How Missing Man's Family Finds Him Alive 23 Years Later

Richard Hoagland's wife and kids had no idea what happened to him after he disappeared in 1993 until he was found living in Florida.

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  • @WhisperingJohn
    @WhisperingJohn5 жыл бұрын

    The wife could have spent 23 years in jail for his 'murder'. How scary is that.

  • @WhisperingJohn

    @WhisperingJohn

    5 жыл бұрын

    Not really correct, Dez. Many people have been jailed on circumstantial evidence. No body. No murder weapon. No evidence except 'we think you did it.'

  • @LittleRainGames

    @LittleRainGames

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dez Adams or if your black.

  • @svetamakoveeva318

    @svetamakoveeva318

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's why I don't believe in the death sentence. I understand how people believe that pedophiles and serial killers deserve death but the fact the innocent people can be put on death row terrifies me.

  • @charnetterobinsoncarr6448

    @charnetterobinsoncarr6448

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dez Adams here in America they can do whatever they want to. they can even kill you and exonerate you 70 years later.

  • @mongolchiuud8931

    @mongolchiuud8931

    5 жыл бұрын

    I believe Richard has said he left his family due to thinking they were not really his family but replaced by skrulls(Reptilians) but has since admitted he was wrong and just scared to be tried down. heres some of his conspiracy theorys on ancient aliens and the face o n mars. kzread.info?search_query=Richard+Hoagland

  • @clairem6368
    @clairem63684 жыл бұрын

    So he destroyed the lives of 2 wives, 3 children and ended up in jail. Ok.

  • @herikaoliveira_ho

    @herikaoliveira_ho

    4 жыл бұрын

    And his mother? I would be sick if my daughter had gone.

  • @whitedragoness23

    @whitedragoness23

    4 жыл бұрын

    Makes you wonder who else is “ missing” decide just to ditch their ole lives and start a new

  • @GHotSauceAnd1

    @GHotSauceAnd1

    4 жыл бұрын

    Claire M yeah.... you say that as if the jail sentence is too lenient of a punishment. What do you want for him, the death penalty?

  • @PippyPopsSelfHarmMonica

    @PippyPopsSelfHarmMonica

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@GHotSauceAnd1 No they didnt, you interpreted that way. and thats exactly why theres so much hostility on the internet nowdays.

  • @dale5471

    @dale5471

    4 жыл бұрын

    Young Chillionaire It’s ops fault you can’t understand a simple comment?💀

  • @StrengthScholar0
    @StrengthScholar02 жыл бұрын

    The fact he had all that money and he chose not to help out his kids is disgusting. That's not even mentioning the disrespect to a dead man's name

  • @reptilian2998

    @reptilian2998

    2 жыл бұрын

    My dad won the lottery and did something like this

  • @FLo-jc7ig

    @FLo-jc7ig

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@reptilian2998 Quoting you: ""Why dad one the lottery and did something like this""!!! What are you saying? I can't even begin to understand your comment!!!

  • @katjon

    @katjon

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@FLo-jc7ig really? You can't figure that out on your own. Is there an adult nearby? Quit being a douche bag!!

  • @mostdopepuzzlehead3445

    @mostdopepuzzlehead3445

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@katjon I don't think he's being a douchebag. I don't see him name-calling . I'm sure you can figure out a way to respond without it

  • @katjon

    @katjon

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mostdopepuzzlehead3445 you really want to test that theory?

  • @TheOMGRamen
    @TheOMGRamen2 жыл бұрын

    He didn't want to pay alimony or child support!! It's OBVIOUS. He wanted to leave his wife and kids and not accept any responsibility. He wasn't coerced. He wasn't mixed with bad people. He left cause he didn't care about his kids but only cared about his damn self. Shame.

  • @janetbarnes280

    @janetbarnes280

    2 ай бұрын

    He wasn’t mixed up with bad people, HE is the bad people.

  • @xxLaKalypsoxx
    @xxLaKalypsoxx5 жыл бұрын

    You know society is in trouble when people comment that "at least he didn't wipe out his entire family."

  • @frankboff1260

    @frankboff1260

    5 жыл бұрын

    xxLaKalypsoxx exactly what I was thinking. It’s a terrible reflection of just how low modern societies have sunk. I do not believe humans have evolved much if at all. They simply have a new facade like savages in suits. Sad ☹️

  • @Debilane23

    @Debilane23

    5 жыл бұрын

    Walk away or kill them all is a choice for some.

  • @Acaidia

    @Acaidia

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@frankboff1260 while its true that modern society has its flaws, to suggest that we aren't living in the best society ever is ignorant. In history murders, killings, and crimes were legal hell even encouraged and there wasn't any laws or people to enforce them. There were senseless genocides, barbaric stonings and beatings everyday. If someone was found out to have stolen property or cheated on their spouse then they would be dragged into the center of their village and the residents would all throw rocks at them and beat them to death. Nowadays we have a much more civilized and sensible way of solving problems, better morals, and respect for life.

  • @tomj8337

    @tomj8337

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Robin D. .. WoW you're patidic!

  • @TheJmustang07

    @TheJmustang07

    4 жыл бұрын

    @Milciades Castillo not funny!!!

  • @topramen1950
    @topramen19507 жыл бұрын

    You a coward if you leave your kids in the dark like that.

  • @ricksanchez1355

    @ricksanchez1355

    6 жыл бұрын

    Chaos Theory so he turned the lights out when he left???

  • @sheilahuynh2184

    @sheilahuynh2184

    6 жыл бұрын

    Chaos Theory, DO U KNOW DA WAE?!

  • @kyoto1326

    @kyoto1326

    6 жыл бұрын

    Gamingonmcpe please shut up.

  • @JN-ug5ky

    @JN-ug5ky

    6 жыл бұрын

    Gamingonmcpe the meme is dead. Fuck off

  • @chrishansen9323

    @chrishansen9323

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ugandan Warrior oh the irony...

  • @chantalgroot4275
    @chantalgroot42752 жыл бұрын

    "He told me it was family issues with his wife and children." What kind of issues do you have with a NINE and a SIX YEAR OLD?? Bad enough to abandon your family, but to just disappear without a word, leaving them fearing what had happened to you. Whether you'd been taken against your will and are being held somewhere, or got caught up with some dangerous people. Whether you'd been murdered ... It's heartless.

  • @natatatt

    @natatatt

    2 жыл бұрын

    I imagine the "issue" was he wanted to leave his wife/kids and didn't want to pay child support.

  • @jontupac7890

    @jontupac7890

    2 жыл бұрын

    The issue is that he’s a loser and couldn’t handle to take care of a family gotta respect the men that do it

  • @kingelvis19

    @kingelvis19

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jontupac7890 except he did get a new family 4 years later and was fine.

  • @mostdopepuzzlehead3445

    @mostdopepuzzlehead3445

    2 жыл бұрын

    There's always two sides to a story. Some people have a legitimate personality disorder and that may stem from traumatic experiences during childhood. It baffles me as well why parents abandon or alienate their kids but like I said there's two sides to every story. Just something to think about... Not that it justifies his actions but this narc could have done a world of damage if he didnt leave. Could have been the best scenerio for the family he left behind.

  • @msjujuz266

    @msjujuz266

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mostdopepuzzlehead3445 it's pure selfishness

  • @brionabandin9968
    @brionabandin99682 жыл бұрын

    "He can't stand to be in any one place, now he can't go anywhere. It tickles me a bit." I loved her response. So sweet but with the right amount of shade.

  • @MN-br5nb
    @MN-br5nb4 жыл бұрын

    Can’t imagine what rejection those boys felt...I wish them well

  • @jt2498

    @jt2498

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Ivan Snyder why?

  • @memesandmusic

    @memesandmusic

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Ivan Snyder no you wouldn’t, you angry 9 year olds get too upset sometimes.

  • @Lavenderkist

    @Lavenderkist

    3 жыл бұрын

    Tyler Echardt that doesn’t mean there isn’t damage already done. I have a family friend who has extensive trauma from thinking her mother abandoned her, when really her mother was murdered by a serial murderer trucker.

  • @cristooreal7996

    @cristooreal7996

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yah. My mom abandoned me at 14. 5 years alcoholic. I'm aaight

  • @iheartsheyla4390

    @iheartsheyla4390

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@te8828 who

  • @steel186
    @steel1864 жыл бұрын

    He didn’t want to pay alimony or child support so he abandoned his family. I’m just sad that it took 23 years for him to get caught.

  • @andreabonanno437

    @andreabonanno437

    4 жыл бұрын

    Exactly that is what happen

  • @fashionlife5348

    @fashionlife5348

    3 жыл бұрын

    I dont understand why is that a crime just asking

  • @excuseme5204

    @excuseme5204

    3 жыл бұрын

    They should have make him pay for all those years of paying Alimony.

