You missed a step which is constantly beating yourself up about past mistakes/negative experiences and not letting go

@fourleaf8055

3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@rafaelb2934

3 жыл бұрын

I love this one! Works like a charm

@blatantmotivation8939

3 жыл бұрын

This one eats me up alive. The most present one in my life. I made past mistakes, specifically talking to people, and I cannot let go and stop thinking over it, even after I apologized and changed.

@jakemeyers2839

3 жыл бұрын

Because he doesn't have a solution for us overcoming our past mistakes. Only Jesus does.

@curiouslyunruffled

3 жыл бұрын

what you've mentioned can be counted as a subset of point no. 9, I believe!

When you realize you are doing all of these things, every single one, and still wondering why you are unhappy.

@Me2goTi

3 жыл бұрын

All 13 a perfect match!

@ashleighmemarzadeh7638

3 жыл бұрын

This is me too!!

@thefeistycat7475

3 жыл бұрын

it has definitely been an eye opener for me

@ayad1609

3 жыл бұрын

yes happiness and unhappiness based on reasons.

@tinakim1074

3 жыл бұрын

me too

My biggest problem is procrastination. Oh well, I'll get over it, later.

@Living_Soul54

4 ай бұрын

Lmao

@user-lb2bk1el1u

4 ай бұрын

funny

@ryndrssn

4 ай бұрын

if you're procrastinating, just procrastinate later, you'll achieve stoic sigma godmode status

@mahoolum

4 ай бұрын

@@ryndrssn how do i unread a reply

@Erased_UnityXDX

4 ай бұрын

​​@@mahoolumOk hear me out, cause it is hella complicated, first you wanna close your eyes, then turn your brain 180° so it does the inverse of processing, EXACTLY 180°, a bit more and your brain will overunprocess and you may become a child again, a bit less and there won't be enought unprocessing power Keep your brain at that for about a bit more than the moment you read the reply Obviously you will forget anything you've learn in that lapse of time so i recomend someone to help you since you will unprocess this comment I hope this helps Oh yeah and before i forget, after all of that, you can open your eyes

A few steps si would add: 1. Live in the past and hold grudges 2. Seek validation in others 3. Criticize other people 4. Surround yourself with equally negative people

@melancoholic

5 ай бұрын

can u explain a bit more number 2?

@-ReHaven

5 ай бұрын

⁠@@melancoholicmake your self worth dependent on the attention and opinion of others, for best results makes sure it’s strangers you will never interact with again

@rodneyhamilton2562

5 ай бұрын

Surrounding yourself with equally negative people is better than being alone. They will all have a lot to talk about.

@calebdlobato

4 ай бұрын

⁠@@rodneyhamilton2562i disagree, i think you learn a lot of the good things about yourself when you take the time to be alone and be with your thoughts. being surrounded by equally negative people will only bring you down more (in my opinion).

@jasonga

4 ай бұрын

No you don’t want anyone equally negative around you, they must be less so that you’re the most negative!!! If they are 4mica you must be 5mica

The moment when you realize he's basically describing your life

@flextape323

2 жыл бұрын

Real.

@swiftblaqness

2 жыл бұрын

He just made me hate myself more

@ondrejstanek6618

2 жыл бұрын

@@swiftblaqness same

@ztdnzun

2 жыл бұрын

Pain..

@thomasjameshenderson8145

2 жыл бұрын

Specially where he said the fantasy part. I have such a fiction in my mind and it is so detailed, Im so scared to let it go. It’s either diving out of the 16th floor window or putting in effort , and the first has never been more appealing.

The fact that this sounds exactly like the average person’s life is simultaneously discomforting and humorous

@Conordylan97

2 жыл бұрын

People live like this? I know maybe one person and he suffers from a very debilitating depression. Otherwise, everybody else I know is so fucking busy working/studying they can’t afford to live like this.

@drewnayr1188

2 жыл бұрын

​@@Conordylan97 Being busy working or studying won't protect you from any of the points mentioned. Being "fucking busy" is actually what leads a lot of people to start checking things off this list, including me.

@abhinavraj3650

2 жыл бұрын

Stop trying to act smart

@key2theuniverse713

2 жыл бұрын

@@Conordylan97 but, the people who are mostly busy working are probably avoiding there inner problems.... Fun trick take all of someone's distractions away and see how long they can go with there own thoughts.... Because I've never met anyone who can just sit there and deal with them yet....

@InquisitorShepard

2 жыл бұрын

I say that would be suspicious in itself, only snake oils peddler make something ordinary into a problem. They make something that isn't normally a problem, and make it one, so you want to solve it, and it just so happen they have this book/program/method for you to solve this very big problem of yours. Be careful of those who make the mundane problematic.

I’ve been listening to this every day trying to get myself out of the pit I dug for so many years. Really trying to be a better person. It’s hard to give up old habits. But I’m trying the best I can.

@robertagren9360

4 ай бұрын

last step listen to self help books instead of listen to people in your life.

@ShareTheLean

4 ай бұрын

​@@robertagren9360Why not both

@naturesquad9174

3 ай бұрын

@@robertagren9360 bro throw those self help books in the trash, theyre written by nepotist freaks and the whole self-help market was created by rich californians on acid who were trying to find a reason to justify building golf courses.

@stephenmorris2574

3 ай бұрын

hey bro how is the progress coming along? i hope all is well spencer

@krashsytegaming9222

2 ай бұрын

@@robertagren9360that sounds like that stems from a personal experience not what they should actually be doing. Because those books were written by people too, you know

This cuts deeper then any blade.

This was the most painful roast of all time

@bryansantanavegas1910

2 жыл бұрын

Word

@kevinesh

2 жыл бұрын

Take it for granted that we all here felt that way

@basementmicrowave3989

2 жыл бұрын

I swear bro

@user-pd9hb5rb5c

2 жыл бұрын

I got 12 out of 13 let's go

@LiiT3xGaming

2 жыл бұрын

Fr just woke up at 5pm again..

my god, first yt tutorial i actually followed 100% correctly.

