How to Beat Procrastination Like It Owes You Money

I'm going to show you how to get out of a rut… and you’re going to f*cking like it.
Every problem of inaction comes down to a problem with emotions. Your procrastination actually comes from you not feeling like doing something, it has nothing to do with Mercury retrograde or your under-diagnosed ADHD.
Want to get a better handle on your emotions, and channel them more productively in your life? Fuck yeah, you do. I have an entire course on this stuff. It’s called Emotional Mastery, you can check it out here: mrk.mn/48oFAHR
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  • @IAmMarkManson
    @IAmMarkManson5 ай бұрын

    STAY HARD!

  • @4k4gentleman

    @4k4gentleman

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you Mark

  • @nooblifter390

    @nooblifter390

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@fuegoredlego and the logs?

  • @muxi0121

    @muxi0121

    5 ай бұрын

    That's what she said

  • @n_irsh1831

    @n_irsh1831

    5 ай бұрын

    Your ideas sure do keep me erect. Thank you Mark!

  • @2late2go2n8

    @2late2go2n8

    5 ай бұрын

    That´s what I thought@@muxi0121

  • @HosnyMohamed.1
    @HosnyMohamed.15 ай бұрын

    I watch this video while procrastinating

  • @laurettelaliberte8864

    @laurettelaliberte8864

    5 ай бұрын

    Doing that now. 😂

  • @nancycrandall4545

    @nancycrandall4545

    5 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @kylec7924

    @kylec7924

    5 ай бұрын

    Classic lol

  • @muhammadibrahim8312

    @muhammadibrahim8312

    5 ай бұрын

    So I am not alone

  • @blakebunch4485

    @blakebunch4485

    5 ай бұрын

    Yessir

  • @flavius91
    @flavius915 ай бұрын

    So smart people procrastinate more, that’s the excuse I’m gonna use from now on. Thanks, Mark!

  • @Onthe9thlife3730

    @Onthe9thlife3730

    5 ай бұрын

    Anxious people or ones with a lot of trauma do too. Hiding under that perfectionism requirement.

  • @Jess-yp9fo

    @Jess-yp9fo

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@Onthe9thlife3730 yup

  • @JoseAlves-fw4rd

    @JoseAlves-fw4rd

    5 ай бұрын

    Stay hard!

  • @2STGamers

    @2STGamers

    5 ай бұрын

    Bro.. you are too smart..

  • @NTR_Films

    @NTR_Films

    5 ай бұрын

    i laugh so hard

  • @vishnu2812
    @vishnu28124 ай бұрын

    "Dont celebrate victories in a way that prevents further victories." That hit hard

  • @hamadeliterank

    @hamadeliterank

    Ай бұрын

    STAY HARD

  • @samtoughman3928

    @samtoughman3928

    Ай бұрын

    STAY HARD

  • @harpo7226
    @harpo72264 ай бұрын

    I will watch this later.

  • @richalford4193

    @richalford4193

    Ай бұрын

  • @danieljaramillo5565

    @danieljaramillo5565

    Ай бұрын

    Lol

  • @Sahil24980

    @Sahil24980

    20 күн бұрын

    LOL

  • @kestra6264
    @kestra62645 ай бұрын

    I just love how Mark talks to "real" people and not just purely experts or professionals who are already at the top of their career.

  • @ohcrikey9560

    @ohcrikey9560

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes mate. That's because real people are his target consumers.

  • @esmondadjei
    @esmondadjei5 ай бұрын

    She did great. It's easier when you have someone who believes in you.

  • @Onthe9thlife3730

    @Onthe9thlife3730

    5 ай бұрын

    And actively supporting you. Who you can bounce ideas off of.

