How To NOT Be Boring | 5 Tips To Be More Interesting

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The other day, Alpha received an email from a viewer questioning whether he's boring or not. He reads the email. In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro talks about being too nice and being boring.
Girls don't think you're 'too nice'. She just wasn't attracted to you. Alpha adds that being boring is an epidemic of massive proportion. We are replacing experiences and learning with technology time sucks, killing time, and entertainment.
Steps to Be Less Boring
1. Boring is a state of mind - people aren't boring. We feel boring. Proclaim instead that we are awesome, amazing, and interesting.
2. Be well rounded as an individual - don't just focus on one or two specific things. You need to seek out inspiration and education from the world around you. Don't isolate yourself. Learn about the world around you. Seek knowledge.
3. Try something new every single day - routine and interesting's kryptonite. Try new food, take a different route to work, listen to something else in the car... break the ruts!
4. Seek and engage someone new in a conversation every day - don't stay in a social bubble, interacting with the same people. Learn from new people to enhance your life experiences and interpersonal relationships.
5. Constantly seek self improvement - experiences create life! Try new things!

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  • @daynah504
    @daynah5047 жыл бұрын

    the fact that I'm watching a video on how not 2 be boring is just sad

  • @donkey_kong_1965

    @donkey_kong_1965

    5 жыл бұрын

    im only popular cuz im good at sports but i just sit there and stay quiet in class

  • @refiloeseretlo5678

    @refiloeseretlo5678

    5 жыл бұрын

    Bruh.

  • @icantthinkofone4571

    @icantthinkofone4571

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @trvpxChurch

    @trvpxChurch

    5 жыл бұрын

    or bc we're bored

  • @FeoChicke5x

    @FeoChicke5x

    5 жыл бұрын

    Feels bad

  • @levijessegonzalez3629
    @levijessegonzalez36298 жыл бұрын

    You're like the cool uncle that I never had. #Alpham

  • @erickfuerte4291

    @erickfuerte4291

    8 жыл бұрын

    for real

  • @afca25

    @afca25

    8 жыл бұрын

    Exactly! That's on point!!

  • @xz4409

    @xz4409

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Alan u are 14 gtfo

  • @lukeskywalker9864

    @lukeskywalker9864

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Chris Menaj then dont forget to tell him

  • @CxerRy96

    @CxerRy96

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Levi Jesse then i'd say it's on you to be one yourself,one day

  • @saurabhshukla7718
    @saurabhshukla77186 жыл бұрын

    1- Think I am awesome 2- knowledge is the key to be less boring 3- try something new daily 4 - talk to different people's 5 - Continously improve yourself Love from INDIA😘😘

  • @firstlastyoutube

    @firstlastyoutube

    5 жыл бұрын

    hey!

  • @kq2186

    @kq2186

    5 жыл бұрын

    useless

  • @pagerrrr09

    @pagerrrr09

    5 жыл бұрын

    such good damn advice.

  • @cfjlkfsjf

    @cfjlkfsjf

    5 жыл бұрын

    I work in a grocery store, I talk to different people daily. Usually it's the normals though like sports with the dudes, weather, hug and flirt the females.

  • @sweetpizzaboy6069

    @sweetpizzaboy6069

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@unknownartist3352 I'm not from India but Japan but I found your comment terribly boring 😬

  • @pocket83
    @pocket836 жыл бұрын

    The most boring person of all is someone who's *staring at their phone.* Put that stupid thing away and pay attention to the world.

  • @meiso3643

    @meiso3643

    6 жыл бұрын

    pocket83 Staring at my computer, totally not boring now.

  • @RaviKumar-lc1hp

    @RaviKumar-lc1hp

    6 жыл бұрын

    pocket8 Exactly. they don't realize the world around them is more beautiful than their phone

  • @AdamPNelson

    @AdamPNelson

    6 жыл бұрын

    How are you watching this vid?

  • @jarjeguzman5676

    @jarjeguzman5676

    6 жыл бұрын

    I can talk to someone on the internet without any problem but that same person in real life well im quite boring

  • @xshooter23x70

    @xshooter23x70

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ravi Kumar i don't see how where i'm at

  • @jthrilla84
    @jthrilla847 жыл бұрын

    "knowledge is the key of being less boring" 👍

  • @izhanahmed3474

    @izhanahmed3474

    7 жыл бұрын

    Jermaine almost makes me wanna puke 🤢 knowledge is sooooooo boring 😑

  • @GREGORYYBEL316

    @GREGORYYBEL316

    7 жыл бұрын

    Really? lol, it´s the subject of life, not to know a lot and then you don´t even know what to talk to a girl

  • @themosquito8132

    @themosquito8132

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hell yeah!

  • @BeingTiffBenson

    @BeingTiffBenson

    7 жыл бұрын

    It's very true

  • @callumhadley3692

    @callumhadley3692

    7 жыл бұрын

    Do you know what I like more than materialistic things? KNOWLEDGE!

  • @MrWilko2000
    @MrWilko20007 жыл бұрын

    try to be the type of person you would want to meet

  • @MrSebboxxx

    @MrSebboxxx

    7 жыл бұрын

    that would be so boring :-)

  • @itsnukebomb7363

    @itsnukebomb7363

    7 жыл бұрын

    That would be to inappropriate

  • @soulcrona5650

    @soulcrona5650

    7 жыл бұрын

    Dude that date would end up so fucked up

  • @jenny4405

    @jenny4405

    7 жыл бұрын

    your comment is powerful

  • @dre9086

    @dre9086

    7 жыл бұрын

    @Sebastian LOL

  • @TevinSquirrell79
    @TevinSquirrell796 жыл бұрын

    This guy's voice kind of reminds me of the talk show host on Total drama island lmao!

  • @whosjoe8325

    @whosjoe8325

    5 жыл бұрын

    He is him

  • @airforlife6214

    @airforlife6214

    5 жыл бұрын

    OMG that's why he sounded familiar 🤣🤣🤣

  • @heymikomiks

    @heymikomiks

    5 жыл бұрын

    Deeemn now I visualize chris giving tips

  • @idontknowhowtowearabalacla3679

    @idontknowhowtowearabalacla3679

    5 жыл бұрын

    Something I agree with

  • @decanusseverus8773

    @decanusseverus8773

    5 жыл бұрын

    YES!!

