MANAGING YOUR EMOTIONS | E Motions | Pastor mildred kingsley-okonkwo

God has given us the tools to manage our emotions. But one of the greatest enemies to managing our emotions is EXCUSES. "That is the way I am"
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  • @fadzaimhlanga4131
    @fadzaimhlanga41318 күн бұрын

    Everytime you like my comment l will be reminded to rewatch this beautiful message 💖

  • @damilolaogundele4479
    @damilolaogundele44793 жыл бұрын

    She said when you keep someone in prison, you’re also in prison because you have to keep watching over the person. The difference is just the other side of the bar you’re. Forgiveness sets you free and gives you peace. Thanks ma

  • @daviskipleting571

    @daviskipleting571

    2 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/dGdlltyAirPbk84.html

  • @eljovicorganics3053

    @eljovicorganics3053

    2 жыл бұрын

    Inspiring, fnx ma.

  • @shonelcmulenga

    @shonelcmulenga

    2 жыл бұрын

    It was my fav part am touched

  • @ladystephanieblessings1171

    @ladystephanieblessings1171

    2 жыл бұрын

    In short I am saved 👏👏👏👏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @angelsonnie7341

    @angelsonnie7341

    2 жыл бұрын

    True that

  • @ndivhuwotshivhase9648
    @ndivhuwotshivhase96489 күн бұрын

    "The word of God must be stronger than what you feeel"

  • @hoc_by_fe
    @hoc_by_fe Жыл бұрын

    One of the reasons I love Pastor M so much is how real she is about her struggles. It really encourages me and gives me hope that with consistent partnership with God, I can improve and become a better version of myself. Thank you so much ma for being a huge blessing ♥

  • @missb1919
    @missb19192 жыл бұрын

    One thing I love about this woman of God is that she is real; she has experienced the things she preaches about; she knows the pain; she knows how difficult it is but she says: with the love and word of God we can conquer all those hurtful emotions. That is what real Christianity is all about. Thank you ma and may God continue to use you.🙏♥️

  • @yollandabottoman4234
    @yollandabottoman42349 ай бұрын

    Literally crying right now. I have never been this angry in my life. And i have just stumbled over this message. This message is for me 😭😭 God help me

  • @djomovanessa

    @djomovanessa

    5 ай бұрын

    Sending love ❤

  • @babsbarry7042

    @babsbarry7042

    4 ай бұрын

    God help you. Amen

  • @ngomorastella1091
    @ngomorastella10918 ай бұрын

    "If things are bad,God is the only reason why they are not worse!" Thank you God!

  • @dinmadivine7068
    @dinmadivine70682 жыл бұрын

    Don’t let people turn you to evil because of the evil they’re

  • @annettemkandawire3041

    @annettemkandawire3041

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @adadaddy9251
    @adadaddy92512 жыл бұрын

    The Word of God must be stronger than what you feel 18:46

  • @tomilolacindarella2314
    @tomilolacindarella2314 Жыл бұрын

    I was here planning revenge on someone when I started watching this video, I let it all go. God bless you ma

  • @Debs567

    @Debs567

    14 күн бұрын

    God bless you for letting go. Revenge is only to God. May the Lord heal your pain and compensate you ten times. Roman’s 12:17 Never hold a grudge but plan your life around the noblest ways to favor instead. Discover the beauty in everyone! God bless you indeed🙏🏿❤

  • @nojudgmentqueen
    @nojudgmentqueen3 жыл бұрын

    If not for Christ a lot of people will have been dead by now, I thank God for His spirit.

  • @blessedn4614
    @blessedn46143 жыл бұрын

    Triggers are caused by unhealed emotions mostly Childhood wounds...once we HEAL and involve God in it it helps a lot. I have been there, a melancholy too and still work in progress I thank God for compassion

  • @girlsrock4876

    @girlsrock4876

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for saying this. Been there too and am also a MelPlehg. Make Sure to Heal every Kind of Trauma.

  • @celestebrito8071
    @celestebrito80712 жыл бұрын

    To see a woman of God so true to the weaknesses and fragility of the flesh 😧😧😧 it is not weakness that is being exposed but indeed the great abundance of Gods grace. It’s not by might not power but by the Spirit. Thank you woman of God for preaching with your own self as the central point we need more of this in the body of Christ. To often leaders paint themselves in such perfection that it makes those seeking God feel like less than or unqualified. God bless you and your ministry. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @abopeace3640
    @abopeace36402 жыл бұрын

    This woman of God is very real. She's talking about her journey and it helps encourage us that we can get there too.

