7 Checkpoints To Know If You Should Marry Him/Her | Kingsley Okonkwo

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  • @mojetioluwamolayo
    @mojetioluwamolayo2 жыл бұрын

    1. PERSPECTIVE CHECKPOINT 2. MUTUALITY CHECKPOINT 3. TIME CHECKPOINT 4. FRIENDSHIP CHECKPOINT 5. ACCOUNTABILITY CHECKPOINT 6. PRAYER CHECKPOINT

  • @The_Judicious

    @The_Judicious

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks🙏 for this boss I appreciate

  • @thedaveolaniyi

    @thedaveolaniyi

    11 ай бұрын

    📌📌

  • @sarahkyobutungi4689

    @sarahkyobutungi4689

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @owusuafriyiedennis4386
    @owusuafriyiedennis4386 Жыл бұрын

    If you are lonely now, marriage is not the cure, purpose is the cure.

  • @samsonakindahunsi1111
    @samsonakindahunsi11112 жыл бұрын

    7 Checkpoints on how not to marry wrong 1) PERSPECTIVE CHECKPOINT 2) MUTUALITY CHECKPOINT 3) TIME CHECKPOINT 4) FRIENDSHIP CHECKPOINT 5) ACCOUNTABILITY CHECKPOINT 6) PRAYER CHECKPOINT Prov. 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart; lean not on your own understanding. In thy ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct thy paths. God won't leave you abandoned when you come to him in prayer. Prayer answers all things because we serve a Living God that answers prayers. Thank you Pastor.

  • @chiamakaugwumba4063

    @chiamakaugwumba4063

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for taking it down.

  • @munduaramariam317

    @munduaramariam317

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @chikaikwumere2782

    @chikaikwumere2782

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless you dear

  • @abrahamlincoln8013
    @abrahamlincoln8013 Жыл бұрын

    Even as a single guy, your teachings has helped and make me see the clearer picture about marriage

  • @NuelaMary
    @NuelaMary2 жыл бұрын

    My Favorite line is "I KNOW YOU WILL FIND IT, JUST LIKE I FOUND YOU"

  • @ashleybatuo9850

    @ashleybatuo9850

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂indeed,women and surprises

  • @nwaokikegrace

    @nwaokikegrace

    7 ай бұрын

    Amen 🙏

  • @oyizaelizabethodu449
    @oyizaelizabethodu449 Жыл бұрын

    Loneliness is not the absence of affection but absence of direction. Hmmmm thank you sir

  • @reetah4336
    @reetah43362 жыл бұрын

    I agree when you said a woman’s mind is full of drama...I’m telling things continually play in my head

  • @andrewoluwayemi7591
    @andrewoluwayemi7591 Жыл бұрын

    Listening to Pastors K and M is always a blessing. Greater heights sir and ma in JESUS' mighty name

  • @Ifenkilipro
    @Ifenkilipro7 ай бұрын

    Oh Lord, Order my foot steps , I will not make more mistakes before getting the right one ……….. Amen 🙏 I will be at the right place, at the right time 🙏

  • @Flo_lifeisbeautiful
    @Flo_lifeisbeautiful Жыл бұрын

    Really Romantic my partner introducing me to ''Pastor Kingsleys'' teaching. Looking forward to the LDM conference. 😌

  • @michelleadebiyi2341
    @michelleadebiyi23412 жыл бұрын

    Been waiting to hear from God whether or not I will marry a specific person. I’m convinced this video will be used to answer. Cant wait sir🙏🏾.

  • @idaraemmanuel9041
    @idaraemmanuel90414 ай бұрын

    I mean the books Cab I get it in any book shop

  • @olaoluwaokewole1615
    @olaoluwaokewole1615 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome Word!!! "People can't pretend for too long" 💯

  • @user-pw4zu8it5m
    @user-pw4zu8it5m2 жыл бұрын

    Good msg Pst ..appreciate all what you do.. please can you let your sound engineer do more better with the audio quality.. its not the best

  • @adeniyananike9717
    @adeniyananike9717 Жыл бұрын

    I love the time check point,it's true that people can't deceive you for too long,all you need to do is slow down and don't rush.

