What To Say After "Hey": A Beginner's Guide to Flirting (The SATIC Principle)
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Today's episode is about flirting. A lot of guys have problems with this; and I have a useful acronym you guys can use to help: SATIC. Seed, Assumption, Teasing, Investment and Comfort. I'll go through what each means, and how to do them and link them together when you're flirting with a girl.
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I planted the wrong king of seed, I'm father now
@nasirjac
4 жыл бұрын
Mission accomplished though😌
@eyobednigusse8306
4 жыл бұрын
Alex C u r savage
@Tabbykiller
4 жыл бұрын
Hi father, I'm Elgreco
@khairulkafee9500
4 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@talhakhan1584
4 жыл бұрын
with in the first 10 seconds ? 😋
Wish me luck, boys.
@razzTOXIC
4 жыл бұрын
Go for it Buddy
@motivatemastery77
4 жыл бұрын
Go for it lad
@pewman4148
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah did you get it?
@holyfknsmokesigotmymoneyup
4 жыл бұрын
Andres Santos update us bro..
@speeedwagonnn6959
4 жыл бұрын
I think this dude kidnapped her and living with her in Mexico right now eating a burrito 🌯
0:30 The way she stands on two tables and two chairs at once... THATS SOME ALPHA BODY LANGUAGE I SAID.
@calin6327
4 жыл бұрын
Underrated
@abnerbabner9333
3 жыл бұрын
Ive been dying from ur comment for the past minute
@proudman6153
3 жыл бұрын
Lol😂😂😂
@seperfecto6677
3 жыл бұрын
it’s even funnier when you realize he is the teacher
@aradithas6381
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
Bruh. He said thanks for 750 subs. I thought he meant 750k. You’re at 100k+ subs in over 8 months. That is crazy bro!
@rein_grnd
4 жыл бұрын
that proves there're a lot of virgin dude here lol
@fixafix69
3 жыл бұрын
@@rein_grnd or you know just people who wants to improve their game. The advices he gives are mostly solid and good
@halointheworld
2 жыл бұрын
He's at 300k now 😂
@nanachi2509
2 жыл бұрын
@@rein_grnd mad?
Flirting is about 50% timing and 50% chemistry, that's really it.
@pedobear8071
2 жыл бұрын
and 100% luck
@s-slayer-t3749
2 жыл бұрын
@C O R R U P T I O N I love u for that bro😂
@ericgonzalez2785
2 жыл бұрын
@C O R R U P T I O N im dead i can hear that song in my head
@andrew9772
2 жыл бұрын
@C O R R U P T I O N FORTMINOR!
@felixdeubler1180
2 жыл бұрын
15 percent concentrated power of will
Seed: Intent (What do you want) + Premise of the conversation! (Man-Woman conversation). Assumption: assume something about her that you noticed (E.G: her eyes, dress, hair, etc.). Tease: use the assumption you made, and exaggerate it more to make it even funny! (Fun game: practice playing "if X is true, Y must be true too!"). Investment: Create a story about why the two of you are together Comfort: ask her questions, get her to open up about herself!
@echobird115
2 жыл бұрын
I don’t even know what to do at all, what do I talk about? Good conversation starters? When she bumps me on purpose (flirty way) what do I say? How do I flirt back showing that I have interest?
Me: Hey Her: Hey Me: ... hey
@BrandonG444
3 жыл бұрын
Same bro🤣🤣🤣 I got the looks but the social skills😐
@levi_exiled8579
3 жыл бұрын
@@BrandonG444 I have friend who looks really good. Blonde with amazing hair, nose jaw but he is the shiest person I have ever seen. Once we walked in a cafe for work and when he saw girl waitresses he blushed and couldn't make eye contact. Me, big nose brunette, was amazed when I he told me that. Looks are a huge boost but you need social skills.
@nishantverma9564
3 жыл бұрын
This is sad but funny 😭😂
@joshancheta1248
3 жыл бұрын
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@betocuesy5666
3 жыл бұрын
LoL same
This some good ass advice that no other player would normally tell others. You a real one bro.
