How To Know If You Should Marry Him/Her | mildred kingsley-okonkwo
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God I'm tired of having a back and forth relationship. I decree and declare stability. I shall be married, from Ms to Mrs, from single to married in Jesus name 🙌🙏.
@n.judith4211
2 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
Something I'd like to add to this video is that before getting married, prepare more for the life you will live after the wedding day, and not prepare for the wedding day only. Learn how to cook properly, do proper cleanup, pray ps 139:23-24 which says; "Search me oh God and know my heart, try me and know my anxious thoughts and see if there be any wicked way in me and lead me in the way everlasting. When you do this, you'll find out a lot of things about yourself that you didn't even know you had. God help us.
I've dating a guy for 2 years and he asked to marry me and I asked for one year to get ready for myself and to finish my college year etc…but at the end, he just moved and is about to engage to another girl one thing I'm confused about he was a nice guy and I was in love with him but I did know why God removed him from me. I'm hurt right now but one thing I hope is that God will give a better one ❤ Thanks a lot for this video I just Learned a lot from it 🙏
Dear God, I'm tired of heartbreaks n falling for the wrong person. This 2024 pls give me a good man. Amen
@didymma
4 ай бұрын
Amen
@YengyM
4 ай бұрын
Amen
@user-yh1uc6fh4w
3 ай бұрын
Dear good lord, enough is enough. May this year be mine for real marriage
@peacempamugo4697
3 ай бұрын
Amen
@gracenyambok7604
2 ай бұрын
Amen. My prayer too
It is not about who you marry, it is about what God wants to do with your destiny. Lord, bypass my emotions, do what is best for me and place me in your perfect will for my marriage!
@oluchukwuobioma1127
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@Timeless_Tee
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@mayowaoyedokun9828
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@goodnesssamuel53
2 жыл бұрын
Lord by pass my emotion, do what is best for me and place me in your perfect will for my marriage Romans 12:1
@nduharmony9334
2 жыл бұрын
Amen🙏
Nice teaching. Have noticed one thing about who God always want us to marry. Our partner is not always our spec but God's purpose
@Amacee7000
6 күн бұрын
Really
The Quality of people in Marriage determines the Outcome of the marriage.❤
Make sure that it is worship to God. Make sure that it is working. Make sure that it is worth it.
If you want a kingdom marriage ,you have to do with kingdom principles
@LisaKunene
Ай бұрын
which are those principles please share
“If you are in a relationship and you are worse than when you were alone you can’t take it to marriage” (it must make you better because two are better than one)
@joyceasante6391
Жыл бұрын
Hmmm you're speaking to me directly ooo I was doing perfectly fine, when I met this guy since then, everything has gone wrong I am down hmmm
@freshangel1
Жыл бұрын
@@joyceasante6391 May God reveal the path you should take next and protect you from all harm
@amossundaysunday
Жыл бұрын
@@joyceasante6391 well I can give a suggestion that has helped many along their way.. One thing having a strong relationship with the holy spirit does is that it can allow him to tell you things to come. So I would suggest you don't just quit marriage altogether. Some mistakes are the path to life. In it God will have something to teach you in life that will give your life more meaning than if your life was just comfy. God's way is that he can bring out of the bitter something sweet and out of nothing produce a bounty it's the God you serve. Get down and find out why he brought you along this path... Vessels are the usually finer when broken and then Mended again.
@evelynemwinuka671
Жыл бұрын
Very true 🙏🏽🙌🏼
@bossd8026
Жыл бұрын
@@joyceasante6391 I hope you have listened to the message. Your answer is also in this video, the plain truth.
Oh my God, this is the same word God gave me in my 3 days dry fasting, for my previous relationship 2months back😳 John 4:16 onwards I just froze where I was kneeling. God is powerful
I was emotionally down I just lost 4yrs relationship due to some certain reasons I was thinking I m finished but when I listened to this preaching I knew I made the right decision thanks a lot mam
“Bypass my emotions and do what is best for me!” Very difficult but important prayer 🙏.
@brendadickson9583
2 жыл бұрын
Wow this is confirmation for me I have a man who I prayed for n I know he is from God for me but I nearly left him cause of looking at him outwardly, he is a good man n I thank God for him now
@ojegbebesidone194
Жыл бұрын
@@brendadickson9583 yyy
@brendadickson9583
Жыл бұрын
@@ojegbebesidone194 why what please?
@brendadickson9583
Жыл бұрын
@@ojegbebesidone194 by the way the man left so he obviously was not from God, but am glad he left than wasted my time.
Marriage doesn't change anybody. It only amplifies what is only in existence.
