I can fully recommend what Brad says with regard to giving your ex space, thinking space, space to miss you. And there's no time limit with regard to feelings. Just coz you haven't got back with your ex for a number of months or even years it doesn't mean it's not gonna happen. My ex finished our 17 year relationship 13 months ago & it's only in the last month that he's reached out & showing he still has feelings for me. I'm being very careful not to push things too quickly, just playing it cool & keeping things friendly with abit of flirting every now & then! We are arranging to see each other soon after initially spending an evening together but not as a date, just as friends at what was our family home as he's still living there. We're taking things slowly & bit by bit through messaging we're reconnecting. He knows exactly how I still feel about him & how much I still love him dearly so it's just a case of him showing me how he feels about me & building trust again. I'm very optimistic about the future but anything can happen yet. I'm not interested in dating anyone else, despite lots of people telling me I should start dating. But I'm not ready or interested as I want to be with my ex. Listen to your heart if others tell you the same. It's up to you in the end. It's your feelings at stake, not theirs. It doesn't mean that you'll find happiness by dating someone else, it could just confuse you even more! Listen also to Brad & what he says, he talks sense. As hard as it may seem at first to do what he says, it will (believe me) pay off if you do things right & at the right time. Slowly, slowly, catch the monkey! Thank you so very very much Brad. I really can't thank you enough for your invaluable advice through your coaching programme & watching your many videos. Without you I wouldn't have got this far in understanding the male psyche & in rebuilding bridges with my ex.😘🤗❤️

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

You're welcome! Thank you so much for the support. I appreciate you.

@TimStJohn-xp8rv

2 ай бұрын

Happy for you!!!!

@chonkybenetgods

2 ай бұрын

How are you both doing now?

@MeineMausi1

2 ай бұрын

Sounds like you have done pretty much everything correctly...Very good for you and good luck.

Well, my biggest problem is literally never knowing when to shut it 😅

@highbridmoments

2 ай бұрын

Same

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Make it a personal challenge of yours to overcome, especially at times like these when you both really could benefit to some quiet time apart. This can naturally happen if you find other important things to keep busy on. This vid may help, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z3tlq7SMXc-ppsY.html Best of luck!

@krose318

2 ай бұрын

@BradBrowning it stems from my PTSD and I can honestly say I have gotten better relationships advice from your videos than years in therapy. You helped me learn that i have an anxious attachment, and I'm working on that. I'm on my 10th of no contact (again). The longer I'm in no contact, the better I feel. I'm working on a novel and going to the gym 3 times a week when it used to be none. You're helping people find themselves again. Thank you

@dudleylandsberg1747

2 ай бұрын

Me too. That's why I got blocked. Oh well. I wish her well. Hopefully one day she will unblock me so I can apologize. I don't even want to get back together. I just want to apologize.

@elizabethayllon3982

2 ай бұрын

Same with me,but when if you pull your energy and invest in yourself.I tried no contact for 2 months,it was a struggle every minute but to tell you,even how stubborn he is,he will come back rushing.

Brad is the man, I listen to him all the time❤ It really helps me...

@BradBrowning

21 күн бұрын

Hey man, I appreciate your support! Thank you.

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t. I don’t know why I’m saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

@sharonhazelden5834

2 ай бұрын

She may surprise you & come back to you. Just coz she's met someone else it doesn't mean it's gonna work out. The grass isn't always greener. Just try & remain friends & tell her that you'd like to stay friends. You'd rather be friends with her than nothing atall. But don't bug her, give her space & try & get on with your life (easier said than done I know, been there & still going through it) but don't stop living in hope. Don't give up. Improve on yourself, whether that's getting fitter, losing weight, improving your sexual technique, taking up a new hobby/interest, travelling etc. Do what you wanna do now you have more time. Meet new & interesting people. Join clubs that interest you. Distract yourself so you're not thinking about her every waking moment. Once she knows you're OK without her, it'll make her sit up & notice & she may start to reconnect. I wish you all the luck in the world. Don't give up.😘🤗❤️

@rimi-vlog

2 ай бұрын

Same. 18months relationship and he monkey branched to anther girl. And they together 5 months now. I couldn’t eat, sleep, cried all day, I can’t live without him right.. so I was begging, gave him time I did everything I can but he really cold to me now. No contact only 9days it feels like 9months. Idk if i can do this over 30 days with this pain.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aYSXyKmeetS7idI.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pmp9l81uZdPUc6g.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

@dudleylandsberg1747

2 ай бұрын

I've been through that. She eventually moved on. And after about 7 months I moved on. I felt great after that. Was grateful for the memories. And found new purpose in life. Realized there's many other interesting people out there to meet. Eventually my ex unblocked me to wish me for Xmas then we made amends and became friends. And sometimes that's the best thing. We all have to move on. But it's unnecessary to have animosity.

@imperialgrind3128

2 ай бұрын

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100% needed this at this very moment! Thank you!

@BradBrowning

6 күн бұрын

You're welcome! Please like and subscribe if you haven’t already: kzread.info”

Hi Brad! How do you maintain no contact if you’re in the same friend group/ group chats as your ex?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

You can take a break for a bit. This is for your own good, though. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hYiAzNubqczHcrQ.html Good luck!

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t.

@Carson-pv4hr

2 ай бұрын

A woman's never yours just your turn

@liztowers2058

2 ай бұрын

False ​@@Carson-pv4hr

@liztowers2058

2 ай бұрын

If she loved u like you loved her ..she never would have left. Period. Move on. Heal.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aYSXyKmeetS7idI.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pmp9l81uZdPUc6g.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

Hi brad! I know we shouldn’t ignore our ex when they call or text. But what should we do if they make it clear that they don’t want to get back together, but keep calling and staying in contact because they’re lonely and miss me. After hanging out having a great time as if we are dating, she says “we’re not together” (we broke up 3 months ago, and were together for almost 9 years).

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

You can use this to your advantage if you're confident enough to be on your own and really give your ex the space she needs. What you do is put some boundaries and prioritize yourself first and what you need during this time, which is healing and acceptance and you can't do that if your ex keeps contacting you for her own needs. If you don't set boundaries, you'll end up becoming your ex's backup plan. So I need to reiterate this: it's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time needed to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Here's how not contacting your ex can help you a lot: kzread.info/dash/bejne/rKtkpcquiKarndo.html Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? You ought to teach your ex these very important lessons: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZoWZj5Z6XabWhrw.html On the other hand, you can work on the issues together but you have to make sure you're on the same page and you aren't being manipulated and/or strung along. Are you seeing any progress? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed and so I can guide accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Talk soon?

