5 Tricks To STOP Being Shy In ANY Situation! (INSTANT Confidence)

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So there's something about Alpha that would surprise you about him -- he's shy with certain people and in certain situations. In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, Pete & Pedro and Fashion Anchor talks about when he was in Chicago with Tiege Hanley recently. He was in his shell, but he had a moment in order to have a good night thereafter. Here's how he did it.
Stop Shyness Instantly
1. Identify your insecurities - change them if you can't; embrace if you can't. Alpha discusses not having money, the condition of teeth, and skin conditions.
2. Learn to identify when you start feeling shy
3. Give yourself a pep-talk - "I'm awesome. I'm amazing. I am good at_______."
4. Smile and give a compliment - break the ice and get engaged
5. Push yourself out of your comfort zone on a regular basis - practice!
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  • @waterblonk
    @waterblonk6 жыл бұрын

    I don't talk to people because I have no social skills. And I have no social skills because I don't talk to people.

  • @FeelinHazey16

    @FeelinHazey16

    6 жыл бұрын

    waterblonk let me guess and when u do eventually start talking u embarrass urself?

  • @m.m.i.9586

    @m.m.i.9586

    6 жыл бұрын

    I know it sounds silly, but if you read books on manners and social skills, it really helps. I highly recommend anything by Judith Martin (she's got a sense of humor). In and among instructions about excusing yourself from events or sending thank-you notes, there is practical, helpful advice for really awkward social situations.

  • @droptak

    @droptak

    6 жыл бұрын

    You don't need social skills to start talking to people

  • @Jayant_klkrni

    @Jayant_klkrni

    6 жыл бұрын

    Same loop bruv

  • @Kingwil497

    @Kingwil497

    6 жыл бұрын

    Dude, literally just go out there and find someone that relates to you.

  • @reacttv219
    @reacttv2194 жыл бұрын

    Each like will increase your confidence level give it a shot guys...

  • @mohitbhatt5868

    @mohitbhatt5868

    4 жыл бұрын

    Shi h londa

  • @reacttv219

    @reacttv219

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mohitbhatt5868 arre thnks bhai

  • @reacttv219

    @reacttv219

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mohitbhatt5868 tune msg na kiya hota to pta na chlta kitne likes mil gye the meko

  • @mohitbhatt5868

    @mohitbhatt5868

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ab khush h na bhai😅

  • @reacttv219

    @reacttv219

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@mohitbhatt5868 bahot yr😂👍

  • @shintaromidorima3703
    @shintaromidorima37034 жыл бұрын

    I'm shy in real life but when it comes to online I'm fine.

  • @RapIsDrug

    @RapIsDrug

    4 жыл бұрын

    It's way easier being confident online. There is no actual person in front of you

  • @MossyAdventurer

    @MossyAdventurer

    4 жыл бұрын

    Whiskey Barrel already know that

  • @jaysontatum8788

    @jaysontatum8788

    4 жыл бұрын

    why is it the opposite for me lmao

  • @slimecade2071

    @slimecade2071

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @unreleasedhiphopking5066

    @unreleasedhiphopking5066

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @danielguzman9907
    @danielguzman99076 жыл бұрын

    Being 17, I've been shy almost all my life and life sucked. Plus, as I was getting older (middle-high school), I was extremely lonely and also extremely insecure about my body. I had terrible teeth that I needed braces (and it's extremely worth it, still have them on), I have gyno (moobs) and still do (not as bad since my testosterone has grown due to puberty and working out), and my whole body was out of shape (very skinny fat and worked out to fix it and still a lot more room for improvement). I had to first battle my insecurities and as well as embracing them for the time being. However, what made me break out of my bubble was just being more open. No one else can do it for you. Of course, one has to have some confidence in themself first as the foundation of breaking out of that damn bubble, but just being more open is what sets everything apart. As I reached junior year of high school, as much as I didn't want to talk, I realized that I need to change and that there's no other option. I did this by just gathering with people I'm comfortable with and cracked a joke (and it has to be funny and not out of place or else you've just fucked up). The crazy thing is that just like what Alpha said, now those people started talking to me more often and now those 3 guys are my friends. As the year progressed, I created social media accounts (don't really talk to anyone that much there since I'm a born introvert), especially since almost everyone st school had Snapchat and I was one of the only few people without one. I've also talk to way more people and rarely feel like an introvert anymore. Of course I'm still fairly anti-social and an introvert since I need some "me time" and don't really party, but all that has changed in the past year ultimately change my life for the better. To anyone out there, don't wait like how many people, such as myself, did for some "miracle" to happen, or that someone can make you not shy. Only YOU can change that and the sooner, the better. I call myself lucky since I've realized that I needed to change pretty early in my life, and as one gets older, the more stubborn people become. Being shy sucks ass since you aren't living life to the fullest. I do wish I wish that I lived my high school years to the fullest because I did miss out on so many opportunities just for being shy, but now I'm looking foward to college and upcoming years. What's a better time to break the bubble than now?

  • @sixteen02

    @sixteen02

    5 жыл бұрын

    Wow, thats a huuge motivation 🙏 ty

  • @ugaming5893

    @ugaming5893

    5 жыл бұрын

    Great comment and I respect you

  • @rojayrg8715

    @rojayrg8715

    5 жыл бұрын

    Good advice bro

  • @StoicthoughtsbyMatt

    @StoicthoughtsbyMatt

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the advice man, I'm 17 also and I think that from now on I'll open up to people more often

  • @rockybutts3360

    @rockybutts3360

    5 жыл бұрын

    Amazing story, I along with many can relate to what you were/ still are going through. This was very motivating and up-lifting to read, thank you for sharing your story!