  • @therryzahgambrah1028
    @therryzahgambrah1028 Жыл бұрын

    I have listened to this sermon for over 100times… My daily pills😍

  • @midnightstar3340
    @midnightstar33402 жыл бұрын

    "The more you pray for those that have offended you.The more your spirit will strengthen and the flesh will weaken".I want this for myself 🤲

  • @sundayjonah9900

    @sundayjonah9900

    Жыл бұрын

    The more you fulfil the desire of the spirit. For as many that are led by the spirit these are the sons of God.

  • @omosighookunzuwa3775
    @omosighookunzuwa3775 Жыл бұрын

    The Word of God must be stronger than what you feel

  • @loritacrystal2646

    @loritacrystal2646

    7 күн бұрын

    Yes

  • @mosesojo4728
    @mosesojo47282 жыл бұрын

    I can't stop listening to Pastor Mildred, honestly. Her message is always simple and clear.

  • @Ad-ds3dg
    @Ad-ds3dg3 жыл бұрын

    Finaly i found somebody who's reactions and thought patterns are like me. Thank you woman of God.

  • @silvanamounkondila2106

    @silvanamounkondila2106

    3 жыл бұрын

    I truly found myself in her as well and her experiences have just given me divine directions on how to pray for myself and I thank God for her life and testimony.

  • @lovefelix1566

    @lovefelix1566

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too... Similar in demeanor and thought process...

  • @onchegrace7522

    @onchegrace7522

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kai, this is real Christianity with out pretence or just theory . God bless you. I have been blessed with your teaching.

  • @lloydawoko163

    @lloydawoko163

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hehehe. Am a victim too

  • @Ceciliasjourney

    @Ceciliasjourney

    2 жыл бұрын

    I knowwww me too!!

  • @margaretikona5382
    @margaretikona5382 Жыл бұрын

    I find it hard to forgive but with ur teaching am beginning to forgive wholeheartedly😭

  • @pelumiadekoya4620
    @pelumiadekoya46203 жыл бұрын

    I just found a new mentor. I am grateful for the gift of YOU. Thank you for being a blessing

  • @raissaetuge425

    @raissaetuge425

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @cakesncupcakes

    @cakesncupcakes

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me 3 ooo

  • @nojudgmentqueen

    @nojudgmentqueen

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me 4 oo

  • @adeyemifunmilayo1953

    @adeyemifunmilayo1953

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@raissaetuge425 7LPp

  • @Africafolktalescorner

    @Africafolktalescorner

    3 жыл бұрын

    This woman is great

  • @Joyceamisi
    @Joyceamisi2 жыл бұрын

    I never knew I haven’t forgiven my father who died 8 years ago but thanks to the wisdom of pst mildred I’ve free myself and him from the prison we were both 😇 Thankful to God Almighty

  • @sophyeneh
    @sophyeneh2 жыл бұрын

    This is the best ever Life-Saver Message😖😖😔😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏.. I have ever listened to!💯💯🙌. Holy Spirit🙇😢 I surrender completely and totally to You and Your Ways and Wills🙏, Please help me to be A good Representative of Christ...in my everyday life with You in Jesus name. Amen!!!🙏😭

  • @sundayjonah9900

    @sundayjonah9900

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi SOPHY, I also had suffered or still suffering from it. But I am on my way to overcoming it. How? Practically applying the word of God daily and through prayer. Remember, it is the spirit that quickens the flesh the flesh profited nothing.

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix15663 жыл бұрын

    The Word of God must be stronger than your feelings/emotions... than anger

  • @maxineadderley5378
    @maxineadderley53782 жыл бұрын

    Forgiveness is a choice, but forgetting is not.. the difference is how you react in remembering.. that will determine if you have truly (forgiven). You will remember when you see the offender, but you will not feel offended

  • @komuhangikate7468
    @komuhangikate74685 ай бұрын

    The word of God must be stronger than what you feel. Thank you so much mama Mildred. You are truly a woman of God.

  • @nadjeremy6635
    @nadjeremy66352 жыл бұрын

    29:35... 'your flesh will become quieter and the spirit strong' Thank You Lord

  • @amaraokenwa3853
    @amaraokenwa385311 ай бұрын

    I cried watching this because I can understand everything Pastor he said. But the Holy Spirit keeps reminding me that I am a love being and I have to love people the way He ha loved me. That is what is keeping me going. I trust this process God is taking me through.

  • @levineakampa9432
    @levineakampa943211 күн бұрын

    Mbu smoke is coming. Ps. Mildred will finish me 1 day with laughter.

