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@rashmivk8459

Жыл бұрын

Sir you absolutely nailed it. As a lifeskills trainer I can completely agree with you. I only pray ur message spreads to more people

@MeerZaroon

Жыл бұрын

Kya admi ko 40 me pheli shadi karni chaiye, kya yeh theek hoga, log mazak to nahi udayenge ab kyun kari bolke, plz is topic per video banao,

@meenuchaudhary4937

Жыл бұрын

पति पत्नी प्राइवेट लाइफ जितने अच्छी होगी उनकी सोशल लाइफ भी अच्छी होगी।😌

@anu2024-

Жыл бұрын

Sir,aap numerology me sare no ko achhe se explain kiye nehi.jaise no 1,5,6,9. Plz sir,km se km no 6 pe alg video kijiye

@Raja_aur_rudra.

Жыл бұрын

सही बात कही सर जी आपने

EGO is the problem in Indian parents…..it will take generations to change their mentality. Thanks for a eye opener video🙏

@prabhavenkatesh7931

Жыл бұрын

The root is attachment, dear. The whole of life is about learning to let go, believe me. If we don't do it voluntarily, it will be done involuntarily. Biggest issue is 'what will people say?'. Once that is given up, things fall into place.

@utopiancity8138

Жыл бұрын

​@@prabhavenkatesh7931things are changing slowly... Our generation is already changing and don't think much for this 'log kya kahenge '. Dhire dhire or change hoga ..

@siddhantsingh7606

Жыл бұрын

​@@utopiancity8138your comment justify your username. Ours is the most attention seeker and validation thirsty generation.

@alwayshappy2862

6 ай бұрын

​@@siddhantsingh7606 Agree with your comment Our generation also has many flaws but they don't look for it they just see flaws of parents and other people Our generation just blame others am frustrated by woke generation

@preitysingh8662

5 ай бұрын

True

"Maa baap bhagwaan ka roop hote hain" is the stupidest thing taught to Indian kids. Instead they should be taught that parents are humans too, they too make mistakes and learn as they grow as humans and parents.🙏

@rao433

Жыл бұрын

@@sureshpeshawaria347 don't trash the entire race just because you've medicre parents.

@rjk537

Жыл бұрын

@@rao433 ya some people have some sense in india some elite people have good sense its just that majority are like you and your mediocre parents

@monikaiyer4353

Жыл бұрын

That is said in a completely different context...that they protect us just as God protects us...if people misunderstand the saying..it is up to them.

@user-xb4kj2tu1j

4 ай бұрын

Unhi logo ney Mera bachpan kharab ker Diya

@sudershansingh2839

3 ай бұрын

I agree, parents are no god they're too living their life for the first time!

When I was in class 8, a boy asked his father, "Papa aap duniya k sabse ameer aadmi kyun nahi ho?" His father got angry and told this to the school teacher. The boy was beaten by the teacher and the teacher scolded and shamed him. But I wholeheartedly supported him because the boy asked the right question. The boy was always questions by his father that, "Why didn't you top the class?" Now, many will understand the boy's perception in replying back. The boy is a super successful individual now. Not sure how many understood him them but I am sure all are very interested in taking the credit behind his success now.

@infopedia7942

Жыл бұрын

I am a father of a son. If my son ask this question i will be happy because my son becomes a explorer and wants to understand the life and money. I will explain him everything why I failed to be a rich and why should not make mistakes like me.

@shreyashreya1328

Жыл бұрын

​@@infopedia7942very good sir❤❤❤

@mytravls

11 ай бұрын

What year was that?

@San_home-chef

Ай бұрын

Children can't question parents

@San_home-chef

Ай бұрын

90s kids were the last generation to be fooled. Children born after 2010 are so intelligent, they can't be fooled after a certain limit, that too till the child is five years old.

My entire childhood , I was constantly compared to other kids. Although i had many talents and was very creative, i lived thinking i was a failure. Parents and teachers all managed to crush my self esteem.