  • @sonnydong3726
    @sonnydong37266 жыл бұрын

    I have acne,uneven teeth, and low income. I am not the tallest or the best looking person, but I have my confidence and sense of fashion; confidence helped me in my social life and women. Life is to short to be shy. Seize the moment and just go for the girl you want. The worst she can say is no, then you can move on.

  • @HeedAndSucceed

    @HeedAndSucceed

    6 жыл бұрын

    son dong how did you stop being shy?

  • @sonnydong3726

    @sonnydong3726

    6 жыл бұрын

    HeedAndSucceed hope you are doing well. One of the thing that helps me to overcome my shyness is to understand that no matter what a person does or how much they change, life will basically stay the same, like "haters will always hate". With that mentality, I just approach life by being myself. Another aspect is that you are unique, even though you might think you're boring, but in reality you are not. Share who you are with someone. Some will walk away some will stay, those who does stay are the ones worth keeping.

  • @pakipashtunmafia6924

    @pakipashtunmafia6924

    6 жыл бұрын

    son dong much respect brother fr u talk some sense right there

  • @prince_sach50

    @prince_sach50

    6 жыл бұрын

    Tbh just dress well, look and groom yourself the best you can, and Have CONFIDENCE and Be yourself and I think 99.9% of guys can get a girl...

  • @Dovehkis

    @Dovehkis

    6 жыл бұрын

    Bro ik a guy way worse then how you depict yourself that got with a really good looking girl, just got to work with what you have and just like alpha said if you can better yourself in some way to boost yourself up go for it !

  • @pharmit24
    @pharmit246 жыл бұрын

    I just say in my head that "I'm a motherfuckin' Starboy" when I'm feeling shy or in a stressful situation.

  • @jordanl2317
    @jordanl23176 жыл бұрын

    I'm insecure that the people I'm with don't want me there

  • @Vepporizer

    @Vepporizer

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jordan L Same. Even though they tell me they like me 100 times I somehow don't believe them

  • @rosshenleytiburcio3287

    @rosshenleytiburcio3287

    6 жыл бұрын

    same.

  • @taherismael1887

    @taherismael1887

    6 жыл бұрын

    Even if they don't want you there, what is the worst thing that may happen ? They would form bad opinions about you ? Excuse me bro but screw them ! Do what you like and stop thinking about what people think of you because : A) people don't judge all the time as we imagine . B) even if they do judge you, it doesn't matter , even if they don't want you then being worried and ruining the moment for you won't get you over that , they would just make it worse .

  • @shielamaemenoza1632

    @shielamaemenoza1632

    5 жыл бұрын

    I feel you.

  • @David-yw3os

    @David-yw3os

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jordan L so good to know other people feel the same way

  • @sunilsigar3145
    @sunilsigar31455 жыл бұрын

    1. Identify your insecurities 2. Pep talk , I'm awesome I'm great you are great 3. Smile and give a compliment 4. Push out of your comfort zone on daily basis, practice it, the more you do it

  • @r011ing_thunder6

    @r011ing_thunder6

    5 жыл бұрын

    I don't want to compliment a dude on what he's wearing because I think that's kinda gay.

  • @anthonychampagne6239

    @anthonychampagne6239

    4 жыл бұрын

    Some heros dont wear capes

  • @existence.5806

    @existence.5806

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@r011ing_thunder6 lol

  • @r011ing_thunder6

    @r011ing_thunder6

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Jan7kowa11 okay sweet cheeks.

  • @ChrisCaldwellO66

    @ChrisCaldwellO66

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@r011ing_thunder6 thats an insecurity! If you are secure in your sexuality, you should have no problem complimenting another man! And its really immature to think that way and not attractive to anyone.

  • @mephistopheleslookingforad3861
    @mephistopheleslookingforad38615 жыл бұрын

    He snort some white confidence in the bathroom xD

  • @eduardoguardado8536

    @eduardoguardado8536

    5 жыл бұрын

    Christoph Sauter 😂

  • @brandonheck4848

    @brandonheck4848

    5 жыл бұрын

    I’m dead 🤣

  • @user-dq2wr2kj3j

    @user-dq2wr2kj3j

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ahhaha

  • @daymiencunty5774

    @daymiencunty5774

    4 жыл бұрын

    I liked the comment till I saw you had 420 likes

  • @theriffrepeaterjr.1772

    @theriffrepeaterjr.1772

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@daymiencunty5774 I sometimes have weed for my confidence

  • @ryaneveridge2103
    @ryaneveridge21036 жыл бұрын

    The comment section: 5% about being shy 5% thanking alpha for his videos 90% rubbing/eating Tiege Hanley

  • @rah1752

    @rah1752

    6 жыл бұрын

    lame

  • @Tabish80

    @Tabish80

    6 жыл бұрын

    why arent pete and pedro in the comment section ;)

  • @503945158

    @503945158

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ryan E1097 - Yup. When people don't know when jokes get old.

  • @oofnibber3507

    @oofnibber3507

    6 жыл бұрын

    500 like boiiii but I don't know why that matters

  • @ryaneveridge2103

    @ryaneveridge2103

    6 жыл бұрын

    Gertrude haha who cares if it's old? I didn't mean it as a joke anyway, just a general thing that I noticed...

