How To Know If He Really Loves You | Kingsley Okonkwo

Many times people ask this question and over time I have realized sadly, that a lot of people get moved by words and forget love is an action, so I thought to make this clear to everyone who needs to learn and know how love works.
Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares 'How To Know If He Really Loves You'
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  • @haniebrown8876
    @haniebrown8876 Жыл бұрын

    Im glad I met this channel b4 I messed up things...... I've realised many red flags already. Thanks for the advice.

  • @vimilchar
    @vimilchar2 жыл бұрын

    Oh! It's so good to watch a pastor dressed plain and simple. No big rings...No big chains around the neck...Ah!...and then he still speaks truth and give advise that you can really apply...Ah! Praise God!!!!

  • @speranzakiragu3491

    @speranzakiragu3491

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes,,, but not all with big chains are false pastors,,,,,,

  • @Nurseafenomijessica

    @Nurseafenomijessica

    Жыл бұрын

    There’s nothing wrong in a pastor wearing big ring or jewelries What!?? Hmm abeg abeg

  • @moureenmachanwe8986

    @moureenmachanwe8986

    Ай бұрын

    Are you seriously focussing on what pastors put to listen to the message.. kindly check your intentions

  • @ruthandrew3945
    @ruthandrew39452 жыл бұрын

    Now I'm 100% sure my boyfriend truly loves me. Thank you sir 🙏

  • @damiflexsolutions
    @damiflexsolutions2 жыл бұрын

    Powerful message intro - 01:01 How to know if he truly loves you 1. He will listen you her, by paying attention. - 11:39 2. He is patient for sex after marriage. - 14:13 3. He will introduce you to people of integrity that matter to him, by being proud of you. - 20:12 4. He will be protective of you from his relatives, friends and everyone. - 24:27 5. He will include you in his future plans. - 31:04 6. He is willing to invest in the health/well being of the relationship. - 33:01

  • @nancysamson3185

    @nancysamson3185

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the summary ❤

  • @winuzeh5570

    @winuzeh5570

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @helendelailomaloma6249

    @helendelailomaloma6249

    Жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @chiemeziemanorue6809

    @chiemeziemanorue6809

    Жыл бұрын

    What about the girls

  • @ambassadoremmanuel1553

    @ambassadoremmanuel1553

    11 ай бұрын

    Please how do I get the concluding part of this mesage

  • @PrettySarah31
    @PrettySarah312 жыл бұрын

    These Honourable Pastors make serving God soooooo beautiful. Single women please let's be wise ooo

  • @abbagoziemsylvia6568
    @abbagoziemsylvia65682 жыл бұрын

    I'm here bursting heavy laughs and Wondering how people are not laughing at the voice change when he read the passage about Tamar and amnon. Pst K has effortless humour

  • @heritageoyebamire6795

    @heritageoyebamire6795

    9 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂 I swear

  • @omoladeoguntola4824

    @omoladeoguntola4824

    8 ай бұрын

    As in ehn! I don laugh tire😂😂😂😂

  • @temmyal7990

    @temmyal7990

    7 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂Still laughing

  • @ezinnepaul2999
    @ezinnepaul29992 жыл бұрын

    So this guy really loves me this much. Father thank you for giving me the Best gift 🎁 in the world 🌎 ☺️

  • @nyaramakurumidze9352
    @nyaramakurumidze9352 Жыл бұрын

    l wish if all girls could listen to these wise words full of wisdom and build permanent homes for Christ.

  • @zonywest4262
    @zonywest4262 Жыл бұрын

    Soooo True! I had an experience.... Before sleeping with this guy, I was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen, he showed me off around town etc telling me he loved me. As soon as I let my guard down!!! He got mad at me! I suddenly became short and Ugly! I was one of the worst things on the planet. 😂😂😂 I laughed my but off!!!

  • @exhortationsbyeva6345
    @exhortationsbyeva63452 жыл бұрын

    Infatuation and obsessed can get mistaken for love!

  • @daramolaayomide2859
    @daramolaayomide2859 Жыл бұрын

    As soon as the red flag is seen runn True love reciprocates each other it’s not one sided

  • @phoebeappiah1245
    @phoebeappiah12452 жыл бұрын

    I hav ever ever see any pastor who coach like this before..... he is very intelligent

  • @milikamalata7650
    @milikamalata765010 ай бұрын

    You are the voice that we need in this generation Pastor Kingsley. Thank you so much for all this wisdom. Keep increasing 🙏🙏

  • @ntokotom147
    @ntokotom1472 жыл бұрын

    "She thinks because she's cooking for us, we will vote her. Don't marry her" 😂😂😂😂My goodness

  • @mscurvy6922
    @mscurvy69222 жыл бұрын

    Love .. If a man loves you .. Your happiness he will put first .. and show in action! And same for a woman ! If not it’s not love .. but just glossed up as love ❤️!

