Who else have social anxiety?

@sexvideolocadora5401

5 жыл бұрын

I do kills me

@peoduction6068

5 жыл бұрын

@@mckenzie_xx6225 Same man I feel you

@SmashyPlays

5 жыл бұрын

Andrew Ugale yes and it’s breaking me

@yaboi7367

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@latinospammer8441

5 жыл бұрын

Lol why you think we are in this vid

Man i’m so socially awkward with strangers sometimes. Especially when its someone attractive.

@Callebravo

5 жыл бұрын

Im like that with anyone. Worse when it’s someone attractive.

@DaveO0808

5 жыл бұрын

It's so trueee

@sereneaesthetic

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate more with the internet than family 😂

@keneanayele2318

4 жыл бұрын

BiBi LMAO SAME

@frenchiegonewild7264

4 жыл бұрын

Me too ahahaha I think we all experiment such things

Bruh can all of us the socially awkward ppl create like a group where we just hang out with each other and be socially awkward but it’s okay bc we know we all share the same problem

@annagreiner5167

4 жыл бұрын

Jasmina Ravshanova I love that idea

@shonabirkett2196

4 жыл бұрын

Same. 😂

@Amarik62

4 жыл бұрын

Yes please😂🙏🏽

@millachristiansen3521

4 жыл бұрын

I wanna be in that group😂

@electricman8545

4 жыл бұрын

Yes please

The worst thing you can say is “be yourself” like I have no idea how does “myself” act. It really sucks.

@markhilditch7944

4 жыл бұрын

For real

@ceazargarcia4046

4 жыл бұрын

ong

@Mars-kt1kz

4 жыл бұрын

Just another guy yea :(

@latinospammer8441

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@fourthreetwo_8378

4 жыл бұрын

Just another guy Ikr the only self I know is what other people say about me, so if someone says I’m stiff and crippling socially awkward I’ll be socially awkward and stiff. Don’t bully socially awkward people because most of the time they don’t know who they are yet and whenever you tell them something negative they’ll take it, like I have for the past 4 years

Life is better when you learn to not care what other people think. Be yourself and that’s it. Stop thinking

@fredrikolsson7568

5 жыл бұрын

"Be yourself" That's such a cliché. You're putting on a mask all the time, that's part of being human, otherwise society would collapse into barbarism. I have found that when I'm truly honest and true to myself people start to detest me. That's just not working out for anyone.

@nora7641

5 жыл бұрын

@@fredrikolsson7568 learn to be alpha mate... they made a video bout that go check it out

@Christine-mg6oo

5 жыл бұрын

Thats hard to do, im very aware of what people think of me. Im reactive to people, and i have to show my emotions. But i think im only like this to people i care like family or possible friends. If it was a stranger, i wouldnt care too much on what they think.

@Lightning-bc8bf

5 жыл бұрын

Fredrik Olsson When our behavior can negatively affect others it’s normal to try to hide our worst parts. But I sadly realized that people tend to do it in almost all cases, also when doing it isn’t truly necessary, refusing their own personality.

@strawberryjam6717

5 жыл бұрын

@@fredrikolsson7568 Isn't there someone who loves/likes your true self? If you keep putting on a mask like that, it's very stressful and tiring. Be Yourself but also try to improve it. It's better to be around people who help you rather than judge you. Blessings and prayers to youuu. (you may not like me but that's fine. I understand) -random online friendd

This felt like a personal attack 😂😂

@One21Jiggawatts

5 жыл бұрын

I’ll be the first me... thank you verrryyy much.

@piecemodding9471

4 жыл бұрын

Swear 😂😅

@claricesleavitt7358

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha ikr

@CharlieYannias

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@kebab7112

3 жыл бұрын

Just watch it dumbass

Number 5: Avoid people.

@ayctky901

5 жыл бұрын

Carl Illingworth That’s what I always do but not recommended

@carlillingworth88

5 жыл бұрын

@@ayctky901 Well of course you can't avoid people completely. But you can chose to avoid the shitty ones (i.e most lol). The ones you can't avoid, you can still chose to ignore.

