Practical, yet beats stand up comedy 🤣🤣🤣

@manjubalaa

2 жыл бұрын

Practical

@salil8880

Жыл бұрын

Good

@lilysrivastava487

Жыл бұрын

Mujhe accha laga 👌👌

@prabhakaras8162

Жыл бұрын

Very practical. 👌

@GoriJodhpuri

Жыл бұрын

😀

My son is getting married after 2months, I have planned to sent them to the place he works straight after their honeymoon. But family members say that what others will think? But i bother a least of it. Their happiness is what counts. My son is living alone and if DIL goes there, I will be the happiest

@Sanjeev1353

3 ай бұрын

Lifetime bas family log ka dusra kuchi nahi hai agar log kya sochenge yeh bhi hum soche isse bura soch toh kuch bhi nahi pehle tha bas yahi reh gaya khudki duniyadari dekho khudki lifestyle behaviour dekho waise bhi bhagawan sabko checkup kar rahe hai jab societal ki baat aate hai tab bahut jyada involved karke apne family ki khusi khatam karke no no our family is best in society it's a one human life race ek baar bhagwan ke instructions pe tumhara Zinda khatam toh phir kabhi bhi kuch incident ho sakta hai phir RIP

@sumakkumar8478

2 ай бұрын

👌🙏

We need more people like you in our society.... well Done uncle..

Very good concept. My mother in law followed it n stays near by. And it worked very well. In our ten years of marriage we still stay seperate. Do get-together for special days festivals. And i must tell you my bond with my mother in law is like a bestie. We gossip together , shop together and we live as a team😍 . I am proud of my mother in law that she took this decision ♥️

@monikasingh4250

Жыл бұрын

Very lucky you are

@poojakandari9847

Жыл бұрын

U r truly blessed

@AV-mo6gg

Жыл бұрын

You are lucky.... It's not the case usually They want to live together as a joint family and then nobody understands what a dil feels not even her own family Sad truth

@shreyatambevaidya2464

Жыл бұрын

Lucky u

I used to think this that a husband and wife should get time to have fun, enjoy life and get setteled with each other after marriage. But in joint family system they are burdened with household responsibilities soon after marriage takes place. Which doesnt let them have time, space and a healthy mental state to bond.

@lillykumari8828

Жыл бұрын

Esa jina haram karte h nanad saas sasur k shadi kar k pachhtawa hota h😭

@parulbhardwaj5128

Жыл бұрын

@@lillykumari8828 😀😂 dil se nikala hua lagta hai 👍

@decodingmyroot

Жыл бұрын

haha - I remember getting a call at sharp 6am from MIL, even after staying in the same house to wake me up.

@uptownlifestylevlog

Жыл бұрын

@@lillykumari8828 😔

@techihandle

Жыл бұрын

@@decodingmyroot i can feel your pain

Even if mother in law stays away. They interfere in their sons marriage everyday via WhatsApp. These days sons are mummy’s boys. They tell every thing to their mother on phone every day…ultimately ruin their marriage

@makeaware

Жыл бұрын

Sabhi ese hi hai

@asmasaquib4632

Жыл бұрын

Totally agree. My husband still hanging from the umblical cord till she died 2 yrs ago.Myself a victim of MIL brain washing for 28 yrs. She did unrepairable damage and ruined my marriage. I hold my husband responsible for it.

@Sanatan_Samiti

Жыл бұрын

Wife or wife ki maa Kam nhi hoti

@siyascreativecorner8353

Жыл бұрын

Correct

@garimachaudhary119

Жыл бұрын

True. Meri life bhi kharab kar chuki hai. Aur jiske liye maine sab choda usko mujhse koi matlab nahi hai

Really good advice and it's not just north Indians, it's the same with south Indians as well. It doesn't matter how well educated a mother-in- law is , when it comes to her sons, she becomes extra possessive and daughters-in-law bear the grunt. Your insights are very good and I guess the modern society is now waking up to it. Love the way you explain things.

