My husband met me without makeup and on my natural hair, he never stop staring at me through out our meeting and he told me that's what he actually prayed for "to meet his woman natural"... We are four years in marriage now

@juliokemisera

8 ай бұрын

Amazing, glory to God 🙏🏾❤

@PrincesseNgwasha

15 күн бұрын

Woohoo great..but can every man behave like your man?

We ladies have alot to learn not just for a man but to become the better version of ourselves

@user-uu1kh6xu9e

2 ай бұрын

Thank you

I did that 😂😂😂😂😂 I started planning the wedding in my head on the 1st date, now happily married 15 yrs and just recently we were talking and I told that he laughed so hard, I asked him why he is laughing, he said "because I was doing the same 😂😂😂😂"

@emilymokoena9842

Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤

@loisekimuyu2514

Жыл бұрын

Oooh wahooo❤❤❤

@orevamoses112

Жыл бұрын

Everyone destiny is not same. Most of these things she is saying are wrong are working for others

@thisiswhoiam102

Жыл бұрын

@orevamoses112 Yes, I know you're 100% right!

@esthermasaiofficial

Жыл бұрын

Awwwwww🎉❤😂😂😂😂can be heart breaking for the vice versa 😢

Thanks Winnie for making out time to teach these things. Today I've learned to: 1) Stop being the one calling. 2) Stop being over available. 3) Stop being late to wherever I'm supposed to be. Men are watching. 4) Make sure I'm always organized, no excuse. 5) Always look good, no matter the circumstances. I have no problem with others.

@lisayima9321

3 ай бұрын

I don't have a man in my life

@RitahNash-yg3yf

13 күн бұрын

​@@lisayima9321and you don't need?

Yea Winnie, your tips are very correct. As for me, I don't like ladies that are boring. One of the great attributes of an ALPHA Lady is enthusiasm and magnetism. There are many giants sleeping in men's brains, it takes enthusiastic and magnetic women to wake them. A boring woman can never ignite the fiery conflagration of success in her man and vice versa. If you are a lady/guy and you don't have this natural ginger, this is the ripe time to start practicing until it becomes your second nature. Everything in this life is learnable. Secondly, truly speaking, there is not really a shy person but a lazy person who has not spent enough time to increase knowledge. Whenever it is time for them to talk or contribute to a pertinent discussion, their brain is empty because no stored materials to pick from. Readers are leaders. Ladies should build their brain library like Winnie and equip it with books, audio and videos instead of wasting time building and flexing their hips muscles. Guys also are no exception. As nutritionists believe you are what you eat, authors believe you are what you read. Invest in knowledge today. You can start now. Ok?

@speakyourheart5020

Жыл бұрын

Ok

@shallotnuwagaba

Жыл бұрын

Well said Gbenga

@tenderlove7924

Жыл бұрын

On point 👍 though

@thompsonuduak7888

Жыл бұрын

The details...

@victorianwaka6529

Жыл бұрын

Okay sir

These are helpful tips! I know this is a channel for women, but many men need to work on themselves. Once a woman applies all these tips, doesn’t she deserve to meet a man who has worked on himself too? In every direction we turn, there’s someone telling women what they should or shouldn’t do to attract and keep a man. Who is talking to the men, though? Do men know what they do that puts high-value women off? Some men lack the confidence to initiate a conversation with a woman. Some men can’t hold a basic conversation if there are no sexual innuendos in it. Some are selfish. Some are braggadocious, while others talk condescendingly to women. However, society keeps quiet about these because they want to “protect the male ego.” Again, who is talking to the men? Sometimes, women are single, not because they do things to put men off. It’s because they’re put off by the men they meet.

@winniesschoolofelegance

Жыл бұрын

This point is HIGHLY NOTED!!! Some of the videos here relate to both genders and I am also working on something specifically tailored to the men folks. We are currently in production for some of them and we will be rolling them out soon. Thanks for pointing out all these.

@houseofviqtoxia8919

Жыл бұрын

Word

@francesjane3544

Жыл бұрын

Your last paragraph 👌👌

@eniolaenioluwabo7784

Жыл бұрын

Where is the lie?? And dese men go on to become incompetent husband's and fathers

@abimbolahannah5129

Жыл бұрын

God bless you for this, apt asf.