@samgalloway3012

3 жыл бұрын

edit: Ok this hits me insanely hard, i actually do all of this.

@mdsharma6478

3 жыл бұрын

its a match !

@TheKramak

3 жыл бұрын

lmao

@chef423

3 жыл бұрын

@@samgalloway3012 Sorry man, BREAK this cycle!!!!!!! Please live.

@atomict1974

3 жыл бұрын

😀😁😂

This is EXACTLY what my severe crippling and chronic depression, anxiety, and PTSD does to me, despite therapy and 3 different medications. I would kill to feel true joy just once, because at 54, I can’t remember the last time I felt it.

@DogBiter3000

6 ай бұрын

What happened

@Paranormalin416

6 ай бұрын

@@DogBiter3000 starting when I was 20, I was diagnosed with severe Crohn’s disease, and stage four intestinal cancer. I’m now 55. I’ve had 37 surgeries removing 95% of my entire gastrointestinal tract, which led to kidney failure. I’ve been clinically dead three minutes, the cancer came back three more times, I barely survived each time, I’m just an empty shell of who I used to be, and it’s a lot more than my brain process. God knows I’ve tried, people tell me I should be thankful to be alive, but just to live isn’t enough, not when you can’t go anywhere or do anything because you’re daily medical regime takes up almost all your time. Sorry to be a downer, but that’s the truth.

@glitteryvibes3796

6 ай бұрын

You are a hero! 👑️ Don't worry about your age! You are never too late! Do anything you think which would make you happy, even tho it's a very little thing. And don't be sad or worried about your life, because you already won! And I think the reason you overcame death and heath problems is you deserve to enjoy ur life. May be reducing overthinking, constant negative feelings and doing any little thing which bring u joy will help. I know its hard at first, but it does a big impact (Eg- watching sunset, having dinner in your favorite restaurant, giving food to birds, watching a plant grow, meditating, having a little convo with a stranger or a neighbor, watching ur favorite tv show, dressing nicely, wearing ur favorite perfume) I know they are very little things, but they bring joy. Plus get rid of phone addiction and social media addiction. They mess up our mental health and happiness. Removing social media accounts and reducing screen time is the best decision I ever took. U are same age as my parents. I don't want to see them unhappy, neither you. I know you will definitely feel true joy. Waiting for happiness to come to you won't help. It must come from within you..because it is how you feel. So be happy!!! You got this. Love you! ❤️

@zaghloulkaoutar136

5 ай бұрын

Please read quran book @Paranormalin416

@zaghloulkaoutar136

5 ай бұрын

Please read quran

Being able to say no and prioritize yourself is actually really important advice...

@DuncanWilliamsOFFICIAL

4 ай бұрын

Make sure to say that to your wife then.

@naturesquad9174

3 ай бұрын

@@DuncanWilliamsOFFICIAL Sounds like a You problem, to borrow that self-help parlance you weirdos are so fond of.

@Pitman856

Ай бұрын

Yes but always saying no leaves you alone with no opportunities while you “prioritize yourself” as a way to keep yourself lazy and underworked

Instructions unclear, managed to get my life back together and is now living happily with a family and a loving wife

@galucetti1141

3 жыл бұрын

same, i hate when it happens to me

@anti-semitickrogothonitswa8406

3 жыл бұрын

>loving wife Those don't exist anymore, they have mutated into thots and e-girls.

@user-qn9vf7vd1m

3 жыл бұрын

@@anti-semitickrogothonitswa8406Who hurt you?

@hamzasarang4563

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-qn9vf7vd1m His wife's boyfriend

@devarajv4111

3 жыл бұрын

holy shit you messed up

In a parallell universe, this is the ultimate goal

@andrassbb

3 жыл бұрын

in that parallel universe imagine a parallel universe where in that parallel universe this isn’t the ultimate goal

@unspecifiedunit9126

3 жыл бұрын

In that parallel universe, People suffer from their peak of success and struggle to regress to a state of despair, distress, and disaster. Being a failure, penniless on the streets is what they aspire.

@paige172

3 жыл бұрын

:((

@movement2contact

3 жыл бұрын

@@paige172 ok....

@ozeanskyman5666

3 жыл бұрын

@@andrassbb yes that's our world !

a lot of this stuff comes across as “ if you’re not career driven you’re a miserable loser” … there’s so many people who work hard and make good money but are still miserable

This is so much better than those annoying videos of trying to make your life better

@andredarin8966

2 ай бұрын

But he is trying to make your life better just in a different way.

The accuracy of this video is shocking and confronting. This is what I need, not another goddamn morning routine video.

@seanandreipico1751

3 жыл бұрын

!!!

@taulmanabell

3 жыл бұрын

Yes bro you’re so right

@nickanthropocene6502

3 жыл бұрын

It's basically a "reverse" morning routine video that you just reverse engineer.

@valerieh5400

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed!

@tonyg1296

3 жыл бұрын

Me too man

This hit harder than I thought it would, but in a good way

@AxxLAfriku

3 жыл бұрын

My haters throw rocks at me and IT hurts. I hope they don't throw The Rock at me because I like him as an actor. GAGAGAGAGA!!! I am funny!!! I am the funniest KZreadr EVAH! Please agree, dear taran

@yazarno1952

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@caiolins2495

3 жыл бұрын

Right?

@SocietysWriter

3 жыл бұрын

O great I'm already expecting it to..

@makaryben10

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

Most powerful video I’ve seen all year. Thank you.

This is an amazing video, it’s hard to show people who live like this how what they’re doing is affecting them and how they can change but framing it like this makes it very clear

This was the kinda tone i needed someone to talk to me in to make me snap out of my lifestyle

@therealsunmoon

2 жыл бұрын

Requiem got rated

@thomashatcher8366

2 жыл бұрын

Requiem got rated

@radstf6342

2 жыл бұрын

Did you though

@gdsaetto4806

2 жыл бұрын

furry geometrical person

@thomashatcher8366

2 жыл бұрын

@@pinkfedoras Are you ok??

