I had to learn the hard way that my man is not meant to come and fix my issues. He’s not my fixer. He’s my partner. I used to make him my everything and if he didn’t do the same I’d become resentful. Until one day he told me ‘babe I love you but you need to get a life’ whoooo I was hurt but it was the first step towards me working on me and having my relationship with God and having my girlfriends. On my 30th birthday I took myself to therapy and it was the first step towards me taking control over my life and my side of the relationship.And hurt people hurt people. I really try to work on me first. Love you guys!

Receprocate favours, if you are in a position to, ie he bought you a bag, one day sunrise him by buying him a shirt or socks . Protect each others secrets , damn dnt be an open mouth, talking down to him, or using what they told you against them, or share it with people , especially if they asked you not to. Be an individual , dnt go make someone the centre of your universe , let them be apart of your universe , ie have your own life apart from what the two of you share , have your own friends , your own fev restaurant, your own tv show , your own will etc , most brocken hearted people are those who put their partners in a pedestals , submerging themselves in their partners life , they forget who they are, they loose their identity , so when a relation ends ,they are stranded ,not knowing how or where to begin . Another important thing, is that enter a relationship expecting two things, a break up or a life long commitment, and be prepared with which ever comes, saved me from heart breaks to be honest .

@angelsolina492

Жыл бұрын

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The moment Lyd showered Murigi with complements that she’s a fantastic wife. Daaammn this is how we need to be with our fellow women and queens 👏🏽

@karen4real

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly you feel that tooo awww

Am married 4 8yrs,a mother of 4 aged 6,4 and 7month old twins.i have followed u guys from those t.v days and have watched all the 18episodes.my prayer is u never stop coz when u resigned from tv and murugi stopped posting in her youtube channel i felt so empty.U girls have no idea how much mmenijenga....i relate a lot with Joan as she is my agemate,mother of many like me and a plus size like me......Be blessed girls

Why am I even taking notes at 3.17 am...??this time am going to be the best partner.... Thanks to tmi podcast....love love love

When Lydia said " The reason why your ex looks so amazing is the love you are reflecting on them" D for done!!!

As a Partner in waiting I have learnt so much...All I pray as I learn to be a better partner he is doing that on the otherside...😊love this ladies

Its the chemistry between you guys for me..and now I can't stop saying D for done😂😂😂..

@wanjiruwambugu5215

2 жыл бұрын

And goodnight💀😅

Totally relate with murugi's point about being kind,I struggle with that especially when he sends me something and am like but you could go get it yourself,am not your slave😂.It's hard,but I will practice kindness, because that man deserves it

Your chemistry!!!!😍Totally took notes on this one. I resonated with each point you said. Thank you for being vulnerable to us. Happy to be part of this fam Proud in betweener❤

Thank you for the shoùt out🥳🥳 I love you tooo boos😂❤. Compromise I love that one, support and respect for your partner goes a long way too. Always an inbetweener❤💫

Can we all just appauld how timely TMI's topics are😊y'all saving me from the ghetto fr✌nothing but love💚💯

I learnt so much from this episode, I feel like I always want someone to pour into my cup and I do not reciprocate. I really am trying to work on that especially vulnerability. Thank you so much guys, love it❤️

The best thing about this episode is how specific you got about each point, not just mentioning it and leaving us to interpret it for ourselves... I've learnt so much. ❤️❤️❤️

Anytime I'm having a bad day and I watch a TMI Episode I always feel so much better. Also, it's the way you look at each other when the other is giving a point.. Like you can tell that they are actually listening to what you are saying and not just hearing. Your Chemistry is just on another Level. I Love to see it. You are doing such a good Job Murugi and Lydia. 👌

Been held up from Wednesday. Watching this on Friday night as a starter for my weekend😊. I can't miss any episode irregardless of when I'll watch it 😂

Murugi and lyd in there actual element..... I'm proud to be among the inbetweeners, thank you for the content

Mimi niko single single🤣🤣🤣 Working on myself because I refuse my next relationship being another episode of character development.