Honestly when you meet the one you don't need all this hard work

Thanks so much Winnie ,I now understand why relationship doesn't last for long, infact you are really helping we the ladies the most.Thanks

1.Over demanding 2,you are always right 3, tell everyone you are dating him when he has tell his closest friend that he is dating you 4, posting him on social media 5, secretive 6, dating any of his friends 7, talking excess alcohol (you went out with him and you run 2,3 or 4 bottles of alcohol) 8.accepting you know most hotels if he ask..( like have you been to this hotel? and your answers are yes yes yes) Etc

@carolinegichuki702

Жыл бұрын

@@naomiesilas7379 😂😂

@lolafola405

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@maggiewango1474

Жыл бұрын

Proud of your teaching

@Flowrybay

Жыл бұрын

Thisss 😊😊

@janetsada2514

Жыл бұрын

no 4

I am sincerely blown away by your tips. I'm a guy and I can relate to your points. Keep it up. Winnie. Thank you

I have seen relationships come to an end due to not picking calls and most times not available. A searching man will always replace you for someone that can be available for him.

@user-sg3sc5jk7m

Жыл бұрын

Av been searching for dis comment

@sharonongachi9938

Жыл бұрын

True

@metuselalokuruka8922

8 ай бұрын

What I can say is,try to understand your relationship and do what is best for it.being available and not depends with your person period.

@movingsaudade6028

6 ай бұрын

True, and i thought ladies posted photos of themselves in swimsuit and whatever on social media because they want to.I never thought anyone posted to get a man's attention. 🤔

1. I’m good to go 2. I don’t do that 3. I’ve started working on that 4. I don’t do that 5. I don’t do that 6. I’m not overly available 7. I’m conscious of the pictures i post. 8. My personal hygiene is paramount. 9. I would rather keep quiet and learn from what others are saying before making my own comment. 10. I put effort in anything i do. A bit independent. 11. One of my favorite house chores is arranging the house. 12. I learnt being on time in China 🇨🇳 no African time 😂 13. I’m not a makeup 💄 fan, team eye pencil and lipgloss. 14. There’s a way you communicate you’re high maintenance without saying it, intelligent conversation goes a long way. 15. Most of the people I’ve hanged out with always don’t want to leave. No boring moment with me. Now here’s my checklist 😂 hope i pass the cutoff mark.

@RayannaNorwood.5250

2 ай бұрын

Ok so did u get your high value man yet.."?😂😂😂😂😂

@NkiruNdukwe-dw8hi

4 күн бұрын

Thinking you are good enough (too much self confidence) can make you make mistakes without realizing, so watch out lady.😊

I stumbled upon this video at the right time. After being single for almost 2 years, I'll be meeting a guy for the first time ever and at the end of this month and I consider this very helpful. Honestly, this is beautiful 😍 Thank you Winnie ❤

@amazingisaac2010

Жыл бұрын

@@NgwaNgwa-kc6do thank you 😊

@samuelabigail950

11 ай бұрын

Awnnnnn Good luck sis..can't wait too for mine..may we not mismarry.

@user-my8zi6vn1n

10 ай бұрын

Hey😢 thank you so much...l learnt a lot

@maychukwu4024

7 ай бұрын

Hello Sis… how about you tell us the outcome 😊

Waoh what a lesson especially the being shy part. I was an introvert and I used to expect guys to understand that but woloolo.. I had to work on it because I even used to cancel dinner dates just because I didn't have the confidence to sit and eat in a hotel😂😂😂 But I promise anyone reading this there is need 💯 to work on your shyness and be able to express yourself

@faithapoede9902

Жыл бұрын

Please can you share some tips with us here, on overcoming shyness. It can be so annoying most of the time 😊

@SandyCoco1

Жыл бұрын

@@faithapoede9902 for real

@naomio.7503

Жыл бұрын

@@faithapoede9902 I agree

@naomio.7503

Жыл бұрын

Sallyyyy boo share some tips Pls lol

@boluwadevictoria5392

Жыл бұрын

So me... I'm still battling with it

I need to work on 1.time keeping 2.making effort 3.not being boring The others am okay but this 3 are my main challenges

I was desperate for marriage, always available for him and I never want to miss his calls...so he told me that what is turning him off is my desperation... like I want to meet his family...I should make him feel comfortable to introduce me to his family

@ntovicky2203

6 ай бұрын

You are fortunate he even gave you reasons. Some would simply ghost you and leave you very disappointed.