  • @missyngaks7903
    @missyngaks79032 жыл бұрын

    Today I had a great day since I found you suddenly in this site pastor midled kingsley, am in real bad side with ma husband and I cry with this darkness in a month now....but since the time I found u in today you open my heart and I feel free fast than I never expected Thank you so much, I can't explain....please be blessed forever🙏

  • @lamanyeberedugo1100
    @lamanyeberedugo11003 жыл бұрын

    I have a lot against my ex to the extend praying evil for him but have forgiven him

  • @juliusjonathan2023

    @juliusjonathan2023

    2 жыл бұрын

    Abeg leggo.. focus on the bigger deals ahead

  • @SangaiMoliwuloBrowngirl
    @SangaiMoliwuloBrowngirl3 жыл бұрын

    Now I understand the strange works of the holy spirit. This message came just when I am building excuses for unforgiveness. Thank you Pastor M, God has sent you to give me this message even though it has been in existence since February 2020. God, I give you the glory and praise for showing me a way out.

  • @isiomachristianmorka3920
    @isiomachristianmorka39203 жыл бұрын

    This is the second time I am listening to this sermon, I don’t know if I am doing the right thing but one thing I know is that this precious sermon is what I needed right now.😊😊😊

  • @sundayjonah9900

    @sundayjonah9900

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Isioma, you can tell whether you doing what is right or wrong. You see the Bible is there to direct our footsteps as we work in this gloomy dark world. It is a light on the part of those who believe. Read it to be wise, believe it to be safe, and practice it to be holy. It contains light to direct you, food to support you, and comfort to cheer you. As you read you pray and meditate on it. And you will begin to bear the fruit of the Spirit. Galatians 5:22‭-‬24 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things, there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.

  • @faithogbeide8529

    @faithogbeide8529

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix15663 жыл бұрын

    Love is your greatest weapon. When you fight with love, God will fight for you!!!

  • @dhebrahaditaa6605
    @dhebrahaditaa66052 жыл бұрын

    God is so amazing! See a person who struggled with unforgiveness now teaching about overcoming it. Helping others come out of it. Forgiveness is really faith and we are truly comforted by the comfort we have received. Thanks for being a blessing ma!

  • @comfortjimoh7393

    @comfortjimoh7393

    Жыл бұрын

    Hmmmmm. God help me.

  • @johnred4512
    @johnred45123 жыл бұрын

    Those people 12 People that disliked this video enh On behalf of Pst M I forgive you Smh 😏

  • @blanchkuitat5021

    @blanchkuitat5021

    3 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @amechimogekwu4735
    @amechimogekwu47353 жыл бұрын

    It's very hard... May God help us... Pastor M is so real, unlike a lot of children of God who always wanna make us feel like the Lord is not with us. GOD BLESS YOU MA FOR THIS MESSAGE. I teared up while watching this and I just had to forgive. A very hard thing to do by the way😢

  • @seleghascrew

    @seleghascrew

    2 жыл бұрын

    Girrrrrl.....she is super real.

  • @patiencebulere
    @patiencebulere3 жыл бұрын

    😭😭😭😭😭 God draw here tonight, omg, I don’t even know what to say. But all i can say is God please forgive me and give me the grace to let it go😭😭. Thank you ma for this message, more grace in Jesus name, your anointing will never dry in Jesus name. Amen 🙏

  • @sundayjonah9900

    @sundayjonah9900

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Patience, I also had suffered or still suffering from it. But I am on my way to overcoming it. How? Practically applying the word of God daily and through prayer. Remember, it is the spirit that quickens the flesh profited nothing.

  • @stanleyidiwat2094

    @stanleyidiwat2094

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi patience, I am happy to see this reply here, I want you to know that there are people that were worse than you, but they have changed. I want to show you some of the ways that you can forgive someone that easily. You may think you have forgiven the person, but you were just saying it with your mouth. I want to show you the easier way to forgive, and the method will help you. this are some of the ways that will help you forgive: 1. Go to your bible app, type the word or search the bible ord anger. When you do that, all the bible passage that talks about anger in the bible will be highlighted. Take a pen, and note book, and study those passages, and take notes, purse at a certain point that really touch you, and pray with that passage. When you see another point that touch you, purse and pray with it, do like that till you finish all those passages. This other method, will help you fight the anger. It will help you resist or fight anger in and our life a little. 2. The word of God is the sword of the spirit. Make sure you read your bible daily, don't stop even in a day. As you continue reading or studying your bible, you can start from new testament first. As you continue, the word of God will wash you, and you will look at yourself and couldn't recognize yourself again. You will ask yourself, is this me? You will realize that it is not only anger that will leave, so many other things will leave. 3. When ever you try to forgive someone, and you couldn't, just tell God father please forgive this person. I know it will be hard,but pray it, also pray for God to bless the person. Whenever the hatred for the person comes, pray for God to bless the person. You will realize one day that you start liking the person. The first day I prayed for God to forgive the person that offended me, I was crying. It was had, but I forced myself to do it, and in the process, God gave me a new song, and also spoke to me. If you follow this steps, you will thank me tomorrow. There are many testimonies from this, especially the one of reading your bible, and praying for the person, and you can't be an exception. If you have questions, write me. idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com

  • @estadastarbeauty2426
    @estadastarbeauty24263 жыл бұрын

    I literally cried. It's hard but I'm willing to submit to God's word concerning forgiveness. Edit: I've yet to understand why it is that some people put a '👎' on these videos like... What on God's good earth is wrong with you???

