My sister always used to say that parents are most over rated and selfish people on the earth.... they give everything n do everything when we are child...but when it's comes to marriage they put all that long list in front of children and break them emotionally...,and take that most important decision in their hand...

@Hetal28

Жыл бұрын

Many parents in our country are like that, but thankfully it’s changing

@rounakmondal5839

Жыл бұрын

I don't know whether you're married or not but what conditions you faced when it comes to your marriage

@himanshugurjar2492

Жыл бұрын

What decisions...? Zara explain kro

@anirbanghosh1670

Жыл бұрын

When a girl marry her surname, her family culture all dies with it. Girls aren't baby producing machine. But I have seen there is no way that legacy of girl's family is carried on. Also in case of inter linguistic community, and in interfaith marriage, women's religion, native tongue nothing is passed on to next generation. That's why everyone is crazy to have boy child.

@pulkitsain8928

Жыл бұрын

Hi Nisha,same thing was also told me

I simply don't understand why Indian parents want to spend a fortune on the girls wedding instead of spending just on basics and giving her the reminder as security for a lifetime And yes the final aim is ALWAYS TO MARRY OFF THE GIRLS instead of making her self reliant

Ye hai asli mard ! You are very wise, give a balanced perspective, can think beyond the usual social conditioning, are a great observer, and are bringing about topics in discussion that most people would not even want to think about forget having the courage to talk about and take a stand for... I usually don't say this but, this is for you guruji - Charan sparsh...

You are blessing to humanity.. Honestly you are the true teacher we all need. Thing is elders should understand what you are teaching.

As a girl I know our indian parants don't want to give anything to us. But always says we love you most and give everything to the brother saying Everything is for your brother.

@ShyamS-sx7xt

Жыл бұрын

as per your assumption and experience, can i say u will do the same in the case of your daughter?

@vandanapahuja4231

Жыл бұрын

हमारे साथ उल्टा हुआ है। जीवन भर सहा हमने, भुगता हमनें। सोना बेटियों ने समेट लिया सारा। भाई से मदद भी खूब लेती रहीं। जायदाद में हिस्सा से ज्यादा खर्च कर चुके। विश्वास करके मकान अपने नाम नहीँ कराया। अब पीछे से हिस्से के लिए कोर्ट केस करके बैठी हैं।

@rahultriveditrivedi5451

11 ай бұрын

dont you get it from your sasural ? you want from both sides ? lol

@Amanrathore23

8 ай бұрын

​@@rahultriveditrivedi5451sasural Wale kaun si property dete hai

@AM-nx2iw

8 ай бұрын

​@@rahultriveditrivedi5451sasural ki property kitni Bahu ke nam hoti hain😂

मैंने बिना दहेज के शादी की और पहली प्रॉपर्टी भी पत्नी के नाम खरीदी जो कहना है हम पहले खुद पर लागू करे

Mindblowing video sir... Finally someone has the courage to address these sensitive issues of society .. Hopefully this video may contribute to improve the condition of girls

with due respect, I have question sir. why everyone always talks about right of girls but never talks about their responsibilities? I have seen in my family when I was called by my bua's for making payment in hospitals for her own mother? why it is always responsibility of soon to look after parents? why just divide the rights equally not responsibilities ?

@bhartivn8129

Жыл бұрын

Yes when rights are equal responsibilities should also be equal …people should talk about this ! And this relates to brothers as well as sisters

@wowser2153

Жыл бұрын

Because parents give son some job oriented education or family business. Daughters are married off and don’t have income

@PS-oy1el

Жыл бұрын

U r a fattu man. Better take Sanyas ,live alone n start making food for urself ,clean ur living place n wash ur own clothes. These will b much less responsibilities than women of a house as u will b doing these things just for urself n nobody else. N chill.

@LoveYourself-my9nz

28 күн бұрын

Kyunki ldkiyo ko ung responsibility layk bnaya hi nhi jata h parents k dwara. Pehle jb hak doge tbhi to smaaj mai change aayega or jb hak milega or vo phir responsibility k layk bhi bnegi. Aap ye umeed nhi kr skte ki Haan pehle responsibility phir hak kyunki ldko ko hak diya gya h unka tbhi responsibility bhi unke upr h. Or sirf pdhane se kuchh nhi hota mentally bhi ldkiyo ko bahut dependent, drpok bnaya jata h taki vo kbhi khud se koi decision le hi na ske or jb ye nhi hoga to bina hak k responsibility dena to misuse krna hota h. Or ldkiyo k upr responsibility totally hoti h except finical maximum responsibility ki umeede ldkiyo se hi hoti h. Ki vo apne future, career, psnd ko sacrifice krde or pehle maa baap bhai ki kre or baad mai in-laws ki. Aap thoda unbiased hokr socho. Ldkiya isliye help nhi kr pati h apne family ki kyunki unhe use husband or in-laws dwara control kiya jata h ki ab to tu heart nokrani h yhan kr. Aapko pehle kisi insaan ko independent bnana pdta h not just financially but also mentally, emotionally jo bahut sari ldkiyo ko nhi bnaya jata.

