I completely agree with you! Submission feels like freedom and it’s sensual! I feel feminine when I submit to my husband and he wants to be MORE masculine when I submit….. so we’re actually BOTH getting what we need ❤️

@Realifefact

10 ай бұрын

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@frederickowens2883

10 ай бұрын

Agreed. It really feels like a natural progression in the context of my marriage.

@dddrrr4385

7 ай бұрын

I see the different too🎉

@geography_guy335

7 ай бұрын

Good men are also inspired when people submit to them. It makes us want to continually improve so we can remain worthy of that trust and authority.

@Himmiefan

Ай бұрын

Just remember hon, the Bible says that each is to submit (or look out for, give into) each other. Those verses really aren't about hierarchy as they are an example of how to live out Christ's command to love one another. The sinful world infiltrated the church and turned those verses into man gets his way and woman obeys.

I struggle so much to be submissive. I grew up with a dominant mom. I never really learned how to be a wife. I am thankful I foun this video. Praying for guidance to grow and be a better wife.

@alyssabrowning7559

4 ай бұрын

I am with you on this.

@EriPages

16 күн бұрын

10 months later, have you improved?

@danilaroche1156

Күн бұрын

I don't think my mother ever uttered a kind word to my father in 40 years. I never saw it. She was icy, unfeeling and cold. I struggled treating my boyfriend with respect. I didn't mean to be mean and he left!

@EriPages

Күн бұрын

@@jasminemann5249 Act.

I paused this video for an hour I couldn't stop my tears thank you for helping ❤❤❤❤

I began to be submissive when i recognised who my husband really was, i would say what helped me also i avoid socials by all means, because of people's different perceptions pertaining marriage and submission. I now learned how to love, respect, and support my husband rightfully. I avoid by all means to talk about my marriage to people as everyone is entitled to their opinions and trust me its not everyone that wish the best out of your life.

#3 just hurt me in the right place! Worked on #1 and 2 for these last three years and finally realized that inner battle. I keep being... I don't know if forced is the word but maybe coerced to take on masculine decision making for our family and resenting that I don't get to rest the way I'd truly like to after putting in this much work on healing.

At least if I do it for myself, it gets done. I'm done waiting for or trying to get someone to do something for me

This was an eye opener, thank you!

This hit so close to home. So eye opening thank you.

I wish I could give you a thousand like!!!! I love your work thanks sis

Thank you for this!!

Very good observations on the third point. Very high level thoughts

This was so needed for me. Thank you for this and you have a new subscriber. You have said all the ways I feel

Wow I just came across your channel. I really needed this. I’m finding it hard. Especially I have no one to talk to. But this video I really want to listen to it. I struggle to listen but I want to try. Thank you

My mom never cooked… my dad did. My mom organized the house and did the finances. Dad worked and mom worked. Mom had the most consistency in her job. Worked there 46 years. Dad worked hard at 3 jobs my entire existence… My dad raised me to fight, cook, clean and do everything a man can do. It’s hard for me to understand the line. Hearing submissive means less than in my household and I’m unaware of how to change that. The way I see it now is that I’m making more than most men… I cook he cooks , I clean and he cleans, I raise my child and he raises our child, I have my own bank account and we divide and conquer our bills. I’m unsure with what is the difference between men and women with these daily life things. I know he can protect the house but I literally have done this from nearly being robbed. What do I do!? I need feminine energy help

@Himmiefan

Ай бұрын

If you two are happy, then you’re doing what works for you. As another video noted, submission is yielding, receiving and letting the man does acts of service. That doesn’t mean that he’s the boss or that he makes all the decisions. You two can still work together. This should, of course, not be taken to legalistic extremes.

@EriPages

16 күн бұрын

There are probably other factors to your parents left out. Ultimately though, just make yourself moldable to the type of man you want.

Girl at 10:00 in the video you spoke to my whole life!! I just had to sit and laugh at myself 😂 I’ve never been so called out! You got a new subscriber from me, you are speaking the truth!

This was great advice 💛 God bless you

You went in!

Thank you so much for this

I absolutely LOVE this lady ❤

🔥👌🏾💯yohhhh you were saying exactly what I've been thinking!

You ateee!!!

Great video. I have to reevaluate myself

Girl I agree everything you say, thank you for putting this out there! ❤❤ If a man in any way looks up to ‘alpha’ men or calls himself one - run! 😂😂 Masculinity should come from inside, from innate maturity, not from looking up to the concept of ‘alpha’ men online and what that word symbolises nowadays after we all know who.

I think with #1, it's HOW can you work to heal from the generational chains. I've met a few healthy masculine men and I'm glad I didn't shoot my she-ra voice before stepping back and letting him Show me he was healthy masculine because that voice is my past abused scruffy scrapper who protects me but she's a wild child. Learning and listening to my strong feminine lady friends have shown me how many times but I'm still learning to step back .