Pastor Kingsley must be nodding his head and saying thank you Jesus for this wonderful woman u have given to me ❤❤❤ I just love the couple thank u ma for this wisdom 🙏🙏🙏🙏
This is so aspiring! I almost married the wrong man due to my desperation and emotion. But God was so against it that every fiber started fighting against me. I eventually let go after prayers and fasting . It was not easy breathren.
@jennywinny4066
Ай бұрын
But it's worth it. Praise God!!
@BlessingHafa
Ай бұрын
I can relate dear
Pastor Mildred is very Beautiful❤❤. I love this woman of God
@kachetphilip6177
2 жыл бұрын
I tell you. Anytime I watch her I just can't get enough of her beauty plus brains.. Plus her way of passing the messages!! Gosh!! She's invested in God totally.
@marypolycarp7736
2 жыл бұрын
Pastor u speak the truth ,let God bless you and continue opening ladies mind who force marrige without knowing the benefit of it to their life.and it is not sin to change the direction where u notes ur in a wrong way.
LORD BYPASS MY EMOTIONS AND DO WHAT'S BEST FOR ME 🙏🙏🙏
@oats4454
3 ай бұрын
That's a dangerous prayer, i hope you mean it 😂
@horlicks3920
6 күн бұрын
@@oats4454hush
After listening to this, I definitely know I've not met the man God wants for me yet! Thank you Pastor Mildred 🙏
@okedijioluwatosin6895
Жыл бұрын
Exactly how I felt while watching... had to just share her the link to watch and let's conclude how our breakup will be 😅
@basilikitchen
Жыл бұрын
@@okedijioluwatosin6895 lmao 🤣 😂 I was not even in any relationship but I had guys asking me out. After watching this video my discernment was clearer 🤣 its a no go area! God no go shame us🤣🤣🤣
@okedijioluwatosin6895
Жыл бұрын
Lol... @ChefinTech may God see us through that stage
@basilikitchen
Жыл бұрын
@@okedijioluwatosin6895 Amen 🙏
@izyomijeh1805
Жыл бұрын
@@basilikitchen Exactly. This message just cancelled out some guy that are on my case 🤣
God communicates and shows us all signs of a wrong partner
Lord bypass my emotions and do what’s best for me in Jesus name Amen 🙏.
@nyakioannie5831
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@GraceForlu
2 жыл бұрын
My God. Amen
@orokepatricia2931
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@sundaymiachi2433
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@adoborfaith8096
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
LORD BYPASS MY EMOTIONS AND DO WHATS BEST FOR MY PURPOSE AND DESTINY IN YOU!!🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️ In Jesus Name!!
I’m watching this at the perfect time. Thank you Pastor Mildred, this has solidified the decision i just made. I was calling on God this morning because my emotions were trying to overwhelm me but as I was doing morning prayer this morning your message was the next recommendation and I thank God that I watched it.
Wow.wow.wow.wow.wow Probably one of the BEST sermons I've ever heard on marriage - and I've spent yrsssssssss listening to marriage sermons lol. Never heard of this lady before but she randomly popped up on my timeline. What you said about "if God can tell me who not to marry God can confirm who to marry" hit meeeeeeeeee. Because God recently told me no on my last relationship. I'm believing He will confirm the Yes when that time comes (hopefully soon 🙏🏾). I am trusting him. All three points in yhis video were 👌🏾 I have just turned 34 and this message has come to me EXACTLY when I needed it. Wow. God's timing is perfect. Bless you and thank you, pastor lady xx
@tobilobaelemo4695
Жыл бұрын
Hi,my name is Grace..would love to be your friend I'll await your response
@neellyzabee
11 ай бұрын
Hi hi
Lesson learnt " It takes two good eggs 🥚 🥚 to make a good omelette." Thanks Woman of God.🙂🙂
God knows how confised i am about my rship....i pray to ask God's intervention
Today was my 1st day listening and watching Her videos ...i wasn't actually coming to youtube for them but holy spirit made me sit the whole day in her videos .....i hv been asking myslf alot about relationships in my singleness ....m Blessed ❤
Oh Heavenly Father please bypass my emotions and do your will to make me know he comes from you.
Order our steps Lord, to make the right choices and never live in regrets 🙏🏻
@onoriodebank6973
2 жыл бұрын
Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen and Amen 🙏
@Wandesings
Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏
@Emah-bc6bu
Жыл бұрын
Amen
@MusaAbuba-wu1tj
Жыл бұрын
#drcosmanspellcaster are,,🥰🥰🥰 you heart broken and you still want to fix your relationship ✓
@MusaAbuba-wu1tj
Жыл бұрын
:🥰🥰🥰I read your name and felt a Stronenergy around you and thought you wanted a general life reading to know more about your life .....