  • @leandrotuao1

    @leandrotuao1

    5 ай бұрын

    Just believe in your self. No one other them you can make you move. I know you can, I believe in you. 😎

  • @QuynhNguyen-qv9xy

    @QuynhNguyen-qv9xy

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@leandrotuao1 i really hope it is that easy 😢

  • @timfreeeed

    @timfreeeed

    5 ай бұрын

    congrats, you just found a bs excuse. it is not. it's like motivational media. if you need motivation you already lost. move on. it's better to have an end in shock than having a shock without end.

  • @Will_TFF

    @Will_TFF

    4 ай бұрын

    Equally as good to have people that don’t believe in you and your motivation be to prove them wrong. What you’ve just said sounds like an excuse. This message probably sounds rude but it’s not entirely what’s intended

  • @kumonosu.26
    @kumonosu.262 ай бұрын

    Oh, i found this video on "watch later" playlist...

  • @trevorrivas1463

    @trevorrivas1463

    29 күн бұрын

    🤣

  • @susanlynn6545

    @susanlynn6545

    23 күн бұрын

    Lol

  • @keithws2779
    @keithws27795 ай бұрын

    The social pressure thing really doesn't work for me. In fact it kind of does the opposite. If I don't keep up with what I said and someone calls me out on it, it tends to make me just give up entirely. I found that it's better to tell no one and feel no pressure. Then just do it, and it feels nice when people comment about your success later.

  • @djdtk

    @djdtk

    5 ай бұрын

    May be an introvert thing

  • @Pandatwirly

    @Pandatwirly

    4 ай бұрын

    Me too! That follows stoic philosophy

  • @amandaforrester7636

    @amandaforrester7636

    4 ай бұрын

    Yeah that's me too.

  • @rayrwyr

    @rayrwyr

    3 ай бұрын

    Instead of telling them that your goal is to have the weight of 180 lb by the end of the year, tell them you are working out to be healthy and fit.

  • @dunno-19

    @dunno-19

    2 ай бұрын

    I think that has to do with the dysfunctional beliefs that failure is bad, and the overpowering shame that comes with it. If you can get someone who isn't going to think less of you for failing, but will stay by ur side and help you get back up again, and you can learn that take on that same mindset, I think their form of social pressure is very healthy. Unfortunately, it's rare to find someone such as that on your life.

  • @mo3x
    @mo3x5 ай бұрын

    00:01 Mastering emotions and manipulating environment are key to beating procrastination. 01:32 Create an environment that makes change inevitable 03:01 Smart people procrastinate more due to overthinking 04:26 The Do Something principle: take action to spur motivation and lead to progress. 05:48 Start with small actions to create a chain reaction. 07:15 Utilizing social pressure to take action 08:38 Utilizing social pressure for motivation 10:11 Failure moves us forward

  • @dcunningham6692

    @dcunningham6692

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the breakdown 🙂

  • @mo3x

    @mo3x

    5 ай бұрын

    @@dcunningham6692 you are welcome

  • @unmanned_mission

    @unmanned_mission

    3 күн бұрын

    you saved me 10 minutes of procrastination, now i can get back to work

  • @mo3x

    @mo3x

    3 күн бұрын

    @@unmanned_mission Actually I procrastinated watching the video, so I let the AI make those timing and I also procrastinated reading them.

  • @nomadicyoutube
    @nomadicyoutube5 ай бұрын

    "it's not the thing you're chasing that makes you feel good. It's the chasing itself." - 100% agree. This is along the lines of Dr. Srikumar Rao's suggestion to invest in the process, not the outcome. Thanks for sharing.

  • @BrandonOConnell-te6dx
    @BrandonOConnell-te6dx5 ай бұрын

    Mark I love how you make videos to help people with their productivity since these tips can mean the difference between being poor or rich

  • @LazyLogany-nw9bl

    @LazyLogany-nw9bl

    5 ай бұрын

    dude hes helped me get so much more productive in the psst month

  • @newmexicraftz

    @newmexicraftz

    5 ай бұрын

    The difference between happy and miserable too

  • @user-nl2cv4cv2v
    @user-nl2cv4cv2v5 ай бұрын

    It’s Only 11:45 minutes , but it feels like a whole course full of information and motivation . I am taking action. Thank you Mark

  • @elec555
    @elec5552 ай бұрын

    saved for watch later.