@devanshgupta4107

Жыл бұрын

😢

My father was IITian and none of us could make it to. He failed to understand the competion that has increased 1000 folds at our generation and the environment in which we were raised. True he struggled more as child financially than us and he gave us better finance than what he received but the constants comparision that we faced from himself as we were compared with him day in day out which made our self confidence go down. Glad that one fine day he convinced himself that we simply lack in talent like him and things eased out but that was bit late and our majority of youth time went in believe we are not as good as him.

@doctorpanigrahi9975

10 ай бұрын

He is a narcissist. Stay away from him and save your energy.. Not a single IITian has ever scored a Nobel prize in science.. With all that competition India still has to import weapons, because we lack talent.. Mugging up theories and applying them are different things..Your dad is not more talented than you, You have different priorities.

@SR-mv2mf

10 ай бұрын

That’s a waste.. your father sounds to be a stupid man actually. Job of father is different than what he did

@jyotiprakash1187

7 ай бұрын

Absolutely correct. Competition is 1000 times.

Middle class parents have egos taller than Everest...

@FlowersAmazing

Жыл бұрын

Very true!

@Himanshu.Harleyx440

Жыл бұрын

V true

@tdkeditz7331

Жыл бұрын

💯👍

@devanshgupta4107

Жыл бұрын

Truee that

@GauravGupta-hz1zb

8 ай бұрын

Completely agree

Mera toh ulta ho gaya. Both mom & dad were very intelligent and toppers. Got the creme jobs of their generation and become directors of their respective companies. I am so average 😅 what to do? They never put too much pressure on me though. I never got any good college. But I worked hard later and now have a good job. Parents were always very supportive, even say if I am not happy in job, I can leave it as they have enough money for me. But of course I don't want that but it's good to have that financial comfort. Feel very blessed to have them 😊

Middle class parents who secured government jobs or decent jobs 40-45 years back and they supported their parents feel how much they achieved but they forget there was very less competition then and luck was the big factor because of that they achieved They don't want to give piece of their net assets stating I didn't get from my parents, actually I supported them financially. Because of this mentality, their families will be locked in same class or will go down. They should understand that their time was different and today is different.

Those parents who feel their children are not good enough, just visit any school for special children or a paediatric cancer ward; you will thank God for having an ‘average’ , healthy child… ( I don’t mean to hurt parents of special children or children with health issues 🙏)

@neelams6828

Жыл бұрын

💯 percent true

@SitaRamRadheyShyam108

Жыл бұрын

Very true

@anujdimple

Жыл бұрын

Mere parents ne to mera ilaaj hi nhi karwaya

@RajSingh22322

Жыл бұрын

​@@anujdimple kya huaa tha sir/mam aapka

@RajSingh22322

Жыл бұрын

Respect for you mam multiple folds

I am happy that as a mother I am different from my mother who was very strict and it affected me badly. By being different from my mother has helped my 3 kids to be good in studies and other extracurricular activities. Depressingly, I was actually copying my mom though I knew that it was wrong but then when I learnt from the Bible that the kids that u have is not your own but God's and they have to be brought up in love and happiness I started to change my attitude as a mother. I understood that my kids have been put into the world by God for a purpose and I should not hinder it by hurting and shaming them and comparing them with other creations of God as all of them are on earth to fulfill their God given destiny and all r unique and different so no comparisons should be ever done. I as a mother just encourage and give kids good values. I stopped telling them to study but I make sure that they get help in a particular subject whenever needed through mainly personal tuition for a short period of time. I also prepare good and wholesome food for them because good food makes them happy.

@isaacvipin

2 ай бұрын

All glory and praises to Jesus Christ

Exactly. My father everytime says that how difficult situation was at their time and all. But they don't understand that today's situations and challenges of today's generation are way more difficult .

@valentinavijay6086

11 ай бұрын

What are the difficulties of todays generation?

@abfansclub3425

11 ай бұрын

Now you are comparing, every generation has its own challenges, so don't compare

@carrad123456

2 ай бұрын

@@valentinavijay6086: educated and successful parents is both a blessing as well as burden. Parents want child to go beyond them both materialistically as well as academically. That is big problem now a days.