  • @niconeko1939
    @niconeko19396 жыл бұрын

    Me : *types "how to be talkactive and social"* Me : *finds "How to NOT be boring"* Me : ...Close enough

  • @thorodinson5062

    @thorodinson5062

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @gamerprince-tl5hg

    @gamerprince-tl5hg

    5 жыл бұрын

    LOL

  • @apelsinas2231

    @apelsinas2231

    5 жыл бұрын

    I wrote How to start conversasions with a Girl XD

  • @aidangittings7810

    @aidangittings7810

    5 жыл бұрын

    Nico Neko lmfao

  • @cfjlkfsjf

    @cfjlkfsjf

    5 жыл бұрын

    Mine was from the recomended list, guess youtube is telling me I am boring.

  • @Angel-em7ig
    @Angel-em7ig7 жыл бұрын

    i don't know how to make a conversation or better yet, keep a conversation going.

  • @thedarkknight646

    @thedarkknight646

    7 жыл бұрын

    Angel of darkness if you feel the conversation fading just bring up the next thing that comes to mind as long as it's not offensive to the person you're talking to. Look around your environment and observe what's going on around you

  • @jamesmanley9414

    @jamesmanley9414

    7 жыл бұрын

    Angel of darkness Trust me. if you look good. the girl keeps the conversation going. go to the gym. don't be fat and don't be dirty. girls will make you up to be the most exciting guy in the world of you have abs. that's it.

  • @CidGuerreiro1234

    @CidGuerreiro1234

    7 жыл бұрын

    Let the other person do most of the talking and don't bombard him/her with questions.

  • @gigalulmansur

    @gigalulmansur

    7 жыл бұрын

    James Manley preach

  • @commitmentphobe3045

    @commitmentphobe3045

    7 жыл бұрын

    Angel of darkness Just start talking about something you're passionate about, who gives a crap what the other person thinks.

  • @xxshadowxx7914
    @xxshadowxx79145 жыл бұрын

    Me: *looks at views* Me: Im not alone :')

  • @arianaalmeida7425

    @arianaalmeida7425

    5 жыл бұрын

    xX shadow Xx finally😢

  • @InventMyTory

    @InventMyTory

    4 жыл бұрын

    xX shadow Xx the views made it feel less weird

  • @DoReMiFaSolLaSi49q1

    @DoReMiFaSolLaSi49q1

    2 жыл бұрын

    When i looked at views, I wanted to communicate with 4.600.000 people.

  • @lakshmichandana4481
    @lakshmichandana44814 жыл бұрын

    He kept saying gentlemen 😂 I'm a woman... I felt so macho

  • @aloojira9422

    @aloojira9422

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣

  • @trinis8726

    @trinis8726

    3 жыл бұрын

    WoMAN

  • @amansinghgod9733

    @amansinghgod9733

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wooman

  • @ashleymariesteadman1081

    @ashleymariesteadman1081

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed 🤣

  • @ParacetamolEdits

    @ParacetamolEdits

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hamari Chorii Choro se kam hein ke 😂😂🤩🥴

  • @mattydigs
    @mattydigs7 жыл бұрын

    Too nice doesn't exist. TOO BORING IS VERY REAL, GENTS

  • @bigol9223

    @bigol9223

    7 жыл бұрын

    Mattydigs Too nice means nice is the only positive thing that stuck out because everything else is boring.

  • @superlex611

    @superlex611

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Rup Tratin indeed

  • @bigol9223

    @bigol9223

    7 жыл бұрын

    corazon de callejon I can't discover whyyyy men don't listen if I ain't gonna listen to your spam advice.

  • @Mrbuzz12

    @Mrbuzz12

    7 жыл бұрын

    too ugly exists too though.

  • @madscientist1391

    @madscientist1391

    7 жыл бұрын

    Patrizio D'Uva for example- you ;)

  • @ertixhemollari4745
    @ertixhemollari47458 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for trying to change our life bro.. has helped me a lot

  • @MinecraftMagicka

    @MinecraftMagicka

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Erti 16 Influence*

  • @westcoastmeditationgroup5005

    @westcoastmeditationgroup5005

    8 жыл бұрын

    +JustARandomGuy No, He's changing it...

  • @westcoastmeditationgroup5005

    @westcoastmeditationgroup5005

    8 жыл бұрын

    lol

  • @mr.dccomics9018

    @mr.dccomics9018

    8 жыл бұрын

    +r0bi100 Only you can prevent forest fires.

  • @user-jc3hc2pw4r

    @user-jc3hc2pw4r

    7 жыл бұрын

    Alex Clark oh i get what u mean 😂😂

  • @shreyarao5450
    @shreyarao54505 жыл бұрын

    2:01 Your welcome :)

  • @goofywoofy4440

    @goofywoofy4440

    5 жыл бұрын

    Your a life saviour. Thanks

  • @pyschofreak8416

    @pyschofreak8416

    5 жыл бұрын

    ty.

  • @MrSimsEffect

    @MrSimsEffect

    5 жыл бұрын

    SinisterXan haha thanks

  • @jotarokujo1704

    @jotarokujo1704

    5 жыл бұрын

    Most videos need to be watched whole, not just the tips, that's why theres so many dumb people, they think they know stuff but they just barely scratched the surface.

  • @kros1039

    @kros1039

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ty sooooooo much🙃🙃🙃🙃

  • @kman20
    @kman205 жыл бұрын

    I am awesome! I am interesting! I am amazing! *goes back to staring at a blank wall*

  • @visper1143

    @visper1143

    3 жыл бұрын

    LMFAO

  • @smritibhagta

    @smritibhagta

    3 жыл бұрын

    Partner 🤜🤛

  • @Klxisog

    @Klxisog

    3 жыл бұрын

    See that's your problem lol I know it's a joke but you should put the work in to get results ...trying is key not succeeding but trying

  • @XxS1l3nTxa1Mx
    @XxS1l3nTxa1Mx7 жыл бұрын

    This happened to me this girl that liked me stop liking me because I was shy and had no personality not exciting lmao

  • @alexcperez1829

    @alexcperez1829

    7 жыл бұрын

    XxS1l3nTxa1Mx thats me bruh😂😂😂

  • @Hazard551

    @Hazard551

    7 жыл бұрын

    What happened to me was opposite, I was shy and always just didnt speak and girls liked me and wanted to talk to me because I was "mysterious" and they found my shyness cute.

  • @65EKS65

    @65EKS65

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Badaboop Badabeep +LEIPZIG ARE FUCKING SHIT #MIASANMIA Same here except it started only after I started dating for the first time. Currently I'm not dating and neither I'm not interested in being in a relationship and I find it hard to politely try to reject every girl who tries to approach me dating in mind. For now I've been replying something like "I'd love to get to know them better but I'm not looking to date anyone right now" if they're not already close friends of mine, but those closer friends are harder to handle imo.. :y Any tips how to handle those situations?