  • @nateprince
    @nateprince6 жыл бұрын

    1.) Identify your insecurities a. Change or embrace them b. Insecurities are invisible 2.) Identify when you begin feeling shy 3.) Give yourself a peptalk 4.) Smile and give a compliment 5.) Push yourself out of comfort zone on a regular basis You are F***ing amazing :D

  • @travisandrews3909

    @travisandrews3909

    Жыл бұрын

    Im trying these steps

  • @pyareemohan3084
    @pyareemohan30846 жыл бұрын

    My confidence level increases when my hair style is good.👍

  • @lst_by_4204

    @lst_by_4204

    4 жыл бұрын

    Pyaree Mohan faxxx

  • @pifnbndd3784

    @pifnbndd3784

    4 жыл бұрын

    Pyaree Mohan do u have long hair because I’m the same way

  • @Enso007

    @Enso007

    4 жыл бұрын

    You get it

  • @doruvictoru767
    @doruvictoru7676 жыл бұрын

    I love it when you upload when I've got studying to do :)

  • @CanalDoFilipe_

    @CanalDoFilipe_

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kamikaze 0150 same here

  • @afonsolucas2219

    @afonsolucas2219

    6 жыл бұрын

    I hate to admit it, but it's also my case although I did do half of my work so I guess I'm ahead of you two... Whatever you're studying.

  • @haider5932

    @haider5932

    6 жыл бұрын

    OMFGGGG/......I GT A BIO TEST TOMMORW

  • @rageblade7833

    @rageblade7833

    6 жыл бұрын

    Im subscribed to 62 channels -_-

  • @ricitosdecobre__

    @ricitosdecobre__

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kamikaze 0150 hahahahaha my mum has just teased me for not leaving my phone and doind my homework lmao

  • @khemarakbotra4183
    @khemarakbotra41836 жыл бұрын

    I'm shy to talk because I don't speak clearly 😩😩😩

  • @simonpetkov6640

    @simonpetkov6640

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thats actually a part of being shy

  • @user-uf1or6ik5m

    @user-uf1or6ik5m

    5 жыл бұрын

    i have this probleme too when i speak to people and sometimes forgeting what i wonna say and this killed me everytime i used to cry cause mom always tell me that this enter in personality and self-confidence , trust . but i cant overcome this

  • @kwstaslungu1522

    @kwstaslungu1522

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@user-uf1or6ik5m everything can change brother

  • @edboss36

    @edboss36

    5 жыл бұрын

    i have a deep voice and it's very quiet

  • @andyesp4702

    @andyesp4702

    5 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @drizzylmg752
    @drizzylmg7526 жыл бұрын

    Step number 1: stop being shy Step numbed 2: Do step number 1

  • @joshuaharris6638

    @joshuaharris6638

    5 жыл бұрын

    step 3: do step 2

  • @justapersonlikeuok9835

    @justapersonlikeuok9835

    4 жыл бұрын

    josh step 4: do step 3

  • @papiaaktar4138

    @papiaaktar4138

    4 жыл бұрын

    Step 5: do step 4

  • @elvishamilton9308

    @elvishamilton9308

    4 жыл бұрын

    I'm confused

  • @emmashopkin2098

    @emmashopkin2098

    3 жыл бұрын

    Step 6: do step 5

  • @missylks1239
    @missylks12396 жыл бұрын

    "What are you insecure about?" EVERYTHING. I can't fix it all.

  • @surya8891
    @surya88916 жыл бұрын

    I feel shy to even ask for something to buy from the shop

  • @tabishrahimi9299

    @tabishrahimi9299

    5 жыл бұрын

    surya almost like me

  • @berlinwall6674

    @berlinwall6674

    5 жыл бұрын

    You need help from a professional

  • @sixtydiagram3233

    @sixtydiagram3233

    5 жыл бұрын

    surya same

  • @lionkingforever3862

    @lionkingforever3862

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same *hides in my room*

  • @danielremple6417

    @danielremple6417

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @galactush8808
    @galactush88086 жыл бұрын

    I want a relationship like the word on his t-shirt

  • @SokifyTM

    @SokifyTM

    6 жыл бұрын

    BhOOm BhOOm lol

  • @dancecrazy585

    @dancecrazy585

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lol facts💯💯

  • @ephemeraleffervescence8120

    @ephemeraleffervescence8120

    6 жыл бұрын

    BhOOm BhOOm True

  • @recluse6814

    @recluse6814

    6 жыл бұрын

    BhOOm BhOOm S A M E

  • @itskarlasway5594

    @itskarlasway5594

    6 жыл бұрын

    SAME

  • @nickamp3390
    @nickamp33904 жыл бұрын

    Me in front of all class ( In a speach) : *clears throat* Heart : Oop my turn *starts pumping crazy*

  • @shutupplease8737
    @shutupplease87375 жыл бұрын

    moms friend: Hey! how are you me: oh uh hi *hides behind mom* mom: she’s a little shy me: i’m not shy IM NOT shy...

  • @ProPlayer-wq3nu
    @ProPlayer-wq3nu6 жыл бұрын

    I'm always shy... *BUT NOT WHEN I LUBE MY BODY WITH TIEGE HANLEY*

  • @davidcrossmier6012

    @davidcrossmier6012

    6 жыл бұрын

    *FUCK YEAH*

  • @Nygge1982

    @Nygge1982

    6 жыл бұрын

    I just had to click that Read More, even thou I knew that it was going to reference my favorite product in the world!

  • @thevibestation5174

    @thevibestation5174

    6 жыл бұрын

    Oh yes daddy

  • @syedalee227

    @syedalee227

    6 жыл бұрын

    Pro Player 1⃣ daym

  • @marmiksoni474

    @marmiksoni474

    6 жыл бұрын

    Would you plz stop being everywhere.

  • @mikeoxlong371
    @mikeoxlong3716 жыл бұрын

    Why am I even watching this? I already know Tiege Hanley is the answer.