Very wise YOUNG lady

What if know your husband is not dependable and doesn’t hold himself accountable. Always blames everyone els when something goes wrong .

@ronaldrobinson4559

3 ай бұрын

Shes speaking about good men.

16:48 thank you baby. This video. Is helping my research 😅❤

Videos like this from ladies such as yourself gives me hope that civilization actually may not collapse within my lifetime. 👍

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I’m a man who attracts alpha woman. My question is, is it possible for a man to be submissive in certain ways? For example if I date a woman who is smarter than I am in regards to psychology and mental healing is it ok for me to be submissive within that field? My fear is that if I submit in certain situations I lose credibility within my strengths. On the flip side, having the emotional intelligence to admit that I’m inferior to my partner within that respective field could show self awareness and respect for my partner’s strengths. Please share your opinion on this.

@CataSowl

9 ай бұрын

I'm not the girl in the video, nor am I an "alpha woman" but, as a woman in general, I enjoy when people lay their worries or admit something akin to admiration to me, makes me feel all giddy and take their feelings more into account, basically makes them more human in my eyes, also, it depends on the woman, we all have our strengths and weakness after all, for example, if your partner told you of one of their weakness would you think any less of them? there's your answer.

Honestly I had to cry because I am really struggling. I ended up getting a wonderful man. But based on my adoptive mom's upbringing messed me up. She make me feel bad if I actually say I need help. I am really struggling to deprogram myself.

@danilaroche1156

Күн бұрын

You deprogram by getting therapy. Turning to Christ and forgiving your mom. The Bible also says that the Lord will renew your mind.

Great point about weak males. There very dangerous as well becuase there si easily controlled they are disloyal

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I love your advice.its so hard for me to be submissive when I work a full time job and when my man wants to come see me iam so tired from working all week. What should I do? He wants me to cook and wash his clothes give him sex four times a day the days we see each other I'm just so drained

@antoniaadams2084

Жыл бұрын

What does he do for you to help your burden?

@goldiejohnson6197

Жыл бұрын

@@antoniaadams2084 gives me a hundred dollars a week, that's it

@Himmiefan

Ай бұрын

@@goldiejohnson6197 Your relationship is more of a business transaction, and it doesn’t sound like he’s concerned about you.

Can you do a video on how to Challenge a men to be masculine.

@TheModernGoddessChannel

Жыл бұрын

There are a couple of videos on this channel relative to that topic. The Hero Instinct video and the Emasculated Male video.

@danilaroche1156

Күн бұрын

Check out Helena Hart & Adrienne Everhart. They aren't Christians but their content is great. There are tons of Christian youtubers who talk about masculine/feminine dynamic. Tons.

How is being submissive feel freeing? How does it make someone powerful exactly? Being submissive means to yield to someone else's authority or control or give way to someone or something else. It would easier to depend on someone if people were actuallt trustworthy. The mentality of being strong didnt come from nothing. It comes from evil people using or taking advantage of your vulnerability, dependency, you needing them, and manipulate you.

@spilledit

Жыл бұрын

Submission means it can't be all your way or the highway. It doesn't mean the other is now your controller. It means you have to be fair and accountable without ever crossing the line of disrespect.

@JesseTiny

10 ай бұрын

Submission doesn't make you powerful; women already have power, as we're equal in value to men (although different). Submission can feel freeing, because giving the majority of control to another person can relieve anxiety, responsibility, and even the amount of time you were spending on those things (literal time, or just mental occupancy). Letting someone else take control can make you feel fulfilled, less stressed, organized, focused, and even liberated for some.

@heathersnyder8789

8 ай бұрын

@@spilleditisn’t that just being respectful and responsible. I am so confused as what submission actually means. I am naturally respectful and understanding. What does it have to do with being submissive? Maybe I am just not understanding the definition.

You just talked to me.

Is it possible to heal while in a relationship?

@frederickowens2883

10 ай бұрын

Yes. It can be great especially if your partner is empathetic and supportive.

@danilaroche1156

Күн бұрын

Of course!!!!

I struggle with it because it's completely nonsense and just another way to avoid responsibility. Grow up.

Broke off not long ago because my ex gf grow up without a father figure and is exactly what your videos mentioned. She is not going to change. No girl is going to change even im proved myself as someone who can be trusted. Ive given up on girls in this age of 45. Love your truthful insights sister.

@danilaroche1156

Күн бұрын

Don't give up. I had no father figure. I endured tremendous abuse. I changed and healed. It's possible. I'm over 50 but I turned my life to Christ.