I am 47 and married for 16 years. I have become fan of yours. This is absolute fact which I learnt through my life and come to the same conclusion which you are sharing. 🙏

@funnysrishti

Жыл бұрын

What you learnt pls share

Acha hai uncle 😃👏👏👏 I am raising a 7yr old son presently and in this era of modern age parenting your ideology doesn't surprises me at all because being a victim of marital kalesh 8yrs back I can relate to ur every word.. V need to understand ds even our own children r not our property, they are 'individuals' first and v should not consider them as money back scheme 8yrs bk vlogging wasn't dt much popular otherwise v cud hv saved our golden 1yr of marriage by watching and showing such videos to elders in the family I randomly found ur channel n now a fan!!!

@harshbrar1

7 ай бұрын

a person in mid 30s calling him a uncle is just hilarious. He is not even 50 😂

@servantofKRISHNAforever

6 ай бұрын

Age ?​@@harshbrar1

After a long time i found some one like u who really understands . Thanku for this video. My mother in law and father in law both r very judgemental though they pretend in front of everyone and their sun too that they r very cooperative. Living with them is a big difficulty in my life. My freedom in house in very limited. And my disrespect for them has increased to such an extent that i talk very less to them. My husband is also not understanding in this aspect and he believes her parents are best and i m the one with all the faults. I hope not only wives but the husbands and in laws see this video , so that they understand a wife’s perspective and needs.

Practical! I am married since 17yrs and working woman. I have gone through lot of physical, mental, financial torture and few years back moved out. Though bitter experiences left emotional wounds. But while watching this video I was laughing and now it feels funny.

Absolutely true. We were made to live with jeth jethani. I was working and she wasn't. Bas shuru ho gaya comparison, taunt, expectation 🙄🙄

My mother in laws behavior has changed drastically since I moved in my own house. Now she is a completely different person. So loving and caring. I wish she were like this in the initial days of my marriage. I have suffered so much. But der aye durust aye. Now we all are happy.

@SHIVANEEZWORLD

Жыл бұрын

U never know...wat she is planning..be careful🤪..at d end she is MIL

@Sanataniyoo-ki-Jayho

Жыл бұрын

Humare pata nhi kab ayenge yese din

@SHIVANEEZWORLD

Жыл бұрын

@@arpanmadrecha3013 all the best..stay happy..tc

@knowledgehindi4399

6 ай бұрын

​@@SHIVANEEZWORLDHan ab aap yhi sikhana inko..bahut sari ladkiyan b sikhati hain apni friends ko aap k jaise 😂😂 par ladke nhi

I can literally cry...bcz My marriage affacted a lot bcz of these reasons...but I didn't give up... I owe you Sir

@poojapursani2761

2 ай бұрын

Mine too dear,

Sir, ekdum sahi kaha....2 mahine me hi divorce pe baat aa chuki hai... husband mumma's boy hai puri uski sunta hai...khud ko extra ordinary samjte hai

Our Bollywood and television shows notion 'lado maaro Gaali do par saath raho' doesn't fit in real life that we need to understand

Actually ... You said all bitter truth of our society in a very sweet way... Need such change in our society... Thanks a lot Sir... 🙏🙏🌹

I been through this, and it almost resulted in ending marriage. But now that I and my husband live in separate house things between both of us is getting better day by day.

@HomeMadeYummyFood2323

11 ай бұрын

Same here

Practical 👍 my inlaws tortured me a lot in past 2 years now finally we are separated and living happy life but still I think that I was never want him to separate from his family but my in-laws were very horrible their thinking was18 century

@rashmisamal88

Жыл бұрын

My mother in law and sister in law has ruined our happy life

you are absolutely right , such things should be published in news papers & other ladies magazines also , so that mass awareness will come & it will improve sas , bahu & social situations .ghar ghar ki kahani honi band ho jayegi . thank you .

Mind blown 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Literal truth bombs 💣 Our parents did the same and we are all living in harmony!

I agree with your thoughts. It's very practical. Nowadays, boys are not groomed properly by his parents. They are not educating their son to be a responsible husband. Boys mother is ready to show her feelings of ' Kyoki saas bhi kabhi bahu thi'. Reason being she makes her son as Mummas boy. She is not aware about the toxic environment, that she is spreading in her house. It is completely a fault of boys mother.