1.) Wake up whenever you want 2.) Make sure your house is a complete disaster 3.) procrastinate 4.) Pretend to be busy 5.) Wait for opportunities 6.) Always say no 7.) Be suspicious of people 8.) Never fix the things you dislike about yourself 9.) Focus on things you can’t control 10.) Use fear as motivation 11.) Only do what is comfortable 12.) Believe you are special 13.) See life not how it is, but how you wish it to be

@breadfan590

2 жыл бұрын

1) I need to work on that. I wake up at a decent time but I don't get out of bed for 2 hours, just sit on my phone. 2) It's not that bad, I'm comfortable in it. 3) Oooof, big time. My problem is, though, I get tired so quickly of just the simplest stresses, like literally tired, it's almost like it's impossible to stay productive for long (and people will tell me, oh you just don't WANT to...) but really it seems almost impossible. 7) This is something I can't help. After over 20 years of mental abuse in my life I have become severely paranoid and unable to trust anyone. 8) I simply accept what I cannot change. I used to be a better person but it's definitely slipped in the recent years. 9) Thankfully I don't focus on those things 11) Life is short. I do put effort into things, but minimal. I might need to work on putting more into it, but I still believe it's important to stay comfortable and happy. I'm a moderate hedonist. 12) It was actually a recent revelation, a few months ago in fact, where I realized I am not special. I'm glad I realized this, it helped me a ton. I'm not happier per se, but a lot more realistic. More of a note to self and venting.

@TVsmolenskiy

2 жыл бұрын

Sigma rules

@Rhino-Prime

2 жыл бұрын

I'm seeing how it is and it's still making me Miserable

@claudy8857

2 жыл бұрын

I see all these things in myself but i always remember rule 8 baby 💯

@Renard-ks6hj

2 жыл бұрын

@@breadfan590 never thought i'd see a 20+ yr old saying oooooof lmao

As someone who has been doing these things for almost 3 years, I can confirm that this is very good for me.

Followed the guide. Actually started enjoying life. Thanks, chief!

The "you can do it" tone of motivation never does it for me. Feels like someone is lying to my face. This on the other hand... this is different lol

@endo4137

2 жыл бұрын

Or it just feels like idealistic bullshit

@hayd3n98

2 жыл бұрын

This cuts deep for sure...

@oldpalnose7810

2 жыл бұрын

Feels like it slaps me back to reality

@destructo3457

2 жыл бұрын

Well i don't know, this is a good video, but it's not gonna change my way of living.

@spyguyvishal

2 жыл бұрын

@@destructo3457 no KZread video is gonna change your way of living sadly

this whole video is just a huge fucking “haha, i do that” vine over and over again it’s like a jumpscare every time i saw something i do in this video

@haj6322

2 жыл бұрын

I know its too scary when you realize you might be doing the things that steels away happiness

@Ghudush

2 жыл бұрын

jorji i always gave you access. i hope you found yourself

@chillchainentertain

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly my thoughts

@NoSoyCaca

2 жыл бұрын

I feel better knowing that Jorji from Cobrastan feels so similar to me. We've got this Jorji, we'll make it through

@SieMiezekatze

2 жыл бұрын

Nah his house looks so clean mine looking like a trash can

Im glad im on the right path!

finally a video explaining real life! + it's easy to follow the different steps, already halfway there!!

I was really worried that I might find happiness at some point, but I realized that I'm already doing most of the things in this video. Thanks so much!

@nuggetman2294

2 жыл бұрын

@N Gonzales same

@lacrimosalovegood8637

2 жыл бұрын

damn same this is the first time i can follow a tutorial

@anthonysama3270

2 жыл бұрын

bro don't be a bum get work done try to be happy man its a good feeling

@anthonysama3270

2 жыл бұрын

@@Beylatheshepherd yo stop make life miserable try to be happy its a good feeling

@comediandabeast135

2 жыл бұрын

Uh being miserable is bad

the magic behind this video is just brilliant… instead of telling us what to do in order to be successful in life, it tells us how to become a miserable piece of garbage because it is more effective to reflect upon ourselves and understand what we do wrong to become exactly that what we dont want to be.

@jackchang7020

2 жыл бұрын

Werd dawg

@yodawg

2 жыл бұрын

@@jacobgivich2581 So you wanna be a playa??

@evanmicahelvalentine

2 жыл бұрын

Iooooo

@evanmicahelvalentine

2 жыл бұрын

Oooô

@SagemaGrindset1894

2 жыл бұрын

Spot on

The most important step to be miserable is to be born kind person

step 14 checking the comment to find people who have miserable life than yours to make you feel better and continue makes horrible choices,

This has been my daily life style since I graduated high school 2 years ago

@carlosduarte8429

3 жыл бұрын

Since covid

@lucianocarp1901

3 жыл бұрын

Me too

@skizzler1232

3 жыл бұрын

It's time to change. Bro get up. *GET THE FUCK UP!*

@Tech-vd7qs

3 жыл бұрын

Same, except I graduated in 2010. Lol.

@lucianocarp1901

3 жыл бұрын

What should we do

1.) Wake up whenever you want to. 2.) Make sure your house is a complete disaster. 3.) Procrastinate. 4.) Look busy. 5.) Wait for opportunities. 6.) Be default no. 7.) Be suspicious of people. Never give anyone the benefit of the doubt. 8.) Never fix the things you dislike about yourself. 9.) Focus on things you can't control. 10.) Use fear as a motivator. 11.) Only do what is comfortable. 12.) Believe you're special. 13.) See life not as it is, but what you want it to be.

@yusratariq2186

2 жыл бұрын

Only do what is comfortable*

@mohammedshafiqulislam7334

2 жыл бұрын

Well thanks!

@SieMiezekatze

2 жыл бұрын

You know what this sounds exactly like my dad...... I need to change 180° I'm 21 is not too late

@OfficialWhve

2 жыл бұрын

Just pinned this on my wall. My goal is to do 6/12 opposite things each day, when that becomes a routine 8/12 and so forth

@wiki9142

2 жыл бұрын

14.) Post long comments on KZread videos

I am definitely doing a few of those steps. Honestly that is the best motivationnal video i have seen

So many people needs to see this

God this is painfully accurate.

