1. Shadow work (understand and accept self qualities so nobody can tell you otherwise, undertand what u do why u do it) 2. Dont judge others 3. Accept insecurities(make peace) 4. Accept past mistakes and learn from them GENUINLY 5. ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE PRESENT IN SOCIAL SITUATIONS 6. Nobody is thinking about you more than yourself

I am a very defensive person before. But now, if someone really show no respect and always say to me negative judgement . I ignore them and leave. Don't waste my time and energy on them at all.

@kdms.3377

4 күн бұрын

What if they are coworkers and you have to work with them?

@rburns1182

23 сағат бұрын

what if they are family or people you have to be with for long periods of time. I'm quite a defensive person and tend to get reactive when I feel attacked whether it was their intention to attack me or not.

David Beckham has always exuded that quiet confidence. I've always admired that trait in him.

Tbh it is very true that if you’re compassionate to yourself self you become more compassionate to others, I wasn’t taught to be compassionate but after I changed I do feel more compassionate

@DiaJin

16 күн бұрын

Not sure why it took so long to truly have that click in place for me - But it’s made the biggest difference on my own journey.

@allanpeter7700

16 күн бұрын

​@@DiaJin The thing is it's still weird for me to describe myself as kind and compassionate but I do actually help old people carry heavy stuff down the stairs and etc more. The biggest difference for me is breaking through my trauma and getting an implicit answer that I needed(maybe Idk I feel spectacular and the first time I've ever felt somewhat similar to who I envisioned), the compassion was a side effect for me. For me I dont think I could think could have nurtured my compassion the other way around since it wasnt really taught to me, I am bitter about my family, and generally people dont care about each other anyway.

Accept who you are, and realise you're not perfect which applies to everyone so that when people judge you don't care.

I love the reminder that we write our own story. It’s up to us to build our foundation of our character within ourselves and naturally over time we will free ourselves from the past identity of who we think we are vs. who we actually are now. Thank you for the weekly practical magic ❤

@DiaJin

19 күн бұрын

Yes yes. Thank you 😉🩵

This is such a beautiful message. I always tell my children that confidence is always kind. It’s a natural way that confidence moves through life.

So amazing to see you have overcome alcoholism etc. Even tough I don't know you personally, I am really proud of you. I can definitely see you have done a lot of inner work. Thanks for sharing < 3

love this! thank you Dia

This is great thanks for exposing this , all the fake it til you make it , and to encourage people to really be authentic and vulnerable -

You’re literally so gorgeous ❤

With social anxiety it’s generally you are so focused on being nervous when in reality you should on asking questions and absorbing information about the other person

thank you ❤ i’ve learnt a lot from this video

So informative, thank you!

This is a gorgeous video Dia, it all just comes down to accepting your whole self

This video is amazing!!!! ❤❤

I've watched a few different self help videos made by multiple ppl abt this similar topic and so far you're the only one that has not made me feel guilty abt my lack of confidence. Your confidence and the way you speak is so uplifting and your advice is so grounded and realistic. Rly loved this video

@DiaJin

7 күн бұрын

Aww I’m so glad it resonated with you 🩵🫶

It may be beside the point, but she is sooo pretty in many ways ~

This is just what I needed at this moment. I started a new job and I'm trying to retool my life. Your insights have been incredibly useful, providing me with productive areas to focus on. You speak in a realistic, down-to-earth way without resorting to overly optimistic platitudes. Thank you for your valuable advice.

@DiaJin

16 күн бұрын

I’m so glad to hear this! Thank you for leaving a comment 🩵

Thank you for this video ❤

Tysm! 💖

You're absolutely gorgeous! I appreciate the realistic advice that there's no quick fix solution to this, and that real confidence is not detached :) Love the honesty and wisdom.

@DiaJin

16 күн бұрын

Thank you for your kind comment! 🩵

you truly embody that quiet confidence and magnetism that you are saying because that is what made me click this video. i've come across several thumbnails nd i was quick to brush them off but when i saw this video, i was like .. woah. i know that each person has their own energy that radiates and shine on its own but i like your energy best :)

@DiaJin

16 күн бұрын

Aww thank you so much! I definitely still have many moments of self doubt and feeling uncomfortable but grateful for the progress. 🩵

Awesome!

What an amazing video, Dia! Great timing as well. I've been going through some stuff in my life recently (breakups, getting rid of toxic people) and this video really gave me a different perspective of things. Really appreciate it! Love the Arrival poster by the way :) Cheers from Brazil!

@DiaJin

17 күн бұрын

Wish you all the best! 🩵

thank u🤍!

