1. He has to be intentional. Sometimes it takes sacrifice 2. Intelligence. Is he adding value to your life? Can he guide you through tough decisions 3. He must be interesting. 4. He must have a strong sense of identity. 5. He must be a man who is invested in you (in bringing out the best in you). We marry for GOD, KINGDOM & DUTY

@ntsakomavunda9018

7 ай бұрын

Thanks for this summary

@valeriemitchell5521

7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much ❤

@ogbonnaesther3998

7 ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@chisomasuai5697

7 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤

@blessingekuibe9338

7 ай бұрын

Thank You so much Jessica for this❤

Marry a man whose vision is large enough to accommodate yours. Don't marry an insecure man. Marry someone who Pampers but not spoils you. In the hands of a wrong man, you won't fulfill your potentials. I was blessed❤

@Protocol-IG

20 күн бұрын

Why do i feel una go still take this thing out of context.

"Your relationship should change people's lives. Marriage is a ministry . We marry For God,for Kingdom &For ministry "🙌🙌🙌🙌

@lindamgbeanuri9375

7 ай бұрын

Amen

@faithkatinimuremutami9290

6 ай бұрын

Amen ❤

@alexandraafiaafricatour8834

3 ай бұрын

Amen

@evelynmensah3675

Ай бұрын

Amen. Very powerful message. God bless you maa

I just finished watching a video by you about 3 things to know/do before marriage: *be the right person, *choose the right person, and *do the right things. I loved it. Before now, i always thought i was a good person and would make a good wife. Lord have mercy. Today, i actually thank God i did not get married. Indeed i am a good person but, i wasn't the right person even for myself. I was such a damaged person but didn't realize how bad it was. When i look at me today, i give God the glory. I am in my early 30s and still single but i am grateful to be learning and growing as a single person instead of jumping into marriage and be a disaster. By the grace of God, today, i am proud to say i am not just a good person but i am the right person for myself and for my right man. I pray "doing the right things" is always a part of US.

@kemanziingrid3551

5 ай бұрын

That's amazing to hear am also working towards that

@sharonkitalei

5 ай бұрын

Amazing.thanks for sharing. Can we be friends?

@ngoziduru8869

4 ай бұрын

@@sharonkitalei smiles

@stellaekwubiri7577

3 ай бұрын

Impressive glad you made a better version of yourself

@worldwandererx4041

3 ай бұрын

Amazing

"Its only women who marry a dog and expect him to roar like a lion , dogs barks and lions roar" ............. 😮

I am a man but you have given me more reasons to focus on my criterion. You are a true woman of God. Hold on to what you have love is not blind but sensible.

Take 💵 & sex out off the table , you’ll know if there’s something in that relationship 🙌🙌🙌 More Grace ma’am

A man who doesn't know who he is can never recognize who you are

@berniemcbgood7674

3 ай бұрын

Now I agree with this........

@inomwanglorytv

27 күн бұрын

Oh my God 😮😢 this is deep

Intentional Intelligent Interesting Strong sense of identity Invested in me God bless you Ma🙏🏻 I love you 😘❤️

@berniemcbgood7674

3 ай бұрын

18:07 1) intentional..2) intelligent..3) interesting..4) strong sense of identity..5) invested in you❤❤I'm learning from Pastor lady

I must marry right in Jesus name!

@immaculatescorner4089

4 ай бұрын

AMEN! I tap into this for me In Jesus Name

@preciousonwochei1968

3 ай бұрын

Amen oh 🙌🏻

@mhizliz91

2 ай бұрын

Amen

@ololademary2506

2 ай бұрын

Amen and me tooo

@consolatejennifer

2 ай бұрын

Amen ☺️ I will marry right

😢😢😢 I resonate with the first point and explanation😢😢😢😢 I was so desperate to be with him that i did things I never thought of. I was just scared to loose him but now, I can't stand the sight of him.

