I'm a man! I really appreciate this channel.

So powerful and truthful. This is something I desired in my relationships and rarely received it. I decided to stay single because it isn’t worth it until I find a woman who overstands this.

Women in these 50/50 relationships don’t age well because of the stress.

this video has thee best description (with plenty of examples) of the hero instinct. much appreciated!

I’m divorced and my ex husband just didn’t show up for me like this. I became an “I’ll just do it myself” kind of woman. Even though I feel like I’m feminine and agreeable, the last man I dated always referred to me as “independent”. I guess I don’t know how to ask for help without feeling like I’m needy, desperate or begging.

@LovettbalngoodsLLC

Жыл бұрын

If he was like this. Then he didn’t want to be with you. Sorry to say that. He fade! And Wanted OUT. When they do this. He is normally interested in someone else.

@brettechristine

Жыл бұрын

@@LovettbalngoodsLLC Not necessarily true. Some guys aren't capable of being "men" and we have to do it ourselves and be independent. I'm independent but I'm also feminine and want a man to help me. I'm exhausted of doing everything myself. Just haven't found the right one yet.

@redg5609

Жыл бұрын

@@brettechristine you gotta get a good man girl. Stop playin wit all deese bums

@MuseSunflower

19 күн бұрын

Some men just have passive personalities. We just have to filter them out if they show they aren’t interested in stepping up for us ❤

Your message was so clear & powerful, I wish I could like this video a million times! Best video I’ve seen on this topic and mastering the art of becoming a divine feminine goddess

So many gems dropped in this video Thank you Sara! I used to use that word independent, now I realize most decisions are just about being an adult. At this point in my life I want help I'm exhausted! Lasies lets stop trying to wear the S on our chests .

@ferlesha1405

2 жыл бұрын

I just had this conversation about woman using the word Independence and just her being a responsible adult. Interesting.

I am beyond grateful for this video! ❤

Thank you so much for your content sis. Please keep them going. ♥️♥️♥️

Love everything you said in this video! I learned so much and subscribed! 💗

This is so important to hear.. thank you 🙏🏽

Amazing! Thank you, Sara. Great hearing from a beautiful woman how women need to tap into their femininity and treat men like men. ❤️

Thank you. Everything you said is absolutely true. God bless.❤

Thank you sis for this information big love God bless you ❤

Wow did this explain so much to me. I see now what I have to do for my guy. Thank you so much. I will be in touch ❤

Heyyyyyy thank you for this. As you speak/spoke I paused and let the spirit of Creator capture some messages that came up within me. Truth

@Yapah.S.Da.K.O.S

2 жыл бұрын

@@khadijamdabdu758 thank you for sharing. I'm in a very unique and slightly frustrating situation

Masterful info as always. Will you please do a special video that compares the mothering type love with the kind of love we should have and demonstrate with our men? You mentioned that there is a difference between them in this video. I need to be sure I know how to do things the right way. Thanks! ❤️

@TheModernGoddessChannel

2 жыл бұрын

I will do this video for you.

@christiangraves9072

2 жыл бұрын

@@TheModernGoddessChannel can you tag the video?

Thank you this was very helpful!

@TheModernGoddessChannel

2 жыл бұрын

💖You’re Welcome!💖

My ex girlfriend was a nightmare 😱 in this regard. She was the least intelligent 🧠🤓 but most opinionated woman I've dated. My entire life of outcomes were better than hers but she always thought 💭 she knew better than me. I made more money, have had two businesses of my own, owned two homes to none for her without help, had no kids out of wedlock or abusive relationships. I didn't argue. I left. Nobody is worth my peace 🕊️ #smiles4ever15

@lovelyu4325

2 жыл бұрын

Hmmm you don’t sound very respectful or nice trust me there are worst girlfriends than that lol. Since when is love about comparing material and money.

@blackthanos914

2 жыл бұрын

@@lovelyu4325 You obviously missed the point. Someone who's NOT as successful as you are in certain area's of life aren't qualified to lecture you on those areas. Yes there's worse BUT those women aren't for me.

@8thousevirgin

2 жыл бұрын

At least you learned your lesson through her and won't be with that kind of woman again.

so helpful thank you!! ❤️ and you‘re unbelievable pretty ✨

This channel is very helpful 👌

Good information sweet lady

Great video. Great!

Forgot to add you are so pretty and friendly! I am going to start this right now. I have a perfect problem that this will knock out. I think you were sent from the Lord God bless you.❤

Gratitudes divine. Im late but im here. 🎉❤

Thanks this is my missing puzzle I never put myself out there as not needing a man but I see how I may come across. Good info. I grew with my Mom more so speaking to my Dad as a partner but not really asking there was no his and hers but ours. But I'm not certain how they interacted before I was born since they were about 15 years in before my sister and I were born.

Nice top! 😊

This is true believe it or not. When I was with my ex. When he felt he couldn’t help me or fix something he would fall away. & when I say. “Here babe. I can use your help with this”. He does it. And fell like a KING 😂🎉. 🤦🏾‍♀️. And he smiles and stay. Omg. Like what?? Lol 😅. Then sometimes he didn’t KNOW WHAT HE WANTED!!! He was In and out type person even when we was living together. When I needed his help, he didn’t want to do it at the same time. He wasn’t there emotionally. He became unavailable with everything in our relationship. I became not so interested when this happened. We faded away!

I respect it mama, bout to send this to my girl, she will probably reject the message but its worth a shot.

@shemlahnaphish3260

3 ай бұрын

How did she respond? Just curious.

You are amazing ❤

Make sure to to get a donation button girl ❤

If we is not together anymore what I have to do ?

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That moment she says king and it actually sounds romantic....😎

I say we men should not settle for a woman who doesn't want to embrace this kind of lifestyle

A real man would put the spider outside not kill it.

I don’t like spiders neither. I loved this video. 😩💞

I feel like it’s easier to submit to a guy who is healthy for me

This is for relationships but what about when you aren't dating and just talking online? How would you Ignite his hero instinct when you are just in the talking stage?

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Please don’t kill spiders, put them outside instead. Great video , thank you.

@sxftie7696

Жыл бұрын

spiders suck

People have turned the word independent into something bad. Yes we can use another word that makes a mans ego feel better. People can also stop looking at the word negatively. The problem is only if you are too independent.

How to Activate the "Hero Instinct" in a Man

What if he doesnt tell me when Im being problematic?! Like he will just hold it in and instead of being honest he will let it fester? He has said I dont listen to him when he offers a solution, I kinda blame being pregnant for the first time and being in a head/body place I had never been before and it was a difficult pregnacy, he accused me of very wrongful doing and it wasnt true, left me for a long time halfway through. Had a horrendous birth experience and baby was very very unwell so head space wasnt all there. I do a lot on this list naturally but it doesnt seem to work as he thinks i am unfaithful. Got a DNA test without my knowing....of course my baby is his baby, i fee like i did nothing to warrant it and he wont tell me what signs he saw in me to make him believe it? So weird!

@savannathesavage

2 жыл бұрын

thats rough, im sorry youre going through that. my husband of almost 11 yrs has trust issues w me, financial and others, and theyre still there, but for the past 10 months ive tried to show him that im someone he can trust. we share locations on our phones and i let him know where im going beforehand. its not for every couple,, but i think it helps. idk. i hope you guys work it out and regain the trust. best wishes to u !