I was always the needy clingy one. I tend to make it 3 weeks then I start to miss him. We broke up and started talking again after a year apart. This last time he told me he loved me haha but couldn't commit to me and I didn't really want to share so I told him to go be happy. It appears he's already working on someone new. I guess what I learned from all this is if they leave your life once just be done. It's not worth reopening the wound once you started to heal. I spent so much time hoping he would come back and after a year he did only to break my heart again. 😢❤

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Time can be your ally or it can be a hindrance. But in your particular case, the fact that he's entertaining someone else even after a lot of time away from you is a huge red flag you best not ignore next time. Anyway yes, I would agree. Move on from this as you deserve someone better.

Waiting for your new Video and here it Comes thankyou Sir ❤

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Hey, you're welcome! :-) And thanks so much for your support, too. Best of luck!

I’ll have to get your book. Any advice on long distance?

@BradBrowning

28 күн бұрын

Hi! Thanks for your interest in getting my product. Check these out first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYWNlrBpZNjcpKQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z6KaubSDgtXUcdY.html and to purchase the Ex Factor Guide, simply click on this link: www.breakupbrad.com

-Everyone don’t have social medial -Also those who have it they block! -Give examples of those who don’t have social media (think outside the box).

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Did you watch the whole vid? You can easily refer to the other tips mentioned here that has nothing to do with social media because that's pretty much out of your control. Stuff like self improvement and finding the right support system which are equally important!

If they miss you, but made conscious decision you aren’t right for them they will never come back

@theexmate

2 ай бұрын

No this is only your perspective.....no one can decide that they will never come.....if you rebuild your connnection then they were surely attracted....you have understand the dynamics of breakup....dont worry....stay motivated

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

If you two really aren't compatible anymore or is predominantly negative to a point where you've grown apart, then stop wasting your time. It may be best to be free of this. The breakup looks like a blessing in disguise and this may help you process or deal with the breakup accordingly: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aa6kmbV_ksipgrg.html but if you find you need more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com

@warrior_of_light

4 күн бұрын

What If my ex IS the One reaching friends for help? How she Will miss me If she is always making her time busy?

Thank you brother

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

You're more than welcome!

Hey Brad.. why does my ex keep contacting me without any plans of reconciliation? I am genuinely tired of this and want him back

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

It could be due to a lot of factors ranging from genuine interest to him trying to get an ego boost. I can't predict without knowing more about your situation. There's also the possibility that he could be trying to be friends with you right after the breakup. If that's the case, apply the tips from this vid: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hYt5tNiYqZbJZdo.html

Guys, I just had a break up after a two year healthy relationship. I have been breaking the no contact rule severally but 4 months into the break-up I have found my purpose, I have done some serious introspection to my life, and I have also come to the realization she wasn't that special. (I had several attempted suicides during the shock, and sorrow stage I deeply loved her). I'm actually ready to date again

@BradBrowning

15 күн бұрын

That's nice to hear. Happy for you! :-)

Hey Brad. Me and my ex had a long distance relationship. We have known eachother for Almost 2 years. We have Planned to Meet up a few times she lives 3 hours from me. We have broke up before or stopped talking. And everytime after a period of time she has reached out to me and Wanted to work things out. This time we broke up because we argued sometimes. How do you thing this Will work with no contact?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

It'll work to clear your minds and decide if it's really worth continuing this kind of dynamic. However, a long distance relationship requires a solid foundation for it to work, not to mention an enormous amount of trust with each other. The former always precedes the latter. Fighting, when you’re already miles away from each other doesn’t help, especially if it happens frequently. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYWNlrBpZNjcpKQ.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z6KaubSDgtXUcdY.html

How will I get my ex back or show her I’ve been improving on myself if I’m blocked in every way shape or form aside from letter writing?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

I'm sure you have mutual friends? Chances are if you're both still single, news about you will reach your ex, assuming it was a significant relationship. Also self improvement is mainly for yourself. And lastly, here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 and don't forget to take the quiz if you still want to know what your chances are and/or still have questions on what to do after, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz

My ex recently finished with me last month. We're going to a concert on Tuesday )which we booked last year). I want to start no contact the day after. How should i act on tuesday? Should i be fun and happy to leave that memory or should I be quiet and standoffish to show im disconnected?

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

This video is for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ZIOat6Nyn5W1oNo.html

i am in a possibly terrible situation, she broke up with me 4 months ago and since then we have seen each other daily bc we go to college together, share classes, and have all the same friends. i have also done all the begging and stuff for the first few weeks and i know that that wasn’t good. i have also started some deep conversations where i have asked emotional questions and apologised a lot. we both graduate next week and that worries me bc i am very easily cut off after that. she is very cold and distant with me now, however she did say that things could be fixed the day after we broke up. i scored a 68 on your quiz. what should i do now?

@theexmate

2 ай бұрын

Chances will never go offf.....the matter of fact is that....she is taken you as a granted.....no contact rule works here in your case also

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Do the thing that you failed to do and hope it's not too late yet. This vid is for you: kzread.info/dash/bejne/oKSps8RqcbO5kbg.html

Hi Brad me and my ex broke up 2 weeks ago now, I was thinking to message her in another 2 weeks after the no contact phase and tell her I’ve got tickets for a football match she’s always wanted to go to watch them with her son, my friend sorts me tickets for cheap and she knows this so I thought i would say something like “Hiya hope everything’s good with you, my mates sorted me 2 tickets for the United game but I can’t make it so I thought of you and Josh, do you want them and just sort me the money whenever you can? X” Let me know your thoughts I thought it would be something thoughtful to offer for her to break the ice, she’s always wanted to go to the game with her son let me know

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Just wait until you reach the 30-day period before contacting and yes, that's a good message. Be careful of being too nice though. Remember she's your ex and not your girlfriend anymore but if you feel this is something you must do, then just make it clear whether those tickets are a gift or something she has to pay back at a later date. But also be prepared for the possibility to never get the money back. I'm only emphasizing this bit because I've seen cases where folks use that kind of scenario as an excuse to maintain contact with an ex when the ex is barely reciprocating the message. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qqOg06yPpNyTgKQ.html You're also welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you're unsure how to go about this or you're planning to do something but not sure if it's a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@johncollins-is4ib