  • @eris4331
    @eris43312 ай бұрын

    You don't want to celebrate your victories in such a way that It prevents further victories! This is advice is gold!

  • @monicamachado2583
    @monicamachado25835 ай бұрын

    I cried while watching this. The change in her mood, pure joy. It's cliché but it's about the ride and not the destination

  • @PhillMac

    @PhillMac

    3 ай бұрын

    I’m a grown ass dude and I had wet eyes as well at the end of this lol 🤷‍♂️ amazing video!

  • @Argaria
    @ArgariaАй бұрын

    Thank you. Heavy ADHD, attempts to escape by stimulating with substances with a thousand projects waiting in the queue... Your videos help me reset the bullshit cycle in my mind. And that always leads to a degree of hope.

  • @CajunKoiAcademy
    @CajunKoiAcademy4 ай бұрын

    This is the real deal! This video goes into the science of procrastination without overwhelming people. Procrastination is quite simple. It involves tweaking your surroundings, a system of rewards and punishments that makes bad decisions challenging and good decision fun, breaking down big tasks into smaller, manageable steps, and, lastly: JUST. DOING. IT! ((Also, not being smart 🤣🤣))

  • @theanvisharma

    @theanvisharma

    2 ай бұрын

    OMG YOURE HERE TOO

  • @OGTennyson
    @OGTennyson5 ай бұрын

    "it's taking action that makes you feel good" Real asf!!🔥🔥

  • @georgeg2369
    @georgeg23694 ай бұрын

    Save this video to “Watch Later”

  • @FishOutofWaterTarot

    @FishOutofWaterTarot

    2 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @leonardium8112

    @leonardium8112

    2 ай бұрын

    😂 me too

  • @polkadolt

    @polkadolt

    Ай бұрын

    Or watch it now and do the thing you need to do later

  • @zoeh1964
    @zoeh19645 ай бұрын

    I read this "do something principle" in Mark's blog years ago and it changed my life. I'm glad to see it in the video

  • @davidwholly5209
    @davidwholly5209Ай бұрын

    I'm reminded of a quote by Charles Bukowski: "The problem with the world is that intelligent people are full of doubts, while stupid people are full of confidence." Not that I'm saying that you have to be stupid to get anything done, naturally. I'm just saying that when you're smart, you tend to second guess yourself and put things off by "studying" the matter as long as possible to feel like you're actually doing something. I have this problem myself.

  • @zeinnh
    @zeinnh5 ай бұрын

    Man your videos are building me piece by piece. Every video brings me one step forward, and don't worry, I'm starting to do, not just enjoy this self-help rush and then do nothing. You're currently the best, and most honest, for real.

  • @yehonatanlevypianocovers
    @yehonatanlevypianocovers5 ай бұрын

    I love this so much because I am myself a master procrastinator. I push everything off because I overthink it that doesn’t get me anywhere this video gave me a different insight about failing and how it’s not really considered a failure because you’ve tried and you’ve learned from the experience!

  • @gavinrodriguesart
    @gavinrodriguesart4 ай бұрын

    I’m not procrastinating, I’m in bed watching this video

  • @PriusTurbo
    @PriusTurbo5 ай бұрын

    Mark - That was a good clear and concise video with a lot of meat and no extra fluff. Your communication skills and authenticity are much appreciated. I will always make time to watch your videos.

  • @rhynestoneproductions
    @rhynestoneproductions5 ай бұрын

    Been putting off a lot of things in my life lately. This video really came at the right time. Every video has been a banger lately, Mark. Thank you.