The way u explained everything is the best 🤣🤣🤣🤣 can't stop laughing 😂😂😂😂😂

Bahut hi accha video....kaash shadi k phle dekha hota...ab to shadi bhi ho gai or problems bhi ho gaye

I absolutely agree with you. The initial one year phase is very crucial in making or breaking of a marriage. But unfortunately, it's difficult to make people realize that. Specifically when they are your own. Aap ye suggestion dene jaoge to khud bure ban jaoge.

I have observed all those moments when you said 'this happens especially in North India.' All those happen here in South India too. I could give you a guarantee. Maybe it is a South Asian thing (may happen in Pakistan, Bangladesh & S Lanka)

Good advice My son is 7 years old I'll definitely follow this advice 😂😂😂

U r an open minded person wish every girl be blessed to have in - laws like u 🙏 peoples mentality must change with changing India. I m really blessed to hv loving n caring father in law 😊

*"Very realistic, practically, thoughtful, knowledgeable & Life-toughts preechings Sir jee"*

@chimanlalgarg9756

Жыл бұрын

Practical

This video packs a lot of punch. If only Indian parents could learn to let go

Thank you so much for the positive practical tips, Sir. This is a very sensitive complicated topic immensely filled with many emotions. It's very hard to manage things. But you have tried sharing the best possible practical solutions. I hope and pray that every family lives together in peace, love, and joy!

Yes I absolutely agree with you. Practically society should change but difficult 😃😃😃but seeing your vdos some change will b there 👍👍👍

I can relate to it to the core specially "ek baar woh khud leke jayegi na apka beteko toh wapas kabhi nehi ayegi" so.so true

@kiranmalaviya8134

Жыл бұрын

Aur aap ko bhi aane nhi degi!

@aaravjaiswal7634

Жыл бұрын

Aur beta jaaye hi na toh

Actually it's very true .... We have clashes due to joint living with in-laws

We need more people like you in our society sir... Very true!

Well spoken. North Indian families are suffering due to marriage related dilemmas.

Sir ..... awesome practical words..... thank you for the clarity !!

Very good idea sir..well explained sir..reality of our society...I'm facing this in joint family..but I will try this on my son when he will be married..but now he is 6yrs old only 😀 👍

You have become our daily dose of life mantra, and it feels like you have read our minds. You are doing a brilliant job , keep it up! All the issues are real, and your solutions, funny entertaining but genuine.❤❤

Such a true and helpful video 🙏🏻 Thank you. Agar In-laws understanding ho, aur bachcha hone ke baad help aur strong support system ho, toh aadhhi problem solve ho jaati hai.

We need more people like you sir,Thank you so much!😇

Finally got some body who belongs to in laws age and has brains. Definitely sharing all ur vedios to them to mitigate ghar ka kalesh. Plz make a vedio on karva chauth ka tanta 🙏. Badly needed.

Itana complicated subject, kitani asan bhasha me samjha diye.great communication skill , very necessary matter is as well. Thank you very much.. relation balance is very much important..

Bahut Badiya sir. Worth listening and implementing too

Nice. Well explained. I want to say that -- things will be better if you treat your daughter in law as your son in law. Do not compare with your own daughter.

All your ideas and tips are very true as per changing times. Very very practical Our society has changed and we have to change to keep our children life’s happy

Never seen anybody so practical ....applaudable!!

आपकी बातें आज के संदर्भ में पूर्णतः सत्य है! आपको कोटि कोटि प्रणाम! अगर समाज ये समझ ले तो शादियां बर्बाद न होगी और कोर्ट कचहरी का चक्कर न होगा! आपने एक बहुत जबरदस्त समाधान दिया है!

