This video is a prime example on why you should never take rejection seriously. You can be the most good looking guy, have the fattest wallet and the most charming personality but if you are at the wrong place and the wrong time, you ain't getting it.

@lolfirepoisonftl

5 жыл бұрын

So damn true.

@KingBowserVlog

5 жыл бұрын

Nailed it.

@motivacionepica1960

5 жыл бұрын

Game is about consistency. U seem to have excuses

@tuffguytofiles

5 жыл бұрын

why did he leave RSD?

@lwandomadasi4921

5 жыл бұрын

@What Not To Do At a Stoplight then how do they operate ? :O ? if women operate at all . . . . . .

this is why we like todd, straight to the point, and gives us realistic views and expectations.

@calabaza1702

5 жыл бұрын

girl like this is trash

@gomesdiogo

5 жыл бұрын

Todd is a logical, non bunshit, non over marketing content producer. In this days, this is really pure gold.

@briang2034

5 жыл бұрын

Todd is a God from Heaven! f..k all down players!

@calabaza1702

5 жыл бұрын

@@ronnickyjroy3 girls get nervous a lot when I talk to them and like me if I talk to many girls or score with some of them Im never nervous

@NiceOCGuy1981

5 жыл бұрын

@yeahyeahblabla someguy exactly, how hard is that to understand.

From my experience women hate timidity, passivity, indecicivenss, neediness and emotionality. We make the mistake of trying to meet women in their comfort zone but the attraction flows from taking them out of their comfort zone.

@ykderien124

5 жыл бұрын

LDplays wow u nailed it 👌🏻

@seazeus3394

5 жыл бұрын

Very well said.

@exnihilonihilfit6316

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly. They want a hero to worship, a strong, powerful, confident, expansive, decisive, potent conqueror, a rock; not a whiny, emotional, teary little bitch. They need a man whom they thoroughly admire, are proud of and look up to, not one they need to have compassion, mercy or pity for his weaknesses or emotional pains. They already have many pussies around them - their girlfriends, and some men. If you're gonna cry, whine, excuse, justify in front of your woman... you're done. You'll get just contempt, not compassion. And that's great! Don't try to get what you got from your mother - the only men a woman can give compassion, pity, and mercy to, without then despising them, are the men who came out of her own womb.

@tristan2338

5 жыл бұрын

Great comment brobro

@thinkingofaname6233

5 жыл бұрын

LDplays so women hate what they are? Cuz those words u said describe women.

I’ve seen a woman’s perception of me change from worship to contempt. It’s creepy. And it’s not something to ignore. It’s a real part of female nature. If you let yourself love a woman, you better stay on top of your game. If you don’t, you will be punished severely. It’s a punishment that can be similar to an execution, except your body remains living while only your emotions were destroyed.

@Hephaestus83

5 жыл бұрын

"I’ve seen a woman’s perception of me change from worship to contempt" Yes, that's called a relationship ;)

@wick7255

5 жыл бұрын

M H

@MrDominic600

5 жыл бұрын

I dont want u to walk away with the wrong mentality. Please understand that you CAN love a woman but there is a different between love from need and love from want. Love her from abundance not scarcity.

@valuetainer3437

5 жыл бұрын

That's true, roosh has an article with that Game has to be 2nd nature within your demeanor, not somethinf you can shut down, no, it's gotta be running all the time, 100% of the time

@MigueART

5 жыл бұрын

Chill mate, you do the same for women.

I'm never gonna get married lol

@DhilipNexus

4 жыл бұрын

Me too lol

@joshstump3878

4 жыл бұрын

Yes you will. You need the mindset of someone who will get married, not the mindset of someone who will sleep with random women every night. If you want marriage, don't go to bars. Go to church. (this is coming from an agnostic btw)

@ZomBoyKilledIt

3 жыл бұрын

Reckless Rambler Exactly, it's all about mindset, as a skeptic myself, I agree that there are certain places one should be looking for depending on what it is you want, if it's marriage you want, church could be one of those places.

@andrewden1699

3 жыл бұрын

You just haven’t slept with enough women.

@CryptoResearchClub

3 жыл бұрын

@@DhilipNexus ever saw a hot girl go to church? 🤣🤣🤣

Beautifully said: “Women are a force in the universe forcing you to step up. If you don’t step up they will punish you, if you do step up, they will reward you.” It truly explains a lot at the macro and micro level.

@hexadecimal5236

4 жыл бұрын

This universe BS is crap. Male dominated societies bring out tbe best in men, female dominated societies produce nothing but soy boys.

@keodiozubu8670

3 жыл бұрын

@@hexadecimal5236 in male dominated societies men become dickheads and abuse. Both societies produce two extremes. You need a balance of both

"Girls are this force in the universe forcing you to step up." V, Todd.