  • @happymevids

    @happymevids

    7 жыл бұрын

    Did you think that she was boring? Perhaps she simply wasn't right for you either. If she bored that easily then she's not a good bet long-term.

  • @kingwil3260

    @kingwil3260

    7 жыл бұрын

    story of my life

  • @joescheibner5916
    @joescheibner59167 жыл бұрын

    Does anybody else enjoy how real he is. It's nice to listen to someone that is direct and doesn't beat around the bush. No sugar-coating.

  • @MT-THNDR207

    @MT-THNDR207

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yeah for real. I think AlphaM is better then Jose Zuniga from TeachingMen'sFashion.

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    11 ай бұрын

    Yes it is

  • @maddiesacount1378
    @maddiesacount13785 жыл бұрын

    Whenever I stay at someone in particular they get bored and say "your boring I wish so and so was here" and it really hurts my feelings 😕 so I want to prove them wrong

  • @robertcollison4127

    @robertcollison4127

    4 жыл бұрын

    Find friends that can hang with you in the silence. Or a friend who can bring the interest out of you because you possess it. What are your interests? It's not that your boring, your friend didnt have anything interesting to suggest. Sounds like they're "boring" too. Most ppl who say what your friend said aren't interesting which is why they wish for interesting ppl to show up. If your interested in stuff that you enjoy someone will appreciate it.

  • @currymuncher6980

    @currymuncher6980

    3 жыл бұрын

    U ain't boring it's just there's nothing to talk about. I get that all the fucking time lmao

  • @javierolivas5964

    @javierolivas5964

    2 жыл бұрын

    Fack em

  • @Ach9716

    @Ach9716

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh girl that’s so rude… find better friends seriously. I would’ve cut them off!

  • @luxxias
    @luxxias5 жыл бұрын

    if you’re watching this video and thinking “wow im sad im watching a video of not being boring” this is alpha m. kiddos you’ll get a social advantage over everyone

  • @xyon9090
    @xyon90907 жыл бұрын

    School makes us boring. With its boring routine and boring way of teaching.

  • @what7psp

    @what7psp

    7 жыл бұрын

    That's why there's drugs to get fucked up! (joking)

  • @MoonDisast

    @MoonDisast

    7 жыл бұрын

    Dean Natuno When you think about it, jobs aren't so different, having to do the same thing every day. (some more interesting than others, definitely, but routine is still there 😟) I guess it really is our own effort to be interesting, whatever situation we're in (school, work, etc.).

  • @MoonDisast

    @MoonDisast

    7 жыл бұрын

    Dean Natuno When you think about it, jobs aren't so different, having to do the same thing every day. (some more interesting than others, definitely, but routine is still there 😟) I guess it really is our own effort to be interesting, whatever situation we're in (school, work, etc.).

  • @Evija3000

    @Evija3000

    7 жыл бұрын

    In a way yeah, but it also gives you knowledge and, like this video said, that's part of being interesting. The knowledge could be given in a more interesting way though.

  • @xyon9090

    @xyon9090

    7 жыл бұрын

    +Evija3000 yeah, like you said. "It could be given" but mostly it doesn't. Teachers that makes learning interesting are quite rare.

  • @Raijin0616
    @Raijin06168 жыл бұрын

    1:48 - 1:54 That hit me hard, well now is the time to stop watching youtube videos.

  • @HairyBetch

    @HairyBetch

    8 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Skrivenix

    @Skrivenix

    8 жыл бұрын

    same

  • @IDUwithKAM

    @IDUwithKAM

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Deneb Ryan Im going to manage my subscriptions right now and unsub all channels that do not teach me anything. Way to go.

  • @henrique6807

    @henrique6807

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Deneb Ryan good thing that it hit you hard, now you have a lot of energy to do something about. by the way, I also found this part amazing

  • @Raijin0616

    @Raijin0616

    8 жыл бұрын

    Stonish me too, road to productive life starts now :))

  • @earthmom106
    @earthmom1066 жыл бұрын

    Interested = Interesting

  • @Mumbai-Toronto-NY

    @Mumbai-Toronto-NY

    5 жыл бұрын

    Fact

  • @T.G_wiz

    @T.G_wiz

    5 жыл бұрын

    doesn't work with me😣

  • @blackharpy7468

    @blackharpy7468

    5 жыл бұрын

    Like Elliott Hulse said.

  • @squeakin5245

    @squeakin5245

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like something from lab rats 🤔😂😂

  • @SavageWolfrmGaming
    @SavageWolfrmGaming5 жыл бұрын

    2:15 "....WE are also interesting, and WE Are Venom!"

  • @joaoalves9330

    @joaoalves9330

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lmao

  • @Vortex-gh4ur

    @Vortex-gh4ur

    3 жыл бұрын

    😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @CodenameM-v

    @CodenameM-v

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes

  • @steventhedivesterslayer6866
    @steventhedivesterslayer68667 жыл бұрын

    This is the type of male guidance that I wish I had growing up. I'm 25 years old, and I feel like I should have been on this personal development journey years ago. I just can't shake the feeling that I've missed out. I often find myself wishing that I could be 18 again so I could correct the mistakes I've made back then.

  • @MeadeSkeltonMusic

    @MeadeSkeltonMusic

    6 жыл бұрын

    Steven Johnson you're only 25 that's not even middle aged..

  • @gerardmasip7177

    @gerardmasip7177

    5 жыл бұрын

    Stop thinking about the past. It's a total loss of time. Focus on the future and even more on the present. And if you want to develop personally start already. 25 yo is fucking young, man!

  • @rossrobson8886

    @rossrobson8886

    5 жыл бұрын

    talk like you're in your 60s, I'm almost 39 and consider that to be quite young still, 25 is still a baby

  • @raiden0801

    @raiden0801

    5 жыл бұрын

    Better late than never

  • @T.G_wiz

    @T.G_wiz

    5 жыл бұрын

    hay bro. I'm 17 years old and a male. its been over a year since you wrote this. do you think that you can help me out a lil bit? i think im getting boring to my gf. we are from different countries and we talk online and play games together...

  • @Shannonluvsuful
    @Shannonluvsuful7 жыл бұрын

    I'm not even a guy but this is just good advice in general.

  • @moonchildasmr1

    @moonchildasmr1

    7 жыл бұрын

    Shannon Ryan same

  • @fractionpassion

    @fractionpassion

    6 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @fractionpassion

    @fractionpassion

    6 жыл бұрын

    JoJo red velvet fan???