  • @fashionlife5348

    @fashionlife5348

    3 жыл бұрын

    @edwin younes Why leaving a Person you dont want to be with a Crime ?

  • @fashionlife5348

    @fashionlife5348

    3 жыл бұрын

    @edwin younes is this the Freedom This country talk about so much 🤔 You cant even leave someone

  • @bendall248
    @bendall2482 жыл бұрын

    A little update on this. He was convicted and served two years in jail. After getting out his second wife divorced him. In 2018 his first wife sued him for back child support in which the judge added the maximum interest of 18%. He was ordered to pay nearly two million. It's doubtful that they ever got a dime.

  • @Andrea-ue7gv

    @Andrea-ue7gv

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the update!

  • @melanieanderson8357

    @melanieanderson8357

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh wow! How did you find this out?

  • @laurenlocd3180

    @laurenlocd3180

    2 жыл бұрын

    If he works they will be taking it out if his pay check

  • @E.P.7131

    @E.P.7131

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yea. She won a Civil suit for $1.8mil. Just think, she would have saved her sons, her mother, & herself from hardship and heartache if she had just treated him better.

  • @ACL617

    @ACL617

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@E.P.7131 lol how fuckin miserable are you?

  • @rachellep.3510
    @rachellep.35102 жыл бұрын

    My mother left just like that when I was 3 years old and my sister was 1 years old. I never understood how a parent could just abandon their children like that and never wish to contact them. I understand having issues with your spouse but abandoning your children, I will never understand. I'm glad that after all the years this man's family got some closure on what happened to their father. It's been over 30 years since we last saw our mother. I heard she started a new life without us. I pray that wherever she is that God forgives her.

  • @missbrazil528

    @missbrazil528

    2 жыл бұрын

    The part I don’t get is why start over the same thing you had elsewhere.

  • @KatoEmani

    @KatoEmani

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry you and your sister had to go through that 😔...

  • @Michael-rm9nd

    @Michael-rm9nd

    2 жыл бұрын

    your heart is solid gold, i hope you learn to forgive her too

  • @moseymay1772

    @moseymay1772

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bless you, she robbed you all and herself also.

  • @taval8389

    @taval8389

    2 жыл бұрын

    You all could have gotten too much to handle..Kids are a big responsibility, and many women are not given the choice to be child free. Mental pressure is a huge thing!! I am sry u had to go thru that, but I can undrstnd her situation as well..Maybe you can be a better parent to ur kid, that is, if u want any!!

  • @pzzmzz6463
    @pzzmzz64635 жыл бұрын

    Grandma is the real hero here, my hat's off for that woman.

  • @quincee3376

    @quincee3376

    5 жыл бұрын

    Heck ya.

  • @dcaraway3809

    @dcaraway3809

    5 жыл бұрын

    How could you leave your kids? Crazy

  • @adav5533

    @adav5533

    5 жыл бұрын

    How is grandma a hero, I'm re watching this, still don't get it. 🤔

  • @Xyyymrgamer

    @Xyyymrgamer

    5 жыл бұрын

    She is the parrot though

  • @aimeerobinson7358

    @aimeerobinson7358

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aman, my Grandma was my Hero too

  • @JLone55
    @JLone557 жыл бұрын

    Abandon your wife and young kids = NOT a man. Hardly human

  • @wowthatscool9333

    @wowthatscool9333

    7 жыл бұрын

    John LaLone Definitely human

  • @cbskater44

    @cbskater44

    7 жыл бұрын

    Trevor Anderson no. Hardly human

  • @wowthatscool9333

    @wowthatscool9333

    7 жыл бұрын

    Logan Greene A way someone acts doesn't make them not human. But a persons actions can be considered "inhumane"

  • @junghhujun140

    @junghhujun140

    7 жыл бұрын

    John LaLone that's why he took a dead man's identity

  • @saraifigueroa8045

    @saraifigueroa8045

    6 жыл бұрын

    John LaLone he is a man.

  • @beakittelscherz5419
    @beakittelscherz5419 Жыл бұрын

    The son is in clear denial tbh. This trauma cuts deep.

  • @norielli12
    @norielli122 жыл бұрын

    My stepdad did this to my mom and there were 5 of us kids. He drained the bank accounts and left my mother alone and we had just moved here to Florida from Puerto Rico. The biggest scar a person could have is the scar of rejection on this scale.

  • @buysexual.
    @buysexual.2 жыл бұрын

    "I don't remember that feeling " she's a lot nicer than she wanted to be at that moment

  • @australiamyway

    @australiamyway

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wow! Hello from Australia, 23 years later …. Would be such a shock. What a Devious male

  • @onimandisa7304

    @onimandisa7304

    2 жыл бұрын

    She said a lot with few words

  • @rubiesanddiamonds4me
    @rubiesanddiamonds4me7 жыл бұрын

    How selfish can this man be? He tore apart two families....one when he walked out and the other when it was discovered that he was living a lie.

  • @amariluna

    @amariluna

    7 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!! He's a loser without a conscience.

  • @jessicaabbinante2009

    @jessicaabbinante2009

    6 жыл бұрын

    Siyovaxsh En-sipad-zid-ana who hurt you?

  • @AveryB

    @AveryB

    6 жыл бұрын

    Jessica Abbinante 😂

  • @bensinner6251

    @bensinner6251

    6 жыл бұрын

    Siyovaxsh En-sipad-zid-ana Boy ain't that the truth. I see it so much it's CRAZY. Destroying their families over a new fling at drop off a hat. That almost all women too.

  • @IGleeker

    @IGleeker

    6 жыл бұрын

    Siyovaxsh En-sipad-zid-ana dosent matter what the wife did. He had no right to do what he did. He should have just gotten a divorce

  • @Juwlz
    @Juwlz2 жыл бұрын

    My aunt vanished like this and was declared dead. It happened way before I was born. She and her two year old daughter just vanished one day, along with the babies father. Foul play was suspected, especially when they found my two year old cousin abandoned in a orphanage across the country months and months later. My aunt never used her social security number after that. After police gave up, my grandmother hired private detectives, who never found a trace. Over 15 years later, my grandmother gets a letter from New Mexico. My aunt is alive, and it said "by the time you read this, I will be on my way driving to Michigan to visit" I was like 8. All I knew is suddenly, days before Christmas, my dad announced we were spending Christmas in Florida. We didnt have the kind of money for vacations. Christmas morning we opened presents and packed up and drove to Florida. I found out when I was older, that when my dad found out that my aunt had been alive this entire time, had abandoned her daughter for her mother to raise, he was enraged and refused to be in the state when she showed up. She never explained what happened. Never gave even her own mother any answers for what happened, where she went, why she was gone, why new Mexico? I started getting gifts in the mail, my aunt had signed me and my little sister up for these "animal of the month" clubs, we got different books about different animals each month and this binder to put the cards about the animals in. That is when my parents had to sit us down and explain my dad had a sister, he had never told us(well never told me and my sister, my mom knew lol). Then a year and a half later, my uncle died and my aunt came here for the funeral. I met her for the first time. She looked significantly older than my dad, her skin just looked like she lived a really rough life. She had this deep scratchy voice that scared me and I've always wondered what those 15+ years were like. Was she trafficked? Was she running from a crime and came back because the statute of limitations ran out? Was she harmed? She's still alive but she will never give answers to those questions

  • @moseymay1772

    @moseymay1772

    2 жыл бұрын

    Julia, WoW, that's crazy. Or maybe she had to protect herself and be hidden for some reason, witnessed a crime or who knows what ?

  • @Juwlz

    @Juwlz

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@moseymay1772 Yeah, the inquisitive part of me wishes she felt comfortable talking about it. When she abandoned my two year old cousin, authorities were thankfully able to locate her and reunite her with my grandparents. They legally adopted her(which technically makes her my cousin by blood and my aunt by law lol). When my aunt resurfaced, she tried to start a relationship with her daughter again but it didn't really work out. The fact that she won't even tell my cousin what happened, when my cousin disappeared with her, is so wild to me. I can't imagine how confusing that had to be for my cousin, when the mother she assumed was dead, suddenly came to visit for Christmas and didn't want to explain where she had been for the last 15+ years of her life.

  • @moseymay1772

    @moseymay1772

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Juwlz I know what you mean about your inquisitive part, one of my close relatives kept a secret such as this. The older I get, the more I witness proof that life can have very many twists, turns and crazy circumstances !

  • @TheWestlandgirl

    @TheWestlandgirl

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey no answers no relationships. It's the least they could do.