@legallytired110

5 жыл бұрын

Done

@izzza6393

4 жыл бұрын

I always do this, I avoid social interactions :'D

@jordanseaborn4780

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly I’m tired of people

I don’t think I’m socially awkward I just can’t hold a conversation. Like i can be invested but if I have to talk I can’t respond.

@krisxu3581

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@musatmario9900

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@beatricegalvosaite597

4 жыл бұрын

Daiveon Mallery I relate to this so much

@QiraTaneISREAL

4 жыл бұрын

Yes me too can we all hang out please?

@QiraTaneISREAL

4 жыл бұрын

Im glad and happy im not the only one

I feel like an alien trying to understand human emotion lmfaooo

@Jauhgn

4 жыл бұрын

Don't we all

@shubhamrajminj4240

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@joanareis4483

4 жыл бұрын

Bruh same here 😅👽👽

@tobitube4301

3 жыл бұрын

yea

@danmanm9205

3 жыл бұрын

I think about this all the time

It’s not even about doing awkward things it’s about knowing how to keep up a conversation. That’s the most awkward thing. Ever. And I hate it

@krisxu3581

4 жыл бұрын

So true

@truckandcarreviews3149

4 жыл бұрын

True

@ifrahjama2215

3 жыл бұрын

Yessss 💯💯💯💯💯

@djbackspin911

3 жыл бұрын

Especially with a girl, boy it's so difficult to have experience with females

@mayas.1007

3 жыл бұрын

THIS

I feel socially awkward while watching this...

@Frostedcranberrysnowflake

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@ohbohooo4650

4 жыл бұрын

Vickemannen 92 😂🤨🤔😏✌🏿

@golydm9116

4 жыл бұрын

Hahah Self- deprecating is like the cure to us

@nicholasmartinez8767

4 жыл бұрын

I feel attacked lol

@elixt807

4 жыл бұрын

Same😂

Anyone else ok with strangers but more awkward around people they know... just me?

@SIR_SPECTRE4313

4 жыл бұрын

Same lol

@tamaraobrien6031

4 жыл бұрын

Probably because you just don't care much of what strangers think, you want the people you already like to like you.

@bradypeterson5086

4 жыл бұрын

Tamara O'Brien this is exactly how I feel, I have no issues making conversation with strangers but people I know I just can’t for some reason

@stellaxkrg

4 жыл бұрын

Mia Emily yes I feel u

@TheLiaMatos

4 жыл бұрын

Omggg, me af. I thought i was the only one

Find the right people who don’t intimidate you but lift you up. Don’t try to adjust to toxic people just because you have the need to belong to something.

@MindNow

5 жыл бұрын

Your Favorite Lifecoach nice to see you here Bahman!

@santiagobenjamin4946

5 жыл бұрын

You just nailed it

@roxannejones7959

5 жыл бұрын

Toxic people gravitate towards me. Why? Please give me your opinion.

@MindNow

5 жыл бұрын

Roxanne Jones then you have got to gravitate towards better people :)

@roxannejones7959

5 жыл бұрын

@@MindNow I don't gravitate towards anyone... nevermind.

I've been underacting so much in my life because I've been so afraid of saying things out of the norm and breaking the "vibe" or flow of the people around me. The video is super accurate in saying that people then start to assume you're either bored or sad or just don't wanna be there. Yep, experienced it first hand.

@michaelmendez9423

4 жыл бұрын

Daniel Pyro Cho same here

@user-iy7dz6vq7j

2 жыл бұрын

feel this so much

@iwillgetayorkie3262

Жыл бұрын

IKR

@shookmin_rv1376

Жыл бұрын

same

Hello awkward person. You're not here to entertain and impress anyone. You're not a performer on some stage. You're a human being living life, not caring what others think. That's who you are.✌

@hellothere-ms3ob

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, no

@ifrahjama2215

3 жыл бұрын

💯💯👏Thanks

@tobitube4301

3 жыл бұрын

No, I am trying to impress my crush :P Its so hard to be myself around my crush. especially because she doesn't know who I actually am at all.. neither do I

@dvonders8469

3 жыл бұрын

Too bad I can’t go to work. Work my ass off like I do. And go home. I have to fear constantly being fired because people won’t like me.

