1. Agreeing to hault the relationship when you see that it's not going to work. 2. Agreeing that if the relationship end up in marriage, divorce is not an option. 3. Agreeing to have a joint account (make everything finance transparent). 4. Agreement on communication (communicating more). 5. Agreement on no keeping of secret, password (building trust). 6. Agreement on exchange of parents. 7. Agreement on quarrel free marriage. 8. Agreeing to be intentional with intimacy. 9. Agreeing that nobody looks down on the other(more selfless and less selfish). 10. Agreement on using the Bible to work the marriage.

@owohchioma992

Ай бұрын

Thank you for the summary It’s helpful

@OgooluwaOjo

Ай бұрын

Thank you

@hannahumukoro7919

Ай бұрын

Thanks 🙏

@olusolaonanusi5643

28 күн бұрын

Thank you

@OsifoMary

22 күн бұрын

Thank you for the summary

I'm a muslimah but I'm so much inspired by these marriage guilines. May Allah SWT continue to keep you strong and safe for each other. Thank you Mr and Mrs Kingsley.

1. Freedom to Walk away 2. No Divorce 3. Joint Account 4. Communication 5. No passwords, shared devices 6. Exchanged parents 7. No quarreling 8. Intentional with Intimacy 9. Looking after each other 10. Running the marriage by the word.

@elisabetholaniyan9044

2 ай бұрын

Thank you for the collaboration

@12345653569

2 ай бұрын

Thank you

@Minister--pat

2 ай бұрын

You do all ❤

@dejibimbola

Ай бұрын

I knew a blessed soul would have extracted the points

@ChiafieEthel-fz1pg

Ай бұрын

This is so heart touching. Thank you pastors

Lord give me my own, intentional, Godly, ready to listen to me every time 🙏, never get tired of me God i will not marry rubbish in Jesus name 😭🙏

I love the fact that when she talks he rarely obstruct her

"Prayer does not change your Selection" Pastor K.... this captured my attention the most..my fellow Christian ladies while we're praying and trusting God for Kingdom marriage..it is upto us to still be intentional in selecting..so help us Holy Spirit in Jesus name amen.

@veronickollo7786

2 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@affyaffy-yk1fq

2 ай бұрын

AMEN

@abenadufie4312

2 ай бұрын

Amen n amen

@jalianabiira9404

2 ай бұрын

Amen

@graceogechi

2 ай бұрын

Amen

Couldn't drop my phone down till I finished listening. Guess what! My Wife sent this to me

@chisommefor5035

8 күн бұрын

May your marriage continue to wax strong

1. When uncertainty of conviction comes, never leave each other hurt 2. Divorce is abolish (Same as threatening to leaving the relationship isn't healthy) 3. Having Joint Account.(building Trust, Money will never be an issue) 4. Communication is the key ( communicate your pains and hurts often and don't keep silence) 5. No secrets especially on social media handles 6. Exchanging parents 7. No quarreling (we mustn't be mad at the same thing) 8. Mutual intimacy intentionality (Kissing and hugging each other every day) 9. Looking out for each other (Not been selfish, always asking questions of what do you want me to do for you. Are you happy?) 10. Word Center

@kuekiakuffo7167

Ай бұрын

😊

PST K knows how to lighten up the mood of the room. His sense of humor is great!!!

@maloni_c

2 ай бұрын

Absolutely, he's really good at reading the room! As for his Sense of humor,he's a pure & proper Sanguine😂!

"It takes two intentional people to build a marriage but takes one to scatter " Thank you Sir

@adebimbola8532

Ай бұрын

😊😊

The family you build is of more priority than the family you're from.

@StarrStuddedEnt

2 ай бұрын

Most men, especially mama boys don't understand that!!!

@Aiii_me6682

2 ай бұрын

​@@StarrStuddedEntso true

@pelumiraheen4936

16 күн бұрын

​@@StarrStuddedEntGod bless you 🙏🏾😊 my thoughts exactly

“It takes two Intentional people to build a marriage but it takes one to scatter it” Word 👏👏👏

Listening to Pastor K and Pastor M has made me grateful for all the broken relationships I have had.

Communication is the birth of any relationship

One thing I conclude with this is that everything from a to z has to be intentional, it's risky to act on your feelings i.e doing what you feel like doing in the marriage.

@generationalworshippers9472

2 ай бұрын

Right intentional

Watching this makes marriage interesting to me.

Wow...I just heard everything that was wrong in my previous relationship. My priest who is also a marriage counselor told me I dodged a bullet; I didn't understand it. My ex fiancee just hated the fact that I listened to Pastor K's teaching too much, I was like, what's wrong with trying to know how to love you better.