@sangeetaagrawal8871

17 күн бұрын

​​​@@LoveYourself-my9nzv well said.. matlab ye ho gaya h, ki ldki ko bura bhala kehke, guilt me rakh ke("tu thodi inki sewa karegi", chahe fir wo khud ma baap se sara din ladta ho), kaise bhi karke ldki ko bhagao aur khud kundali maar ke baith jao.. ab lagta h desh ko aur 100 saal lagenge iss tarah ki social empowerment me jaha bina betiyo ke maange he uska haq milega aur nahi toh wo joote lagayengi aise bhaiyo ke..

Uncle is a natural Actor BTW. 🤣 "KON SEVA KAREGA"

No they are not same. Biologically, physically, mentally in every way. It's not about being equal but about embracing differences because that is how nature has made us, different and complementary to each other.

@NehaSharma-mg9of

Жыл бұрын

Men and women are not same. But they are equal. Hope you understand

@nirupamasharma4389

9 ай бұрын

​@@NehaSharma-mg9ofright!!

@oreowithurea5018

9 күн бұрын

He literally just said that actually​@@NehaSharma-mg9of

Hello respected sir🙏 In September, I lost my father due to COVID I am 20 year old female student and I have a 10 year old sister, my mother as well as I are under tremendous stress as we lost the only man of our family.. She is worried for debt of medical loans, her children society, her health, fear of loneliness in the old age, difficulties being faced by a wife without a husband's; support and all the future issues.. I, myself am very disturbed as to how should I independently handle this society and work without a father's shelter, how should I safeguard and build my younger sister's future... PLEASE make a guidance video on this situation... Many ladies face this dark phase of losing the man of the house and not having a son as well It's my humble request to shed light on this issue and express your valuable guidance THANKYOU 🙏🌼🌼

@himanshugurjar2492

Жыл бұрын

You're on the track of struggle... Keep hustling, I know it's not gonna too easy as pretending, it'll definitely take some time but your hardwork will break all the barriers. Ye din bhi gujar jayenge... One day there'll be lustrine on your face, remembering this tough time 💙

@dariovariodinx

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry

@vinayakpatil355

Жыл бұрын

This phase shall pass. Hold your head high and tread your trail. Success will be all yours.

@User25896

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story. I think you’re a mature,strong and sensible girl already. Yes life is difficult at the moment for you. But this too shall pass and you will emerge stronger for it. Always remember your father is watching and guiding you and family. You have his blessings always. Study and work hard and also take time out to enjoy the little and big joys of life. Stay ever blessed ❤stay strong ❤keep smiling 😊

@yogeshdevaraj639

Жыл бұрын

Dont handle society. Handle yourself, ur studies and ur career. Other things will handle on their own

पुरुष उत्‍पीड़न आयोग के बारे में बताएं सर 🙏 'पुरुष मंत्रालय'

I have started watching your videos recently.Aap bahut suljhe hue insaan hain.aapki baton se main relate kar paati hun .after my husband's death 2 years ago,I am living alone.neighbours say go and live with them(son).I want to live by myself.i visit them whenever I feel like.I want them to live their life.but relatives don't like this.they don't understand that I have wonderful equation with my daughter in law.I don't take money from them,but they bear all cost when we go on vacations.I am happy they are happy.in fact my daughter in law respects me a lot.she says mummiji toh bahut smart hain,she can manage on her own,unlike my mother who is dependent on my brother for every small things . I take extra care of my health.have kept my house and other assets.i am very open about my finance.apne bachchon se kya chhipana.you have to learn to trust your children.unlike earlier generation who did not trust anyone.

@_13456

9 ай бұрын

I wish to have a mother in law like you😊

Thank you Sir. When we have these conversations within our families, we are termed 'too much', aggressive, 'churail' etc... Wise तो हम को कभी नहीं bola गया.... Thank you for validating our wisdom. By 'our' I mean so many of my friends and me who are now at a stage where property division has to happen....