@cobbahh3453

2 жыл бұрын

It hurts doesn't it.

@senku6947

2 жыл бұрын

hi hawk!

@Phoenix-nh9kt

2 жыл бұрын

Why arent you in team tribe videos anymore?

@Chaosposts

2 жыл бұрын

God codm is just an app that makes ppl through their life away and the bad thing is I want to do it even tho I’m 14

@gen4477

2 жыл бұрын

Bro.. I haven't played cod in 2 weeks...

“If you stress too much about something before it happens, you basically put yourself through it twice.”

@Ctrl_Alt_Elite

3 жыл бұрын

Damn I needed that perspective, thanks

@undefined8086

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks bro i needed that

@the.bonsai.samurai

3 жыл бұрын

so true, thanks!

@FREEZarts

3 жыл бұрын

100% true

@Jamesfckoffscammers

3 жыл бұрын

Bad thing is when you're actually right about something happening, ugh.

I can proudly say this video changed me i saw it over a year ago and decided things need to change. Now im here had a moment of weakness wanted to return to this video and can now proudly say ive done it. I can be happy.

These are symptoms of misery not causes.

This video: *exists* My ego halfway through: STOP STOP I'M ALREADY DEAD

@tobiaskrist8641

3 жыл бұрын

frrrrrrrrrrr

@thunderir5470

3 жыл бұрын

The truth is too real

@maxwellsequation4887

2 жыл бұрын

Omae wa mou shindeiru

@williamcricket7931

2 жыл бұрын

@@maxwellsequation4887 Nani!?

Extra step for people who want to go the extra mile to be miserable: focus on how much better the past was and how the future will never surpass it, it will really make you feel like you are never going to be happy again.

@may6v6

2 жыл бұрын

this is a good one ):

@kowismo

2 жыл бұрын

Get some psychotherapy.

@garakstailorshop

2 жыл бұрын

Or how much worse the past was and that you didnt change for the better at all and are the same. Also care about what others think too much. And beat yourself up over every little mistake you make. And care about looks alot

@MAML_

2 жыл бұрын

and if something good ever happens, dread the future since it will be worse

@chrisonaldo0936

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

I was doing this for many years, so lost within it. But every passing moment is another chance to turn it all around, it doesnt always have to be this way.. no matter how impossible it feels to break away and save yourself from yourself, it isnt. ❤️‍🔥

This video made me laugh about how absurd behavior I have. It was the perfect mental slap I needed. I was going into a pretty depressive state, cheking the boxes from the video and being very unhappy with myself and my life. This video provoked me to binge watch all your videoes on repeat. After 4 days re-establishing my old healthy habits one after one with the help of your voice in my headphones, I now feel my mood going up. Your way of explaining the mondanity of reality made me accept it more. I feel more ready to take action instead of avoiding the pain. A thank you comes short

@laylover7621

29 күн бұрын

I don't know you but I'm very happy for you 🙌

Depression for men is especially hard to crawl out of. We always have this idea in our heads that we need to be strong and unwavering pillars of might and masculinity, but in reality everyday is a struggle and we just need help without being pitied. We got this bros, take everything step by step and reclaim our happiness.

@ohnaw223

2 жыл бұрын

Fym reclaim happiness its not hard to find something to be happy about including yourself. Its a literal mindset change thats all

@atanaZion

2 жыл бұрын

@Nobody Others men make fun of men who do that, so is technically their own fault 🤷‍♂️

@TheCardinalSpear

2 жыл бұрын

@@ohnaw223 spoken like someone that’s never experienced major depressive disorder

@Tweezer510

2 жыл бұрын

@@atanaZion It's one person's fault what another person does? Seems legit. Stop generalizing bruh

@atanaZion

2 жыл бұрын

@@Tweezer510 I'm literally trying to make you guys realize is left to yourself to change what toxoc masculinity is like but its harder when you want blame feminist or some shit for this

I started the video by thinking "I'm sure I don't most of the things he talks about" and then he starts with waking up at unreasonable hours

@gammabursta6915

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@jontaylor4511

3 жыл бұрын

I wake up at 9 but work from bed then I end up napping cos my brain doesn't work during daylight. Then I research at night and repeat til the weekends.

@kirillknyazevknyazew1634

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao 🤣

@danangheloiu1499

2 жыл бұрын

@@chrisspeed270 yeah, but they wake up late because they work. I wake up late because I waste hours in the night staring at screens

@randomdude2550

2 жыл бұрын

I legit woke up at 2pm after clicking on this. smh...

Comparing yourself to others. Focusing on what you don’t have

This video is actually amazing, it was created so well and gives inspiration

please don’t take this down. this is a wakeup call and I’m going to cry. Thank you, more than you know.

@xypleth

3 жыл бұрын

Waking up is harmful and toxic, this video should be removed or at least censored.

@MartyrsPath

3 жыл бұрын

@Lazar It's a j-j(burps) joke man. Ugh.

@cartapo2669

3 жыл бұрын

I think you underestimate how much time and effort go into making a video like this. Don't worry, he won't be taking it down.

@arturo8475

3 жыл бұрын

I'm new to this channel. Does he usually take down vids or what?

@youtubesucks5131

3 жыл бұрын

@@arturo8475 can always happen to any video on youtube

Step 6 really hit hard for me. I tell everyone ‘no’. My closest friends, my family, everybody. And he’s right. Eventually, after you say no for so long, people just stop asking you to do things. And that is the loneliest feeling in the world

@AMkoreann

2 жыл бұрын

Thats why every 2 no's 1 yes gotta come. Introverts gotta develop a system to navigate the social world. Too much yes to people and you burn out, too much no and you are left alone.

