How I stopped being an overthinker | Tally Feingold | TEDxLFHS

High school student Tally Feingold is a textbook over-thinker. In her TEDxLFHS talk, Tally discusses how the concept of “the butterfly effect” helped her develop healthy rationals for evaluating her decision-making processes and rescuing her from being trapped inside her own head. Royalty Free Intro Music: “Stay (Sting)” by Otis McDonald.
Tally Feingold is a junior at Lake Forest High School and is so excited to be involved in TEDxLFHS for the first time this year! At school, she is involved in LFHS theatre as a director and an actor, and she is also a co-captain of Speech Team. She is very passionate about words and learning languages and spends her free time studying them. She also enjoys trying as many new things as possible whether that be through course selection, travel, or clubs. She is so grateful to have the opportunity to share some significant ideas and values that have shaped her life! This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @songfiona1219
    @songfiona12192 жыл бұрын

    It is said that too much mental thoughts are bad for health. I'm a over thinker, especially at night. I think I need to stop judging myself and my past. It's okay if I am not one hundred percent perfect!

  • @IONov990

    @IONov990

    Жыл бұрын

    I have difficulty shutting my mind off. Things like running or jump roping can shut the mind off temporarily. I am excessively detail-oriented and obsessively take notes and make lists. I want to be free.

  • @ODDIN1

    @ODDIN1

    Жыл бұрын

    Beggin to find a way to sleep 8h per night And stop doing bad habits: masturbation, drugs, bad talk about yourself and others, too much stimulation from social medias, and doing the right things, eat healthy, sport, reading, writing, cold showers, fasting. Hope you find yourself

  • @ry.0

    @ry.0

    Жыл бұрын

    @@IONov990 me too. I think is failure afraid. I'm afraid of fail my life hahah

  • @cone442

    @cone442

    Жыл бұрын

    right and I'm pretty sure people are also thinking about themselves and they don't think or remember you or your past mistakes, the only one judging you is yourself so stop it

  • @shyaaammeneen63
    @shyaaammeneen63 Жыл бұрын

    Userful video. Be careful what you feed your mind. Avoid comparing yourself with others, avoid storing bottled up emotions, reduce watching negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives relief from stress and overthinking. For a relaxed mind observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils and within the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. You can sit on a chair or lay down anywhere, be as still as possible, eyes closed but no deep breathing. Don’t fight your thoughts. Make it a lifetime habit to observe your breath before sleep, when travelling, when reading, at the workplace etc, if needed with eyes open. Best wishes--Counsellor.

  • @elfint9000
    @elfint90002 жыл бұрын

    I’m an overthinkertoo. Just let those thoughts flow and they wi Th go away faster. Don’t pay them any mind, don’t act on them, don’t give them any more attention than needed. Just let them flow and let them go. If they become irrelevant they stop occurring so often.

  • @reinajalana

    @reinajalana

    Жыл бұрын

    💯💯

  • @sushantjadhav1755

    @sushantjadhav1755

    Жыл бұрын

    How do we not give them attention when they appear on the mind board ,🥲by default the attention goes to it. And as the mind knows what we r planning it even knows the way to disrupt it doesn't it

  • @ganbatte1260
    @ganbatte1260 Жыл бұрын

    Im a perfectionism, and it has negative effects on my life. I cant pick up options in my life, work, etc. It made me stuck, cant move forward. I am too scared for making any luttle mistakes

  • @hienienguyen6766
    @hienienguyen6766 Жыл бұрын

    I don't overthink all the time . I just do it when things bother me

  • @livingstoneoteng633
    @livingstoneoteng633 Жыл бұрын

    I save all my work until the last minute because I think it won't be perfect... Sounds just like me... Perfectionist, Overthinker

  • @kobalt77
    @kobalt774 ай бұрын

    what a wonderful young lady, thank you very much !

  • @akhilreji6835
    @akhilreji68352 жыл бұрын

    I am watching lot of episodes tedx. Because I improve my English language.

