No one could have put it forth so articulately and so accurately. You are extremely strong honest and courageous

very true statment. todays time parents apne faide ke liye bacho ko ladwa rhe hain. Specially after their marriages, its bitter but its true

@neelamaggarwal4053

Жыл бұрын

Aisa pta nahi kaun parents karte hai aur kaise karte hai

@arttricks6644

Жыл бұрын

@@neelamaggarwal4053 not all fingers are same. It's a big world

@kusumrastogi5672

Жыл бұрын

Kaisi baaten ho rahee hain, parents kyun ladwaenge

@shrutigarge2714

Жыл бұрын

Pata nahi kyu karate hai ।par ye sach hai ki parents karte hai। Jhagda karwate hai।

@deepaknoor6239

Жыл бұрын

I think woh ladwa nahi rahe , Children wants their money without fulfilling responsibilities , it's a very big matter and problem

Parents can be real self-centered for their own insecurities. After a certain age, they cannot be trusted. They actually don't care what happens to their children due to their actions. Parent's egos and wants are the supreme drivers for the miseries of children.

@trekking_kudos8768

Жыл бұрын

These insecurities are in girls parents more

@shrus105

Жыл бұрын

Parents are parents. girl or boy.

@shrus105

Жыл бұрын

Insecurities are not gender specific.

@rupal9708

Жыл бұрын

👏

@chetankutte6686

11 ай бұрын

Absolutely correct!!👌👌

India me pehle bar kisi ne ye kha he ke parents are insaan not bagwan,love n respect them like humans. Thank god I have such a great full in-laws 🙏

@kashishkishore6844

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely they consider themselves as bhagwaan , while they carry out all the nasty activities when it comes to them.

Very well said... The blame comes on children in later stages.. Parents are holy cows always... And bahu n damad carry the blame. Well said sir🙏

Yes this is very true word to word … This happened with us … exactly same what you said … I live in USA and they excluded me from my share … Finally i broke all my ties with my siblings and mother because of this unfairness …. I really appreciate your contents and the topic you r bringing out .. These toxic acts r happening in families, but No one brings it out in open … I salute your courage sir !! 🙏🏻

@endlessjoychannel71

2 ай бұрын

Right. Paida karte time nahi sochte. Property ke time selfish ban jate hai

कई बार parents apne fear and emotions mai apne बच्चों की life ko उलझा देते हैं.

Lucky are those who have wise parents. Commonly, parents play games with their children.

What a bitter truth. Parents are the cause for all sibling rivalry. I totally agree.

What you are saying is not 100% but 10000% true.. Parents are the biggest reason for siblings rivalry.

@sureshmaurya1193

6 ай бұрын

No I admire him but in this aspect he is wrong , not all case are same, sibling rivalry is due to jealousy ,greed and competitiveness nature

Parents feel that the younger kid brought in luck as their life had improved

Very truly said. Parents are causing havoc in kids lives and hurting the kid's mental peace.

Ye sach hai . I strongly support you . Salute to your courage . There should be strict Law Against Parents . India मे पेरंट्स के खिलाफ बोलने वाले को लोग जैसे क्रिमिनल की नजर से देखते है

I never was able to see my both grand parents in my childhood. I feel u r my grandpa giving advice..

Indians born in 1960s or 70s, I see and introspect more and more, find most of them are quite narrow minded and completely disobeyed what the freedom fighters and the noble people in the pre independent india told or preached. But they always gave gyan citing them ! Be it openness, keeping transparency in relationship, honor of work etc ...take any aspect.

Very much true, Sir ji.... parents use ' divide and rule ' tactics amongst their children...