@bravenplayz3959

3 жыл бұрын

@@tobitube4301 then you already fúcked up.and are living in a lie lol

1st step: don't care

@Christine-mg6oo

5 жыл бұрын

Um, i dont think that is going to work.

@mbj2nd

5 жыл бұрын

@@Christine-mg6oo worked for me.

@golydm9116

4 жыл бұрын

@@mbj2nd did it actually worked? Can you say more details or an advice?

@sabrina3138

4 жыл бұрын

That is literally the only step. Social awkwardness foundation is from caring too much. But that is so hard to just fix. You can't fix caring about what others think because to be honest, everybody cares about people's opinions of them. It's just how much we let that affect us and what we can do to lessen this flaw.

@emmanuelbabatunde7765

4 жыл бұрын

@@golydm9116 bro meditate u be fine in same position but meditation helped in jst two days

1. Laugh yourself (your awkwardness) 2. Consistent activity (put your phone away) 3. Live your life like no one watching (No one worry about what you do as mush as you do) 4. Bring a teammate to start a conversation (and involve in the conversation) Quotes of the day: The more you do it, the easier it gets

@hottea2933

3 жыл бұрын

But definitely use snapchat or stuff so you can practice holding a conversation :)

@alexwe2266

3 жыл бұрын

@@hottea2933 no do it in real life

@hottea2933

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexwe2266 you’re not always gonna be around other people and it can be equally as hard irl as Snapchat

@pink9175

2 жыл бұрын

These are good tips but for the first one I’m always laughing when someone talks to me even when something isn’t rlly that funny and instead of keeping a conversation going i giggle a bit and I hate it because I wish I could jus talk

@kylesmithplayz8470

2 жыл бұрын

I don't have t worry about the phone problem because I have a flip phone so that distraction is not even an option.

I'm super awkward, especailly when it comes to meeting new people.

@LanceWillMakeIt

4 жыл бұрын

Abbyツ the best way to think about it is this: people are much less judgmental than you think. No matter what you do, most people are going to accept the way you act and move on. Nobody, and I mean nobody is going to dwell about that one awkward thing that you keep thinking about for the rest of the day. If you just put your awkward self out there, someone is going to like you, and that person who likes you will be easy to relate to. The reason being is if someone likes you, that means they can see some of themselves in you; they can see that they will be able to relate to you. So just put yourself out there, and like this vid says, don’t shield yourself with your phone or by just being quiet, because then people won’t get to know you ever

but my problem is that I actually dont want to be there, I dont want to talk to them. So I actively try to avoid it, therefor I become super awkward.

@lyricalcereal420

5 жыл бұрын

But if you actually talk to people and get out of your comfort zone you will become not awkward

@Warcus861

5 жыл бұрын

@@lyricalcereal420 but I dont want to talk to most people. Beeing social is not a point I have right now in life, so then when I cant get out of it somehow I become akward, wich is obv not nice. I have two friends and as the introvert I am, two is the perfect number.

@Warcus861

5 жыл бұрын

@Pillagger cause even tho I dont want to interact with people I also dont want to be awkward

@Warcus861

5 жыл бұрын

@Pillagger yeah, you are right. Thats why I need to become better at avoiding people xD

@godgirl34599

5 жыл бұрын

@@Warcus861 Don't worry, you're not alone. I have the same exact problem

How I stopped caring what people think is by thinking about myself as just myself and everyone else like everyone else. People aren’t thinking about you getting worked up about what they think about you the only person that does that is yourself. If you think someone is judging you, they’re only doing it to make themselves look better because they’re insecure about others judging them

@garywhelan209

4 жыл бұрын

I agree with that to a certain extent, but true social awkwardness is not purely just thinking. I have many times, gone into a situation with that mindset and there is a chemical reaction in my body that causes anxiety, red face, sweat, mind blank etc. And while that may be psychologically related, it certainly feels like a physical issue you cannot control in the moment.

