Why A Marriage Fails Before Marriage | Kingsley Okonkwo

Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares 'Why A Marriage Fails Before Marriage'
To Join The LDM Academy of Counselors visit ldmonlinecourses.org/
To Book Counseling: Visit www.ldmwithpk.org/counselling/ or Reach +2348077714412 on WhatsApp
For Books & Other resources: Visit www.ldmwithpk.org/store/ or Reach +2348077714413
--
Stay Connected
Website: ldmwithpk.org
Instagram: / ldmwithpk
Twitter: / ldmwithpk
Facebook: / lovedatingandmarriage
Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo
Kingsley Okonkwo KZread: bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube
Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: / pastorkingsleyokonkwo
Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: / kingsleypst
Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: / kingsleypst
#kingsleyokonkwo #datingadvice #PastorK #relationshipadvice #LatestPastorKsermon

Пікірлер: 109

  • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
    @durbansaladyinaccra2173 Жыл бұрын

    ....the wedding is not the marriage....the wedding is for people, the marriage is for you...the wedding is a ceremony, the marriage is a covenant..." Some of the most powerful words I have ever heard about marriage. Thank you Pastor K. 🙏✝️🕊

  • @nightstella6292

    @nightstella6292

    11 ай бұрын

    Pastor Kingsley is the most organic marriage counselors I have ever listened too. His biblical principles of marriage counseling are of high bar. God bless you and your beautiful wife Pastor Milly K. O

  • @kwobsiemarius9613
    @kwobsiemarius9613 Жыл бұрын

    I watched this man's video every day at work while working. Can never have wished for something else

  • @TheFinanciallyWoman

    @TheFinanciallyWoman

    Жыл бұрын

    No lie! Not just whole working, during my drive to work, at home… literally every time I get!!!! He’s indeed a blessing… him and his wife 😊😊😊

  • @emiridbest
    @emiridbest Жыл бұрын

    I've never heard emotional intelligence being explained meaningfully like this before... You're a blessing to me everyday.

  • @okonkwotina2172
    @okonkwotina2172 Жыл бұрын

    Pst K.O makes teaching so easy with his good sense of humor. Even though our woke generation and social media has made marriage and relationship seem unreal, i am so glad that people like you are still here fixing all that has been broken and preparing us, the yet to be married towards the journey of marriage. I pray for a good marriage and the zeal to practice all the good teachings of marriage. You are such a blessing to our generation sir.

  • @DebbCrystal
    @DebbCrystal Жыл бұрын

    PK you have a way of making us stay glued to our screen when you teach. Your sense of humor makes the teaching more interesting. God bless you sir

  • @winiowiny7258

    @winiowiny7258

    Жыл бұрын

    10001%

  • @dashelledisna6239

    @dashelledisna6239

    Жыл бұрын

    True. I can give him my full attention1

  • @ngeeegirl

    @ngeeegirl

    Жыл бұрын

    A very intelligent legend, infuses humour, and deep seated knowledge! Thank God for you sir❤

  • @kellyo4932

    @kellyo4932

    Жыл бұрын

    Pastor K has an amazing way of always adding stories and life events into the Word - makes it so relatable! God bless Him!

  • @anetorsharon7356
    @anetorsharon7356 Жыл бұрын

    Everyone has a spirit that influences them. 👌God changes your nature once you are born again.

  • @tuwirejimusole1673
    @tuwirejimusole1673 Жыл бұрын

    We need a whole year conference in Malawi our men need these messages

  • @kingsman8209
    @kingsman8209 Жыл бұрын

    Thank God for social media, if not where will I listen to this type of massage in my life

  • @IdowuObadeyi
    @IdowuObadeyi Жыл бұрын

    Ah! 44mins just blew past like 4mins; I want the continuation - this is sweet!

  • @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27
    @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27 Жыл бұрын

    Chai Pastor K is something else. His teachings are always so light and fun but very serious and factual. It's the dance everything for me 😅😅😅😅

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 Жыл бұрын

    Hahahahaha pk, you nailed it again. You can't successfully fail without useless friends.