  • @nee6102

    @nee6102

    2 жыл бұрын

    Forgive them for they know not what they do

  • @sundayjonah9900

    @sundayjonah9900

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi ESTADASTAR, I also had suffered or still suffering from it. But I am on my way to overcoming it. How? Practically applying the word of God daily and through prayer. Remember, it is the spirit that quickens the flesh the flesh profited nothing. Through the application of the word of God, the s made flesh in us and we live not to fulfil the desires of the flesh but rather the desire of the spirit of God.

  • @stanleyidiwat2094

    @stanleyidiwat2094

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Estadastar , I am happy to see this reply here, I want you to know that there are people that were worse than you, but they have changed. I want to show you some of the ways that you can forgive someone that easily. You may think you have forgiven the person, but you were just saying it with your mouth. I want to show you the easier way to forgive, and the method will help you. this are some of the ways that will help you forgive: 1. Go to your bible app, type the word or search the bible ord anger. When you do that, all the bible passage that talks about anger in the bible will be highlighted. Take a pen, and note book, and study those passages, and take notes, purse at a certain point that really touch you, and pray with that passage. When you see another point that touch you, purse and pray with it, do like that till you finish all those passages. This other method, will help you fight the anger. It will help you resist or fight anger in and our life a little. 2. The word of God is the sword of the spirit. Make sure you read your bible daily, don't stop even in a day. As you continue reading or studying your bible, you can start from new testament first. As you continue, the word of God will wash you, and you will look at yourself and couldn't recognize yourself again. You will ask yourself, is this me? You will realize that it is not only anger that will leave, so many other things will leave. 3. When ever you try to forgive someone, and you couldn't, just tell God father please forgive this person. I know it will be hard,but pray it, also pray for God to bless the person. Whenever the hatred for the person comes, pray for God to bless the person. You will realize one day that you start liking the person. The first day I prayed for God to forgive the person that offended me, I was crying. It was had, but I forced myself to do it, and in the process, God gave me a new song, and also spoke to me. If you follow this steps, you will thank me tomorrow. There are many testimonies from this, especially the one of reading your bible, and praying for the person, and you can't be an exception. If you have questions, write me. idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com

  • @shayshay6374
    @shayshay6374 Жыл бұрын

    Omg I wished I could sit under her I love how real she is but yet has a heart for God to teach us and help us grow listening from Chicago

  • @YemiOluseun
    @YemiOluseun3 жыл бұрын

    This was too real...Thank you so much for being 100% authentic. Thank you. You remind me of Joyce Meyer. More Grace!

  • @lovornye

    @lovornye

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @divineceleste.m
    @divineceleste.m4 жыл бұрын

    This was a hard message for me! Forgiveness is indeed the highest form of faith. I have alot of learning & growing up to do in this subject matter. Thank you for this wonderful teaching Pastor M- very insightful.

  • @daviskipleting571

    @daviskipleting571

    2 жыл бұрын

    kzread.info/dash/bejne/dGdlltyAirPbk84.html

  • @angelinamazula9328

    @angelinamazula9328

    2 жыл бұрын

    And this point if saying I have forgiven but I will never forget seriously woman of God you just talked with my life.... I owez move around with a bleeding heart..... This is really insightful

  • @jennypereogbe1053

    @jennypereogbe1053

    2 жыл бұрын

    This hit me hard n broke me it broke me . Thank you JESUS. Thank u ma. I pray the holyspirit helps me thru this journey in JESUS NAME AMEN

  • @hannahglover6514

    @hannahglover6514

    2 жыл бұрын

    6

  • @sundayjonah9900

    @sundayjonah9900

    Жыл бұрын

    I remember early last year where I use to stay, my landlord offended me so badly that I made up my mind that I will never forgive him at all, But everything changed as I heard a similar message as this, which affected my life. So I made practical steps to forgive myself first of all and settled the case in my mind; this is where most battles are won or lost, THE MIND. The next thing I did was to start praying for him I.e. my landlord (note: praying for him not against him), though it was painful to me sha..! But I continued to pray, and gradually it started to die down and now my heart is free from every grudge I had against him. Why I'm I saying all these? It is through a practical step that we overcome unforgivingness.