@CHANDNII1111

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, they always tell apne bhaiyo k bare M nhi sochti ldkiya Kya Kya nhi krti apne bhaiyo k liye . Thda sa bhi boldo ki aisa hona chaiye the moment we say this parents ko sanp sungh jata h.

Only relevant creator on KZread to whom I can relate my personal life with. Jai ho.

Property sharing between children on 50-50 basis is an eye opener which needs to be followed by everyone, thank you the wonderful perspective 🙏🙏🙏 Amit Ji, I salute you for your videos which gives new perspectives for life. I can't understand Hindi, sorry for that. I am 60 years old and from south india, Bengaluru Karnataka. I only wish that your videos were in English which will reach for many people like me, thanks a lot 🙏🙏🙏

U r Really showing mirror to the society. Par log tab bhi nhi sudhren ge. Well said sir.

Sir pitaji ne mujhe sirf yahi bolke padhaya ki apna shadi ka karcha khud uthana hai.. aur maine kiya bhi.. Bhai padhne me achhe the nahi..papa ne jaha admission karaya waha drop kar diya.. maine shadi k baad khud se ghar kharida , sab kuch apne se joda.. uske baad bhi Bhai bolta hai ki hamari help nahi karti.. papa ne life long uske liye zameen ghar gadi commercial plots aur complex bhi bana ke Diya.. par mujhe di toh sirf education wo bhi condition pe.. mere saath itna bhed bhav kiya..phr bhi umeed mujhse rakhte hein ki mai paise du unko.. baht gussa aya hai kabhi kabhi.. sir property me hissa toh Qayamat waali baat ho jayegi..

@roshanisingh6731

Жыл бұрын

Bhut dukh h ldkiyo ko😢

MAG!!!!! Maza aa gaya Sir.. Very true... Log ladka ladki barabar bolte jarur hai par barabar ka haq nahi dete.. Society is hypocritical for both genders.. Hope people will stop pretending to be an equalist ...

Very good and relevant issues discussed wisely.Reforms are required in Indian Society.

Awesome Sir.. I am that girl who does not want share in father's property as he doesn't have much.. also I have this feeling that he already gave us too much.. by giving us equal education with our brothers.. MAG..

@madhupuri6575

Жыл бұрын

Very true

@PyaarBaato

3 сағат бұрын

It is for people whose parents actually have money and give only to sons.

Sach kahun to aajkal ulta hota hai Sir, agar beta acha kama raha ho aur beti housewife bani ho, to beti ko jyada share dete hain kyunki woh kamaati nahi aur jo ladka kabhi kabhaar kuch ghar ke kharch kliye de bhi de to bhi uski koi kimmat nahi hoti but beti ko hi jyada poojha jata hai

Great perspective sir, no sugar coating just plain facts.

Great thoughts, Saheb! Excellent work!

I liked the parts where you advise everyone to treat son/ daughter(s) alike. I have daughters. And I feel they should live their life the way they want. We would always be there to support them come what may. I have two elder sisters too. Our eldest sister is not well to do and its painful to see that. we are ok for her to have lions share in what our parents have to offer. Quite hilarious but true that we should not expect kids for sewa. They already have too much in their life.

Why always ONLY father takes decision of property division? Just because he ears money doesnt mean he only have rigths to decide whom to give property. Society should first give equal rights to mother to decide about property division..then talk about giving equal property to daughters...we indian women want decision making power first.

bahut bhadiya sir very good topic.appreciable

Thank you for such sensible videos Bhai! 😊😊 Can you please add English subtitles to your previous videos - for us people from South India?

Divorce ke baad poora system ladki ke favour main hota hai aur ladkiya iska fayda uthati hai, ispe bhi toh baat karo tau

@jayantdiwakar2434

Жыл бұрын

Bilkul

@govindskitchens302

5 күн бұрын

Nahi baneyege inki main viewer female hi hai​@@jayantdiwakar2434

Aapke sabhi videos ki jo bate h ..vo mere or mere husband ki soch s kafi milti h... Subscribe kr diya

Ye hai sahi wala video on Indian society: their problems and way forward. Hats off to you sir. 🙏

बहुत बढ़िया है सर। बेटा बहू को संपत्ति भी आधी दो। सेवा लेने की इंसिक्युरिटी के चलते उनके जीवन को कंट्रोल करने का नरक भी आधा हो जाएगा।

North India m betiyon ko sirf pyar milta hai Chahe kitne bhi intelligent parents ho

Very good perspective sir, would wish for a English video for a better reach in south India sir. Loved ur content

Waah ji waah, Great thought, Absolutely need to follow this rule 👍

Very touching line,haath se chhodkar jane me jo sukh h,chhoot jane me nahi ,so true.Every video of yours gives a new perspective of life, awakening content.👍

Your words are blessings! Thank you for the wisdom!

