How To Stop Being Shy And Quiet - 12 Tips To Overcome Shyness

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Follow these strategies and learn how to overcome shyness and become more confident in life. Self consciousness can be a major factor and a cause of a lack of self confidence. But, if you don’t start talking to people, you will never stop being shy and awkward. It’s important to practice talking more openly with friends, family and even complete strangers.
This sounds scary at first, but if you want to overcome shyness and social anxiety, you need to put yourself around people. You will get used to it. So give yourself a chance and start saying yes to invitations. This will allow you to be around people and socialize with others who share your interests.
Taking care of yourself can totally boost your confidence! Even just small things, like: showering, flossing your teeth and keeping your nails trimmed can make a big difference in how you feel about yourself. In addition, to gain confidence and self esteem, find something you enjoy and know you are good at. Knowing that you possess some unique quality will help you accept yourself - wholeheartedly.
By practicing the self confidence tips on this list every day, you can slowly overcome shyness and become more confident, until you can publicly display who you are - without fear of being judged.
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  • @BrainyDose
    @BrainyDose6 жыл бұрын

    If you found this video helpful, please remember to give it a THUMBS UP! 👍🙂

  • @darkevil2149

    @darkevil2149

    5 жыл бұрын

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  • @foramchaudhari9963

    @foramchaudhari9963

    5 жыл бұрын

    The main reason of shyness for me is my height... Everyone teases me bcoz of my short height...And so I don't like to socialize thinking that everyone will make fun of me!!😢😢

  • @starringmahi2968

    @starringmahi2968

    5 жыл бұрын

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  • @hasnatulhasan9044

    @hasnatulhasan9044

    5 жыл бұрын

    Owesome

  • @brettgallagher5306

    @brettgallagher5306

    5 жыл бұрын

    the clickbaity thumbnail gave me a bad first impression and in fact this video has come up recommended before and I didn't click on it for that reason. But after giving it a chance the content was good

  • @scouppin9749
    @scouppin97494 жыл бұрын

    I’m so shy I feel like everybody is judging me even when they’re not

  • @ella.travels

    @ella.travels

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same I feel uncomfortable around some people

  • @car7561

    @car7561

    4 жыл бұрын

    I wanna be a judge in the future

  • @Alyssa-tz7hx

    @Alyssa-tz7hx

    4 жыл бұрын

    yea me too

  • @sunhai7859

    @sunhai7859

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @shivani323

    @shivani323

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same army💜

  • @maqgie
    @maqgie5 жыл бұрын

    with my friends, you wouldn't even know I'm a shy person but once I'm in a class without my friends I instantly become so shy

  • @arwankalamare2826

    @arwankalamare2826

    5 жыл бұрын

    Maggie Same😖😖😖

  • @robinlakewood7811

    @robinlakewood7811

    5 жыл бұрын

    my butt hurts

  • @gigim3589

    @gigim3589

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same 😭 it’s nice to know that there’s other people though

  • @vroom774

    @vroom774

    5 жыл бұрын

    Maggie omg same

  • @user-kb5ov7ik9v

    @user-kb5ov7ik9v

    5 жыл бұрын

    That’s the same for me because last year I would get in trouble and would talk a lot but now all my friends aren’t in my class anymore so I barely talk anymore

  • @susanjacob7951
    @susanjacob79513 жыл бұрын

    My problem: 1.Bad at making friends 2.Always quiet 3.Insecure always 4.Looks at yourself in the mirror too much 5.Always different from other ppl

  • @snigdhasingh5139

    @snigdhasingh5139

    2 жыл бұрын

    5. It is ok to be different. You will develop your own identity.

  • @Yk6q

    @Yk6q

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @kateb7751

    @kateb7751

    2 жыл бұрын

    omg you're so different and quirky and unique!!! you're always different from other people wow!!!1!1!1!!

  • @grenouillesupreme

    @grenouillesupreme

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@suryanshu_jha sometimes it's sadly true

  • @bhavyaarora244

    @bhavyaarora244

    2 жыл бұрын

    I also looks at the mirror to myself too muchhh ...

  • @elaf1254
    @elaf12543 жыл бұрын

    It's so easy to say "accept yourself, don't be shy, be open with people, trust yourself!" But they can't understand how hard it is for me :(

  • @GlowTint

    @GlowTint

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can accept myself easily but that is difficult for me to talk with relatives friendly

  • @badguy1079

    @badguy1079

    2 жыл бұрын

    If you don't accept yourself, don't expect someone will.

  • @callmeflower6901

    @callmeflower6901

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nobody helped me with that so i started to help myself

  • @ever_everdaybg2488

    @ever_everdaybg2488

    2 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @barackyoely8758

    @barackyoely8758

    Жыл бұрын

    @@callmeflower6901 which procedures are you doin to help ur self

  • @virginia1852
    @virginia18525 жыл бұрын

    Shy, quiet or introverted people thumbs up! Let's see how many of us there are. 😊 There's nothing wrong with us! We are who we are, we are perfectly fine and we are not on our own. 😄 Lots of love to each of you 😘

  • @lastella1994

    @lastella1994

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol I agree but being socially awkward is embarassing honestly.

  • @virginia1852

    @virginia1852

    5 жыл бұрын

    To Priscilla Owusu Pankyee Your initial reaction might be to feel embarrassed or you have an option to concentrate on something positive about yourself. At the end of the day, most shy or introverted people are perceived badly by themselves not by others.

  • @mhurd58

    @mhurd58

    5 жыл бұрын

    Introvert doesn't mean shy though

  • @shiaavery5358

    @shiaavery5358

    5 жыл бұрын

    Introvert is far from being shy 🙄Im an introvert too I prefer silence over talking but that doesn’t mean that I dont want to socialize,there are certain times when I just want to blurt everthing inside my mind and become an extrovert or maybe im both lol cant understand myself

  • @JyunJyunie.00

    @JyunJyunie.00

    5 жыл бұрын

    raul castaneda Maybe you're an ambivert?

  • @pranaygurnule2733
    @pranaygurnule27334 жыл бұрын

    We all shy people are very active and comfortable on internet but in real life we're exactly opposite.

  • @estixscrackworld4046

    @estixscrackworld4046

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes. I feel like the internet is like a safe spot to do whatever we want (minus telling personal information)

  • @wynx8964

    @wynx8964

    4 жыл бұрын

    super true ;-; i hate this

  • @corinnefayeoledan9156

    @corinnefayeoledan9156

    3 жыл бұрын

    y so accurate

  • @unicornanshika4865

    @unicornanshika4865

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes you are right

  • @BilalAhmed-sw1ox

    @BilalAhmed-sw1ox

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes you are right bro

  • @polastankova
    @polastankova4 жыл бұрын

    I can't even talk to my aunt or any side families without them talking to me first. Like back then I was really close to my cousins but then I grew up and now I can't even have a conversation with them.