  • @Juwlz

    @Juwlz

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TheWestlandgirl right! My grandmother searched for her for so long, she never gave up hope in finding her daughter. She adopted her toddler and raised her as her own. So when she finally surfaced, and didn't answer any questions, never gave any explanation, and suddenly wanted the daughter she abandoned, to call HER Mom? My grandmother was heartbroken. The fact that she thought she was going to be in the will, after all she had done and the way she behaved after coming back 🤦🏻‍♀️ that was shocking. When she discovered she wasn't getting money from the sale of my grandmother's home, that was the last time we heard from her. She raged out and drove back to new Mexico and that was that

  • @mattypie9319
    @mattypie93192 жыл бұрын

    His first family gave up caring about him decade's earlier. They looked angry he wasn't dead.

  • @justsaying3729

    @justsaying3729

    2 жыл бұрын

    LOL!! Having him be dead is easier than dealing with the humiliation.

  • @doodoodoodle

    @doodoodoodle

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@justsaying3729 I'd say rather than humiliation, it's more about the betrayal

  • @silvajuani

    @silvajuani

    2 жыл бұрын

    I don’t blame the Family. They were already victims of his cowardice. Here he is in the flesh acting like there is nothing to see here…smh

  • @tinasmith2808

    @tinasmith2808

    2 жыл бұрын

    They are angry and hurt by what he did

  • @psysch96
    @psysch967 жыл бұрын

    divorce would have been a better option instead of that

  • @maxbernevek

    @maxbernevek

    7 жыл бұрын

    So that he can lose all his shit and become a slave for the next 18 years to someone he obviously doesn't want anything to do with?

  • @SuzLa1

    @SuzLa1

    7 жыл бұрын

    I doubt he's one of those misogynists who fill every internet comment section whinging about how it isn't fair women this or women that, as he left his wife everything when he went off, instead of leaving her with nothing after years of faithful marriage. He probably had some kind of breakdown.

  • @mariyaa111

    @mariyaa111

    7 жыл бұрын

    Max Bernevek it's not about her, it's about the children!

  • @Contact_Info

    @Contact_Info

    7 жыл бұрын

    psych96 he didn't want to pay child support

  • @MarijuanaGuy

    @MarijuanaGuy

    6 жыл бұрын

    No it wouldn't.

  • @Frank_San_Nicolas
    @Frank_San_Nicolas6 жыл бұрын

    The ultimate deadbeat dad.

  • @BalrajSingh-nu9bx

    @BalrajSingh-nu9bx

    6 жыл бұрын

    Frank San Nicolas illusion 100

  • @Frank_San_Nicolas

    @Frank_San_Nicolas

    6 жыл бұрын

    Balraj Singh UP, UP, DOWN, DOWN, LEFT, RIGHT, LEFT, RIGHT, B, A, START

  • @leobonek3204

    @leobonek3204

    5 жыл бұрын

    No he's just an idiot that's all

  • @mongolchiuud8931

    @mongolchiuud8931

    5 жыл бұрын

    How is he a deadbeat when he worked for Nasa and has any kids he takes care of now? kzread.info?search_query=Richard+Hoagland

  • @hannah-louise9271

    @hannah-louise9271

    5 жыл бұрын

    Yes, he is the ultimate dead beat dad. How can someone to walk away, disappear and never speak to his family again. Al for what? To start a new one....If he did not want to be with her anymore, then he should have divorced her. Why should his 2 sons suffer because he cannot face responsibilities. I feel sorry for both wives, and all children involved. So sad.

  • @Lucas_Tulic
    @Lucas_Tulic2 жыл бұрын

    My "Dad" did something similar to my Mom, my sister and me. He left us in '94. He got up really early in the morning, stole ALL our money, filled a backpack with some clothing and just vanished. We didn't get a card, or a letter, nor a single word or lead of where he was. 25 years later, now in my 40s, I found him but he got away before I could reach him (thankfully for his well-being). It turnd out he never changed his name, but he got married again and had a child and a totally different family. He ruined our lives 'cause we got kicked out of the house we were renting, and ended up living with his brother's wife's derelict motel. I had to abandon my education to support my Mom and sister (we were 14 and 16 when he left). With a little bit of luck I'll find him again and we can have a little "chat" man to man...

  • @iamtherealamandajo3990

    @iamtherealamandajo3990

    2 ай бұрын

    Wow I'm so sorry you went through that.... I hope you are in a better place. My father left me as well. I didn't understand as a child and even a teenager. I felt abandoned. I felt unwanted unloved.. but as I grew into my 20's I learned the World. And I Learned people. And I learned the things people do are on THEM and the person THEY are. It was not me. My father was just a looser and a coward. It had nothing to do with me. And I. Really happy to be free from all those feelings. I could not imagine bringing those feelings into my adult life.. I hope you chose to take control of your life and know it wasn't you that made him leave. It's the person who LEFT who is at fault.

  • @Lucas_Tulic

    @Lucas_Tulic

    2 ай бұрын

    @@iamtherealamandajo3990 Hey dude. Sorry to hear that also, but it seems you turned out better than him. And yeah, I learned from a really young age that he was the problem, not us, and thankfully my Mom was a trooper and she did everything in her hands to give us the best life she could with the little we had. I learnt a couple of months back that he died (supposedly), so he got away with everything he did. That's my only regret, not being able to find him sooner to at least kick his ass, but unfortunately, here in Argentina you don't have the luxury of wasting time and money without working to go find a man that didn't want to be found. Anyway... thanks for sharing your story and all the best to you! Cheers from Buenos Aires!

  • @83prettyblack

    @83prettyblack

    2 ай бұрын

    I am ao sorry ,you,your mother,and sibling didn't deserve that

  • @bonnienelson7373
    @bonnienelson73732 жыл бұрын

    My ex left me & our 3 children when they were 9, 11 & 13. No one could find him, not even the Cops. 10 years later he tried to walk right back into their lives. They showed more grace & mercy, after some time, than he deserved. They said it was always awkward, never the same & they had a kind of relationship with him for 4 years before he passed away. It affected the children terribly, especially the boys.

  • @InnaVitamina777

    @InnaVitamina777

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear but looks like you raised very kind graceful children.

  • @staribarra9656

    @staribarra9656

    2 жыл бұрын

    Horrible.💔

  • @arribaficationwineho32

    @arribaficationwineho32

    2 жыл бұрын

    Several people I know have had the same with husbands and fathers. The men wanted to come back when the hard work has been done. It was not wonderful for any of the relationships.

  • @gabriellekelly3462
    @gabriellekelly34623 жыл бұрын

    I literally laughed out loud when the interviewer asked, were you at all glad that he was alive? And she pauses and says, I don't remember that feeling haha

  • @abramquinn7726

    @abramquinn7726

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣YES MA'AM!

  • @ismth

    @ismth

    2 жыл бұрын

    😭

  • @aprilpotts4252

    @aprilpotts4252

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yess haha 😂 loved the honesty there!

  • @peopleplacesandperspective5564

    @peopleplacesandperspective5564

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣I just did and then read this! Perfect timing.

  • @mrkadarius11

    @mrkadarius11

    2 жыл бұрын

    And wonder why he left 🤣

  • @alieyball4032
    @alieyball40324 жыл бұрын

    I hope she sued him for the years of unpaid child support.

  • @southerngirlsrock2799

    @southerngirlsrock2799

    4 жыл бұрын

    Aliey Ball : hopefully she can get half of his estate but while he in jail she can’t get any child support, my daughters children’s father is and has been in jail for five years, kids were babies when he was incarcerated and she cant get child support because of that, she is raising them and supporting them by working two jobs! But the homes he owned has mortgages she can’t even get money from those, sad situations for the mother and children left behind,

  • @terrys461

    @terrys461

    3 жыл бұрын

    Obviously you do.

  • @keln7804

    @keln7804

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@southerngirlsrock2799 damn. That's a law that really needs review!!

  • @ZOMLUVER

    @ZOMLUVER

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@southerngirlsrock2799 Found the leech

  • @AtomicBlueJay

    @AtomicBlueJay

    3 жыл бұрын

    She shouldn’t as long as the houses have mortgages , and also they aren’t under his name technically so it would be very hard for the original family to get a dime from him

  • @melodied4314
    @melodied43142 жыл бұрын

    "He left with nothing." Yet he was able to buy multiple properties, planes, cars, homes. He either had stolen money or has a god-given talent for making money.

  • @zourdy697

    @zourdy697

    2 жыл бұрын

    nope, he did some dirty work

  • @AllenHanPR

    @AllenHanPR

    2 жыл бұрын

    He probably acquired a job somewhere and packed overtime. Before leaving.