@cr-nd8qh

2 жыл бұрын

Yea I did that for so long and it's true. Now I'm all alone

@kobbehh

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah ive ran into this problem but even if people stopped asking i just ask them instead it's a two way street

@dungusglumbus9946

2 жыл бұрын

@@kobbehh I suppose. Idk sometimes I get these periods in my life where I just wanna be alone. Like I don’t wanna do dick. I come home from work, watch porn play video games and go to sleep 😂 and one of my friends will ask me if I wanna go out and I’m like ‘fuck no I’m tired.’ Idk sorry I’m ranting. I think my issue is that once I get in a rut, it makes me more introverted, which drives me further into the rut and it’s an endless cycle

@kobbehh

2 жыл бұрын

@@dungusglumbus9946 yeah im the same but life goes on and my friends knows how i am so we chilling

This is video is powerful. It really is quite the reversal of those videos and books that show how to happy. But what does it mean to be miserable. I think this something that this video accurately portrays. Thank you for making this you genuinely got a like from me.

I think the reason this is relatable is because everyone’s been there at some point. Just make sure you don’t stick around to long. Take care guys!

@ViiRaLChaoticGamerTM23

2 жыл бұрын

I exited the video came back to say I did it again, have a good night

@g_g...

2 жыл бұрын

@@ViiRaLChaoticGamerTM23 fuck...

@itzricky4091

2 жыл бұрын

Still in this rut. Been 7 years. Really don’t know what else to do but I’ll keep trying

@carringtonwoods2

2 жыл бұрын

@@itzricky4091 Today is the day you turn it around.

@landona1020

2 жыл бұрын

@@itzricky4091 I was stuck deep for 5. Can’t tell you how long it will take but your guaranteed success if you don’t give up. Hit every day as hard as you can.

This is painfully accurate. You don't realize the dangerous cycle your in until someone else shows you like this. Sort of a wake up call for a lot of us, thank you for this.

@Anonymous-fj2uo

3 жыл бұрын

I honestly thought I was the only one in this cycle! I guess I feel less alone. I've lived this cycle for so many years I don't know how to change it.. :(

@ionutluchian9720

3 жыл бұрын

@@Anonymous-fj2uo Maybe this could help, maybe not. Ask yourself, ok, if I had the courage, if I was the person I envision myself to be, what would I do? What excites me to do the most? Don't rush it, spend some time with yourself and answer this question. Then, and believe me, this works! If you have instagram, twitter facebook and other garbage, please do this. Delete your accounts, complete DETACH yourself from this garbage. The reason why I'm telling you to delete your accounts instead of just ignoring them is because, you won't ignore them, you already have it in your instict to open them. After you did these 2 things, now here comes the hardest fight yet. After you know what you want to do, or at least, if you have an idea of what would make you accomplished and proud of yourself, you need to do start small. Do it a little now, a little tomorrow. But here's the catch. Consistency is key, not how much you do in a day. Don't overpush yourself, do it a little each day, and have patience, you won't become amazing next week or next month, but you sure as hell will become better next year, and the years ahead. Also remember, do not waste time thinking about shit that you have no control over. Politics, economy all that other garbage, when you think about it and how unfair it seems, push it out of your head ASAP. Good luck stranger from youtube! PS: Cutting down youtube altogether will also help massively.

@andrewsamuels77

3 жыл бұрын

@@ionutluchian9720 thanks for the advice.

@gsjddhshd60

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@cosmic5934

3 жыл бұрын

@@ionutluchian9720 about the last part, KZread is kinda one of my best sources of educational content, so I can't really cut it out, i just try to minimize all the pointless bullshit videos that don't really help me

Finally a good tutorial, been looking for one of these to see if I’ve been doing it right and it turns out I have! Thanks

Your advice is so good I'm afraid many will follow it!!!

It scares me how close to home every single point in this video hit.

@Me2goTi

3 жыл бұрын

I do literally every single of these points!

@yellowdressbookstore6602

3 жыл бұрын

Hello from the other end of the spectrum. I was where this video is a decade ago. I promise it's worth it to seek peace and happiness.

@Jacob_Overby

3 жыл бұрын

@@baranobama5375 what I'm on currently.. dont know how to escape it

For people who do not want to be miserable for the rest of their lives: 1. Wake up at the same time everyday. 2. Make sure your house is always clean and tidy. 3. Don’t procrastinate. As soon as you think of something you need to do, do it. 4. Keep busy doing tasks you need to accomplish. 5. Always be searching for opportunities. Be proactive. 6. Be default yes. Say yes most of the time. 7. Always give the benefit of the doubt. 8. Fix things you dislike about yourself; that are within your power. 9. Focus on the things you can control. 10. Use potential success to motivate you. Visualize your ideal self. 11. Leave your comfort zone on a daily basis. 12. Be humble and resonate with others. 13. Be a realist. See life as it truly is. It will show you what you need to do to improve.

@averystars-virtualyoutuber9559

3 жыл бұрын

I agree but don't agree with the waking up thing. I love to wake up whenever I feel ready to wake up.

@ruthpangaribuan2755

3 жыл бұрын

the default yes thing can go wrong easily but the rest i agree with.

@arrilmikeigot2786

3 жыл бұрын

Umm if I may, for 6, say yes especially to the divine call that you should serve and not be served. Say yes to the call to serve people even if you know they don't deserve it. Because you yourself received undeserved privileges. Because you yourself is the same as them. Undeserving of the privilege that you've received and that you will now share(-the privileges) to them, to make the world a better place before you leave.

@palacsinta6622

3 жыл бұрын

JuSt Be HaPpY

@arrilmikeigot2786

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah like Marie Antoinette when she was beheaded for being inside her mansion all the time, eating cake, enjoying her life, being happy, and what about the people that she was meant to serve. She was beheaded and she did not even know why until the end. She was happy. You know what's happening around the world, what are you doing? You can look away. However, you can never say you did not know. Serve and not be served. That's how life should be. We know people are suffering right now, what are we doing? What am I doing? Yeah sorry for lashing it out on you. I just feel like I'm sacrificing other people when I feel comfort. Especially when I'm just sitting on our dining room lashing it all out in the comment section of a comment section of a youtube video. Like yeah what am I doing? I imagine people right infront of me in a single line waiting for me to reach out to them one by one. And it's a long line of people. Right now and in the long run of things, how can I help them? How can I make their lives better? "Some don't deserve it." "I don't care."

