गुरू जी प्रणाम, यह अब तक का सबसे गहरा वीडियो है। Thanks a ton for this video. Please make more such content. भगवान से आपके लिए एक खुशहाल और लंबी आयु की प्रार्थना है।🙏🙏

@dr.pravinpache.medicalprac8391

Жыл бұрын

❤

@DavinderKaur-ps6rl

10 ай бұрын

Yes nice content, eyes opening for parents

@dhannjay6drollno915

9 ай бұрын

Pp

@sowhat2121

9 ай бұрын

India is not ready for this maturity level😄

@Jst_fab

6 ай бұрын

Sir, Please make video on English parenting how to communicate with their kids regarding below points 1) What is importance of studies when they are in school or learning skills at young age. 2) Why marriage is important when they will be adult? 3) Sex education not given in school so how parents should communicate with them regarding same. Yes, you are right parents should honestly tell the truth of situation. Then kids atleast believe on them may be will not follow all but will not ignore the parents also.

Mera ghar wale mujhse naraj hogaye hai ..maine aapke videos unko dikhaye toh. But andar se sukoon mil raha hai mujhe. Feeling liberated.

@avantikarawat442

Жыл бұрын

Aapse toh sirf naaraj hain yahan toh sach bolne par chilla pade aur rishta hi tod diya

@sanketmudgalkar9500

Жыл бұрын

@@avantikarawat442 sometimes I think to watch his videos or not ? Kalesh has increased. Too much truth is not needed maybe.

@avantikarawat442

Жыл бұрын

@@sanketmudgalkar9500 Amit sir ki videos toh hum kuch time pehle se dekh rahe hain unhone toh humse 1 saal se relation tod rakha Even inki brother sister ne bhi

@sachinjha6333

Жыл бұрын

@@sanketmudgalkar9500 mahabharat me bhi sab koi saant rahte to kalesh nahi hota par wo adharm hota. Aap dharm chuno ,anyay nahi saho. Sri krishna

@sanketmudgalkar9500

Жыл бұрын

@@sachinjha6333 Sahi baat hai.

So right i hv been beaten a lot by my parents even without no reason bcoz of relatives frustration, married life frustration n the result today is i hardly have any affection or emotional attachment to them, dont feel any home sickness when im away from home, in fact i njoy being away from home, just i support them by giving money n nothing else

@ranjuhappyparyushanparvaan3287

Жыл бұрын

Ye sahi nahi hai.kya jane hum apne bachchon ke saath itne idle rah payenge ya nahi phir hamara bhi haal yahi hoga.

@mayurbiotech1657

Жыл бұрын

@@ranjuhappyparyushanparvaan3287 maine decide kar liya hai mai apne baccho ko kabhi bhi discourage nhi karunga balki pyar se samjhaunga aur bataunga agr nhi mante to subconscious mind ko programme karunga

@wemen488

Жыл бұрын

U did right. For such parents only relatives r their kids, they do whatever their relative say. Such parents never regret for wrong doings. If kids live with such parents they end up with divorce, depressed, financial loss. Parents are good but never accept wrong advice given by parents. Be happy.

@Aishtanveer

Жыл бұрын

Same here

@keshav007infinity

Жыл бұрын

@@ranjuhappyparyushanparvaan3287 to unko bhi to koi problem nei hai

Sach m bahut hi eye opener video h parents k liye. Mere in- laws ne poori life yahi attitude rakha .Meri shaadi 31.5 years pehle hui thi. Mere parents aaj tak aise hai that they only Give . But in - laws ekdum opposite. Unke behaviour k kaaran mere husband k over all personality ,mental health bahut affect hui but maine dheere dheere husband ko unconditional pyar aur care karke usase baher nikala. Mere 2 bete hai . Bade k recently shaadi hui. Abhi kal hi hum bete k ghar se wapas apne ghar aaye hai almost 1.5 yrs baad. Wahan humne hamesha yahi kosish k unko her tarah se khushi de chahe bete bahu ka tiffin pack karna ho ya bahu ka birthday celebrate. Aaj wo itne close ho gaye hai k hamare wapas aane per rone lage .Raat ko 3 baje teeno air port chhodne aaye. Mere in - laws k kaaran mere husband k nature affect hui . Isliye hum bhi bachchon ko perfect parents nahi ban sake . But kaafi hadd tak humne koshish ki. Apni life bachchon & even bahu k saamne khuli kitaab k tarah rakh di. Mere parents Only Give wali nature ke hai shayad isiliye m unki parvarish k kaaran apne pati aur bachchon ko sambhal paayi. Aapke poore video ka saar is line m laga k apne bachchon ko Interesting way m paalo Hats off sir