Rona aa gaya ye video dekh ! India / World needs men like you in every home ! You are something else Sir!

Very nice video, this is what is happening in our society, thanks sir🌹

Keep working on sir, great work going on.

Its been 1 month , i found ur channel, since then everyday ur videos elevating my thinking order. Really thankful to you sir. Again awesome video

Thank u sir for all ur expertise knowledge, experience n advices....it's very very useful for better n peaceful future...today's topic I'm a bit confused....i believe in equality but if any child disrespects u n does not take decent care n responsibility of parents when required...i personally feel they shd be fined proportional n thebone who irrespective of other sibling is taking care n giving time shd be rewarded accordingly .....please throw some light on my view🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@mahimayadav2496

5 күн бұрын

Sir bahan bhai ka rista kaise manage ho video banao please

MAG ! Great thought and very well said on the subject matter

Recently started viewing your videos on KZread.In general they are highly interesting,superb,analytical, practical, thought provoking, and offer various views and perspective on career,friendship family etc. Also they are casually having humour without losing sight of the main subject of video.They cater to various age groups which is added plus point. Really your words are very valueable in today's world.

Love you Amit sir for making this superb video...

Bahut jbardst baat kia sir 💕💕mja aa gya

inspite of being spiritual you are very practical.if people like you come forward and talk with people the things which were ruining life will be wiped out.and our society will be healthy and happy.

He is absolutely right at 24:00 we are living a tougher life than previous generation. Previous generation had a very easy life.

Love your perspective...it was surely fresh❤️

Wonderful thoughts, fortunately we are practicing all these in our home. Hence no acrimonious feelings whatsoever, among our siblings.

Extremely progressive and practical take on sons and daughter's. Can we as a society be more fair between them? When will we drop the ineqity of patriarcal mindset and give girls equal share in property, general treatment so that they can be more confident & secure. A societal reform long overdue.. Let's begin today.

Another brilliant topic and well said again!

My papa calls me beti'❤️🧿

Salute Sir.. this is the exact thoughts I have.. I don't understand why its difficult for the parents to understand this..

पहली बार कोई आप जैसा कोई मिला जिसके मेरे विचार हु ब हु मिलते है गुरु जी ,,,ऐसे ही लगे रहिये बहुत अच्छा सादर नमस्कार

Life changing prospective sir. Thank u for coming in our life.

No girls and boys are not equal. Boys have masculine energy with logical thinking. Girls have feminine energy with emotion thinking.

जब जब भी ये मुद्दा पूरे परिवार के सामने उठाओ , सभी हंसकर मुस्कुरा कर टाल देते हैं, हमें पीछे से दिलवाओ तो हम भी दे देंगे

Mza Aa Gya, Sir. Thanks for the enlightenment.

Mast topic hai sir Appnay toh secret hi khol diya...

Thank you for your guidance.

Content is good and relevant to middle class and higher middle class. It is good that one should be objective enough to decide the division of his assets during his life time but actual passing of major assets must take effect after his death. Eventually the assets of parents are not so precious for लायक children and they are not very much careful for that. पूत सपूत तो का धन संचय, पूत कपूत तो का धन संचय। लेकिन यह बात सही है कि लड़के और लड़की के बीच बराबर से ही प्रापर्टी दी जानी चाहिए।

My parents.... Unhone kaha hi nahi kiya aur mana bhi.. Meri shadi ke 7 years ho rahen... In every situation wo humesha sath rahte hain papa bolte hain mera sher hai😄equal respect, share sab kuch diya hai.... I m blessed enough...sari betiyon ko mere jaise ma-baap milen...

Yah baat Sahi hai chahe koi Mane ya Na Mane ladkiyon ka koi Ghar nahin hota vah Puri life insecure hi rahti hai agar ladki property bhi mang lena to Bhai bolenge baat nahi bana koi aapko bulaega nahin koi aapko puchega nahin kahane Ko sab Apne Hain per apna koi nahin individual life hi nahin padati hai always

How to divide my two properties equally between beta and beti if both properties are not of equal value? Please give some clarity on this

100% agree sir.मालवा में सम्मानस्वरूप महिलाओं को पुरुष वाचक सर्वनाम दिया जाता है जिसका मैंने हँसी में ही विरोध किया तो लोग offensive हो जाते हैं।

My parents have two daughters only but when they talk about property everyone says ki hmari property mere chachu k bete ko Jani chahiye. But i fought back ki cousin ko kyu du me apne papa ki property? Abhi Jake papa bhi mane ki chal thik hai tum dono ko denge or cousin ko nhi. Kyu ki cousin ko to uske papa se milega na .