Sahi h 100% maa baap bachon m devide and rule karte h ,jahan dispute nahi ho vahan kar dete h

Sahi baat hai.. Indian Parents har cheez apne hisab se chalane ki sochte hai.. Bacho ko kathputli samjhte hai . Shadi and education sab unke hisab se ho..bacho ko fd samjhte hai.. I am personally facing this issue at extreme level Totally agree with Amit ji I did arrange marriage with my parents consent phir bhi kalesh kaat ke rkha hua .. I am only son in family phir bhi Har baat pe property na dene ki dhamki dete h

@viquaronline

Жыл бұрын

Mere saath same

@arpanmadrecha946

Жыл бұрын

@@rindian1562 if parents have this much trust issue then why did they have kids in the first place children should ask this also to parents that's why the intelligent new gen are happy to be DINK's so in future they do not do the same drama as their parents

@deepaknoor6239

Жыл бұрын

Main problem is greed of Childrens

@deepshar027

Жыл бұрын

@@deepaknoor6239 not always the case. In my case no property involved but insecurity of parents.

@tejigill8062

Жыл бұрын

@@deepaknoor6239 how much greed Plz explain if bussinesss monthly 25000 income Son work 6 hours day How much son salary Plz explain

True, hmare parents ne bhi hme ghr se nikalne ke liye hd se bahar ho gye they, unki property pr paisa hmne lgaya fir bhi muje hi nikala dusre nikkme bete ko sath rkha...

My parents never made an effort to put any effort to build a relationship with my brother and myself when we were young. He was the golden child and so he got all praises and I was ridiculed and ignored completely. He started doing the same when we were growing up and he still does it. We only send birthday wishes once a year to each other now. I’m glad I don’t have to deal with his toxic behavior anymore !

@freedom4813

Жыл бұрын

@@arpanmadrecha3013 he also knew,if he ask they will burn inside They treated him trash 🗑️ whole life. They are doing for 19+ years so it is happened everything cautiously with him. Thats why anyone should born second or more children if they don't know proper parenting and not able to do treat with child Life

@freedom4813

Жыл бұрын

Should not*

@sunilarathod9940

Жыл бұрын

@@arpanmadrecha3013 every parent has a favourite child. If they say they don’t have then understand that you are that unlucky one

@arpanmadrecha946

Жыл бұрын

@@sunilarathod9940 what I was saying is to such parents it should ask straight forward why did they have kids in the first place loud and clear so they realize their mistake it is their fault then

Sir very very very very very very very very very very very very very TRUE!!!!!!!

Rare example of my sasurji ! unhone kuch chije hum bahuonke nam pe kar di. vo kahete the ki bacche kuch bech denge, lekin dono bahue diya hua achhe se rakhengi. I am proud that unka diya hua aaj bhi hamare sath hai !

Hello sir it's very very true sir. Parents apne dabbu type bachhe ko apni sewa ke ly apne pas rakhna chahte h aur jo kamyab bachha h uske gungan krte h dabbu bachhe ke samne Same story meri h sir

Very very well said. almost every second family is facing this

Sir, u r 100% true… patents plays big role in children rivalry

Very True ....Parents are the biggest reason for siblings rivalry & its 100% real.

AS this is truth of life, parents see inheritance as tool to power and exploit, you have hit the root, i appreciate

Hats off 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 kadwa such humare samaj ka....or jo jo aapne bola sab mene suna hai...apne family mai bado se... But sab khel power ka hai...jiske pass power hai wo khela hai duniya Mai ...... Or parents shabd mai hi power hai sab power unme hai ... But i hope aaj ki generation in sab baato ko samjhe....or aage ka future sabhi baccho ke liye happiness bhara ho ...

Absolutely correct. The parents say that their assets are their children because they don't want to distribute their wealth when they're alive and they want us to be in constant conflict. 💯 percent true hain Sir ji . 🙏 . Also make videos on how parents treat two different daughter's hubby based on their son-in-law's income and job designation also 😝🥴👿😜😂😆

@chetankutte6686

11 ай бұрын

Very well said!! I agree with you cent percent.

@endlessjoychannel71

2 ай бұрын

True comment. Thanks for writing

Yes, very true. Sometimes parents compel the other children to help the unhealthy or needy children. Sometimes it can be very taxing and create gulf in the family.

Sach hai. I am the middle child so they don't give me anything. They just say we taught you enough.