जितने भी बच्चे upsc टॉपर बने है एक बात गारंटी है उनके मा बाप काफी अच्छे सोच के रहे होंगे। भले हि गरीब हो लेकिन दिमाग़ से अमीर रहे होंगे। 😇

@Together.we.grow.better

Жыл бұрын

​@@Tree.3 they have faith in their child.

@tushar4820

5 ай бұрын

​@@Tree.3 Abhe theka liya h kya unki gareebi dur karna ka theka liya h kya humne wo nhi padhe unki galti isme hum kya kare mat Karo bacche paida baache to koi expectations nhi rakhte to tum kon hote ho rakhne wale saale madarchod

Generally, children don't compare their parents with other parents but unfortunately, most parents do compare their children with other children. Parents intention is to motivate their children but method is wrong. Comparison damages self esteem.

@afdcg

Жыл бұрын

That's primarily because of bloodline. It's the same in Asia. In many western countries people go for kids when they can afford them. Plus they set them free at a young age to do what they want. Parents take care of themselves and their finance. There are pros and cons in this and many women become single moms quite early. It's bad but I'm just saying. In India kids are meant to be caretakers of their parents. That's the mentality. They are return on investments. Both have their own problems, kids in the west get in to bad habits and relationships early and don't value marriages. In Asia children are kinda forced to take care of their parents which also causes depression in some children and financial burden on them. It affects certain people because they feel guilty if They don't take care of them or society looks down at them or there are problems with spouses due to taking care of old parents.

@Shubham7C

Жыл бұрын

@@afdcg Can't say much about bloodline because I feel that these are cultural issues and many of our habits are learned behaviours but I agree with you. You mentioned some really important points. Thankyou ! There are pros and cons in every culture but we can learn good things from other cultures as well and get rid of what is damaging for us.

Namaskar Mr Sangwan🙏 This advice was needed urgently! Thank you India's number one clarity giver. You deserve 11/10 for this video!!

Sir when u speak I feel as though u r speaking my mind! I never ever forced my son to participate in the rat race! What is wrong in being a mediocre person? I just don't understand. I always say we cannot manufacture intelligence by sending the children to the best coaching centres. Intelligence is god's gift. 🙏🙏

@SoulEscapeTarot

Жыл бұрын

I agree but still they dont need to be mediocre. We can simply grow, nurture and flourish whatever naturally arises in them. Anything can be turned into a business venture. Also as a milennial I sometimes wish my parents had instilled in me a love for money making. Our relationship with money should be fun, enjoyable and exciting, not guilt and fear ridden.

In my childhood also, I was weak in Maths but putting my efforts in the drawing class and was loving it. My parents abruptly discontinued my drawing classes so that I could give more attention to Maths to become class topper, this stupid decision couldn't help me reach anywhere in life. Even I was not feel lived by my parents because of my academic performance

@UrCheckMate

Жыл бұрын

Being a parent, it was a good decision. To make a career in drawing is 100 times harder than math

@San_home-chef

Жыл бұрын

@@UrCheckMate At one point I agree but when things didn't work they didn't even try to restart my drawing. Maths didn't make my career and made me reach no where

@UrCheckMate

Жыл бұрын

@@San_home-chef you have masters or PhD in maths?

@anonymousbee

Жыл бұрын

I used to read novels, dance, sing and perform, but academic pressure grew and so did my parent's expectations. I was too stupid as well.

@San_home-chef

Жыл бұрын

@@anonymousbee Are you cultivating any of your hobbies at present

Disrespect by a child once tolerated,it becomes habit. The narcissist parents feel that upbringing of child is the most difficult job.

4:41 Guruji IITian bhi hain 🙏❤

Practical knowledge is imparted. Comparison is the theif of happiness of anyone. Parents make life hell by comparing children.

Well said , never compare your children to others or be prepared one day they will compare you to someone . They are your outcome and will be reflection of your thoughts, standard of living , treatment towards your own grandparents . Be supportive , motivating and never compare , insult them in front of relatives, friends or degrade them because of their physical appearance , performance, job etc.. 😃❤️😊👍

@nitins3801

Жыл бұрын

Comparison is Indian culture including looks, skin tone, job, caste😂 nobody escape from this mentality in indian society.