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji89392 жыл бұрын

    Correct pst k. Sex confuses so many things.

  • @ernestmulenga3890
    @ernestmulenga38902 жыл бұрын

    "I love pastor Kingsley Okonkwo so dearly deep down my heart. His teachings has really changed my life. May God keep you long sir for the sake of the next generations to come who needs to hear to this kind of wisdom. Commenting from Zambia."

  • @adaofcharles1217

    @adaofcharles1217

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen in Jesus name.

  • @evaarloo5452

    @evaarloo5452

    Жыл бұрын

    God bless u papa don't stop what u are doing for as🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @ernestmulenga3890

    @ernestmulenga3890

    Жыл бұрын

    @@adaofcharles1217 Amen.

  • @ernestmulenga3890

    @ernestmulenga3890

    Жыл бұрын

    @@evaarloo5452 Amen.

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory67352 жыл бұрын

    What you are teaching us the generation our parents never teaches us this if they did .,…. God blessed your home sir

  • @jessejuangwa854
    @jessejuangwa8542 жыл бұрын

    Your messages have literally shaped my way of thinking sir and loving

  • @oziiluv
    @oziiluv8 ай бұрын

    1.If a guy loves you, he will pay attention to you. He will listen to you. 2. He will be willing to wait for sex. He will be patient. 3. He will be glad and quick to introduce you to people that matter. 4. He will be protective of you. He will be protective of your welfare. 5. He will include you in his future plans. He will share his future plans with you. 6. He is willing to invest in the health and well-being of the relationship. He will like to go for seminars, to church, read books about relationships at your insistence.

  • @user-od7ft8rt7t
    @user-od7ft8rt7t3 ай бұрын

    The 😂voices got to me😂... but great wisdom through God's vessel Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo.

  • @citygirl237
    @citygirl2372 жыл бұрын

    "The food burn" 😂😂😂

  • @happybutterfly7124
    @happybutterfly7124 Жыл бұрын

    Awesome teaching. I don't want to be adversarial, but I dated my ex-husband for 3+ years. He didn't push me to have sex with him; he simply had sex with others instead. Fathered a child; lied to me about fathering the child only to admit it 40+ years later to our children after we'd divorced.

  • @jachinmajayc445

    @jachinmajayc445

    11 ай бұрын

    In all these things, you should marry or date a born again Christian. Anyone can pretend. And if you are not discerning, you will fall for their pretence. Important factor is to have the holy spirit.

  • @lExN34
    @lExN34Ай бұрын

    But PK 😂😂😂, The first voice change I actually thought my speaker had malfunctioned 😂🤣

  • @faithethomas2823
    @faithethomas28232 жыл бұрын

    Very informative, I love it. This is coming from a man, listen very carefully.

  • @victoriachidinma2019
    @victoriachidinma201910 ай бұрын

    I'm glad, and praise be to God I can find all these in my fiance.. we have even done introduction without sex.. some people will insist they come back from abroad, spend time with the woman probably have sex bfore doing anything... I'm grateful to God! He planned it!

  • @CURRENCY_042

    @CURRENCY_042

    6 ай бұрын

    I don't think sex after introduction is bad though....it's already official nau!

  • @gemanwaneri2216
    @gemanwaneri22162 жыл бұрын

    If he is hiding you, he is scamming you📌

  • @otobongedem9586
    @otobongedem95862 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful thank you

  • @shedrachameachi8183
    @shedrachameachi81832 жыл бұрын

    Thank uh sir for this 😊😌😌😌

  • @Nikky707
    @Nikky7072 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful message

  • @deborahakindeko2040
    @deborahakindeko20402 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Pastor

  • @proxpee8984
    @proxpee89842 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much sir

  • @mirriamm.3277
    @mirriamm.32772 жыл бұрын

    Amen... getting blessed by your insights on marriage and relationship.... God bless you Pastor K and Pastor M....I love how you serve God together

  • @edehchioma2561
    @edehchioma25612 жыл бұрын

    God bless you sir🙏🙏 I’m always blessed by your words ......

  • @mercyn5422
    @mercyn5422 Жыл бұрын

    Wow!!! Thank you sir

  • @taiwoegbanubi
    @taiwoegbanubi2 жыл бұрын

    I celebrate you Pst Kingsley

  • @helendelailomaloma6249
    @helendelailomaloma6249 Жыл бұрын

    Priceless!