Random guy: “hey” Me: I totally agree

@electricman8545

4 жыл бұрын

Aden I’m the guy that says yes or no to conversations

@randomfemale4322

3 жыл бұрын

I'm the person that nods and laughs 😔 physically can't say anything sometimes

person: nice weather- me: thanks you too.

@DandaMan2022

4 жыл бұрын

Hhaahhaha relatable

@jetoux4881

2 жыл бұрын

Person: Hi what’s your name? Me: Thanks you too!

I didn’t realize I was that socially awkward until I related to everything on here

@jaijai4710

3 жыл бұрын

Its actually better if you never realized it

*By actually owning it and embracing your awkwardness and knowing that you will improve over time, THAT is what makes it the best!* Winny out... _for now_ 😉

@halcioncocaine2096

5 жыл бұрын

Awkward is a form of cunning✔

@Mensmentalwealth911

4 жыл бұрын

Have you found these techniques and ideas effective? How many people actually apply these techniques as opposed to just passively watching? Self-help books have been perennial best-sellers for 40 years and it seems like people are even worse emotionally. Does just reading and watching actually get people to apply the ideas and make real change or not?

@gregv8164

4 жыл бұрын

I embraced that fact more than forty years ago! I'm probably worse than ever right now.

@bublegurl3324

4 жыл бұрын

@@gregv8164 same😂

Me: Hi how’s your day going ? Other person: Good hows yours? Me : Good.... ( mind goes into complete PANIC!!!!!!!!!!😱😱) Who else ?

@krisxu3581

4 жыл бұрын

Same😤

@lu-vy9fm

4 жыл бұрын

Anna Greiner I usually uh, try throwing something about it in there, just to keep the conversation going 😭 though, it’d help if they did the same, but that isn’t always the case! this is a two month old comment and idk why I’m replying shdj but yeah hope this h elps??

@amestidso5678

4 жыл бұрын

@@lu-vy9fm lmao this is youtube there will be a reply 50 years from now

@Jauhgn

4 жыл бұрын

*_"So what have you been up to?_*

@bmhazard735

4 жыл бұрын

so am not alone in this.

1 accept being ackward do not under-/overact, make the best out of it 2 consistent activity, form bands, not to much attention to yourself how u will react. dont use ur phone as a shield. tell why u agree, ask more info 3 spotlight effect 4 social practise conversation, use a team mate but be involved in the conversation. show ur passion.

@rhano6031

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for saving 10 mins

I don’t know why, but I’m only awkward around people who I find attractive or athletically skilled. I have always struggled with self esteem issues and confidence and it had affected me in such negative ways. Thank you for the video.

Ur best friends are the people with whom you feel comfortable being awkward around ❤️

I'm scared of awkwardness, so I act awkward, it's a vicious cycle that I can only stop by starting to accept myself. Only accepting myself is the hard part, I don't accept myself, I don't love myself and I don't even like myself.

@garywhelan209

4 жыл бұрын

I am with you 100% on that one. Its horrible to deal with and impossible to relate to unless yo have exp it

@Doctordier

4 жыл бұрын

@@garywhelan209 yeah, it's difficult but I'm coping. Hope you're doing well.

@Jsosodke

2 жыл бұрын

@@Doctordier hello 1 year passed how are you ? I have the same problem

Avoid awkwardness by: 1)Accepting the inevitable. Just laugh at your dumb things. 0:16 2)Consistent activity. Don't use phone to avoid awkwardness. 4:03 3)Spotlight effect. No one judges you so much as you think. 6:27 4)Social tag teaming. If someone shares some interest go ahead and say you are passionate. 8:03

@bobcaterpillar813

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks! You just saved me 10 minutes 👌

"How is your day?" Me: *Thank you!*

@armanlifts

4 жыл бұрын

AH Gaming omg same 😣

@acceptancebelieves1908

3 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/mnqszZKfgMabfbQ.html

Best advice I can give you is to try to not care what people think about you. That will make you much more confident and attractive.