  • @skaterjoe1669

    @skaterjoe1669

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thomas Betschart lol I'm here for these memes

  • @fahimshahriyar2494

    @fahimshahriyar2494

    6 жыл бұрын

    just don't watch! stupid

  • @HamoTheUltimate

    @HamoTheUltimate

    6 жыл бұрын

    Saqeeb Sakib it was a joke,calm down ur fuckin ass kiddo.

  • @defstonerworld1912

    @defstonerworld1912

    5 жыл бұрын

    They dont sale Tiege Hanley at walmart. I was there yesterday

  • @julianzurita5215
    @julianzurita52156 жыл бұрын

    Alpha! Thank you so much for making this video, it really means so much that you try to help every guy out there. As a inner shy guy myself, it’s very hard to try to step out of your own bubble when you bubble is all you’ve ever known. You videos always inspire me so thank you!

  • @VVSChopps
    @VVSChopps6 жыл бұрын

    6:16, I appreciate the compliment bro, but im not wearing a Jacket at the moment.

  • @Dovehkis

    @Dovehkis

    6 жыл бұрын

    VVS Chopps wow... Bryan.... wow xD

  • @Renghub

    @Renghub

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Týr lmao

  • @michaeljoseph7917

    @michaeljoseph7917

    4 жыл бұрын

    lol

  • @theriffrepeaterjr.1772

    @theriffrepeaterjr.1772

    3 жыл бұрын

    What did you do to alpha to make him hate you?

  • @-splitman-7022

    @-splitman-7022

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @thesherbet
    @thesherbet6 жыл бұрын

    I find that I'm chronically shy in quite a few situations, and you're right, I'm very aware of it when it happens. To this end, I've booked myself a trip to new york for a month next year to complete take myself out of my comfort zone and drop myself into a place where I know absolutely no-one and can hopefully be myself and help to beat a lot of my own personal insecurities. I feel like more people need a person like you Aaron in their lives. As much as society is moving towards more emotional connectivity, especially in men, most men simply don't have a figure they can go to when they need a pep-talk or advice on fashion/lifestyle. Certainly not parents, even if they in their mind wanted to give advice and help on these kind of subjects, it's still a very male thing to not show emotions and such as though it's a weakness.

  • @HazmanTheGreat
    @HazmanTheGreat6 жыл бұрын

    I have confidence like Johnny Bravo. "I am pretty, I am amazing"!

  • @afonsolucas2219

    @afonsolucas2219

    6 жыл бұрын

    Too much sometimes is a bad thing, ya know that.

  • @saint4lifeboi76

    @saint4lifeboi76

    6 жыл бұрын

    HAZMAN THE GREAT lol

  • @saint4lifeboi76

    @saint4lifeboi76

    6 жыл бұрын

    Bradius Maximus im not douche i was just kidding

  • @Dovehkis

    @Dovehkis

    6 жыл бұрын

    *HOO* *HAA* *OOOH MAMA*

  • @chloecronin7692
    @chloecronin76926 жыл бұрын

    I love this! I’ve been feeling so shy and insecure lately and I’ve wanted to stop that and come out of my shell and with these tips I will hopefully if not completely but little bit by bit become more confident as I need the confidence because I’ve gone too long with being unconfident x

  • @whytxr9247
    @whytxr92473 жыл бұрын

    Being shy sucks, I’ve only had like- 7 friends my whole life..

  • @Ken-no5ip

    @Ken-no5ip

    3 жыл бұрын

    Is that the sickness or the symptom?

  • @atilayakubov7684

    @atilayakubov7684

    3 жыл бұрын

    7 close friends? If that is true, than you are normal!

  • @thetattooedguy1413
    @thetattooedguy14136 жыл бұрын

    Have to admit Alpha is the man!! I am almost 40 and learn a lot from his videos

  • @comedicenigma7821

    @comedicenigma7821

    6 жыл бұрын

    Brian Potts nice jacket, I love it

  • @AmirulMdLazim

    @AmirulMdLazim

    6 жыл бұрын

    go watch his video tattoo dont

  • @briantobias9212
    @briantobias92126 жыл бұрын

    I see some comments on here about "Eating" Tiege Hanley, so I bought some today, of course using Alpha M's "Discount code". It shipped to me in a jiffy, that's same day delivery for those who want to know. Gotta love the Tiege Hanley customer service. I sat down at my desk and began to put some in my mouth. I am now cooler, smarter, and faster in everyway, all because of Tiege Hanley. Thank you. Tiege.

  • @joejackson444

    @joejackson444

    6 жыл бұрын

    :) :) :)

  • @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodc7969

    @yourfriendlyneighbourhoodc7969

    6 жыл бұрын

    LMFAO!

  • @jack_crutons3080

    @jack_crutons3080

    6 жыл бұрын

    LOL

  • @kwhiskey1373

    @kwhiskey1373

    6 жыл бұрын

    Curious are people making fun of these videos about teige Hanley cuz the other advice he gives sucks or just to joke he mentions teige Hanley every video?

  • @tomscavo9419

    @tomscavo9419

    6 жыл бұрын

    Brian Tobias Thanks bro,now I know how to use it :)

  • @Pduarte79
    @Pduarte796 жыл бұрын

    Another trick "Never took yourself too seriously. Learn to loosen up." Smile and be funny, make smart observations and conversation, that tends to help. If you are too focused in yourself and in the situation that produces the shyness, that feeds the problem and you start sweating and possibly entering in a paranoia state "what I'm doing here? I want to go home. etc" is important to fight that. And I know, what I talking about, because I used to be more shy, than I used to be.