  • @moonchildasmr1

    @moonchildasmr1

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mon Bon Oh yeah. BIG fan.

  • @fractionpassion

    @fractionpassion

    6 жыл бұрын

    JoJo YASS, ppalgan mat! Geumgeumhae honeyyyy

  • @chitbu24
    @chitbu245 жыл бұрын

    I bookmarked this video 2 years ago. I was watching in awe and thought how could I ever be like that ? Time goes by fast.

  • @michaelcorleone7297
    @michaelcorleone72973 жыл бұрын

    I can have initial conversation with people quite easily, but my insecurity of being perceived as a boring person starts to take over me, to the point that I stop making efforts and they become uninterested in me.

  • @smart2click
    @smart2click8 жыл бұрын

    I see new alpha m video, I click on like and then start watching.

  • @lonelyfly6419

    @lonelyfly6419

    8 жыл бұрын

    Goooood for yoouuuuuuu

  • @juanelganame7781

    @juanelganame7781

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Aki thanks for sharing with us your actions, very entertaining

  • @hunterdennis4348

    @hunterdennis4348

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Aki OK.

  • @Therysin

    @Therysin

    8 жыл бұрын

    new conglomerate?

  • @justintran2534

    @justintran2534

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Aki NEW CONGLOMERATE IS SUPREME

  • @whosappman
    @whosappman8 жыл бұрын

    here in my garage just bought this brand new KNOWLEDGE

  • @adamtaylor1739

    @adamtaylor1739

    8 жыл бұрын

    Bit late....

  • @whosappman

    @whosappman

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Adam Taylor 😥

  • @emmanuelm.184

    @emmanuelm.184

    8 жыл бұрын

    Someone give this man a small loan of a million Lamborghinis

  • @MostInterestingManInTheWrld

    @MostInterestingManInTheWrld

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Classymaru Nara I hope you have a plan to pay back the loan.

  • @mathew633man

    @mathew633man

    8 жыл бұрын

    i hate the fact that i heard his voice in my head as i read this

  • @BrandonSantos12
    @BrandonSantos123 жыл бұрын

    This is the calmest I've heard Alpha talk

  • @coolbff753lool7
    @coolbff753lool74 жыл бұрын

    Alpha M :Go out have fun, get out there Coronavirus: uhha nIcE try

  • @moon_raven0495

    @moon_raven0495

    3 жыл бұрын

    Covid: *spanish guy laugh*

  • @mindulmoxie9224
    @mindulmoxie92247 жыл бұрын

    On behalf of my people, THANK YOU for touching on the "She doesn't like me because I'm too nice." thing!

  • @T.G_wiz

    @T.G_wiz

    5 жыл бұрын

    LMAO😂😂😂

  • @wyannaburke4826

    @wyannaburke4826

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha

  • @82godoy

    @82godoy

    3 жыл бұрын

    You're to nice

  • @immortaljanus
    @immortaljanus7 жыл бұрын

    My problem right now is opposite - I do my own things so much I find it boring going out. And I find most people boring.

  • @ramonanicole7540

    @ramonanicole7540

    6 жыл бұрын

    immortaljanus same here

  • @y.r.k2846

    @y.r.k2846

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sounds like depression... I feel that sometimes

  • @mastamind7100

    @mastamind7100

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @calkapustka414
    @calkapustka4145 жыл бұрын

    I do not consider myself boring, but am just in a ruff place right now! Your confident and just your way of life truly inspires me to grow better as a person and that I can always be better! Thank you!

  • @MrFindX
    @MrFindX6 жыл бұрын

    Tip number 4 is the best one. You'll eventually be boring to people you see all the time. So it's good to seek out new relationships.

  • @YuhhFeelMe

    @YuhhFeelMe

    Жыл бұрын

    No thanks, not seeking

  • @notaprofessional1
    @notaprofessional17 жыл бұрын

    I try new videos everyday Does that count?

  • @CidGuerreiro1234

    @CidGuerreiro1234

    7 жыл бұрын

    I try new porn tags everyday.

  • @mujeezy7475

    @mujeezy7475

    7 жыл бұрын

    Do you

  • @JT3KBV4

    @JT3KBV4

    6 жыл бұрын

    I shit in a new toilet everyday

  • @deadlybeauty53

    @deadlybeauty53

    6 жыл бұрын

    i am dead lmao XD.

  • @taeswife9532

    @taeswife9532

    6 жыл бұрын

    CidGuerreiro1234 hmu with that shit

  • @AxelGriff72
    @AxelGriff727 жыл бұрын

    You look like the guy who played Crossbones in Captain America.

  • @TheDrOfGaming

    @TheDrOfGaming

    7 жыл бұрын

    AxelGriff72 thats so true😎😂😂

  • @delipa5657

    @delipa5657

    7 жыл бұрын

    you are too fucking hip

  • @switchtopeace8469
    @switchtopeace84695 жыл бұрын

    Video starts at 2:01 Thank me later

  • @switchtopeace8469

    @switchtopeace8469

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Bernie stokes super man 😎

  • @mccoyk5873

    @mccoyk5873

    3 жыл бұрын

    Later thank

  • @switchtopeace8469

    @switchtopeace8469

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mccoyk5873 after getting a notification of your comment I got to know that I have got huge amount of 319 likes.. Thank you for the comment 🙏🏻

  • @danscalone8110

    @danscalone8110

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @user-ds3yw1kp1w

    @user-ds3yw1kp1w

    2 жыл бұрын

    Was searching for this comment😂

  • @munyamunya313
    @munyamunya3134 жыл бұрын

    i love this guy he makes me so confident of myself ive been watching your videos ever since i was 13 now 17 still watching ive improved a lot im a geek but with a good social life even a girl

  • @morbius9186

    @morbius9186

    2 жыл бұрын

    Munya chawawa

  • @calvincalamari6614
    @calvincalamari66147 жыл бұрын

    I love this guys videos... but it was a little depressing to see 'How to not be boring' recommended.....

  • @Matthew-cd8iv

    @Matthew-cd8iv

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lmao 😂

  • 8 жыл бұрын

    Find a passion and you naturally become more interesting

  • @s.flanders

    @s.flanders

    8 жыл бұрын

    That can swing both ways. If it's something that other people don't find interesting, they may find you boring if your passion is the only thing you can have a good conversation around.

  • 8 жыл бұрын

    Stupid Flanders True! Especially for business relations and meeting a broad range of people. Important to be well-rounded and able to consider and mesh with other perspectives.