@rizdog5735

5 жыл бұрын

That's what everyone says but I just can't stop thinking, especially when people are looking at me (seemingly) awkwardly

@SmashyPlays

5 жыл бұрын

Rizwan same ITS NOT THAT SIMPLE I CANT STOP THINKING

@sexvideolocadora5401

5 жыл бұрын

SmashyPlays fuck a porn

@golydm9116

4 жыл бұрын

I agree it's hard but you have to keep the motivation going

@BlaximilianD00d

4 жыл бұрын

Also based on that thumbnail for this video... It shows a cross for the woman looking at the man's lips. And a check mark for looking him in the eyes. Eye contact is good but if she's looking at your lips like the way she is in the thumbnail, that means she wants to kiss you. Kiss them pretty lips.

I am so awkward with both strangers and people I know This is really becoming a problem and its annoying

@zynp8043

4 жыл бұрын

Same.. I get so nervous when I have to talk to people, but when I’m texting I’m like a whole different person. I just don’t know what to do about it. Can someone pls help me out or something

@katiebooker5495

4 жыл бұрын

@@zynp8043 i can help you there's a website called www.shynesssocialanxiety.com I recommend it. It rlly helped me as a person. Now in not as awkward and social anxietic as I used to,don't skip a word ik its an article but it still helps you in aw way others cant. UwU

@katiebooker5495

4 жыл бұрын

@@zynp8043 np ;)❤

@nonafyobissnes4606

3 жыл бұрын

Same. My family members noticed it to, they say that I'm always on my phone and not talking to anyone. I can't help it, I don't even know what to do and say to everyone So I just use my phone instead

I dont even know who i am anymore im constantly changing so people like me and ive forgotten what my personality is like and when im talking to someone my head fills with these thoughts that the person is wanting me to be quiet and go away i wish i could have a conversation without this happening

@saraha9382

4 жыл бұрын

@leskeyyz ' I can relate😅

@sabrinalabrina3612

4 жыл бұрын

I'd love to talk to you! I had the same experience and I can give you some advice that worked for me with the personality thing. Right now I have some other issues related to confidence, but I'm pretty ok and finally conscious about my personality

@bublegurl3324

3 жыл бұрын

Same

Boomer: technology is ruining social skills! Me: watching a video on how to stop being socially awkward

@QiraTaneISREAL

4 жыл бұрын

L o l

@Isabel-sr8ep

3 жыл бұрын

Online school was created by boomers right?🤭💀💀

@checkadime8779

2 жыл бұрын

@@Isabel-sr8ep not really

I think the best way to overcome awkwardness is to assume that everyone else is feeling more awkward than you. Once you embrace that, you actually start to believe that the situation isn't as awkward and you feel more in control of the situation.

This whole video just broke my life down into pieces

The most awkward moment is wen you don't get what someone is saying and you keep saying "huh"😭💀😹😹 I tend to pretend like I've heard and say 'hmm' or just stay quiet😹😭😭😭😭😭

@ifrahjama2215

3 жыл бұрын

Omg bruhhh same 😂😂😂😁

@muhdaiman3836

3 жыл бұрын

arghh everyone in the comment is relate to me i feel better now atleast 😭

@samcorrall9860

3 жыл бұрын

or laugh and hope they weren't talking about their dog dying!

The comment section is distracting me from listening carefully to the video. I have to repeat some parts of the video again. XD

@Invalidy

4 жыл бұрын

Julia what’s your Instagram?

@majesticaaa4131

4 жыл бұрын

Same

You know what I can't figure out, why is it that me a natural introvert always has to make conversation and take the first step? I mean why aren't the extroverts stepping out and speaking to me?

@iliveinsideyourhouse3943

4 жыл бұрын

True. It feels we are main character and we are the one that have to do everything

@iliveinsideyourhouse3943

4 жыл бұрын

@@DiamondPrince3455 I tried very hard to looks attractive and friendly as possible but I guess I still ended up being very unapproachable.

