todd, thanks for that video! What was the name of the song at the end of the video?

I love how you jump up and down while explaining. You remind me of Gordon Ramsey and his mannerisms when he speaks. 🏆

you say you cant be too overt or too obvious with premise so how does JP make it work where he shows a lot of intent, over the top things just being straight up from the open? very curious

@ToddVDating. I'm more like Mode 2 where I show strong premise from the start, but I still haven't worked out how to make it a win for her and get her chasing. Can you PLEASE cover this concept in detail in the system! PS: How would you have answered that last girl when she said "I have a boyfriend"?

Hey Todd, i'd love to see a frame controll manifesto from you! That's in my eyes one of the few real key elements to pick up - yet it is rarely ever disussed Just search KZread.. it's riduculous how there is almost nothing of quality available to cover this search term

I have zero game, I just can not do it. When I don't approach I don't get rejected, I don't want to feel like shit at the end of the day.

@nehemiahmontague8921

5 жыл бұрын

Davon Da_God lets do this together bro I’ll do approaches to and get rejected with you!

Newb here. Gonna go out and have some fun. Thanks for these vids and the free content. 🤘

The funny thing here, Todd, is that this video itself got to the point, rather than beating around the bush like some other pickup gurus..

Woow, hey! I've heard that intro song before!! Oh my god, which one is it? Amazing sound

More student infield breakdowns please!!!

Ha! Nice playing three lions football's coming home, and thanks for the quality vid as usual Todd.

So logical and insightful! Thank you!

@RyanScarbrough

6 жыл бұрын

Incredibly insightful! Holy crap!!!

Hello Todd, could you iclude a good example at the end of these breakdowns? It is great to see what someone does wrong, but then guys are like "ok, so what do I do instead then?". And you would just show a clip of a student who got the number, break it down in 1 minute.

Just out of curiosity is there a summary section after each video in the system.

Is there gonna be a rejection vid of you in The System?

Can you post your worse sets Todd? Would really Help

I am that interview mode guy! I just managed to push myself daily to approach and my biggest sticking point is vibing/storytelling as opposed to get into interview mode. What is a good way to get out of this? I know it's all about self amusement but what kind of babysteps are the right to take if my game is on the level of those students?

What’s the song at the intro and outro?

Todd lost weight . video was too epic thank you

You are not only good at game. You are good at teaching too.

To be honest, I feel like the two students could use alot less lessons in game, and alot more in social intelligence...

@Jemand-if5dj

6 жыл бұрын

J.Les Project Game lessons are social intelligence lessons...

@infinity2012rmx

6 жыл бұрын

Hahaha yeah that "what therapy" part killed me

@wariswrong4920

5 жыл бұрын

Not only that, the second one needed to have had at least a year of business experience and PR experience before trying to pick up someone with such experience

@folatooreal8582

5 жыл бұрын

War Is Wrong or he could divert form that premise all together and move I to another topic

Why does he keep talking about yoga with girls? Granted the first one WAS going to yoga? It seemed like he had a script in his mind.

Todd please show us how to establish and keep premise the proper way

1. get to the point in a way that take account of her experience. that you and her have something special. 2. make more of statement than question. 3.make assertion rather than question. 4. its better to start with premise, and if you did you just need to maintain it. 5. walk beside & front rather than behind 6. rapport, share your story 7. dont portray playerish, make her feel its special. 8. more subtle and frequent premise

What do you think about an opener where you ask a girl for unusual favor?

Quick question: How do you avoid asking questions? What would be examples of things you would say that aren't questions?

@pbot2029

6 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure, but a friend who is good with women once told me, talk about something that you think is interesting.

@TheGkmasta

6 жыл бұрын

Statements, commands and exclamations

@pbot2029

6 жыл бұрын

TheGkmasta thanks man!

@Itsabet422

6 жыл бұрын

Make assumptions and guesses instead of questions. Technically, any question can be turned into a statement: “where are you from?”--“you seem more like a Midwest type, so I’m guessing you weren’t born here”. Or “what do you do for work?--“I bet you’re a nurse or teacher, you have that vibe”.

@hexadecimal5236

6 жыл бұрын

Param Bhattacharyya I have tried this, but getting girls to jump in on anything intellectual is difficult, I find it better to think of something that you would talk to a five year old girl about, for example, Ponies.

This dude teaches me stuff that I somehow feel like I have known all my life.

@victorespino5650

5 жыл бұрын

You do know. We all know, but knowing and doing are different.

this is pretty funny.... I think the simplest form of advice is, remember that you are the prize in these interactions.

As an African American, I feel like you should transcend knowledge beyond your skin color. That is how you achieve mastery. Great advice Todd.

Solid, as always.