5 Common Mistakes Singles Make When Starting A Relationship | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

Join @mildred kingsley-okonkwo as she shares 5 Common Mistakes Singles Make When Starting A Relationship.
To Join The LDM Academy of Counselors visit ldmonlinecourses.org/
To Book for Counseling: Visit www.ldmwithpk.org/counselling/ or Reach +23480177714412 on WhatsApp
For Books & Other resources: Visit www.ldmwithpk.org/store/ or Reach +2348077714413
Stay Connected
--
/ pastormildredokonkwo
Instagram: / pastormildred
#mildredkingsleyokonkwo #JustUsGirlGlobalNetwork #JustUsGirls #JustUsGirlsNaija #Pastormildredkingsleyokonkwo

Пікірлер: 372

  • @esthertwumwaaasante8663
    @esthertwumwaaasante8663 Жыл бұрын

    "If you are good Christian, you'll have a good marriage. why? Because you will be led by the Spirit of God!" Thank you Ma❤️

  • @footprints9260
    @footprints92602 жыл бұрын

    1.foundation 2.counselling 3.mentorship 4 commitment over feelings

  • @bukenyakathie6719

    @bukenyakathie6719

    5 ай бұрын

    5.Accountability

  • @bukenyakathie6719

    @bukenyakathie6719

    5 ай бұрын

    Enter marriage 1.with jesus 2.with joy... partners are not mandated to bring joy.

  • @josephineamal9380
    @josephineamal93802 жыл бұрын

    This lady is training me to be a potential wife! Am blessed ma♥️🙏

  • @charlenetanyaradzwabuta5429
    @charlenetanyaradzwabuta54292 жыл бұрын

    Ever since i started listening to your teachings,my whole perspective about relationships love and marriage has changed. Thank you!!

  • @taytayl3866

    @taytayl3866

    Жыл бұрын

    Same girl, same. We on a whole new level now. And thank God for that 🙏🏾

  • @jallusandra7079

    @jallusandra7079

    Жыл бұрын

    I have been set freed from your powerful messages. Good bless you mummy

  • @asombapromise9671

    @asombapromise9671

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @chidimma180

    @chidimma180

    7 ай бұрын

    😊

  • @andreahmwanza9184

    @andreahmwanza9184

    6 ай бұрын

    Same!! She is so amazing!

  • @ronnelhamiel7921
    @ronnelhamiel7921 Жыл бұрын

    This woman is EXCEPTIONAL!! I like the way she is so passionate about the Word of God!

  • @johnkiggundu2232
    @johnkiggundu22322 жыл бұрын

    "Enter with Jesus in one hand and joy in the other." - what a powerful statement that is!

  • @chidimma180

    @chidimma180

    7 ай бұрын

    😊

  • @eleakoh
    @eleakoh2 жыл бұрын

    Marriage is a covenant. You don’t do covenants by feelings but by commitments 🙌🏾🙌🏾. Thank you Pastor M 💗

  • @peaced.ekemini1316
    @peaced.ekemini13162 жыл бұрын

    The way PM says “Are you joking?” Your Brain can just reset 🤣 I love you Mama 💕

  • @gizzellemcleish1837
    @gizzellemcleish18372 жыл бұрын

    "If you are single and fornicating you are training yourself for adultery. You are an adultery trainee." Now that's wisdom.

  • @archillesjn

    @archillesjn

    2 жыл бұрын

    true wisdom 🙌

  • @digitalmarketingwithifeanyi

    @digitalmarketingwithifeanyi

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@archillesjn aaaaa

  • @realtalkwithphil

    @realtalkwithphil

    2 жыл бұрын

    💯💯💯

  • @1love119

    @1love119

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow

  • @joannaava5573

    @joannaava5573

    Жыл бұрын

    This got me too😅

  • @hopeifeyinwa9629
    @hopeifeyinwa96292 жыл бұрын

    If wisdom was a person! Pastor M, you inspire me so much. More wisdom to you ma

  • @sikhangelenyathi7888

    @sikhangelenyathi7888

    2 жыл бұрын

    3yjk

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola2 жыл бұрын

    Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuu, Pastor M! Marriage isn't about feelings; it's about commitment. The same character you should have is what you should normally have as a Christian. True!