Wow Winnie everything you are saying is true. I have been practicing it and it’s really working for me I was someone who will text him every free time I get but now I don’t text him and he called me telling me how much he’s missing me 😊

*Being aware of what can deter men is essential for a successful relationship. Let's use this knowledge to grow and improve.*

Wow! You're beauty and brains Miss Winnie! So educative,corrective and informative.. Ladies must learn these.

Thank you very much ma,you’re now my mentor ❤I Show so much love in a relationship 😢and that hurt me so much 😭

YT recommended your channel & video to me today & as a new subscriber ...i must confess that you're an intelligent, amazing & awesome human being! God bless you!!!

@winniesschoolofelegance

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this kind comment.❤️❤️ It really has made my day. God bless you!🙏🏽

Also please make a video for college students starting their elegant journey who can't afford a lot to change their wardrobes.

Wow! This is highly educative. Thank you so much Winnie, I really learnt so much from this video 👏👏👏

Winnie I love how you articulate serious things in a funny way

Thank you so much winnie, this is very educative.my favourite point of all is A man should chase not the other way round, and not being bossy in communication as a woman.submision is attractive but make sure you say yes to a man who is worth your submission.cos it can be dangerous if you submit to a tyrant or psychopath.

I'm so disorganized o!! That's my weak point 🤣☝️ but I have a truly amazing man who really encourages me to organize my things with so much love and even helps me out 🥰.. My hubby is truly the best for me..

@daphinemuhindo

9 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

My favorite parts of the video is when Winnie shakes her head and says “Don’t do that, Don’t do that” 😂😂.. my colleague and friends are in trouble, I will be saying Don’t do that, don’t do that 😂

@user-yv8qj2kw5n

3 ай бұрын

Lol 😂😂

@UWASESaluwah

3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@consray

3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@EdehEstherChiamaka

Ай бұрын

Aswear 😅😅

I admire you sooo much Winnie❤ thanks for all you teach.the sisterhood is safe because of your elegance lessons 😊😊.

I make these mistakes a lot ( especially the first one , being shy n a complete introvert ) . maybe that's why i always ended up being single. When i love someone so much i always show it i can't pretend n at the end i always loose them. But then after some months they'll come back begging but then I've already lost interest in them coz i can love you so deep n dislike you the next minute.

@carotari4491

Жыл бұрын

@Maharu Haruna sorry I don't want any of my exes , i don't eat my vomit

@immahvincentkenya8823

2 ай бұрын

That's me 😂😂😂 anyway ave learnt a lesson

@jennifervonas6264

2 ай бұрын

@carotari 😂😂 this is me We are both on the same page

I was so quick to admire a guy first and he's now beginning to feel in a way I don't like, thanks for this video

@marysinn9483

Жыл бұрын

Lol.he’s full of himself

Thank you Winnie, actually I'm a victim of most of the points mentioned but I have learnt a lot from this video. Am always the one calling, quick reply to his messages in fact he actually told me to visit him in Abuja this break that's when I have finished my exams and I had plans to go there. Thank you so much for this🙏.

@JesperAkoragye

Ай бұрын

unfortunately i recently lost him because of all these reasons listed above but good enough i have learnt a lot through this video, i hope to get another one suitable for me🙏🙏

Ah....Winnie I love youuuu ❤️ The most amazing blend of beauty, elegance and a right sense of humor. I'm thoroughly inspired. Thank you 🌹

Wooow. I'm a guy but I love your understanding of these matters. Certainly love your delivery also. Thumbs up

@miriamkarwitha6749

Жыл бұрын

Am new to Winnie's platform.. interesting lady and funny 🤣 cant stop laughing cz i make such mistakes

Thank you Winnie for this video ❤️ you’ve made elegance a beautiful journey 🤍

Just came across this channel today. Like wow 🤩 I have lots of information in my head already from two videos. Appreciate the time and effort👏🏽🥂

All the reasons you gave here is so true. To be honest, I knew this for sure. This video only confirms it. I am a lady who grew up with five brothers, and I observe men how they talk and view things. I could have taught ladies these lessons too. Many thanks.