  • @medhabharti7969
    @medhabharti79696 жыл бұрын

    I love u man!!! You r so amazing..u don't even have an idea how you have changed people's lives within minutes....love love!!! U r a blessing!😘😘😘

  • @Ghostlytales.
    @Ghostlytales.6 жыл бұрын

    Im better when im drunk.

  • @toothlesstoe

    @toothlesstoe

    6 жыл бұрын

    Who isn't?

  • @baka_geddy

    @baka_geddy

    6 жыл бұрын

    Like raj koothrapali ( or whatever shit it is ).

  • @leathercheerio1

    @leathercheerio1

    6 жыл бұрын

    Me too. Therefore I drink every day.

  • @neneklampir6664

    @neneklampir6664

    6 жыл бұрын

    Me too 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @nigelmascarenhas9907

    @nigelmascarenhas9907

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ikr I had a glass of beer and then the whole hotel wad looking at me abd i felt aweosme inside

  • @xyon9090
    @xyon90906 жыл бұрын

    *I'm not shy.* I'm n-not. Trust m-me..

  • @marithuscr4691

    @marithuscr4691

    6 жыл бұрын

    no one cares

  • @MihaiLeonardoNiculescu

    @MihaiLeonardoNiculescu

    6 жыл бұрын

    Georgie ?

  • @amitrungta5384

    @amitrungta5384

    6 жыл бұрын

    u r scared not shy..!!

  • @josephmother110

    @josephmother110

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mad Dog If if if if if if if if if

  • @socalfaithfuls4020

    @socalfaithfuls4020

    6 жыл бұрын

    Future.C I have speech impediment and it holds me back alot

  • @philliprodriguez9757
    @philliprodriguez97576 жыл бұрын

    Awesome video! Thank you for this Alpha, being shy is something I've always struggled with but after watching your video I already feel better about myself :) Seriously, thank you

  • @Zain-ir6rm
    @Zain-ir6rm6 жыл бұрын

    You are a brilliant marketer and genuine salesman, the way you bring attention to peoples insecurities then present a solution swiftly. I got distracted about the shy content and just observed from a marketing perspective lol.

  • @mahdy77m
    @mahdy77m6 жыл бұрын

    I’m not shy I just don’t have nothing to say I have a 24/7 brain fart

  • @barryseaworth

    @barryseaworth

    6 жыл бұрын

    WisePanda me too

  • @sdivan3g931

    @sdivan3g931

    6 жыл бұрын

    Hella bro Its like if you cant think about what to talk aboit

  • @YungPac

    @YungPac

    6 жыл бұрын

    WisePanda Thats because you're anxious. You're shy, bitch. Stop the excuses.

  • @toddhuynh3188

    @toddhuynh3188

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yung Pac shutup you don't know how it feels to brain fart

  • @toniodarko5404

    @toniodarko5404

    6 жыл бұрын

    I think on a level so deep and philosophical that an everyday chat is so strange to me. Idk what to say in simplest occasions without sounding like a complete psycho to others.

  • @karimd88
    @karimd886 жыл бұрын

    It’s amazing how many times you’re videos come at exactly the time I need them, like now. This morning I had a appointment with my therapist (for my depression and derealization) and we for the first time were talking about shyness and overthinking in those situations. So I just want to thank you and I don’t know how you don’t with those perfect timed videos haha! But thanks man and yeah you’re awesome!❤️💪🏽

  • @travisandrews3909

    @travisandrews3909

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't need therapist

  • @michaelwinslow3666
    @michaelwinslow36666 жыл бұрын

    I'm a new subscriber to Alpha M. Thanks for speaking from your own experiences. It's obvious your information is very real to you and that you are speaking from your own experiences. Please keep-em coming!!

  • @vorg858
    @vorg8586 жыл бұрын

    Oh god, the way you talk is really clear and i understood every word you said. Man it's actually making me do the things you told us.

  • @SergeantKurabara
    @SergeantKurabara6 жыл бұрын

    All im getting insecured about is that god damn blushing... i swear my confidence would go so high if i didn't blush you have no idea. I embraced it, I blush every day, yet, nothing happens... Like I don't even get nervous about what im gonna say to that girl, IM AFRAID THAT IM GONNA BLUSH.. AND ITS FKED UP

  • @andy1999k

    @andy1999k

    6 жыл бұрын

    MrViperBG just embrace your blushes dude she wont think you are weak because you blush a little

  • @JakobM

    @JakobM

    6 жыл бұрын

    MrViperBG me too then ppl point it out which makes it worse, best way to help confidence is to fake it to you make it I guess and go through things that make you blush and awkward don’t avoid them then it’s easier to overcome

  • @SergeantKurabara

    @SergeantKurabara

    6 жыл бұрын

    Well I guess theres no escaping that, since few people told me some tricks similar to these, but never seen a complete blush cure. Thanks though, appreciate it.

  • @MrKing-qd7gi

    @MrKing-qd7gi

    6 жыл бұрын

    MrViperBG there isn't really a CURE. Just ignore it, if your confident without it then keep talking and being confident. People may notice it but if your talking confident it will just seem to be a phenomenon. And if someone points it out then just say something like "oh yah, I blush when even I talk to myself" as a joke to make light of it. Just change your reaction to you blushing. Embrace it. (Plus girls love it when a guy blushes, especially when he is confident and blushing at the same time)

  • @javiernight4478

    @javiernight4478

    6 жыл бұрын

    It happens to me every damn same time but girls like that! Just ask someone that has seen you like that and they will agree. Same as us guys love a blushing girl

  • @vikashtewari6748
    @vikashtewari67486 жыл бұрын

    Every fucking comment is about tiege hanley

  • @seriouswithdaysoff

    @seriouswithdaysoff

    6 жыл бұрын

    Your comment isn't. Therefore you are wrong.