  • @BenRangel

    @BenRangel

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Stupid Flanders I'd say 90% of the time ANY passion is a positive thing, and people are almost always inclined to be interested in passionate people with specific hobbies. If you ask someone "What do you do for fun?" and they passionately say something odd like "Beekeeping!" I guarantee that would be a conversation starter, and you'd find that person much more interesting than someone who answers "you know..the usual, hanging out with friends, watching movies and stuff"

  • @s.flanders

    @s.flanders

    8 жыл бұрын

    BenRangel Of course, being passionate about _anything_ is likely to make you more interesting than if you're passionate about nothing, but just having a passion is not sufficient to make you appear interesting to people. For your passion to be a good topic of conversation, it must be interesting in some way, so that people are compelled to ask you more about it. Beekeeping is rare/unusual enough that many people naturally want to learn more even if they wouldn't necessarily share your passion. As another example, many people seem to consider video games (sometimes specific ones) their passion/hobby, and I personally don't find that interesting at all and would probably be bored if someone talked about that for more than a minute or two. What others find interesting is subjective, so to maximize your chances of having good conversations, you should (in addition to pursuing your passions), know a little bit about a lot of things, so that you have _something_ of value to contribute to just about any conversation you may find yourself in. For example, I can get tremendously geeky/talkative about the things I'm passionate about, but I've noticed that many people have little interest in those subjects, so I won't spend much time talking about that if the people I'm talking to don't actually seem curious. In that case, it's useful if you have somewhere else where you can take the conversation and not be silent.

  • @trollol1252

    @trollol1252

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Stupid Flanders I don't think you wrote enough :)

  • @ohnyesss9544
    @ohnyesss95445 жыл бұрын

    6. Tiege Hanley

  • @averykolich6171

    @averykolich6171

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lmao

  • @disasterpiece6480

    @disasterpiece6480

    4 жыл бұрын

    IS THAT A MUDAFUCKIN JOJO REFERENCE!??!!?

  • @ThePiyushanand
    @ThePiyushanand6 жыл бұрын

    Aaron , I would like to confess, when you posted this video back in 2016, I used to consider myself as a boring person however after 3 year I am not in the same mind frame anymore, I followed all the steps and kept working on self improvement and I can say it with confidence that it does work. Thank you! You are amazing!

  • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    @TravisAndrews-lb1kk

    11 ай бұрын

    So do i and they work

  • @Gregster98
    @Gregster987 жыл бұрын

    I can watch this guy all day

  • @YourMom-sz7cq

    @YourMom-sz7cq

    5 жыл бұрын

    Gregster98 IKR

  • @MrHarith96
    @MrHarith967 жыл бұрын

    This really hit me hard, man i have start looking for new people

  • @MT-THNDR207
    @MT-THNDR2075 жыл бұрын

    I broke out of my rut after I found Your channel just recently. I'm now packing on more knowledge straight from your AWESOME channel. I love your encouraging attitude man! Keep making these awesome informative videos!

  • @ChrisHarman83
    @ChrisHarman835 жыл бұрын

    Alpha, I've just recently stumbled across your KZread channel and I must say, I'm pretty impressed. As a cocky ass, confident person, I still found these videos,not only entertaining, but motivational and inspiring. Keep that shit up!

  • @arkadeepbanerjee2347
    @arkadeepbanerjee23477 жыл бұрын

    fart in the elevation and blame it on your pet water buffalo. NEVER gets boring

  • @LegendaryManSlayer93

    @LegendaryManSlayer93

    7 жыл бұрын

    My abs are hurting from this comment. Lmao

  • @tanjiawei34

    @tanjiawei34

    7 жыл бұрын

    W

  • @Elo-Him

    @Elo-Him

    7 жыл бұрын

    I don't get it.

  • @DefecTec

    @DefecTec

    7 жыл бұрын

    Arkadeep Banerjee nope, it gets disturbing tho

  • @King-jy5vt

    @King-jy5vt

    7 жыл бұрын

    Arkadeep Banerjee OMG U ARE THE BEST

  • @missylessanie6180
    @missylessanie61807 жыл бұрын

    People find me boring because I either don't talk much or I talk about something others are not interested in hearing about. I have more fun being daydreaming. I'm quiet and don't have much to say because I find others boring. Once I get to know someone, I get bored quickly and I lose interest in the person and then I end up having nothing to say to the person. I find a lot of people annoying or boring especially if they have a lot of knowledge and talk about something I have no interest in and I hate to be bothered. I am friendly but I guess I don't like people. Its very unusual and rare for me to like people but when I do, it takes something special to get me to like someone. Do I have issues?

  • @kanteristu

    @kanteristu

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are not the only one who feels this way. Trust me, we're all different. Just because you feel this way doesn't mean there's something wrong with you. I relate very much to everything you just said, so if there's something wrong with you then rest assured there's something wrong with me as well. Being selective with people ain't nothing bad. In fact is highly recommended. Quality over quantity any day.

  • @tearealdavis2212

    @tearealdavis2212

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Safwan 💯💯

  • @DoReMiFaSolLaSi49q1

    @DoReMiFaSolLaSi49q1

    2 жыл бұрын

    I feel you man. Start and watch comedy videos and you will be a different person. It worked to myself. Stay cheerful and be yourself! No limits! Stand out!

  • @tvb4227

    @tvb4227

    2 жыл бұрын

    No. This was my mentality when I was 19 lol. After experience after experience then I realise not all people are boring. Some will tell you a path. Some will tell you something new. Some will be nice or bad to you etc etc. People are boring cuz you are boring. You have no power to make other people un-boring. Other people may not be unboring, but for you they are boring. However you can improve by learning something new and ideas and show it to someone else or try to convince that these thing is fun. then There's other people will share a something for you. Im not saying not all people will do the same once you tried to socialize. But you never find these type of people if you a mentality of '' I find people boring ''. You have no issues. You are just in a lower of level of socializing. This can be improve depending of your mentality. Your value or mentality can improve by experience, socializing, and learning etc etc...

  • @dibyendusekharghosh2840

    @dibyendusekharghosh2840

    2 жыл бұрын

    Damn we are same but recently I came to know that I have avoidant disorder so I avoid people but I am friendly too 😂

  • @Ecchiman-san
    @Ecchiman-san6 жыл бұрын

    “Take a different route to work” I did last month and got into an accident. 😑

  • @francisfrankie2029

    @francisfrankie2029

    3 жыл бұрын

    it worked, accidents are never boring!

  • @danscalone8110

    @danscalone8110

    3 жыл бұрын

    Got lost.