  • @chibuzoihentuge-eric73
    @chibuzoihentuge-eric732 жыл бұрын

    If Jesus is not done, we are not done. Wow. The family part too was also incredible

  • @sandrataaka6624
    @sandrataaka66242 жыл бұрын

    We need women like you in Uganda🇺🇬, may God mightly continue using you, thanks for the msg mom

  • @germainekakah4905
    @germainekakah49052 жыл бұрын

    I just got to know about pastor mildred and to be honest i love her sincerity in expressing truth. At times when i speak these things some people tell me i am so hard , and others say i am too strict.However these truth have kept me all these years. I pray as many as listens to you put it in practise.

  • @germainekakah4905

    @germainekakah4905

    2 жыл бұрын

    If any one puts this truth into practise, your heart and life will be intact but if not , you will leave or live with a broken heart or life.

  • @charitykawira1367

    @charitykawira1367

    2 жыл бұрын

    Woow I thought I am alone..since I got these teachings pple say am hard to get..but am confident and choose the Godly way into marriage.i believe God will lead and connect me to the purposed man

  • @damikuteyi
    @damikuteyi2 жыл бұрын

    Big Lessons - Marriage will never be about how I feel. My partner was not created to make me happy. Jesus is my primary motivation in marriage. I come in with my own joy/happiness.

  • @damikuteyi

    @damikuteyi

    2 жыл бұрын

    Marriage is commitment, not feelings

  • @Es_Elle
    @Es_Elle2 жыл бұрын

    Every woman should hear this message and heed the imparted wisdom.

  • @celestineasumah4511

    @celestineasumah4511

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes ooo

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi54832 жыл бұрын

    You made it look so easy here to obey and walk in love . You are are wealth of wisdom . The day you said yes to pastor Kingsley , you stayed in the will of God . No doubt God is the foundation of your marriage . Keep fulfilling your divine mandate . More anointing to you madam . I love your ministry and what you stand for . Your authentic and transparency was so catchy . You was speaking under the Holy Spirit and not under flesh . God bless .

  • @fullizettembong4221
    @fullizettembong42212 жыл бұрын

    I got here by accident but this teaching was definitely planned for me to get a different view in getting into a relationship. Thank you Jesus. God bless you Ma

  • @garenanighoro3722

    @garenanighoro3722

    Жыл бұрын

    No, you didn’t get here by accident. Your steps were ordered here. Just as mine was.

  • @KuddizaAmos

    @KuddizaAmos

    Жыл бұрын

    The Holy Ghost works no coincidence

  • @carolinekuria8355
    @carolinekuria83552 жыл бұрын

    Only a woman walking step by step with can give such a wonderful and great message honestly it has really opened my eyes and before getting in a relationship or marriage I should consider all this. Watching all the way from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @impactmen
    @impactmen2 жыл бұрын

    A time to be alive to listen to this where ever you are. I am single and I am learning so much from her and her husband.

  • @melodygamiros9425
    @melodygamiros9425 Жыл бұрын

    I would say that if marriage doesn't work for me I would just quit. But after hearing this message I get the clearest picture. 1. Marriage is not based on emotions. 2. Covenant is not done based on emotions but commitment. 3.The good foundation of anything we do or decide to commit to is God!

  • @eunicemagaji7619
    @eunicemagaji76192 жыл бұрын

    "Until God gets what he wants we're not not done, we're not going anywhere". Amazing... Thank God for the gift of your marriage in my life ❤️

  • @janetakwi9321

    @janetakwi9321

    2 жыл бұрын

    true pastor

  • @victoriaosunkwo1095
    @victoriaosunkwo10952 жыл бұрын

    It is only KZread that knows how much of your videos I have downloaded. I'm not even thinking of going into ministry unless God says so, but when you preach I see myself, cos you preach most of the things I would say normally if I were to be talking to anyone . You have been a blessing to me for over 2yrs now, I'm not married yet, I'm in my mid 20's. Thank you so much PM! God bless you♥️

  • @SniderBrilly
    @SniderBrilly5 ай бұрын

    I'm from kenya currently working in Saudia Arabia. I'm telling you since I started listening to you hve learned alot thank you so much pastor Mildred God bless you