  • @tojuirone1997
    @tojuirone19972 жыл бұрын

    Can't wait for that of the famales

  • @chinenyehappinesschidi5167
    @chinenyehappinesschidi51672 жыл бұрын

    Thank You So Much Sir.. God Bless You Richly 🙏🙌

  • @sampsonhope8215
    @sampsonhope82152 жыл бұрын

    You're very correct pastor K, obsession is oftenly mistaken for love and that's why whatever the lady will say doesn't count,God bless you pastor K

  • @terryondecks350
    @terryondecks3502 жыл бұрын

    I've been waiting for this teaching for so long.I only had short clip❤

  • @classicalretroback
    @classicalretroback2 жыл бұрын

    Real talk sir. You nailed it well.🎯

  • @tojuirone1997
    @tojuirone19972 жыл бұрын

    Always blessed by pastor K...God bless u Sir

  • @nyagowalavender4455
    @nyagowalavender4455 Жыл бұрын

    What a message. 🙏🏼

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld60722 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful points Thank you Pst K

  • @evahhonour5008
    @evahhonour5008 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Sir eye opening message.

  • @chidinmaokeke9909
    @chidinmaokeke99092 жыл бұрын

    Thank u very much for the advice God bless you.

  • @goodnessogbonna9851
    @goodnessogbonna98512 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for all you do sir God continue to bless you

  • @japhettonbrapade4112
    @japhettonbrapade41122 жыл бұрын

    Thank you pastor sir this is an eye opener.

  • @chimchimo.5050
    @chimchimo.5050 Жыл бұрын

    Wow, this was very insightful 🥹👏🏾

  • @zoefrancis4417
    @zoefrancis44172 жыл бұрын

    May God strengthen you Pst K.

  • @fatmatasesay7467
    @fatmatasesay74672 жыл бұрын

    Great speech, thank you so much sir.

  • @faithiris9614
    @faithiris96142 жыл бұрын

    Finally am here ,I thank God

  • @oluwadarasimi852
    @oluwadarasimi852 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks you so much sir This is really helpful

  • @Barnabas_Akinrinola
    @Barnabas_Akinrinola2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, Pastor K! This is the stuff to learn.

  • @serahmyls6208
    @serahmyls6208 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤ thanks Man of God ..be blessed 🙏🙏

  • @ufink
    @ufink Жыл бұрын

    So I love this teaching but the part that doesn’t feel right to me is every time he talks about Amnon and Tamar story is that he says Amnon was not a bad person because he thought he was in love. Amnon was a bad person who raped someone and it cost him his life. I don’t think that story should be told lightly.. He forced himself on her.. so I think the way he also portrays Tamar as talking so sweet and making light of it is not fair, she was probably terrified. I can appreciate the message from the story.. but that was a very sad story and should be portrayed as such.

  • @adedoyinbadejo679

    @adedoyinbadejo679

    Жыл бұрын

    I felt exactly this way, I understand he's just trying to add humour to his preaching but this passage can never be humourous in anyway. I'd have preferred he used a "silly" voice for amnons part to portray Amnons stupidity A person who thinks he's In love won't even consider rape, Amnon and his friend where evil for that orchestration

  • @ebunlomooreoluwa
    @ebunlomooreoluwa Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much daddy...

  • @attahprosper3610
    @attahprosper36102 жыл бұрын

    You are a blessing to me daddy 💕, I'm really learning a lot

  • @anazodoifunanyac
    @anazodoifunanyac2 жыл бұрын

    Very educative. This video was reposted

  • @comfortattah3623
    @comfortattah36239 ай бұрын

    Thanks for your words of wisdom pastor

  • @maggiemkawuda5870
    @maggiemkawuda58702 жыл бұрын

    Be blessed man of God

  • @ohonbazillah4547
    @ohonbazillah45472 жыл бұрын

    Dear pastor, this is very interesting, thanks so much, God bless you

  • @joycepatrick6862
    @joycepatrick6862Ай бұрын

    All this is true.Thank you pastor

  • @favourewere
    @favourewere10 ай бұрын

    This so true

  • @dorcasiyanujesu6954
    @dorcasiyanujesu69542 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor for putting us through. God bless you

  • @abigailojieh
    @abigailojieh2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you always Pastor K and Pastor M for your teachings.They are always worth listening to.God bless you sir

  • @mihlalimirandambasane8340
    @mihlalimirandambasane8340 Жыл бұрын

    Wow thank you Papa this is really helping alot.💯❤️🙏🙇🙇🙇🙇we really needed this🥺

  • @ritakane2010
    @ritakane20109 ай бұрын

    Well done PK, more grace 🙏

  • @rianangaemaluta
    @rianangaemaluta2 жыл бұрын

    Eye opening message.. Thank you Pastor K 🙏❤️🖤💜 The best relationship coach ever...

  • @borderlesstv777
    @borderlesstv7775 ай бұрын

    Superb!!!!!!!!