  • @c.joshlynblessy3835

    @c.joshlynblessy3835

    3 жыл бұрын

    I also have experienced this

  • @Peasant001

    @Peasant001

    3 жыл бұрын

    Finally someone who feels like me. The awkwardness between our family members, trust me I know that feeling

  • @pavanitama5703

    @pavanitama5703

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly like me I didn't even talk with them still now sometimes they asks "is she dumb?"but what to do I am so shy to talk with others😢

  • @luminousshadowcore

    @luminousshadowcore

    3 жыл бұрын

    I had no idea anyone else felt this way! I jus hope my cousins and extended family know how much I love them even tho I feel shy around them cause I hardly ever c them anymore

  • @genm5998

    @genm5998

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same, I also feel awkward around relatives especially when our families don't see and interact with each other as much, we rarely visit each other so it's so awkward sometimes, my dad has like 5, 6 or 7 siblings who are my aunts and uncles and they have all have children close to my age and older, my mom was an only child. When we go visit them my siblings and I are always hesitant and even don't want to go since we don't interact much with them especially me since I'm so shy and socially awkward, my mom gets hesitant too but she say we've gotta make an effort, I don't interact with my cousins much except with my two cousins who are women, both in their mid twenties, I'm 19, they are so nice to me and I enjoy talking to them, we are like the only few girls in our family tree, I'm the youngest girl, I have another cousin who lives in mexico, she is 30 and I barely know her, the rest of my cousins are guys and so are most of my dad's siblings, he has two sisters. When we visit them, I only shake hands and greet and ask how they are doing and they ask me the same but I feel so awkward inside and from there I go sit somewhere and just be on my phone, this is how is it at parties and social gatherings, there are so many people and they all interact sometimes my dad be interacting with so many people, my mom interacts with a few, my brothers sometimes interacting together with some of our boy cousins and then there is me who is just sitting there on my phone, it's so hard to start a convo even with my relatives 😭😭😂😂

  • @themilocat2772
    @themilocat27723 жыл бұрын

    I wish my whole classmates were shy and awkward just like me:')

  • @vernspangler4832

    @vernspangler4832

    3 жыл бұрын

    They are

  • @gamingliza8169

    @gamingliza8169

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @ansaaziz7956

    @ansaaziz7956

    3 жыл бұрын

    I also 🙁😗

  • @itswjd8338

    @itswjd8338

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @P1nkRxsa

    @P1nkRxsa

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @susankoech
    @susankoech4 жыл бұрын

    I used to be talkative when I was a kid but so much happened to me I turned into a completely shy introvert. I can't even make an eye contact.

  • @finter6827

    @finter6827

    4 жыл бұрын

    YOU HAVE TO DO SOMETHING IF YOU WANT BETER LIFE! ITS YOUR LIFE

  • @susankoech

    @susankoech

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@finter6827 what do i gotta do? Please tell me .

  • @finter6827

    @finter6827

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@susankoech I believe this youtuber can explain better name is "How To Beast" and

  • @finter6827

    @finter6827

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@susankoech kzread.info/dash/bejne/eJpkj6-hipevlNo.html

  • @finter6827

    @finter6827

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@susankoech thats one good video

  • @lifetipss1738
    @lifetipss17385 жыл бұрын

    To all the shy people out there Let's be friends

  • @user-rp3kn4pr5j

    @user-rp3kn4pr5j

    5 жыл бұрын

    Faith Darden yay

  • @tubbyraider3026

    @tubbyraider3026

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hi

  • @butterflyworld2443

    @butterflyworld2443

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ok

  • @OmkarSingh-jt3tq

    @OmkarSingh-jt3tq

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hii

  • @OmkarSingh-jt3tq

    @OmkarSingh-jt3tq

    5 жыл бұрын

    We should make a shy group

  • @EnglandEngland-cr2sh
    @EnglandEngland-cr2sh3 жыл бұрын

    I'm jaelous with my classmates because they can actually talk infront of class with confidence and I'm just looking at them trying to imagine that's me

  • @lara-vu4ie

    @lara-vu4ie

    Жыл бұрын

    dear… creat your best version of yourself.. just creat how and who you want to be.. how you want to live.. and imitate it.. you’ll be what you want when you face your fear and stay away from your comfort zone

  • @CouscousSaoudi

    @CouscousSaoudi

    7 ай бұрын

    Same me 😭

  • @henrichamlingrairai6761
    @henrichamlingrairai67613 жыл бұрын

    Shy people seems to have two characters....i.e. comfortable in online but shy and timid in reality😁. It's me🤣

  • @daydreamer-ty8fs

    @daydreamer-ty8fs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same 2ll

  • @wonkymeowchubsky9556

    @wonkymeowchubsky9556

    2 жыл бұрын

    What?! We're the same 😅😅🤣🤣

  • @noorulemaneman5335

    @noorulemaneman5335

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly 🤕🤧

  • @PreviouslyTheKazuhaWanter

    @PreviouslyTheKazuhaWanter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same dude

  • @jeptygamana2027

    @jeptygamana2027

    2 жыл бұрын

    count me in hahaha

  • @masariecka1151
    @masariecka11514 жыл бұрын

    i’m going through the comments and i finally feel like someone understands me

  • @issy53

    @issy53

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @damijinadu4184

    @damijinadu4184

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @juliannabush8829

    @juliannabush8829

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same I'm here for you

  • @aperson9901

    @aperson9901

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same😌

  • @marichusasing5772

    @marichusasing5772

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@saoirsehegarty2764 hahaahaha,I was thinking the same thing!😂

  • @josuelopez3456
    @josuelopez34565 жыл бұрын

    I'm not a shy person. The problem is that sometimes I don't know what to say I always run out of topics

  • @silver_V.

    @silver_V.

    5 жыл бұрын

    Josue lopez ikr me too

  • @edina4506

    @edina4506

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me tooo!!!! I would talk to everyone if I would know what! It's annoing!I'm not shy I just don't know what to talk about!

  • @anokalalaki1727

    @anokalalaki1727

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm a half of it

  • @bhabadipTWO-ONE

    @bhabadipTWO-ONE

    5 жыл бұрын

    I got the same problem.

  • @kylesavage4525

    @kylesavage4525

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah me too. But i am also shy and socially awkward.

  • @Mikasa._.
    @Mikasa._.3 жыл бұрын

    Nowadays I am learning to be myself and also learning to not care about others thoughts 😤😤😀

  • @elliyahremisiriban8330

    @elliyahremisiriban8330

    2 жыл бұрын

    same so hard for me

  • @mtbtsarmy2401

    @mtbtsarmy2401

    2 жыл бұрын

    👍👍me tooo

  • @pranathip4155

    @pranathip4155

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same! It takes time but you know the saying, "the best things take time" 🙂

  • @imyoongi7470

    @imyoongi7470

    Жыл бұрын

    I already thought of this a year ago I didn't help

  • @kennaw9950
    @kennaw99504 жыл бұрын

    Is anyone else confident but just an introvert or their mind goes blank when meeting someone new? Just me? Ok

  • @user-ro5yf5sy4j

    @user-ro5yf5sy4j

    3 жыл бұрын

    I'm exactly the same.

  • @learningwithmisswright5301

    @learningwithmisswright5301

    3 жыл бұрын

    I like meeting new people. ...hi

  • @krispysback

    @krispysback

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Deuz Lobusta No one ever tries to talk to me in real life I feel like I'm living in a fucking ghost world, as for me I never know what to say to anyone so I never end up talking to anyone

  • @krispysback

    @krispysback

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Deuz Lobusta Thanks for the response it helps, good luck to you

  • @Bhardwaj9392

    @Bhardwaj9392

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@krispysback happens with me most of time

  • @alo.05
    @alo.055 жыл бұрын

    It's annoying how people say "do you talk"??? Or they ask your friends "does she talk??" And when you finally say a word they are all like "OMG, she can talk!!!"

  • @njks4story421

    @njks4story421

    5 жыл бұрын

    Punch them

  • @malfoyer459

    @malfoyer459

    5 жыл бұрын

    Duyfer fur you don’t just punch random people, and you’d get In trouble

  • @luchinskis

    @luchinskis

    5 жыл бұрын

    People dont realize how hurtful those comments are.