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning the game is on Wednesday it’s the last game of the season so I won’t be able to get any more if I don’t tell her on Tuesday, which will be just over 3 weeks of no contact, I recall you said if the relationship was a bit shorter term then 3 weeks could be enough? We were together for 4 months, I wouldn’t mind waiting the full 30 days but this is a genuine reason to break the ice and contact her, if I don’t ask her about the tickets Tuesday then I won’t get the chance to do it again… what are your thoughts

Hi after 4 weeks of no contact i contacted my ex. And the contact was quite positive and i was abled to let her laugh multiple times on the chat. After a few days of doing this i aaked her to meetup and she agreed. Shortly after she even sent me a needy text message in the night. But after that she became more distanced and takes a lot of time to reply. She told me that she wasnt able to meetup at the date we arranged and asked for another date. Now i try to find a new date but she is not really incorporating with it. What should i do from now on?

@Blankblannk

2 ай бұрын

Sorry to say. You messed up reaching out. And you messed up trying to rescheduled after she canceled. This doesn’t mean the interaction wasn’t positive. But she left you. The dumper has to reach out to you. They have to do the work. The more you pull, the further they go away. If she wants to hang out with you, she will put the effort in. She will either reach out or not. If she doesn’t, you should already be moving on. Forget her. Grow yourself. If she does, keep it short and play it cool. Like you would talk to anyone. Keep your feelings unknown. The girl needs to do most the pulling in relationships anyway. Start NC again. And DO NOT REACH OUT. Good luck.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Try to chill, man. If you appear too eager, that will turn your ex off but if you appear indifferent, she will be discouraged. So try to find a balance, yeah? Focus on texting and try not to meet up when one or both of you aren't ready yet. The phase you're on (assuming you've done the first phase correctly which is the 30-day no contact rule) is the second phase where you're rebuilding attraction. It's part two of the 3-phase system in my guide but here's a quick overview to help you understand better: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but as you go on this phase, you'll notice one or more signs here: y2u.be/nmRM3dZAzDA and the best you can do is to continue to play your cards right and move to the third phase when you're both ready. Good luck!

It's been more than 30 days since i'm in no contact and i was wondering if i should reach out to her or should i wait for her to make the first step? And if i should reach out to her, what could i possible tell her? Thank you!

@Blankblannk

2 ай бұрын

Don’t reach out. Assuming they are the dumper and you did nothing wrong, they either reach out to you or you move on.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

You can reach out to your ex after the 30-days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aYSXyKmeetS7idI.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pmp9l81uZdPUc6g.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

How do i do 30 days when shes 12 weeks pregnant with my child and isnt sure what she feels anymore... we have baby appointments so how do i do no contact

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

You don't, as your case is one of the exceptions to the no contact rule. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!

Hey brad my ex has unblocked me but she says that she is not here to give me hope etc. But I want her back what should I do?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that. I suggest you start with this to give you an overview on how to go about this: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but you're also welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you're unsure how to go about this or you're planning to do something but not sure if it's a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

I wish I learned this info sooner. I feel like I already ruined things by doing literally all the opposite of what you said.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

You're not alone. Most people who are emotionally invested tend to do mistakes but this is what my channel is about, to hopefully help bring balance back to the mistakes. Anyway redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ga6K28-SnrSshM4.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mGuu17qkXda8o6w.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aH9n2tefddqrdso.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com Best of luck!

I was blocked almost a year and tried to reach out via email. I feel hopeless right now. If there is anything I can do to increase my chance?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Hi! Sadly, no. The best you can do is live your best life. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hYiAzNubqczHcrQ.html Is it possible you're blocked or put on spam on his email too? But in most cases where an ex has ghosted you or blocked you everywhere where contact is impossible and you can't text/call/email even though a lot of time has already passed (i.e: more than 6 months), then I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it's likely over for good. It's one of the things I've discussed here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eIRsu89-oqi1h5s.html

Been 9 months since she left. 3 months NC for a third time, been removed from socials so doubt she’s missing me or going to reach out.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

That's not good. Never wait around for anyone. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aXWbtduQism9hpc.html Give each other space, yes, but put some boundaries up especially as to when and how long you'd try but also don't rush it. It's complicated to explain it all in one go but my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide should give you a step-by-step process on how to go about it. In the meantime, here's a quick overview: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html

Hi Brad, I broke up with my ex 2 weeks ago because he wanted to “have a break and feel independence” but I refused to have my life on pause for him. He was really sad and moved out and now we’re on this break/breakup. We’re still friends and we text but I’ve been trying to be cold. The thing is we have a lot mutual friends (6 years together!) and we still go to the same coworking space on weekdays. How can I leverage this situation to my advantage if I want him to crawl back to me? Thank you

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

If he's been feeling unsure about the relationship, taking a break was a good call. You may find more helpful stuff on this vid, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/g4R-0tSDpcmTmbg.html

@di114n2

6 күн бұрын

Stop contacting him

Thank you sir

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

You're welcome! I'd appreciate it if you'd like and subscribe to my channel so you'll know when a new vid is out. Take care!

@1life2life

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning done

Can this still work after a month of being in contact? Edit: After breakup there was a pause for two weeks and after that we tried to be friends but I broke down a tried to get her back (and she obviously refused me and asked to stop)

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

It's your best bet to cut off contact and give each other space. Going your way and forcing things to work when they're clearly not working will only alienate your ex further. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hYiAzNubqczHcrQ.html

@Chatterscompany

Ай бұрын

I adjusted the advice in your various videos to my situation, but I generally did two weeks of no contact, then two weeks of begging essentially because I didn't really have a plan back then. Then I did like 27 ish days of no contact except for giving each other our stuff back and so on. After that she texted me she missed me, we met up and got back together. It may not work for everyone, but it worked for me. Thanks for your part.

I stopped talking, and they moved on to someone else. They dont miss me. Im the good luck Chuck. I help them heal, build their self confidence, make them feel good about their looks. They get hit on, we break up, they date new person and im cut out forever. Its just the way it is.

