how i romanticize life when i’m not feeling well ☁️ making the best of difficult times
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Oh how I have missed you, friends. In this video I share how I have been romanticizing life while recovering from being sick. I've learned during this time that searching for happiness in the little things is sometimes what keeps us going, and the little things really end up being the most meaningful in the end. So in this video I spend my days at home doing puzzles, self care, reading lots of books, watching comfort films and trying to rest as much as I can. I have been listening to my body and taking it slowly, which is why this is my first video of 2022. I am still far from a full recovery, but I continue to believe that a positive mindset has the power to change everything. I'm so happy to be back, and I really hope you enjoy the video 💕
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I'm 30 and sometimes feel wrong for cuddling stuffed animals around my house and in bed so thank you for normalising it! Love your channel ❤️
@Kimjay464
2 жыл бұрын
I am 54 years old and I have several stuffed animals, some from childhood and some recently bought. I share my bed with a teddy bear named Basil. He has been a great comfort to me since my mother passed away last year, I often fall asleep cuddling him.
@tamzenkarma
2 жыл бұрын
I have a 7 foot stuffed Yeshua/Jesus He's my best friend. Sleep with him often 🙏💋🪶
@ari3lz3pp
2 жыл бұрын
Can be soothing to anyone. As a parent in my 30s; I borrow my kid's sometimes and give a squeeze. Alzheimer's patients commonly use stuffed animals and dolls to help calm them. 🕊️
@vanefreja86
2 жыл бұрын
I'm 36 - I have one my mother made for me, when she was carrying me. Bears even more meaning now - since she died this time last year.
@Little_Miss_Perfection
2 жыл бұрын
Dear, don’t feel like that. These are just insane society patterns created to make us to lose the happiness life has to offer. I’m 29 years old, I love small plushies and cute/pastel stuffs, I’m so proud of be breaking these patterns to be who I really am. Never worry with the thoughts of others, your wisdom must come first to win all negativeness and just live happily 🎀
Wow… The first minute of this video felt like my sweet mom was speaking directly to me. She passed away this last Thursday evening after a month in the hospital. She collected teapots, it was one of the many beautiful unique things about her. The lyrics of the song broke me into pieces and comforted me at the same time. I’ve been waiting for a message from her and while it could be coincidence I’m choosing to believe it’s something more. Thank you for sharing Desi, it was a beautiful video. ❤️🫖✨
@Ambs2023
2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss. It sounds like your mom was a wonderful person 💛
@haileyfussell
2 жыл бұрын
Sending so much love. Your Mom sounds completely lovely xx
@clab7133
2 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love your way ❤️
@dianabadillo2646
2 жыл бұрын
So very sorry for the loss of your precious Mother. I can empathize with you as I loss my Mother several years ago and I miss her terribly. Prayers for the healing of your heart and mind. 🙏🙏
@silje.on.youtube
2 жыл бұрын
Sending you a warm hug. Somehow you will survive this. I was you a year ago. There will be a lot of days you think about it all the time and times you will be able to smile. Desi’s videos have been a part of what has helped be build a life after losing my mom. She kind of gives you a way to learn to be happy about small things. Another friend of mine lost her mom 8 years ago and she tolled me something that helped a lot. When you feel your grief at the worst, sometimes it’s enough to just exist. It helped me get through the pain, more that hearing it will get better. It will though, it just sometimes doesn’t help to hear, cause it is so far from how you feel in the moment. Just know that you are not alone ❤️ my friend also tolled me that with time, thinking of your mom will not being you sadness, but joy over your memories ❤️
Hi, I’m Polish/Ukrainian raised in the U.K., even though I consider myself British, I have family in Ukraine and the war has been taking a toll on me mentally. Thank you for posting this video it will really help
@barbarafrings9231
2 жыл бұрын
🕊🇺🇦💗
@gingersal8052
2 жыл бұрын
I send you and your relatives all my love! 🇺🇦
@sandyadams3267
2 жыл бұрын
I am holding all Ukrainians in my heart. 🙏❤️ May your family stay safe.