I completely relate with you saying *to not set ourselves for failure* the number of times we've had world war 50 and sitdowns 😆😆😆😆 in my rlship simply cz of compliments esp after new hair or such....this is eye opening to say the least. As usual dope infotainment. Thanks ladies

Married. I love you guyz. Never missed an episode

I was literally taking notes through the whole episode. So informative mehnn. I will work on all that.Love love love to both of you❤️❤️❤️

I cant stop watching your contents..I rem I started watching from episode 1 Untill now...you are in 18..wow congratulations...I always do download them and watch them later..Kudos@murugi and @Lydia..you guys are amazing I also learn so so much from you..I feel like you are like my two big sisters..I love you so much..and wish to watch more of your podcasts..God bless you and your families...Much love 😍💙💙

Really beautiful when LK told MM about how she's a good parent and wife.

Whatching all the way from Namibia. I just love this soo much. The wisdom i gained from this episode is just beyond me. Thank you

its my 1st time watching it live wow love your content

I really enjoyed this convo .. Am not yet in a relationship but thru this tips am definitely going to implement them ... Much love from Kilifi County 💓💕

You guys are the best, I don't miss any of your episodes. Hapo kwa giving your partner the benefit of doubt really helped me. Love you always ❤️

Be vulnerable with your partner that’s one great take away as well 💝💝💝💝💝

This really helped me.Thankyouuuu soo much guys❤️

I honestly needed to hear that topic of staying on top on my life

Yes, Teach them how to love you!

I love this. Taking notes

Am more than greatful to you beautiful ladies. I see you as my big sisters. May you be blessed always

This is so helpful... I've learnt alot...much ❤️ guys from Bangkok.

Taking me time helps to recharge since giving my best always/most of the time, is work.

Looool you did not just say my name when I was introspecting😂😂

How i’m i not subscribed to this channel🤦🏽‍♀️ The thing is though, after every episode i’m left feeling more self conscious and aware of who/what Kind of person I wanna be. The motivation I get to be self confident wueeh… I’m a shy person but each time I watch a TMI episode I feel like I could face a whole auditorium.

Patiently waiting like a patient in line ✌️

I am catching up on this Friday night 12.11.2021, 1 am China time.Fam this is totally needed content ❤️❤️❤️❤️

This was worth my bundles ♥️♥️

🤣🤣yaani I had to pause to go see how Milly wajesus laughs.. amazing podcast guys

I love this episode soo damn much..

Lydia you are filled with the holy spirit today😂😂 a great episode as always.

Enjoyed this episode, definitely learned a lot, Nawapenda ❤️

Now this 👌👌👌 I love the wisdom

The bird is going to eat me 😂😂😂.Murugi that was funny 😂😂

Life's happening lately, I missed the premier but here I am., You girls are legendary.., what would we do without you🤭😍 About the poll... When this podcast began, many were in relationships (ghetto)😅. Now, less than half are in a relationship 😂😂.. am not in a relationship myself. 🥂🍾🥳 to turning 18... Thanks for growing us into mental and relationship adulting ☺️

Oooh woow cant wait jeo hi dia

single lady in the building ... very relatable stuff , the messy in between otherwise known as character development stage on the streets

That omelette analogy .Fam I just signed up with betterhelp I want to be the best egg 🍳 ever for myself firstly

wish I knew all this earlier cause looking back I failed my ex in some things but I am trying to be a better person for myself and my partner.

In a relationship for 7 years now though long distance one and it has been perfect but a little bit difficult. Whoa Whoa learning a lot from you guys.

That part of Milly wa Jesus . Am on the floor😂😂😂

Married. Jo and I same whatsapp group when it comes to vulnerability. I have tried but my mind blocks any feeling of trying to be. Love your content ladies, XXXX

The advice y’all have given on the TMI talk segment couldn’t have been said any better. Every first timer needs those words It was so kind and honest.

I learnt alot from this amazing conversation!

very insightful. learning a lot

I thought I had subscribed only to see I hadn't. Now I have

I wish we could send vns on this platform.. Because the laugh from this end🤣🤣🤣🤣

So much INSIGHT!!

So educational enjoyed alot

Murugi looks amazing. Amazing! Hair! Make Up! Clothing👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿

For some reason I feel like there should be more episodes like just 7 per week, i feel si much at home here,the only i don't cry for all the time the episode airs, thej a few moments later i am back in the ghetto

I forgot my pen and notebook when I started watching… then the nuggets started dropping like bombs..