@varshajogriya

Ай бұрын

Haan....parents ne jaise Paala hai upbringing dee hai uska asar har aspect pe jata hai aur ye realization muje ho chuka hai....mere husband bohot difficult personality hai tabi mera aaj divorce ho rha ....Main itna humiliation nhi seh paayi aur realise hua mere SAS sasur bohot pehle hee satyanaas kr chuke hai apne bacho ka ....Maine apna beta leke divorce lena choose kiya

Few kids have never seen such parents. I was opposite during my childhood. I was super happy when parents were out. When they came back, I used to get locked in my room so that parents don't see me. 😀 That's why I'm permanently out of the house now. 😎

@vishalpratap403

Жыл бұрын

@@beasty007 that's story of many kids. What we can do. That was anyways past. Ab rone se kya faayda. But what he said in this video just reminded me all those points.

@shreygupta1675

Жыл бұрын

I hope you are better now.

@NA-vt6mz

Жыл бұрын

@@vishalpratap403 congrats that is a huge achievement on ur part I salute ur independence

@Singh-dm8je

Жыл бұрын

Same here brother

@Singh-dm8je

Жыл бұрын

@ vishal

That thing about child hitting is so true. And, if wife- beating is not ok then why should child-beating be ok. You are so right 🙏

@kusumrastogi5672

Жыл бұрын

Right....shd not hit ones kids

@wowser2153

Жыл бұрын

It should be criminal offense to beat kids . Every person, even kid is a owner of their own body . Nobody has right to touch the kid

My parents maintained two faces. I was under a strict control of my parents, have regret that my father didn't spend quality time with me as compared to other people. He considered me as a burden. He once said being a father of a daughter is a liability till she is married. So I married according to my choice without their knowledge.

@cherp5837

Жыл бұрын

Nice

@NA-vt6mz

Жыл бұрын

And when they find out ?

@pranomadityagogoi8046

Жыл бұрын

nice

@anupa8888

Жыл бұрын

I too had a tough childhood and teenage. I however, married as per their choice. My mother is better. She cares and doesn't expect anything in return. My father is harsh natured. Even now he doesn't like me. I felt bad until few days ago and thought of putting in more effort but now I think, no. Enough is just enough. Enough of disrespect I always had.

@ajaykumar-banker

Жыл бұрын

Very sad. He thought like this.

My father is someone who asks "What shall I buy for you and your kids?". He even asks me to share my Amazon wishlist.

@talwindersingh3721

Жыл бұрын

You're lucky

@bindyagurukumar8500

Жыл бұрын

@@talwindersingh3721 Thanks. You can also become one. Stay blessed.

@ShinyShinyShiny

4 ай бұрын

Amazinggg🎉🎉🎉🎉❤😊

@mayurkale2227

Ай бұрын

My father be like:- chappal se maar khayega ya hath se

@SK-df9kl

16 күн бұрын

You are lucky

My parents never went behind my sister and me with instructions. Rather they chose to say once and then let us learn through their actions! Now as an adult I am proud of how we turned up. I myself go and call my parents every single day.. and we talk sweetly for 2-3 and sometimes even 30 min if we have a topic. No lame talks. No faltu ki guidance 😊

Aap ke jaise Pita sabko mil jaaye to sab kitni khushi se apna jivan jiye!!!!! ❤

I m 41 years old and very lucky, my parents always ask what they can do for me.