  • @bprvgtim9603

    @bprvgtim9603

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ik so annoying

  • @alo.05

    @alo.05

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@bprvgtim9603 Ya that was my situation about 2 yrs ago thankfully not anymore but gurl it is really annoying

  • @rogertaylorscar1935
    @rogertaylorscar19355 жыл бұрын

    IM SO SHY AND I THINK PEOPLE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING AT ME 😧

  • @angelajijianez7171

    @angelajijianez7171

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ugh! I feel you..

  • @onlyyou5195

    @onlyyou5195

    5 жыл бұрын

    It's fine!!stay strong your amazing!!

  • @gabsgabriella2076

    @gabsgabriella2076

    5 жыл бұрын

    Shout at them "WHAT ARE YOU STARING AT ME FOR?" or stare back

  • @reynalynortiz4014

    @reynalynortiz4014

    5 жыл бұрын

    Youre the only one who thinks of that. That's what my friend told me.

  • @greenleafycabbage8715

    @greenleafycabbage8715

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same here when I go out

  • @listenboymyfirstlovestory.2559
    @listenboymyfirstlovestory.25593 жыл бұрын

    I'm sensitive. I'm shy. I'm lonely. I'm quite. I feel insecure. Weak. Cries easily. But... ✨💛but i still love myself💛✨ Edit:uthtcmbngvbvgdd jgjbjhgggjgjgufvhhfurefhv MAMA I'M FAMOUS 😭😭😭😭😱😱

  • @esavv_

    @esavv_

    3 жыл бұрын

    You nice, keep going 😌

  • @gt-8353

    @gt-8353

    2 жыл бұрын

    One word for u : Army?

  • @JaysonT1

    @JaysonT1

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@gt-8353 Let's start with Boy scouts first

  • @JaysonT1

    @JaysonT1

    2 жыл бұрын

    Cool story. Sensitive is good and all but you need to have a pair at the same time.

  • @r011ing_thunder6

    @r011ing_thunder6

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I’m not buying it lol but do you

  • @amani-kb5pf
    @amani-kb5pf4 жыл бұрын

    I never thought I was shy but like every person in my class is like “your so quiet you never talk” Sooo now I’m here😑😓

  • @estixscrackworld4046

    @estixscrackworld4046

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's what I do. I don't care If any of my classmates find me in here, all they have to do is read how i feel

  • @nisayj

    @nisayj

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sameee😭🤣

  • @kkzz9315
    @kkzz93155 жыл бұрын

    People: why are you so quite? Are you shy type? Me: why tf are you so noisy? Are you annoying type?

  • @querubinperez4692

    @querubinperez4692

    5 жыл бұрын

    thats what im thinking to.

  • @boney8073

    @boney8073

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂 haha

  • @maiadel2037

    @maiadel2037

    5 жыл бұрын

    You are right 😂

  • @salimlovelu27

    @salimlovelu27

    5 жыл бұрын

    Good one

  • @QQ-vr7pt

    @QQ-vr7pt

    5 жыл бұрын

    Quiet* 😅

  • @infinitedeath1804
    @infinitedeath18044 жыл бұрын

    The problem is when I try to push myself to talk I end up making situation awkward. I dont even know how to talk like a normal person anymore.

  • @AbdulSamad-yg5vo

    @AbdulSamad-yg5vo

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @nizarsyifa707

    @nizarsyifa707

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @salwaas938

    @salwaas938

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ikr like sometimes i don’t even know what i am saying

  • @genm5998

    @genm5998

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ugh I relate so much! like if I'm in a group and they ask my opinion, they look at me and wait for me to speak, I usually don't know what to say, I stutter and end up saying something awkward making it awkward cause they're just like what?😭

  • @ees5640

    @ees5640

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here 🥺 and it feels so fake , and I tell myself it's not me , why I'm doing this

  • @darnell._zw
    @darnell._zw3 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes when l walk l feel like l'm on the red carpet when everyone stares at u

  • @strawberry-uf1el

    @strawberry-uf1el

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @idonthaveaname.7911

    @idonthaveaname.7911

    3 жыл бұрын

    I end up walking like a zombie.

  • @ShreekarMayya-yd5sc

    @ShreekarMayya-yd5sc

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@idonthaveaname.7911 ,😂👍🤣

  • @udaysingam219

    @udaysingam219

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly same I feel very shy to walk when people are around

  • @no_name6631

    @no_name6631

    3 жыл бұрын

    Why is this so true??

  • @shiva-xj6yk
    @shiva-xj6yk3 жыл бұрын

    At school when the teachers call for me for attendance my anxiety goes 📈📈 But then at home I'm literally *the opposite*

  • @nalaerii2362

    @nalaerii2362

    2 жыл бұрын

    being shy is different from social anxiety.

  • @lara-vu4ie

    @lara-vu4ie

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nalaerii2362 what’s the differences??

  • @nalaerii2362

    @nalaerii2362

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lara-vu4ie hi!! I'll use dictionary definitions to clarify this, so u know it's not just coming from me :) to be a shy person: "nervous or timid in the company of other people." social anxiety: "an overwhelming *phobia* of social situations like meeting or speaking to people." social anxiety is a *disorder* that possibly stems from childhood or certain social experiences the person has been through, while shyness is more of a trait and can be more temporary + isn't necessarily a part of your personality but also isn't a disorder. In general, the main symptoms that separate shyness from SAD are: -The impairment of functioning that it causes in a person’s life -The intensity of the fear -The level of avoidance according to an article about this, "People with social anxiety disorder don’t just feel nervous before giving a speech. They may worry about the speech for weeks or months beforehand, lose sleep due to anxiety, and have intense symptoms of anxiety during the feared situation such as a racing heart, shortness of breath, sweating, or shaking. The symptoms usually do not go away but get worse as the situation progresses. The person with SAD usually realizes that their fears are unfounded but is still unable to control them." I hope this helped!

  • @edwardtamas6067
    @edwardtamas60675 жыл бұрын

    All my life i was told that im shy and too quiet...that did nothing but fed my shyness

  • @katiewaity3413

    @katiewaity3413

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too omg It just makes me feel like defined and labeled and people won’t allow me or accept me to be any other way. It’s ruined my life too, in so many ways. Not having any friends at all for your entire life changes your life. Because of it I’m a stripper because I have no friends anyway, so who is even going to judge me for being a stripper? Every time I try to go out and make friends I get bullied and targeted for being shy and awkward, in turn making me even more shy and awkward as well.

  • @edwardtamas6067

    @edwardtamas6067

    5 жыл бұрын

    that was in the past and unfortunately affects the present now but the past cannot be changed, right, i have to move on, be confident so i won't fuck my future as well. Don't let your shyness destroy your life guys, don't look back, don't look around, look ahead and smile. Peace

  • @whythough297

    @whythough297

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @whythough297

    @whythough297

    5 жыл бұрын

    Everyone at my school just labels me as shy and quiet. It’s really depressing :\

  • @mr.rc2213

    @mr.rc2213

    5 жыл бұрын

    The Hound I've overcome self doubt and other internal problems and have discovered self love. I encourage you all to believe in yourselves and fuck any and all negativity. If nobody else gives a damn know that I do and I believe in y'all. I just graduated high school I'm 18 and I don't know if I'm ready for this fucked up world yet. Smh 😔

  • @kamui4708
    @kamui47085 жыл бұрын

    I'm not quiet...I just afraid if I'm being ignored...😂

  • @ishwardayalgarg8097

    @ishwardayalgarg8097

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly what i feel "what if i say something and get ignored that would be soo awkward maybe i should just stay quite" i am way to shyyy

  • @emelia2779

    @emelia2779

    4 жыл бұрын

    I’m really quiet when I talk so sometimes people don’t hear me and that just makes me feel like oof I don’t wanna talk.