  • @agapembise3518
    @agapembise3518 Жыл бұрын

    I love the Sincerity of this Woman of God

  • @loritacrystal2646
    @loritacrystal26467 күн бұрын

    This woman you are so real, thank you so much.... this massage is very timely

  • @oghalemercy
    @oghalemercy2 жыл бұрын

    Is in why haven't I come across this woman and her husband since? My God!!! They such a blessing to me since I came across them online. God bless you both for saying yes to the Lord.

  • @churchinn

    @churchinn

    Жыл бұрын

    They are a great blessing to this generation

  • @trishnisha4607
    @trishnisha46073 жыл бұрын

    I like your sermon 😀😀especially the part you said Satan will give you supportive words(completely,at all and fast😀😀😀)

  • @dinmadivine7068
    @dinmadivine70682 жыл бұрын

    God expects you not to be led by your feelings but to manage them

  • @Cryonic7740
    @Cryonic77402 жыл бұрын

    One thing I love about this pastor is that she keeps it real. She doesn’t pretend like she’s inhuman because she walks with the lord. Some may judge, even myself I thought what kind of pastor is this. At the end, the relatability factor is what makes the difference and I’m so glad to have come across this message today. I am one of those that say “it’s okay” and think I’ve forgiven and but deep down i consider that person dead to me. Truly a challenge to try and live in the likeness of Christ, but everyday we have to try.

  • @jacquelinedede692
    @jacquelinedede692 Жыл бұрын

    She is real,not as faking,her words are natural not movie preaching

  • @chinyereirabor1897
    @chinyereirabor18972 жыл бұрын

    Pastor Mildred, God Bless you richly for this message, you're so so real and so Truthful. The you I knew back then in the University is totally different from the you am seeing now. Everytime I listen to your message I always learn something New. I thought I've got it all with the teachings on forgiveness, am one of those people that forgives easily but you took me thru a different dimension on this teaching. I pray God keeps increasing you in his Wisdom and Knowledge, you're a Blessing to Pastor K, the church of God and to this Generation. God Bless you Richly ma.

  • @plamialuisa823
    @plamialuisa8232 жыл бұрын

    I almost choked with laughter listening to this message. And i believe it will change me, because am melancholy in nature. Weldon Pastor Mildred 🥰

  • @tiwuhsergemukala9653
    @tiwuhsergemukala9653 Жыл бұрын

    I'm grateful! - you know there's one thing I love about you is " kingdom " You align the difference between the world and the kingdom.

  • @besgordon
    @besgordon2 жыл бұрын

    I used to be so angry so I understand...thank you for this message. Anger shuts you down completely and you lose control, hence the reason we live by the knowledge of God's word instead of our emotions

  • @susanrachuonyo254
    @susanrachuonyo2543 жыл бұрын

    The Word of God must be Stronger than how you feel...

  • @sandradollar359
    @sandradollar3593 жыл бұрын

    I thought I have been the only one in this unforgiveness act, I dont fight but I meditate on offense and get justification for myself but thank God for Holy Spirit. Finally God gave me a mentor Pastor Mildred I love you bcos you're real and God sent you to me personal. I can't wait to meet you in person

  • @cynthiasmith6913
    @cynthiasmith69133 жыл бұрын

    I don't know how I came here but I am glad i am here. I bless by your message. I am trying to manage my emotions. I just blocked my fiance on every social media because of anger. I came to KZread to listen to music and i saw this. Thanks for blessing me

  • @abigailadu6183

    @abigailadu6183

    3 жыл бұрын

    God be with you and envelop you with mighty love, peace and strenght. Amen. Peace be with you, sister

  • @cynthiasmith6913

    @cynthiasmith6913

    3 жыл бұрын

    Abigail Adu Amen 🙏! Thanks so much for your kind words

  • @Thetemiloluwa.adegboye
    @Thetemiloluwa.adegboye2 жыл бұрын

    Forgiveness is indeed a challenge but may God give us the grace as humans to practice such quality 🙏

  • @ChidinmaIsu
    @ChidinmaIsu9 ай бұрын

    "God can never give you something that you can't handle".😊

  • @Okehflorence
    @Okehflorence8 ай бұрын

    God doesn’t give you what he knows you cannot handle and don’t let people change who you are Florence.❤

  • @purityokalo2316
    @purityokalo2316 Жыл бұрын

    If things are bad God is the only reason they are not worse

  • @helenamarachi6031
    @helenamarachi60312 жыл бұрын

    Forgiveness brings freedom. You become a mistery.

  • @fionapeprah6277
    @fionapeprah6277 Жыл бұрын

    I watch most of your sermons here but this one right here makes my spirit uncomfortable. There’s a lady who’s offended me which I thought I’d forgiven but upon hearing this word, I’m not really sure I’ve forgiven that person. I pray the Holy Spirit will keep working in me and grant me that strength and grace to forgive her. God bless you so much for this word pastor🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Sophiepaul91
    @Sophiepaul912 жыл бұрын

    I struggle with forgiveness because I'm so hot tempered. Thanks to God for His grace. I have been blessed by this message greatly. God bless you servant of God.