  • @SheSpeaks_Jesus
    @SheSpeaks_Jesus2 жыл бұрын

    I love how humorous you get with your messages. I Love your messages too!!

  • @kifTrvgiRL
    @kifTrvgiRL2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the preaching.

  • @superbhollychannel7815
    @superbhollychannel78152 жыл бұрын

    God bless you, pastor

  • @yondelamadaka9765
    @yondelamadaka97652 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor K and M ♥️

  • @oluwatosinevelyn4165
    @oluwatosinevelyn416517 күн бұрын

    PERSPECTIVE CHECKPOINT Purpose is the cure of loneliness I ended a relationship on this perspective reason. The parent saying i made him cheat. Men struggle to sort it out themselves Indeed. God help me to marry right.

  • @izuchukwusilas2342
    @izuchukwusilas23422 жыл бұрын

    Thanks pastor K.

  • @lizkarenscotch5194
    @lizkarenscotch51942 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this teaching Pastor K.

  • @JessieAA
    @JessieAA Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much pastor, very helpful

  • @anyaedwin
    @anyaedwin2 жыл бұрын

    Just can't wait for this video

  • @iamgoddessoflove
    @iamgoddessoflove2 жыл бұрын

    Work on building a healthy relationship and falling in love with the person that you see everyday, who has been through so much pain and heartache, but still manages to gets through it all.❤️ 💙KZreadr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationship

  • @terryondecks350
    @terryondecks3502 жыл бұрын

    My favorite pastor..Love you man❤May God continue to increase wisdom

  • @attoaliceprim.843
    @attoaliceprim.8432 жыл бұрын

    Thanks PR. K & M, you're preaching has blessed me...love you guys

  • @oyerindeojo4619
    @oyerindeojo46192 жыл бұрын

    Amen in Jesus mighty name Sir,Many thanks

  • @moneypenny3050
    @moneypenny3050 Жыл бұрын

    ... and I love how you explained the time checkpoint where you said that a situation will arise in which the individual will show their true colors ... you're really on it PastorK! You're good in all your videos. I could write comments on every video that I've watched but I just resist the urge to over do it. I really enjoy your counsel.

  • @raphaelmishael7045
    @raphaelmishael7045 Жыл бұрын

    Never disappointed with this Channel 🔥

  • @lightskinned_girrl
    @lightskinned_girrl Жыл бұрын

    Amazing piece as ever. God bless you sir🙏🏻

  • @josephjohnson61
    @josephjohnson61 Жыл бұрын

    So inspiring..

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld60722 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir Amen

  • @adannajohn3281
    @adannajohn32812 жыл бұрын

    Thank u so much sir for this 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @ajadioluwaseyi373
    @ajadioluwaseyi3732 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir

  • @shoporente4320
    @shoporente4320 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor K! Your teachings have helped me understand marriage better and taught me what to look for in a spouse! God bless you.

  • @rossyprim2336
    @rossyprim2336 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks you Pastor

  • @queenesthertv2
    @queenesthertv2 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much sir this teaching's have been a blessing to my marriage

  • @kosisochukwuinnocent9709
    @kosisochukwuinnocent97096 ай бұрын

    Thank you JESUS CHRIST

  • @ezinnepaul2999
    @ezinnepaul2999 Жыл бұрын

    Omo this man just described me here 🥺🥺i which he can get better

  • @tatendamuchamiri3572
    @tatendamuchamiri357210 ай бұрын

    Amen🙏, thank you Pastor

  • @GiftyDavid-vs9vf
    @GiftyDavid-vs9vf11 ай бұрын

    Thank you Jesus

  • @odukwecynthia8535
    @odukwecynthia85352 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Lord from protecting me over these years👏🏾👏🏾

  • @yemisiawonaike5408
    @yemisiawonaike5408 Жыл бұрын

    ❤I love 💕 the word of God Pastor K said. It really happened me a lot in Relationship .