I really needed this. Ty

"Only do what is comfortable" hits hard

This was suggested to me at the best time possible. This is currently my life right now, with the exception of "think I'm someone special". I've realized it ages ago, and I've tried to change it countless times, but it never works. Just got out of High School, and, sometimes, it feels like I'll never make it and dying would be easier, since living is too much of a chore for someone as lazy as me. It's like a cycle: I get motivated, I start doing stuff, I get distracted with something and then, hours or days later, I completely forget what I was supposed to be doing, indulging in something that won't bring me a better future, and then, I reach the state I'm in right now. Rinse and repeat. Despite that, I'm still not giving up. I know someday I'll be able to leave this cycle and be someone fully productive and happy with myself. It's not easy, but I'm gonna make it, somehow. The same goes for whoever is reading this, the first step is to realize that you're in this state and probably try to create some small habits and better your life slowly. The hardest part is the beginning. Apologies for the rant.

@Omnigrotesque

2 жыл бұрын

No apologies needed - you're absolutely right. I'm in a similiar spot but I think we can leave the vicious cycle. Let's do it!

@Skepticalraven

2 жыл бұрын

It's a journey. You got this, we believe in you.

@Creedio90

2 жыл бұрын

I have always been the same way and I’m trying to break free! love myself more, you got this brother

@thelordconstantine1464

2 жыл бұрын

I had a realization moment the other day that motivated me some, but the energy is hard to grasp for long. This is a great message to my eyes, as will it be for others. Thank you for this 🍉

@bingushead3491

2 жыл бұрын

Haha same

The fact that I can relate to most of these really tells me that I need to make a 180º turn on my lifestyle, however, I’m just an introverted teen so it’s kinda normal I guess, but if I want to improve myself for the future, I better start doing it now, before it’s too late…….

@ithinkimtherealcam7628

2 жыл бұрын

Just because it's normal doesn't mean it is right. I believe in you homie, break the mold. I'm trying myself, I just gave up again today, but this video inspired me and I'm now pushing myself again. I wish you the best.

@bdstudios6088

2 жыл бұрын

@@ithinkimtherealcam7628 the worst feeling is when you realize you were a better person before, when you actually tried, but now just stupid jaded and lazy

@spicygoodness3573

2 жыл бұрын

Crazy how everyone here feels the same way

@_Lxnely_

2 жыл бұрын

Same bro, same........

@Khoiosso

2 жыл бұрын

same…

Thanks for the tutorial I will be sure to follow

I want to fucking cry after watching this

This guy knew all of us who suffer from this stuff are wasting their time on youtube at midnight instead of going to sleep.

@iandiazmoran2613

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

@David_K_C

3 жыл бұрын

Jokes on you it’s 8:42am here

@jeliaroischers8983

3 жыл бұрын

@@_kilex_3538 same

@Jamesfckoffscammers

3 жыл бұрын

By that definition, we're wasting our time right now lol ...and he just called us out on that. 😅

@Jamesfckoffscammers

3 жыл бұрын

@@David_K_C it's 8:42 AM here RIGHT NOW lol (4 hours behind you apparently).

This is so much better than self-improvement books, videos, etc.

@iamchris6033

2 жыл бұрын

Literally. It’s kind of a “reverse psychology” method which I appreciate

@ryhanmortuza

2 жыл бұрын

Self destruction book

@sstritmatter2158

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, sometimes the contrasting view is important like this video.

@petersansgaming8783

2 жыл бұрын

I mean not really. Just listing a set of problems doesn't help anyone to solve them. I know very well that I am in a hole but not how I can get out of it.

@hkar4385

2 жыл бұрын

@@iamchris6033 yeah its like I don't wanna be like this

Man. Im crushing it out here! 💪

I can relate to most of these tips. I'm not sure i'll be able to improve my situation, but i'll try. Started to practicing with my guitar, just to learn a new thing. Wish you all well.

At first I thought that being miserable in life would be difficult due to the vast amount of amazing experiences it has to offer but after watching this it gives me the motivation I need to make life miserable.

@kakarusakusei6194

2 жыл бұрын

Meh, I'm too lazy to go through 13 steps just to be miserable. I'm fine with being half miserable.

@MrBelles104

2 жыл бұрын

@@kakarusakusei6194 Then what is the other half of you feeling?

@lamba8092

2 жыл бұрын

@@kakarusakusei6194 1 zero

@lamba8092

2 жыл бұрын

H and I don't know if hk.

@lamba8092

2 жыл бұрын

@@kakarusakusei6194 mbo

Finally, a life coaching video i can watch and honestly say 'i've nailed it'.

@PennPearson

Жыл бұрын

I feel the same way. It gives me a wonderful feeling of accomplishment. I've reached the top of Misery Mountain. It hasn't been easy, but I've persevered in spite of temporary setbacks.

@PrestigeWorldWidePWW

Жыл бұрын

Hahah this is funny

@phatmonkey11

Жыл бұрын

I have accomplished 11 out of 13. Only 2 more to go!

@PennPearson

Жыл бұрын

@@phatmonkey11 Don't give up! You can succeed!

@sphincterlicker69

Жыл бұрын

I actually felt good watching this.

This got me thinking. Thank you.

This may be the funniest self-help video I've ever seen. Quite clever, actually, but the interesting thing is how helpful this video can be, simply because its angle of approach is so unique. It's already helped me, and this is the first time I've seen it. Totally just subscribed, and so glad I found this channel. This guy is smart, folks. Listen to him!

@ferocentaur13

2 ай бұрын

It's a robot, not a "guy".

“How to be miserable for the rest of your life” Just stay the way you are…

@Joege

2 жыл бұрын

Perfect 👍.

@CJKnightmare

2 жыл бұрын

Perfection.