  • @jz5005
    @jz50055 ай бұрын

    Love seeing how you help people in live situations. It’s heartwarming to see a bit of kindness in this world…

  • @pradeeptyagi3226
    @pradeeptyagi32262 ай бұрын

    that David Goggins alarm cracked me up 😂, stay hard stay hard 💪. Environment influences humans greatly 💯 %

  • @ninamassold9812
    @ninamassold98125 ай бұрын

    I love that video! So motivating! Your "do something principle" has helped me a lot in the past and still does!

  • @tldw8354
    @tldw83542 ай бұрын

    This is the final line of truth I needed to read. Thank you, Mark! "Every problem of inaction is ultimately a problem of emotion". I've got so many things to do on my fifo list, that it's just insane to think of it. And that is allways getting emontionaly in the way and stopping me.. So that finally is THE core reason, WHY I am procrastinating so often, yet I am successfull and could achieve so much more (selfemployed for 10 years allready). Thank you, Mark, from the depths of my dark and anxious soul for this golden line of truth. Only the best wishes to you!

  • @hustlentwana5781
    @hustlentwana57812 ай бұрын

    I love what you are doing so much. The approach, the charisma, EVERYTHING!!

  • @Dansoo
    @Dansoo5 ай бұрын

    Really loving this new style of videos where you help and interact with other people ! The podcast style episodes are great as well, but these are definitely on a whole other level ! Keep up the good work Mark !

  • @briskettaco
    @briskettaco5 ай бұрын

    This felt like a trailer for Jiwon's story. Can't get enough MM helping people and I want to see more! 👍

  • @JustinTafoya801
    @JustinTafoya8014 ай бұрын

    This video hit differently. I've felt very stuck at work, and procrastination has been a major reason for it, coming out of the holidays. I feel like I can use a lot of this to move forward.

  • @joananguyen3942
    @joananguyen39423 ай бұрын

    awww your advices are so clear, concise, positive. and the stories you tell to illustrate them is priceless. I feel like I have learned so much in just a few minutes. thank you a lot for sharing these tips, the time you take to do it , thank you !

  • @tzimpel
    @tzimpel5 ай бұрын

    This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. There are a few changes I wish for my life, including finally doing more for my business than building a fancy homepage and then dream of having success with it 😅

  • @chrismcclure4264
    @chrismcclure42645 ай бұрын

    Booyah! Released a non-podcast video! Love this format. Packed full of content and only 11 minutes in length. Thank you 🎉

  • @knottage
    @knottage5 ай бұрын

    Mark love your work and love all the recent long form content! You're making a huge difference in the world and I'm so proud of you! Keep it going!

  • @karla5395
    @karla53954 ай бұрын

    This is brilliant! I’ve been struggling with procrastination for over a year, and I haven’t managed to break the cycle;I just feel I can “get away with it”

  • @Sllee93
    @Sllee935 ай бұрын

    I love it how you put environment as first. It truly is. Sadly it gets relegated to the middle of the list in most self-help videos.

  • @MALICIOUS407
    @MALICIOUS4075 ай бұрын

    My semester starts back up tomorrow, this came at a fantastic time

  • @Failure_Media
    @Failure_Media5 ай бұрын

    I was looking for something like this.. And I started my journey from yesterday! This video is gonna be my teacher. Will watch this video everyday! To remind myself. Journey is the happiness. Thank you Mark for making this video.

  • @emilysmith6569
    @emilysmith65694 ай бұрын

    I have been doing the same thing as Jiwon since May 2022. I graduated with my associates degree, and I can't make up my mind on what to do next with my career. This is the best video for me, right now, in my life. This week hemp me immensely! Thank you!!! 🙏 😊

  • @joenilmcearly3982
    @joenilmcearly39825 ай бұрын

    Thanks, Mark. I really appreciated this one. A lot of insights. Thanks a lot.

  • @Rockberries
    @Rockberries5 ай бұрын

    Hands down the best and most down to earth self-help content on Yt

  • @veronica_sackey
    @veronica_sackey4 ай бұрын

    I love that you used Jiwon’s story as a case study. It helps pin a story to each lesson! Thanks Mark🤩

  • @bettertb4
    @bettertb42 ай бұрын

    This was an awesome video. I loved how he showed us how he helped her friend take actions and achieve her goals. Lovely effort Mark. Thank you.