2 years later he is at 375k subs and counting so imppresive
Thank you. I probably stumbled onto some of these techniques before with girls, but I’ve never had anyone put it into words and define it as you have. It’s nice to have a figurative “road map” to work with.
Man I’m a big fan of yours. You’ve got some real knowledge. Keep it up.
The intro was so emotional My boys a hard worker!!!
It’s truly inspiring how u have grown so much in just a year ☺️
I love this, started this video after watching a video that claims to strictly avoid doing things this video recommends. Amazing. I guess I'll have to figure it out for myself after all.
I feel like this is one of the best tip videos I have ever seen for dating honestly
My prayers have been friggin answered
0:35 ask her “ did you see me hover over from a chalk board onto a desk?”
@jakeb4816
3 жыл бұрын
👌
@jakeb4816
3 жыл бұрын
Nice comment.
80% of the time, I'm already friends with the girl I like by the time I realize I like them lol
I'm here after getting friendzoned, and knowing that surprisingly I did everything what's in this video without even knowing what I was doing, was positive, confident, made her a dinner in her house, made her laugh (real laught, not the akward one) but still wasn't able to be her boyfriend! guys sometimes it just won't work out for some reason! live with that
@nelsanitytv2109
2 жыл бұрын
That's sad. How did you overcome that? Or how are you two doing now?
@tradelikezach
2 жыл бұрын
Making her dinner at her house is not a great move. Should invite her into your life to see what it would be like to be with you. Not walk into her life
Glad I watched all videos now in college, it works smooth like butter. Thanks!
@thegentlemensgame
2 жыл бұрын
Glad to help mate
Me: trying to talk to my crush normally Also me: 0:40 standing on a desk
@jackkendall7545
4 жыл бұрын
Underrated comment 😂
@ottovonbasedmark
2 жыл бұрын
I feel you bro 😂
That's amazing bro, your video deals with a real life. Bro can you make a video to approach girls for those who feel shame and nervous
Wow in 9 months went from 750 subscribers to 115K, congrats. Wish your channel the best
Brilliant stuff! This is all good advice
A year later, from 750 - 134k subscribers. Well deserved!!
01:23 Seed - Planting the seed, letting her know the intent and the premise of the convo - How to plant the seed: (1) Verbally -> Direct compliment or implication (eg it's official we were meant to be lovers) (2) Body language -> talk slowly, low tonality 02:21 Assumption - Make assumptions about her. It creates conversations on the spot - Given you've done correctly the girl will be curious about them and by correcting you she'll contribute to the convo 03:08 Teasing - Exaggerate on the assumptions - Practice game: If this is true, X must be true too 04:07 Investment - Try to get her more invested and interested in you - Narrative: Story why you two are together 04:50 Comfort - Trying to get her know better - Ask her questions, get her to talk about her
@isaackruger7833
2 жыл бұрын
🙏
YOUR EDITS ARE EVERYTHING BUT GOOD...💀💀
Great video. Like Based Zeus try giving summary at the end. Try making more videos on texting, try how to deal with situation in texting. Cause most games these days happen over texts
How does anyone remember all of this
@tamilorejoseph4704
2 жыл бұрын
Practice makes perfect
@chrisjfox8715
2 жыл бұрын
Don't focus on memorizing anyone's advice. Internalize what resonates with you, go with the flow in a way that's true to you, and don't worry so much about the rest. Getting caught up in following "the rules" will make you come across as unnatural and incongruent with who you are
i like the fact that this channel gives actual useful advice online the mysoginistic alpha male pick up videos
I will probably remember satic for life. It's unfortunate that I can't study with this much dedication 😂😂
I like how they are standing on the table at the beginning of the video
You man really good video maby do the intro a bit shorter but keep it up i really learned from this
"A fRaNk OcEaN sHiRt" . . . Love that
Very good video ,keep it up.