  • @ChristopherGray00

    @ChristopherGray00

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zourdy697 given that he is willing to abandon kids, something tells me that him commiting crimes to get money isn't too far fetched either.

  • @fireengine77

    @fireengine77

    2 ай бұрын

    Con artist

  • @Celisar1

    @Celisar1

    2 ай бұрын

    At the end they say he stole 1 millions dollars or there was suspicion he did that.

  • @sweetfacelola5540
    @sweetfacelola55402 жыл бұрын

    Imagine how many people accused her of doing something to him. So many looking at her with negative thoughts. He should be ordered to pay child support and pay her for her pain and suffering! God Bless that woman!

  • @PresidentUSVI

    @PresidentUSVI

    2 жыл бұрын

    Can’t pay in prison.

  • @s.sangma9850

    @s.sangma9850

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol

  • @sweetfacelola5540

    @sweetfacelola5540

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@PresidentUSVI If he has assets. They said he had properties and boats etc. He should pay restitution to his first wife and children!

  • @I-hate-youtube797

    @I-hate-youtube797

    2 ай бұрын

    Honestly and I know this is a random thing to say I think this is probably the same deal with that lady from Tiger King Carol Baskin that the internet insists killed her husband. I was so fascinated with the case I looked into it and it seems more like the guy likely ran off to Costa Rica. I think there’s more cases like this out there than people realize

  • @a12e241
    @a12e2413 жыл бұрын

    “Identity theft is not a joke Jim, millions of families suffer from it every day!” -Dwight K. Schrute

  • @miguelangeljacobo8960

    @miguelangeljacobo8960

    3 жыл бұрын

    Million suffer every year! Is the right one lol

  • @shelocsher2396

    @shelocsher2396

    3 жыл бұрын

    *every year

  • @cedarwho7

    @cedarwho7

    3 жыл бұрын

    OH THAT'S FUNNY....MICHAEL!?

  • @64CSAR

    @64CSAR

    3 жыл бұрын

    MICHAEL!!

  • @C1Mastermaukka

    @C1Mastermaukka

    3 жыл бұрын

    Internet is giving access to everyones personal info nowadays remember not to trust web for personal id info. Id is tried to be stolen everyday partly by email, cloud services etc., check your hotmail or google account login attempts for example . Taiwan, Iran , Russia, Europe etc..all the time some is hacking to get info and power over my life and yours

  • @aaronyu3065
    @aaronyu30654 жыл бұрын

    He literally restarted life like in a game lol

  • @MsAchampion

    @MsAchampion

    4 жыл бұрын

    Lolllllll!

  • @Donnaworri

    @Donnaworri

    4 жыл бұрын

    Respawn 😂

  • @queensblade5013

    @queensblade5013

    4 жыл бұрын

    And it was a good life too! Tricky case since he was a good member and productive person. Still a crime tho

  • @farzana6676

    @farzana6676

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@queensblade5013 Lol, that woman drove him crazy, he had to leave.

  • @queensblade5013

    @queensblade5013

    4 жыл бұрын

    @D. F. very true he could have ran and still played some part in there lifes

  • @cz4610
    @cz46102 жыл бұрын

    My father disappeared for almost 20 years and I found him on Facebook, I didn't have negative feelings against him, I met him and our relationship did not work out

  • @E.P.7131

    @E.P.7131

    2 жыл бұрын

    Right. Just move on, life's not fair. Nobody owes anyone anything really.

  • @morestuff64058

    @morestuff64058

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@E.P.7131 Move On? Its his Father. he dumped his son and lived a new life

  • @E.P.7131

    @E.P.7131

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@morestuff64058 I get it, I'm just wondering how long someone should hold on to that? I learned years ago that you cannot hold someone accountable anymore than they are willing to hold themselves accountable.

  • @laurendaryani4893
    @laurendaryani48932 жыл бұрын

    What an absolute mess this man caused. I feel for all the family members impacted by his utter selfishness

  • @avi82625
    @avi826254 жыл бұрын

    The cruelest question I have ever heard - “Is that a better thing for you to believe than he actually just left you “

  • @SAMMIsLIFE

    @SAMMIsLIFE

    4 жыл бұрын

    But an honest one

  • @sleepypie3179

    @sleepypie3179

    4 жыл бұрын

    Samantha mother of cats an honest question? How can a question be honest

  • @SAMMIsLIFE

    @SAMMIsLIFE

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sleepypie3179 im not even gonna answer that cuz it should be common sense

  • @sleepypie3179

    @sleepypie3179

    4 жыл бұрын

    Samantha mother of cats He could want an honest answer but a question in itself can not be honest. It can’t lie

  • @SAMMIsLIFE

    @SAMMIsLIFE

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@sleepypie3179 basically an "honest question" is just not wanting to sugar coat something.. in other words, ur being honest. I could ask u why you're having a hard time understanding, or i can ask u why tf ur so stupid... thats an honest question.

  • @sophiejameson4064
    @sophiejameson40645 жыл бұрын

    My boys were the same age when my husband died. I know for a fact how much and how long kids suffer from the loss of a parent they loved. This man is a heartless POS.

  • @ambergreen6714

    @ambergreen6714

    4 жыл бұрын

    Agreed its probably worst at least when u pass away you can reason but running away and then to find out he had a kid. But really I bet he if he didnt run away would have killed himself. Most men under alot of pressure do. So i guess that's my thought it's better he ran than kill himself. But the boys it's so unfair for them. And I bet her world and the way it hurt her too. Sad.

  • @Tula_Bear

    @Tula_Bear

    4 жыл бұрын

    Sophie Jameson ❤️

  • @LyndonGrimm

    @LyndonGrimm

    4 жыл бұрын

    As a boy at the time who lost his dad when he was 12. I can tell you at 31 I've never really fully recovered.

  • @slyguythreeonetwonine3172

    @slyguythreeonetwonine3172

    4 жыл бұрын

    At least he didn't murder them while they were in his womb. Are you equally disgusted by the trash that murders their unborn?

  • @alexhenderson6521

    @alexhenderson6521

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@LyndonGrimm awwwe booohoooo poor little baby

  • @Noone9227
    @Noone9227 Жыл бұрын

    The way he taunted his family with the birthday card is particularly despicable. What a deadbeat! Let’s hope his hole gets widened a couple of inches while in prison.

  • @theynot4u
    @theynot4u2 жыл бұрын

    My sister knew a married couple who had a toddler son. The mother gave the father an ultimatum - either we give the boy up for adoption, or I'm leaving both of you because I don't want to be a mother. Of course the father was appalled and said no way was he abandoning his son. The wife kept her word and walked out on them both. As far as I know she never looked back. Some people are incapable of loving anyone besides themselves.

  • @monslay5624
    @monslay56242 жыл бұрын

    I will NEVER understand how a parent can abandon their child!

  • @justsaying3729

    @justsaying3729

    2 жыл бұрын

    What I don't understand is "Why" these wretched men aren't made accountable. You can't make them love their children but you can make them financially accountable and take the burden 'off" the Welfare system. I just can't understand how this could be okay. So many of them go on to live good lives.

  • @trapkingproductions

    @trapkingproductions

    2 жыл бұрын

    One man’s trash is another man’s treasure.

  • @carenlook7902

    @carenlook7902

    2 жыл бұрын

    They hate themselves. Only way it can happen.

  • @agentcodybanx8909

    @agentcodybanx8909

    2 жыл бұрын

    It's very easy

  • @candicedawson4264

    @candicedawson4264

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@agentcodybanx8909 Yeah it is, for Assholes.

  • @kbm506
    @kbm5063 жыл бұрын

    Those last words are chilling, "I wear it to remind me of a bad example." I feel for his kids, being traded in for another life. I hope those two young men are wonderful fathers, and remain good to their mother.