@hazimzufar3023

4 жыл бұрын

That's the problem with extrovert people nowadays coz they always like to approach to people that can react the same way as they could

@debbiewolking145

4 жыл бұрын

Love you Kev. Itll all work out evenlly

I’m awkward, I over think everything, and HAHAH I literally always go on my phone in awkward situations

@MrLandonweber

4 жыл бұрын

Well at least you're thinking in the first place, which is more than I can say for many out there!

Thank you so much. This is exactly what I’ve been needing. It was so clear, informative and offered practical ways to understand my behaviors, made me aware of how it can sabatogue making great connections and then offered some practical steps/examples with which to work towards getting learning better social tools. This was beautiful. Thank you.

"Be yourself" Literally the worst advice you can give to someone dealing with social anxiety.

@abbzy6521

3 жыл бұрын

Never works tho

Putting up a facade is not a long term solution for the negative self beliefs that you internally hold. Fake it till you make it only works if you ACTUALLY make it overtime! 💪

its best if you fart and run away crying🍻

@hshshe867

4 жыл бұрын

Talking from experience

@Flyingsandwiches-nr1zc

4 жыл бұрын

Lmao😂😂😂😂

@HiHi-si2pz

4 жыл бұрын

LMAO🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@eltrejo14

4 жыл бұрын

@@hshshe867 😂😂😂

@rajivgupta2798

4 жыл бұрын

Lmao wtf 😂😂

To all the awkards out there!!! 🙌

Im awkward when it comes to getting the conversation started but when there is a conversation im unstoppable

Once carried a gift wrapped chocolate bar for the whole day at school, too scared to give it to my crush... went home and ate it.

Me: putting fork to my mouth Fork: sorry i have boyfriend

I can't say that I got social anxiety, but I often feel awkward. Even if you cannot tell all the time. It's more something inside of me rather than outside me. Because I have some friends, i like myself and I genuinely think I have no reason to be shy. But I really feel awkward deep down. My heart is pounding and I feel held back in whatever conversation, like something is preventing me from laughing and being relaxed. I feel like people have a light in their eyes that i can't have anymore, and that they're able to live better than I do. Sometimes I love what I say, but others I get crazy because I see my words as empty. I wish I weren't feeling this way. It just ruins many good experiences and pulls away people.

It’s good to always think about and observe other people’s awkward moments and reilize why you don’t get annoyed or judge that person

I have over-acted few weeks ago in class since I lowkey am desperate to make friends since I know no one at all and I'm that type of person to only let people come up and talk to me- making me doing the less effort in making friends. I have been under acting throughout middle and highschool so I really don't have many "close" friends. It's sad how trying to "fit in" actually isn't doing me justice... and now I'm a college freshman trying to fit in, just to realize theres nowhere to fit in 😩

I've never been that socially awkward but it's recently getting really bad really fast for no reason at all. I feel so alone, it's scary and depressing

My crush asked me to take a photo with him and I told him tomorrow bc I was too embarrassed to pose for a pic while his friends watch 🤦🏽‍♀️

@stellaxkrg

4 жыл бұрын

Adri R. So did u take a picture with him? Lol I’m sorry I’m so late

@tyronecrawford2157

4 жыл бұрын

Lol at least you talk to your crush

@MDH2022

4 жыл бұрын

Mohammad Bakeer yes they do I’m a guy

@mitcy21

3 жыл бұрын

Lol i felt u

You're always the shadow of your talkative friend because you think "what if people ignore me if I say something" Fear of being judged is what making us socially awkward.

finally i found my video！that is totally me

@mrackz5694

3 жыл бұрын

This is literally me lmao

KZread knows too much

@joshua50101

4 жыл бұрын

The akward are so busted

Like the no phone out, if you are socializing. Phones and gadgets have taken over its a robotic world.

@mysticIvy324

5 жыл бұрын

Aquarius (Robot) age

@AK-nn7se

4 жыл бұрын

Yea I know. It's insane. Tbh I rather just go instantly go on a date where I don't know the other person, then to just first talk some weeks before meeting 1st time. But like all want to first talk for weeks before getting on the first date and stuff. Then they say "im old-school", I'll reply with: I just rather talk to someone in real life, ain't that weird right?