  • @Marie_Doresse
    @Marie_Doresse2 ай бұрын

    Thank you Pastor K for this teaching

  • @bueze4016
    @bueze40162 жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir. You re a good influence for our generation.

  • @uchennakennedy2366
    @uchennakennedy2366 Жыл бұрын

    Pastor k. Ur teachings are inspiring.. I got value from it.. thank you sir nd God bless you.

  • @moeshaj.6637
    @moeshaj.6637 Жыл бұрын

    Loved this 😂😂

  • @tinaluyo98
    @tinaluyo98 Жыл бұрын

    Some truths are bitter to swallow but sweet when they get into the stomach. Thank you sir

  • @wana4592
    @wana45922 жыл бұрын

    Deep truth,,,, marriage is not a private issue,,,,, very important points raised!!! Thank you, Pastor K

  • @gemanwaneri2216
    @gemanwaneri22162 жыл бұрын

    Kia! Sir, You are so full of Wilson. More grace to you, pastor K.

  • @rhulanipoetryfactory7623
    @rhulanipoetryfactory7623 Жыл бұрын

    This is wisdom- great wisdom. My eyes are opened, thank you Pastor.

  • @ifeomadibiagwu9528
    @ifeomadibiagwu9528 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much sir. This is very helpful ❤️

  • @anitaboima2582
    @anitaboima2582 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Lord am grateful to listen to this wonderful massage, well-done sir 👌

  • @kalenuka-bestlifegeng461
    @kalenuka-bestlifegeng4612 жыл бұрын

    My mum can’t wait to get to Canada oh🤣🤣🤣🤣 I understand the joke wella🤣🤣🤣

  • @victoriaoluwatimilehin8770
    @victoriaoluwatimilehin87709 ай бұрын

    Thank you pastor 😌 By God's grace, I hope to bring my future husband to you as my distance mentor when I'm ready to marry 😊

  • @angelknight6626
    @angelknight6626 Жыл бұрын

    Alwayz love your teachings but thought you said you was gonna teach 6 each n 7 combined...I was disappointed it finished so quickly 🙄😔😉

  • @aregbesolazainab9267
    @aregbesolazainab92672 жыл бұрын

    Ahhhhh chai…… too bitter truth 😭

  • @KateTriumph
    @KateTriumph2 жыл бұрын

    Hello, Pastor Christopher, I ordered the A to Z of marriage for about 2 months ago but haven't received it please could you advise. Thanks and remain blessed.

  • @joanneclarke4226
    @joanneclarke42262 жыл бұрын

    Lol separating anxiety 😅 🙃 😬

  • @ambassadoremmanuel1553
    @ambassadoremmanuel155311 ай бұрын

    Please how dp i get the concluding part of this message because im eager to hear what he says about guys

  • @neroonose4585
    @neroonose45852 жыл бұрын

    The voice change to 😂😂

  • @successokoro5959
    @successokoro5959 Жыл бұрын

    Is now I know am not in relationship at all 😩😩

  • @vickyneldo9994
    @vickyneldo99947 ай бұрын

    Well sir am feeling worse now 😂😭💔

  • @ElizabethBimela
    @ElizabethBimela2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you papa for this words of wisdom 🙏 sometimes we hardly get this thing's cuz we fail to understand actions...but actually today I'm blessed with this teachings, God bless you pastor 🙏🙌

  • @abolajisamueltaiwo5424
    @abolajisamueltaiwo54242 жыл бұрын

    Our wife.!!!!!! No gree oooo ..na scam 😁😁

  • @sarahtamale8109
    @sarahtamale8109 Жыл бұрын

    Our wife😂😂😂😂

  • @namatovuviola4008
    @namatovuviola4008 Жыл бұрын

    ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  • @christyamaso26
    @christyamaso262 жыл бұрын

    We can't marry under the chair😂

  • @solomone94
    @solomone94 Жыл бұрын

    I show my now girlfriend to everyone 🤗

  • @brendandong9344
    @brendandong9344 Жыл бұрын

    Good evening pastor. I'm Brenda from Cameroon. I wanted to know if the guy is supposed to have all of these qualities or just some? What if he's lacking in a few, should the lady still leave him?

  • @adedoyinbadejo679

    @adedoyinbadejo679

    Жыл бұрын

    He should have all, these are the bare minimum if a man loves you, he must have all these qualities

  • @laraiyammah9467

    @laraiyammah9467

    Жыл бұрын

    What is lacking now, are you ready to deal with it for the rest of your life?. Think about it

  • @davefx_
    @davefx_2 жыл бұрын

    Every fornicator is an adulterer in training!!!

  • @gloryshey4555
    @gloryshey4555 Жыл бұрын

    A