  • 2 жыл бұрын

    and as well for the oppisote sometime women do simular things to that many stories out there

  • @TheGoonSquadd

    @TheGoonSquadd

    2 жыл бұрын

    @D Legionnaire okay not sure why the plug but I went to watch it and have to say it wasn't bad

  • @missbrazil528

    @missbrazil528

    2 жыл бұрын

    👏👏👏👏

  • @pocketsfull-sf3wb

    @pocketsfull-sf3wb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yiudyiyiiyy

  • @EnlighteningTheWorld
    @EnlighteningTheWorld Жыл бұрын

    My husband left my daughter and I when she was about 18months old. No letter, no reason, no money left behind. We hàd just began our family and new life together and he disappeared without a trace for 6 months. He didn't have any family in the state where we resided. I immediately called his family out of state and country and no one had "heard" from him. I spoke with my neighbors and my uncle who lived next door and no one knew nothing. after contacting authorities, they stated he was an adult and if we weren't legally married there was nothing they could really do besides put out a "bolo". I searched day and night for 3 days crying through back roads at this job, bars, whatever would give me a slight answer. I had to get a second job in the meantime to pay for the additional car notes insurance and cell phones we had just got. The worst, was not having an answer to a child who would ask for her dad and now her mom was always at work. After 6 months and multiple threats I found him out of the country on an alcoholic binge. Needless to say I didn't recognize him in more ways than once and here I shattered me and my daughter's 💗 once again. He wanted bare minimum to do with us and to leave him alone as fast as we located him. He didn't want to be found and his family was protecting him in his escape from adulthood. This is where I realized he wasn't a man and less than a coward. My kid is now 18, (almost 19) and nothing has changed I've raised her as best as I could. It traumatized the both of us. The story goes on but I'll leave it here for now. This is both a psychological and character issue. Hurt people, hurt people. ~Xoxoxo

  • @kathymimms8311
    @kathymimms83112 жыл бұрын

    Wow! My dad stage a kidnapping when I was small, I’m 58 now. He put a note in the church pulpit saying he was kidnapped. This happened in Ontario, Canada. He chickened out and came back home. My parents divorced years later, because he kept disappearing. I’m still messed up from that.

  • @nctrnlmjsty798
    @nctrnlmjsty7985 жыл бұрын

    Found a death certificate, applied for a birth certificate.... I love America

  • @gorankarnunzyobiznus6515

    @gorankarnunzyobiznus6515

    5 жыл бұрын

    It is a bit ridiculous, but, having gone through it recently with a deceased parent, I now know you need just about everything, (birth certificate, death certificate, marriage license(s), marriage dissolution paperwork, and a ton of other paperwork), when it comes time to get deal with a deceased's estate. I imagine it is at least somewhat similar in most western countries.

  • @GoingPure

    @GoingPure

    5 жыл бұрын

    Do you have any ID for this new birth certificate? Well I have my death certificate. Perfect, that will work!

  • @jag8789

    @jag8789

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@GoingPure LOL

  • @TheCudlitz

    @TheCudlitz

    5 жыл бұрын

    Just to explain, he didn't actually show people the death certificate to get the birth certificate. He used the data in the death certificate to get it.

  • @Nicole215

    @Nicole215

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@GoingPure 😭😂🤣🤣

  • @SuzLa1
    @SuzLa17 жыл бұрын

    I like how his son said he wears the ring to remind him not to be like the bad example.

  • @92397

    @92397

    7 жыл бұрын

    He just made that up cuz he found out he was alive lol

  • @zayhertz-deeprest878

    @zayhertz-deeprest878

    6 жыл бұрын

    No, he has to have a reason to CONTINUE wearing it, you dense, fucking idiot. You obviously don't think before you speak

  • @SuzLa1

    @SuzLa1

    6 жыл бұрын

    I bet you spend most of your time online swearing at women

  • @whataboutredlorry

    @whataboutredlorry

    5 жыл бұрын

    You sound like a 550lb neckbeard.

  • @rick88261

    @rick88261

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dayumm babe. You need to give me your contact coz i seem to have found a dime in you😍😍

  • @Tkssa580
    @Tkssa5802 жыл бұрын

    Prayers going out to the children. No child deserves that. I could never do that to my kids, unless their lives depended on it. 🙏🏽😔

  • @user-hd7vm4cr7o

    @user-hd7vm4cr7o

    Жыл бұрын

    the dad left to get milk

  • @Tkssa580

    @Tkssa580

    Жыл бұрын

    @@user-hd7vm4cr7o is that what your mom told you? 😂 🖕🏽

  • @Uwolz
    @Uwolz2 жыл бұрын

    Now whatever insurance money they got they have to pay back. This man 23 years later is still giving his family hell.

  • @Jay-ly3ux
    @Jay-ly3ux5 жыл бұрын

    My dad left when i was a baby. Saw him like twice my whole life when i was in elementary. Im 31 now. What a coward!

  • @singmysong1167

    @singmysong1167

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jay, sorry for your bad experience, hope you are a better father.

  • @rowanbowyer6560

    @rowanbowyer6560

    5 жыл бұрын

    My father walked away and I was eventually adopted, what I found out afterwards is as the parent you have to surrender all your rights to the child. He wanted to meet me and my two sisters when we got older. We did go to meet him and instantly disliked him , he was a good looking man and knew it . He was a real con man, we never wanted to see or hear from him again, just before he died he wanted contact again , but NO! He never paid his dues as a father. We were better off without him! The strange thing was .. my mother died when I was young so our adoptive father raised us. I’ve made sure my kids had a good life

  • @sharonsnow6295

    @sharonsnow6295

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@rowanbowyer6560 As a 76 year old mother, I'm here to tell you, you are a better man than your father was!! People are born to teach us the difference between good or bad, by watching them, it is our choice as to how we live our lives, good for you!!

  • @carolynrog3rogers339

    @carolynrog3rogers339

    5 жыл бұрын

    @BigMomma Btd what that have yo do with it i have a some white friends that grew up without there father i'ts not a color thing it's a human situation gods loves you and he do not see color have a bless day.

  • @carolynrog3rogers339

    @carolynrog3rogers339

    5 жыл бұрын

    @BigMomma Btd sorry i misspell some words i quit school that's something ill regret the rest of my life.

  • @emilyfan505
    @emilyfan5055 жыл бұрын

    This is why I highly discourage people (specifically women) from being completely financially dependent on someone else. You never know what’s going to happen. Be smart.

  • @rosalindmartin4469

    @rosalindmartin4469

    4 жыл бұрын

    😄😆😄 totally My mom managed to get her teaching cert. before she was left with no family but her 3 and 6 yr old😁🤗

  • @calilife5109

    @calilife5109

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ok thats common sense

  • @calilife5109

    @calilife5109

    4 жыл бұрын

    We men aint supporting no bum ass bitches

  • @rosalindmartin4469

    @rosalindmartin4469

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@calilife5109 you do not speak like a husband, father, war vet or working man. You DO SPEAK THE WORDS OF MANY RACISTS AND REPUBLICANS😜 and they are not simply being badass funny

  • @southernlivinoutfitters6950

    @southernlivinoutfitters6950

    4 жыл бұрын

    Rosalind Martin Republicans? Tf 🤣

  • @juliescheidler7763
    @juliescheidler77632 жыл бұрын

    An interesting & sad story, the feeling of abandonment that his family felt must have been overwhelming.

  • @edithbannerman4

    @edithbannerman4

    2 ай бұрын

    @Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

  • @nikkilove5285
    @nikkilove52852 жыл бұрын

    It was hard for her to express what she loved about him. My ex-husband would've left like this if, I didn't call the Police on him. He wanted me to sign a contract stating; I didn't want Alimony or Child support. 👎🏾👎🏾👎🏾

  • @munobasho9
    @munobasho97 жыл бұрын

    I think he didn't really love his wife and just wanted out... and she had no clue about it...

  • @fourbyfourer

    @fourbyfourer

    7 жыл бұрын

    munobasho9: he wasn't getting any sucky sucky or fuky fuky.

  • @robingagan6288

    @robingagan6288

    6 жыл бұрын

    What about the kids

  • @lilsamantha1

    @lilsamantha1

    6 жыл бұрын

    munobasho9 yikes thats very cruel

  • @paulsed8887

    @paulsed8887

    6 жыл бұрын

    Livin' The Dream LMAO 😂🤣😂

  • @tottenhamhotspurish

    @tottenhamhotspurish

    6 жыл бұрын

    Livin' The Dream Sucky Sucky 10 dollar.

  • @crimsonstar9445
    @crimsonstar94455 жыл бұрын

    Sue him for abandonment. It's illegal to leave them without a proper divorce and child support settlement, the evidence is overwhelming 😠😠😠

  • @mosaicconnor7643

    @mosaicconnor7643

    5 жыл бұрын

    Legal?