@TheDarkPan

5 жыл бұрын

"... your ability to haul heavy cargo."

@jaymes8132

5 жыл бұрын

In other words...We live in a matriarchy, and few even have the awareness to realize what's going on. Fuck that "force." I refuse to obey its orders. I go my own way.

@thinkingofaname6233

5 жыл бұрын

Jaymes of Demacia exactly. This world revolves around women, I won’t play their game.

@vitordanieleal

5 жыл бұрын

The power of women is to conform the weak minded and to bring the best of man to higher levels

@thinkingofaname6233

5 жыл бұрын

Daniel Leal in all honesty their mind games and hypergamy turn away the best men.

“They like you IF, you’re the best option for them... When the emotion is different the interpretation of those facts is completely different.” All of this info is just brilliant and brings everything into perspective. Damn! Thanks, Chief!

Really great stuff here, Todd. One thing I've noticed is that I've lost a lot of girls by not striking when the iron is hot. I've had a lot of solid face-to-face interactions and number closes fizzle over time because it took me too long to arrange a date, etc. Part of this is because I'm extremely busy with my career, but part of it was me also being scarce on purpose to demonstrate "high value" and "non-neediness." A better course of action would have been to move things along more quickly in person, even if it would have seemed a bit too forward and pushy. Women these days have so many options. If you don't strike when the iron is hot, you are quickly forgotten.

@amasion2882

4 жыл бұрын

JLKeener77 : I’ve lost interest in men who took too long. My sense of it is that some men are waiting for some kind of “perfect moment” or “sure thing.” They want to be 100% SURE they won’t be rejected. The “perfect moment/sure thing” doesn’t exist. Ultimately I got exasperated by the mixed signals and didn’t want to be bothered.

@mikebingham9700

2 жыл бұрын

I disagree. If she is really into you. You can drag it out for quite awhile. Just go slow.

Todd is the only one from the former RSD group who has his feet on the ground and are not selling us bullshit.

@thegodofyoutube266

5 жыл бұрын

Junior Alex at 4weeknatural is great fuck u sayen

@stealth797

5 жыл бұрын

Yup that's why Papa is going so much harder against Todd than other RSD instructors who left. He knows that, unlike other ex-RSD instructors, Todd actually has the intelligence and business acumen to create real competition for RSD.

@Martin-xv

5 жыл бұрын

@@stealth797 Indeed

@lilcoreyrider1717

5 жыл бұрын

@@shitmandood Like the guys that just murdered their family and receiving love letters in prisons by these thotties lol

@themadmattster9647

5 жыл бұрын

$2000 for a week bootcamp is the most affordable in the business. I hope it remains at that rate, because I'm probably doing the Immersion bootcamp in the next year or year and a half (even though I just got promoted so I may be able to afford it sooner)

What helps me is thinking of "attraction" as a game. Not necessarily "love" as a game. But gamify one aspect of love: attraction. Girls already see it as a game. So we can too. Makes presenting yourself less serious

I could listen to Todd shoot the shit and talk his wisdom for hours. Same with Jordan Peterson. Thanks bro 👊

@chlorine5795

5 жыл бұрын

Chris Barnes Jordan Peterson kicks ass 👍

@queasybeetle

5 жыл бұрын

Leave Jordon Peterson. He knows squat. Believe in Todd.

@chlorine5795

5 жыл бұрын

Wesley Williams I believe in Kanye West

@electrocatalyst

5 жыл бұрын

Here's a little plot twist about Jordan Peterson kzread.info/dash/bejne/dIiWpaeoiK3Ukso.html

@TheRumpelstinskin

5 жыл бұрын

Jordan Peterson is a fraud. Todd is legit.

I really wish woman weren’t a part of my instincts so I could be happy

@Trump-A-Bad-MF

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@kiturselassie813

3 жыл бұрын

Redpill

@eirinikos

3 жыл бұрын

No shit!

who is the fool who wants to get married...

@rippedreaper7279

5 жыл бұрын

Beta males

@capras626

5 жыл бұрын

you have better chances with the russian roulette

@LetsGetHighOnMorris

5 жыл бұрын

Marriage sounds fine if you're not signing a bullshit contract so she can take half you shut by the time 2 years have passed by.

@thesilver7238

5 жыл бұрын

People get fucked over both while married or single, so no much difference here. It all comes down to personal taste. And remember that the marriage doesn't need to last a lifetime. Is it bad? Divorce. The problem arises if you have children, but again, those annoyances in life exist in varying levels whether you're married or not.

@tysoncrocker4106

5 жыл бұрын

@Phallusy to

Why would u even want girls if all they do is conditionally love or like you ? Wouldn't you want a partner eventually that loves you unconditionally ? This is something that always annoyed me about the success with women part..