Wow!! I feel like liking this video over and over again. God is so intentional about us. We were born for a purpose and God knows that we carry great destinies so He makes sure to give us that man that will bring that purpose and compel us to fulfil destiny. God deals with us in so many ways till we surrender to Him totally and listen. I have come to observe that God never jokes with us especially if our destinies concern saving lives.
@atakoraconstantine3163
2 жыл бұрын
GOD SHOW MERCY UNTO US
@mercyjeptoo2377
2 жыл бұрын
True
@nanaadjoa1651
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@rosecommey9028
Жыл бұрын
Amen. Lord your will be done.....🙏
@charlesettazikeh6724
Жыл бұрын
Definitely!!!
This message is more than i can imagine,, honestly speaking she's really right,my experience 3months ago i have to let go cuz it's wasn't working,so many signs coming after i prayed about it,, infact the guy believe in God more than i am buh God still show me he was never for me, with a clear vision,God is good,#prayers is just D key to see brighter things 💯✅🙏
Woman of God your message was really really great, I mean, I wish I had heard such a message before I made the decision I made back then. I'm in a broken marriage now, because I didn't get such a powerful advice 🤦🤦But God's name be praised, because he allowed me watch this particular sermon...may God use you even more.
Watching you from the USA 🇺🇸 Your teaching has change my perception about marriage. Thank you.
@christatthecentercac8228
2 жыл бұрын
Hi ! Ester ... praise the Lord.... I'm Elijah and I'm in of your help from there...if possible we can exchange the contact. Thank you!
@adiliuliangmai2794
2 жыл бұрын
Great dear friend
@francisetiko3262
Жыл бұрын
Me too....Nice to meet you Amara!!!
Thank you Pastor. I can attest to everything you just said. If your partner cannot be part of your destiny, there's no need to marry them.
I'm officially making you my mentor, pastor Mildred Kingsley
She's definitely been listening to Dr Myles Munroe's teaching on marriage 💑. Awesome teaching 👏🏿
@mankaabright7474
Жыл бұрын
Oh noooo. She has received revelations from God directly.
@emmyscakesnconfectionery
Жыл бұрын
The omelette part
@horlicks3920
6 күн бұрын
@@mankaabright7474Hush. That's Myles Munroe.
@horlicks3920
6 күн бұрын
Words from Myles Munroe
That's right. If you marry wrong it can change your whole destiny
If the guy/the lady is making you disobey God in that relationship, now that you're not yet married ,gather your courage and wake away. If it not making you a better Christian, gather your courage and walk away.
@chiomaokafor7076
Жыл бұрын
Yes ooo
@ifeyinwamuoghalu4167
2 ай бұрын
Well said
This just appeared randomly to me, glad I clicked it. Thank you Lord for the affirmation 🙏
@cynthiaantonio1863
Жыл бұрын
Same here and my story n here's have hot some similarities
@ibrahimajaiteh-wl9zo
5 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Amen in the mighty Name of Jesus I am also single man
If u are in a relationship that causes u to reduce your divinity, gather courage and work out, I hear you ma🙌🙌
Dear Lord, bypass my emotions and give me what is best for me
"When you say I do, you gonna do". God bless you Pastor M.
This is literally my experience concerning my last relationship, I was honestly hoping and praying that somehow we would work out and I just prayed to God in that moment of uncertainty, the Lord ministered to me with this exact scripture, and it hit me hard. I still didn’t believe because the heart wanted something, but on hearing this. It’s just a confirmation on what God said to me that indeed, that guy is not for me (husband)
@oscarekponimo6745
Жыл бұрын
can relate
I am in a relationship with a guy he respect me so much that's why I love him .
Its the quality of people in marriage that determines the outcome
Lord , bypass my emotions and do what’s best for me🙏🏼
It’s not even really about who you marry it’s about what I want to do with your destiny. Wow, very deep 😢 I thank God I chanced on this message 🙏🏻
Heavenly father help me make my relationship and marriage a place of worship and where you will have your free will and move
I love such women of God, so inspiring "WORTH HEARING"
The joy I get rewatching these videos. Holy Spirit, thank you 🙏🏿. God bless you Pastor Mildred 🤗🥁.
Wow worth listening to,,,, Lord lead me to the right path of my destiny,may my emotions not lead me to a path that can not make me better...
Am a muslim,but I like ur preaching
Thank you ABBA FATHER for this message which has come to me at the right time 🙏🙏🙏
Lord bypass my emotions and do what's best for me, this word healed my heart. Thank you Jesus for this word
I love this preaching of this woman it touches me. A lot thank you ma, God bless you
Lord bypass my emotions and do what is the best for me in Jesus mighty name Mega Amen 🙏🏼
I can't get enough of you Pastor Mildred! God bless you ma'am.