Absolutely! I do believe and tell my kids that they are the best extension of us! Do feel blessed to nurture and bring up young minds who can create magic! They are intact the better version of us! Kids watching this don’t get upset with your parents rather strive and keep your ground. Be polite, humble but create your own life with out trying to convince them. Do your own work as much as you can, be independent and love life.

7:10 Then the narcissist of the parents come out i.e when u point out someones mistake, he becomes angry, violent, abusive etc

I think this is mostly an Indian and Asian mentality. It's too much pressure on the kids. They really miss out on childhood because too much emphasis on academic excellence. I hope all parents listen to your message and understand .

Agree with your topics. This will definitely change people's living in India. Parents want their children to achieve what they want to be . Let's hope the new generations will live their dream without any guilt and the interference of their parents' choices regarding their career paths.

sahi content hai sir ...important hai aisa koi nahi batata

Very true sir. This is really accurate.

What a video sir.we all must control our words while talking to children especially during results season.salute you sir.

very well said. Bull's Eye. I changed 4 cities and 2 states till I reached 25 as father was working with a Bank and struggled a lot from Gujarati to English medium, but now at 35 i am All set and can stay anywhere in India.

In all contexts, Comparison is the thief of joy

Sir I am also from Haryana. Watching your videos from the last few days. Point to point explanation of real life topics. Keep it up!

Apko sunke sukoon milta hai.

Thank God, I never did it to my kid even though my parents did a little bit of this to me… My kid is a happy successful young adult in my eyes and I will never ever compare her to anyone! My baby is most precious and that’s it!

Well said Sir! Totally agree with what you have spoken.

I think each and every Parent should surely watch this... Pls fwd as much you can... as this matter is too far spread in families Its true... My mom compares me and my bro alwYs with all my cousins... Also from childhood my brother is compared to all my cousin brothers and due to this my brother self pities himself ... that he has not good enough and due to this has got chronic disease and not doing well financially too...its affected him too deeply... before when it hurt him he spoke but later gave up...

Absolutely awesome video, harsh reality of current time

Bahot sahi baat kahi... Ek dum teekhi lekin ekdum sach.. Respect sir

In Indian society, parents treat their children as like lifetime guardian (even after their marriage). And thus interfere in matters better to be left alone.

Well said Sirji. 🙏

Expectations expectation are the golden rule in indian society. Making the children feel guilty to have their way is the worst gift they can transfer to their children.let the young couple live their lives and learn from their mistakes. From Sydney Australia.

Mujhe aapka content bahot achha laga. Is topic pe charcha honi chahiye.

Thank you so much for sharing this! I really needed this! My mother has been making me feel guilty and suicidal for years now!

@rakeshsharma6578

Жыл бұрын

Same here

Outliers ..good analytics sir ji🎉

Great content. Could relate to it. Liked your Team concept. God bless you

you are so practical

Yes, we identify and we appreciate for your work mindset and mentality of Indian parents should change, should change the attitude,,, change according to time please 👍🙏

Very well explained sir Now I can understand my daughter more Thanks sir

Thank you sir for sharing this I am expecting father in 1-2 weeks I will definitely follow this this ❤

I have always been of the same views about parenting but generally indian parents do not understand, they think they r the owners of their kids. They r totally unaware of their rights and responsibilities towards their kids lives. I want to contribute in this field, but dont know where to start. I would be grateful if u guide me. Thanku Sir.

I never force on my kids. .. I totally agree parents have this small mentality. .even my mom use to do hits us shame us ...but no I has parent...I have given my kids freedom of life and made their principals strong ...and no chui mui bache I have made them...I totally agree with you. Parents underestimate kids...in this kids loss their confidence .and they fail ....inspite of being intelligent...kya Kar sakte aise surrounding Mila unko ..lakh koshish Kar loo they fell themselves as a losser.