@nkoyobassey1217

6 ай бұрын

Then what are you waiting for? You don't have to be perfect in it, just start and let it flow and you will be fine. Don't be afraid of starting.

I love this video!!! This is my first time seeing you on YT and I love the content! I must speak to the point about being boring. Even as a woman trying to make friends with other women, some women have absolutely NOTHING to say if it doesn't pertain to junk TV shows, pop culture, make up, hair, etc. I'm in a few groups online where women are looking for female friends and they can't manage a conversation past "hello". Conversation is a lost art and can easily be learned. I'm so glad I was taught how to actively listen at a young age. It comes naturally to me and people tend to have a hard time NOT talking in my presence because they feel comfortable and heard.

@fatumaaminah

Жыл бұрын

U're right even me I was like that but no hooo😅

@chiderannagbolekah6852

Жыл бұрын

Please can you share this group with me 😊

@jackiedominic6194

Жыл бұрын

@ could you kindly introduce the group to me

@KikishaTech-do7yd

11 ай бұрын

You could be a listen but not someone who instigates a conversation

@julietasare4680

10 ай бұрын

🎉

“Cry if you must cry”🤣🤣 Thanks for the tips ma’am ❤️

Thanks Winnie I learn a lot of things here, will apply this in my next relationship. I’m ready for a new relationship 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Thank you Winnie. I'm starting to work on myself right away

@user-yl6wg5yx4p

4 ай бұрын

Me too

So much to learn here I just realised reason my relationship doesn't last Thank you so much for this Winnie❤🙏

Thank you winnie, l started watching your videos yesterday, and l was so eager to be back to watch this particular episode and l must confess, there's so much knowledge in here..... I am already thinking elegantly and l hope to be my best version soonest. Thank you

@euniceyoleh458

Жыл бұрын

OMG. This is so helpful...Thank you always, Winnie❤️❤️

Thanks so much, Winnie This is super helpful for me. I can be overly forward and glamour most time.

I just found your channel and absolutely love it! Ha! This is my second video and I cannot get enough of you!❤

I just realize my mistakes here, thanks a bunch Winnie ❤️💝

@chidiokafor7916

Жыл бұрын

Lol.. does not mean you should stress me o cos I'm about to shoot my shot if Winnie agrees

@yayrawokedzi1035

Жыл бұрын

Wonderful God bless you for the advice.

As you aptly said, "17:43, "there is a thin line between depriving a man of your attention and saying you are not available because you are busy.", I feel ladies should use more of their wisdom and discernment for this. The key word here is "very thin line." and being busy with your self-growth. As much as it seems too much of attention can turn a man off, I feel lack of attention can also turn a man off as well. Not every man has the long patience to pursue a love interest at the detriment of pursuing other things in his life. Once lack of communication seems to be a consistent habit from the lady, the man may move on and think she is not interested. Ladies, Kindly flip it the other way round as well, imagine he is always busy for you, what would you naturally make that behavior to be? Very insightful video btwn. Thanks for sharing.

@TBeauty_

Жыл бұрын

I like this

@juditheshiet1324

Жыл бұрын

Very well said... Thank you 😊

@maychukwu4024

Жыл бұрын

While not disputing anything you said, there’s an actual difference between depriving a person of attention and actually not being too available. The difference is in the strength of the conversations and attitude of the person and the frequency. Take for instance, you call me this morning after a date last night, I ignore your calls and messages, not call back and then you call me again later in the afternoon or evening and I take your call without acknowledging the previous calls and message and probably not even explain why and then the conversation is dry and boring that is plain deprivation and it sends a strong message to back off. On the other hand, we go on a date and I miss your call the following morning, I could give you a quick call back or a text to tell you how I am engaged in some activity and not able to talk at the moment but will call you as soon as I can and also acknowledge that I had a great time yesterday. Then when we eventually get to talk in the evening the energy is high and conversation fun. I haven’t made myself available to you all day but I have given you something to look forward to which is that I have things I’m doing that are very important for and to me however, I also enjoy spending time with you and I give time to everything that is important in my life not putting one above the other. The man right here will miss you a lot but will know he isn’t being ignored.