The Gabor Mate book "In The Realm Of Hungry Ghosts" should be required reading for anyone considering the privilege of being a parent. It shows how our childhood environment impacts us as adults. It is far more than a book on addiction and a fascinating read.

This entire video, you've spoken and explained beautifully. You exude confidence and I can feel that being passing on to me as well. The first video I came across of yours and truly loved it. ❤️

@DiaJin

3 күн бұрын

Thank you for your kind words! 🫶

Good talk ❤

Thank you ❤

very smart and useful!

You speak so beautifully! I love listening to your wisdom. ❤️

@DiaJin

16 күн бұрын

Aww thank you 🩵🫶

Just came across your video, it got me thinking about a couple of thinks. And just want to say that you radiate selflove and calmness. To me it looks like you are proud of the person you are now. That's beautiful to see!

@DiaJin

5 күн бұрын

🥹🫶

Loved this segment this specifically resonated I think I’ll watch this every morning thank you for this Gem 💎

@DiaJin

16 күн бұрын

Awww I’m glad it resonated with you🫶

Fantastic video 🎉

Ahhh ❤ another amazing woman to be followed/subscribed, im on my self growth journey rn and the latter half part of this video resonates so much with me. Almost all my life ive been avoiding to get out of my comfort zone and making the term “introvert” as an excuse for everything. Thanks for this. You and some other amazing people out there really pushes me to take accountability with my life and live for the better. Love from 🇵🇭

@DiaJin

16 күн бұрын

Aww thank you so much for the kind comment. I resonate with this very much, as a self proclaimed introvert. 😉 wish you all the very best 🫶🩵

You always speak to the deepest part of me and seem to spark a light in the darkness, thank you for your message❤

@DiaJin

8 күн бұрын

aww thank you for such a kind comment. 💞

This video deserves more views 💗

@DiaJin

19 күн бұрын

Aww thank you 🫶

Ooo Dia your views are exploding. Great job !!!

Thank you for this amazing video❤I am currently 23 years old and loving myself had been such a huge topic in my life, and I often struggle to comprehend what it meant and how exactly I should achieve it, but watching your video definitely helps clearing my mind a lot! looking forward to see more of your videos in the future❤

@DiaJin

16 күн бұрын

I’m glad the video can add to your journey 🫶 and thank you for watching 🩵

Luv you’re absolutely gorgeous. 😊

i really needed this video today, thank you

@DiaJin

8 күн бұрын

💞

Tkssss❤❤❤❤

I loved this! Thank you ❤ subbing 😇

you are so pretty

hmmm satabishac girlll✨✨✨

Wow you are stunning

She's so pretty and calm, don't really know if I want to be her or marry her 😂❤

@DiaJin

16 күн бұрын

Girl stahp 😂 🫶

This change me

You are amazing wow - feel like I want to be your friend :)))))

You are absolutely beautiful just in every sense of the word, had to share that.

@DiaJin

8 күн бұрын

🥹thank u

Unrelated but I love your artwork in the background! It reminds me of something from the movie Arrival. It looks super cool!

@DiaJin

7 күн бұрын

It is from Arrival! One of my favorite movies 😛

@dreamergirl1140

7 күн бұрын

Wait wait wait!! I think it says "time" or maybe "there is no linear time". That's so cool!!!

I am a very Quiet guy. I like my own space & peace. But outside factors make me react....

❤

You are extremely gorgeous💕🥹

@DiaJin

8 күн бұрын

Thank uuu🥹🩵

Proverbs 3 : 26 [26] For the Lord will be your confidence, And will keep your foot from being caught.

Hiii, can i ask where do you get the poster in the background?

@DiaJin

12 күн бұрын

Hi I ordered the print off of Etsy I think and then bought frames on Amazon

@ivanasancort

10 күн бұрын

@@DiaJin Thank you!

Who read the title as "magnesium"? Anyone?

@DiaJin

17 күн бұрын

I had to triple check my own eyes when I typed it you’re not alone 😆

1st🎉❤

@DiaJin

19 күн бұрын

Woo!!🙏🏼💖

3rd :))

🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

The picture on the wall, is that from film Arrival?

@DiaJin

8 күн бұрын

yes! :)

2nd❤

@DiaJin

19 күн бұрын

🩵🩵🩵

It's John Wick.

why is your plant shaking the whole time?

@DiaJin

5 күн бұрын

Ghost

Hola guapa, que cambiarias si pudiera en el mundo

Please let us know why the plants in your room keep moving 🍀🫶🏻 thank you for the video

@DiaJin

Күн бұрын

😂there’s a fan in the room, I almost wanted to just let the mystery remain but seeing this is the second comment on the ghostly plant

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