Thanks for talking openly about such a sensitive and difficult topic. Immature parents employ the "divide and rule" tactic with their children to maintain control and satisfy their interests. I'll be curious to know your views on how to disengage from such family members. Thanks!

@hirenkg

Жыл бұрын

Get a Job, Avoid being part of Toxic Communication, Bhajan and Wellness Program Enrollment, Communication Classes, earbuds, Set Achievable Goals !!!

@endlessjoychannel71

2 ай бұрын

​@@hirenkgthanks. Ur ans really helped me

Yes true…parents these days are very self centred…

Thank you, uncle for speaking up. My father divided my family for his own benefit. Mera baap baap hee reh gaya, pita kabhi nahin bana, na hee mummy ka patee bana.

@satishkumar-mb2tl

Жыл бұрын

Same here

Yeh to hai, as a younger brother when my father left his body when I was 16 then the neglegence I saw from my mother towards me is very high. She didn't cared whether I have any voter ID or aadhar or license or bank account or anything, I have to did lots of arguments to get the same in my house. We have car and bike in my house but the keys were hidden as they don't want to give me, glad my friends helped me in learning vehicles. Overall there is a negligence for my needs, I didn't asked for money and clothes from my mother, and she didn't asked me whether I needed it or not. I only lived with 4 pair of clothes from 16 to 21, not more than 200-300rs a year and that too I get from left overs after buying groceries. I used legs for travelling mostly but sometimes public vehicle needed and that's where my money is gone to. We are a middle class family, not anywhere near poor. Mother was a MCD teacher, now ret. However, I gathered everything with my efforts and righteous demands, 27 now

Sahin hain ye batein sach hain. Parents takleef de rahee hain bachoon ko aur apas mein ladva rahein hain. Main khud 14 saal se court cases lad rahi hoon. Shaadi ho ke 22 saal ho gaye hain 😥

Thank you uncle ji aap bilkul shi khte ho ek ek point shi hai ldke ko problem hoti hai in sbse wo apne kaam pr dhyaan nhi de pata hai grhaklesh ki vjh se aap jaisa agr sbhi sochenge to bhut kucch badal skta hai lekin afsos indian parents kbhi bhi apni galti nhi manege Or aapne ye shi kha hai k sb jhel rhe hai lekin khul kr koi nhi bolta hai Thank you uncle

True..aksar Husband wife m bhi kalesh saas sasur ki vajha se hi hote hai

Ye normal attitude tha 70’s k phele k logon kaa par us samay mai bh kaafi achhe log bh rahe hain Aaj bh ye attitude transfer hua hoga aaj ki generation mai Thanks for your contribution uncleji

This is so so true. Its the responsibility of the parents to bring peace between the siblings. I have faced this issue in my childhood. Finally, I had to take care of both the parents

Very true sir...parents in law, being old have more listeners than we have..they do many things silently to give guilty conscience to their young generation..

Completely agree Sir...I m facing same issue...my yanger brother has taken everything....

So true So true So true Ek ek shabd sach hai satya hai Guruji apke charan sparsh. Apne Dil jeet liya

Guruji , you are exposing the dark secret and biasness of parents , society needs to look in to this matter and act seriously.

U r right... I too have faced this issue. I'm the elder brother in the family having 20 age My yonger brother is very well in academics nd have done great in academics nd got into the top engineering college and I'm not upto that Mark. I have seen some difference in pampering nd caring by parents which can lead to fractions between the siblings. But that's the nature of human being every one praises to the morning sun.

@arpanmadrecha946

Жыл бұрын

That's why better to have only 1 child max to avoid these situations or be DINK at least you can take a decision that you will have only 1 kid and treat the kid well

Absolutely true... My family and siblings are being torn apart because my parents are taking a side of one child no matter what....

100% Agree with you Sir...Very Very Truee 👍. This is, the story of many many house holds in India... Bs koi khul k baat krk bura nai banana chahta.. Hr ghar k kahani h ye Sir

Sir, mujhe aapka content bahut achcha lagta hai. I am the cursed good boy which you talked about in one of the videos. Agree that when parents especially mothers get insecure, then try to play power politics between the siblings.