  • @niborr9662

    @niborr9662

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same tho 😗

  • @bimzzyamzy9621

    @bimzzyamzy9621

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yaaa i think im too!!

  • @itboyjimin3906

    @itboyjimin3906

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here but i can't make eye contact with the person 😔🤦‍♀️, i think i'm kind of a shy girl 😌

  • @apannasethi4839
    @apannasethi48393 жыл бұрын

    First of all when I go outside I feel people are staring at me .and the second things is that I don't know how to talk to others without any fear 🥺

  • @mylifeisalivinghell8855
    @mylifeisalivinghell88554 жыл бұрын

    Nobody : My teacher choosing a student to solve the questions : I need someone new.......hey, you ! The one writing in the last desk! Me : *ah crap.*

  • @estixscrackworld4046

    @estixscrackworld4046

    4 жыл бұрын

    Literally every quiet kid: *Ah seep, here we go again* I'm stating the truth pls don't come and @ me

  • @spacedas915

    @spacedas915

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same man.... 😓😓😓

  • @Chopsey0

    @Chopsey0

    3 жыл бұрын

    EVERYTIME I PUT MY HAND UP SOMEONE FUCKING SHOUTS OUT. LIKE BRUH GO AWAY

  • @ryanjohnson4736
    @ryanjohnson47364 жыл бұрын

    I always feel like my life would be so much more exciting and meaningful if I didn’t have social anxiety

  • @Skintrest_1285

    @Skintrest_1285

    4 жыл бұрын

    True. Social anxiety is bad men

  • @isniffoutpedos5956

    @isniffoutpedos5956

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think I'll be shy forever. When I'm talking to someone I do some very weird movements because I feel extremely discomfortable and nervous. I can't even pay attention to the conversation because I think the person that I'm talking to is thinking about how awkward I am all the time. It's an infinite loop and I can't get out of it or even control it. (Yeah, I need some serious help)

  • @whatshouldinamemyself481

    @whatshouldinamemyself481

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hitlerzinho Kawaii I can relate sooooooooooooo much

  • @gwenstefany248

    @gwenstefany248

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah

  • @felipelemos4896

    @felipelemos4896

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too some times

  • @subhamdebnath9960
    @subhamdebnath99605 жыл бұрын

    Why don't they teach these stuff at school 😭 OMG thanks for the likes💓

  • @raninafisah23

    @raninafisah23

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes.. Because increase our confident is so hard

  • @hoshinosz

    @hoshinosz

    4 жыл бұрын

    there is nothing wrong with being shy though

  • @arnavjain7566

    @arnavjain7566

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@raninafisah23 no because learning that Mitochondria is the power house of a cell is more important than this!!😂

  • @camilakai2213

    @camilakai2213

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ha trust

  • @basilpeter2830

    @basilpeter2830

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @hermionestocks4139
    @hermionestocks41393 жыл бұрын

    After reading some of the comments It makes me feel happier to know that I'm not alone and can relate :)

  • @karthikasankar2298
    @karthikasankar22984 жыл бұрын

    I am shy + afraid I am active when I am alone but when I see people my character suddenly changes I behave like seeing humans for the first time and that is so weird

  • @the_one_namedollie4403

    @the_one_namedollie4403

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @ibeprecious4759

    @ibeprecious4759

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @mansoormohd5115

    @mansoormohd5115

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same. Here

  • @kimberlyjayneantigo2297

    @kimberlyjayneantigo2297

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's me

  • @sum5687

    @sum5687

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mee too 😭😭😭. Infront of other my body movement transform to more shy movements.

  • @aure1554
    @aure15544 жыл бұрын

    when i realize how many people are like me i dont feel alone anymore, i just cant relate to all the annoying people out there

  • @izzy-qx6kq

    @izzy-qx6kq

    4 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @estixscrackworld4046

    @estixscrackworld4046

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I feel like making friends with some peeps here

  • @bobalily6969

    @bobalily6969

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ikr so many ppl out there are introverted, shy, quiet, ext, but the thing is..I CAN NEVER FIND THEM AT SCHOOL AND STUFFFF

  • @yoyo-ih5zx
    @yoyo-ih5zx5 жыл бұрын

    I'm even feeling shy to comment on some video

  • @marimakiba325

    @marimakiba325

    5 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @musharafqasim6200

    @musharafqasim6200

    5 жыл бұрын

    kkkkkk

  • @mepmop616

    @mepmop616

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @kylie-7098

    @kylie-7098

    5 жыл бұрын

    You'll get over it just do it more often

  • @kylie-7098

    @kylie-7098

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@mepmop616 i believe in you♡

  • @judym.3395
    @judym.33953 жыл бұрын

    is it just me but i get sweats all over my body just because of the thought that everyone is looking at me and judging my whole being.

  • @gwenjackson1655

    @gwenjackson1655

    3 жыл бұрын

    I see “ She’s so Dumb” look everyone’s face. It’s terrible, I’m some situations I feel everyone thinks I’m ugly and stupid.

  • @GlowTint

    @GlowTint

    2 жыл бұрын

    I can give a presentation perfectly without feeling awkard But I don't know why I can't talk with my relatives without felling insecure My lot of relatives calls me dumb for this. next year I try to change myself And be socialize

  • @justcqmi
    @justcqmi4 жыл бұрын

    Step one: accept yourself Me: closes video *I knew this was going to be impossible* Edit: Heyyyyy its been 2 years since I've commented that and I just wanted to say that I am now confident in myself and less shy, no I didn't follow the video but things do get better

  • @Sana-nv3tj

    @Sana-nv3tj

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nailed it

  • @musabadam3059

    @musabadam3059

    3 жыл бұрын

    You can change this

  • @justcqmi

    @justcqmi

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@musabadam3059 how-

  • @strabeex-alt940

    @strabeex-alt940

    3 жыл бұрын

    haha.. same xd

  • @memexre6449

    @memexre6449

    3 жыл бұрын

    fr

  • @nabaweesihalimah3140
    @nabaweesihalimah31405 жыл бұрын

    am very happy to know that there's many people like me. Sometimes I feel like am not normal

  • @travaughnbinns4957

    @travaughnbinns4957

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @markbalor6941

    @markbalor6941

    5 жыл бұрын

    HAHAHAHA

  • @alexiguess6018

    @alexiguess6018

    5 жыл бұрын

    I always feel as tho there's a wall between me and my friends/family. I'm nothing like them.

  • @alenpadilla8695

    @alenpadilla8695

    5 жыл бұрын

    I feel the same way

  • @davevidalez5202

    @davevidalez5202

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same we feel you

  • @theshaktiya
    @theshaktiya5 жыл бұрын

    I'm very shy to Asking question or answer to teacher even I know the answer I just don't want to say... It's hard to change 😕 I really didn't expect there are so many people felt the same feeling.... Guys I'm really happy to let u know this...Everyday, I am reading so many quotes and learn to do it in my life... U guys always should need to think that different people need to be don't care about others... Just live for u & for u only 🤗🤗🤗 Confident is the key of success 🗝️🎹 If u want success, come n join with me friends....We are confident squad 😘😘😘

  • @emmaj5807

    @emmaj5807

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm the same way

  • @user-mv8qx4si3u

    @user-mv8qx4si3u

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @optimisticboyali

    @optimisticboyali

    4 жыл бұрын

    What exactly came in to your mind that time ?