@BradBrowning

15 күн бұрын

That's harsh and I'm sorry you went through that. And no, not all relationships are that way. Anyway s tough as it may be, it's always best to come to terms with the breakup and the fact that you're both single now. Just to clarify, you doing the "no contact" rule neither prevents nor encourages your ex to go with someone new. In other words there's really nothing you can do to keep your ex from getting with someone new if they want to. This is something I've mentioned here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/iYp2ksGlZpO5oLA.html but looking at your situation, I suggest to consider moving on from this. Take care!

hi. me and my ex were 12 years together. we broke up by both agreeing that we should move on. we still lived happily together months cause there was no place for her to go and i didnt want to be mean to him and rush it or kick him out. during that time she started dating a guy and i told him to take his stuff and move there (im rly jealous and just now i realise i have huge feelings still....) Shes coming to pick her last stuff next week. do u think its good idea to ask then if she wants to see about 1month from now and catch up how life is going. we are both big part of our lives and good friends still. mby by then i rly know what im feeling..

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear. It's never easy when you still have to see them too soon after a breakup. Were you doing anything to try and rebuild attraction though? This really depends on how long you've tried to get her back and what your steps were to make it happen. If she's moving in with the new guy? If so then it's obvious she chose him and it's not a good idea for you to wait around for anyone. as you may end up putting your life on hold. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aXWbtduQism9hpc.html Give each other space, yes, but put some boundaries up especially as to when and how long you'd try but also don't rush it. It's complicated to explain it all in one go but my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide should give you a step-by-step process on how to go about it. In the meantime, here's a quick overview: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html

@G0tYaa

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning i didnt try to rebuild attraction during when we still lived together after the breakup (about 5 months we still lived together, she tried to find new apartment). she lived here about half weeks and half with her friends and time to time at the guys place. still all her stuff here in my apartment. and she is moving there cause i told him to get her stuff. other her friends apartments are too small (she told me. dunno if thats the case).. After she started picking her stuff from here i kinda realised my feelings are still there...mby jealous...mby its just fear to being alone in this apartment i dunno. during the first time when she came to pick her stuff i asked her is she with the new guy and she told me "i dont know if im rdy"... thats why i tought would it be good or bad thing to ask a meetup like after 1 month to just catch up how life is going?

We were in a relationship for only 6 months, and during the first 3 months, we had a lot of fun together. However, due to some personal reasons, we had to limit our contact for the following three months. She asked me to wait until everything got better, but just a few days ago, she told me she lost feelings for me. I pleaded with her the day after our breakup, asking for one last chance, but she said she didn't want to feel forced into it. She lost her feelings suddenly for no reason, I did everything I could in our relationship!! We've planned to meet for a movie in 12 days to discuss what to do about our future together. Brad, I'm really struggling with this. Can you please help me figure out what to do?

@Ft1giggity

2 ай бұрын

Also she's rude and arrogant to me now suddenly after the breakup

@kishannaidu8712

2 ай бұрын

Even I'm in the same state

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Maybe you've done too much? Giving and showing her love is good, but if you do it way too much and she's barely reciprocating, it's best to balance it off and back off or calm down a bit. Also communication is very important if you're supposed to be in a relationship with someone. Why did that broke down? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

can no contact work 2 months after the break up , after begging and pleading with them to take u back?

@BradBrowning

27 күн бұрын

Cutting off contact is still your best bet because continuing to push it is only guaranteed to take you nowhere. So cut off contact but consider letting go because your window of opportunity may have already passed. Discussed that here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/l2egl62QddOvoNo.html and especially if you see the signs here: y2u.be/k1myDIp0gSc

Help my ex we were together for over a year she went back to her ex so maybe I was th me rebound she asked to be exclusive and I did not want that I care much for her she has texted me from her mother phone called and said she need help I went to find she did not want anything I told her I do not want a friendship she called but now nothing I want to keep up no contact I know Monday we have the same friend she suppose to be at a cookout what to do I just do not want anything I feel like she lied to me about so much

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Is she still with her ex now? I really hate to burst your bubble here but let her finish whatever unfinished business she has with this ex. Sorry, but there's not much you can do at this point, especially if your relationship only lasted a short while and more so if she's seemingly (subconsciously or not) used you as a rebound, for your ex to jump back too quickly with him. Good luck and I hope you find the right woman for you soon!

my ex said she still has feelings for me but it may hurt both of us what should i do ?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Start by applying the tips for this vid unless she makes up her mind and decides to get back together with you. Here's a quick overview on what to do AFTER the "no contact" rule: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qpuGkpWLk7iendo.html and what needs to happen in between so be sure to watch the vid to the end. For specific advice that’s tailored to your situation, sign up for my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Talk soon!

Problem i have is tht my x contiues to call nd is asking me out it hasnt been in a week

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Unless he thought the breakup was a mistake and he's asking to get back together, it's best to focus on texting and try not to meet up when one or both of you aren't ready yet. The phase you're on (assuming you've done the first phase correctly which is the 30-day no contact rule) is the second phase where you're rebuilding attraction. It's part two of the 3-phase system in my guide but here's a quick overview to help you understand better: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but as you go on this phase, you'll notice one or more signs here: y2u.be/nmRM3dZAzDA and the best you can do is to continue to play your cards right and move to the third phase when you're both ready. Good luck!

@phoebephoebs6548

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning i will be checking those links Brad , thnk you so much . And No it has been a 3 weeks only

My ex-girlfriend unfriended me on Facebook this week randomly. But she was watching like all my stories. I unfollowed her but wasn’t going to remove her. Is it because she was missing me a lot that she did that? Can I still get her back?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

She could be trying to get less of you but that's not really reveal her true feelings. As to your chances, I say generally it's still fair game unless you see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you. Here's the vid: kzread.info/dash/bejne/jK1-tNKhp6fJkZc.html and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!

@Batman2029

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning Yeah I really don’t know. I’ve been doing no contact and we haven’t been talking. It just felt random. I wasn’t bothering her. I have seen that video. She’s not dating or in a rebound relationship. She’s still single. I’ve been waiting for her to reach out. I feel like she was curious and thinking about me because she as watching like all my stories. I know it usually takes 3 to 4 months for an ex to reach out and feel diffeent about their decision. And I have taken that quiz before and my email is already registered in your system. So it won’t let me take it again.

@Batman2029

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning She also has a lot of our pictures still up on her Facebook.