  • @Handiesafrica
    @Handiesafrica2 жыл бұрын

    I just love Pastor M! God will keep keeping you Ma. The devil will fail in any gimmicks of his to bring you down. May you never lose relevance Ma. Pastor Mildred, you will never ever lose you flavor. In Jesus mighty name🙏

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513Ай бұрын

    I have found my wife... I didn't know that I would have fallen in love with her. Honestly. Because she's slim. I don't really like slim woman. But I went to that church had a connection with her. Pray about it fast about it she did the same... We both got confirmation from God!!!! We just got married two weeks now God is very very awesome. I love love Jesus

  • @augustaisidore530
    @augustaisidore5302 жыл бұрын

    Mama you are looking so beautiful and your hair style is fine I love it, more Grace to you ma, your teaching always makes a meaningful in my life and it makes me to understand things in relationship which I don't know before.. Thanks ma

  • @RACQUEL830
    @RACQUEL83011 ай бұрын

    Feelings have got nothing to do with marriage. Your emotions will not always be there! Well Noted. I love you pastor Mildred for statements on point.

  • @oghalemercy
    @oghalemercy2 жыл бұрын

    Pst M, it's not easy oo. Someone you have loved and been with. Kai, the will of God honestly, can be painful at times. But I am sold out to his will, I know he will see me through it.

  • @blessedamooti1371
    @blessedamooti1371 Жыл бұрын

    9th/1/2023. God thank you for everything I feel blessed to here this when am still single 🌟🍃💕

  • @okwaramercy5921
    @okwaramercy59212 жыл бұрын

    Listening to you anytime is always a blessing. The fact that you're "raw" and straight with the truth. God bless you richly Ma!

  • @cynthiadiama5072
    @cynthiadiama5072 Жыл бұрын

    I love the REALNESS OF LIVING LIFE, THAT IS WITHIN YOU....TRUTH ...I LOVE THIS !

  • @favourcyril1172
    @favourcyril1172 Жыл бұрын

    Wow 😳! I just started listening to pastor Mildred but I must confess, I was indeed blessed by this wisdom. More grace ma

  • @theladyfaith_
    @theladyfaith_2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you pastor M🥰 if you tell pastor funmi you are going to that boys house to collect textbook,she calls steadily to make sure that’s all you went there for,she is fulfilling her accountability part. Seeing her call will reset your brain

  • @d-internetaunty
    @d-internetaunty Жыл бұрын

    Patience, forgiveness and kindness........I've been with this "Christian" who gets angry and goes weeks without talking to me after every minor misunderstanding saying that sins have consequences...until I watched this and changed my perspective I kept walking on egg shells around him.

  • @MaryMackori

    @MaryMackori

    Жыл бұрын

    Run from that one ooo

  • @samkelisotshuma8485

    @samkelisotshuma8485

    Ай бұрын

    I hope you ran away from that one

  • @princessohemaa8168
    @princessohemaa81682 жыл бұрын

    You are a blessing to my life and Marriage pastor Mildred.

  • @ntokotom147
    @ntokotom1472 жыл бұрын

    Believing God for marriage in 2023 September. Your messages are helping me to prepare❤️

  • @jules1307

    @jules1307

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen to that!!!

  • @MaryMackori

    @MaryMackori

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too sis❤

  • @eneonoda
    @eneonoda2 жыл бұрын

    This thing called Marriage. We've been told having the right tools going in works magic. We shall continue to sorts for those tools. Thanks Pastor M. For being intentional.

  • @justmo6896
    @justmo68962 жыл бұрын

    May God continue giving me wisdom and knowledge💛love your teachings

  • @nicolewashe9005
    @nicolewashe90052 жыл бұрын

    When God says no, carry your bag and run

  • @landrybalbin560
    @landrybalbin5602 жыл бұрын

    Wow 😭, this has blessed me exponentially. Thank you for this 🙌🏾.