  • @yaasss9462

    @yaasss9462

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@francisfrankie2029 y'all r out her using commas and exclamation points and ask why your boring-

  • @francisfrankie2029

    @francisfrankie2029

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@yaasss9462 youve obviously never heard of this thing called "sarcasm" and am i really supposed to listen to a person who doesnt even know the difference between "you're" and "your"?

  • @yaasss9462

    @yaasss9462

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@francisfrankie2029 if you call that sarcasm I feel sorry for your sense of humor my comment was a joke and you say that I have no idea what sarcasm is 😃 and since you have so much free time on your hands to nit pick about my spellings name one person who uses "you're" while txting/commenting I'm sorry I'm too gEn Z for you :)

  • @samxd3161
    @samxd31613 жыл бұрын

    Can we all take a moment to appreciate how calm and mature Alpha is in this video as compared to the recent ones? And God! The intro back then...so much better than the latest one.

  • @alexandriajaneen2244
    @alexandriajaneen22445 жыл бұрын

    me: hey him: hi me: wyd him: your dry your too boring when you text bye me: *searches how not to be boring*

  • @uwu-ps3qb

    @uwu-ps3qb

    3 жыл бұрын

    -HEYYYY😩 -what are you doing darling/or something you want to call him) and use emojis

  • @carlos-ej3sv

    @carlos-ej3sv

    3 жыл бұрын

    When it comes to texting its a little different. NEVER start with hey or wyd unless you already have a topic you are going to talk about. Even if you do have a topic you don't have to say hey, it will actually make you look more fun if you jump right into conversation. Use emojis but not too much and use them at the right times. (😂😭💀- are pretty much the most common to use and go with a lot of things. The Golden Tip - if you want to keep the conversation going, THEN DON'T CLOSE IT. it's so simple don't reply with a small sentence. Speak your mind out, give your honest opinion, etc.

  • @lina5698

    @lina5698

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@carlos-ej3sv tnxx!

  • @kroflet
    @kroflet7 жыл бұрын

    No product placement? Wow!

  • @Wildheroo

    @Wildheroo

    7 жыл бұрын

    what's wrong with product placement?

  • @emilio556

    @emilio556

    7 жыл бұрын

    Wildheroo it's annoying and inconceinvent and gets in the way of him trying to do the video

  • @Wildheroo

    @Wildheroo

    7 жыл бұрын

    XD Most of ppl likes making money. It's his way to make it, it's his channel, it's his company, his idea how it should looks like. It's not annoying except u have never tried to sell anything.

  • @Wildheroo

    @Wildheroo

    7 жыл бұрын

    I am focused on the content not on adverteisment, that's why it doesn't bother me

  • @WebVManReturns

    @WebVManReturns

    7 жыл бұрын

    He made a change so the video become less boring.

  • @stenionet
    @stenionet8 жыл бұрын

    She didn't like you because she is not attracted to you. That's a harsh truth. :)

  • @zionthiem6343
    @zionthiem63433 жыл бұрын

    This makes a lotta sense, gotta keep relationships interesting and not boring to keep em live and thriving otherwise doomed to fail

  • @SuperBlaze117
    @SuperBlaze1176 жыл бұрын

    Life is about experiences and learning and seeking self improvement! That the message I was waiting to hear from you Alpha!

  • @johnxiong6983
    @johnxiong69837 жыл бұрын

    My friends be like " Dang bro, where'd you learn these things?" Me: Alpha M

  • @228anonymous
    @228anonymous7 жыл бұрын

    "hey girl, I use tiege hanley" BOOM instantly more interesting

  • @detox2778

    @detox2778

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂🤣😂🤣

  • @arsaces7579
    @arsaces75796 жыл бұрын

    I love how positive he is. Amazingggggggg!

  • @hirshamqadiri7121
    @hirshamqadiri71216 жыл бұрын

    thankx for the wake up call freaking love u man

  • @ZageDefault
    @ZageDefault7 жыл бұрын

    Does anyone know how to tame a horse on minecraft?

  • @trollester69

    @trollester69

    7 жыл бұрын

    haha wtf

  • @themysterykid1

    @themysterykid1

    7 жыл бұрын

    Jev's Grandpa give it bread

  • @sebdunleavy1608

    @sebdunleavy1608

    7 жыл бұрын

    You gotta have a saddle equipped and continuously try to mount it until it accepts (no dirty joke intended)

  • @luispereira2354

    @luispereira2354

    7 жыл бұрын

    Sebastian Dunleavy yep that's how you do it and if it's done you get them red love hearts and you can give it weed as reward

  • @steel6189

    @steel6189

    6 жыл бұрын

    Bruh

  • @velardechelo
    @velardechelo7 жыл бұрын

    I think my problem are the fucking pc games, I love play games but I feel like they are draining my life. :c

  • @GeneralMcCornBread

    @GeneralMcCornBread

    7 жыл бұрын

    Same!

  • @gendengraven5049

    @gendengraven5049

    7 жыл бұрын

    why dont you try to convert it on real life? i mean like, I like to play Skyrim, etc etc etc, ooh i played it alot, and i love bow and archery on every RPG games, then something popped in my mind "why the heck not joining Real life archery club?", i know it might sound ridiculous about how will that affect you but having another activity which is productive will increase your attractiveness, if you think theres a hardcore gamer who got attractive girls, well... you don't know him well perhaps. moreover , dude if you life on more civilized and open minded country youll find a tons of good activities to look on, not like on my country.

  • @mvsaratssj4

    @mvsaratssj4

    7 жыл бұрын

    Same x2

  • @d1rtymart1n18

    @d1rtymart1n18

    7 жыл бұрын

    Gendeng Raven Yeah..... I dont think i should convert the things that i do in GTA into real life

  • @thedarkknight646

    @thedarkknight646

    7 жыл бұрын

    Marcelo Velarde I know the feeling dude I pretty much wasted my entire teenage years on that shit. Then I became an adult and suddenly I had less time to play. Blessing in disguise despite bills and added responsibility

  • @louis8930
    @louis89305 жыл бұрын

    "Try somethings new every day" I guess I will watch another new movie and play a different game

  • @NTEDOG561

    @NTEDOG561

    2 жыл бұрын

    Or ya know go for a walk

  • @HellReaper93
    @HellReaper935 жыл бұрын

    This video was as always, amazingly entertaining and educative. Keep up the great work Alpha!