Hi sir..our relationship was of 2 years nd she cane to know that its bot going to work further after 1 year itself due to caste issues nd family prblms but even then she tried nd we completed 2 years but 1.5 month ago her father came to know about our relationship which made it difficult she stopped talking with her nd she said that we need a break for 1 year after this we had many many more arguments fights which made her hurt at great extent... Nd now she is saying she don't know if we will continue after 1 year... Mayve she is moving on know but after the break up she suffered very much she cried alone.. but now i really wanna her back ASAP but she is making distance from me ... She says its better we will be friends what should i do sir ?? Plzz help

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Hi there! I don't know a ton about your culture but from what I've gathered, these strict rules of marriage you have and who to marry are unbreakable, right? In this case, I'm sorry but this is beyond a relationship counsellor's reach. We don't make or bend these laws as it's strictly your own. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!

and how do you make your ex miss you if you live together because you have kids and she has no money to move out?

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Start by having a life outside your relationship with your ex and since you've broken up, your interaction with your ex takes lesser priority. It's still equally important to not be too nice or be rude with your ex though. Please refer to this vid: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qqOg06yPpNyTgKQ.html Here are additional tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hYiAzNubqczHcrQ.html

My question is… is it already too late if I’ve been chasing them for a month after we’ve broken up? Can I start now?

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

In general, the more mistakes you do, the more you chip away your chances of ever fixing the relationship. Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: kzread.info/dash/bejne/ga6K28-SnrSshM4.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: kzread.info/dash/bejne/mGuu17qkXda8o6w.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aH9n2tefddqrdso.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com

Man, how can break up with a depressive person? I tried hard to change and was giving extremely efforts but nothing changed stayed the same and this is ruining my mental health. But, the problem is that she hurt herself.. I mean, cut arm and these thing.. She stopped, but, said that if leave will do much worse than did before and I don't wanna have that "guilty" on me. (never date a broken person)

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

If your ex has a mental disorder like depression, bipolar disorder, IED, NPD, or the like, the most loving thing you can do is to give each other space while he/she gets help. Encourage your ex to seek treatment because this is something only a therapist specializing on this can handle, even this is outside of my scope. But I can help you how to handle things on YOUR end as you go through this difficult ordeal. I know it can be incredibly tough knowing you’ve given it your best shot, yet your partner still fails to appreciate it or is breaking up despite it being a good relationship. Anyway it's a bad idea to be friends with an ex especially knowing they have a mental health condition. In the end, they will drain you and leave you with lots of scars that would take years of therapy. Consider signing up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@markomarkovic5729

2 ай бұрын

My ex used to do the same things, but stopped over 10 years ago (we were in a relationship for 15 years), she had a HUGE drinking problem + ex-addict (like me), she was also suicidal - right around this time in 2010 she was briefly in a mental hospital due to suicide threats. She said that she would never forget that I came to visit her, because of the social stigma and because her previous boyfriend didn't want to visit her when she was in the hospital few years before that. She healed in the meantime, stopped drinking daily and uncontrollably, got a job where she was promoted, and then she dumped me after everything. All I have left is the Hepatitis C I got from her. I don't know how long you've been together, but Brad's right - you're going to end up scarred after everything.

My ex and I have a house together and still live with each other she said she’s been grieving the break up for months now. So she is upset but not like I am cause I thought we were just going through a bad rough patch but thought we woood get through it. She said she wants me to take more initiative and do what a man Is suppose to do. So I’ve been trying to do whatever I gotta do around the house to show her I can be the man she needs me to be. I can see in her eyes when I tell her I wanna be better she wants to believe me but she wishes I did it a few months ago and says this is a slap in the face and why now the change since she’s done. But i can’t give up on our life and family together I know I can be a better man for her and make her happy. I was neglecting her and was blind but things been a huge wake up call

@BradBrowning

Күн бұрын

It's a risk because depending on how long you've been acting that way towards her, she may not be wanting to give you another chance. I've coached a few clients who've been in a really rough patch with their ex and while some have managed to get back together, others haven't. Hire me as your coach so I can take a closer look at your situation and what's really going on, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

I had one sided love from last two years. I loved the guy. We met virtually. We met only twice in these two years. The guy was confused sometimes he showed interest and sometimes he disappeared not sure why. But he was not in relationship with anyone. We used to talk over call for hours. Yesterday i met him and he wanted to end everything. Will silence be a way to bring him back?

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

A long distance relationship can be too much for most people and it's particularly challenging, if not impossible to sustain it especially if there wasn't any solid foundation built. So is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then it may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYWNlrBpZNjcpKQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z6KaubSDgtXUcdY.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Take care!

@snehajindal20

Ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning it was long distance. But he recently shifted. And he was still confused most of the time. It has been one week since i met him. And i don’t know how to make things better. Because i can feel he had feelings for me. But he never said that. And he always knew that i had feelings for him. Still he didn’t take backstep. Can you please guide me on how to make things work. And also regarding the coaching if i would be able to discuss and talk to you directly

After I broke up with my boyfriend during my 2-month relationship and he blocked me everywhere, I went to him and made up with him again, but it was short-lived. After about a week, he blocked me everywhere again, and this time I begged him, but it didn't help. I can't reach him now, but I'm still very much in love, I don't know what to do. 😔😔😔

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Begging never helps. But are you saying you dumped him first? If so, what was your reason? This vid may still apply to your situation: kzread.info/dash/bejne/i2me2bKaqNCwhbA.html

@Purebeautyize

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning No i had 2 broke ups with my boyfriend.At first he blocked me in every social media saying ''he wanted a simple relationship and i was too clingy and needy'' then i cannot find a way to reach him then i went to his office and said ''please can we try once more i missed you so much''We made up that day. Then week after he texted me saying once more again he wants to break up and never wants to see me face to face ,then blocked me from everysocial media again.Now i am waiting with patience during no contact rule.I feel like he is with another woman 😑

It been 90 days for me i still feel like reaching out. I just have a feeling its done what next

@imlizzyjo

2 ай бұрын

He makes videos but doesn’t respond?

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Not really sure why you waited 90 days instead of 30. Anyway you can actually reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aYSXyKmeetS7idI.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pmp9l81uZdPUc6g.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

I was blocked by my ex 8 months ago on my birthday august 3rd for absolutely no reason at all I reached out last week and then was blocked again for no particular reason I moved on now

@caelcooper8905

2 ай бұрын

Brad what do you think

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Here are the most common reasons for being blocked and my thoughts about it, including what to do: y2u.be/s52sRweJlm8 but since it's been more than 6 months, it may be time to consider moving on from this but you can also take the quiz if you still want to know what your chances are and/or still have questions on what to do after, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Take care!