  • @AspiringAbogado
    @AspiringAbogado6 жыл бұрын

    God bless you, Aaron. Much love, man! You do make a difference!

  • @mysticnick2095
    @mysticnick20956 жыл бұрын

    Your awesome man, this is why I subscribed to you bro, I appreciate how invested you are with all of us. Your an Alpha

  • @jackraiden4175
    @jackraiden41756 жыл бұрын

    i usually remind myself that we're living in a simulation and nothing is real

  • @Johtic_

    @Johtic_

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jack Raiden that makes it harder for me

  • @FeelinHazey16

    @FeelinHazey16

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jack Raiden that might work..

  • @Skywalker.Movies

    @Skywalker.Movies

    6 жыл бұрын

    You live inside a simulation of a simulation inside another giant simulation!

  • @RJ__927

    @RJ__927

    6 жыл бұрын

    Too much rick and morty

  • @elcocaino8728

    @elcocaino8728

    6 жыл бұрын

    Same bro

  • @yinvlogsomg8345
    @yinvlogsomg83455 жыл бұрын

    Does anyone else get red when there is an uncomfortable momemt or when you get shy? Or am I the only one 🤣

  • @tkmtkm4527

    @tkmtkm4527

    4 жыл бұрын

    You mean blushing??

  • @yinvlogsomg8345

    @yinvlogsomg8345

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@blackstack54 well for me its my whole mf head like is that normal

  • @samaygames3306
    @samaygames3306 Жыл бұрын

    My man getting me ready for school! Always hooking it up man keep up the good work. :)

  • @Ezbc05
    @Ezbc056 жыл бұрын

    YES!!! I love this guy. Keep up the good work man.

  • @yamagucci4177
    @yamagucci41776 жыл бұрын

    How about tips to start a conversation or be engaged in a conversation?

  • @Kingwil497

    @Kingwil497

    6 жыл бұрын

    Broo... literally just talk about anything bro and stop being so self conacious

  • @colevien2712

    @colevien2712

    5 жыл бұрын

    1. I usually start off with a compliment which was mentioned in the video. 2. I will add something additional to what the person says. 3. Ask a probing question (make sure they elaborate on their explanation avoid yes/no answers the majority of the time). 4. Try to give them a chance to ask you a question. 5. Repeat (w/o step 1). Good luck 👍

  • @mackenziegray2090

    @mackenziegray2090

    3 жыл бұрын

    I got the same problem. Not exactly shy being around people. Just trying to build a relationship that is difficult.

  • @GoGoFIFANL
    @GoGoFIFANL5 жыл бұрын

    Bro you did A good job with this video for me!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @anthonyhewitt9397
    @anthonyhewitt93976 жыл бұрын

    Dude your great you almost made me cry brotha i can truly feel like you wanna help others and that makes me happy

  • @gabbss919
    @gabbss9196 жыл бұрын

    All your videos are very helpful . In your video that well help you be a better person really worked on me I have seen many differences . And this video helped me too I didn't feel afraid to be myself anymore .

  • @stutteringcris468
    @stutteringcris4686 жыл бұрын

    My pep talk. "I can do this. I know it can... i know it." And then I fail miserably in front of everyone.

  • @aladinhegic3306

    @aladinhegic3306

    4 жыл бұрын

    Take adderall hah

  • @brolcathol1904
    @brolcathol19046 жыл бұрын

    This is one of the best thumbnails yet... Probably applied a mix of Tiege and pete and Pedro

  • @joerosati5017
    @joerosati50175 жыл бұрын

    BECAUSE YOU ARE F%$^ING AMAZING! Good line man, imma use that one

  • @FRANKIEonWCin240p
    @FRANKIEonWCin240p6 жыл бұрын

    Your videos have been so helpful, this one especially. Keep them coming and stay awesome!

  • @ezure3087
    @ezure30876 жыл бұрын

    My combination is bein shy, socially akward and being wierd overall CHANGE MY MIND

  • @andyesp4702

    @andyesp4702

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's me in person lol

  • @williswayne1876

    @williswayne1876

    4 жыл бұрын

    Andy Esp me too 😪

  • @pifnbndd3784

    @pifnbndd3784

    4 жыл бұрын

    Eric Keyart me

  • @juozsx
    @juozsx6 жыл бұрын

    find your insecurities... hmmm ok My insecurities: 1.Cause im shy ... welllll shit

  • @MrEnterainment
    @MrEnterainment6 жыл бұрын

    I loved this video, Aaron. Thank you 🙂 You seriously are amazing. I love your sense of humour as well!

  • @billyjoefrancis
    @billyjoefrancis6 жыл бұрын

    Hey Alpha, you're a terrifically inspirational man. Keep up the good work; it can be rough out there, but considerably less with your help.

  • @Stamps9696
    @Stamps96964 жыл бұрын

    Me: How to not be shy. Alpha: Don’t be shy. Me: Ok, got it.

  • @nolomus
    @nolomus6 жыл бұрын

    Acne was a big confidence buster, when I was a teenager. Just drink A LOT of water and stop eating fast food and tons of candy and don't drink 10 Red Bull's a day and all that nonsense. If that doens't help, Tiege Hanley against acne is there for you, coming early 2018!

  • @reecebudd9009

    @reecebudd9009

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kevin J. Meyer 👍

  • @shutupidiot16yearsago79

    @shutupidiot16yearsago79

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kevin J. Meyer how did ya comment 4 hours ago when the video was uploaded just few mins ago?