@timothyfaniyi

Жыл бұрын

@@maychukwu4024 Thanks for sharing your thoughts. This is very apt and such an interesting scenario you've put up to buttress your points. This angle you have brought to light also seems to be something I might have said on the flip side to my initial comment, save for the fact that I was just trying to just pass a point without looking to dissect into the more correct way to "being unavailable". I must say your perception and interpretation of the "not available" thing is quite brilliant. I hope we all learn and continue to grow.

Thanks very much Winnie 🥺this has taught me a lot as a young adult 😊so many of these mistakes I've made but I'm glad I've come across ur channel 🥰you're a role model

Thank you Winnie ❤️❤️🥰 I were directly talking to me on the number 1 tips 😌😌 I was so embarrassed 🙈 listening but I learned, I made that mistake just some weeks ago and he ran 😂 it’s hurts though but now I know better…. Moving on

@agudaabibat9609

Жыл бұрын

You

@marynakabuye6820

Жыл бұрын

Same situation.. Was addicted to him. I couldn't spend a day without calling him like 5 times and above. He ran away 😢

@namalelokhaemba7037

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@favourogbogu524

8 ай бұрын

Same here but I really liked him I feel so embarrassed now but I've learnt

My first time but I like everything you said and am going to work on myself because as am talking to you now, lack of communication and self-confidence is ruining my relationship now and my relationship is about breaking down because he's fed up with me 😢 Thank you very much for your video 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Will certainly recommend this channel anytime. Your number one follower of your channels. 🤗

Just got in a new relationship with an Igbo guy and I’m from Botswana we both live and work in England and I must say I’m really loved but I tend to forget myself cause I’m excited 😂😂😂 this Nigerian man loves me and spoke about marrying me twice ever since we started dating but I still want to remain on that spot where he still has to chase me, so thank you Winnie I needed to hear this message ❤

I always meet high value men But I always lose them, because 1. I am shy at a point 2. Being obsessed about them I've finally found my remedy. Thank you Winnie❤

Hi Winnie, please do a video of dealing with a breakup for a lady that still loves the guy. How to control the thought of shared memories.

@destinyemmanuel2964

Жыл бұрын

I'm still dealing with this

@bontakehindegbemisola8401

Жыл бұрын

I think I need this too

@emem5965

Жыл бұрын

You don't have to rush the move on..accept the pains..feel it..don't still think there is hope..let yourself accept it gone.. And don't block him, it might take time but it will be fine..

@rachelberi

Жыл бұрын

​@@emem5965you have said it all😊

@nzembonghenrietta5638

Жыл бұрын

I need this to. It's not easy

Thanks dear.... you have really helped me to recognize one of my weakness, I have picked up ways to make an immediate correction

Wow,,,,, am in my 20 's and for sure I've learnt a lot,,,,,, I was doing all the DONT'S while dating but thank you because am now a changed high value woman🎉

I love your teachings ma, they are really educative n i subscribed after few minutes listening to u

You know what, this channel is where I learn to become a better lady and a better person. Anytime I'm doing something I'm like what would Winnie have done

@agbortambeferinhoo2807

Жыл бұрын

Hihihi. Manor

It’s the first point for me😂😂😂😂 Planning the wedding on the first date. Nice video

@winniesschoolofelegance

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@juditheshiet1324

Жыл бұрын

I won't lie l do this or already seeing how both of us will be a good match 😂 or have a beautiful home together 😅😅 then after 2 or 3 occasions, and l will be like huh no no no. I can't have a family with this person 😅 still in my little head oo😂😂😂😂 Thanks winnie for this

@salomechebet4445

Жыл бұрын

​@@winniesschoolofelegancewhat can I do i think i have a problem of bossy communication... One man told me i talk like a receiptionist 😢

@PhoebeAbah-hb6vu

Ай бұрын

😂​@@salomechebet4445

@tayenreti-wk7gc

Ай бұрын

😮​@@salomechebet4445

Very correct ma’am. I actually didn’t even know about this but possesses all. Am grateful to God that you displayed all of my features here. Wawu I was so right in my behavior that even when I try to make my ex’s live right to my standard and it didn’t work Omor I move. And at the end I always leave my ex’s missing me. And today my husband is grateful that they didn’t act to my expectations and that made me live them and today he has me all to himself 🥰

I never knew that offering to pay for meals can be a turn-off for men. I've learned a lot. Thanks.

@harrietagyeiwaaoduro1761

Ай бұрын

Point of correction, she said at the beginning of your first date with him..