@jarnohealth

5 жыл бұрын

It's crazy cuz all my life i have equated my self worth so much with how many girls like me sexually or sleep with me but i'm beginning to see that it's not a good indicator of my worth at all.. it's just all about certain behaviors and beliefs that you can learn..

@jamesmorell1758

5 жыл бұрын

Unconditional love is weakness. If love is unconditional it only allows and encourages a person to become lazy and not be the best version of yourself. Your mom will love you unconditionally but would you want your girl to have previously loved a street thug with 7 kids by 30 women unconditionally? Or a guy that abused her physically? What does that say about her?

@ridabewa

5 жыл бұрын

Jarno - unconditional love is a blue pilled thought. Get rid of it. It’s impossible for a woman to love unconditionally because of her biology (hypergamy.)

@stephenhughes5156

5 жыл бұрын

Iron Lion Ok, maybe not unconditional love. But loyalty.

@KingBowserVlog

5 жыл бұрын

sundvallen What else is there to do, though? We're literally too far gone

Its actually insane how random women are due to their estrogen going up and down, emotional inbalance. Just as Todd says, one moment she can love you, the other she can hate you. It gets you wondering: Was there a REASON why religion, like christianity, islam etc put restrictions on women, sexual ones? Was there a reason why we had values, slut-shaming etc?What did they know that we dont? I think thew knew, that if u give women complete freedom, they wreck havoc on relationships and in the end, whole of society.

@merphius3426

5 жыл бұрын

tbh this applies to men too

@sundvallen

5 жыл бұрын

@@merphius3426 Actually no, it doesnt, what so ever.

@sundvallen

5 жыл бұрын

@flownet07 Basicly all respected and well known men thruout history have had similar opinions. Its only in todays PC society we arent allowed to speak the truth, instead we have to keep quiet and just pretend the sky is red.

@sundvallen

5 жыл бұрын

@Septell Exactly, and now we are in utter chaos which keeps getting worse, eventually it all implodes and we get back to square one

@YoNevNo

5 жыл бұрын

@@sundvallen lmao so there weren't men wanting to fuck up and take other nations' supplies and women and waged war? There weren't men within the same country thirsty for wealth and sex and rebelled and destroyed villages and killed the land lord and even the king? I'm a man but men have brought the most destruction in any other society in history lmfao. DerAmPC is right that this applies to both men and women. If enough men were so horny and tried to take other men's women, there will be war. Stop crying like a little bitch and enjoy life while it lasts. You are only a minority with that thinking in this society.

If this is what dating/mating has become in the millennial era, then I'm glad I 'm growing old.

@XDAWG756

5 жыл бұрын

Was it better back then?

@topcopy98

5 жыл бұрын

@@XDAWG756 It was a lot simpler. Either you got laid or you didn't.

@devilsadvocacy

3 жыл бұрын

@@XDAWG756 Suffice it to say that online dating is not an improvement over the way it used to be

@kiturselassie813

3 жыл бұрын

Gen xers we had ot easy back then .jus come smoke a blunt an we good

@Jonathan-dg6ey

2 жыл бұрын

@@topcopy98 It still the same today either you get laid or you don’t

Yeah, this is a pretty depressing picture of reality. Not saying it isn't true. Just depressing. Makes me feel a bit nihilistic.

@donchello2128

5 жыл бұрын

Get in line

@sundvallen

5 жыл бұрын

Lol it sure as hell made my grandparents happy. Our problem is cultural marxism letting women sexuality run free, remember, not one single civilisation which released female sexuality survived. We are on the decline on this very moment.

@imabout2eat40

5 жыл бұрын

sundvallen lol u speaking some facts in these comments ngl

@theonly1nr1

5 жыл бұрын

@@sundvallen Do you have any interesting books to recommend on the topics you mention?

@HipHopAn0n

5 жыл бұрын

Theonly1 - I don't know any books, but look at the birth rates in the US: record lows in 2017. Even with the high fertility of Mexican-Americans it's about 1.7 and 2.1 is the replacement rate, and more importantly there is no catalyst to push things back in the direction of families. Feminism has convinced women to spend their best childbearing years getting usually not worthwhile degrees.

High value video, without being try-hard.

@iskenderataturk

5 жыл бұрын

lol

@bigcheech1937

4 жыл бұрын

Grabbing a girl to make out while she's already making out with another dude is about as try hard as you can get lol

She doesn't like you period she likes you if.... haha sad world for men... talk about dehumanizing

@salembeats1875

5 жыл бұрын

She likes you if you're strong and confident it's not sad at all, only if you're a lame ass chode. She needs someone like that to take care of her

@smurf88

5 жыл бұрын

Well, I don't like girls unless they're physically attractive, so I guess it goes both ways.