  • @daydream2452

    @daydream2452

    Жыл бұрын

    how is it going? When you impove it enough, you will start to watch tedx's episodes to cope with your own problems

  • @macrons593

    @macrons593

    Жыл бұрын

    We want an update mate

  • @stephy111ful
    @stephy111fulАй бұрын

    as an over thinker, i can literally hear it in her voice. beautiful explanation on the concept of the butterfly effect. much appreciation to the speaker to voice her thoughts even if it’s scary as an overthinker lol beautifully said

  • @aerapark
    @aerapark Жыл бұрын

    I experienced the same thing yesterday when I was preparing for an exam. When I heard dramatic music, I imagined what would happen if the exam went wrong and that's when I started believing that just because I imagined that would happen, it would happen, and I was unable to concentrate on my studies. It is a very important medical school entrance exam. please wish me luck and pray for me.

  • @samuelgarcia3412

    @samuelgarcia3412

    Жыл бұрын

    Mucha suerte en tu examen Good luck in your examen, try your best!

  • @aerapark

    @aerapark

    Жыл бұрын

    @@samuelgarcia3412 Je vous remercie

  • @TejRecordz

    @TejRecordz

    11 ай бұрын

    Update

  • @Elkoshairiyous159
    @Elkoshairiyous159 Жыл бұрын

    I am a severe over thinker. Thank you for this video

  • @sabahmahir2563

    @sabahmahir2563

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too 😊 don't be afraid

  • @magueysunset
    @magueysunset3 ай бұрын

    Our brains love to overthink in an attempt to solve imaginary problems it creates; which is why it's so important to calm the mind. Meditation is cool, as is mindfulness for giving it some down time. I like the workbook on amz called 30 Days to Reduce Stress by Harper Daniels, and the Tao Te Ching for reminding myself that the brain is needs to slow down.

  • @alexcoyg3281
    @alexcoyg32812 жыл бұрын

    If you close your eyes and listen you can actually imagine her running a marathon as she is talking about this

  • @desiganmit
    @desiganmit9 ай бұрын

    KZread and Overthinkers go well together

  • @denooos
    @denooos Жыл бұрын

    Read the happiness trap, a useful book for this matter.

  • @ryanking2160
    @ryanking2160 Жыл бұрын

    I have heard about it

  • @yaldahasan2064
    @yaldahasan20644 ай бұрын

    I cant stop being overthinking, im about to lose my mind😢

  • @robertrodriguez9445
    @robertrodriguez94454 ай бұрын

    I'm 60 years old, and in the last 4 or 5 I've become an overthinker, to the point where it's crippling

  • @roadtolegendary6500
    @roadtolegendary65005 ай бұрын

    Watching this I become overthinker, Could make it simple..

  • @paul3734
    @paul3734 Жыл бұрын

    Cool talk. Speaker is super nervous though lol

  • @erdaa9508

    @erdaa9508

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah maybe yet it's about courage many can't dare to do it that suberp horrible;)

  • @amakaobianyo7386

    @amakaobianyo7386

    Жыл бұрын

    but she did it

  • @rut8851

    @rut8851

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s because she’s an over thinker…… already thinking about the end and what ifs.

  • @Fionawhitfield

    @Fionawhitfield

    7 ай бұрын

    I’m curious as to how saying she is super nervous is helpful in any way? As an overthinker I’m sure she knows that. You could have left it at “Cool talk” which it is. Huge admiration for the speaker to be in the arena and standing up so courageously. 👏

  • @eduardolopezperez7869
    @eduardolopezperez7869 Жыл бұрын

    Waste of time

  • @aybikeyilmaz1835

    @aybikeyilmaz1835

    Жыл бұрын

    Sorry its not seems respectful

  • @TejRecordz

    @TejRecordz

    11 ай бұрын

    Shut up 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡

  • @najmaddingahraman7953

    @najmaddingahraman7953

    9 ай бұрын

    Absolutely

  • @najmaddingahraman7953

    @najmaddingahraman7953

    9 ай бұрын

    @@aybikeyilmaz1835 it doesn't seem*

  • @mahdimalekzadeh6410
    @mahdimalekzadeh64102 жыл бұрын

    Photography is awful.

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