I love this lady ❤ She is saying the truth😊

Thank you Winnie❤️ I've gained a lot from this and I'm going to work mostly on my self confidence.

I actually found this video,a little bit late, but 😢I can still learn 😢 when I'm ready again for love 😢

I love this ,,,as for I think have done all this and it has lead to seperation with my ex in just three months of dating,, this is very true I'm with you,, thanks for this class Winnie 😊I'm taking notes and I believe it will work for me for the next relationship which I'm waiting for Gods time,,,,

I appreciate this video!. Without an understanding of what high value(s) mean, it would never matter to both genders. In the case of allowing a man to pay bills and a woman offers to pay. It puts the man off because it seems as if the woman is trying to prove she can take care of herself but there is another angle to this, some women didn't grow in a household where it was modeled that a man should take responsibilities in every area including catering to his woman. Here, the woman's upbringing is the one shaping her thinking. If a woman grows in a household where her father pampers her mum, she has come to the understanding that her man should do that and even go beyond for her.. However for most women, exposure and all helps them to upgrade their standards overtime.

@tenderlove7924

Жыл бұрын

True

I'm disorganised and always late...I am always late... I'm working on it though

This is so elegant. So on point

Thanks for this Winnie came right exactly when I needed most of these tips

I got a lot of value for your content... thanks so much Winnie. I appreciate you thanks

Why is it that ladies always fight whenever healthy tips like this are been given. There are videos where she also talked about the men but we will always show off ourselves. There are many channels that speak to the men in this age but no we will always argue and this makes it impossible for many of us to learn. Stop complaining about the men, build yourself and this will help you decipher the men to be in your life. Some women complain about the men but they are the ones settling for such men without value. Dear Ladies, We are the ones to accept anyone in our life and we have the power to say no to men without value. There are many men with high values and they are not in short supply

@winniesschoolofelegance

Жыл бұрын

This comment made my day!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Thank you!❤️

@annabelpeter8163

Жыл бұрын

You just said what was on my mind

@4EverGr8ful1

Жыл бұрын

I agree 💯 percent! Too much settling for "low-value" men! 😳

I think I have learnt my mistake now thanks so much ❤

Thanks so much Winne , I now understand why relationships doesn't last for long , i like your encouragement cheers to you ❣️. Have learnt alot keep it up dear.

Thank🙏 you so much winnie,few of your options are really what have been doing mostly my shyness and building up my self confidence more. i really love your contents ❤❤

Sincerely I have a victim of 1 or 2 of all these. I’m so glad I came across this and thank u for empowering women 🎉

@lucreciaainembabazi7407

Жыл бұрын

She talked Abt initial phase of dating, for how long is the initial phase

@doricahnjahi5694

Жыл бұрын

😂😂😂 me too learnt my lesson

@timahnestor6498

9 ай бұрын

I learned my lesson from this video thank you so much ma'am

I have made all the mistakes,lot much younger,but am a work in progress, past these test and lot much a better lady.

This is so insightful. This is my first time of coming across you on this space. I love this and I sticking here. Thanks for sharing ma

I like the way you say "No, Don't do that"😅

First time here 😊 really enjoyed your teaching, keep it up sis

You've earned yourself a new sub,,I love it here,,your aura, energy!!!this is a channel for me❤

Another thing is when one is overly real In the name of being one self. God bless you ma . I really learnt alot.

Everything you spoke out here is 💯 TRUE❤️❤️❤️❤️

When it comes to relationship advance I love to listen and learn 😊 I appreciate you ma God bless you

Thanks a lot for this video because I'm also just starting a relationship with a high value man as well who is like doing almost everything for me.

Winnie you've really changed me so much I can now accept who I am and correct where I have been wrong. I am energised now 💪💪

You're super amazing Winnie. Love from Kenya🥰

@winniesschoolofelegance

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!❤❤

@empressyi3997

Жыл бұрын

Ngori 😂🎉

My 1st time here! It’s your elegance for me! I’m definitely going to imbibe these tips. Thanks Winnie 😊

@tree8554

Жыл бұрын

hello🥰 I can introduce you to a spiritualist who re-unite me and my ex after a breakup, all thanks to him write him 👇

Thanks so much ma I really learnt a lot My relationship never last, now I know it's all my fault