Y'all were just destined to do this together

When Murugi says "can someone be our big siz" am like...i got you small sisters, your big sister from Seattle Lol clocking 40 soon...

Susan was just chilling 🤦🏾‍♀️😂

Awesome content

😂😂😂😂me have literally laughed loud when Murugi said she can't remember who broke her virginity had her going ahead to say he might even be in that room then your partner in crime (Lydia)😂😂tries to help you out by asking around it was hilarious 🤣🤣i just love you guys, you guy my guys...i really wish episodes are 2 in week, but it is well am trying to understand. Now i have a question on how do you know he is the one... There is this guy we once worked in the same company but parted ways years back. Lately we have been talking, he is single i am single had through the convos he told me like everything about him and his family,how he grew up i mean in a nutshell all round him, me too i had to do the same. We talk like every day anything and everything till midnights. When he does something during the day had we happens to talk that day somehow he always mentions it to me even without me asking or even ask my opinion if he wants to get something for someone or his family member. Now the problems starts here😄 ,before i didn't feel anything towards him i thought he was just a friend who happens to trust me but now i feel the connection because if he doesn't text me like 2-3days i feel so bad and with my pride i can't ask him him if he feels the same. Now thats not even the main problem,its been a couple of months had he hasn't asked me out, or mention anything close to like i love you or i like you we are just there. Please help a babygal maybe am building my own castles on the air 🤦 nikanyage kubwa kubwa🤣🤣🤣

@sanitationEng

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂attachments hizi.. I work so hard to detach myself from these kind of people. I have friends who do these to me and I hate it. At times I delete their numbers so that I don't see them online and they are not texting

@irenek7032

2 жыл бұрын

@@sanitationEng very true, I ended it the i write that message, am not ready for another heartbreak. Some people just want company and comfort as they wait for their catch while wasting our time..sigwezi🤣🤣

I Love you guys, you two are a vibe 😆how you connect ,finish each other sentence aaaaai😅😅 TMI has become my favourite channel honestly.....I'm always ready for Wednesdays 💃🏾❤

Love you guys 💖looking good. What's the secret of your smooth skin?

Thankyou Lydia and Murugi for this episode for I believe we are / shall be better partners .

Wisdom 👏👏

Murugi is always so true and real,Lyd on the other hard is a motivater.I love you gals so much.

I'm Single. Love you guys

Single single!!! And working on myself. :)

yohh, my dad tells the same sotry of hell and heaven and long ass chopsticks!!🤣🤣🤣

'people are loved to change' 🙈

“ God bless America “ 😂

Not Suzan catching strays 😭😂

It’s the whole Lydia for me 😂😂😂 especially at the end

Let me just conclude that am toxic and I might need therapy 🤭🤭🤭. Go get Me the charger downstairs 🤔🤔.struggles 😩 Being soft and feminine when your masculine power is yelling to you is the real ghetto🙉. But hoping I can start being a neck yo 😕

You're my younger sisters and yet, I find you full of wisdom. Love you girls

@wangarikariuki6522

2 жыл бұрын

And yes, I'm married too, but still find some wisdom to apply in my marriage from you guys

@mosehmonique5920

2 жыл бұрын

💝💝💝you just did what Miss munyi wants to be called small /younger sister 😂

@shikiemburu

2 жыл бұрын

I learn a lot too, younger sisters but very wise

@dr.ohuruc.1511

2 жыл бұрын

@@mosehmonique5920 ikr 😂

Single as a pringle... Great job, love you guys

Heh! Acha ata Mimi Leo nikuwe premier member.

Loving you since

Aren't you two awesome.. 😍😘

25k subscribers 🙌💪💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

In a relationship.

The way these days at my big age I am telling pple " pliz gnight".

Murugi I am single siiiinglee

Married!

For me It's complicated😂😂

I'm single. And it's an intentional choice

Where is the 🍵 for new subbiees???😉

Single , l have given myself three years and now l fill l can start it and concentrate on someone's son

Let me call my man's now tht Joan has said sometimes we prioritize the other person's happiness...

I am in a relationship

Please can you discuss how to make a man marry you. I have been dating a Kenyan now

Id say listen to understand your partner, not just to have a rebuttal! Try listen past your emotions