  • @animeking2193

    @animeking2193

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same and there was a time that my teacher call me in front of my classmates and hold chin then forcing me to talk in front of them

  • @no-fe8wm

    @no-fe8wm

    4 жыл бұрын

    It is 😔

  • @pikachuu128
    @pikachuu1284 жыл бұрын

    “Easiest way to overcome social anxiety is to say whatever is on your mind” - Axel Dobbins

  • @Pariii689
    @Pariii6893 жыл бұрын

    I m very shy that I am not talking with anyone that I m very emotional ... I don't make friends for the worry of I lose them🙄 ; I even not able to talk confidently..😣 Edit - I see all comments all are relatable...I m very happy that anyone is like me!! Thnks for reading 😜❤

  • @twicetzuyuxitzyryujin2053
    @twicetzuyuxitzyryujin20534 жыл бұрын

    Judgement is the top reason of shyness and lack of confidence. Sad but true.

  • @kailleymendoza5122

    @kailleymendoza5122

    4 жыл бұрын

    Twice Tzuyu x Itzy Ryujin Ik I’m always scared that someone is gonna judge me for who I am so that’s why I keep to myself...

  • @ccartiers

    @ccartiers

    4 жыл бұрын

    Twice Tzuyu x Itzy Ryujin 100% agree. This is the reason I changed and became shy... No matter what, someones always going to have something to say.

  • @no-fe8wm

    @no-fe8wm

    4 жыл бұрын

    People talk bad about me when I didn't even do anything

  • @chula_Isa

    @chula_Isa

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same,I don't say anything because I think I sound dumb.

  • @hal8531

    @hal8531

    4 жыл бұрын

    So true 100%

  • @Cliffbar06
    @Cliffbar064 жыл бұрын

    *When you're still shy after watching this...*

  • @freehugs9040

    @freehugs9040

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @handgroblox5302

    @handgroblox5302

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same ;-;

  • @shadyasaid88

    @shadyasaid88

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me 1

  • @onedaaayyy2304

    @onedaaayyy2304

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @nanapen

    @nanapen

    3 жыл бұрын

    😆😆😆

  • @veenamaravanthe4683
    @veenamaravanthe46832 жыл бұрын

    I'm a shy and introverted person when I meet new people. But I do talk to them with a 'not so comfortable' feeling. And when I start to know them, I become the most talkative and extorverted person

  • @shinichi9553
    @shinichi95533 жыл бұрын

    I'm anxious talking and chatting with my new classmates. I don't know what to do until I saw this video. Thank you!

  • @nitabailey426
    @nitabailey4265 жыл бұрын

    I hate being shy!! I'm crying knowing that I have to watch this video so people would stop saying i am shy!!

  • @EDifyer881

    @EDifyer881

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm in the same boat

  • @winivikingdom3654

    @winivikingdom3654

    4 жыл бұрын

    I feel sorry for you

  • @niqaabiqueen1266

    @niqaabiqueen1266

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sorry hun

  • @rodneysettle8106

    @rodneysettle8106

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nita Bailey having social anxiety disorder is like being tortured, unfortunately it never goes away.

  • @no-fe8wm

    @no-fe8wm

    4 жыл бұрын

    I ABSOLUTELY HATE IT!😭😭😭

  • @alamin.utopia
    @alamin.utopia5 жыл бұрын

    When I talk people I feel shy but when I chat I'm different 😂😂

  • @alexherrera3451

    @alexherrera3451

    5 жыл бұрын

    mohammad al amin same

  • @iamnicolejenica

    @iamnicolejenica

    5 жыл бұрын

    mohammad al amin *MEEEEEEEEE*

  • @reyco2.032

    @reyco2.032

    5 жыл бұрын

    mohammad al amin that was me a year ago, believe me shyness get worse by the time

  • @devashrijoshi9079

    @devashrijoshi9079

    5 жыл бұрын

    mohammad al amin same lol!

  • @bouchrafathallah7057

    @bouchrafathallah7057

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @blackfire1471
    @blackfire14713 жыл бұрын

    Bro, this video is THE ULTIMATE video to end shyness once and for all, once again I'm in your debt, friend, I cant thank you enough, I sub.

  • @trishacrisostomo1590
    @trishacrisostomo15903 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for uploading this kind of video, it really helps a lot.

  • @genesisss6
    @genesisss65 жыл бұрын

    I am so shy I can talk to you in text about anything but in person i won’t talk to you lmao

  • @alfredaquino1026

    @alfredaquino1026

    5 жыл бұрын

    Did i just find my sister in the chat i say so much in real life i cant even say hi

  • @meikedve6799

    @meikedve6799

    5 жыл бұрын

    alfred aquino same here

  • @alexiguess6018

    @alexiguess6018

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too.

  • @desireesabado1846

    @desireesabado1846

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @likeit1239

    @likeit1239

    5 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @thisisntcatnip
    @thisisntcatnip5 жыл бұрын

    1. Accept yourself Well that'll be easy, I've only been trying to do that for a whole *year*

  • @halcioncocaine2096

    @halcioncocaine2096

    5 жыл бұрын

    Accept the whole year🐷

  • @kailleymendoza5122

    @kailleymendoza5122

    4 жыл бұрын

    Cat Crazy Caticorn riiiiiight🤧🤦🏽‍♀️😔

  • @elarajer6341

    @elarajer6341

    4 жыл бұрын

    I've been trying to accept myself for 5 years now and still trying :/ so yeah lol same

  • @Mariadgv

    @Mariadgv

    4 жыл бұрын

    i’ve been trying to do that for my whole life 😍

  • @depressexpress4599

    @depressexpress4599

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ah I have finally found my kind of people who understand the struggles

  • @turboheat5870
    @turboheat58703 жыл бұрын

    I've been really shy for the last 3 years, I never tried to fix it but thanks for the video, I'm gonna try these, hopefully they work 😀

  • @thandokuhlemdladla523
    @thandokuhlemdladla5232 жыл бұрын

    I always critisize and compare myself to people's standards, and it always made me anxious and depressed. This video was helpful, I feel like trying to socialize and meet new people.

  • @pallavi3754
    @pallavi37544 жыл бұрын

    Are you here because you are shy?? Once Stephan hawking said that quiet person has loudest mind. Edit: If you are shy and quite, then you got some super power. Don't think about your superpower as how others think instead search how you are benefited by it. You know, I m quite person and I don't tend to be shy- it comes automatically.(You don't really need to control it, but be prepare for next time, when you gonna visit others- they may point you out like why are you so quite?why are you shying? So be ready for those situation.) Learn how to deal with them. Let me tell you one more thing- quite and shy person do best in the society. So smile & go ahead in your journey, you are going right way!

  • @rightlibertarian8355

    @rightlibertarian8355

    4 жыл бұрын

    Not all quiet people have loud minds.

  • @user-cq8pq8hq8e

    @user-cq8pq8hq8e

    4 жыл бұрын

    True i don't talk but i think a lot in my mind.

  • @manellemaiouf7389

    @manellemaiouf7389

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ive social anxiety

  • @violettuu8818

    @violettuu8818

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @stefantanase355

    @stefantanase355

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@user-cq8pq8hq8e same as me I think alot!

  • @zamzam-pw5zf
    @zamzam-pw5zf5 жыл бұрын

    'making eye contact '...thats really difficult for me. I can't even last one second looking at someone else 😭

  • @MarioLopez-si8jb

    @MarioLopez-si8jb

    5 жыл бұрын

    me either but im working on looking at people straight in the eye when im talking to them.