  • @manpreetpuaar2517
    @manpreetpuaar25176 жыл бұрын

    When you stop learning when you stop experiencing you stop living !!! That line's i am just saying that you are awesome bro really!! really!! Awesome i love that last lines 😍😍😍

  • @sharathkumar3599
    @sharathkumar35998 жыл бұрын

    thank you very much alpha for all yo video, you are very famous here in India also 😊

  • @adenabdille2980

    @adenabdille2980

    8 жыл бұрын

    With culture like that I don't think it's much use

  • @sharathkumar3599

    @sharathkumar3599

    8 жыл бұрын

    Aden Abdille what do you mean by that !??

  • @First6Blood

    @First6Blood

    8 жыл бұрын

    +sharath kumar You are pretty much hopeless bruh

  • @sharathkumar3599

    @sharathkumar3599

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Teo Dex why??

  • @Joshil100

    @Joshil100

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Krish Connor racist idiot gtfo

  • @thomsonmidzi
    @thomsonmidzi4 жыл бұрын

    I just watched my first video from your channel today and literally spent the WHOLE night watching them. You’re actually AMAZING and have inspired me to go for my dream. I just feel like, like you, being a creative and being a jack of all trades is a bit frustrating because you want to do everything you’re good at and you enjoy, so you cant really focus all your energy on one thing. But until I do, I will keep doing more and more new things. Because WE are awesome and amazing and can do anything IF we believe in ourselves

  • @richicork
    @richicork5 жыл бұрын

    The last things he said about experiences just changed my point of view cuz now I wanna get out there and meet new ppl 🤙

  • @eliaseisenberg108
    @eliaseisenberg1087 жыл бұрын

    the best and coolest conversation i have daily is with myself

  • @drifter169
    @drifter1698 жыл бұрын

    I have a question, do you use putty ? Or cream ?

  • @alpham

    @alpham

    8 жыл бұрын

    +nasser jr peteandpedro.com/product/putty/

  • @mcpooface7044

    @mcpooface7044

    8 жыл бұрын

    +nasser jr I like ice cream

  • @matajorge6

    @matajorge6

    8 жыл бұрын

    +mcpooface I like turtles

  • @SaifShakur

    @SaifShakur

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jorge Mata I like trains

  • @remyparkour8810

    @remyparkour8810

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Jorge Mata I got that joke. Now i feel pike I have no life.

  • @ronsmith36
    @ronsmith365 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree! To many people are stuck in the auto correct world. Engaging with others through conversation helps you become a better communicator and learning more about yourself. It’s fun to do and by stepping out of your comfort zone broadens your ability to grow!

  • @YuhhFeelMe

    @YuhhFeelMe

    Жыл бұрын

    I dont need any of this when ive already done it

  • @popcornfilms1
    @popcornfilms16 жыл бұрын

    Alpha, you always come out with the best advice. It's never nefarious or unwise- thank you for you channel

  • @chairmanm3ow
    @chairmanm3ow7 жыл бұрын

    Doing something new everyday seems like a tall order. I hear that one a lot. maybe once a week? and good call on the morning talk shows.

  • @diogoferraz2780
    @diogoferraz27807 жыл бұрын

    I am 16 years old. I moved school and my class is only cool kids, I am not awkward, I am actualy kinda cool and I know that but for some reason Im struggling to talk with some people in my class and making new friends (but i have already made some friends from that class).The problem is that I am not that interesting and I dont know what to do.....i just dont understand the ''try something new everiday'' when everyday i go to school. I want them to like me and to start to hang out with me , but i dont know what to do

  • @malaquiasalfaro81

    @malaquiasalfaro81

    7 жыл бұрын

    Read about things you like and about general knowledge. You're going to blow your teachers and those kids minds.

  • @aaronrose2506

    @aaronrose2506

    7 жыл бұрын

    Same situation dude 16 as well change school haven't made friends yet

  • @kerolosashraf9018

    @kerolosashraf9018

    7 жыл бұрын

    i have literally this here and i got nothing to do.. i see my friends hangin and i wait until they call me and if they didn't i stay at home about my self! i realy want to know what should i do

  • @bletwort2920

    @bletwort2920

    7 жыл бұрын

    If you're still in school then just hang out with or hang around popular people. It worked for me. There was this guy who would be talking with every single girl he sees, I became good friends with him and soon I was shaking hands with all the girls and guys as soon as I entered the class. After that you can just be on your own. You just have to get exposure. And from my experience, kids in school want to be friends with the friends of their friends, they like finding and making connections in a sorta strategic way, subconsiously. If your like the random guy or the loner who sits in a corner chances are no one will aproach you

  • @diogoferraz2780

    @diogoferraz2780

    7 жыл бұрын

    Permafrost - thank you, that is also my opinion and that is what ive been doing

  • @_metal.queen_
    @_metal.queen_3 жыл бұрын

    I’m also ALWAYS asking questions and learning new things via work and home life 🥰

  • @adamocollective6092
    @adamocollective60925 жыл бұрын

    1. PUT AWAY YOUR DEVICES AND GO OUT

  • @mushykush4673

    @mushykush4673

    5 жыл бұрын

    jsg040 I've done it but I dunno what to do outside

  • @T.G_wiz

    @T.G_wiz

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@mushykush4673 hay. can we help each other?

  • @aryansamya2361

    @aryansamya2361

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@T.G_wiz im down

  • @blurskyless6407

    @blurskyless6407

    5 жыл бұрын

    "oh wow. I'm so unique and interesting because I HATE technology and everyone who uses their phone is stupid. I'm SO much better and original because I live a REAL LIFE outside not like everyone else."

  • @blurskyless6407

    @blurskyless6407

    4 жыл бұрын

    "I HATE FURRIES HAHA XD IM SO FUNNY!!!!!! XD FURRY HATE FUNNY FUN YUMMY FURRIES HATE XDXDXD!!1!"

  • @dr05guitar
    @dr05guitar8 жыл бұрын

    I think also, even if you have the knowledge, if you don't know how to talk and share that in an interesting way, people may never know that you have any knowledge that may interest them! Communication is the key...you have to figure out how to relate to people in an engaging way that allows you an inroad to sharing your knowledge and experiences.

  • @superlex611

    @superlex611

    8 жыл бұрын

    But how can you communicate with people who were nice to you ?

  • @simg4565
    @simg45657 жыл бұрын

    i was boring until i met alcohol

  • @docbrown7558

    @docbrown7558

    6 жыл бұрын

    ya but you can't always booze

  • @fht7frestyle817

    @fht7frestyle817

    6 жыл бұрын

    simer 007 I

  • @bigdummy5012

    @bigdummy5012

    6 жыл бұрын

    I hear that

  • @slmtv7699

    @slmtv7699

    6 жыл бұрын

    Good bye soon . Do what u desire

  • @smaugtheimpenetrable8009

    @smaugtheimpenetrable8009

    6 жыл бұрын

    XD

  • @dashengovender766
    @dashengovender7663 жыл бұрын

    Thank's brother for your solid advice. The world is full of interesting people. We should always seek to strike a conversation and learn about other human beings.