I remember one time I went on a date with someone. And I he was a call with his mum. The way he spoke to her made me not only cringe but shiver 🥶 . Up until that time he had been a very gentle man/ godfearing brother. Then again a person that can speak to his in such manner it will only be a matter of time. Well said Mama❤

@lalasng8643

6 ай бұрын

Infact....if he maltreats his mum, na to run oh

Mama, we're in the same WhatsApp group😅. I can't be watching a movie to be relaxed but end up being stressed😅😅😅

God bless this woman she is talking directly to me thank you I don't know how I got interested to see her she won my subscription and like

This video actually broke me into tears, blessing God for allowing me see this video in my single moment. Thank you, ma.

my relationships have always been bad and i always knew i was not the problem but after listening to pastor kingsley he said to get a good marriage start by selesction then i quickly realise i have been the problem all this while i have been making wrong choices forcusing on materiels things which am never getting sef and the things in my head i thank God for that particular message because i accepted a marriage proporsal but was never happy about it i just wanted to get mary and i knew something was not right but after that massage i break up and i had peace and am happier now forcusing on what matters

A man that doesn't know who he is can never recognize who you are.

@dorcasiyanujesu6954

5 ай бұрын

Hmmm. This is an eye opener. 🤔

It's important men/husbands read, watch materials they give/provide for women/their wives, as this benefits them both. In here, I just discovered a bit of how my woman would want to see me. What she looks for in a man, in her man. And learning makes me walk along a/the part to developing to being that person she is seeing from her view and praying for. Thanks so much for the blessing Pastor Mildred. God bless you, Pastor K. and fam.

@stellaekwubiri7577

3 ай бұрын

Well said I'm glad you are learning and getting better. May you meet the woman meet for you.

Dissecting the word of God is what you do best. Everytime I listen to you,I am reminded to study the word again and again and make it my compass for living. Your life is a proof that God is real. I love you ma 🥺🥺

@IBA01

7 ай бұрын

Please where are from?

@mrsxber1916

5 ай бұрын

​@@IBA01😂

I knew the moment a guy prayer over my head that,this is the kind of man I want, he has to love God,among other things to love me

I was feeling bad and angry in my spirit but ur message healed me

Marry for God, Kingdom & Duty 😮‍💨🤯

Ma.. with and Pk as my mentor, I won't make a wrong decision again about relationship. I know I have not met you both physically but your teachings goes a very very long way for me and I'm sincerely grateful ❤

@MissAlomo

7 ай бұрын

You will MARRY well! Yes you will ☺️

@ifeomaaniagbaoso9826

7 ай бұрын

@@MissAlomo thank you..I believe so

Ma'am thank you very much. I have been thinking my Fiance is too strict and probably He doesn't love me too, but with your story I can see How much He really loves me and wants to invest in me. Thank you ma'am.

@jessicaodukwu7692

6 ай бұрын

If there is no love and kindness with his rules, hes too strict. Please don't skip the part where she said your man should not be insecure

Something I'd like to add to this video is that before getting married, prepare more for the life you will live after the wedding day, and not prepare for the wedding day only. Learn how to cook properly, do proper cleanup, pray ps 139:23-24 which says; "Search me oh God and know my heart, try me and know my anxious thoughts and see if there be any wicked way in me and lead me in the way everlasting. When you do this, you'll find out a lot of things about yourself that you didn't even know you had. God help us.

Thank you Ma 🙏🏻 I left a relationship that brought only money and sex to the table , full of insecurities… and they wanted to make it look like I was the bad person……Thank you for reminding me that the relationship wasn’t worth it

Thank you so much for this message. God bless you. ✅️❤

Pastor Mildred, I want to thank you for yielding to God. Indeed, the obedience of one has shaped all of our lives. Me especially

Lord Jesus help me to marry for you, for kingdom and for ministry 🙏🙌

Intelligence is sexy, truly.

I thank God for the day i landed in your KZread channel woman of God. God bless you u are such a blessing

I am really blessed through PM teachings, I pray for Longlife for our mama

Pastor M you are a good teacher. You can teach very well. I like your jokes and the way you pass your message across. God continues to bless and use you.