  • @islomsaidalikhanov4273
    @islomsaidalikhanov42735 ай бұрын

    Whenever I feel demotivated, or feel like giving up the grind and just waste my time, one of your videos pops up on my YT feed and it helps a lot. Thank you!

  • @keitaro3660
    @keitaro36604 ай бұрын

    "not feel like doing it" yea you're so right 😂 as a content creator, there's always times when i hit that, even though i like what i'm doing. i usually playing online games when procrasinate. hmmm... so the point is, just "do something else" that still align with your goal, right? then, the motivation will be started when you take that action. okay, noted. i will try to avoid gaming when procrasinate, and do other stuff instead 😂 thank you for the video!

  • @yashsadhu09

    @yashsadhu09

    4 ай бұрын

    What videos you make man..... Haha, What age is yours

  • @Fumbiver

    @Fumbiver

    2 ай бұрын

    One more thing. Don't rely on motivation to get work done. It's short term and won't get you anywhere. Build and maintain discipline.

  • @dcunningham6692
    @dcunningham66925 ай бұрын

    THANK YOU!! #1 - confirms my decision to finally get my environment (home & home office) FINALLY organized and cleaned up BEFORE I start focusing on the goals that have finally come in to focus through some serious work on what my future can/will look like. #2 - makes me feel good about using Mani Vaya's Focus Blocks program - accountability, focused time units, and #3 - PUBLICLY sharing goals (social pressure) #4 - This is my history and I'm setting things up differently than I ever have in the past

  • @davemacarty679
    @davemacarty6795 ай бұрын

    Great video and exactly what I needed to see at exactly the right time! I’ve been procrastinating starting exercising and now, I’m ready to start with the smallest step. Thanks Mark!

  • @jcrechargewell
    @jcrechargewell5 ай бұрын

    "the more you motivate other , the more you find motivate in return" so true ! Cant wait for the Korean videos!

  • @R.oboCop.
    @R.oboCop.5 ай бұрын

    An excellent summary of how to overcome procrastination. Thanks for sharing

  • @angelswty27
    @angelswty275 ай бұрын

    Thank you!! I needed this encouragement to get myself moving. Love you Mark for your wisdom 😘

  • @brickheadhun
    @brickheadhun2 ай бұрын

    Great job Mark on trying to move people towards action! Great follow up video after the last one I’ve seen from you where you made this your goal

  • @IQwertylyst2004
    @IQwertylyst20045 ай бұрын

    Hey Mark, If you could do this coaching video series (on international level apart from USA) just like for jiwon, you not only help/assist a little with lot of people's problems but also get to know a lot about the many countries cultures just like you said in the video you also end up helping/assisting lot of people' s problem (maybe like almost half the planet earth i guess) from various countries (especially from various cultures).

  • @tldw8354
    @tldw83542 ай бұрын

    I NEED this STAY HARD alarm sound! That's so sick bro!

  • @Gajdosh
    @Gajdosh5 ай бұрын

    Love the editing and timing, spot on. The advise is also great!

  • @MEXTguide_yoyo
    @MEXTguide_yoyo4 ай бұрын

    a timely reminder for me to move. Thanks for this it was inspiring, convicting concise and a little uncomfortable but in a way that can be leveraged for good because once a goal is broken down into bite size pieces like you point out, suddenly the feeling to procrastinate is made to look smaller and smaller. we move

  • @Deko207
    @Deko2075 ай бұрын

    마크 맨슨으로 부터 꾸준한 도움을 받아 점점 성장해가는 지원님을 보면서 많은 저도 덩달아 함께 힘내게 되네요!! 앞으로도 건강한 미래를 위해 파이팅 하십쇼!!