Lord bypass my emotions and do what's best for me Amen 🙏
Heavenly Father bypasses my emotions and does what's best for me. I pray in Jesus' name, amen
This message is so beautiful,informative,eye opening, evaluating for us singles. God bless
The three Ws; Worship, Working, Worth it!
This teaching is light ✨ to my soul 👏👏👏 Thank you pastor and Mrs K, for this revelations about dating and marriage 🙏🙏🙏
Kindness is important..Meanness doesn't make you more of a man.
What a powerful service.🙏May God continue to use you
God bless you pastor, every mistake i made before my marriage i pray God to order the steps of my children.
I’m grateful I stumbled on this! I’m at the verge of getting married April 6th but I’m canceling
@chinoj5066
2 ай бұрын
Oh dear. God's Strength and Grace. Pls try and update us afterwards ❤
@BlessingHafa
Ай бұрын
🤦🤦🤦🤦 Oooooh Noooo
Lord please bypass my emotions and do what is best for me Amen 🙏🙏
Is the relationship a worship to God? Is the relationship working ? Is the relationship worth it ? Questions you should ask yourself
@BlessingHafa
Ай бұрын
Thank you for the notes
I watched this video a while ago and today I came back because I needed to hear you say this again for reference am at a point where I need to make a decision and yiu don't know how this is helpful. Lord bypass my emotions and let your will be done🙏🏾
Amen 🙏🏼 thank you for this BLESSED message I wish I had heard this when I was a teenager 🌹✝️❤️🙏🏼
Always learning and get blessed from your teachings, thank you so much and God bless you Ma
Bypass my emotions and do what is best for me IJMN. Amen what a statement!
My lovely Mama❤️ May God bless you for submitting to God so we can receive this wisdom coming out from your mouth.
Beautiful Prayer " Daddy bypass my emotions and do what's best for me"
Thank you so much and may the LORD continue to bless you more wisdom to teach…. Very very POWERFUL and RICH message…. 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
Jesus be glorified by your anointed honourable vessel.. powerful Word and teaching. I pray all harken to this and apply it .. those with ear have heard..and cannot say God isn't for you . Blessings galore Ps Mildred 🙏
Praise the Lord. My sister you are the best on this topic. I'm truly bless may God bless you thank you.
Your my role model ma'am, i tap on your anointing cup,may God use me and be of purpose in my generation. I love u n papa your a blessing to so many teens. May God bless you
Thank you Lord coz am blessed by this powerful & knowledgeable word 🙏🙏
Phew! A whole WORD!!! God bless you woman of God. This has just opened my eyes and at the right time too.
Abba, please bypass my emotions and plans and do what's best for me.
Exactly what I needed..... been confused about the man am currently dating now, it's obvious that it wasn't meant to be. As hurting as it is, it's the truth.
@lovedvdsony
2 жыл бұрын
Gather courage and wake away
@vevinebrown4379
2 жыл бұрын
Am confused myself as am planning my marriage, am scared of something happening now. I wish I could hear the spirit speak to me like it does pastor
@lovedvdsony
2 жыл бұрын
@@vevinebrown4379 let talk about it in ldeal girl Africa
The word of God! That’s soooo true! God speaks to me through the Bible very clearly also.
May the Lord bless you for this message. God is interested in every detail of my life. Praise God
Such beautiful words of wisdom!
Thank God for this message, the Lord spoke to me this year that I organise my self for marriage but I was in cross roads. But from today I know what to do in Jesus name. God bless you so much
@elizabethghumpi7304
Жыл бұрын
Am grateful just found this early this year as I could cut off and wait for the Will of God
God I need you in every areas of my life..my relationship,my finances,my career and everything please Lord bypass my emotions and let your will be done
What a timely message. Thank you
Lord bypass my emotions and do what is best for me .Amen!.
Lord bypass my emotions and do what's best for me🙏
I was really blessed listening to this message of relationship and marriage. It's a eye opening to me. AHMED PETER
Glory be to God! Thank you for this message!
God really pulled me over to this message. i needed this so desperately. thank you Jesus for your message. it waa loud and clear. Thank you Pastor
Wow! Powerful message. Marriage should make you better than what you were before marriage
Lord by pass my emotions and do what's best for me Amen🙇🏾♀
Pastor Mildred I love your teachings so much, am blessed ♥️♥️
Pastor M, God bless you. I enjoy your teachings. Leading us closer to God.
My Father, My God, bypass my emotion and give me the best. Let your will be done in all areas of my life🙏
LORD bypass my emotions and do what is best for my purpose and destiny amen🙏
What a blessing!! Great sermon.