Kaha se laate ho ye sab topics sir..... seriously bahut alag aur sahi prospective de diya hai zindgi ko samjhne ka.... Hamesha lagta hai isse zaada kya aayega but Hats off..... Thank you so much....

Great thought!🙏

अगर बराबर बांटना है तो बेटे बहू को आज़ाद छोड़ देना चाहिए

Great 👍 perspective sir... New society ll evolve... Luv ur vdos....

Thanks for guidance sir

V. True... Bilkul sahi

MAG.very logical and straightforward. Noone dares to speak like this

So so relavant n much needed sir

You are right . I keep my daughter as a daughter .

Sir please make a video on Farmers reality.Your knowledge in agriculture and annadata must came out.Lot of pranam Guruji.

hahahaha this is a great one. Ladki ko Sukha pyaar. So true

Aankhon me aaunsu aa gaye ye video dekhke. Main khud victim hoon is bhai-behen ke property differences ki.....good going. Keep it up.

Absolutely right sir...u r a leader who is always inspiring for our society..sir mne aapke pass msg kiye the whts app p aapne reply nhi kiya

M.A.G ( Maza aa gaya) ...you are a treat to listen to, and every suggestion from you is gold.

@shauryakavishorts

Жыл бұрын

Ya allah!! I can see ..even bahu is the first person who is not letting go property to sis in law

Bdhiaa sirrr .. veryy thoughtful

Your’s perspective matches alot to mine👍🏻

Not only in property , this ladka ladki discrimination happen in every part of life , be it is education and finding the right partner for girls , food , love etc. Family me to mother ki hi chati he aur mother ke liye beta is priority.

What if in laws where taking monthly money for 17yrs only from elder son,additionally made him pay bills nearly 7-8 lac Rs for hospitalization. Now when it comes property rights their daughter and other son they are giving maximum share. How to handle this?

@Hetal28

Жыл бұрын

Yes This is such a common scenario One who does all the work , is always taken for granted. Others who don’t care and do no duty get lot of favors

@thankcode

Жыл бұрын

I am that elder son who is giving money every month to my parents since 10 years continuously without even a single failure. Still I don't get my due respect. 🥺

This is an eye opener. You are doing a great job.

PLEASE GUIDE US -THE RIGHT TIME TO SHARE AMONG KIDS AND DO WE NEED TO KEEP FOR OURSELVES TOO...

Super stuff!!!

Wonderful Amitji👌👌

Sir content bhut acha hai. Thoda sa voice volume high kar diya karo sir..... Jab chaar paanch log sunte hai toh full volume bhi kam lagta hai sir

Sir astrology sikha dijiye want to learn

Thank you sir.. Aajkl ki hectic life and nuclear families me esa ho rha h ki hme family/society ke aged logo ( senior citizens) ke pas baithne ka time hi nhi hai jisse unke knowledge/ experience ko nhi le paa rhe ... Lekin aap ke videos dekhte hain, Ek different level ki thought process dekhne ko milti hai ... Thanks

Jaberdast sir maza aa gaya realistic

One of the best videos and must be watched and followed by every parent. Govt though has issued laws to give equal share to daughters but most parents bypass these laws by Writing Will in favor of their sons only. This wrong mind set of parents give birth many family disputes and discrimination. If the concept of equal share among all children is followed, many evils shall vanish. Congrats and Thanks for preparing such eye opening video.

Very much needed video!!

Maja aa gya sangwan sir !!! 🙏🏼 from charkhi dadri

MAG sir you r absolutely right. My father was thinking like you and wanted to do also but my brother was a real bully and he had to succumb to him lot because he loved his son . Can you imagine he had to write his house in his son's name only ,and said as long as he is getting His Railway Pension his son will not throw him out 😭 . He got a good pension not a poor one . Because of society he could not decide to stay with his daughter in his last year's. .🙏 Keep going sir for society.👍

Very relevant topic Sir

True... Actually ye video ab suggestions mein show hua otherwise... Maine bete beti k difference par comment paranting k dusre video mein kara hai.

Great information ❤️ Muje esi hi direction chahiye thi 🙏