@arpanmadrecha946

Жыл бұрын

So now if you just got married then you should decide to have only 1 child or no child as DINK is common nowadays less headache for the couple

@deepshar027

Жыл бұрын

Looks like we are in similar situation. Good to know I am not alone.

@indianscookinginusa4826

11 ай бұрын

@@arpanmadrecha946but Amit sir never support this theory of DINK .

Sir aap bahut atcha kaam kar rahe hai.really useful.iam 43year old doctor and being mentally harrassed by my parents.the are rich and financial lly sound then also made my life hell.they misuse the senior citizen law.....they are very toxic

@tejigill8062

Жыл бұрын

Ghar chod do ?

Very true. Indian parents are very selfish and that is why my parents fought with their siblings and now my siblings are also fighting with me. It’s a viscous chain. Indian parents are breaking up families and they don’t care if they break their whole lineage. In foreign countries, every child is treated equally. Doesn’t matter if you are a male, female whatever. So I see here that since all children were treated equally, all children come to help parents out when they need. Male and female children both help out parents. I have seen people in USA who have 5 children but they all get along very well, because there are no games being played in families, no favoritism, no gender bias. People genuinely love each other then.

Uncle, aapne ek dum sahi baat boli

I totally agree with you Sir. Of late parents in old age are actually becoming more manipulative n selfless for their smooth running of old-age. They r comfortably taking advantage by emotional black mail.

Yes its truth...parents change...depend on children sucess

Very nice and true. Apt videos for Indian families where all children are married.....Indians parents hamesha pehle apne baare main sochte hain ki meri sewa kaun karega, Jo karega usse hi mewa milega....and they pick the weaker child Jo unse hamesha chipka rahega.....ultimate one is shadi ke baad jo accha kaam ladka kar Raha woh hamare sanskaar hain jo accha nahi karaega woh to Bahu ke kahe main chal raha...warna hamara ladka to heera hain......but inside out they know how the behaviour patterns of their kids but they can't accept the truth .... Aur issi jiddh main ghar main tensions hote hain

My parents long favoured my younger sister.Now she has stopped talking to me completely .when I asked my parents to show me their will as I want to settle things with her on the basis of their will in the future they reprimanded me called me greedy whereas I just wanted paperwork done so that things can be settled amicably.Now I'm the bad one even more

Parent Ke mithe bol. Sweet talker sibling versus yes sir talker sibling. Parent duty for equal stay across each child, no preference. Good Parenting Rules to follow. Signed Agreement for Siblings

this s exactly wat happened in my family. Word to word true. I didnt have any clue that this s happening.

Sadly 100% True Sir. Awesome observations, excellent bravery by bringing such hidden topic on surface.

Very useful narration and truthful guidance

You are speaking hundred percent fact. This is exactly the situation. High time to acknowledge it. Thanks for speaking about it.

That's right... Parents use children for their benefit.. also for their selfishness they create quarrel between children.

Very Truthfully you have spoken the Bitter Truth. I'm the Eldest Son & the same has happened with me whatever you have spoken.

Parents are giving pain to the children for their own self interest, Please continue make all real issue based videos, thanks Mr. Amit

Ek ek baat sch h…real truth & roots

unique topics sir, i truly appreciate your content. i guess our parent generation was doing investment instead of parenting on children and doing emotional love to their real estate/ money. i really appreciate what they have done for us but always expecting our generation to obey them is unfair. we have an environment of talking openly in our home, then have so much disagreements. i wonder what lack of communication can do. Basic flaw of previous generations is they take disagreements as disrespects. Thank you and keep making such type of content sir.

Absolutely True sir..! being elder is kind of a curse.

Very true sir..very very true The suffering is insane at times

Aapki baat sunkar uncle aansu aa gaye! Thanks for sharing this.

Curse of being an elder sibling. Please make a video. Much needed.