My gf left me for second time and get into a new relationship just 15 days after break up and we were together for 2 years....she seems very happy in her new relationship and idk what to do its killing me everyday 😞

@nismoz3484

2 ай бұрын

When ppl go into a relationship right away its bc they cant handle being alone. And if she left you for the 2nd time then shes using you cause if she comes back again shell love you a 3rd time. I promise if you go silent, and not reply to her itll drive her completely insane. Let her know what its like to live without you

@dev_j02

2 ай бұрын

Rebound relationship. Won't last. Keep your head up. Things will get better - whether she comes back or not. You will be ok!!

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

In this case, wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: y2u.be/ZyJRphwDca4 and this should help guide you on what to do for the time being: y2u.be/hlikXIfMYN8 However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: y2u.be/gUB

Brad, my ex blocked my num with force of her parents. Next what wil do.

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

What happened? If your ex is in the right age to make her own decisions that’s independent from their parents, then there may still be a chance. Otherwise, it's best to consider moving on from this, okay? I’m not quite sure why parents had to get involved in the first place. It's either you're both too young to date or it has something to do with culture. Understand that the choice is ultimately up to your ex on whether to fight for you or not despite the opposition going on. Good luck!

@A-mq2qq

Ай бұрын

I revealed our secret relationship in whatsapp(shared our normal photo taken by outing)as a punishment in angry mood since she ignored to marry me.then after one oneweek I got missed call which is name of her brother.i recall that number answered but not speaking.then I just leave it. After one month I sent msg to her whatsapp number but single tick. Next what i do. Any possible she come back?

No contact is super easy for me because my ex blocked me on socials and even my number 2 days ago. We had our first disagreement and she completely melted down and ran away without even telling me we were done. We'll see if her feelings change with time but idk if I even want someone back that would react this way.

@kishannaidu8712

2 ай бұрын

Even I'm in the same state brother can we talk abt it

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Has she always been like this? She has quite a temper, then. Sometimes, that can be destructive for relationships but yes, give her space to think clearly first and calm down.

@davidhoward5687

2 ай бұрын

Absolutely the first sign of an avoidant. She shutdown after a disagreement.

@LeeEverett1

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning Never knew about it Brad this is the first time I've ever experienced this. I knew she blocked exes in the past because she claims they were toxic, cheated, abusive etc so I thought nothing of it. All I did was tell her I felt she was taking me for granted and she literally had a meltdown blowing my phone up paragraph after paragraph basically saying "how dare you feel that way". I'm still blocked it's been 2 weeks 🤣

@LeeEverett1

2 ай бұрын

@@davidhoward5687 I just learned about the avoidant attachment style because of her. It's crazy man idk if I can be with someone that runs away from every dispute that's not how relationships grow or resolve things

What if you've been ghosted by your ex, like she won't talk.

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Is this your first breakup? The "no contact" rule comes naturally to the dumpers. Learn the 3 basic phases I teach in my Ex Factor Guide because this lets you know the basics of my 3R system here first, so you'll have an idea on how to go about it on your end: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw

He asked me if I’m seeing someone now, I asked why he asked and he said he is interested. This is after few months NC. He also said he wanted to come see me. And this was on FaceTime

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Discussed that here and how to handle it, so please make sure to watch from start right to the end: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aHWnw9mxe7uYlMo.html

@gbemiolatunji5414

Ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning thank you, seen the video and it was really helpful

Im using no contact for 2 months?? But my ex caught me using dummy account i feel all my hardwork are gone

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Although I hate to admit it, that kind of needy, borderline creepy behaviour coming from you does have an impact to your chances. You'll likely see most if not all the signs that your ex is over you and you may have to move on yourself. Here's the vid: kzread.info/dash/bejne/jK1-tNKhp6fJkZc.html and especially if those signs prevail over a prolonged period of time. If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!

How does it work if you still live together?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

It's another story if you live under the same roof after a relationship ends. I suggest you do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!

@lanniefisher8714

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning Thank you very much!

What if it takes more than 30 days. There's no magic number.

@sharonhazelden5834

2 ай бұрын

See my comment above. No there's no time limit. Don't go by the 30 day no contact rule. That's just a guide. It may take months or even years for you to rekindle your relationship. It depends ultimately if your ex wants the same as you. Good luck. Hope it works out however long it takes.🙏🏻😉🤗

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

That's right, there's no magic number. I also agree with Sharon, the above commenter. All this is just a guide and 30 days is the benchmark. If you guys are wondering why it has to be 30 days, I've posted an in-depth explanation on my website. Feel free to check it out at www.breakupbrad.com

It’s hard not to talk to them when you have kids. We are about to separate and I feel my life is ending. Pure devastation. I will give her space but how I not see her when I see my kids.

@BradBrowning

4 күн бұрын

If you're hellbent on trying to work things out, let me just set expectations that it's a tough battle for sure with kid/s involved and/or usually other responsibilities still tied to your ex, but it's best you do limited contact or what I call the dynamic "no contact" rule instead of the full on silence associated with the no contact rule. Prepare for things to be tough but if you play your cards right and depending on the extent of damage done, it can actually still be salvaged. Try to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be by applying the tips here as much as possible, in addition to my newer vids I've posted: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYiep6OAerq6paQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/lniO1NCHmJuyf8o.html or for a comprehensive guide on how to go about things, consider getting the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