  • @kanyanadebby9357
    @kanyanadebby93572 жыл бұрын

    I just cn't wait🤩🤩

  • @tomzd99
    @tomzd992 жыл бұрын

    The teachings here have blessed me tremendously and have come when I sought God's specific answers. Thank you Pastor and all those that put in the work to make this happen. God continue to bless you and make you flourish!

  • @carsoverhumanity5800
    @carsoverhumanity5800 Жыл бұрын

    My sweet Isabella put me onto Pastor Kingsley

  • @mediationwithgoddi7853
    @mediationwithgoddi78532 жыл бұрын

    Ronaldo person ❤❤love u sir

  • @claudettenewton2773
    @claudettenewton27736 ай бұрын

    Awesome life lesson on relationship and marriage . I believe all should focus on knowing as much as possible before commitment. Be the person best friend and learn as much as possibly from each other. I really enjoy your teaching and your enthusiasm as in all your sessions Pastor K. My favorite line is about the perfume and how to find it, that’s hilarious 😂. Also I agree that a man desires respect. Keep helping us, God bless you and your wife.

  • @sphiwekamwendo696
    @sphiwekamwendo6967 ай бұрын

    Amen in Jesus christ name.

  • @mrizzytv
    @mrizzytv2 жыл бұрын

    I love you sir💖🙏

  • @BlessingChristiana-ff6xe
    @BlessingChristiana-ff6xe4 ай бұрын

    This massage is for me,i had 2 kids with this guy,letter i fined out ,he is not a man i can settle for ,he uses in the name of kids and his church people to pest my life around,he cant take decision on his own without his pastor,any time i tried making him understand things he brings age in to it,he doest listen,he do more of listing to outsiders than me,his a man of god,but he do more on pleasing things to people,he doest take responsibility,any time i talk about it he brings excuses,and for me my late parents never want him around me ,but as for me am trying to make things work cus of my kids ,and my little sibling but all is on me,pls help me

  • @jblendsworld
    @jblendsworldАй бұрын

    I don’t complain, I don’t compare, I only criticize when he criticize someone else, but he does everything both sexes should not do

  • @TozyhaPhiri-xh2uy
    @TozyhaPhiri-xh2uy7 ай бұрын

    Great teaching pst sir are your books available in soft copies

  • @AviationInfo120
    @AviationInfo1206 ай бұрын

    So rich a message. Thank you sir. Please how can I buy your book.? I am in Cameroon

  • @giwaayodele
    @giwaayodele2 жыл бұрын

    Power sermon please how can i get the book of A-Z of marriage. Thank you Sir

  • @ogarglory3715
    @ogarglory3715 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much sir 🙏 please where can i get the books

  • @mercyokuonghae9915
    @mercyokuonghae99152 жыл бұрын

    Recently I’ve made a good decision Thank you pastor K

  • @siphilisiwenabigail8158
    @siphilisiwenabigail81582 жыл бұрын

    Amen and Amen

  • @solutiontech2985
    @solutiontech2985 Жыл бұрын

    What is the name of the book pastor use in this video, anyone who can help will be appreciated

  • @ekerenkanta2480
    @ekerenkanta248010 ай бұрын

    Thank you o much for this message and God bless you abundantly. This is actually a cure. And eye opener. Pease what is the title of the books?

  • @johnwilliams5024
    @johnwilliams5024 Жыл бұрын

    Please I want some of the books

  • @ademehintoyehannah9494
    @ademehintoyehannah94942 жыл бұрын

    Where can I download the books sir More anointing sir

  • @moneypenny3050
    @moneypenny3050 Жыл бұрын

    Pastor Kingsley you just really know how to make a great point

  • @ekerenkanta2480
    @ekerenkanta248010 ай бұрын

    Good afternoon pastor, please what books would you recommend for me to read and prepare for my marriage.