Some parents scold their sons and daughters even after marriage. It is common for 75 yr old village man to control and scold his 40 yr old officer son mainly to control son’s income

I lost myself totally and emotional..I am father of only daughter and I am bringing up her in the same way as you adviced in this video..she feels me as her best friend and shares everything with me and seeks advices and makes fun of me and her mom..we parents and she enjoys every moment of being together..we are blessed to be..you touched heart of every parent..thank you sir..waiting for your life lesson videos 🙏

@ishuyadav3788

Жыл бұрын

It is also not advisable to have single child.khusiya kab misery m badal jaegi pata bhi nahi chalega.life is unpredictable.

@MaviNK

Жыл бұрын

​@@ishuyadav3788why u even say that....?

@vibha-ff1ee

3 ай бұрын

​@@MaviNKaurat hai bhai Aurato ko 1 beta jarur chahiye hota hai

I feel so blessed to have such parents and I aspire to be one such emotionally intelligent parent. Guess my son is just lucky 😉

I believe Parents should love children unconditionally irrespective of their age, and it's a bliss being a parent. I have learnt a lot from my parents how not to be in life. It's their failures that made me a better person and a better parent. Thanks a lot sir! 🙏

@crystal6350

Жыл бұрын

Great 😊

@akihiko99

Жыл бұрын

Only happens in dream

@shiprasajwan9835

Жыл бұрын

But aisa hota nhi hai😊

@anupamasahoo4394

Жыл бұрын

Nice❤

@LifeHack-p2

4 ай бұрын

Same

Aaj toh Rula hi diya aapne Sir..😢🙏आपके "गुरु तत्व" को मेरा कोटि कोटि नमन गुरुदेव 🙏😊

Uncle ji aapki baat sunkr aansu aa gaye kash ki sb aapki trh sochte aapki age bhi mere papa or sasur k jitni hai but wo kbhi itna smjh nhi pate or aap aaj ki generation ki problem ko bhut acche se smjhte ho aapke bacche kitne lucky hai!!!

Sir u r blessing Ap jaise human being bhi exist karte h Itna suljhi hui life Itne grateful Thanks to you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Much grateful for your videos sir. As a parent, sometimes we end up doing the same mistakes that we hold grudgingly against our parents. Love your reminders, feels just like an elder in the family telling us ( but they don't). God bless you!

@lawanyaarvind2810

Жыл бұрын

Well said

@Mr.Arijit2001

Жыл бұрын

Phek do aise parents ko sale khudh ko samjh te kya hai baghwaan agar baghwaan bhi aisa karega to uski bhi naali pakad ke uska tetuya daba dena.

I have a 4 year old daughter sir and I'm already in tears. Thank you Sir ... Thanks a ton. Gratitude ❤️🙏🌹. An eye - opener video . Pranaam 🙏

@SR-mv2mf

8 ай бұрын

Atleast you learnt this now when your daughter is just 4yrs old.. some people don’t even learn till their deathbed

@mayurkale2227

Ай бұрын

4 y old kid:- muze kyu toda itne din😢

My son just turned 5 , and I am very grateful to you for all this guidance. Thanks a lot.....

Kya khub very true & real life we r Experience In our life pranam

Namaste 🙏 Indian parents will continue doing what they went through with their parents. They make things easy for their children to hate them

Sir,being a parent I do all these pravchans but after seeing your video I am definitely going to change. Sir,pls make a series on parenting tips for parents in dealing with adolescents children It will help us as parents

I'm so happy and proud that my father has always been so supportive, friendly and cool with me. He's exactly the kind of parent that you are asking everyone to be like, sir.

Aur jb parents positive spirit se kuchh sudharne ki kaushish kare to bacche bhi identify kare, acknowledge kare, and gratitude show karen... 😊

I m sending this to my father 🤣

Salute you sir. Only you have the guts to say the plain truth 😂🙏

I don't know why i cried listening to this 😅

@indianvloggerkalpana7544

Жыл бұрын

Me also

@anonymousbee

Жыл бұрын

Me too

Brilliant content. This video should be national parenting advice. Thanks for sharing this insightful masterpiece, extremely well articulated and bang on point.