@thegodofyoutube266

5 жыл бұрын

SALEM Fucken Moron

@SE_Lin

5 жыл бұрын

+the smurf There's more than just physical attraction though for men. Most men desperately crave a mental connection with women that is just not there. Sexual attraction is a big driving force for men because of biology but it's not the only thing they care about, far from it in most cases imo. The sexuality can and often does exist separately from the intimate meaningful mental connection. However, a man can be sexually attracted to a woman but if he feels they have some sort of supreme mental connectivity that attraction skyrockets to insane heights and only amplifies his sexuality for the girl. I think few men realize this because that real, meaningful mental connection with a woman is so insanely rare.

@smurf88

5 жыл бұрын

@@SE_Lin For the most part I think that that women are not capable of loving men in the way that they would want to be loved. Maybe I'm wrong, but it always seems dependent on what the man can provide rather than who he is.

I think people have gotten Hypergamy wrong. In the end, it all goes back to the words of David DeAngelo/Eben Pagan. As men, we aren't any different. We will like her 'If' she's hot... Watch your interest wane the minute she puts on weight and develops a bad attitude - In other words... "Attraction isn't a choice."

@TheScalesHaveFallen

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@Martin-xv

5 жыл бұрын

Yes! no truer words were spoken.

@Mayhzon

5 жыл бұрын

Stop trying to equalize men and women to justify your world view corrupted by Egalitarianist brainwashing. Men are not hypergamous to that level, it takes a lot more corruption to turn a man this foul.

@Mayhzon

5 жыл бұрын

@@alxcross1850 They're so good at deception, they deceive themselves. That's how amazing they are at it. But no reason to sweat. We have to keep believing in ourselves and then we will succeed. The only time you fail is when you give up for good.

@josephgallo4625

5 жыл бұрын

But women will turn on a man with the same facts. Men don't look at a women and say I like her right now because she's thicc and two hours later look at the same woman and think now she's fat and I don't like her. What men like is stable; what women like is constantly changing.

So much easier just paying a prostitute. Atleast they know you are of value

@doctorj7112

5 жыл бұрын

so true man.

@karellt2355

4 жыл бұрын

Madden. So dam tru!! No games....str8 business and screwing...simple...

@drefhill

4 жыл бұрын

But it's to expensive.

@dustovshio

4 жыл бұрын

no they think you are a piece of shit

@GurksTheGamer

4 жыл бұрын

@@drefhill Some guys pay hundreds of dollars to get a girl to like them and most of them don't even get a kiss.

It's like I just took the red pill again... and every time I step into a club. No woman is special. AWALT.

Dude.. Probably your best and most felt video

@wickedhyperstyler

5 жыл бұрын

That's what I was going to say. Great philosophy, and wisdom in this video - uncut and "unprepared". I love the message at the end. I always have to think of Kennedy's moon speech, when this paradigm gets mentioned: "We choose to go to the Moon [...] and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard." I also appreciate that you (Todd) clarified how you got around being needy and handling the girl's shit, after dragging her around the club. I was asking this myself when you first told the story on your old RSD channel.

Why are mature people still going to clubs (do they still exist..?) and bars just to have a one-night-stand with some equally worn-off, shallow, validation-seeking sex addict..? I don't get this culture AT ALL...

@sundvallen

5 жыл бұрын

cultural marxism, fucking up marriage and monogamy, giving all power to women creating desperate men. This culture is going down and its going FAST now.

@yeetspageet5679

5 жыл бұрын

Well for men at least lots think western women don't provide much beyond sex these days so why be in a relationship with them? Whether or not you think it's true when the morals of the average woman have changed men aren't gonna take any raw deals.

@sundvallen

5 жыл бұрын

The morals changed cause we got cuckd by feminism, which is a branch of cultural marxism, an ideology developed to crush nations, as its doing with the west this very moment. Mark my words, this WILL end in war, eventually. Millions of men are being frozen out right now, due to the release of female hypergamy, this is exactly how you end up in war.* But many of you guys are so naive, so ignorant, so you simply cannot see it. ALl you see it "muuh oh my god he got pussy!! learn me! pussy pussy!!", you do NOT understand that free female sexuality will create CHAOS for a society.*

@bobrew461

5 жыл бұрын

Why are mature people still going to clubs? I cannot understand why either. it is so 20th century. WTF, can't people move on from that?

@MrHexagonGaming

5 жыл бұрын

Wtf are you ppl talking about ? Clubs have been a thing for over 30 years nothing has changed except the year and ppl are more easy to sleep with lol

You know its a blessed day when you see Todd has posts a video

So you kinda kissed the black dude🤔

@1ChristopherCampbell

5 жыл бұрын

His spit touched his

@42NORRIS

5 жыл бұрын

Lucky for him, unlike you, he isn't racist.

@garyroberts3020

4 жыл бұрын

Gross...