@faujisimp7090

2 жыл бұрын

That’s harsh but true

@mhungd7390

2 жыл бұрын

i cried

@yangionet8116

4 ай бұрын

Objective accepted

1-wake up whenever you want to 2- make sure your house is a complete disaster 3- procrastinate 4- look busy 5- wait for apportunities 6- be default "no" 7- be suspicious of people 8- never fix the things you dislike about yourself 9- focus on the things you cant control 10- use fear as motivation 11- only do what is comfortable 12- believe you are special 13- see life not as it is, but how you wish it to be

@amink9569

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you my friend.

@sinumihai7495

2 жыл бұрын

Needed this

@leviliam5702

2 жыл бұрын

The last one hits too hard im about to cry

@me-od3om

2 жыл бұрын

@@leviliam5702 dont cry over the things you can change❤

@strangeman5698

2 жыл бұрын

I literally do all this but I don't find my life miserable. But I'll try my best to change it before it starts to become miserable

Thanks bro, best tutorial on KZread, will follow everything you said so i can put my life in the path of my choice

This hurt me to my core. The fact that it resonates so closely is a slap to my face

This video got to me... I'm so deep in this hole rn, every day is hell

@justsomelochnessmonsterwit7247

3 жыл бұрын

pain.

@Nuray653

3 жыл бұрын

You'll get out of it friend. Not gonna be easy but you will

@gracestewart5402

3 жыл бұрын

Change your environment. It helps. Structure that’s forced can make you feel anxious at first and then really good. I promise you that you are way more impressive then what you think!

@kanaalmenno

3 жыл бұрын

Semen retention for 4 weeks see how you feel. Just see yourself as Spartacus and think... Is he a drunk loser? Does he use social media? Does he watch porn? Does he use tinder? Does he talk like a bitch? FUCK NO. Good luck bro

@slick7278

3 жыл бұрын

Everyday is a struggle, I'm tired of waking up

The fact that he's being so sarcastic with this whole ordeal just makes it even more motivating to the point its pressuring

@ceilingfan2007

3 жыл бұрын

You pretty much described how I was feeling the whole video. Like the reverse psychology here is so strong that I immediately got up and started being productive as soon as the video was over.

@TheOneAndOnlyJinglebi

3 жыл бұрын

Thats not sarcastic if you want to have a bad life than follow these steps, man is spitting some truth lol

@sanstheskeleton2855

3 жыл бұрын

@@TheOneAndOnlyJinglebi it's sarcasm

@jeannedarc7533

3 жыл бұрын

Funny how it was the opposite for me, it actually motivated me to be more disorganized and hedonistic, and made me ingrain the belief more than I should support prodigality.

@jeannedarc7533

3 жыл бұрын

However, from the tone of the video, and his looks, the video does look a little sarcastic if I'm being honest.

Bro thx for the tutorial. Really changed my life!

Thanks for the tools! Time to apply them 😆

This video is a mirror to me and showed me exactly how deeply flawed my way of thinking and how garbage my mind really is. Being miserable is a mindset, not an emotion. But I’ll try my best to get better.

@iraklis5645

2 жыл бұрын

just do it

@IvanIvan-ge6ie

2 жыл бұрын

Good luck, you can do it!

@ScrewBallTheAlien

2 жыл бұрын

Having your eyes opened to your backwards mindset was the hardest part. Now that the veil has been lifted and you can see the light at the end of the tunnel, you are presented with a choice: Will you stay as you are, content to let your darkness consume you? Or now, having tasted light, will you crave it with all your might and stop at nothing to achieve the peace you desire? Fight my friend, fight with all the strength and resolve you can muster. And know that you do not fight alone.

@sexuallyfrustrated2069

2 жыл бұрын

You probably won't, but I you do

@makoala8881

2 жыл бұрын

"I'll try my best" I hate those words, and i hate them more when they come out of my mouth. I'm just so good at giving up on things even if i developed an habit, i'm miserable.

As a guy who is really miserable, I can confirm this works. 👍 I also found that regret coupled with nostalgia first thing in the morning is double effective.

@alio6051

3 жыл бұрын

Nostalgia? Why?

@ThePokemaster62

3 жыл бұрын

@@alio6051 imagining a future where current problems don’t exist is bad enough, coupling that with remembering the past where current problems also didn’t exist makes things worse.

@danielecimadoro

3 жыл бұрын

@@ThePokemaster62 wow man

@Mr.Coffee576

3 жыл бұрын

@@alio6051 because it draws you back to the past without being able to enjoy the present. Nostalgia is good. Too much and its a bad thing.

@DamianSzajnowski

3 жыл бұрын

What for? The past is in the past. Live now.

Yep this is pretty spot on. Can confirm.

Nice, this video put me to work straight!

As someone who is living a miserable life, I can confirm this is the ultimate tutorial.

@King-mz8xe

2 жыл бұрын

Well take this video as a sign to start improving your life and lifestyle.

@1saamor897

2 жыл бұрын

then change it.

@croydondebruyne9849

2 жыл бұрын

@@King-mz8xe yeah mate. Number 1 and 2 I need to get rid of the habit. I wake up when and go downstairs without showering😭😭

@dead-xd6ns

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you I guess..?🤷

@sigma_jaeger8781

2 жыл бұрын

You can start changing it now

I started to watch to procrastinate and just ended up realizing I do everything on this list I really need to work on myself honestly thank you for this video

@P4DDY_L4D98

2 жыл бұрын

Glad someone else said it too, well done mate. I did the same sitting worrying and began to watch to realise I'm feeding the depression. Time to change ways, it's exhausting.

@OldSchoolRT

2 жыл бұрын

I was the 69th like ( i should propably start working on that presentation and study for exams ).

@tustoflyer9382

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly the same.

@andrew4703

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree with ya. It's scary how relatable this video is.