Practical suggestions....keep sharing uncle...we don't usually get to see such perspective in general

What a video sir amazing, we need more people like you in our society, You are Doing great job sir keep up... 👍🏻

Awesome!! Seems very logical . . . And actually works. . . Ur delivery is awesome too !! U rock uncleji

Another master video. It spoke my mind. Plz plz make a video on when one person is sick with fever or minor ailment. Viral usually takes 4 to 7 days. But parents and relatives instead of supporting take and give back so much of tension to the care taker and the sick person that one thinks that I am not supposed to be sick or hide it.

What you're doing is Great just keep these types of series going on.. It will help alot of people

Absolutely practical advise given 👌👌Today's young generation is much smarter and they don't get involved in melodramatic situations as we would've been.

@monicapradhan4084

Жыл бұрын

Nailed it ...thet won't ever bother.. But again we parents still have to bear the grunt anyway. This is inevitable atleast 1 more generation.

Exactly….many of things i hv myself faced.Happy to share this

बहुत ही अच्छी vdo बनायी, Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Nicely said.. I couldn’t agree with you more. Thank you for making such nice videos. Your advice can save many families. 🙏

wow I m amazed you think this way ...we stayed together with inlaws 8 yrs but moved out in same city due to lots of conflicts...1st year staying separate is superb idea .as couple gets freedom to enjoy their way and have good memories

True story. I have gone through same thing. Kash aap ka ye video mai shadi se pehle dekh leta. I really admire your experience and understanding sir.

U r giving really practical solutions. I wish people could really understand and implement this one

Hi Amit sir, Please make one on karva chauth. My mother-in-law forced me to do karvachauth amd then ahoi while in my last phase of pregnancy and caused loss of amniotic fluid and now i have to work twice hard to recover my pregnancy from these nirjala vrat festivals. My father's side don't follow karwa chauth etc. My in-laws are over superstitious about these things.

@NS-jt9vv

Жыл бұрын

We don't have fasts for pregnant women, even Karva chauth is not done during pregnancy. All families follow these rituals in their own way.

Sir hatts off simply....you are from Haryana and this much open minded approach...you changed my perception of people from Haryana 🙌

Thank you for this beautiful advice.

Your video is very good. All points covered are very practical 👌

Nice. Sir the newly married couple should be made to rent a house and stay away after the marriage. They should also be told to return when they want. Because in that one year if the girl gets pregnant, she may require help and so both may decide to come back to the husband's house or else they may go to the girl's house or her mother may come to help them.

@dr.franciscanishatotalheal

Жыл бұрын

Thanks friends for liking my thinking.

Yes...this was told to my father we will separate them...but never happened....seriously I am pleading other viewers to pls listen 1yr is most important...coz it didn't happened n ruined our marriage relationship...bcoz of that we have fights on pity issues

@kayiy7346

Жыл бұрын

Very true

@Sanatan_Samiti

Жыл бұрын

Agar husband ke sath alag bhi hote hai ek saal phir bhi issue hote hai Ladai hoti hai Husband's In laws are just excuse

@SD-ts6pv

Жыл бұрын

In my situation also marriage is ruined forever . Please ek ghar chod Kar reh lo par alag reh lo please .

Yeh video toh mujhe meri aur mere doston ki kahani si lag rhi hai....amazing video. This video should be watched by each and every parent. They push their kids away

You are very interesting, entertaining and practical. Your examples are real life. I can actually picture the scene.

Master of Clarity!! Amit Sir U r amazing . Just wish You Tube videos would have started some 15 years back❤

All these things needs to be addressed. Thank you sir 🙏🏻

100 % correct advice. Thanks Sir for all the wisdom.

Quite useful and most needed for today's time. Thank you for the efforts.

U r amazing..i love the topic, very new concept and really good advice. And i love the way u speak, so entertaining u r.

Superb video, Sir. Sutras for peace, good cheer and affection in life.

@kavita032002

Жыл бұрын

Very true

Practically speaking this is the best advice for both sides. Newlywed’s need their time to soak up new responsibilities

Apne meri soch ko shabdon ka roop diya ..... shukriya.....

Very nice sir.. agree with you 100%. My younger brother is getting married in few months and i am telling same thing to my mother and brother.. but whenever I say these things they say I am trying to ruin their house.. I am judging someone who is even not part of the family.