  • @MrPoKe007
    @MrPoKe0074 ай бұрын

    Seems like an important video, I’ll add it to watch later Thanks mark!

  • @ephemeris9432
    @ephemeris94325 ай бұрын

    i appreciate the amount of time, energy and resources you invest to make videos.

  • @andreyseas
    @andreyseas4 ай бұрын

    Thanks for coming to Korea, Mark! It was great meeting you. Love this video and Jiwon's story.

  • @solred8093
    @solred80935 ай бұрын

    Cleanest video I've watched in a while. Nothing but straight facts. Love brother x

  • @dewanshfarkale
    @dewanshfarkale5 ай бұрын

    hey mark i need videos like these. condensed and on point. please try making more videos like these. I watch these kind of videos more than podcasts. i will try your podcasts and thanks for this one.

  • @dewanshfarkale

    @dewanshfarkale

    5 ай бұрын

    i maybe take a few of these words back

  • @NGC1433

    @NGC1433

    5 ай бұрын

    Maybe try doing something actually?

  • @danielh.8593
    @danielh.85935 ай бұрын

    You put so much value out there thanks Mark 😃

  • @broncoxy
    @broncoxy4 ай бұрын

    Been watching lots of your videos lately and have to say, that there's so much good advice and actually helpful views and points made! Great job and thanks a lot, man!

  • @gabrielefranchi9646
    @gabrielefranchi96465 ай бұрын

    Great video! Not sure about the incentive take tho. I recall that Huberman says that you should avoid getting used to incentives every time you accomplish something. You can utilize the flipping coin method. If you win you get an incentive, if you lose you don't. The point is that internal motivation is the strongest drive for our actions, the best results come from enjoying the process of what you are doing. If you get used to get a reward you will be less motivated because you're doing that for external reasons. (I hope my english was understandable enoungh 😅)

  • @ArkyMassey
    @ArkyMassey5 ай бұрын

    because we are all Gen Z watching this (mostly) we expect gen z self-improvement content with stupid memes and shit. and I'm saying that being part of Gen Z. your content is so authentic it makes me want to laugh and do 100 pushups at the same time! I've read your book and it really helped me and is still helping me with social skills so I'm very grateful for everything you provide the world mark. thanks so much!

  • @Merthalophor
    @Merthalophor4 ай бұрын

    Thanks Mark, put this on my watch later playlist, will def watch soon!!

  • @SilvioLuchetti
    @SilvioLuchetti5 ай бұрын

    Best video you've ever done Mark! Love the storytelling part!

  • @frugalcode
    @frugalcode5 ай бұрын

    Dude, we need to see you train for your marathon! :)

  • @roniproductionsndirections4181
    @roniproductionsndirections41815 ай бұрын

    This is the kind of video we want . We want to see you man.....Don't the f**king podcasts with some unknown persons giving solutions in a boring way . Love You Mark

  • @ImprovementContent
    @ImprovementContent5 ай бұрын

    Wow didn't expect this video to be that helpful and interesting to watch. Thank you Mark!

  • @kaileegirl1785
    @kaileegirl17854 ай бұрын

    You don't just talk the talk Mark. You walk the ducking walk 🦆 and you help other people do it, too. Love watching you help others!

  • @MsSera21
    @MsSera215 ай бұрын

    People with ADHD are prone to struggle with procrastination *because* it is, absolutely, a feelings thing. It is thought that their brains find it harder to work past and with the *feeling* of "not wanting to do it" because of the way they are wired. They find it more challenging to force themselves to focus on things that are not, in the moment, the most stimulating option ("I'm bored" or "this isn't urgent enough right now") Specifically it's the way ADHD impacts emotional regulation (and the dysregulation of the brain's dopamine reward/motivation system). A lot of the advice is universal, but it can be challenging! And people with brains that are far enough over on the spectrum to hit the 'clinical diagnosis' threshold will probably wrestle more with it, even as the same tips and principles to combat procrastination apply. (I do not have time to watch the vid right now; apologies if this is already covered). (Editing for clarity)

  • @jerryhartmann4654

    @jerryhartmann4654

    5 ай бұрын

    It's so much worse than that. Because our dopamine systems don't work correctly, there is no satisfaction in a job well done. There is no reward, ever. I don't feel pride when I complete a project, even if it's something I'm really into, I'm just glad it's finally over.