Very true... Awesome understanding 👍👍

🙏Sir,please please please make a reverse video,situation where children are ready to take care of parents and do everything as per their needs BUT parents still create hassle and don't co-operate with children, children don't want (need)parents money nor property

True statement sir, this is the story of almost every household but no one talk about it.

Wahi bolne ki himmat aur bolne par father mother bura man jate hai emotional ho jate hai

You are very right Sir. Very bold to come up with these facts of society. I suffered many years to realise that my parents love no one but them only. Most of the time they manipulate siblings for only their benefit. They painted me as villen in society even most of time what they wanted me to do in life. Thank You Sir.

Thanks for discussing . These topics are really need to be discussed. With shame no one like to discuss. Mostly sweet spoken child or who show off more takes love and property. Please this is real life . Thanks for at least bringing out. Thanks sir

Agreed.....koi problem nahi hai zindagi mein bas in laws ka hi tension hai....sab pyar betiyon ko unke bacchon ko pyar se sambhalate hai...beta Bahu sirf farz nibhane ko chahiye...sir pls ek video banaiye jaha betiyon ko property me hissa chahiy....law dekha jaye to correct hai but jab inko shadi ke time haisiyat se jyada dowry di tab law kaha tha....aur ek baat jo mayake se hisse le rahe hai unhone apni nanando bhi to Dena chahiye....matlab law ko apne hisab se apne convenience se ghumalo

Please prepare a video on elder sibling curse

You r true sir. This is happening generation after generations.

Parents are creating problems for children

Went through something similar couple of hours back and have been seeing these things so closely nowadays and your video popped up with a perfect thumbnail & the entire video is so relatable. I have been planning to come up with A podcast of my own and was thinking of talking about these issues but was scared cos it needs a lot of guts. Grt job sir!

He is not even accepting his mistakes. And he is blaming me Infront of every relatives.

Sir I disagree with you on one point - Parent living with one child and sharing property in 60-40 % just because he is taking care. The point here is the TIME spent in taking care . Is the additional 20% the substitute? It is equal responsibility of other child to take care of their parent's...Koi Ehsan nahi kar raha 20% kam leke...

@monoj3299

Жыл бұрын

He is anti hindu ,Equality( fake concept)lover!!!

@nidhis9974

Жыл бұрын

I agree

@arpanmadrecha946

Жыл бұрын

@Santosh Kumar - then it is parent' fault to have 2 children may be they did something when the children were kids hence they do not want to visit the parents . If parents understand in reality how much effort is required to raise a child then everyone will have only 1 child or like new gen now DINK

It’s true.. in my family too parent favour one child over other.

100% right today parents can cheat their child also

Each and every word of yours is so very true.. Parents in our society do treat differently if the siblings are girl and boy.. Boys do get everything they want just by saying "wo ladka hai, hamara sahara hai" etc etc.. on other hand for girls, parents favour less, saying "ladki doosre ghar ki hai" though girl is also kept in womb same as a boy.. boys get best education, toys, etc almost everything.. whereas girls-why to spend so much "paise nahi hai" etc boys ke liye paise kabhi kam nahi padte.. ladka ho to "hamara khoon hai" ladki hai to "doosre ghar ki hai" jaise ladkiyo ka khoon nahi pani ho..

Very true only mature parents can deal with this

Meethi boli wali video banaye... I feel parents always use sam-dam-dand-bhed policy with their kids ... In teenage I can support it because that age is very crucial to mold one's life path....but problem lies when they do same later on in life also

100% true ..... Sir, I respect your guts to bring out such matters....

Sir "Meethe bol syndrome" par video banaye. I am the eldest daughter in my family and I am a very straight forward person. My father expects me to speak sweet words, he gets offended when I speak straight forward. I don't understand why people don't respect a person who is straight forward in nature. I feel he or she is the most honest person.

@deepshar027

Жыл бұрын

Straight forward people are never respected. Need to do politician talk. My brother did sweet talk only on phone while my parents stayed with me. When time is ripe they sided with him - sweet talk wins. Realized this late in life.