  • @esenamawudey1619
    @esenamawudey1619 Жыл бұрын

    "Is your normal normal? God bless you Pastor. Greetings from Ghana.

  • @gistwithmotayo9109
    @gistwithmotayo9109 Жыл бұрын

    Pastor Kingsley,you are such a blessing to this generation 🔥🔥

  • @amarachianyanwu929
    @amarachianyanwu929 Жыл бұрын

    God bless you greatly Sir 🙌🙏 you're indeed a blessing to our generation.. LORD help to marry right and be the right person take away every spirit of confusion in me and make me focus in fulfilling your purpose in life...

  • @ifeoluwababatope9637

    @ifeoluwababatope9637

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @mbankwenesheronhalle8370
    @mbankwenesheronhalle8370 Жыл бұрын

    This is sooooo true Being on the same path and being aligned

  • @abigailvictor-akaeke3184
    @abigailvictor-akaeke3184 Жыл бұрын

    More grace to you sir.

  • @queenprettyjay2215
    @queenprettyjay2215 Жыл бұрын

    God bless you sir... What a great message

  • @madupraise
    @madupraise Жыл бұрын

    Praise the Lord I am blessed with this words

  • @blessedlilyhumble7287
    @blessedlilyhumble7287 Жыл бұрын

    More grace to you Pastor K. You are really a blessing. Remain blessed.

  • @Rainloveers
    @Rainloveers Жыл бұрын

    Standard and communication 💯

  • @margaretkamara415
    @margaretkamara415 Жыл бұрын

    Omg Pastor K 🤣🤣, may God continue to bless and use you mighty. You and your beautiful wife are a blessing to me

  • @davidpaul9076
    @davidpaul9076 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much God bless you.

  • @pharmclare
    @pharmclare Жыл бұрын

    Well explained Sir. Thanks for sharing

  • @izyomijeh1805
    @izyomijeh1805 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you PK. Your messages are always timely.

  • @amarachichiedozie1115
    @amarachichiedozie1115 Жыл бұрын

    I look forward to watching your videos…, so blessed. Thank you sir

  • @edimepeace5583
    @edimepeace5583 Жыл бұрын

    This was helpful and funny 😎 Thank you pastor k 👏🏼

  • @kelechiuwakonye5683
    @kelechiuwakonye5683 Жыл бұрын

    I laughed at this your story, no be small race o 🤣🤣🤣you are just amazing with your knowledge about marriage, May the oil on your head never run dry.

  • @ngoziejedimu1791
    @ngoziejedimu1791 Жыл бұрын

    I watch some of your videos and almost feel like crying out of regrets. I should have gotten proper help along the way. May I stop beating myself up. 23 years 😔 😔

  • @David_na95

    @David_na95

    Жыл бұрын

    It is well as all hope is not lost,videos and resource materials by Pk and PM can provide some help,believing and trusting God who is able to make all things new too.

  • @abikayministries8043

    @abikayministries8043

    Жыл бұрын

    It's well dear All is not lost Forgive yourself

  • @blessed_one_

    @blessed_one_

    Жыл бұрын

    When you know better, you do better. Stop beating yourself up please. God gives beauty for ashes. Hugs.

  • @relaxationsounds7654
    @relaxationsounds7654 Жыл бұрын

    I really like your teaching, may God bless you and your family

  • @ahimbisibwebonita7598
    @ahimbisibwebonita7598 Жыл бұрын

    Clear standard, vision. Thank you sir

  • @atangalarisatv4350
    @atangalarisatv4350 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you 💕 Daddy K

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir for always pointing us in the right way for our relationships 😊

  • @shekwoloisrael3400
    @shekwoloisrael3400 Жыл бұрын

    A much needed msg for this generation! More grace sir!

  • @edikanudom692
    @edikanudom692 Жыл бұрын

    Pk does it effortlessly You’re a blessing to our generation.

  • @nwobiarita5375
    @nwobiarita5375 Жыл бұрын

    I'm blessed to be a partaker of your teachings

  • @faywhitemann6829
    @faywhitemann6829 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir for this wonderful teaching, i really needed this..