  • @crimsonstar9445

    @crimsonstar9445

    5 жыл бұрын

    Chris Torres sorry for the late reply, but yes it is legal. He has a financial and custodial responsibility to help out raising those kids... So yes, in most states, she can take him to civil court n sue him for compensation

  • @pt9373

    @pt9373

    5 жыл бұрын

    A C I think you mean illegal bud

  • @mosaicconnor7643

    @mosaicconnor7643

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@pt9373 lmao finally someone said it

  • @crimsonstar9445

    @crimsonstar9445

    5 жыл бұрын

    Chris Torres i meant to say it is legally acceptable to sue him... But i edited my post anyway. Sorry for the confusion lol

  • @jessecuster5877
    @jessecuster58772 жыл бұрын

    This officer /detective deserves a raise

  • @alexissanio7225
    @alexissanio72252 жыл бұрын

    My grandfather left exactly just like that. My mom was nine and have 8 other siblings, the youngest was just months old. I'm so proud of my grandmother for being strong for all those years. In 2016 my uncle tracked his half-sister in facebook and in 2017 my sister and I met our half-uncle?? And said that they only found out they were second family (only the children, the second wife knew it all along) when they applied for death insurance and my grandmother was still listed as his wife on paper. P.S. they also left their two other children in my mom's home town in young age before they disappeared. Sadly the younger girl died as what my mom said and until now they didn't have a clue where the other one who is a boy maybe in his 40's now. After that they had 3 other children and they graduated with a degree in college while my mom and her other 8 siblings grew up struggling in poverty with my grandmother who worked hard for them to survive.

  • @SenorJuan2023
    @SenorJuan20232 жыл бұрын

    "I don't remember that feeling." Understatement of the year.

  • @severetiredamage6754

    @severetiredamage6754

    2 жыл бұрын

    Savage and understandable

  • @australiamyway

    @australiamyway

    2 жыл бұрын

    Also the fact that the nephew was doing the family tree. What an unbelievable story

  • @jimchance5006
    @jimchance50065 жыл бұрын

    "Hey dad, where ya goin?" "Out to get a pack of smokes, ill be back." "But, dad, you don't smoke." "Uhhhh, bye."

  • @natmakesthings8400

    @natmakesthings8400

    5 жыл бұрын

    lolll

  • @caseylewis8768

    @caseylewis8768

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh that's messed up. 😂

  • @occaligirlrodriguez6796

    @occaligirlrodriguez6796

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @youngtigeryt565

    @youngtigeryt565

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol 😂 dad: I’m going to get gas ⛽️.me dad we don’t got a car 🚙

  • @galgreen3749

    @galgreen3749

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lmao dead 🤣 🤣 🤣

  • @jaylenadegoke
    @jaylenadegoke2 жыл бұрын

    There’s surprisingly so many cases like this. I’ve been looking into the Brian Shaffer disappearance, the medical student from Columbus Ohio who vanished in April of 2006. Could he have possibly done this as well? Surely, there are people out there who who’ve done similar to this and haven’t been caught (yet) for perhaps longer. Just a thought.

  • @emperoricecream1

    @emperoricecream1

    2 жыл бұрын

    The Schaffer case is a weird one that’s spawned so many theories. He walked into a bar and never walked out, right? I look forward to Dateline, 20/20, Netflix, anybody doing a documentary on it.

  • @jaylenadegoke

    @jaylenadegoke

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@emperoricecream1 I hope so as well. It is truly bizarre. The case still haunts me till this day.

  • @OkieTeacher918
    @OkieTeacher9182 жыл бұрын

    How could he do that?? The leaving is bad enough!! But letting your wife, children, and family think your dead - never knowing what happened. Leaving them with nothing. Wow.

  • @4gma59
    @4gma595 жыл бұрын

    My grandfather left....just like that. My dad was eight. There's just something that happens to you inside when a parent checks out, never to return. I really feel for the kids in all of this.

  • @jessecrawford8450

    @jessecrawford8450

    2 жыл бұрын

    My grandpa too. Became a millionaire, worked for nasa, started his new family. Never met the guy and I share his last name. He's dead now. My sister got to meet him but she, God bless her soul, passed 3 years ago at 24. I never even got to talk to her about him. Damn life is hard and confusing.

  • @4gma59

    @4gma59

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jessecrawford8450 Indeed, life is confusing. My grandfather's sister lived 12 blocks from me for 10 years. I could have walked to her house and got all the answers we wanted. But we didn't know. I found her on Ancestry five years ago. Died in 2000.. I'm so sorry you didn't get to speak with your grandpa or get your sister's opinion of him. And so very sorry for the loss of your sister. I pray your family's been able to heal. We've learned forgiveness is the first step. Sending a hug, and wishing you peace.

  • @capncrunch4298

    @capncrunch4298

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jessecrawford8450 My Dad’s father left him around 8 and my great grandfather left my mom’s Dad when he was young, my dad and grandpa got to grow up without dads, my great grandpa showed up one day after abandoning him for over 40 years and my grandpa slammed the door in his face… Sucks so many Dads and Moms dgaf

  • @bonnienelson7373

    @bonnienelson7373

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes.....for all of them.

  • @ctravisful

    @ctravisful

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same happened to my great-grandfather. I believe his father left and passed into white society.

  • @mr.cooldad9082
    @mr.cooldad90827 жыл бұрын

    why not just get a divorce

  • @milwaukeebrewers6337

    @milwaukeebrewers6337

    7 жыл бұрын

    Mr. Cool Dad because a divorce is easy as going thru a drive thru at mcdonalds.. uhhhmmm lemme get a large coke and a divorce.. thanks..

  • @poptartdom

    @poptartdom

    7 жыл бұрын

    Because then he would have to pay child support.

  • @mr.cooldad9082

    @mr.cooldad9082

    7 жыл бұрын

    Milwaukee Brewers that would be better than what he did. ummm let me get a large coke and a whole new identity, wife kid, family, job and oh yea i would like to avoid all legal liability

  • @lekkki1

    @lekkki1

    7 жыл бұрын

    Because he would be held financially responsible for the family (children) he co-created. He was too selfish to do that, so he disappeared himself. Glad he'll spend a big chunk of time in jail. Fucking POS.

  • @Lgisas

    @Lgisas

    6 жыл бұрын

    poptartdom but he wouldn't have been able to use any of his money from the bank because the police would have found him

  • @professorfinesser4015
    @professorfinesser40152 жыл бұрын

    A lot of dead beat fathers like this that are extremely greedy

  • @shirleysmith8072
    @shirleysmith80722 жыл бұрын

    SAD for this family Man is a Bastard for Leaving his family May he pay for this!

  • @manichairdo6346
    @manichairdo63464 жыл бұрын

    The family lost their home and had the car repossessed. Kids grew up poor. Grr. While he marries, buys a house and a plane. Grrr. P.S. Identify theft is still happening. Stay safe.

  • @OnlyMuzan

    @OnlyMuzan

    4 жыл бұрын

    manic hairdo lol shows that it’s the person that controls the money but the majority of the time money controls the person

  • @OnlyMuzan

    @OnlyMuzan

    3 жыл бұрын

    jorge rodriguez I don’t think you understood my comment

  • @Iookism

    @Iookism

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can't take you seriously with the growling lmao.

  • @danielebrparish4271

    @danielebrparish4271

    3 жыл бұрын

    Not one, but four houses in florida. I think he's a psychopath. I also think people should have to get a background check when they apply for a marriage certificate.

  • @KlodFather

    @KlodFather

    3 жыл бұрын

    It certainly identifies who was productive and who was the leech in the relationship. There is a reason some wives are referred to as the ball and chain.

  • @JillianNoelle
    @JillianNoelle5 жыл бұрын

    Notice she hesitated when he asked what she liked about him'? Must be hard to find anything after what he did, wounds heal slowly over time... Yes and they leave scars, a constant reminder.

  • @johnvanegmond1812

    @johnvanegmond1812

    5 жыл бұрын

    Maybe she never liked him and he knew it. What if she hated him and he knew it. The only "real" thing he took from her was himself. He let her keep everything. Odds are the outcome of a divorce would have been her ending up with everything. What if he knew divorce odds (including losing his kids) and didn't want the headache of the court?

  • @kumokundomo9705

    @kumokundomo9705

    5 жыл бұрын

    What is there to like?

  • @kazzahotpink

    @kazzahotpink

    5 жыл бұрын

    Jill Amoroso she probably likes that he left? Haha and is getting what he deserves now.

  • @Surftouka

    @Surftouka

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@johnvanegmond1812 Leave it to a man again to make excuses for other men who are cowards & lame excuse for a man to start with let alone a "Father". You're all making presumptions trying to make her look bad & make him look good? the con-artist? the coward? Who deserted one family, stole an identity & lied to his 2nd family? How do they sleep at night?

  • @lenitaa7938

    @lenitaa7938

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@johnvanegmond1812 I don't think you comprehend the debilitating stress, shock and anxiety he put his family through! They didn't know whether he was dead or alive! Losing their home and cars to the bank, selling their possessions, moving, finding a cheap place to live, trying to find money for food and basics, etc etc etc etc! All the while dealing with police and being investigated!! People suffer complete breakdowns under such severe stress!