@tejigill8062

Жыл бұрын

@@deepshar027 so straight tagult are bad

@MG-uj9ry

Ай бұрын

​@deepshar027 can you clarify- did the parents stay with you or you stayed in the parents house rent-free while it was the family house where your other siblings were equally entitled to live , but because of job outside lived in another rented property in another city, while you were enjoying their portion of the family house?

Sir u have kept hand on my dukhti ratt..because this is the problem with my family ..my mother favours her son more than me her daughter as i have been an average student throughout life and my brother has been d genius in her eyes .. according to my mother he has said number of times to me that "tune hamesha naak neechi Kari hai my son has made me proud " this thing has gradually made my brother an arrogant and stubborn person in life , he dosent respects me at all ..he calls me a loser and a failure through out..i have been depressed all my life get continues hurt my my mother and brother..my father has not been a strong man he listens 90 percentage to what my mom says n repeat that and now my father is old and lost his senses completely ...i have been with my family in all thick and thin throughout life till date , given in emotionally to them , physical efforts towards them ..but i am being told always tune kiya hi kya hai and everything is weighted monetary wise ...now my brother calls me nikkama and wants all property to himself says to me to contribute financially towards parents else forget all property..he daily tortures me , calls me loser , makes fun of me , calls me failure , insults and humiliates me day and night ...never appreciate what i do for him ..even if i give him gifts he says pati k paise se diya hai ... I supported my family before marriage..financially i supported my brother , i supported my parents during hospitalizations physically taking care of them , i love my parents n brother but everything gets weighted financially.. I feel exhausted and depressed.. I have done jobs but could never earn more that 40k per month and lost interest in jobs eventually...i got married and then also i did job for two years but could not grow due to which i have left job now ...but i really get tortured thru my mother and brother for years ..

@msgaming1632

6 ай бұрын

I read your entire comment and after reading to your story, I remembered myself. I would like to say to you, do not give up as long as you are alive. aap ke liye bhi koi na koi chinta karta hai 😢

@endlessjoychannel71

2 ай бұрын

I understand ur pain. Brothers r selfish n manipulate parents. They r evil

एक दम सही, parents पैरेंट्स होते है, भगवान नहीं

Ye sach hai. It's like an elephant in the room.. everyone knows and sees, but no one wants to talk about it. All my close friends complain about their parents(also me).

Mahatma ji, As usual you always cover taboo topics with extreme boldness and what is most important that you always come with a most relevant, practical, desirable and easy to implement solutions for the toughest of problems! Though anticipating Sewa is bound to manifest. Which will definitely bring anticipator to such a stage that he/she will need sewa.🙏

Sir for parents being a bahu and beta did everything but they expect bhav and entertain their daughters, no matter they and their daughter insult us, and whatever we do they treat that it's our duty. Yes sir parents are selfish, and never satisfied with Seva and said that's why I am not giving property and father in law is proud of his pension

No words to expresss how accurate you r sir 👏👏👏....Exactly ds is happening in our family ...indian parents r root cause of everyproblems ....bt some r suffering n some r enjoying the Free Pension , Free property .... Thank you sir for bitter truth ....which nobody has courage to accept 🙏🏼. ,🙏🏼Har har Mahadev 🙏🏼

Bilkul sahi h sir,bt koi apne glt kamon ko accept nyi krta

King of content 👍👍👏👏👏👏👏

Indian father enjoys social authority.A father is a father and always respectful for a son no matter how cruel drinkard and violent he is.If a son or daughter in law defend themselves by snatching beating rod or axe even that action is considered an attack or disrespectful by the society.Sir you have correctly said parents are not god they are normal human beings with every human errors and weaknesses.

@monoj3299

Жыл бұрын

Father can impregnate multiple wives in a day !!! How many babies can single wive give birth in single day??? Rights vs duties!!!

Itna honest kon parents hota hai.. Saab ko politics khel na hai.

Bilkul think bataya apne , har family me eise luka chupi chalta hai 👌👍👍correct kotha !