@bulldoggmailcom

4 жыл бұрын

Jp has a point. As a black man I couldn't mess with a girl if numerous black dudes went in her. Most white girls wouldn't want to have sex with black guys cause most are well endowed but the ones that do are ruined. They would be craving a bigger size than average even though there nothing wrong with an average size penis.

@hexadecimal5236

4 жыл бұрын

I was thinking exactly this, you made out with her RIGHT after she made out with him? For all he knows she sucked that guy off in the bathroom while they were gone. There are some NASTY girls out there.

Kind of a sad existence, where you are constantly trying to be something just to get a female's adoration. Learn to be the boss of yourself, and you will start to boss around the women. Or continue working hard to pretend to be something you are not just to play the PUA game.

@salembeats1875

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao this man has his own company and is a self made investor. He is a bigger boss than most of these lame guys

@marshallhussein8785

5 жыл бұрын

This is our society nowadays. We wear mask to hid our true self , to impress people that don’t give a fuck about us. We pretend to be someone were truly not . Especially the western world .. we’re love , compassion , respect is never shown.

@Lemon-rk9hq

5 жыл бұрын

Marshall Hussein facts I always show respect to everyone but i see the hate in most people’s eyes because I know they are jealous because they aren’t a class act they are pieces of shit that will not succeed and I hate pretending to be something I’m not I’m always myself I’m always real if someone doesn’t like it they can fuck off like you’re totally right most people don’t show respect and use you for their own dirty purposes and games

@minecraftsolide0132

5 жыл бұрын

Man, I think you got it wrong. Pick up is not about pretending someone to be you're not. It's about an inner transformation, being natural and developing high value through becoming your best self possible.

I would encourage everyone here to get The System by Todd, which is the best dating/seduction program I've ever seen. Also, read Rollo Tomassi's Rational Male books. Rollo goes into great depth about how women are always open to better sexual options, how genuine attraction cannot be negotiated, etc., etc.

What a lot of guys are struggling with here is that they don't understand that women are about sex and having fun OR about friendship (they can be really good friends). NOTHING more. You want real love? Get a dog. There are a few women that can be good wives, but deep down it will be about you being convenient for her, and in those cases she may even feel some appreciation for you, not love.

@LakevusParadice

2 жыл бұрын

True. I feel as though love for men is sacrifice as it’s highest level. And love for women is respect/value/appreciation as it’s highest level, but never sacrifice. A woman won’t sacrifice for you.

@filipbelciug

8 ай бұрын

I think you're being unfair. Women love you conditionally, yes. BUT GUESS WHAT?? WE DO TOO! Imagine your girlfriend or your dream girl. Done? Now imagine her 10x as fat. Now imagine her fatty hands and cheeks and imagine she eats like a pig and licks her plate. Done? Good. Now you've just learned how both men and women love conditionally. The only people loved unconditionally are children. Women are just the other side of the same coin. The coin is the human race. We're no better. We're all fucking animals

@alexthedeal1827

8 ай бұрын

Yes it seems women never really love a man. They are in love with being in love. They like sex. But if the relation gets sour they don't give a fuck about you anymore. They go to another guy and fall in love and totally forget you. Despite that, if there is a physical click and the sex is good and you make enough money and she is sweet you can have a good relationship and it doesn't have to end and it can always be good. Physical click is always most important.

I have watched scores of these videos and you make some awesomely intelligent points Todd! Keep up the great work. Thanks.

at 3:30 if I see the girl kissing another dude. I just dont go and kiss (while) she was kissing another dude... have some self respect.. at that moment I'll jump to another conquest. I wont spend my time with that girl.. too many fish in the sea for me to get sloppy seconds and put other dudes saliva in my mouth..... NEXT!!

More field reports man, loved them 👌

I have never heard it explained quite like this!! I listen to the guys from RSD all amazing content and different peoples views books etc but this just blew my mind!! She doesn’t like u unconditionally she likes u if!! Thank u brother.. powerful stuff

Heard parts of this story before, and this is the most detailed retelling yet.

That feeling when they think you’re a control freak for doing exactly what they wanted lmfaoooo. Aint nothing more confusing. Thanks for clarifying Todd❤️

Dude! You are a beast. There is soo much insight on this video. Keep up the amazing work.

I've been watching dating coach videos for girls and trickled down here and this is way more helpful!! Feels like I finally understand why I behaved the way I did from listening to you 😁🤣

I could listen to Todd tell his game stories all day. This man is a legend #TeamTodd

Todd is Godsend, such a practical logical way of putting things. After watching you got into right mindset and pulled and still pulling strong.

She’s wanting attention and validation, while she has something going on deeper with that guy.

"Worrying about being needy is one of the neediest things you can possibly do" THIS!!!!

I’m about to watch this video over and over again. Probably the best video on hypergamy I have seen.