  • @gabriellaengmann7573
    @gabriellaengmann7573 Жыл бұрын

    Where in Ghana can we locate the books please ??? @pastor k

  • @obianujunwokocha6530
    @obianujunwokocha65302 жыл бұрын

    Amen🙏🏾

  • @theevangelist2652
    @theevangelist26527 күн бұрын

    AMEN!!!

  • @attahprosper3610
    @attahprosper36102 жыл бұрын

    AMEN

  • @idaraemmanuel9041
    @idaraemmanuel90414 ай бұрын

    Please sir Where can I get it

  • @borderlesstv777
    @borderlesstv7776 ай бұрын

    Hmmm, real matter o!!!!!!!

  • @olufemitinuoye3248
    @olufemitinuoye32482 жыл бұрын

    Pst K, please, work on the volume of your videos. The volume 📢 of this video is too low.

  • @kellyfierce3540

    @kellyfierce3540

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes it's really low as with others. I had to hold the phone to my ear. Interestingly, his wife was of better quality.

  • @michelleadebiyi2341

    @michelleadebiyi2341

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not for me

  • @JashawnMurphy33
    @JashawnMurphy33 Жыл бұрын

    What are the names of the books ?

  • @eternallifeznow3840
    @eternallifeznow384010 ай бұрын

    Is there any open door to Uganda sir

  • @tobiasfavour8974
    @tobiasfavour897410 ай бұрын

    How can one that base is South Eastern part of Nigeria get your books?

  • @glorianamubiru1896
    @glorianamubiru18965 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @temiglobalconnectproperty1097
    @temiglobalconnectproperty1097 Жыл бұрын

    AMEN 🙏

  • @ekempatience5148
    @ekempatience5148 Жыл бұрын

    Please where can I get these books in mowe Ogun State

  • @nalubegalydia42
    @nalubegalydia424 ай бұрын

    A-z I agree

  • @Digitaldeas625
    @Digitaldeas625 Жыл бұрын

    How can I get your books in portharcourt

  • @graceanih3909
    @graceanih3909 Жыл бұрын

    How do I get your books

  • @izuchukwusilas2342
    @izuchukwusilas23422 жыл бұрын

    Pls pastor K this video volume is very low

  • @stephenpelumi2181
    @stephenpelumi2181 Жыл бұрын

    How can we get these books

  • @BecomingwithPB
    @BecomingwithPB Жыл бұрын

    Please how can I get these books? All of them. The hard copies ×2

  • @sarahkyobutungi4689
    @sarahkyobutungi4689Ай бұрын

    Please, How do I get these books, I am in Uganda

  • @tomwrightstechnologies5648
    @tomwrightstechnologies5648 Жыл бұрын

    I love your message sir...how can I get your books and be my mentor Wow it was great sir more anointing

  • @adeolaawokoya

    @adeolaawokoya

    Жыл бұрын

    Check amazaon

  • @mojetioluwamolayo
    @mojetioluwamolayo2 жыл бұрын

    Very impactful message 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. Where you invest is where you harvest 💯💯💯💯💯. There's only one thing I disagree with in this message. Messi is the 🐐.

  • @thendykrystyna8184

    @thendykrystyna8184

    Жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣it had to be that?

  • @adeoyemoses6967
    @adeoyemoses6967Ай бұрын

    How will l get this book

  • @moneypenny3050
    @moneypenny3050 Жыл бұрын

    I'll try to make this the last one I comment on tonight Pastor. You said the church is a hospital, there are mad people here. 😅 Oh my my ... that's good, seriously

  • @francesmbewe8457
    @francesmbewe84572 жыл бұрын

    When he said church is a hospital, they are mad people here

  • @egwuatuomezievictor7546
    @egwuatuomezievictor7546 Жыл бұрын

    There's a difference between loneliness and alone~Alone is u been on ur own doing ur thing and still b happy Been one while lonely is done many people are facing today, they re so scared of staying alone (finds it difficult to stay a day alone without feeling bored) Wen u find ur gift (discover ur purpose on earth/d reason y u re on earth)u wil never b lonely but u wil b alone that's y people lol jesus always used d word I will love to b alone n talk to my father n he was having fun doing it and didn't desire to marry same wit apostle Paul same wit Nelson Mandela wen he was alone in d prison for 27 years. So if u still feel lonely it's a great sign and signal that u re only doing ur job(career) and not ur work(gift and life purpose) and In genesis God gave man work first before he gave him a woman so u must first discover ur work(gift) n even b lost in doing it before u will b given a wife that's d order of heaven