  • @justshalicious6283
    @justshalicious62835 ай бұрын

    Her mom, made me feel that pain for your daughter. 😢

  • @MJD44
    @MJD4416 күн бұрын

    Blessings to your family from New Brunswick Canada 🇨🇦

  • @Odette321
    @Odette3215 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad he didn't kill his wife/ wife and kids like other worms have. He has no idea the value of his own kids who he threw away like they were nothing. The grandmother is a beautiful soul who defines family more than that thing ever will.

  • @johnzelenak9432

    @johnzelenak9432

    5 жыл бұрын

    I LIKED HOW SHE LAUGHED ABOUT HIS FUTURE CONFINEMENT!

  • @Lesbiana31

    @Lesbiana31

    5 жыл бұрын

    I have a feeling his mother knew he was okay the whole time, hence the reason she helped them

  • @kumpulanvidiohiburan9801

    @kumpulanvidiohiburan9801

    5 жыл бұрын

    Worms?

  • @randygreen8916

    @randygreen8916

    5 жыл бұрын

    Regardless he Owes the Wife and Kids a fortune in alimony and child support.

  • @strnglhld

    @strnglhld

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Jennifer Davis congrats on guessing out of nowhere goofball

  • @donvaldez841
    @donvaldez8413 жыл бұрын

    Wow, he wears his Dad's ring to remind himself of a, "Bad example", reminding himself everyday of the pain and suffering of a horrible Father. He does not want to become a bad example for his children, like his Father was to him. That's deep. God Bless you and your family. 🙏

  • @jaymoulic8144

    @jaymoulic8144

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nah, I think he still wants his dad. See how he’s hoping that he just got involved with bad people/dealings to justify his disappearing? If he sees him, he’ll probably run to his dad’s arms and tell him how much he loves him and misses him and it’s all mom’s fault. Weakling!

  • @KimAhrina11

    @KimAhrina11

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jaymoulic8144 not sure about it

  • @livingalaska2269

    @livingalaska2269

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jaymoulic8144 loving your parent whether they do you right or wrong does not make you a weakingly. Saying your statement makes you one and shows you need therapy.

  • @rosacortes5074

    @rosacortes5074

    3 жыл бұрын

    What a good man his son turned out. He certainly doesn't deserve the honor his son kept for him. The mother did a good job.

  • @M_SC

    @M_SC

    2 жыл бұрын

    It’s self torture.

  • @huh5950
    @huh59502 жыл бұрын

    What do you mean "he used the death certificate to get a birth certificate"???

  • @mattalley4330
    @mattalley43302 жыл бұрын

    If you are married and you want out then do the adult thing and get a divorce, along with all the consequences of that. Not that complicated.

  • @nicholasy8535
    @nicholasy85355 жыл бұрын

    I love the grandma. It “tickles her” that he’s confined now. I chucked. Love you grams.

  • @pedrogallegos9545
    @pedrogallegos95455 жыл бұрын

    The Dad was a Coward.. He just wanted a New Life... He's a coward because He left his kids BEHIND....

  • @shlacked2690

    @shlacked2690

    5 жыл бұрын

    Pedro Gallegos you’re a fucking moron.

  • @styremcstyre

    @styremcstyre

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@shlacked2690 we found our deadbeat guy

  • @03cheeto32

    @03cheeto32

    5 жыл бұрын

    He could’ve just killed em like Chris watts

  • @gemykat8120

    @gemykat8120

    5 жыл бұрын

    That's a true statement

  • @jonalarcon8564

    @jonalarcon8564

    5 жыл бұрын

    Pedro Gallegos I agree a dead beat dad I know a few and they suck I'm not a better for knowing them

  • @AlwaysAskQuestion
    @AlwaysAskQuestion2 жыл бұрын

    Question to all you people out there in a Unhappy Marriage.... is Divorce really that bad? That you're only option is faking your Deaths or killing your Spouses?

  • @cosmicpussy-cat2528
    @cosmicpussy-cat25282 жыл бұрын

    My son’s father passed away when he was a week away from turning 2. I’ve had dreams (more like bitter-sweet nightmares) of finding out he faked his death and his family was in on it the whole time just so he could leave the responsibility of a child and a partner for another woman who was younger (I was literally 22 when he passed so any younger would be concerning lmao) and I find out and the feeling is unlike anything I can describe, it literally messes with my head for the rest of the day after waking up from something like that, so to know this woman and her children LIVED my actual nightmare is horrifying. My partner didn’t go missing and I had to see his body so I know in reality it’s not possible for it happen to myself and our son but this also got me thinking about the possibility of someone just walking around out there using his death as a way for them to steal his identity and create a life in his name that we are no even remotely aware of. It’s a scary world out there. Shame on this idiot for putting his original family through this and then going on to create a brand new family to drag along through the fire with them as well in the end. Ugh.

  • @peeyoudeepeeyoudee6269
    @peeyoudeepeeyoudee62693 жыл бұрын

    They are so lucky to have a grandmother like her, said that's my daughter and I had to help her, that's how it should be family is amazing and thank goodness for love

  • @jailacrawford
    @jailacrawford3 жыл бұрын

    “he can’t stand to be confined to any one place and now he can’t go anywhere” sums up the whole story 😭

  • @savage.4.24
    @savage.4.242 жыл бұрын

    My great grandpa left my great grandma and the kids and went from oklahoma to new orleans. My grandmother showed up at his door at 14 and asked why he had a whole other family. He left about 1925.

  • @justsaying3729
    @justsaying37292 жыл бұрын

    I hope they make him sell all of his properties and give it to his first wife and children, Except where his 2nd wife & child lives under false pretense. What a terrible person. Much respect to the Nephew that exposed this Fraud.

  • @brianzmolek5527
    @brianzmolek55277 жыл бұрын

    My dads still at the fucking grocery store and it's been 5 years. It's all good he'll be back soon

  • @nathanrayhutchison

    @nathanrayhutchison

    5 жыл бұрын

    He probs stuck in an aile trying to make up his mind on a cough medicine but they keep adding new brands every time he comes to a decision.

  • @juniorsolis70

    @juniorsolis70

    5 жыл бұрын

    Brian Zmolek ur profile pic matches your statement perfecty

  • @starzbella2812

    @starzbella2812

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lmfaoooooo this was a good 😂 laugh at 3am lmaooo

  • @youreright4723

    @youreright4723

    5 жыл бұрын

    I’m back son. You sure got taller.

  • @tav0h

    @tav0h

    5 жыл бұрын

    Better get the milk in the fridge before it goes bad

  • @Grrrfrend
    @Grrrfrend2 жыл бұрын

    The grandmother's grief was just heartbreaking!!

  • @AA-bs3iy

    @AA-bs3iy

    5 ай бұрын

    The parrot u mean

  • @ShadowAussie

    @ShadowAussie

    4 ай бұрын

    @@AA-bs3iy Were you dropped on your head as a child?

  • @magicworld3242

    @magicworld3242

    3 ай бұрын

    Why would the grandmother have grief ? She wasn't in a relationship with Richard. The grandmother seems more upset about having to financially help her daughter. Truth is.... Richard didn't want anything to do with Linda anymore. Linda and her mother seems like two vindictive women, who would've made Richard's life miserable.

  • @kmo3811
    @kmo38112 жыл бұрын

    What a horrible thing to do to your wife. How devastating for those poor children.

  • @StoicContrarian
    @StoicContrarian6 жыл бұрын

    I can’t even do that well in life with my own identity.

  • @burpolicious

    @burpolicious

    5 жыл бұрын

    LOL! I was thinking something similar. I was thinking of all the people who whine about how they can't change their lives for the better. Here's an example of how one can start over and rebuild. His crime was dumping his wife and kids into a mess, but skipping that part, the rebuild part can be done by anyone.

  • @doctorzhan3434

    @doctorzhan3434

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @echangeourlifee9465

    @echangeourlifee9465

    5 жыл бұрын

    Comment Best

  • @sagarpatel2630

    @sagarpatel2630

    5 жыл бұрын

    LoL

  • @im1who84u

    @im1who84u

    5 жыл бұрын

    I was thinking the same thing.

  • @knuckle_dragger
    @knuckle_dragger6 жыл бұрын

    and he would have gotten away with it if it wasn't for those meddling kids & that dog!

  • @blackonyxtv823

    @blackonyxtv823

    6 жыл бұрын

    Dookie Bob 😂

  • @Zhunter5000

    @Zhunter5000

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dookie Bob I get the reference

  • @dhkrescue

    @dhkrescue

    5 жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dmason5249

    @dmason5249

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dookie Bob 😂😂🤣🤣😂😂😂😂🤣🤣

  • @dylanfox4519

    @dylanfox4519

    5 жыл бұрын

    nigling scooby doo, kid

  • @tombrady6596
    @tombrady65962 жыл бұрын

    This makes me respect real fathers more. I also wish my father wanted to be around, but life doesn’t work that way. You try to strengthen yourself and move on.