  • @goli5785

    @goli5785

    5 жыл бұрын

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  • @Toto52991

    @Toto52991

    5 жыл бұрын

    Try looking at the thing above the others eyes no idea what's it called in English ^^ it's "stirn" in German

  • @lastella1994

    @lastella1994

    5 жыл бұрын

    Honey don't feel lonely many of us can relate I just don't understand why some of us are nervous like this I know it's natural but when I act awkward I feel embarassed.

  • @ashplays8057

    @ashplays8057

    5 жыл бұрын

    purple herbiscus me too

  • @anotherweeb8196
    @anotherweeb81964 жыл бұрын

    I used to be a very talkative person and had a lots of friends. Then I moved to another country. Here I'm so shy even though I've found some good friends. I'm not fluent in their language. So, I talk less. Anyway this video helps me a lot. Thanks. Thanks for the people who've read this.

  • @noelysmith2827
    @noelysmith28275 жыл бұрын

    I've just accepted I don't like being around people

  • @JamesSmith-fd5hk

    @JamesSmith-fd5hk

    5 жыл бұрын

    You lie to yourself ... Deep down you want have friends and a love life .. don't let's your anxiety fuck your future and make you a desperate person without life

  • @fahrudincatic7363

    @fahrudincatic7363

    5 жыл бұрын

    Faith Greene perfectly fine as long you enjoy it

  • @noelysmith2827

    @noelysmith2827

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fahrudin Catic thank you

  • @countdown2xstacy

    @countdown2xstacy

    5 жыл бұрын

    Faith Greene I’m with you Faith

  • @fatenleknouche4383

    @fatenleknouche4383

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @nidhigondhali2043
    @nidhigondhali20435 жыл бұрын

    I am feeling happy that there are the people like me shy.

  • @amanboora942

    @amanboora942

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah... I am also feeling happy Kya hum iss baare mein ek dusre se baat kr skte hain....

  • @kolibhath6128

    @kolibhath6128

    4 жыл бұрын

    ✋ same amma

  • @donkey9825
    @donkey98254 жыл бұрын

    thank you for this💓 so i can be more confident

  • @marianjane9915
    @marianjane99152 жыл бұрын

    I'm shy and introverted person but after watching this video it enlighten me so much. Thank you, from now on I'm optimistic to be as good as other confidents out there.

  • @ghostwolf94
    @ghostwolf945 жыл бұрын

    Everyone says i am to quiet and shy or i can't speak it's just make's me lose my confidense 😢

  • @tyshaunjones281

    @tyshaunjones281

    5 жыл бұрын

    alpha wolf me too bro

  • @yousaypotatoesisaypootato6977

    @yousaypotatoesisaypootato6977

    5 жыл бұрын

    patriarch wolf same😢

  • @kittyuwu7489

    @kittyuwu7489

    5 жыл бұрын

    I've experienced the same. You just gotta be positive about yourself, don't listen to those people you can change that. All you need to do is practice, it really will get better, trust me! :3

  • @roundlaker007

    @roundlaker007

    5 жыл бұрын

    You why we loose confidence? It is because we think looking confident is looking good and we can’t look bad. There is nothing wrong with looking bad. After all we’re still human being, don’t need to be perfect all the time. Embrace looking bad and free yourself from that mental trap.

  • @kittyuwu7489

    @kittyuwu7489

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@roundlaker007 Yeah, it's ok to be shy. Just be yourself :)

  • @aishabhat2358
    @aishabhat23585 жыл бұрын

    1:10,this is what my mother tells me "No one is looking at you,they are busy looking at themselves,don't feel shy".😂😂😂

  • @jmo8a_veda

    @jmo8a_veda

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thats true

  • @apsingh6

    @apsingh6

    5 жыл бұрын

    😅😅it's right

  • @irlanfernando3119

    @irlanfernando3119

    5 жыл бұрын

    I'm too afraid of what people think of me. Hence, I try avoid conversation with them 🙄

  • @synohm7448

    @synohm7448

    5 жыл бұрын

    I cant even look at someones eyes i tried but my eyes is looking away on its owner

  • @paralinkincubusninja5100

    @paralinkincubusninja5100

    5 жыл бұрын

    +Qurrota A'yuni Mar'atut Tabrizah thats paranoia😌

  • @better2467
    @better2467 Жыл бұрын

    I am so grateful for this video. It’s really inspiring for me and the author give some a really great advices. Thank you so much

  • @marthabeales7805
    @marthabeales78053 жыл бұрын

    You are so right. Thankyou so much thus helped me loads😘

  • @light8514
    @light85145 жыл бұрын

    It feels good while reading the comments that there are so many people like me. I hardly find a shy person like me in the actual life. I am always in the search of a person who is shy like me, does anyone else do that? Btw never found anyone like me so far.

  • @iduiniemmanuel9422

    @iduiniemmanuel9422

    5 жыл бұрын

    Shashwat Choudhary ; me too

  • @light8514

    @light8514

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@iduiniemmanuel9422 I guess I am not alone then.

  • @shacrosy4279

    @shacrosy4279

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ya

  • @origin687

    @origin687

    5 жыл бұрын

    shashwat did you use to study in central school Dubai before?

  • @zainabcheema8133

    @zainabcheema8133

    5 жыл бұрын

    stop findind yrr try to make youeself more confidentt u have no need to find other nake special as much special others try to find uu but not u

  • @cantrelate122
    @cantrelate1224 жыл бұрын

    *How KZread knew that I am shy and quite and recommended me this?*

  • @sakthivelb9074

    @sakthivelb9074

    4 жыл бұрын

    Happened for me too bro

  • @gamestutorialhelper1753

    @gamestutorialhelper1753

    4 жыл бұрын

    I dont got this video im not shy

  • @ahmedgaming9827

    @ahmedgaming9827

    4 жыл бұрын

    There everywhere If you know what i mean

  • @silviamoonly

    @silviamoonly

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same😅

  • @vmation3389

    @vmation3389

    4 жыл бұрын

    Haha same.

  • @omkarshinde1628
    @omkarshinde16283 жыл бұрын

    I used to be extrovert kid Watching a cartoon where silent kids was looks cool dark But Now being introvert and shy gives me depression

  • @JossueND
    @JossueND3 жыл бұрын

    To stop saying "I am shy" and starting conversations with known/unknown people are the things that have been helping me a lot

  • @tinytuzi8167
    @tinytuzi81675 жыл бұрын

    I can talk to people if they strike up a conversation with me but I feel shy when others don't try to talk with me.

  • @mariateresa-rj9hc

    @mariateresa-rj9hc

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @246bro9

    @246bro9

    5 жыл бұрын

    Holy shit!!!! The exact same thing happens to me

  • @samirdoncic6395

    @samirdoncic6395

    5 жыл бұрын

    I dont like to ask questions, i feel like im going into their privacy, hahahaha, even simple basic questions like where do you live, hahaha

  • @alexiguess6018

    @alexiguess6018

    5 жыл бұрын

    Shmu10 me too I cannot talk to someone I don't know unless they talk to me first. Even then I really only give one/two word answers. My family and two of my friends are the only people I'm completely open with and even with them I keep a lot closed off and hidden.

  • @chuminath7800

    @chuminath7800

    5 жыл бұрын

    Mee too

  • @cat-myowa
    @cat-myowa4 жыл бұрын

    Whoever made this video, you don’t understand. To get rid of social anxiety and shyness isn’t something we can do on 1.2.3. It takes lots of lots of time

  • @vernspangler4832

    @vernspangler4832

    3 жыл бұрын

    You right

  • @gamingliza8169

    @gamingliza8169

    3 жыл бұрын

    100% Agree.