guys this guy here is a true legend even in My country Africa Gambia where i think it does not work but guess wat it work thanx man u just so great😍
Coming from a Girl, This is great stuff, and sooo true! and Heres a little Female advice to go along with that, When complimenting her, Don't talk about her body, you can complement her smile, eyes and hair, BUT NEVER catcall or call a girl "Sexy" or "Hot"! All that does is makes us really annoyed, and make us roll our eyes! And just keep in mind "Beautiful" and "Stunning" and "Pretty", comes across much better! ;)
@cant_touchthis69
3 жыл бұрын
Love your smile stacey. Very cute
@joogaloo929
Жыл бұрын
Why? Your body is something you have to actually work for and achieve, whereas your eyes and smile are kinda out of you control - roll of the dice
Everything you say makes sense
Good video mate!
I tried to plant my seeds on a girl and now they are holding me in a cell while awaiting my trial, they say I might get life. I told the officer it was a gentleman's game...
Wish me luck gentlemen! Haven't gone on a date since the ol' ex, pretty excited!
Thanks, I met a girl and I really liked her but, I was too scared to keep eye contact. But next time I'm going to look her in the eye.
really helpful bro heres some takeaways: SATIC Seed -setting premise -man to woman Assumption -make assumptions based on observations Tease -exaggerate the assumption to make it funny -if this is true, X must also be true Investment -Tell her stories about you -Let her get to know you -Build Narrative -you guys were meant to be Comfort -ask her questions -get her to open up
@qual1356
4 жыл бұрын
Never seen someone annotate a KZread vid, but hey I'm not complaining
@randomguy-ys1mu
4 жыл бұрын
@@qual1356 first time?
@mrj4082
2 жыл бұрын
How to get her to open up if she doesn't answer basic questions like "how are you?" or "what's up?"?
@va4114
2 жыл бұрын
@@mrj4082 don’t ask those questions say some interesting shit or assumption
Thank you. I'm always stuck at the assumption part
u defiantly should have atleast 2 mil subs
@thegentlemensgame
4 жыл бұрын
Appreciate it bud
I talked to a girl over text for like 2 days and she suddenly started to talk about her family and her relationship with them, things like how annoying her brothers are, her father an alcoholic, etc... I was like, wtf, you just met me over social media...
@stzlys
4 жыл бұрын
A close female friend of mine act in such way. Go easy on her buddy. It might seem a bit too much for you to "digest" or "care". They probably need someone to listen to them. If it's too much, tell them in a nice way.
@afaf162
4 жыл бұрын
Dude she may like you take your time with it.
Wat would I have been if u never existed Please teach us more like this It helps a lot
Wish me good luck boys
Time to use this formula
I couldn't take the seed part seriously 😂
What are some good conversations starters? What should I say/do when she bumps into me on purpose (flirty way) ? How should I approach her to get her attention ? What do I ask to find out what she likes doing or hobbies ? Is it wrong to think about her constantly? What’s some good pick up lines? Finally, if all goes well, how would I ask her out on a date? Sorry one more, what a non expensive date and should I pay fully or do half’s? (Sorry I’m getting out from being a man introvert and so far so well except when it comes to girls)
So YT decided I needed this. Ok.
Last one is the best
Thank you so much for this. I have the confidence to approach women but I never know what to say
@thegentlemensgame
2 жыл бұрын
You can do it, with the right gameplan
@jirkazalabak1514
2 жыл бұрын
So basically you´re a masochist, lol. How long did you spend bashing your head against a wall before deciding to get some advice?
Aight, im going in boys
“1st word is seed.” Okay, so let’s just skip to the end then. No big deal.