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom38326 жыл бұрын

    Being a boring person sucks because nobody would like to be with your company. You can probably be, just a shy person and often get a notion of being too boring but I think being too shy can be reversible, all you have to do is challenge yourself to be a confident person, show your playful side and everything else will follow.

  • @BeingTiffBenson
    @BeingTiffBenson7 жыл бұрын

    Great Tips Alpha M. I'm loving this channel!

  • @flightthegoatreacts3991

    @flightthegoatreacts3991

    6 жыл бұрын

    Creation Tricks wut

  • @jamesthompson7917

    @jamesthompson7917

    6 жыл бұрын

    Creation Tricks TF dude lmao you just made my day better

  • @joy-jc1cl

    @joy-jc1cl

    6 жыл бұрын

    Tiff Benson you will become alpha male one day

  • @marianoah9231

    @marianoah9231

    6 жыл бұрын

    Flight The Goat React's Lol dunno why this is funny :-D

  • @charmios8529

    @charmios8529

    6 жыл бұрын

    Tiff Benson same he’s so positive and open minded ;D

  • @nemisisomen
    @nemisisomen8 жыл бұрын

    How to break small talks? I like deep topics, but I can not directly jump into topics like creation of universe. I can take any conversation to new lengths but how to break out of cycle of small talks?

  • @EPmessi9800

    @EPmessi9800

    8 жыл бұрын

    I'm having the same problem.

  • @nadiabelakbir2911

    @nadiabelakbir2911

    8 жыл бұрын

    Find intelligent people like yourself or someone that you think would know how to discuss those topics with you.

  • @daguru45

    @daguru45

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Nemo That person you say 'wassup' or 'how are you' say that then talk about whatever it was that got you two together aka find common stuf, e.g old school mates, gym, blah blah and then like just move on and start talking about other stuff while having that conversation. Don't talk about universe stuff or deep conversation stuff at that point cuz then it'll make you seem weird , you have to keep it light and cool at first. Keep having conversations like this and what you'll notice is you won't be the one making up topics to talk about, the other guy/girl will start to want to talk to you( if the light and cool conversations you did before were any good) and he she'll bring up topics like idk football, TV shows and the like but then once you can easily have a conversation with that other person about literally anything (you or the other person usually literally thinks to themselves or says it out loud 'I can really talk to you about anything') then you can have deep convos with...

  • @epiclight858

    @epiclight858

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Nemo Everybody simply has different personalities, but our personalities can be altered by what we choose to do every life. Try to find a friend or someone who might think like you do, and help each other try new things :)

  • @agahajak

    @agahajak

    8 жыл бұрын

    +Nemo Here's How: Her: Hey, What's up? You: Stars and Planets, *random fact about the universe*

  • @BrianRelate
    @BrianRelate6 жыл бұрын

    Tips number 5 hit me hard... Who tf even dislikes this video. Its so motivating and awesome

  • @icssev
    @icssev6 жыл бұрын

    Tip no 1 - 'Acknowledge that being boring is state of mind'..........this is so true and s applicable to any feeling, wow (y)

  • @ellenibas
    @ellenibas7 жыл бұрын

    Hey I'm a lady and I'm feeling this advice 👍🏻👍🏻

  • @arianrahman5886
    @arianrahman58867 жыл бұрын

    You are one of the BEST KZread channels, for real

  • @thatrebelhick7061
    @thatrebelhick70616 жыл бұрын

    Honestly dude, i’m not trying to boast or anything. but i do fairly well with the ladies, but you’ve always got some new tips to use that really helps. Always giving life, style as well as many other tips things i thought would never help that actually do.

  • @MahouShoujoKaffeein
    @MahouShoujoKaffeein5 жыл бұрын

    I am not a guy, but I really needed tips on how not to be boring. Like, I am stuck in my home because of anxiety, I barely see anything new or interesting in my daily life. How can I be interesting to my friends or online? Now I have some ideas on what I want to do next to be interesting, so thank you!

  • @gamoosh237
    @gamoosh2378 жыл бұрын

    you is kind... you is smart... and you is important

  • @uknowncourage3743
    @uknowncourage37437 жыл бұрын

    truly appreciate this awesome advise cause I'm a really nice guy myself

  • @sheyisunmola
    @sheyisunmola3 жыл бұрын

    My dude, THANK YOUUUU! THANK YOU. BORING IS A STATE OF MIND!

  • @gomocolossal_1506
    @gomocolossal_15066 жыл бұрын

    love your crazy enthusiasm. I want more of it!

  • @JayWizzielTV
    @JayWizzielTV8 жыл бұрын

    Well put. From experience, staying in your comfort zone will bore you to death. Breaking out is both scary and exciting!

  • @thuanhoang9381
    @thuanhoang93817 жыл бұрын

    I love the way he turned something complicated in life into something really easy to understand and also funny.

  • @joelquiocho946
    @joelquiocho9466 жыл бұрын

    dude, ypu are changing my life. keep making these amazung videos. Godspeed alpha.

  • @Amy-ms6wj
    @Amy-ms6wj5 жыл бұрын

    Im sure you get this a lot, but I love that spot on your eye! Very unique and not boring!

  • @MegaFklm
    @MegaFklm7 жыл бұрын

    All I do is watching Alpha m. I should quit and become interesting

  • @rafiashraf2769

    @rafiashraf2769

    5 жыл бұрын

    HowToLive You should learn some grammar to while you’re at it.

  • @tommunism6471

    @tommunism6471

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@rafiashraf2769 when you comment on someone's grammar and you can't use the correct 'too'

  • @RvmeoR

    @RvmeoR

    5 жыл бұрын

    Big Daddy Tomuuu Lmao he played himself

  • @siddharthaswal3099
    @siddharthaswal30997 жыл бұрын

    firstly we should stop thinking that ""I am boring""

  • @lemao2810
    @lemao28105 жыл бұрын

    THANKS THE VIDEO REALLYYYYYY HELPED ME ALMOST CURED MY DEPRESSION TOO THANKSSSSSSSSSSSSS

  • @surdinhojr7131
    @surdinhojr71315 жыл бұрын

    DUDE YOU COULD LITERALLY MAKE YOUR OWN SHOW OR BE IN THE FUNNIEST 🤣 COMEDY SHOW EVER 😂😂😂😂😂🤘🏿rock on dude

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