  • @prashantrana7962

    @prashantrana7962

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kevin J. Meyer And n0w you are most confident guy. Booom!!!!

  • @reecebudd9009

    @reecebudd9009

    6 жыл бұрын

    Anonymous Guy its a glitch with youtube

  • @etherealpetrichor9572

    @etherealpetrichor9572

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kevin J. Meyer remember, your diet DOESN’T effect ACNE!

  • @AustonHolleman
    @AustonHolleman6 жыл бұрын

    Thanks alpha this has helped me open up and everybody does want to be around me more

  • @smiggy5768
    @smiggy57686 жыл бұрын

    Recognising the fact that we are all equal helps build confidence because it removes the feelings of inferiority and superiority. Basically you don't anybody as better than you, and you don't see anybody as worse than you. This has helped me overcome shyness.

  • @hoodd345hatter
    @hoodd345hatter6 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Alpha, these tips helped me approach the lover of my dreams! Teige Hanley had all the boys fighting over her, but by using these tips I was able to stand out! We are even expecting our first child soon. We can't decide between the name Pete or Pedro.

  • @deadlock107

    @deadlock107

    6 жыл бұрын

    Good shit bro! Seems these tips works superfast

  • @carterrichardson9205

    @carterrichardson9205

    6 жыл бұрын

    Andy G 😂😂😂

  • @SkinnyRambo4

    @SkinnyRambo4

    6 жыл бұрын

    What is a teige Hanley ?

  • @Kingwil497

    @Kingwil497

    6 жыл бұрын

    It's a fucking product look it up.

  • @mumnotthebelt.7207

    @mumnotthebelt.7207

    6 жыл бұрын

    Pedro !!

  • @ivansmirnov4339
    @ivansmirnov43396 жыл бұрын

    It's hard to be confident at all times.. especially when people talk smack behind your back, making it harder to say or do anything in front of anyone ..

  • @Kingwil497

    @Kingwil497

    6 жыл бұрын

    STOP GIVING A FUCK

  • @yodawg3469

    @yodawg3469

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Kingwil497 Damn skippy

  • @NenUser12_

    @NenUser12_

    5 жыл бұрын

    We all are judged everyday. Just practice your Nen bro...

  • @mercpindi5522

    @mercpindi5522

    4 жыл бұрын

    Be yourself. I got number from a random chick at the uni yesterday it worked. You need balls to do this shit.

  • @Draco5483
    @Draco54836 жыл бұрын

    One of if not the best videos you’ve ever uploaded. Truly inspirational!

  • @luckyali13
    @luckyali136 жыл бұрын

    I just saw your Shark Tank and loved how you didn’t get bullied into a bad deal! Great work keep it up!

  • @BURGERKINGXL
    @BURGERKINGXL5 жыл бұрын

    I have to be honest. I was just looking for videos for different hairstyles but ended up discovering alpha.m and bro u cool af. keep up the dope videos.

  • @andyesp4702

    @andyesp4702

    5 жыл бұрын

    That happens

  • @IMetLadyGaga
    @IMetLadyGaga6 жыл бұрын

    When he pulls out the “PMD” - and you’re like, “oh sh*t, what the hell am I watching?!” 😂🤦‍♂️

  • @erl7466
    @erl74666 жыл бұрын

    my friend, i’ve developed a ton of social anxiety over the years, and it’s weird, because I’m a chef and in my element, i’m top fricken dog. you can’t phase me, can’t dog me down. but in social situations it’s gotten worse and worse over the years. THIS SHIT YOU SAY WORKS. I can’t thank you enough man. From dance floor anxiety to parties to casual interactions, it’s finally getting better and it’s because i’ve been watching your vids (among others). best, dude, keep it up.

  • @kevinmarcolin4044
    @kevinmarcolin40446 жыл бұрын

    I love re-watching your videos, you're amazing Alpha M!

  • @c5steppagaming573
    @c5steppagaming5735 жыл бұрын

    I missed out on a lot of opportunity because of my shyness so I hope this helps 🤞🏽

  • @D3ATHZH3AD
    @D3ATHZH3AD5 жыл бұрын

    The thumbnail is just great XD

  • @georgelocke2043
    @georgelocke20433 жыл бұрын

    Alpha! Thank you so much for every video. You make a very big and amazing difference in my life

  • @moneytiming5987
    @moneytiming59876 жыл бұрын

    @alpha m. this guy is literally the best at vids guy gets straight to the point and always knows alot about the topic you can tell by how he talks about it

  • @beautifulinfinity
    @beautifulinfinity5 жыл бұрын

    I've always been a shy girl. As I'm getting older, I'm starting to realise it may have something to do with an emotionally troubled childhood. I stumbled across your channel while googling 'how to be assertive'. And oh boy, I've been watching all your related videos for the last hour. Thank you. ❤

  • @EnricoReyes
    @EnricoReyes6 жыл бұрын

    I used to be a shy kid... til I met Tiege Hanley. Now I'm a Stand Up Comedian.

  • @spectre5x5
    @spectre5x55 жыл бұрын

    Love your positive attitude my friend!! Great video!

  • @dale621
    @dale6216 жыл бұрын

    Love your positive energy man ! great videos , thankyou !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @vimalkumar-tc1bi
    @vimalkumar-tc1bi6 жыл бұрын

    wow people liked without even watching the whole video. great work alpha

  • @TheRealMikeyXZ
    @TheRealMikeyXZ5 жыл бұрын

    His real prep talk is "Tiege Hanley, Tiege Hanley, Tiege Hanley, Tiege Hanley, Tiege Hanley, Tiege Hanley, Tiege Hanley, TIEGE Hanley, Tiege HANLEY, TIEGE HANLEY!!"