  • @Onthe9thlife3730

    @Onthe9thlife3730

    5 ай бұрын

    The only real thing covered was perhaps environmental adjustments that make things easier for the target. Not an example used in the video but a goal to keep dirty clothes off the bedroom floor can be managed by changing your environment to have the dirty clothes hamper in the bedroom or bathroom rather than the laundry. Still no happy brain chemical rewards as such but less obstacles in the home.

  • @oliflemmer

    @oliflemmer

    5 ай бұрын

    Did you ever get around to watching it in the end 😂

  • @MsSera21

    @MsSera21

    5 ай бұрын

    @@oliflemmer I had some food and watched a youtube reaction video of the movie Perfect. And then some of the actual movie Pitch Perfect. and now I'm baaack for another go 😂

  • @tonyjames1980

    @tonyjames1980

    5 ай бұрын

    how to know if a person has ADHD? I have severe procrastination issues

  • @jae-heekim4081
    @jae-heekim40814 ай бұрын

    "Just do it. it's not big of a deal. Just by doing anything, you learn something."

  • @JaSouMilionario
    @JaSouMilionario5 ай бұрын

    You are changing my life Mark, thank you so much! Cheers from Brasil!

  • @b-6870
    @b-68705 ай бұрын

    When I was 15, I only had one goal. To secure a hundred percent in my final exams. Yep, it was so silly and childish as anything, but that's something that had me all excited at that age. And I also had a good plan that had worked for many toppers before that. And I remember that was probably one of the most productive years of my life. I had a goal, and a reliable plan that could almost guarantee success. (Bad that the exams got cancelled due to covid later lmao.) After that, I lost the hold of everything because I had goals but no ways to achieve them. Like there was no one to tell me, do this and you'll achieve it. And in fact whoever did achieve those goals before me that I had aimed for, had started much earlier. So, that brought a sense of being too late in my mind. Demotivating af. Lost all my time procrastinating to think about it and plan everything for myself. I still don't have a lot of clarity about how can I achieve all that I want. And I keep procrastinating figuring out a way to it. Hope I do figure it out soon. 🙂

  • @M_SC

    @M_SC

    5 ай бұрын

    2 ways: 1)do research specifically into how to accomplish each goal. Of course you’ve tried already. Do more. Do something different. 2)do anything. See if it brought you closer or farther away, and proceed accordingly. Remember the children’s party game where the one kid looks for the hidden keys while the others yell “hot, cold”. The only way to fail this game is to stand still

  • @b-6870

    @b-6870

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@M_SCYep. I tried the first point already, in fact since the past 3 years, I've been in that loop. I tried searching for one clear way, like a clear path to everything that I wanna achieve. But the conclusion, that I know I realised way too late because of procrastinating all the time was only that there's no specific guaranteed way. It's like a lot of luck is involved there and doesn't matter how hard I or anyone tries, no one can figure out a plan that can guarantee success. And that only made me realise that real life is so different from schools and exams. There's no time table that can guarantee success. Real life is in fact like a chess game, where I can't plan all the moves in the beginning of the game, there's a lot that I will have to figure out as I keep playing. That requires me to be mentally alert and use my analysation skills everytime like we do before a nee move. It's the only way and there's no magical plan that I can blindly follow like a bunch of books for school exams. Tough realisation, but that's a fact and I have to accept it.