I love these stories. You should do vids like these where its just story time

Too much work/game.....I just prefer to have a 🍸 and just chill at the crib.

@TheDarkPan

5 жыл бұрын

Places like Brazil & Southeast Asia are lifesavers.

Moral of the story: stick to daygame.

@joaopedrocarvalhodepaulade2516

5 жыл бұрын

Women don't change when the sun is up.

@MrHav1k

5 жыл бұрын

@@joaopedrocarvalhodepaulade2516 AWALT

@sergesharp3574

5 жыл бұрын

circumstances change, you have more power, but women not that easy when less stimulated

@Travisssss

4 жыл бұрын

@@joaopedrocarvalhodepaulade2516 lmfaoooo

@sandrosmontana7777

4 жыл бұрын

yes thats my next move brah

Great content Todd, keep it up ! VIdeo suggestion for the future: make a video of how to handle situations when someone comes to a set trying to AMOG you, would also be even better if you have some infield examples of that, how you reacted and what was the outcome !

Oooh, 1000 comment. (: great video by the way. Love your analytical way of describing emotional subjects.

In Todd, we trust.

Todd, can you please talk about how love is a mental illness based on neediness, dependency, scarcity, lack of reasonable thinking, etc? Thanks!

Was that a joji remix for the outro? Anyway gold content as usual Todd

Thanks for the chat, Todd! Best wishes to you from Europe!

Damn dude, you worded an experience I've had time and time again perfectly. Many times I've had it where a girl seemed to really like me and then suddenly a switch was flipped just before I was about to make a move. That was me not being the 'guy she likes if' anymore.

If only every guy knew this shit the world would be a happier better place

@awolf913

4 жыл бұрын

That’s not necessarily a good thing. If every man knew good game it would be much more competitive and harder to pull women.

Excellent video... been watching more and more these. Gold content. However how far should the neediness point can be stretched? The fact of going to the clubs to hopefully meet women can be already needy. Hell, the fact that I’m watching and reading quite some content is also needy... I do it to be prepare and mostly defense measures, been burnt uncountable times so im in “need” of it

Thank you for a more intelligent breakdown of some typical male/female dynamics. Nice to see some push back against the prevalent dumbing down.

Another blessing from Todd V

Todd turning into the 21 Convention but more real and no bullshit.

Thanks Todd... Always giving us some wisdom

Maybe one of your best videos ever. Great stories.

Dope ass advice. You're completely right about the ''she only likes you if'' part for sure but we shouldn't be getting mad at women for this because it applies to everyone. For example your best friend is your best friend because you like how he or she is and if they begin acting different then you'll likely begin to dislike them. The base of that friendship is based off of 'ifs'', if they continue acting the same etc. I just thought it was a thought worth sharing so all the beta male butt hurt boys can stop bitching about women being ''shallow'' because technically we all are.

@edgaral

2 жыл бұрын

Nope it does not work like that, you gotta read more, there's studies for this, not just the if's, you cannot comment on a topic you're ignorant about, if you knew whats up, you wouldn't even be saying all this, I usually see people comment based on opinions and not facts taken out from studies and science, ignorance is a strong enemy

@MsCankersore

2 жыл бұрын

Care to share. I’m sure he as much as me would like to know why this doesn’t apply to friends as well?

The main problem is that all this scheming and planning you do to get laid by "this one girl" is inherently super needy. You are basically willing to do whatever it takes to get her into bed with you, which is the definition of being needy and low value, while all the time you plan and scheme and manipulate to invoke the illusion of it being the opposite. Instead of actually being High Value and non-needy, putting it out there and if she says no, she says no, you wish her a nice evening and move on.

thank you, you've really opened up my horizons. Awesome video.

15:49 What you say about "The girl likes you IF..." is SO TRUE. Bravo, man. Awesome observation. Thank you!

Love and massive respect u r true GURU in PUA community 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

The problem with men is that they want to be loved the same way they love a woman, and what the problem is, is that woman are loved UNCONDITIONALLY whereas men are loved UNDER CONDITIONS, Conditions like being a Sex Worthy Alpha Male, Being good in bed, knowing how to interpret her indirect signals,provide her with good things, a cool lifestyle, validation so she can feel like she's with a champ and she has been chosen from the swamp of options that that alpha male has And the thing is we don't love the same way, that's why out there are a shitload of simps, because they just wanna be loved Deep down we men are just little kids that wanna be loved, BUT while you love your girl and give an arm for her,just because she's your gf, she just loves you if you keep doing everything well (something that's almost impossible to do when you're falling for someone and you just wanna care and be with them, even though that turns her off)

Basically it means that " It's just your turn ". So don't feel bad that the girl you liked and she wanted you in the beginning, quickly changes her mind about you and decides to leave you out in the cold. It's just sad how relationships have now gone.

great video scarily accurate and yass on the joji outro

Love these kind of video’s, feels like hanging out.