  • @Prophetessdaejaligula

    @Prophetessdaejaligula

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too but we have to pray for God to help us with this temper

  • @stanleyidiwat2094

    @stanleyidiwat2094

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Prophetessdaejaligula Hi Mrs Daeja, you know, sometimes you think you have forgiven, but it is still in your heart. Well, the way out is for you to pray to God to forgive the person that offend you. You may say I have forgiven, but it is still in your heart. Just pray to God to forgive them, and be sincere. I know it may be hard. I remember the day I asked God to forgive someone that has been in my heart for months, I cried, I couldn't really hold back the tears. But from that day, my healing began, and I realize that after some days, I was free with them, I didn't have anything against them anymore. For the case of being hot tempered, the first thing to do is to go to your bible app, search for anger, every place that anger is mentioned in the bible will show there put your phone in flight mode, take a pen and a book, study and write down notes. When you see a place that touch you, purse, pray with it, and asked God to help you according to what the place says. After that, continue studying untill you finish or had studied all the portion of that bible that talked about anger. When ever you are angry, take a deep breath, don't speak for 5 seconds take a deep breath. Then after that respond. For more or for questions you might want to ask, write me. idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com

  • @shalenelewis2031
    @shalenelewis20312 жыл бұрын

    The one you help the most is always the one who hurt u the most.😔😔

  • @mafunasekaisi2290

    @mafunasekaisi2290

    Жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @maxineadderley5378
    @maxineadderley53782 жыл бұрын

    Sacrificial praises is necessary when things are going wrong.. it’s our best weapon 🙏🙌

  • @graceodey1003
    @graceodey10038 күн бұрын

    This massage has healed me. God bless you ma.

  • @officialfavourasamah8942
    @officialfavourasamah8942 Жыл бұрын

    I have been seeing this video for a while now.. and I just scroll pass it... but today I got hurt deeply.. and i wanted to just listen to some worship.. and this video came up again.. I decided to watch it.. its was exactly what I needed to hear at this point.. am so bless and God bless you..

  • @agyapongmaapriscilla1789
    @agyapongmaapriscilla17892 жыл бұрын

    I've not regretted listening to you Woman of God. May God bless you for every single word that was spoken through you to me.

  • @babiryeannette77
    @babiryeannette773 жыл бұрын

    Anger has been a challenge to me. I have tried to fight it with God's grace, but today u have taught me to manage it in Jesus Christ might name.

  • @sundayjonah9900

    @sundayjonah9900

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Babirye, I also had suffered or still suffering from it. But I am on my way to overcoming it. How? By Practically applying the word of God daily and through prayer. Remember, it is the spirit that quicken the flesh the flesh profited nothing.

  • @babiryeannette77

    @babiryeannette77

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sundayjonah9900 Thank you dear

  • @stanleyidiwat2094

    @stanleyidiwat2094

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Babirye Annette, I am happy to see this reply here, I want you to know that there are people that were worse than you, but they have changed. I want to show you some of the ways that you can forgive someone that easily. You may think you have forgiven the person, but you were just saying it with your mouth. I want to show you the easier way to forgive, and the method will help you. this are some of the ways that will help you forgive: 1. Go to your bible app, type the word or search the bible ord anger. When you do that, all the bible passage that talks about anger in the bible will be highlighted. Take a pen, and note book, and study those passages, and take notes, purse at a certain point that really touch you, and pray with that passage. When you see another point that touch you, purse and pray with it, do like that till you finish all those passages. This other method, will help you fight the anger. It will help you resist or fight anger in and our life a little. 2. The word of God is the sword of the spirit. Make sure you read your bible daily, don't stop even in a day. As you continue reading or studying your bible, you can start from new testament first. As you continue, the word of God will wash you, and you will look at yourself and couldn't recognize yourself again. You will ask yourself, is this me? You will realize that it is not only anger that will leave, so many other things will leave. 3. When ever you try to forgive someone, and you couldn't, just tell God father please forgive this person. I know it will be hard,but pray it, also pray for God to bless the person. Whenever the hatred for the person comes, pray for God to bless the person. You will realize one day that you start liking the person. The first day I prayed for God to forgive the person that offended me, I was crying. It was had, but I forced myself to do it, and in the process, God gave me a new song, and also spoke to me. If you follow this steps, you will thank me tomorrow. There are many testimonies from this, especially the one of reading your bible, and praying for the person, and you can't be an exception. If you have questions, write me. idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com

  • @favourononujuossai-zx6vr
    @favourononujuossai-zx6vr Жыл бұрын

    God doesn’t give you something he thinks you can’t handle

  • @godsfavourite396
    @godsfavourite3963 жыл бұрын

    The only reason you think you don't have what to thank God for is because you've not taken time to count your blessings

  • @joyyoung742
    @joyyoung7422 ай бұрын

    This msg is an answer to what I'm going through.God bless you ma'am.the weight is lifted by His word.