Only been 2 weeks with no contact, but 2 nights ago I got a message saying she hoped I was okay, sorry for not replying to what I wrote on whatsapp (last time we exchanged messages briefly) and that she appreciated how maturely I handled it and thanked me for it, then ended the message with "just wanted to say that". To me it Felt unnecessary for her to send me a message like that, idk why she did to be honest. I replied the day after that I appreciate it, its going up and down and I hope you're doing okay too. I'm not really into chasing or playing games, but I'm also tempted to just delete the message as I don't owe her anything and I'm starting to feel more resentment towards her.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Feel free to ignore her if your emotions are running high, which is understandably so. This is why it's important to give each other space. This goes for you and your ex. So unless your situation falls under one or more of the scenarios here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/l5-Tltmpm7mcZsY.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/iWudpY-geNDAYqQ.html it's best you ignore contact from your ex. If your ex continues to reach out to you during the no contact stage, however, then this really depends on the frequency and nature of the contact from your ex and whether or not you've reached the phase where you're supposed to be talking again. The only exception is if your ex asks for you back and is sincere about it. If your ex continually messages you, then it’s important to put your ex’s messages into context, more so if this happened during the “no contact” phase. Is your ex trying to contact you about something really important, like an emergency, unpaid bills, or something equally urgent? These are reasons to respond, including messages where they get angry due to your lack of response. Discussed that in full detail here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYiep6OAerq6paQ.html So if your ex is really just texting some useless random stuff and/or asses their power over you, then you can just ignore and continue on with the 30-day "no contact" rule. Use your discretion. Watch and follow the tips here: kzread.info/dash/bejne/lJuDqZusYcnHk5s.html

If both people are not talking to eachother thinking the other person will break the silence, it may be a 10- 20 year showdown.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

The 30-day no contact rule is named that way for a reason. It's not supposed to go way past the 30-day period if your aim is still to try to win your ex back. So let me clarify: you can reach out to your ex after the 30-days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aYSXyKmeetS7idI.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pmp9l81uZdPUc6g.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com

She broke up with me just 4 days ago which was a 5 years relationship . We were so happy even though it’s a long distance relationship. Small fights and problems would occur here and there which we used to sort out easily and get together again, but never went this worse like ever due to some wrong manipulations from people around her. So she broke up with me. And now that space is filled by another guy. She’s trying to hold him so strong and be with him. I can’t remain quiet. I’m so hurt and so desperate now. I can’t do my regular chores and concentrate on anything. I’ve been blocked in all the social media apps and I have no any other choice to contact her. I really miss her so badly. I need her back with me. But I don’t know what to do right now. 😢😢😭😭

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that. The distance has clearly taken its toll here and your ex could be rebounding and the other person is providing the physical companionship which you couldn't offer at the moment. However, you should not, under any circumstances, wait to find out whether their relationship works out or not. Focus on yourself instead and love yourself first. Watch and apply the pointers here, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYWNlrBpZNjcpKQ.html and kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z6KaubSDgtXUcdY.html However if you want to do something because you firmly believe there's still a chance between you two. but not sure how to go about it, then this is where I come in. Sign up for my coaching program so I get to know more about your situation and therefore be in a more competent position to advise accordingly, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

We broke up 8 months ago, and we talked after for alil while, then stop she messing with another dude 4 months later, I found out apr14 did no contact until may 6 she dms me with hi i was notified she was drinking so I waited until the morning to respond wasup. P.s. she been saying she miss, love, and care about me for months we been together for 7year

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

So what happened? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@Almgaming3

2 ай бұрын

@BradBrowning I just did the 1on1 she just recently sent me a dm explaining how she feels bad about our situation. She thinks I hate her and that nvr wants to speak to her again, but days the opposite, I didn't respond because idk wat to say my b-day coming up. I was going to see if she was gunna to wish me a happy one, and then I'll respond to that she said she wants to be cordial at least and she still love and care about me and that will nvr change she said she always asking ppl about me and telling dem she miss me

I am leaving with my ex what should I do I am get crazy I don’t even sleep good at night time not even eating I get so skinny 😢

@BradBrowning

Сағат бұрын

I feel you and I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. A breakup doesn't just affect people on an emotional level but on a mental and sometimes, on a physical aspect too. This may help you process or deal with the breakup efficiently: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aa6kmbV_ksipgrg.html but if you find yourself needing more guidance on how to lead a more fruitful life without your ex, get my Beat the Breakup Guide at www.beatmybreakup.com or get my Ex Factor Guide if you want to try to get your ex back in the best possible way, at www.breakupbrad.com Take care!

Well … actually I am in no contact with him 6 months almost , he gets back to his ex …

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

I really hate to burst your bubble here but let him finish whatever unfinished business he has with this ex. Sorry, but there's not much you can do at this point, especially if your relationship only lasted a short while and more so if he’s seemingly (subconsciously or not) used you as a rebound, for your ex to jump back too quickly with her. Good luck and I hope you find the right guy for you soon!

@user-dq9iu3oq1r

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning we have been together 2y6m …leave together…

If im.a cheater i dont deserve happiness or love im no use to anybody all i do is screw up and hurt everyone

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

All these issues within yourself are more often than not, unresolved trauma from childhood and it's best to resolve that once you're ready to face them and really work on yourself. It's best to get out of the victim mentality though and remember you have a choice. Seek the help you need when needed.

My ex birthday is comin' up soon. Should I send him a Happy Birthday 🎂🎉🍷 text?

@georgelincolnrockwell3966

2 ай бұрын

No

@GordonPavilion

2 ай бұрын

No

@arfi_saldian

2 ай бұрын

Absolutely No

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Yes, it’s fine to send a quick one-line Happy Birthday text (or meme is maybe even better actually) during No Contact. Stick to NC for the remaining days of the 30-day no contact rule though, even if your ex replies to your birthday text.

09:04 🤣

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

lol thanks for dropping by!

Is not working he gets a patern of 2-3years on different relationship and between those getting back to the same woman … that is happening over 26years … Thanks ❤

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

That's a huge red flag! Move on from this and chalk it up to experience, yeah? Take care!

The problem is you post something on social media and not responding her messages. She'll know you doing this on purpose... In this case, posting good life still good?

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

As much as possible, it's best to post like you normally would in terms of frequency. Here's a vid that may help as well: kzread.info/dash/bejne/dmV70rRufaTWgc4.html

Me and ex are slowly coming back together but since his gf broke up with him i wanted to be silence with him for a bit🥺🥺😊😊

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Yes, give him time and space but he should be low priority the moment he's seeing someone else. Be sure to open your dating pool and explore other options well (because your ex is clearly doing the same) and don't be stuck on your ex, yeah? Apply the tips here, too: kzread.info/dash/bejne/d4iftI-mmJyTfKQ.html Good luck!

It seems so unnatural to not talk with her every day. We lived together for a year and a half and never fought a day. To not share the little things every day is wierd.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

I understand where you're coming from. Chances are your ex feels the same way about the breakup and is trying to cope. What were the issues in your relationship though? The absence of fighting doesn't necessarily mean both people are happy in the relationship or if it's a healthy one. A breakup doesn't happen out of the blue so it may be worth it to try and go back to the time where it all went wrong. Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

@hokiedevil

2 ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning Not fighting is a personality trait for me. Every company that I have run has operated this way once I took over. The primary issues are being away from her home and culture and how our age difference was seen amongst her family's neighbors

What should i do if we both work at a same company??