0:24 and The Way she stood on tables and sat at The same time😍
You know you in rough point when you watch such videos
Guess what he failed English 😂
This is much tougher than Rocket science
Quality content🤯😱
Basically talk to a girl how you would talk to your sister Me personally I have a good relationship with my sister in that it’s a healthy one. If u don’t have a good relationship with your sister this might be hard but basically tease how you’d tease your sister etc. keeping in mind this girl Isn’t your sister so your end goal should be to get her to like you
@aidenwinter1117
4 жыл бұрын
That’s what I was told but bruh I’m an only child
@alexchang4475
4 жыл бұрын
This some Alabama shit right there lmao
@heroic9631
4 жыл бұрын
Alex Chang I was thinking the same shit lmao
@dewispelarefarms8223
4 жыл бұрын
I tease my sister all the time but i don't have the guts to tease girls because of this generation of sexual harassment crap. Im scared to say or do anything that might sound off.
@vanadis2420
4 жыл бұрын
@@dewispelarefarms8223 Well, no matter what happens, you should still take that risk, if the relationship is already secured between you to/if she is comfortable already then you can do it without any risks most likely
Instructions weren’t clear ..... accidentally created a harem
Her: Hey 😉 Me: Dafuq? 🤨 😂😂😂
@thanhvinhnguyento7069
3 жыл бұрын
Mission failed. We'll getem next time
moral of the story, it takes a graduation in flirtology, and what saying thereafter must also be consistent
Teasing is where I fail, I just end up roasting her.
Same here. Freeze it ended up with no ideas
我居然也能听懂,说的太棒了
@crabysp6287
4 жыл бұрын
宾汉源 yes
Thank you
"Let's start with the first one: seed" I am not sure i can trust this guide, i don't want to be arrested
Well look like I have to learn this stuff now, was at the club for the first time in 3 years (am 19 now) three girls talked to me and I basically had no clue what to do. I don’t know if that’s a lot but it was for me hehe
This stuff is nice, but i think you should make a video for each part of the acronym to go in detail, with more examples...
I flirt like this but occasionally. It's tiring to keep the girl interested if you find out you're not interested in her all along. My discovery is that you can keep this going if you're really interested in the girl.
'Hey there...I see you coming to the gym often...almost everyday. You train hard. Sooooo..... how much did you gain weight' 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😛😁 I said to a female colleague. She first looked frustrated and bit angry....but later she had a hard laugh!🖒😎
@wamichdoc
4 жыл бұрын
Smooth bro 👌😉
Actually, i said something to her, "what?" It's like an awkward moment together after that we were laughing so hard that we don't know why we were laughing, it was fun
Satic
exactly the same situation 😮😮😮
This channel is very good but at the same time I get very tired of doing this until I die and than thats it on planet earth. There is so much more fun things to do in life.
@anuragsosa
2 жыл бұрын
Fun things ? Like ?
Read the thumbnail as How Flirt To
0:55 I'd say only all the time 🤣, it's starting to get better for me though, I've been talking to my crush for a while now and she seems to like me a lot 2.
I thought asking too much or leading the conversation with questions can make the other person uncomfortable... :// Especially when you just met them
Im always shocked and become panik when a woman says something and isn't ignoring me
I'm here just for the comments 😂😂
Say " Hello World ". For Beginners.
Umm, i can't conversate like that. Never enough words in my brain.
My man! Why are you standing on the table 😂😂
MySmashCorner is that you?
Seed Assumption Tease Investment Comfort
Do some tips for those of us with big social anxiety. Makes the "tease" part impossible.
@jirkazalabak1514
2 жыл бұрын
Go to a therapist. Dating advice on YT is not designed to help with psychological issues.
Yes a lot
Why did this pop up in my recomendation after a girl just texted me that💀
I have seen so many videos like this, you think I would be a master at this but I suck so much
0:54 not just relate that is me
I got nervous just getting through the video. I could never do this lol
@thegentlemensgame
4 жыл бұрын
Start with learning to make eye contact first. Then smile
I tried this and planted my seed on the first date
wish me luck for saturday
@dbzwarrior4321
Жыл бұрын
How it went?
let me go for practicles
How to remember these advices and really do it? Because when I found an opportunity, I instantly forgot them and also because I speak in a language different FROM English in my country, that is hard. Please give me some advices. Thanks
Umm that is a good one.
I have the need; the need to seeed ( Borderlands 2)