To the point and very practical . Plot nahi hai 😂 epic

Very true ...Such a very imp.Life-sutra's sir...Aapka Tarika samjhaane ka ekdum theek h.....

Absolutely right,, hamari newly married lyf barbad kar k rkh di thi mere in-laws ne,,Beta NCR m job krte the & saas muje Jane ni deti thi.fir jb ye lekr gye toh kehti mere bete ko muje se duur le gyi,,itna stress ki Pti ne Job hi shod di then Luckily then he got opportunity in abroad now we r living happily & in laws ko attack aa rhe h India m

👍🏻💯💯absolutely perfect .really true

Sir you are very very practical and excellent. Bitter but truth is always sour 🙏🙏🙏

@aparnapoddar2073

Жыл бұрын

Right advice

Very practical ... awesome video

Very nice video.. I wish I cud tell My in laws it earlier.. Damage is already done.. Anyway.. Living life still thanks for awakening.. I have a 6 year old son and I have lot to take from this nice video.. In future will try n input it for My son...thanks a ton.. 🙏🏻

Till this day i regret that first year of marriage. It was a total mess . I used to think as if i had committed a sin or maybe i was the fool in town. Love ❤️ you from Pakistan 🇵🇰

@englishwithshrub7614

Жыл бұрын

I can totally relate! mine too

Mind blowing... Enjoyed too much

Aapki bat bahut sahi he. Log nhi samjhenge per jo bhuktbhogi hen vo samajh jayenge ki aap ki is bat me bahut si bato ka hal chhupa he.

Sir, u r just superb. U give very simple n impactful solution on every subject.

I'm not married, still young but I'm so scared of getting married now.

@24GAMINGCHANNEL

11 ай бұрын

bhai mereko toh aise dhak dhak ho re la hai ki shaadi karni chahiye ya nahi

By the way, I am not married yet. But one thing I will tell you. Anything from one week to a month should be enough time for one or both parties to determine whether they should stay together. “You may decide halfway through the agreed upon time that you want to be with that person, but you should respect the time frame. Take care all

@doncorleone3901

Жыл бұрын

In that case 99.9% won't stay together trust me. It's adjustment after a while

Very true. Many thanks for your guidance.

Great idea!

You are 💯 percent right sir.

আপনার ভিডিও দেখে অনেক জ্ঞান অর্জন করলাম।আশা করি সংসারিক জীবনে আপনার সমাধান গুলো এবার থেকে প্রয়োগ করতে পারবো।

Sir, aap bahot experienced, practical and broad minded ho. Zyadatar log aisa kabhi nahi sochenge.

Great suggestion👌👌

Wow....i have always believed this....but when I suggested this before my son's wedding....my husband started accusing me of saying things that would break the family. I could not convince him.But I found other ways to achieve the same goal. A few things obviously a few things they couldn't learn...like managing their finances as we were running the home

@shaguftapathan144

Жыл бұрын

Please share how did you manage to achieve this goal, without separating...bcoz i am in the same state now. Planning to get son married next 1-2 years.

@kalpanakadiyan

Жыл бұрын

@@shaguftapathan144 fortunately my husband was about to retire ,and we had to shift to our parent town. That helped resolve the issue. After retirement we quickly moved to the other city. Now they have to manage all the things. I keep talking to them regularly just to give ideas about how they can resolve an issue( but i advice only if I am asked). Please understand we have to help our children to become independent and strong.and not dependent on us. Hope this helps.

@kalpanakadiyan

Жыл бұрын

If you have to stay in the same house and then teach them about finances,you can give them some regularly responsibility of grocery shopping ,and daily needs shopping that way they will learn little by little. Don't find faults with how they did the work instead tell them how they could shop better .

Dum hai sir aapki baatoo mee..... Thanku so much.... Me bhi issi situation se deal kar raha huuu

Sir mza aa jata h aapki video dekh ke.. M khud ko bht lucky manta hun ki aapki video mili mujhe KZread p.. Genuine video banate ho aap...bs keep it up sir ase hi

What when your in laws are ready to chase you even to the moon and beyond😅