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Do limited contact instead and keep any conversation you have strictly work-related, especially the first 30 days after the breakup. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYiep6OAerq6paQ.html AND kzread.info/dash/bejne/lniO1NCHmJuyf8o.html

Not in every case but you need views. I always enjoy the silence

@theexmate

2 ай бұрын

In every case it will works....because you are so much into your ex....that you have pink tinted glass on your face in which you cant see cleary outside the relationship boundry

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

You can never go wrong with basking in the solitude of your own company and letting your mind and heart rest. And yes, I appreciate the views. Thanks!

So let’s say we live together…then what?

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

It's another story if you live under the same roof after a relationship ends. I suggest you do limited contact with your ex where you only discuss the essentials. Apply the tips here, too to help you out further: y2u.be/thVReUI9Vzs AND y2u.be/STL7ru4uSQk I know it's hard, but lots of folks have managed to follow the tips and succeeded. So if they can do it, then so can you! Good luck and be strong!

@bradygorman6510

Ай бұрын

@@BradBrowning Ok let's say we've been hanging out more often, doing things together again, and she's confirmed she isn't looking for other guys and prefers to make plans with me?

Why most of these videos talk only about the exes. Does it not have the same psychology in every human connection? What when the relationship hasn't been formed fully yet but the attraction and connection was there? Will they not miss me the same way? I personally feel that even at first this person rejected you they might actually fall in love with you if they realise they can lose you. It's funny how this all works sometimes.. I've learnt how to not react and give them what they want and stay calm.. one day they are not ready for a relationship the next they beg you to be with them.. and you just like wtf just happened 😂

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

It has the same affect if you play it right but I'd be more focus on what's stopping you two from forming a relationship/making things official? Make sure it's reciprocated and a healthy one based on honest, open communication.

Something that's troublesome is the mixed signals my ex is giving me. She gets upset when I bring up dating and she doesn't want to talk about it saying she's made it clear. But then in terms of a friend level she seems happier and keeps doing thoughtful things for me like making me tea and things of that nature.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

I hope for your own sake you're not keeping in touch with an ex too soon after the breakup. Anyway here's this to consider: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qpZ4stNrY7zHfqg.html so take the free quiz if you wanna know what your chances are, at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz However, that kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: kzread.info/dash/bejne/Y59-k9ubpamveKg.html

He walked away 3wks ago & actually gave him the break up. Started viewing my stories no stop, 3 days ago his Mom called to talk, since I really don’t know what to say to his mom, told her I was going to call her back🤷🏽‍♀️

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

You can be cordial with his mom and end the conversation politely next time. It helps if you get busy with your own life. Here are some tips to remember if you're trying to win an ex back and how important Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) is: kzread.info/dash/bejne/hYiAzNubqczHcrQ.html

Nah,once they're out, that's the end.Its her choice.No 2nd chance.Bye.

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

As I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you. You know your situation and your ex best. Sometimes a relationship can be salvaged and worth the save but sometimes it isn't, especially if there's cheating or some other type of abuse involved. It's your life and it's your decision.

As Dan Bacon says. Silence and ignoring her almost never works. You have to interact with her to reattract her

@TreMiller23

2 ай бұрын

Naw it do works just depends on how u treated them if u made them feel loved and wanted then she will remember that and plus you not pushing towards them they gonna wonder what the guy doing when usually you would be trying to constantly pleading then suddenly you stop and she knows how you was so into her and wanting her but you stopped she's gonna wanna know wassup with you 💯 it happens because she's thinking why is he not all on me like usual or trying so hard to talk to me especially if she just left and you were on good terms and you done nothing wrong it gives her time to think trust me

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Right after a breakup, there has to be silence first to help you process the breakup and accept it. Of course, there is a time to contact again. Refer to this to get an overview on how to go about things: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html Best of luck!

l😊😊

I think I make all the wrong steps to get my ex back for 7 months we've been talking hot and cold... She says she still loves me but she's dating "trying" to forget me and also she's asking me if I'm dating, etc... I sincerely just quit and went no contact. Its been just 6 days and she blocked me again 🤣🤦🏾‍♂️

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

Hey man, if it's been six months or more with little to no progress, it's seriously time to consider moving on from this. Never wait around for anyone. Watch this: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aXWbtduQism9hpc.html Give each other space, yes, but put some boundaries up especially as to when and how long you'd try but also don't rush it. It's complicated to explain it all in one go but my updated 2.0 version Ex Factor Guide should give you a step-by-step process on how to go about it. In the meantime, here's a quick overview: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aX6oz7ibdM7InNo.html

Men that do this usually aren’t healthy to be with. I’m now with someone who never goes a day without talking to me even when we fight. The men who did this to me made me feel anxious and depressed.

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Sure, in a different context, that's something that can be worked though because having similar fighting styles do help. Fighting styles include both parties talk about it when they're calmer or both walk away for a while or just take a breather before returning to whatever it is you two fought about, some couples sleep on it, literally. In this one though the context isn't in a fight but a full breakup. If you've just been dumped, silence is key.

This guy has the most annoying voice. But I listened to every word lol. Jesus

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

lol well thanks for watching, still!

@mau5pilot854

Ай бұрын

He doesn’t?

I revealed our secret relationship in whatsapp(shared our normal photo taken by outing)as a punishment in angry mood since she ignored to marry me.then after one oneweek I got missed call which is name of her brother.i recall that number answered but not speaking.then I just leave it. After one month I sent msg to her whatsapp number but single tick. Next what i do. Any possible she come back?

@BradBrowning

Ай бұрын

Why was the relationship a secret in the first place? Since your situation may be unique, I think you can benefit by working with me one-on-one so I get to learn more about the situation and therefore be more equipped to help you out, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can’t stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I’m frustrated, and i don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can’t.

@jack-gx

2 ай бұрын

I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

@BradBrowning

2 ай бұрын

If it's only been a month and you still want to try with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30-day "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: kzread.info/dash/bejne/aYSXyKmeetS7idI.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: kzread.info/dash/bejne/pmp9l81uZdPUc6g.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com