@ekweozorpromise2976

Ай бұрын

All Pastor K's messages I sent to my own he didn't even care to listen to them

@diamondp8438

9 күн бұрын

Currently

@jackiekobusinge3745

3 күн бұрын

Wow!! Imagine

Whoever is earning more is not superior to who is earning less

@friederikemaragela6363

Ай бұрын

Say that again

Anyone about to go into relationship should watch this very helpful ❤

Marriage without tolerance will not work, no body is perfect

@indibala3941

Ай бұрын

Tolerance is not a virtue, Patience and Acceptance is a great virtue.

When you are both inlove with each other, almost all of these rules/agreements comes naturally. Respect will make it come naturally. Love will make one be patient till the other partner can accommodate his/her presence. Etc

This couple has blessed the kingdom proud of you more grace

Thank you Jesus, I don’t know how God does it… but everytime I need clarification on something especially relationship, I just open KZread and God leads me to a message or preach I should listen to. I especially love the part you said ‘’WE would not think of divorce no matter what happens, we are in this for life. I also learnt about the sulking, that’s me .. but I have changed now… because it’s not a good character. God will help me Thank you so much.

I'm blessed. Though I'm single now but I trust God to be a great partner to my spouse when God settles me in Jesus Name,Amennnn.

@chikadibia7064

2 ай бұрын

Amen

@adedayoademokoya9109

Ай бұрын

Amen

@venunyesrabi

Ай бұрын

Amen

@euniceganadzi4644

Ай бұрын

Amen amen 👏👏

@Honeywhitebiz

Ай бұрын

Amen dear

I used to sulk too because I felt that it was better than talking out my emotions and it was definitely worse. But now I talk and sometimes I over talk, so, I just keep praying to know 'WHAT TO SAY AND HOW TO SAY' when angry!😊 We all really need to unlearn and relearn in this thing called marriage. 😅

~Nobody has successfully begged for love......not for long.... ~Marriage won't give you what you don't have..... Have a life. ~when you have self-esteem and self-value, you'll become very selective of the person you journey with in marriage... Nuggets from Pastor K.❤😊

@kechamartha2337

Ай бұрын

Never beg for love. Have self esteem & value yourself

You can't pick a weak team and get surprised at the poor results

Communication is the life of every relationship. 🤔 It takes two intentional people to build a great marriage and marriage is between two givers

I agree for joint account only for contributions to run the family. Joint accounts and also to have individual accounts. I like to help people around me so I still need my own money.

@vitalisanasudu8408

2 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@alinayili2199

2 ай бұрын

No matter how you explain it, you want to live an individual secret life. There's no way, your partner will say don't help except it's at the expense of the family which is a foolish idea to begin with

@the_eduthusiast

2 ай бұрын

You are still giving excuses...

@the_eduthusiast

2 ай бұрын

Pick the right partner, heal from your insecurity and you won't have to have "your own money"...

@charleschidera6306

2 ай бұрын

I don’t think it’s about being insecure, I don’t see anything wrong with keeping personal accounts, like me for example i like to plan surprises and it’s easier to do that when you have a separate account

I've gone back n forth on this finance (especially the matter of prenup) issue a lot. I wish I cld send him a question directly. It's not that u don't trust the person but rather u cannot control how the person will change 10 yrs from now. Even God said he regretted creating man at some point. Of course the person u marry today is someone u trust but if that person gets up 10 yrs from now n walks out regardless of counseling etc., u can't force them to stay. Why are we ok with every kind of insurance (life, home, car) but not a prenup😢 which is pretty much a financial insurance? Like he mentioned person can be determined to fight for the marriage when the other one mentally left a long time ago n nothing can change their minds.

Communication is the life of every relationship Thanks so papa❤ and mama❤

Wow! I love this teaching, i have never heard it in this version. Exchange parents, look out for each other, be intentional about intimacy etc. God bless you sir/ma, for letting people like us into some of the secrets to your marital success/bliss.

No secrets,no password and no hidden things

Better half brought me here 😊! Ready to learn! Pen 🖊️ and paper 📑 here

@ogogalonduaba7521

2 ай бұрын

True

@chariemakaripe4850

2 ай бұрын

Oh nice! Not all the better halves take things their partner shares seriously

@jerryonosike2865

2 ай бұрын

God bless you

Kingdom marriage is the way to go. No other way. Thanks for your exemplary marriage. God bless you both.

This made so much sense and yea… the Holy Spirit is the Spirit of truth.

I hear you Sir!!!!! The choice of partner is the foundation!!!!!

The part of exchanging parents is 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌 God bless you

I love this man, that's marriage.... Now I'm ready

I'm blessed by this message. May,God bless you Pastors.

The family you build is more important than the family you are from, that got me 😮

I really don't see any agreement very important than the other. They are actually completing one another. I can envisage a happy marriage built from following and respecting these agreements all. Thanks very much pastor Kingsley and your lovely wife.. I'm following you from Rwanda.

Powerful. Marriage is a ministry.