I love you Pastor Mildred😍♥️

Thank you so much Pst M, by God's grace i will never forget this- That Marriage is for God, for Kingdom & for Duty. God reward you richly for all your labour ma.

Thank you pastor Mildred 🙏 more blessings Amen

Thank you for this! 🙏🏼🙌 praise our Lord Jesus

Awesome, feels like listening again and again

This ministration blessed me. Thanks ma

Thank you Pastor Mildred 🙏 ❤

I must marry right in Jesus name Amen. More grace, more anointing Pastor Mildred ❤

Intelligence is sexy Very true 😊

A man who's vision is large enough to accommodate yours

Thank you pastor Mildred

Marriage is for God,Kingdom & Purpose... Very insightful message Pastor Mildred.

God bless you pastor Mildred❤

Thank you woman of God for this teaching.. God bless you ma

i love her teachings,may God continue to uplift her

This is a powerful message,I was blessed by it.

THANK YOU, MA, I AM ALWAYS BLESSED BY YOUR TEACHINGS.

Such a wonderful teaching. God bless you Pastor M!

Great teaching 💯. Thank you for this ma.

God bless you more ma. I am blessed through this teaching

Thank you so much Ma, your level of wisdom baffles me🙌❤️

Thanks PM you're the best. I keep learning everyday

My dear sister, I bless God for your life and family, you carry a verse in bible and teach it in a way your hearers will understand. May God replenish you greatly in Jesus Christ name,amen.

I am blessed just by listening to your ministration😊

My lady, you nailed it. God be praised!

Thank you ma for your powerful teachings.

Thank you Pastor Mildred for this insightful teaching. It really blessed me.

God bless you pastor M

Intentional Intelligent Interesting Identity Invested Thank you Mummy Mildred ❤

I am always blessed by your message ma. Thank you so much ma

Wow! God bless you for this insight, Pastor M!❤

You are too powerful to stand behind..,This was my word for Today ❤

I should really sow seed your sermons always hit right 🙏 grateful to you Pr.Mikdred O. Hard follower right here.

Very powerful Thank you 🙏

God bless Pastor Mildred

Very impactful. Thank you ma.

Thank you so much, Pastor Mildred.❤

Pastor M. The absolute best. Thank you for the knowledge you keep instilling in us. May God keep giving you wisdom and knowledge. We love youuuuu❤️❤️❤️

Thank you Pastor Mildred for this great teaching❤❤❤

Beautiful message ma,I was richly blessed. God bless you.

Beautiful teaching. ❤

I'm so blessed Pastor Mildred, bless you!!! May God increase you 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

Exactly so my mentors. Thank you for teaching me to be the woman I pray to be. ❤The I’s in for me.

Honestly I love all your teaching❤

I'm touch and blessed, God bless you ma'am

Thank you so much ma for this message..🙇

God bless you pastor M. You have blessed me immensely with your teachings. May God’s grace upon your life never seize.

I feel elevated anytime I listen to your message ma'am. God Bless You Mama.

Thank you so much Ma❤❤

Thank you for this message 🙌

Pastor Mildred at the end of your message I love how you say were you blessed

Thank you so much maama. Your sermons are Hebrews 4:12 literally God bless you

She is brilliant

Points noted, God bless you

Thank you mummy

Beautiful message

WOW 😲 Pastor Mildred ❤ this teaching is so deep. Thank you Ma 🙏

I like your preaching....

Wow powerful teaching I love you ma More Grace ma 😍❤️🔥🔥

Thank you mami l will change my prayer point l will be praying for God to give me the man that he wants me to marry for the kingdom

Thank you so much ma’am, much need and very timely message. God bless your heart for not holding this back ❤️

God Bless you Pastor M

OMG , you are such a good pastor , ❤thank you pastor Mildred im going to listen at your podcasts a lot👍🙏🙏🙏🎉🎉🎉💞💞💞

Wonderful❤❤thank you God bless you

God bless you Ma ❤

This was so powerful!!! Thank you, Pastor Mildred ❤❤❤❤ you’re such a great teacher

I am blessed, may God Almighty increase your wisdom❤