  • @6xmaaaa

    @6xmaaaa

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yesssirrr sadly

  • @tsiiveneisilvia8640

    @tsiiveneisilvia8640

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ya exactly

  • @sjg3890

    @sjg3890

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes, it would be easier for someone scared of heights to jump out of a plane than a shy person to speak to a crowd.

  • @ebukaunachukwu9455
    @ebukaunachukwu94554 жыл бұрын

    Mindset is the key to all challenges apply a positive mindset in negative thought. Thanks MR upload.

  • @deepsensible519
    @deepsensible5193 жыл бұрын

    Soooooooo beautiful soooooooo outstanding message and lesson... Lots of love and appreciation. Thank you so much for motivating and encouraging the whole world. God bless u

  • @maisha_
    @maisha_5 жыл бұрын

    I’m so shy I hardly even talk in school

  • @usamoon7729

    @usamoon7729

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @Alex-ks3yx

    @Alex-ks3yx

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am so low confident....i feel like a loser...

  • @finalislytan8342

    @finalislytan8342

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too #😥

  • @vibinwnadia1422

    @vibinwnadia1422

    5 жыл бұрын

    i’m so glad i have people i can relate too

  • @MkeeEllery

    @MkeeEllery

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same but when its lunch time and im with my friends im the loudest😂😂😂

  • @dawncaptain8694
    @dawncaptain86945 жыл бұрын

    I feel less shy when I pretend to be an alien from space.

  • @brokendevil6144

    @brokendevil6144

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dawn Captain lol

  • @ProHasanZone

    @ProHasanZone

    5 жыл бұрын

    Haha

  • @ProHasanZone

    @ProHasanZone

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dawn Captain think others as your long lost siblings 😋

  • @zt9015

    @zt9015

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @helinaanreasson1194

    @helinaanreasson1194

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dawn Captain 😆😆😆Alien? ?

  • @sarahhurst701
    @sarahhurst701 Жыл бұрын

    Great video, excellent advice!🔥💜🌍

  • @andpeggy9240
    @andpeggy92403 жыл бұрын

    i’m a very quiet person and VERY very shy. loads of social anxiety. so this one time i ended up doing this drama class where i had to audition for a part, and we all had to sing a song. when it was my turn i didn’t sing the song. i whispered it. my teacher though, was aware that i was extremely shy and anxious. she understood me and asked if i was nervous. i said yes, and she said she gets it and everyone is nervous their first day. she said i didn’t have to finish the song. she ended up giving me a small speaking part and asked me if i was okay with that. it was the kind of part i wanted since it was my first time. i love people like her because they understand social anxiety and shyness. a lot of teachers make you talk louder, or get mad when you can’t speak up. i’m just glad Miss Lindsay understood.

  • @Naruto9tailedfox
    @Naruto9tailedfox5 жыл бұрын

    I am very very shy..I have met millions of shy people but not one if them are as shy as me...😭...at school I'm known as the "quite shy girl"...I try not to be shy I try to talk but no words come out of my mouth...I often shake extremely during presentations...I can't control it....i dont say not one single word at school ..not one word comes out of my mouth..and the days I do, the whole class gets shocked coz they hardly ever hear my voice ..i jus wish someone was like me. Edit:! I'm so glad that I found out I'm not the only one!..I feel more confident now and not so alone. Thank you all and Its great to know that there are still some beautiful hearts left in this world. ❤

  • @lastella1994

    @lastella1994

    5 жыл бұрын

    Honey I understand you I'm also shy know that you're not alone in this there are many people like you and I.There are many famous singers and performers who have achieved a lot they didn't allow their shyness to hold them back.Personally I feel shyness can't be overcome shy people are naturally born this way.But I believe you can achieve a lot.

  • @Naruto9tailedfox

    @Naruto9tailedfox

    5 жыл бұрын

    Priscilla Owusu Pankyee 😢thank you

  • @kratikalad2397

    @kratikalad2397

    5 жыл бұрын

    hey dear.. i use to be the same when I was at school, i never use to talk to anyone but girl u know we shy people are very creative but feels shy to tell anyone about our talent...im sure u must be having lot of talent, just believe in yourself and don't think what others will think. just enjoy and do what ever you like n you will see that slowly ull overcome from ur shyness. not completely but yes ull feel good n confident. today I m not the same person as I use to be in school I've changed a lot. n i believe that you too can do that😊🌻

  • @Naruto9tailedfox

    @Naruto9tailedfox

    5 жыл бұрын

    kratika lad thankx i feel much better knowing I'm not the only one..yes you are right I am very talented, and I'll try to believe in myself.❤ thank you for giving me hope that things will turn out better. 🏆👑🔥

  • @neemarawat4790

    @neemarawat4790

    5 жыл бұрын

    m here

  • @zouxhsi6045
    @zouxhsi60454 жыл бұрын

    You know back when I was 7 years old, I always used to be an extroverted person. But ever since I grew older, I feel left out and became an introvert.

  • @Lee-qy8zs

    @Lee-qy8zs

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @spacedas915

    @spacedas915

    3 жыл бұрын

    😓😓😓

  • @BlackCat-tg7th

    @BlackCat-tg7th

    3 жыл бұрын

    Introverts don't equal shy tho

  • @elenal288

    @elenal288

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Lee-qy8zs same

  • @bobalily6969

    @bobalily6969

    3 жыл бұрын

    IKR so unfair 😢😭

  • @_yejikitty_
    @_yejikitty_4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this ❤

  • @daisyboadi6153
    @daisyboadi61534 жыл бұрын

    This has helped me to express my feeling to someone

  • @btsfangirl4095
    @btsfangirl40954 жыл бұрын

    It's really awkward when you try to speak and get frequently interupped by someone else whose normal speaking voice is louder than yours after waiting for a lull in the conversation to try to jump in

  • @shizzkhan1792

    @shizzkhan1792

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @tornedocousins7331

    @tornedocousins7331

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!

  • @ParkJimin-nu4zj

    @ParkJimin-nu4zj

    3 жыл бұрын

    Samee :(

  • @listenboymyfirstlovestory.2559

    @listenboymyfirstlovestory.2559

    3 жыл бұрын

    It really is awkward....

  • @cybeleclores8039
    @cybeleclores80395 жыл бұрын

    Is it Just me Or whenever i get a Compliment I became Shy as Hell.

  • @tsfxpre174

    @tsfxpre174

    4 жыл бұрын

    Mystic Donutz yes sameee

  • @slayre1408

    @slayre1408

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah it’s personality.

  • @car7561

    @car7561

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes i becomo tomato

  • @timhofling7849

    @timhofling7849

    4 жыл бұрын

    Because of the fear of for example not giving a correct answer to a question the teacher asked. There is this weird feeling when u disappoint someone when they just complimented you.

  • @Alyssa-tz7hx

    @Alyssa-tz7hx

    4 жыл бұрын

    its not just you

  • @lovelyblossommay
    @lovelyblossommay2 жыл бұрын

    hi there! Thank you for making this video. I watched because I' want to overcome my shyness. I just want to be more social and make friends!

  • @emmanuelnyumah6683
    @emmanuelnyumah66833 жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate this opportunity to stop being shy

  • @swathipriya270
    @swathipriya2705 жыл бұрын

    I thought I was only one who is like this but their are many 😮

  • @svnraju123

    @svnraju123

    5 жыл бұрын

    Hi

  • @no-fe8wm

    @no-fe8wm

    4 жыл бұрын

    I know :o

  • @RameshKumar-qi7nz

    @RameshKumar-qi7nz

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi IAM Tamil

  • @Meow_yj
    @Meow_yj3 жыл бұрын

    It's so helpful, thank you :)

  • @ranitagadling4312
    @ranitagadling43123 жыл бұрын

    As a physically challenged woman I've been shy my entire life but it's totally worked out for me because whenever I'm in public situations everyone ignores me which is exactly what I want.😁

  • @shikayla
    @shikayla5 жыл бұрын

    One time our teacher was chatting with us, a group of 8 people, and suddenly told everyone not to talk except for me. All of them waited for me to talk but I didnt say anything. After a few seconds of silence, they continued their conversation. It was really uncomfortable.