  • @deraglory6517
    @deraglory65172 жыл бұрын

    Thank you ma for this, The best part of this message for me is the foundation on which I am building whatever I am building which should be the word of God and oh that first scripture with message translation, kaiii, Matthew 7 vs 26- 27

  • @misslydia45
    @misslydia452 жыл бұрын

    God will continue to bless my far away mentor Pastor Mildred ❤️❤️

  • @jejeprofit3595
    @jejeprofit35952 жыл бұрын

    Pure unadulterated wisdom 💕 thank you WoG

  • @everydaylifebyrozy6174
    @everydaylifebyrozy61742 жыл бұрын

    Amen. Watched live and from Nairobi , Kenya and can't get enough of it .I'm watching again.

  • @ndidintekpere3613
    @ndidintekpere36132 жыл бұрын

    Amazing and down to earth message. Love every minute of it 💝

  • @florencekayiti4721
    @florencekayiti47212 жыл бұрын

    My Lord i know that you are the one with my true future husband 💍🙏🙏🙏🙏 👑 let me trust in your timing lord 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @haniebrown8876
    @haniebrown8876 Жыл бұрын

    Now you've showed me red flags in what I was getting into

  • @glorychristina1738
    @glorychristina17382 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor Mildred for this. God should continue blessing you to speak his truth, I love your teachings so much

  • @davidkondo7248
    @davidkondo7248 Жыл бұрын

    im very blessed by this message today, i cannot thank you enough for this tremendous mind openning as im exactly in the midst of getting married may GOD keeps on using and blessing you. THank you Pastor Mildred Okonkwo, all the way from the Democratic Republic of the CONGO. GOD bless

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513Ай бұрын

    Your advice is very very awesome!!!!!!, to God be the glory... Your marriage is very very blessed and highly favored by God. I wish you all the best

  • @mulengamwelwa3817
    @mulengamwelwa38172 жыл бұрын

    More wisdom Zambia is listening we are blessed

  • @marylyndaobioha
    @marylyndaobioha2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you and God bless P.M for this message!🙌

  • @kyerewaahdapaah3531
    @kyerewaahdapaah35312 жыл бұрын

    I always get to draw from your wise counselling. Thank you Maa

  • @eniolaenioluwabo7784
    @eniolaenioluwabo77842 жыл бұрын

    She comes with pure fire!! Pastor M on the rollllll....

  • @chrystabelotu5328
    @chrystabelotu53282 жыл бұрын

    Pure Wisdom!God bless you ma❤️

  • @jacquelineadadeobour4942
    @jacquelineadadeobour49422 жыл бұрын

    In fact!... Wisdom is indeed a woman, God bless you Pastor M.

  • @Si-cb6il
    @Si-cb6il2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you pastor Mildred for this powerful message✨ love you ma💐

  • @senooobaayaajuliana9214
    @senooobaayaajuliana92142 жыл бұрын

    Ps.Mildred this is super amazing, am so blessed, have learnt a lot; thank you so much and God richly bless you.

  • @sandraigbinoghene1650
    @sandraigbinoghene16502 жыл бұрын

    I somuch love listening to you and Pastor K's teaching, because ye both says it as it is, more grace and upliftment to you ma

  • @jonathanquartey6705
    @jonathanquartey67052 жыл бұрын

    God Bless you woman of God, You are a gift from God

  • @sophiaewuramamensah505
    @sophiaewuramamensah5052 жыл бұрын

    I am really blessed with your teachings woman of God, my perspectives have changed totally. God bless you

  • @mandiptabot230
    @mandiptabot2302 жыл бұрын

    Thank you ma for the teachings. May God continue to use you...

  • @munroetv6389
    @munroetv63892 жыл бұрын

    So much wisdom 🥺 thank you Pastor M💕

  • @MmasomNdefo
    @MmasomNdefo2 жыл бұрын

    This is a message for our generation. Thanks Pastor M

  • @babasolaogunyimika3589
    @babasolaogunyimika35892 жыл бұрын

    THANK YOU PASTOR, I AM BLESSED THIS EVENING.