Well researched and practical tips. You have the guts to say this. Very few can do this . Congratulations.

@sadiyaahtasham5381

Жыл бұрын

Thank you Sir

@dr.pravinpache.medicalprac8391

Жыл бұрын

❤

main apni beti se poochti rehti hoon ki use kya chahiye if fells lack of anything, she can tell me anytime..i am always there for her. kabhi gumsum si lage to bhi behlakr poochti hoon ki koi concern hai to plz share with me..what is the reason behind ur sadness ..let me help u resolve ur issue or to help u atleast... Apne bahot achha topic uthaya hai. My daughter mostly says that she is blessed to have a mother like me as she compares with other parents and how her frnds crib or complaint abt their parents.. she said ki use koi kami nahi mili apni mother me jo wo bata sake..i felt so blessed that God made me sensible enough to grow my child in the best possible way. its not always materialistic things that children seek for...its emotional bond with parents..after all, v r everything fr them.

बहुत ज्ञानवर्धक। बार बार सुनूंगा और खुद को अपने बच्चों से कनेक्ट करने कि कोशिश करूंगा।

Sir यही चीज मेरे साथ हो रही है अभी । मैंने 80 लाख रुपए दे दिया माता पिता को और आज जब देना बंद कर दिया तो मुझे और मेरी wife ko rahne nhi de rhe ghar pr

Ye apne ekdam correct advice kiya hai, jyada gyan nahi dena chahiye, vo seekh lenge, jo unke kaam ka hai, unme bhi dimag hai.

Thanks for bringing back my child 's childhood back....

Wish I could show this to my own parents..

@innersoul454

Жыл бұрын

Same here... All they need is Seva

True .. completely follow it.

Sir, your kids are so lucky ,aap jaise parent sabko mil jaayen to desh hi khushaal ho jaaye ,cool gaye 🙏

My parents are 87 and 80 ,they lived alone but do same with all of us irrespective of boy and girl .

Nahi dete doctors ko bhi. Saare rishtedaar free me consult krte hai 100%. But it's alright 😂😂

Spot on.... Thanks for a great parenting advice....

Beautiful ❤️. I can say I have managed to be that kind of parent to some extent.

This is true. My best friend's parents are just like this - talk very nicely to him always. And they have a strong and healthy relationship amongst them. I have seen the kind of conversation they have amongst them, which is enriching and healthy and not like bitter preaching or mundane things as you mentioned. Great work sir!

Profound. Thanks!

Very well said

I started crying while listening to this video… so realistic 🙏🏻

Probably, one of your best videos if not the best. Thank you for making this video. A lot of depth. High level stuff but everyone can relate and easily do.

Mere parents ke apne certain areas hai jahan unka hold hai, experience hai aur accha knowledge bhi hai... Jaise, father ka unke professional area mein, legal matters mein... N maa ka home management mein, ... Kash, jis tarah wo expertise share karte hain wo ye samjh paatey ki certain areas unke weak bhi hain n un areas mein agar koi unko advice kare to unko bhi positive way mein lena chahiye. Ye nhi ki... Humse sab poochhe, hum kisi se nhi... Apne life ki tragedies koi humeine trust karke share karen, but humare paas koi single banda nhi ho jisse aap apne aise koi issues share kar saken. Cz ek image hai... Samjhdaari wali... Jisse aapko maintain karna hai yaa ki darr ki koi baaten bana dega. True log baatein banate hain.. Lekin aap nhi batayenge tb bhi banayenge... Nhi to koi ek to ho jisse trust kar saken...

Another awesome video...gem 💎💎💎. Thank you

Love you Sir, Thank you so much...

Thank you sir well researched content and useful practical tips for every topic 🙏you know Indian society very well.

Such a wonderful video...thank you so much.

Thanks a lot for this post Sir.

😥🙏 No words sir. Thank you.

Thank you for making this videos. We all claim to know everything as parents but in reality we have no clue.. God bless you!

Nice one Sir. I must appreciate and say that you are the most practical person I have come across till date. I can always relate to most of your videos and take out special time to listen them and trying to implement similar approaches.