@drcknight24plays

2 жыл бұрын

I'm in the same boat as you man. I'm 25 but I'm pretty much 18 or 19 because I have absolutely nothing to show for being 25

Thanks I'm gonna follow these steps asap!😊

Thank you for this. ❤

This was the longest 7 minutes of my life because I am guilty of all of this. Insanely motivational

@yusufilyasa4055

2 жыл бұрын

wait, I didn't even realize this video was 7 minutes after reading your comment.😬

@dr.dreamer8914

2 жыл бұрын

This wasn't motivational. This was a call out to all the people in the world that do this, and are perpetually stuck in their own self misery that they just can't get out of. It's not about being miserable, it's about not wanting to go on or keep going.

@JackPopkins

2 жыл бұрын

@@dr.dreamer8914 it’s called sarcasm 😂🤦‍♂️

@clintjones9848

2 жыл бұрын

I felt bad at first because I've done all these things, but then I realized that I have made a concerted effort to correct all these things as well.

@KDrop84

2 жыл бұрын

No it’s not. You will go back to doing nothing.

1. Have a morning routine. 2. Keep a clean and tidy home. 3. Don't procrastinate. 4. Stay busy. Be productive. 5. Look for opportunities. 6. Reach out to people. 7. Be open minded. 8. Never stop improving yourself. 9. Focus on things that CAN be changed. 10. Manage F's given. Avoid negativity. 11. Don't live in fear. Be optimistic. 12. Challenge yourself. Embrace discomfort. 13. Be humble. Work hard. Achieve success. 14. Accept life for how it is. 15. Don't compare yourself to others.

@fujiyummy4400

3 жыл бұрын

What V stands for, bro?

@JuicemanZ08

3 жыл бұрын

@@fujiyummy4400 most likely vendetta

@fujiyummy4400

3 жыл бұрын

@@JuicemanZ08 Here we go again

@stallionshark1726

3 жыл бұрын

@FujiYummy, V stands for Vagina

@binduvv3754

3 жыл бұрын

Imagine not watching this completely

I watched this video over a year ago and back then pretty much all these things applied to me. But now that I'm 16 I've come to see that some of these things are not true for me anymore. While I still have a long way to go, seeing that I've made some progress gives me hope that I can be the me I want to be.

Thank you for the tutorial it worked perfectly!

I feel so called out at the “wait for opportunities”.

@rafox66

3 жыл бұрын

Ticking away the moments that make up a dull day Fritter and waste the hours in an offhand way Kicking around on a piece of ground in your hometown Waiting for someone or something to show you the way Tired of lying in the sunshine, staying home to watch the rain You are young and life is long, and there is time to kill today And then one day you find ten years have got behind you No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun

@Tommy-gk6bh

2 жыл бұрын

I feel called out at every single one of these wtf I am screwed

@symblesurfing7666

2 жыл бұрын

@@Tommy-gk6bh me too, we must change

@george1449

2 жыл бұрын

@@symblesurfing7666 how? It's easy in theory but it in practice is almost imposible, at least when you are 30

@astrowyrm6871

2 жыл бұрын

@@george1449 that's such a common and easy escape for not fixing your life, saying that it's too late since you're too old now. it's never too late to fix yourself and not live a miserable life. don't wait for opportunities to come to you, take action

This is just the description of depression and its an extremely difficult circle to escape. I mean every single thing this person says is 100% on point

@thijsboss1246

2 жыл бұрын

If this is depression im depressed

@andreeadede8016

2 жыл бұрын

@@thijsboss1246 me too 🥲

@vladimirlevak1287

2 жыл бұрын

@@thijsboss1246 well these are all signs of depression but it doesn't mean you are 100% depressed if you can relate to it and I wouldn't use this video as a form of diagnosis but there is a reason it's called "how to be miserable for the rest of your life"

@jeygee3736

2 жыл бұрын

@Acave give up social media, stop watching the news, stop consuming junk food, hang out with positive people, get a restful sleep schedule, get lots of sun, exercise often, start every morning with a purpose in mind, and I believe your depression will soon subside.

@anthonyhughes8026

2 жыл бұрын

This is a recipe for depression, not the illness itself.

Thanks for the tutorial👍My life was too good, and I needed some change.

Whew! Great video, for the longest time I was worried that I was doing it wrong.

0:04 - 1. Wake up whenever you want to. 0:30 - 2. Make sure your house is always a complete disaster. 0:53 - 3. Procrastinate. 1:15 - 4. Look busy. 1:42 - 5. Wait for opportunities. 2:10 - 6. Be default "no". 2:35 - 7. Be suspicious of people. 2:53 - 8. Never fix things you dislike about yourself. 3:14 - 9. Focus on things you can not control. 3:43 - 10. Use fear as motivation. 4:04 - 11. Only do what is comfortable. 4:24 - 12. Believe you are special. 4:56 - 13. See life not as it is, but how you wish it to be. 5:40 - Audible.

@youneskasdi

3 жыл бұрын

The last one is enough

@insectslayer1374

3 жыл бұрын

**...do nothing but listen to audible...** "no no he's got a point-"

@KOMODO_7

3 жыл бұрын

@@insectslayer1374 lmafoo

@Clash--bp1xn

3 жыл бұрын

suspicious

@Gransterman

3 жыл бұрын

13 Rules for Unlife

1st minute: "Haha this is funny." 2nd minute: "Hmm, he got a point, might wanna overthink some stuff in my life! Hehe!" 3rd minute: "Oh noooo... I feel miserable now, it's such an accurate description of my life..." 4th minute: *sniff* "I hate myself."

@kevin-ru6oe

3 жыл бұрын

Let's continue procrastinating

@victorsouza6561

3 жыл бұрын

@@kevin-ru6oe exactly!

@volt3091

3 жыл бұрын

imagine you the last 3 minutes

@coreeater8677

3 жыл бұрын

@@kevin-ru6oe im down, if we wait long enough something good will happen??? T_T

@kevin-ru6oe

3 жыл бұрын

@@coreeater8677 no always :l

Good tips I’ll keep grinding 💯💯🥶

All of these describe me and I'm scared

@EmailBacon

9 ай бұрын

Never too late to change brotha. Just fix 1 thing at a time from easiest to hardest