Thank you sir for the valuable advice. It is really very useful.

Fantastic ❤no words

Ek no. Sir.. Fauji sahab from rohtak

Awesome sir maza aagay bohot bada solution bata diya aapne ki hum team hai❤

seriously mind blown ho gya guruji.

Nice thanku god bles u

Very true!

टीम वाला concept अच्छा है

Sir aap ki thinking top level hai

So true!

Great video...and the Ramesh uncle video is awesome.

You are right..... Children of middle class will really need to do some thing out of the box to sustain themselves!!!

Very good advice for parents j. Kaash yeh gyan hume bhi mila hota. Compare karne ki galti to humne bhi ki. But by God's grace ,our children are the best of us. Please make a video ke married bachhon ki life me hume kahan kahan interfere nahi karna chahiye. Jaise mai unki heath ke liye worried rehti hu and inko eating habits ya work health balance ke liye kehti hu. Kya vo bhi kehna chahiye ya nahi. Because i want to bhi a best mother and mother in law,but not at cost of their health or family life

One of the pandava saw that a Cow was licking his calf so much so that the calf started bleeding and still Cow was licking........ Parents of Kaliyuga

Exactly❤❤❤

Very well said

Yes parents need to understand that their children’s performance depends on the genetic makeup of the child which is derived from the parents, they should just give them best of the opportunity as per their interests and see what they can achieve. Nice video 👍

You must be happy that your product is so good!!✨️✨️✨️

Guruji sooo apt 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

Thank you Sir

Thank you so much for good information👌👌😊

Very true.

Sir we need more people like you

This should be broadcasted on all channels

Very true

💯 correct 🙏

Sir g, its fire in the belly.

This is serious legit content you can’t find anywhere! I hope this changes India as a whole…

Sahi hai ji

सही बात कही सर जी आपने

Just amazing video

10/10 👏

100 percent correct.

Amazing amazing 🤩

Relatable..

Yes true

Perfect bole aap.. job scene toh proper aisa hi hai.

If only you would've created such videos some 5-6 yrs back, life would've been very much comfortable. I personally lost many opportunities, suffered from severe mental health issues, burnout, etc. only to realise that was all unnecessary. Great channel Amit sir, I think I could've been a better person if only this channel was created 10-12 yrs back.

Tau G is real Indian TOP G

@rahulsingh-ui9tl

Жыл бұрын

hahahahhaha What color is your BAIL-GAADI?

@6dyyhdt

Жыл бұрын

@@rahulsingh-ui9tl too good 😂

True

Your r right sir

Kids must be mentally tough. This fluidity is here to stay. Ab kuch set nahi hone wala, sab kuch karna padega acha bhi bura bhi.

Sir u r always right

Sooo true...nowadays this word our kid is set sounds like a joke... because it's v difficult for kids to get absolutely set in this competitive uncertain times👍

Irodov ki book bhaisaab status symbol ban chuka tha

@rahulsingh-ui9tl

Жыл бұрын

sahi kaha

People should openly talk abt bad parenting..... more online content should b created.....talking abt abusive parents....is still a taboo..in our country....... Parents here are supposed to be God like in a child's life......but d truth is they r humanbeings with flaws..... nd they can b abusive too..... Some good laws r needed.....

💯 agree

Very nice sir

.👍 You r right sir .The problem is that because of this unknown Future prospects , the parents have to earn money by hook or crook even corruption . They have to bear the child's responsibility even after the child is good student leave alone ok . Then children get no jobs inspite of qualifications spending such a lot on them . The educational system needs Revamping, skills oriented so children get opportunity in society, those with greater aptitude should be going for higher studies, MBBS , Engineering , with job availability. It's high time the Government took responsibility of the youth , send them for training in Army etc from school itself . If Government does not take responsibility along with parents equally then our society will collapse or crash . Who would they lead a bunch of frustrated citizens that have lost all hope inspite of its capacities . That would be a SHAME. The sooner the blue print of society is laid down the Better for India and its Citizens. ❤.🙏🇮🇳. Jai Hind

It's also vice versa! Mostly.😊