@Ken-xw1lm

4 жыл бұрын

Well we're in quarantine so

@Prettyordying

3 жыл бұрын

🚨🦾🤖

A few years ago I walked up to my crush and said something super awkward then walked away, she seemed to be confused and disgusted. That one moment had me avoiding most conversations to this day

I needed this video. I realize I’m so scared of making things awkward that it’s a self fulfilling prophecy. The key I’ve gotten from this video, is it’s not about what you do, but about what you do after. You can laugh at yourself bc it honestly is not a big deal, everyone is awkward sometimes

the only thing is people keep looking me in the eye when i talk and i feel like they’re just looking at how ugly i am

@nailedbykady2433

4 жыл бұрын

felt that, we see ourselves way different compared to how others see us though. i have a hard time with constantly judging myself and thinking what other ppl might think of me. majority of the time we’re just wayyyy overthinking things and it’s important to be aware of that. one thing i pray for you this 2020 is that you’re able to find love within yourself so you know and believe that you’re made perfectly :) god bless you and anyone who reads this

@youweird6625

4 жыл бұрын

I can relate very much

@Slime-pt6jp

4 жыл бұрын

Relateable

@randomfemale4322

3 жыл бұрын

Samee

@floridian4072

3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way. 😣😞

KZread is trying to tell me something

@hellothere-ms3ob

4 жыл бұрын

I love how you have 95 likes but no comments

This man really just explained for ten minutes what being socially awkward is... Like bruh I know otherwise I wouldn't be trying to learn how to be less awkward...

The truth is, it’s way easier said than done, all people are different. I personally am a very awkward person myself, and I feel weird commenting because I rarely do. I can’t speak to people because I’m scared they might judge me and I will make it very weird. This video makes me feel a bit angry because how I see it is just saying “your sad? Well then don’t be sad,” I am not hating or anything, I’m just sharing how I feel, and how other people may be feeling to. I know there are going to be people hating me for this, but we have to respect all people’s beliefs and thinking. All I am saying is, people are social creatures, and we should be socializing more, but sadly the world is more of a virtual place now, and new generations are learning more how to not get out and socialize. I am young, and my generation is like this, that is also why I am like this. There are things that help, and things that don’t, and some may never even be solved. If you want to share your thoughts please share! That’s what the comments are for anyways. :D

Wow! This guy just told my life story

As we grow older, we do become wiser. Life gets a lot easier because you learn how much we are alike 💕

If I talk too much, I'm annoying. If I talk too little, I'm "shy" or a "loner". I can never work up to people's standards and it's sickening. I cry myself to sleep sometimes, thinking of everything I did wrong and telling myself "I'm terrible" and "I deserve to die". It's just too much. Sorry for ranting, but I think everyone deserves to be respected for the way they are, and I'm done crying and hating myself when I did nothing wrong.

There's like 50 guests coming over in like 15 min and I'm panicking because I know how akward I'll be lmao

Remembering that everyone is mostly thinking about themselves to not be awkward rather than you is a good way of getting over being awkward.

This has taken over my entire life😭

i came to the point i fear going to the store and am even afraid of cars when they pointed at my direction. this has to stop. ty for the vid friend

I am as socially awkward as is humanly possible. I prefer being alone rather than being around people who seem to have only 1 mission in life- TO MAKE ME FEEL AWKWARD. Once there's a perception formed about you , it won't go away. Hence I have given up trying.... People may think whatever they want but I am comfortable in my space. That's the only thing that matters for me...

Some tips to become more confident: •Don't care what others think •Give eye contact to everyone you speak with. •You don't have to be that 'Popular girl' you can be popular with some friends, have at least 1 friend •Get sticky notes, paper, pad pin board, Ect. And make challenges such as -one more friend by the end of the month. Then you can slowly make it harder such as -2 more friends by the end of 2 weeks! Make a list of your friends next to it! I hope this helped! 😊😁 Have a good day!

@ifrahjama2215

3 жыл бұрын

Thanksss🤗🤗🤗🤗

@sex06

2 жыл бұрын

How tf do you just make a friend?

Thank you for the tips TopThink!