Am I the only who hears what he is saying but still don't agree? This is GREAT advice for going to a bar and getting laid! But I think of it this way... if you have 20 friends who are girls and they are cool with you and every time you are with them alone you have a blast!! You will have great chances of having fun moments rather than heading to a bar and "finding" a girl! That's just how I look at it, work on YOURSELF so girls come to YOU don't try to chase them... talk to them, get to know them and realize life is bigger than getting laid

@salembeats1875

5 жыл бұрын

Lol the problem with that is that most guys don't even know how to get the 20 girl friends, let alone one . Pickup teaches you how to relate to women and get women In general

@phillyfan3942

5 жыл бұрын

@@salembeats1875 no it doesnt. It reaches you how to waste time and effort on chasing girls... if you cant get girls in your every day life then you shouldn't be going to a bar trying to get them... you should work on yourself untill they are interested in you.... dont think that picking up girls is smart, its not... that's where you will find the lowest quality women and men at... a girl will pick you

@ImHewg

5 жыл бұрын

@@phillyfan3942 words of wisdom man, this is the optimal perspective, im with ya bud. All this game and hookup culture draws out the dregs. The nice wholesome girls arent getting wasted and hooking up with different guys every night. Their out in nature, taking hikes or whatever floats their boat

@phillyfan3942

5 жыл бұрын

@@ImHewg exactly bro, life is bigger than going and trying to get laid, getting laid is like a side effect of having friends

@dantredogborsa7048

5 жыл бұрын

@@phillyfan3942 You are so right, man.

awesome video my man! more field reports please!!

Wow, that was life-changing. I was pissed off with the BS. The endless list of expectations that didn't seem to matter. I figured there had to be some rhyme or reason. But it's quite the opposite. A guy that doesn't feel like he needs to be anything for women and can get away with living his life that way is what women want most. Incredibly freeing. Especially since I can't imagine any guy not wanting to live that way. (Also love the bit about how you need to be around and if you're not all bets are off. Like how water stops boiling the moment it's removed from a heat source.) (Oh and hitting the threshold is sound advice. Good thing to keep in mind to prevent overdoing it.)

Not even worth it guys.

Such a value bomb, Todd is the man

Wow those were probably the craziest stories ive ever heard. Turns out my life is boring af😂

Hey todd, new viewer here, just stumbled on your videos today 😊 i didn't get to hear what the audience told you about why the girl totally flipped 180 on you, do you have a transcript or something, it's kind of a cliffhanger

Listening to Todd's first story highlights one of the craziest aspect of female psychology: Buying Temperature is transferable. Never really understood the evolutionary reason for this until I read the book 'Sex At Dawn'.

@lindsaygraham5687

5 жыл бұрын

What does "Buying Temperature " and "is transferable" mean?

@talknight2

4 жыл бұрын

@@lindsaygraham5687 Well, I went ahead and looked it up. Buying Temperature Spike is basically a sudden upswing in how turned-on/adventurous a woman feels; a rush of hormones. However, it's transferable because unless you already have an established connection with her, any other guy can swoop in at that right moment and take advantage of her temporary horniness.

@stealth797

4 жыл бұрын

@@talknight2 Exactly. I've even seen infield of PUA coaches temporarily "stealing" a girl from their student just to spike her Buying Temperature, then throw her back on the student so he has an easier time pulling.

" i can tell you some stories that will have you disgusted with women" way ahead of ya bruh

@Chesterd2

4 жыл бұрын

You and everyone else...

This is a great video. I would like to see you expound more or make another video on just "she likes you if" I can watch this 5 times and I feel like I need more.. You need to get into "she likes you if" a little more. KUDOS

Amazing advice Todd, thanks

For some reason, although I’m sure this dude is well intentioned, I think he is not as potent a lady killer as he makes out.

She is not yours its just your turn!

Cracks me up listening to him just be casual rather than teacher

Cool art direction. Deep wisdom on the nature of women.

Phenomenal! Mainstream would freak. This is higher level understanding that I am so appreciative to have learned. Todd thanks for the information. There’s so much to learn.

mixed feelings.... i think this is TRUE -- on PICK UP.... but once you start seeing a woman -- casually dating, but not exclusive-- i think she needs space to miss you and wonder about you -- if you are frequently there -- it requires NO EFFORT on her part to keep things going.

@Chesterd2

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly! This is why relationships fail when people move in together.

I like to be so abundant , that I don't need for something to happen. I just look at the moment and say" Ok, Do I wanna allow this to happen or not, Do I want to nudge this in another direction or no."

"Worrying about what's needy is one of the neediest things you could possibly do." Hilarious!