  • @nothingbuttamil8988

    @nothingbuttamil8988

    5 ай бұрын

    Lmao, that's similar to my story. The difference between us is that covid postponed our exams and I did really well, topper of 7 districts in my state. But the aftermath is not so good. I procrastinated a lot, don't have any kind of goal, got some personal issues and now I feel like shit.😊

  • @b-6870

    @b-6870

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@nothingbuttamil8988I feel you, mate. 🤝

  • @Sa.Maki97
    @Sa.Maki975 ай бұрын

    I procrastinated before watching this and I'm watching this while procrastinating my homework

  • @Jess-yp9fo
    @Jess-yp9fo5 ай бұрын

    Korea is literally on my vision board. What a great experience an great lessons. Been procrastinating decluttering my room/closet lol today is the day! Jiwon is one fortunate fan / friend. Imagine someone surprising you with a Disney trip aw

  • @andycosta68
    @andycosta685 ай бұрын

    Great video, Mark. Thank you for this one!

  • @debasmitabasu_456
    @debasmitabasu_4565 ай бұрын

    Failure is the pillar of success

  • @nikolaigrin64
    @nikolaigrin645 ай бұрын

    For those of you who haven’t read Atomic Habits, this is all you need to possibly know about it.

  • @UncompressedWAVmusic
    @UncompressedWAVmusicАй бұрын

    Thanks a lot. It already motivated me into more action.

  • @johnleesuccess
    @johnleesuccess4 ай бұрын

    very true! your thoughts lead to your feelings, lead to your action then results

  • @musicbysazid
    @musicbysazid4 ай бұрын

    00:57 🌍 The most crucial factor in behavior change is your environment; set it up to make your desired change inevitable. 02:24 🏆 Create incentives for yourself by setting up rewards and punishments for your behaviors to enhance motivation. 05:48 📝 Embrace the "Do Something" principle: take small, simple actions today to move towards your goal, as action is the cause, not the result, of motivation. 08:14 👥 Leverage social pressure positively to achieve goals, recognizing its power in motivating and influencing action. 10:40 🔄 Embrace failure as a tool for learning and progress; the point of goals is not just achieving them but the continuous process of taking action.

  • @shaunmccallum6031
    @shaunmccallum60312 ай бұрын

    My ADHD makes this a bit tricky

  • @paper-10

    @paper-10

    Күн бұрын

    Excuse

  • @albertasu.2427
    @albertasu.24274 ай бұрын

    Love this! Thank you, Mark!

  • @sha_663
    @sha_6635 ай бұрын

    Thanks i needed that. Opened this while downloading a game. Will keept the game untouched as a reward for the things i'll do for the next 10 days instead.

  • @rodStack
    @rodStack5 ай бұрын

    On the next episode: Why I left my wife to live with Jiwon

  • @elanamarshallsea4781
    @elanamarshallsea47815 ай бұрын

    My mind is blown. Never would have thought environment played a part. I make mine too comfortable for myself. Thank you!

  • @mangoxxtango
    @mangoxxtango3 ай бұрын

    This is something different from so many other sources on how we can actually stop procrastination. Thanks Mark!

  • @wilderandreslopezespitia499
    @wilderandreslopezespitia4994 ай бұрын

    Thanks, Mark for this video. I really enjoyed it. I need to take action

  • @Gl_3tch
    @Gl_3tch5 ай бұрын

    This video seems cool *saves to watch later*

  • @spiritualqueen2745
    @spiritualqueen27455 ай бұрын

    wow powerful video, love this!!

  • @KE-xj9vm
    @KE-xj9vm4 ай бұрын

    I work as a business mentor, so motivating people and I didn’t find it motivated me because I saw all the hard work they had to do. However I have now been motivated to write a book because I’m tired to repeating myself thousands of times so hopefully all my new clients will be coming to me after reading the book so I can do what I do best rather than repeating basic concepts

  • @brandyellenwrites
    @brandyellenwrites2 ай бұрын

    This is beautiful! Way to go!!!

  • @woodwatch256
    @woodwatch2565 ай бұрын

    Okay lets all take a moment to laugh hard at that Goggins Alarm sound, its killing me😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