I love this message. Thank you Pastor K and pastor Mildred

God bless you so much, Pastor K and Pastor M

Thank you🎉, Pastor Mildred

Nice to be on this platform. 🙌🙌😊🇿🇦My Favorite Pastors. May God Bless you more ❤

Transparency will save you from temptation ". I love that

Doing what you don’t feel like helps build your discipline 🔥

Thank you so much pastor K and Mrs K ❤

Transparency even your health is perfect. If a man is impotent he should also disclose it

@Godlove-John

Ай бұрын

Many men who are impotent (inability to sustain erection during sex is an aspect of impotency) don't know as they haven't had sex before. So it is either your suggestion is for every man to explore their sexuality and to then disclose that in their next relationship. Mind you sex is an aspect of marriage in the realm of the spirit as abortion is an aspect of child sacrifice (or murder) recorded in the realm of the spirit.

Very inspirational teaching...thanks so much sir / ma'am.

Communication is the life of every relationship.

It takes two intentional people to build a marriage and it takes only one to scatter the marriage.

Thank you so much pastor Kingsley

Am tremendously blessed...I pray the Lord give me a partner that we would both serve God together ❤🙏

So many thing to Emulate here. Thank you mummy and daddy I'm blessed

Powerful teaching ♥ thank you Pastors blessed

I bless the day, I cross path with pastor K and his wife.. May God continue to bless & protect your marriage Sir.

I really appreciate the area where you say men don't read minds, and that they are literal being❤

This was such a beautiful teaching, thank you sir and ma I love you

I thank God for you speaker, we need more of this for our young ones who believe in prenup.

It's easy to do marriage if you do what Jesus says,... make your marriage word ruled👍

The family you build is better and more important than the family you're from

Total transparency

Thank you Pastor sir😇😇😇

This is so powerful and life transforming ❤❤❤

Thank you Pastor K & M ❤

Thanks pst.K and pst.M thanks 😊 for this teaching 🎉.God bless you both

I just started listening. Number 1 & 2 are so good, my babe and I did the same. I also encourage every couple to do the same. 👏

I love the balance in your agreements.

I regret resigning my job before marriage, not having sometimes to do as woman is bad. 2years without doing something tangible is really breaking me. Imagine not having your own money to buy things you need😢I feel so unhappy😢

@semilorebolanle4154

2 ай бұрын

May God give you a need Job

@nonyeokezie5957

Ай бұрын

Start again Sis..you'll be just fine

@lilylily6422

Ай бұрын

❤ i agree, its good to be financially independent as a woman.

@Zazezoo

Ай бұрын

Your husband should provide. His money is your money, be content with what you have. Don’t allow the devil to fool you. Take cade of your home, kids and hubby. Read and get a hobby. Don’t be idle and thank God for what you have!

@lilylily6422

Ай бұрын

@@Zazezoo its not the same for all families i.e not all husbands provide for their families.

Kingdom marriage is better. God bless you both Pastor K &M

I just loce listening to you. You're blessed daddy&mummy.

I love it when you minister two God bless you

Thank you ma’am and Sir. GOD bless you ❤

This is so educative.. Seriously, marriage is not for the weak.. I wonder y they can't read our minds 😢

May the good Lord protects and blessed you both Amen ❤

Wow I really enjoyed this idea and the most important part is selecting a good partner from beginning

Thank you so much pastor k and pastor m,i love you both...keep blessing minds.

Thank you Jesus for this

My heart melted for this things that was outlined,I never really thought of them.... Thank you Pastor for sharing

How a real blessing your teaching and life ! God bless you !

I'm so filled right now. Thank you PK & PM 🥰 I will be deliberately intentional😊.

Powerful presentation. Very impactful. Thank you for sharing. God bless you and your family

Thank you so much Ps K and Mildred for sharing your experiences in Kingdom marriage. God bless you more❤

This is an eye opener Sir/ma.I celebrate you

I am surely blessed.Thanks alot Pastor K and your lovely wifw

Wow... This teaching is so open minded ❤... Thank you!!!

I love this pastor Kingsley

This is HIlarious, SOUND doctrine and SOLID word!!! I will Mos Def be using this. Love you PK+PM - you're a huge blessing to the Body of Christ!!! This should be trending virally 🔥

Good to see the most recent. I'm always waiting for the most recent. I liked it before listening sha. God bless you both for saying yes to a fulfilling purpose.

This was very helpful. Thank you

Wowowo, thank you sir, Wowowo, am so blessed This is so powerful,

Y'all are blessing to me Sir/Ma

This is very helpful, I learnt a lot pastor k nd PST Mildred❤

Thanks pastor. I've learnt greatly here. Imagine I just shared this with my fiance

Just heard a powerful message 🙏 thanks alot my mentor Can't wait to meet the both of You

This was very helpful. Never heard of him but I completely agree with both of them. Such a blissful marriage. Its easy to tell they’re best friends

Oh my , I've learnt so much from this and im grateful for it