  • @lilmidget2217

    @lilmidget2217

    4 жыл бұрын

    Kari Cast this was me for a year but with the whole class instead of 8 people.

  • @scareacorn3989

    @scareacorn3989

    4 жыл бұрын

    You guys are not alone

  • @rodneysettle8106

    @rodneysettle8106

    4 жыл бұрын

    kari kari was your teacher trying to embarrass you, or hoping to spark your brain into action.

  • @Alyssa-tz7hx

    @Alyssa-tz7hx

    4 жыл бұрын

    ikr and it would feel like a long time

  • @DP-rd4ze

    @DP-rd4ze

    4 жыл бұрын

    Girl! i hate those teachers, do they even realise that it makes us more uncomfortable.

  • @plizahmoraa9342
    @plizahmoraa93425 жыл бұрын

    I don't like being with people for a long time they drain me..

  • @samirdoncic6395

    @samirdoncic6395

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Uloveeverglow

    @Uloveeverglow

    5 жыл бұрын

    same my parents thinks it werid not my fault I need alone time with cats and sleeping

  • @Antbeast23

    @Antbeast23

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yea especially at a place with a lot of people. I like small groups or just being by myself lol. Gives me anxiety.

  • @danielbarro7045

    @danielbarro7045

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same i thought im the only one like i even make excuses just to get out

  • @user-se7vt2xj3n

    @user-se7vt2xj3n

    5 жыл бұрын

    hi. what does ( drain) mean

  • @kadonggilsangsangma1377
    @kadonggilsangsangma13774 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the tips 🥀great work

  • @JasonSilverstein
    @JasonSilverstein3 жыл бұрын

    A lot of good information in this one! I worry about what people are thinking about me when I am talking to them. I beat myself up when I don't do well in social situations. That's my biggest weakness. I did a video on what I have done to stop beating myself up so much.

  • @teshamusic6048
    @teshamusic60484 жыл бұрын

    I was so shy back then. But I decided to overcome my shyness by engaging myself in customer service kind of work. I deal with local and foreign clients and tend to adjust my self into different kinds of people with different kinds of attitude. Now I can see that I'm improving and saw that I developed my skills in approaching people. When something scared you, don't try to walk away. You need to face your fear. You'll eventually see the best version of your self😃

  • @AS004-xf4jc

    @AS004-xf4jc

    Жыл бұрын

    Great saying 👍

  • @itskaerish4761
    @itskaerish47614 жыл бұрын

    Im so shy and tommorow we have a experiment show individually in front of the class one by oneeee!! Im so scareddd!!!😭😭😭

  • @rhyme5218

    @rhyme5218

    4 жыл бұрын

    How did it go??

  • @desicutepuppy1917

    @desicutepuppy1917

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hate presentation

  • @zumbagold4676

    @zumbagold4676

    4 жыл бұрын

    I hate being in front of class and im insecure about myself :

  • @DP-rd4ze

    @DP-rd4ze

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ive read your comment girl, keep going!

  • @sankardey9249

    @sankardey9249

    4 жыл бұрын

    Omg these things kill me!!!! I understand youuu😭

  • @lemongloves
    @lemongloves4 жыл бұрын

    Finally, some good heckin KZread recommendations!

  • @khushiwadhwa7389
    @khushiwadhwa73894 жыл бұрын

    Hey now after watching these videos I hv decided to overcome my shyness and doing every single thing which will help me in my way like commenting on this video ( trust me guys I use to even think before commenting on a video)!!

  • @iliketodraw1632
    @iliketodraw16324 жыл бұрын

    I hate how people will be like " omg you can talk!" and then my confidence goes⬆↗➡↙⬇ and in class i never raise my hand because i will turn into a literal tomato and because i hate how everyone has to look at you and i hate that

  • @ella.travels

    @ella.travels

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sameeeee I rarely raise my hand in class and my teachers are always like RaIsE YoUR hANd MoRE

  • @estixscrackworld4046

    @estixscrackworld4046

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same and one time this boy force me to read something out loud

  • @honeysunfun9127

    @honeysunfun9127

    3 жыл бұрын

    SAME I GO RED LIKE A TOMATO

  • @nanno4184

    @nanno4184

    3 жыл бұрын

    I luv is when I raise my hand people just close their eyes And ears .😂 I am sure i always raise my hand

  • @listenboymyfirstlovestory.2559

    @listenboymyfirstlovestory.2559

    3 жыл бұрын

    SAME. I literally can't handle too many eyes on me when i speak, my mind goes blank and forget what i was going to say and i will talk very quietly almost whispering.

  • @peppersalt6337
    @peppersalt63375 жыл бұрын

    Shyness is a disease for me high school sucks for me because I am lonely because of my shyness. Some people asked me if I wanted to sit with them. I really wanted to say yes but my shyness prevented me from sitting with them. I always wish there was a shyness club where a group of shy people are gathered together and become friends.

  • @princessthebest8630

    @princessthebest8630

    5 жыл бұрын

    I can understand u😯

  • @shehbazsandhu3881

    @shehbazsandhu3881

    5 жыл бұрын

    i m also very shy

  • @Malindi_Nanayakkara

    @Malindi_Nanayakkara

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too. I've got that too.

  • @adamscott7492

    @adamscott7492

    5 жыл бұрын

    Kinda similar to your situation but I don't consider myself shy (only around women) But I do suffer from social phobia , it prevented me from making new friends. As a result , I didn't have many friends in high school. I didn't have any friends at all in college. I'm 23 years old and I still don't have a girlfriend. But its okay because who says you need a woman to make you happy. I'll just get a pet to keep me company.

  • @kyokazuto

    @kyokazuto

    5 жыл бұрын

    Can relate although I think I would've said yes if people wanted to sit with me

  • @fr7820
    @fr78203 жыл бұрын

    Very good tips!!!! Thank you!!!!

  • @sulehassanshall6140
    @sulehassanshall61403 жыл бұрын

    Tanx 4 ur advices now I can stand in front of pple

  • @romilgoel4051
    @romilgoel40515 жыл бұрын

    Once in my School.... In a Parents-Teacher Meeting.... When no one else was there, One of Teachers "seriouslly" asked my mother,"Is it True that your son is unable to speak?" . One day... our class was making a LOT of noise when there was no teacher in class. ... A teacher came in with a lot of anger. Ready to punish whole class, .... But as she entered, she saw me and just.... just thought that I was also making noise. (But that is totally untrue. ... I think I was just smiling on something) .... She Forgave whole class just becauce of my rare smile. ... and some other these type of incidents also happened in my life Like When I try to say something, All of My Friends say something like... "Shut Up Guys!! Romil is saying something ! Listen!! ( as its very rare. ) 😧

  • @RosaMia8884

    @RosaMia8884

    4 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations, you saved the whole class! It's like you are a hero

  • @arishakhan9569

    @arishakhan9569

    4 жыл бұрын

    this is something I can completely relate to 😂😂🤗

  • @estixscrackworld4046

    @estixscrackworld4046

    4 жыл бұрын

    *claps hardly*

  • @persona6866

    @persona6866

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same happens to me lol

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