Point #1 (Being Overly Desperate): Yeah, we have to be careful to give the other person space and time in the relationship without smothering the other. Point # 2 (Being Overly Braggadocious) If you have to constantly tell people your worth or that you are valuable, then maybe you don't really believe you are. No one has to keep reminding themselves that they are valuable. You just are valuable. Period. Point # 3 (Offering to Pay On A Date) Let the man pay for you. Point # 4 (Demand He Pays Your Transport) That's a problem... demanding anything. He can pick her up in his car if he owns one or has access to someone's car; but do not pay her transport. It's a nice gesture, but not required. I would love to hear in the comment section what other people think of a woman picking up a man in her car. Is it a turn-on or a turn-off? I have never experienced problems with points # 5, 6, and 7. In Point #8 (Lack of Public Conscience) can we also include poor phone manners/etiquette? I have seen where someone is having a conversation with me and then he or she starts having a conversation with the people in the same room out of nowhere. No "pardon me" or "excuse me." Point #9 (Lack of Effort) bothers me for sure. It speaks of laziness in building a relationship. I believe relationships are hard work and when either or both of the people are not working hard it sends the wrong message. It also sends the wrong message that the other person in the relationship is not valuable or worth the time to put in the work. Point #10 (High Level of Disorganization). I have to admit that I struggle with a high level of disorganization. I need to keep a list and a reminder of where things are at all times. I can improve on that point. Point #11 (" 'Never' On Time"/Often Late) I love it when a person is an on-time person period, end-of-story. I don't like to be late and I don't like when others are late. Point # 12 ("Too Much Makeup") I have never had problems where a date wears too much makeup. I have had a problem with too much perfume. I think that rare and special occasions (weddings, birthdays, anniversaries, baptisms/baby dedication ceremonies) are appropriate for perfume in general. Too much perfume sends the wrong message. No reason to have that Macy's/Bloomingdale's perfume scent all over in every occasion. Point # 13 ("High Maintenance") I think of people who are just picky. They don't want this/they want that. There isn't even a good reason for what they want. Even when there is a good reason, they're not willing to meet half-way and supply the solution. Point # 14 ("Boring") I don't believe that anyone is intrinsically boring. They choose not to present their best selves when it comes to their hobbies, dreams, goals, and activities. They choose to keep to themselves and stay in a shell and not let others know who they are and what they like.

@juicenneomaekperi6887

Жыл бұрын

Insightful

Great video but I don’t think we should live our lives around men’s egos, I personally think women also have egos and one gender shouldn’t be humbled to please another. Overly bragging is a turn off to women and men

@graceogbejele8806

Жыл бұрын

Thank u my sister😂😂😂 I am done trying to adjust myself for anybody😅 any man that can't accept me for me isn't worth it. I enjoyed the video tho

@princesshyland133

4 ай бұрын

100% agree with you

the tips are indeed so helpful. thank you winnie

Thank you Winnie,this video is very helpful to me ,it is so informative indeed they are many issues thqt you touched which one might fall trap to which might chase a man away.At times you feel too much excited to have a man in your life ,one will even become possessive.

Oh wow! You are speaking wisdom, thanks for sharing.

Thank you very much , Winnie. Very insightful video. Will be looking forward to the business ideas video. You look stunning as always 😍😍

@winniesschoolofelegance

Жыл бұрын

You are welcome! Vidoe coming soon!❤

Never forget that one person can never have all these qualities. Nobody is ever compete in life

@ibrahimashantewa2380

Жыл бұрын

That's why we have to learn

@graceogbejele8806

Жыл бұрын

My sister 😂😂😂 I can't even imagine how can someone be so perfect😂😂😂😂

@ibrahimashantewa2380

Жыл бұрын

@@graceogbejele8806 truly we can't be perfect but we'll strive towards leaving behind some character that doesn't serve us or others.

I love this video, i have learned alot from it. Indeed i got value. Thank you for sharing this.

Thank you Winne, I can't wait for you to share those business ideas. 😊😊😊

I like the sound of the " don't do that,dont do that"

@UzomaChidimma

3 ай бұрын

Honestly 😅

Thank you Winnie for the tips ❤

❤ur tip's so correct

I don’t usually subscribe but here am subscribing

@user-cg3sq9dy5b

8 ай бұрын

Same 😅