A lot of good information in this one! Yep everyone is awkward at times. I beat myself up when I don't do well in social situations. That's my biggest weakness. I did a video on what I have done to stop beating myself up so much.

Yeah, i do something dumb then no one ever talks to me again. I have literally no friends because people don't like me.

The fact that this was in my reccomend...this is a sign

Anyone else have social anxiety but whenever you speak your voice sounds weird so you just don’t speak? Cuz same.

@kipatado8634

3 жыл бұрын

Ugghh.. same😢

Man, I was so good at sparking conversations and not caring what ppl think, etc. Up until after quarantine to where now that I’m back in school I feel so lost, I really hope I can get better soon lmao.

So I gotta think of my awkwardness as Thanos.... Inevitable.

@1tsn0nsence

4 жыл бұрын

Dr Scalpers 😀😂😂😂

I went to a restaurant today the waiter asked me if i wanted a menu, i misheard him and said No i was too shy to correct myself and i drank a glass of water and left I hate myself

“We actually learn [theory of mind] when we’re toddlers.” So that’s where my life first went wrong. When I was a toddler. Cool.

im just very aware of myself and i understand what other people want and how their minds work

I used to worry so much about people focusing on every single thing I do, but then I realized people don't actually care... and that kind of helped me become less shy but it also daunted me that the fact that it's actually hard to get people to care about you.

I love your videos and keep the good work

The fact I had to search this up is sad

This is actually one of the most helpful advices and tips I've ever had for being awkward, I thought it's gonna be a clickbait

“your best friends are those you feel comfortable being awkward around” true but then I worry if that person feels awkward even though I’m comfortable being awkward

I'm literally the perfect example of an Extro-Introvert (I know it's not an actual word). Some days I'm outgoing asf and chill as hell with people, even strangers I can be the life of the party with.Then other days, I just crack and crawl into this shell...I become more reserved and tend to over-analyze my interactions with people..what i think they're thinking about me, thinking I sound silly/idiotic. I just want to be normal full time *sigh*

@stevensanchez2032

5 жыл бұрын

Same

Literally a convo with me: girl: “hey kris!” me: “um hi” girl: “what’s up” me: “nothing” girl: “ok...” me: ... 😐 girl: ... **leaves**

@theflash8516

3 жыл бұрын

That’s me I hate looking at people in the eyes.

@al_zy3885

3 жыл бұрын

@@theflash8516 ah same man

I probably broke the world record for the most awkward person on Earth, but I've tried some of these tips before. Knew I was going the right way!

thanks this will probably help with the other people telling me “Why are you so shy and awkward”

Sometimes eye contact is the worst

@ifrahjama2215

3 жыл бұрын

Ikrrr i hate it :(

Nice for this Work. Very Nice , presentation of yours.. 😁 I am happy as I watched this. And notes what you said after I'd analyze. 😁😁😁

Nobody has the same issue. I have social anxiety and extreme socially awkward I’ll just sit and stare at somebody not knowing what to say and get nervous nobody ever can relate with my social awkwardness and I get extremely insecure to talk to people

@Tay7r

3 жыл бұрын

Can relate hard

I’ve been socially awkward for nearly my whole life and just to see that other people deal with the same thing too makes me feel warm inside 😭 I love you’s all man 🥺💗

@billiejeanisnotmylover2495

Жыл бұрын

I am very socially awkward to :( you are not alone!

I say something like yeah or just respond to a question with a short answer and I get giggles, like why are they giggling what did I do awkward?!

Definitely an underactor sometimes it's pure social awkwardness and sometimes I really am Annoyed, Sad, or bored What to do in those situations.

@MrLandonweber

4 жыл бұрын

Your allowed to be annoyed, sad, or bored. People are not as amusing as they think they are, which is why reasonably intelligent people respond to them as if they are some sort of fungus.

I really enjoy watching your videos. Always interesting, informative and entertaining. Can u please make a video on : editing texts, pictures/graphics in to a video/clip by adding background music along with your own voice. It would be very kind of u.

Thank you so much for making this video.i suffered with this problem from a long time..