You can only have value in absence once you already had a relationship with her

I read a post by a woman earlier stating that Men would just need to get over it.. that women don't need men like they used to in terms of resources... She went on to explain that as a result of this dynamic , women are opting to stay single and "live it up" and this just pisses men off because men are looking for love and can't find it. Thank you, is what I say to this woman for being so honest... If you read her statement above .. this woman is admitting that women used to be with men for their resources.. but now that women are providing their own resources, the next option is not to be with men for just love, like men want to be with women for love.. This woman cuts to the chase and says ..If women aren't with men for their resources then it's a no brainer ... the next option can only be to be single and riding the cock carousel... She wrote it like that is what is to be expected. Why should women be in a relationship with men if theres nothing to gain? which is the admission of how they see men.. Someone to use , and if there's nothing to get or gain from him.. isn't it obvious? the next step is to fuck as many men as possible. This outlined female nature perfectly, because it omits the step of being in a relationship with men for what matters and or for anything real such as one partner in life and finding someone to love and skips directly to being a whore. Thank you for your unwitting slip of the tongue of how women see and have seen men as nothing but a work horse and given the choice to be with a man for anything other than resources , You'll opt to just slut around. So the message is ... If a woman isn't getting resources from a man by being with him, then why on Earth would she be with him? isn't it obvious what she should do? while simultaneously shaming men for wanting to be in a relationship for the right reasons.

@Swaggad0n

5 жыл бұрын

There's a survey somewhere which shows that 80% of women are going for the top 20% of men. Seems even 5/10's can dream about getting prince charming, even with their own flaws on the table. Inflated ego from feminist empowerment has driven them blind, only the wall can make them realize how badly they've fucked up but at the same time, men gotta admit they're helping this. Men out there, why are you settling down for a woman in her late 20's? you're worth more than that, they have to face the consequences of riding the cock carousel. The part of this which stings me the most is that the top 20% of men often don't have to work to get to where they are. You could be blessed with a handsome face, good height and other genetics, heck, just being born in a secure family without divorce etc. has a MAJOR impact on your confidence and upbringing. Some of us lack self esteem from problems beyond our own control and spend years fighting out of it, but then again, what do THEY bring to the table aside from sex? And somehow... they have the audacity to complain on how we're not good enough... As famous comedian Dave Chappelle once said, "Chivalry is dead, and women killed it".

@chaabimaroc

3 жыл бұрын

are you gay?

@trevorforrester3142

3 жыл бұрын

@@chaabimaroc No sorry buddy I'm not gay, but thanks for the offer.. Im just not into men, but keep looking. I'm sure you'll find someone. A man that loves you very much.

@chaabimaroc

3 жыл бұрын

@@trevorforrester3142 haha you gay .I like woman.according.your.comment.youdont like.woman.its.all hate speech so.I.asumed you gay.

@dubscheckum8246

5 ай бұрын

sounds like something PsychHacks would make a video on

Doesn´t matter if they are married or engaged. Women have flirts at the job, the gym, yoga class, the parking spot, grocery store, the gas station, mall, at her friends house, her coffee shop. The list goes on. You´re never ever the only one. I´ve had married ones running after me, but i seem to run faster...

what type of person i should be or i should train myself to be and what are those right emotions i can give her

Todd droping red pill bombs, funny times

Todd one of your best vids. I've had very similiar experiences to all 3 of your field reports. You realy nailed it when you said "what you have (with a girl)...you could lose soo quickly." It took me years to truly accept this because I would lay girls and then they just wouldn't respond the next day. But it's true Women's emotions change soo frequently, and when you're not in her presence, you just can't control it.

This is not only brilliant, it’s also poetic. I managed to memorize the first speech and I am using it on girls

Todd - im confused? I know you know your stuff....but than again I also think Corey Wayne does as well and some others. As far as I've learned Corey would argue that space and distance is actaully key to attraction, where it seems your saying that's when you start to run into problems?...maybe theres a way to reconcile this or you just disagree with him lol....eitherway thank you for your content!

Waa married 17 years when my wife flipped out and left me and our young children for another man and then died 3years later chasing the loser she left us for, then in a 13 year relationship and she flipped out with menopause and left, then I played the game, dated 16 woman in 2 years, I have unbelievable stories and memories,, but now I spent my time on my hobby, buying and restoring classic cars and live my life for myself.. yes, I can honestly say that all woman are the same. And the man is the real prize.

@Swaggad0n

5 жыл бұрын

Amen brother. Self improvement above all else! I find it funny how women are the determinants of passing down genetics, but their sense of selection is faulty. They select mates that don't care about them and then bitch about the ones that do. After all is said and done, they still blame men for their poor choices.

The mouse utopia experiment comes to mind.

Love that ending. So true. Wish I had known this earlier.

Man, these stories are next level "They like you if." ... Does force you to be your best