You are great sir I totally agree with you

All videos are always insightful..

Very apt Sangwan Sahab

Very empathetic video!

Ultimate, sir. No words for the talk.

You are exactly talking about my father, aapki video dekh ke meri Dil ki Bhadaasss nikal gayi 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Excellent observation

All videos are so true sir 👍

Aish baap k paise pe hi ho sakte h ...apne pasie pe nhi....this is the ultimate truth....and i m thinking for last 10 yrs...now u have confirmed it

Masterpiece👌.Amazing video Amitji

Extremely thank you

Sir, I'm regular audience of your videos. I think you are a true realist and have a wonderful wit and insight. My daughter is 17 and we live with our parents-in-law. By god's immense grace we are a happy family. But I'm writing to you bcoz, this video resonated deeply with me. My husband is a wonderful man and a very hands-on loving father. He's exactly like what you said the ideal parent should be and naturally is very close to my daughter. Although I'm also close to her but they have a special connection. Please keep making such videos.

My parents are so positive. And they always ask me what you want I'm so blessed.

Very good video. Loved it ❤️

O my God! So so heart touching video. Agar sabhi parents ye sab follow kar le to hamara apne bachchon se rishta to gehra hoga hi, parivaar me hamesha mithas bani rahegi.bahut hi gehari baat kahi hai sir aapne. One more thing,aapke videos chahe kitne bade ho magar lagta hai aapko aur sunte rahe.

sir you are a new age GURU.....much reqd for the 21st century......pls keep guiding us 🙏🙏

I m fortunate enough my mom is always asking Great things

Wonderful video and content. Thank you🙏🙏

Great video sir thank you

I am thankful to have a parent like sir is explaining,🙏🙏

Aap ne tho meri aakhen he khol de thanku very much

Thnkx

🙏🙏sir aap bahut saare logon ki achi class le rhe ho, thank you so much for wisdom. keep up the good work.

Every video feels like somebody putting words to my thoughts !! Thank you Sir for bringing so honest and real and talk about something which is so obvious but is not talked about and hence kids become bitter !!

बहुत माता पिता का हमारे सामाज का यह हाल है कि मत लड़ाओ हमसे ज़बान क्यूंकि हमें है सारा ज्ञान

Thank you. Reality of life.

Omg....amazing and bang on

You are right and it works my own experience

@4:02 Not just actions but expressions too say a thousand words..

We all are products of our upbringing & are often very rigid in our actions . But a child brings a huge change in the way we think & behave . We should keep the emotions that we feel when we are with them , alive ! We are supposed to be nurturers and providers and we should never forget that ! Be there , be theirs .. that’s always been my funda 😊 And yes you have tugged at the right strings again Amit ji !

An eye opening video, दिल से शुक्रिया🍎

So nice sir, I would really like to do all this for my kids

One the best video on parenting . It touch my ❤sir, I feel sir you are balance combination of mind and heart🙏pls share more ideas on this topic .

My one of favorite videos of you....👏👏👏👏

Aaj toh guru ji apne life ka meaning change kar diya..

Words of gold, given for free!

Thankyou so much sir for making such relevant and relatable videos.I can totally connect myself with whatever you're saying 🙂 your content is helping me to set boundaries between my parents and myself so that I can protect my sanity in all the cost 😊 every bits and piece of this video is relatable 😢

Sir, aapki baaton gyaan ka ek ek word itna awesome, relatable and solutions se bhara hota hai ke kitni bhi lambi video ho ek second ke liye bhi mind divert nahi hota hai. Thank you so much for making this video. Much needed.

Sirji thank you so.much for all your help.......all your videos are very helpful 🙏

How you are so correct sir Iam very disturbed lots of suffering in life I definitely try your advice 🙏

I feel so blessed to be born to the type of ideal parents you just described.. great video..

उत्तम । एसे तरीके से बच्चों की देखभाल करने पर दो बच्चे अलग-अलग प्रतिक्रिया देते हैं ।

Sir you are too much practical...koi mane ya na mane par apki baat mein dam hai✌️