  • @chi_dilim
    @chi_dilim Жыл бұрын

    I come from a Christian background and I was trained to let go of things, as the scripture says if someone slaps you on one cheek, turn the other cheek. So most of the times I always feel weak, feel like I am not sensitive and I am not normal. And I'm dealing with low self-esteem and self criticism, to the point that I blame myself and my background and then I begin to doubt, sometimes I feel like expressing my anger and other emotions will help me to feel more human. It's been really tough.

  • @BeeSk2121

    @BeeSk2121

    Ай бұрын

    I can relate with what you wrote. I have been learning gradually to recognise and acknowledge my self worth while recognising I need to grow for me. I am not emotional person and tend to think everyone is better. I am gradually growing with the HolySpirit recognizing that I cannot do it on my own. I have cried to God in prayers because I did not know what to do at some points in the past. It may not be the easiest journey but Walk with God and He would make it possible.

  • @lovechinmandubuisi3623
    @lovechinmandubuisi36233 жыл бұрын

    I wish I can like, and love this video 1000times

  • @judeakpobasa8901
    @judeakpobasa89013 жыл бұрын

    This is so real! Thanks and thumbs up, Pastors... I'm hardly a fan of non-Catholic preaching, but you've spoken loads of realistic truth. Keep it up!

  • @daviskipleting571

    @daviskipleting571

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @namusabimariam4734

    @namusabimariam4734

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow......thank you for this teaching woman of God. I needed this massage 💆‍♂️ at this time. Lol from Uganda

  • @oluebubeobi9343

    @oluebubeobi9343

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am a Catholic too. But, this is inspiring

  • @amarachinkisi-orji71
    @amarachinkisi-orji71 Жыл бұрын

    this message is so timely and accurate. we need to forgive and move on. Thank you Pastor Mildred. it is always refreshing listening to your messages

  • @Joyce_Chijioke
    @Joyce_Chijioke2 жыл бұрын

    The word of God must be stronger than your emotions.. Hallelujah..☺️🥰

  • @jenagya7855
    @jenagya78553 жыл бұрын

    This is a very hard truth and educative....may God grant us the to live a holy and rightous life cos I don't want to miss heaven.

  • @graceakpan1616
    @graceakpan1616 Жыл бұрын

    Oh my God, ma'am you are talking to me oooo I couldn't if laugh even when you were funny bcos I see myself in all you have said and mine is worst bcos it's over little things. Anger and I pray God have mercy on me 😭😭😭

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix15663 жыл бұрын

    God doesn't give you something that He doesn't trust you can handle...

  • @loritacrystal2646
    @loritacrystal26467 күн бұрын

    Love 💞 you so much pastor M

  • @sopuruchidarling7226
    @sopuruchidarling72262 жыл бұрын

    This message went deep into my heart..Anger and unforgiveness is a lifestyle for me ..Thank you so much for this peace you just brought into my life.God bless you ma.I mentor you for this grace..

  • @marieasangwe4453
    @marieasangwe44532 жыл бұрын

    Log out or stonewall, all of me, no resentment no affection. I’m free from holding anyone. The Word & Holy Spirit makes the walk easy. Soo blessed

  • @salomemunukayumbwa9171
    @salomemunukayumbwa91713 жыл бұрын

    Am blessed by this word...frm 🇿🇲Zambia

  • @chilizzylizzy5234
    @chilizzylizzy52342 жыл бұрын

    You're a Divine Gift, thank you so much Ma. You hit and confirmed that point which the holy spirit ministered to me " don't let people change you or who you want to be"

  • @olatejuibiyomi6886

    @olatejuibiyomi6886

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well said ma, more of God's grace in Jesus mighty name amen

  • @loritacrystal2646
    @loritacrystal26467 күн бұрын

    Praise God 🙏

  • @dagogoalabota4118
    @dagogoalabota41183 жыл бұрын

    The word of God must be stronger than what you feel. So true ma'am. Haleluyah.

  • @luckyeresuccess8967
    @luckyeresuccess8967 Жыл бұрын

    Have fall in love with this Woman of God, the teaching are very powerful and so touching. There's no day I don't listen to her teaches. Oh God lift your servant above this level more and more IJN. I am well loaded with her teaches and am bless.