  • @tanyinana7013
    @tanyinana70132 жыл бұрын

    My journey just started today 🔥🔥🔥thank you pastor M🙏

  • @victoriadarko4383
    @victoriadarko43832 жыл бұрын

    This is good. May God bless you richly. Lady Pastor

  • @lifewithnnedi
    @lifewithnnedi2 жыл бұрын

    The God that I serve is not a gossip Love you mama

  • @d_kings_princess
    @d_kings_princess2 жыл бұрын

    This pastor and wisdom...Chai 🙌🙌🙌

  • @wana4592
    @wana45922 жыл бұрын

    Your teachings are so timely ma💯🙏

  • @privkatema6147
    @privkatema6147 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom Pastor Mildred. God bless and keep you for us

  • @ychatsala
    @ychatsala2 жыл бұрын

    I always come back to this teaching.

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams47582 жыл бұрын

    This is so helpful. Thanks Pastor M

  • @prophetictribe44
    @prophetictribe442 жыл бұрын

    This is so good! Thank you ma🙏🏾❤️🔥

  • @dupebrown3815
    @dupebrown38152 жыл бұрын

    Such a powerful message. Thank you ma 🙏🙏🙏

  • @MondesThreads
    @MondesThreads Жыл бұрын

    So so so good. I really wish I had know all of this before I got married. Never too late to learn

  • @oluwadarasimigrace
    @oluwadarasimigrace2 жыл бұрын

    Thank u mummy 💓 This is so powerful🙏🙏🙏 God bless u ma🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @elly8588
    @elly85882 жыл бұрын

    This so stood out to me. There is a difference between fruit and gift kaiiish

  • @alicebanda1076
    @alicebanda10762 жыл бұрын

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️Our generation is so BLESSED🥺😭....

  • @akellopriscillablessing6869
    @akellopriscillablessing68692 жыл бұрын

    God bless you... Wisdom is speaking

  • @onaolapooluwatosin9717
    @onaolapooluwatosin97172 жыл бұрын

    This woman is heavenly sent

  • @lovellwaithera3132
    @lovellwaithera31322 жыл бұрын

    She's very interesting. God bless her.

  • @ify1027
    @ify10272 жыл бұрын

    Yes mama! You’ve broken the table 😂😂😂 It’s uncensored really 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙏🏼. I am blessed

  • @oketchfrancis7445
    @oketchfrancis74452 жыл бұрын

    Mama milidred am really blessed with that word of knowledge may God bless you

  • @Abba_praise
    @Abba_praise2 жыл бұрын

    I love you mama,I pray for such grace

  • @celestineasumah4511
    @celestineasumah45112 жыл бұрын

    Great Wisdom Ma'am!! Truth...

  • @jesusistheway783
    @jesusistheway7832 жыл бұрын

    May the Lod Bless you abundantly Women of God ! you have engligthen me in a whole other level so glad i have found yo here on KZread

  • @lifewithnnedi
    @lifewithnnedi2 жыл бұрын

    You don't get to do covenant by feelings, you do covenant by committment

  • @johndorcas9657
    @johndorcas96572 жыл бұрын

    I love u mummy, and you are speaking to me ..God bless me and you Amen.

  • @alukwejoy808
    @alukwejoy8082 жыл бұрын

    Am blessed..reality is what you say..thank you for opening my eyes

  • @oluwatobilobaomotolani678
    @oluwatobilobaomotolani67811 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this powerful ministration.

  • @lydiahwomenrep9919
    @lydiahwomenrep9919 Жыл бұрын

    Wisdom 💯 Representing Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @sycostiirene7439
    @sycostiirene74392 жыл бұрын

    You have impacted my so far . Much love from Kenya

  • @ajaoiyanuoluwa6172
    @ajaoiyanuoluwa61722 жыл бұрын

    Thank you pastor Mildred. God bless you

  • @sysynodum641
    @sysynodum6412 жыл бұрын

    God bless you, Maa.

  • @mabel.e.kgalley9710
    @mabel.e.kgalley9710 Жыл бұрын

    The information in the message is so powerful and practical I couldn't wait for it to finish before sharing. Woman of God, keep letting out the truth, God bless you for speaking it. Thanks a lot.

  • @inothsindini7610
    @inothsindini76102 жыл бұрын

    I love you Pastor Mildred Thanks for your teaching they helps me a lot

  • @ashantiakoffi5595
    @ashantiakoffi55952 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Ma and God you bless your ministry. I am proud to Subscribers

  • @jessyrolly9918
    @jessyrolly99182 жыл бұрын

    More Grace Ma. Great Sermon.