  • @edithbannerman4

    @edithbannerman4

    2 ай бұрын

    @Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

  • @lostbooks2918
    @lostbooks29182 жыл бұрын

    I pay child support to a rich kid who hates me. I do it bc I have to but also bc it's my responsibility. I don't think I could ever abandon a child. My dad abandoned me. Life is cold. God is good. This world isn't

  • @Revival_automotive44
    @Revival_automotive447 жыл бұрын

    he was on a "business trip"

  • @MasteringHow-To

    @MasteringHow-To

    6 жыл бұрын

    carz club Haha wow

  • @angelinan1842

    @angelinan1842

    6 жыл бұрын

    yet declared dead 😂😂😂

  • @thelifeofkendallalexiss

    @thelifeofkendallalexiss

    5 жыл бұрын

    carz club yeha a 23 year businesses trip

  • @fernandojuarez7323

    @fernandojuarez7323

    5 жыл бұрын

    carz club he went to get milk

  • @dbcooper9943
    @dbcooper99435 жыл бұрын

    And I would of gotten away with it too, if it wasn't for that meddling kid !!

  • @idkshtt

    @idkshtt

    4 жыл бұрын

    Fuck that kid

  • @noneofyours16

    @noneofyours16

    4 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @deanbeach8748

    @deanbeach8748

    4 жыл бұрын

    Rut roh Shaggie!

  • @nagihangot6133

    @nagihangot6133

    4 жыл бұрын

    Well done!

  • @Castleberry-rh1dx

    @Castleberry-rh1dx

    4 жыл бұрын

    Now That's funny😂😂

  • @raystanczak4277
    @raystanczak42772 жыл бұрын

    “He was fun to be with.” That’s all she could come up with, and it took her awhile even then.

  • @marvalousfox5602
    @marvalousfox56022 ай бұрын

    first thing that came to my mind is this lady could have been locked up for his disappearance, wow

  • @hevertpacheco7870
    @hevertpacheco78707 жыл бұрын

    damn as a father, i feel bad for his children.

  • @creamyk89

    @creamyk89

    6 жыл бұрын

    hevert pacheco h

  • @Giliver

    @Giliver

    6 жыл бұрын

    hevert pacheco as a partner, I sure as hell dont. Get bad vibes from that chick, bitch vibes.

  • @iSmellbak0n
    @iSmellbak0n7 жыл бұрын

    This shit happens in my hood like 3 times a week lol

  • @MrInfinity97

    @MrInfinity97

    7 жыл бұрын

    iSmellbak0n 😂😂😂

  • @lynnstrickland9403

    @lynnstrickland9403

    6 жыл бұрын

    Gabe 80 ha ha ha!

  • @BrandyH-eh9up

    @BrandyH-eh9up

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lmao

  • @sheilahuynh2184

    @sheilahuynh2184

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sjors, lol

  • @learning.growing.1017

    @learning.growing.1017

    6 жыл бұрын

    Gabe 80 right ? That's real.

  • @Christof708
    @Christof7082 жыл бұрын

    This guy is a legend

  • @pablobrown8745
    @pablobrown8745 Жыл бұрын

    Love the grandma....and the family too ❤️❤️😘❤️

  • @AlfredoATA
    @AlfredoATA5 жыл бұрын

    My grandmothers dad did the same thing. He lived in Washington DC for 35 years then he disappeared. He went to Sonora Mexico, changed his name, opened up a mine, bought a house, married a nice Mexican lady and had my Grandmother. All his family in DC thought he was dead, he never went back. Its crazy how it was less than 100 years ago, but now its impossible to just disappear like that

  • @E.P.7131

    @E.P.7131

    2 жыл бұрын

    I see nothing wrong with what your great grandfather did. You didn't mention that he had a prior family.

  • @strnglhld

    @strnglhld

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@E.P.7131 “all his family in DC” and “my grandmothers dad did the same thing” imply he DID leave his prior family behind.

  • @nicolishoss7116
    @nicolishoss71163 жыл бұрын

    I love the grandma "he doesn't like small confined spaces....that tickles me" haha u go grandma

  • @nw6070

    @nw6070

    3 жыл бұрын

    "He can't stand to be confined in any one place and now he can't go anywhere. It just kinda tickles me a little bit." If you are going to quote at least make an effort to get it right!

  • @alicemiriah

    @alicemiriah

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nw6070 you’re responding as if she decided to mishear what was said.

  • @nw6070

    @nw6070

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@alicemiriah nope. She was just too lazy to go back and check the wording and also actually got the meaning/ content wrong. Its also not the end of the world or makes her a bad person. Its just mildly annoying when people dont make an effort

  • @alicemiriah

    @alicemiriah

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nw6070 k

  • @LisAbe

    @LisAbe

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@nw6070 Agreed. Appreciate you "quoting" her accurately.

  • @luismagana9784
    @luismagana97842 жыл бұрын

    My wife mother did same to her left her and never ever came back terrible how people can forget their kids

  • @wendys390
    @wendys3903 ай бұрын

    I feel so terribly sorry for his sons that he abandoned. Bad enough to ditch their mother, but to not only just walk out of their lives, then have the balls to send a casual, "maybe I'll see you sometime" card to them later, was to me proof that this POS was a sociopath who had no heart, while those of his sons ached for their father. I hope he sits in confinement a good long time, and eats up all the "freedom" and joy he stole from his family so long ago. Condolences to them and their mother, and that's only the first of two families he shattered. All were damaged beyond belief because of one man's selfishness.

  • @nathanrayhutchison
    @nathanrayhutchison5 жыл бұрын

    Don't like the blaming the wife thing. Its been 23 years to that interview. Of co use she doesn't remember why she loves him. Probably only remembers why she hates him. And you have no idea what she could have been like that long ago. Sooooo just get over it?

  • @steveoo6

    @steveoo6

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol right. Nobody here knows what his life was like. Not saying leaving the kids like that is ok. It wasnt their fault. But, sounds like they had a lot of nice stuff and lived expensive with him the only one providing. She could of kept demanding and demanding a better life from him. He probably said fuck it after awhile. I love how they added "no more vacations." Like that needed to he including with all the other things impacted from him leaving.

  • @trayceevalen2134

    @trayceevalen2134

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@steveoo6 Back in the day, our society was set up in a way that allowed children to be raised by their mothers instead of daycares. As the financial provider, he could have easily set limits on how the money was spent. IF she was making efforts to over spend as you suggest. It had nothing to do with money & everything to do with him being a cowardly bastard who didn't care about his family.

  • @steveoo6

    @steveoo6

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@trayceevalen2134 Thats a good point man. Hes def no saint for doing what he did. Once you have kids then you need to be there for them at all costs. I just thought it was superficial to mention the vacations lol. I mean the worst part was leaving the kids but for some reason they had to throw in the fact there was no more vacations.

  • @trayceevalen2134

    @trayceevalen2134

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@steveoo6 Okay, It see what you're saying. Vacations are definitely a luxury type of thing. Imagine going from vacations to not knowing how you will feed & clothe your children though. Big old turd needs punished for his actions.

  • @arosefortes6507

    @arosefortes6507

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@steveoo6 Leave to a man to put the blame on the woman. She really looks like a demanding overspender! Give me a break! The only reason the vacation comment was thrown in was because he left blah Indiana to spending his days at the beaches of Florida vacation life style! Big Duh there dude! 😂

  • @CindyBooBoo
    @CindyBooBoo3 жыл бұрын

    “I don’t remember that feeling.” just looking at her face? No lies detected.

  • @PhoenixPrime
    @PhoenixPrime Жыл бұрын

    Geez, I was NOT expecting that. What that man did was so messed up!!!!

  • @harave7916
    @harave79162 жыл бұрын

    My friend in Mexico, the dad left them, she was 13 and had a 10 year old brother, 8 and a 1 year old sisters. They though maybe he was kidnapped or something happened to him. The mom and my friend had to get jobs, they started cleaning hotels. A few years ago the mistress dropped him off at the wife's house in a wheelchair. She didn't want anything with him, the son took him in.

  • @shonsingletary7350
    @shonsingletary73503 жыл бұрын

    So gracious of her the way she said “ I don’t remember that feeling” I would have been like what do you think

  • @cvdixon29

    @cvdixon29

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol I would have been all kinds of ugly about it. She handled it better than I would have, that's for sure.

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