  • @alimiatinuke6125
    @alimiatinuke6125 Жыл бұрын

    @Kingsley Thank you papa

  • @TariaDogood
    @TariaDogood Жыл бұрын

    Pk is killing me here o. Interesting to know and learn from your ministry

  • @elormadih9138
    @elormadih9138 Жыл бұрын

    God bless you pastor

  • @besongefrankowasu185
    @besongefrankowasu185 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much sir for inspiring us in our relationships. May God continue to enrich you in every domain. May humility never depart from you. Amen

  • @evelynlove1033
    @evelynlove1033 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir

  • @muftaumotunrayo7963
    @muftaumotunrayo7963 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Sir.

  • @blessingmemesarinze6923
    @blessingmemesarinze6923 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir 😊

  • @miriananiwoko1620
    @miriananiwoko1620 Жыл бұрын

    Getting addicted to your relationship talk shows learning and seeing if I'm ready for marriage ☺️

  • @preciousglory6735
    @preciousglory6735 Жыл бұрын

    Interesting thank you sir...

  • @chidimma180
    @chidimma180 Жыл бұрын

    First time seeing a newly released video

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 Жыл бұрын

    On point P k.

  • @adeolusunday
    @adeolusunday Жыл бұрын

    thank you sir ❤️❤️❤️

  • @michelleadebiyi2341
    @michelleadebiyi2341 Жыл бұрын

    “ is ur normal, normal? “ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @michaelnnaji158
    @michaelnnaji158 Жыл бұрын

    Precise and full of wisdom

  • @winnerking3582

    @winnerking3582

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir

  • @Amarachukwu_Aforka
    @Amarachukwu_Aforka Жыл бұрын

    I will continue to watch your messages sir, till I get it right

  • @monicadiegboh9339
    @monicadiegboh9339 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you sir am so blessed today watching this great message

  • @vindyprecious1531
    @vindyprecious1531 Жыл бұрын

    Fact 👌 Thank you sir

  • @womanonguard
    @womanonguard Жыл бұрын

    Powerful teaching Sir. It's not about how many supporters(useless supporters) one has it's about being surrounded by expertise

  • @annejokisakye3508
    @annejokisakye3508 Жыл бұрын

    Am blessed so much sir may God continue to anoint you more and may His mighty merciful hand be upon you and mom Mildred your children and children 's children in Jesus's name.

  • @lenogmovieworld2490
    @lenogmovieworld2490 Жыл бұрын

    Inspired

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 Жыл бұрын

    Pastor Kingsley, you won't kill me oo. I love listening to you Jare.

  • @ttfamikel791
    @ttfamikel791 Жыл бұрын

    Awesomeness

  • @called2worship740
    @called2worship740 Жыл бұрын

    Love your sense of humor "going to hell"😂🤣🤣😂😂😂 Thank you Sir 🙏for the wisdom.

  • @synthiandlovu3674
    @synthiandlovu36742 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂 , I laughed my lungs out, about the tik tok dancers

  • @sundaynyerhovwo9505
    @sundaynyerhovwo9505 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much PK😍 Please, sir, is there a message on christians and crushing? Is it wrong to have a crush and how can one handle it? Thanking you sir!🙌

  • @lavviescents460
    @lavviescents460 Жыл бұрын

    I must marry right.

  • @jemimahusoroh5892
    @jemimahusoroh5892 Жыл бұрын

    PK 👏👏👏👏.

  • @kachikwuoluchiphilippa3929
    @kachikwuoluchiphilippa3929Ай бұрын

    When i see the comments from African raised men about a man hitting his wife or any lady, it shows most of our parents did a bad job raising the male children.

  • @francesmbewe8457
    @francesmbewe8457 Жыл бұрын

    Once I climb this holy altar 🤣🤣🤣

  • @maryotitolaye4772
    @maryotitolaye4772 Жыл бұрын

    Such a powerful message. Thank you for always pastor K

  • @davidisaac6521
    @davidisaac6521 Жыл бұрын

    Is true sir the wedding is not the marriage

  • @ezembachinazor1771
    @ezembachinazor1771 Жыл бұрын

    The dance aspect ehhh😂😂😂

  • @adebayoadenike2321
    @adebayoadenike2321 Жыл бұрын

    Pastor K and pastor are my mentors, i want to know how to download and buy your books for singles online

  • @michelleadebiyi2341

    @michelleadebiyi2341

    Жыл бұрын

    Amazon

  • @belindahmuripu7565
    @belindahmuripu7565 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you man of God,your messages blesses me each time,I am confident that I can never make a mistake after hearing such wise words 👏 Greetings from Zimbabwe.