  • @moneypenny3050
    @moneypenny3050 Жыл бұрын

    Hello PastorK, Once again you are amazing and so funny when you said the part about "let's all have our own steering wheel - make it fair". I was falling off my chair with laughter.

  • @chiomaassumpta3148

    @chiomaassumpta3148

    Жыл бұрын

    Your messages has been eye opener to us all....Sir please how can I get your books??

  • @AbelBlog
    @AbelBlog2 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate some of the checkpoints given in this message. But there is a much better way to know people for marriage without having to be involved with them relationally. It's anonymous inside out courtship. People know themselves anonymously starting inside (spirituality, morality intellect...) and end outside (physique, external assets,...) at the time they are ready for marriage only if they match consistently inside. Many people can even be known simultaneously this way without risk. Anyone would maintain over time a pool of compatible prospect based on inner values. It's only when people are ready for marriage that the identity of their prospects are fully revealed and they can asses the external qualities and assets. Even without technology it's very feasible. But it's much easier with technology through a social platform. The problem with the conventional approach is that many people get damaged when they try to know others and that negatively affect their experiences in their marriages.

  • @ashleyrakatsinzwa7124

    @ashleyrakatsinzwa7124

    Жыл бұрын

    Very true. Sometimes getting involved can come with emotional and psychological aftermath. Having a pool of friends helps. It allows time to assess perspective, morals and principles. If there is no alignment, it's easier to jump ship

  • @Ony500
    @Ony5002 жыл бұрын

    And I was here busy wondering if it’s normal the way I can’t help but “over respect” or effortlessly submit to my boyfriend. I thought it was a tendency to toxicity. 😂🥺

  • @anabellgrantsamuel9406

    @anabellgrantsamuel9406

    2 жыл бұрын

    ahah haba

  • @mojetioluwamolayo
    @mojetioluwamolayo2 жыл бұрын

    WHEN TALKING TO A WOMAN (FOR MEN) Don't 1. Dismiss 2. Disagree 3. Debate 4. Defend WHEN TALKING TO A MAN (FOR WOMEN) Don't 1. Complain 2. Criticize 3. Compare 4. Confront (It wasn't mentioned in this message but I think I've heard it in one of his previous videos)

  • @adedolapookekunle

    @adedolapookekunle

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you molayo

  • @ezimanoorevaoghene7597

    @ezimanoorevaoghene7597

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @mojetioluwamolayo

    @mojetioluwamolayo

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@adedolapookekunle 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @oreofebeloved1894

    @oreofebeloved1894

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bless you 🙏

  • @Frank1life2live

    @Frank1life2live

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mojetioluwa, very well said. God bless you my friend.

  • @Tanimola
    @Tanimola2 жыл бұрын

    I just started reading Men are from Mars women are from Venus and you literally just said the same thing about women and their feelings... Very accurate

  • @asantewaapriscilla4975
    @asantewaapriscilla49752 жыл бұрын

    why is the sound always down

  • @achiaadorcas6120
    @achiaadorcas6120 Жыл бұрын

    Pls the books where will get some in Ghana to buy

  • @thegreenerland9618

    @thegreenerland9618

    Ай бұрын

    I think Amazon

  • @Special536
    @Special536 Жыл бұрын

    The volume is low.

  • @TeethaEWhea
    @TeethaEWhea2 жыл бұрын

    How does one purchase these books especially from Liberia West Africa?

  • @TeethaEWhea

    @TeethaEWhea

    2 жыл бұрын

    Especially the A to Z on marriage