  • @victoriousvic23
    @victoriousvic234 жыл бұрын

    Love this video!!! I’m going to share it to my shy son! Thanks for the video!

  • @Dovehkis
    @Dovehkis6 жыл бұрын

    Thats a hell of a pep talk alpha! I needed to hear that, and thanks so much bro. Im going to talk to that girl i like and gain back my confidence :)

  • @nikhilsingh7323
    @nikhilsingh73236 жыл бұрын

    I love you man.

  • @captainbluethunder8771
    @captainbluethunder87716 жыл бұрын

    A poem for Tiege Hanley:- Tiege Hanley is the best. Use it and forget the rest. Alpha m likes it a lot. Without it your body will rot. Apply it and fly in the sky. Haters of Tiege Hanley are supposed to die. Everyone uses Tiege Hanley. From Kim Kardashian to Fucking Stanley.

  • @manishaher1796

    @manishaher1796

    6 жыл бұрын

    CaptainBlueThunder 😂😂😂😂best one...i hope alpha highlights it

  • @sr33nathx83

    @sr33nathx83

    6 жыл бұрын

    Imao!!

  • @sarthak4056
    @sarthak40565 жыл бұрын

    I just love the way he motivates me in the end of every video...

  • @mrlimitless2377
    @mrlimitless23776 жыл бұрын

    You are a positive force brother...keep doing the great work !

  • @rehanjamshed2936
    @rehanjamshed29366 жыл бұрын

    I wish i could love reacc your videos lmao , man i'mma be honest with you i haven't had a strong manly figure in my life who could teach me stuff and i was raised up a shy kid and had many concern about whether some things were right or wrong but you Alpha , YOU have literally taught me a LOT OF STUFF and i've been watching your videos for as long as i remember using youtube . There's something about your channel that i know even if you may have sponsor stuff in your videos you're honest to the point and your help has helped me so much that i can't describe in words , most of all you take care of telling about your past and how poorly you've been raised , many of us are going through the same hell right now which once you went through and its so amazing to know that a successful and helpful guy like you was once in our shoes and your honesty about it makes my day better , kinda makes me glad that there are good people like you and that i found your channel when i needed to , Peace alpha.

  • @metalwarrior81
    @metalwarrior816 жыл бұрын

    Poor Aaron looks so sad and shy in the thumbnail, I just want to give him some Tiege Hanley to make him feel better.

  • @ohmy9261

    @ohmy9261

    6 жыл бұрын

    The Dallas Space Cowboy 😂😂😂

  • @atharvas6546

    @atharvas6546

    6 жыл бұрын

    The Dallas Space Cowboy lol 😂

  • @miguelpereira9859

    @miguelpereira9859

    6 жыл бұрын

    What is Tiege Hanley?

  • @giannispapadhmhtriou9912
    @giannispapadhmhtriou99126 жыл бұрын

    really thank you man you truly are amazing you inspire me and your vids help me through my every day problems I'm truly thankfull ...you are amazing!!

  • @3dsock
    @3dsock6 жыл бұрын

    its 12 am, by school i will be antisocial no more

  • @Ransom2k
    @Ransom2k6 жыл бұрын

    I haven’t had friends since the third grade I’m in 10th I just can’t talk to people but when I’m at home I won’t stop talking

  • @IshnoorSarao
    @IshnoorSarao6 жыл бұрын

    I am not shy but people around me, girls especially, act very weird (and shy) resulting in awkward situations. Tell me how to get out of that.

  • @DigitalxFe3r

    @DigitalxFe3r

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ish Noor play along Be fun with it if it’s you that’s not actually being awkward..not only will it be inviting and fun but you’ll become even better at communicating by having a whole knew universe to explore

  • @prince_sach50

    @prince_sach50

    6 жыл бұрын

    Idk why But I'm Natural with almost every type of girl except for hot white girls. Idk it's just a different vibe with me and I don't be talking...

  • @pallav5833
    @pallav58336 жыл бұрын

    Alpha m : "So there's something about me that will surprise you. I'm shy." Also Alpha m : *jumps on a table and takes off pants in front of the camera and an innocent asian 19 year old to promote sponsored product*

  • @KothsGamerHub
    @KothsGamerHub6 жыл бұрын

    You've helped me grow as a person, thank you Aaron

  • @connor8560
    @connor85606 жыл бұрын

    I got this acting class group for the first time tomorrow but there is going to be loads of new people ive never met and i know i will be really awkward and shy but thanks to this video i will try my best and hopefully get something good out of it

  • @hunter_ndp5904
    @hunter_ndp59046 жыл бұрын

    2:38 Did anyone else feel a strong Tiege Hanley plug coming on just to be blindsided by the PMD?

  • @MrLivinitup123
    @MrLivinitup1236 жыл бұрын

    What if it's a girl? Do I still say, "Hey Bryan, I like that jacket!"??

  • @mantas831

    @mantas831

    6 жыл бұрын

    What's wrong?

  • @marshmeowllow6816

    @marshmeowllow6816

    6 жыл бұрын

    It`s the best compliment you can give to someone

  • @MrLivinitup123

    @MrLivinitup123

    6 жыл бұрын

    Vaping & crossfiting vegan who`s triggered everyday That's what I'm saying!

  • @raze_6474

    @raze_6474

    6 жыл бұрын

    HA! smartass... Just give a compliment

  • @MrLivinitup123

    @MrLivinitup123

    6 жыл бұрын

    AsSaSSIN305 _ Lol oh I know.

  • @tiffanysiobhan7015
    @tiffanysiobhan70156 жыл бұрын

    Your energy is amazing! Thank you.

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