  • @loveth8656
    @loveth8656 Жыл бұрын

    What are some of the questions to ask a guy who asks for ur hand in marriage.

  • @sarahalom4255
    @sarahalom4255 Жыл бұрын

    Pastor K please how can I get your books even if I don't attend the sessions physically.

  • @imonideprecious
    @imonideprecious Жыл бұрын

    First comment 🕺🕺🕺

  • @annesharon2754
    @annesharon2754 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @evelyniziegbe8951
    @evelyniziegbe8951 Жыл бұрын

    Cheating would stop because you say I do!

  • @evaprince5651

    @evaprince5651

    Жыл бұрын

    If u don’t give him want he want, ma’am he will still cheat and get it outside…

  • @olowokereflorence755
    @olowokereflorence755 Жыл бұрын

    💕💕

  • @callmezolo
    @callmezolo Жыл бұрын

    THE CEREMONY AND ALL THE SEREEREE is not the marriage... Do small wedding party and discharge the people, then go home and face the real isssues of marriage

  • @nnenniaifepe5073

    @nnenniaifepe5073

    Жыл бұрын

    @callmezolo, some folks have small weddings and end up getting divorced and I know this because I m a lawyer. The success of the marriage is not known by whether one has big or small wedding. The question is thus," How prepared are the parties involved?

  • @callmezolo

    @callmezolo

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nnenniaifepe5073 true too.! .. i just feel anniversary should be celebrated bigger than the one-time wedding.. infact, weddings should never be LOUD 📢

  • @nyokabikidjo
    @nyokabikidjo Жыл бұрын

    this is good content but too many ads. just too many

  • @asabosah2366

    @asabosah2366

    Жыл бұрын

    precisely 😮

  • @MaryIke
    @MaryIke Жыл бұрын

    Here i am thinking I was the first person notified 🤣🤣🤣

  • @akandecynthia4275

    @akandecynthia4275

    Жыл бұрын

    😄😄 I know right

  • @oyinbokurekomeh9804
    @oyinbokurekomeh9804 Жыл бұрын

    ❤😍🥰🔥

  • @faith_starry
    @faith_starry Жыл бұрын

    Please how do you savage a marriage where the husband doesn't make the right financial decision and he keeps failing in providing for the family? To worsen it, he asks his wife to provide for the house and take care of bills for him.

  • @veronicaijeoma3591
    @veronicaijeoma3591 Жыл бұрын

    Is there any room to make amends? I caught my fiance in bed with another lady, he didn't beat me but he chased me out of his house. We are married now and he still sleeps around. He said he isn't cheating on me...that he is entitled to having more than one wife. I know that I am supposed to leave but then I don't even know where to start from.

  • @chichikekeocha5264

    @chichikekeocha5264

    Жыл бұрын

    Is he willing to attend counselling with you? Pastor Kingsley and his wife offer counselling.

  • @veronicaijeoma3591

    @veronicaijeoma3591

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chichikekeocha5264 I might be able to convince him....can I afford the fee for the counselling?

  • @kinginspirationchannel7539

    @kinginspirationchannel7539

    Жыл бұрын

    You should have ended the relationship when you were still dating when he cheated on you. That was the red flag but you didn't see it....... Just continue to pray for him and get him to meet a real man of God to counsel and pray for him

  • @joyerumonah7832

    @joyerumonah7832

    Жыл бұрын

    You heard what pK said use your head not your heart if he cheated on you now in a relationship, he will still cheat on you in marriage Alright

  • @Joydan6666

    @Joydan6666

    Жыл бұрын

    The mistake has been made just continue praying till he changes

  • @salvationbookstores4381
    @salvationbookstores4381 Жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