  • @raissasongwa7100
    @raissasongwa71002 жыл бұрын

    So sincere, so real, when you fight with love God always fights for you…🥺🥺🥺🔥🔥🔥so powerful Pastor M, I’m a melancholic too so I feel every word you say…God is taking me through the journey. Be blessed🙏🏽🥰

  • @nyivururesper2754
    @nyivururesper27543 жыл бұрын

    I've found a new mentor in you Pr. Mildred. Thanks for sharing the word with all honesty and zeal. May the lord bless you continuously.

  • @user-pd5oq6nl2o
    @user-pd5oq6nl2o3 ай бұрын

    Thank you women of God I didn't know you a friend of mine told me about you and I lesson your preaching and I was blessed . Right now my husband left me it's been 2 years now life was difficult , please women of God pray for me , your teaching help me to know who I am ❤❤I'm from South Africa I'm Thandeka

  • @GoldenCrownEntertainmentTV
    @GoldenCrownEntertainmentTV Жыл бұрын

    People say that love is blind but anger seems to be more blind bc it yields dangerous results

  • @BakeInngh
    @BakeInngh2 жыл бұрын

    ...The more your flesh will be weakened 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @irenekend
    @irenekend2 жыл бұрын

    Love is the greatest weapon. When you fight with love always God always fight for you

  • @edenphilemon7459
    @edenphilemon74598 ай бұрын

    Jesus was tempted in every point of life so that when He tells me to do something I can know that he understands how it feels and He thinks so highly of me that I can be like Him and also overcome.

  • @kanyadishi1346
    @kanyadishi13462 жыл бұрын

    The sense of calmness I have watching this 😌

  • @uchok3051
    @uchok30513 жыл бұрын

    I like this sermon.i want to hear more about how you overcame the spirit if anger (or anger that leads to sin)...as you were talking i just saw how similar we are🤣🤣only that i haven't slapped or slammed someone onto a car.but i will bottle up,spark plot revenge(cool down) etc. Thank God for jesus...love conquers all

  • @stanleyidiwat2094

    @stanleyidiwat2094

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi uch ok, I am happy to see this reply here, I want you to know that there are people that were worse than you, but they have changed. I want to show you some of the ways that you can forgive someone that easily. You may think you have forgiven the person, but you were just saying it with your mouth. I want to show you the easier way to forgive, and the method will help you. this are some of the ways that will help you forgive: 1. Go to your bible app, type the word or search the bible ord anger. When you do that, all the bible passage that talks about anger in the bible will be highlighted. Take a pen, and note book, and study those passages, and take notes, purse at a certain point that really touch you, and pray with that passage. When you see another point that touch you, purse and pray with it, do like that till you finish all those passages. This other method, will help you fight the anger. It will help you resist or fight anger in and our life a little. 2. The word of God is the sword of the spirit. Make sure you read your bible daily, don't stop even in a day. As you continue reading or studying your bible, you can start from new testament first. As you continue, the word of God will wash you, and you will look at yourself and couldn't recognize yourself again. You will ask yourself, is this me? You will realize that it is not only anger that will leave, so many other things will leave. 3. When ever you try to forgive someone, and you couldn't, just tell God father please forgive this person. I know it will be hard,but pray it, also pray for God to bless the person. Whenever the hatred for the person comes, pray for God to bless the person. You will realize one day that you start liking the person. The first day I prayed for God to forgive the person that offended me, I was crying. It was had, but I forced myself to do it, and in the process, God gave me a new song, and also spoke to me. If you follow this steps, you will thank me tomorrow. There are many testimonies from this, especially the one of reading your bible, and praying for the person, and you can't be an exception. If you have questions, write me. idiwatstanley(AT)gmail(DOT)com

  • @jenniferantia5565
    @jenniferantia55655 күн бұрын

    I love these messages

  • @funnymaseya1142
    @funnymaseya11422 жыл бұрын

    My first time seeing this, you have just made me love you.... We really need God to manage this our emotions

  • @adeeniolorunda58
    @adeeniolorunda583 жыл бұрын

    Joyce Meyer of Nigeria! I love this!

  • @ginacorneille3935

    @ginacorneille3935

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey sis! Just discovered Pastor M...such a blessing. 😇🙏🏾

  • @yolisamrso9827

    @yolisamrso9827

    2 жыл бұрын

    To compare her with Joyce Meyer is an understatement, this Woman of God is just on her own rank.

  • @adeeniolorunda58

    @adeeniolorunda58

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ginacorneille3935 hey sis!!! Omgosh.

  • @adeeniolorunda58

    @adeeniolorunda58

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@yolisamrso9827 I respect your opinion as well! But I believe I was gravitating towards the rawness they both bring to the table of sermons and practicality.