@dianabadillo2646
2 жыл бұрын
I'm praying for all Ukrainians. 🙏🙏
@juliekdavis73
2 жыл бұрын
Love to you, your family, and all Ukrainian people. May peace come quickly.🇺🇦❤️
Romanticizing your life is just living with intention. ❤️
I literally called off of work today for the first time in years, this video couldn’t have come at a better time. Also, I’ve been telling my friends/family about how much romanticizing my life has changed my mental state for the better. The little things truly aren’t so little, anymore. Thanks for helping me realize that. 💕
This has truly come at a serendipitous time for me! I am in the midst of a bad flare up in my chronic illnesses and was feeling gloomy and wretched. I’ve been so discouraged that the little fixes that normally make a small difference to my health left my pain and lethargy un-dented. You are so sweet and generous! I hope you have a great week :)
@manoeksbooknook
2 жыл бұрын
I can really relate to what you commented. Sending you all the love and strength 💜💜💜
@kellybell6442
2 жыл бұрын
I too can totally relate to what you have said. Sending you much love xx
@scheinweltco
2 жыл бұрын
Sending you love ♥
@Julie-si3hi
2 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate x hang in there warrior x
@nsalv3155
2 жыл бұрын
I can really relate to what you say too, we’ve got this ❤️
Get well soon Desi. We are sending all the positivity and sunshine your way. Do not feel pressured to upload a video. Take care of yourself and read a lot of good books. Love you always 😊🥰
@DarlingDesi
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you friend 💗
Desi I have a chronic illness and every time I’m stuck in bed for days because of it I come back to this video it brings me so much comfort. Thank you 💕
This video literally has me in tears. I too am suffering with covid, it’s knocked everything out of me and I couldn’t feel less like myself if I tried. This has made me feel hopeful and uplifted and reassured that there are like minded people in the world who try to see and make life as beautiful as it can be, despite the sadness and terror that is surrounding us. So much love to a beautiful community. 💜💐😊
@viraghorvath1267
2 жыл бұрын
I hope you’re doing better now, take care!
@sandyvanstedum9830
9 ай бұрын
Hope you'er wearing your mask while your sending this text!! We all want to be safe!!!😷😷😷😷😷😷
I’ve been struggling with chronic illness for the last 2 months and this video is such a help 🥺 Thank you for helping us find joy in the simple things. 💛
@Mysterious-Night
Жыл бұрын
@@darthvader1793 You just live with whatever chronic illness you have. It may have symptoms that are or aren’t painful and you may or may not need medication. There are many chronic illnesses like diabetes, Crohn’s Disease, etc
Desi is a true kindred spirit. She and Anne would have been the closest friends and there are sometimes people who come along and lift you up every day. Also, can we appreciate the STUNNING cinematography
I saw the notification and without a second thought I snuggled down onto my beanbag and leaned against my cushions ready to watch. Being ill is no joke, so there’s absolutely no shame in taking your time to rest and recover at your own pace. I’m so happy to see you back and I wish you all the best ✨
My nana died just this week and this video felt like a blessing coming at the perfect time. I really struggle to not pressure myself into being okay so this really reminded me to step back from difficult thoughts for a bit. Thank you
@sandstone_block5980
Жыл бұрын
I hope ur okay now ❤️
@tiff8683
Жыл бұрын
@@sandstone_block5980 things are going okay, thank you for the thoughtful reply :)
GIRL, you have no idea how much I missed you and thought of you (while rewatching older vids to get a bit of that Desi-spark✨🧚🏻♀️) and yearned for that notification!! So good to have you back! 😘💞 Also hoping you and Jared are better, of course! 🙏🏼
This is going to be so helpful for people with chronic illness 💜
I almost cried when I see your new upload 😭 I miss you so much 😭😭😭 so glad you’re back healthy and safe 💕💕 While I patiently wait for your new inspiring content, I watched your old videos 💓 your energy and vibes always made my day! Sometimes, it’s so healing that it feels like a free therapy session on KZread. so, I want to thank you for coming back and keep creating wonderful soothing videos for all of us 💓💓
@taliw7736
Жыл бұрын
Awww same I miss her videos
I have 2 stuffed lambs, Lambs and Lambert. Mango was with me throughout my cancer treatment. One or both are cuddled with me at night. I'm 62, no shame.
I’m recovering from Covid right now and this video made me cry. Before being sick, I’d distanced myself from all the lovely little things you do here (because I thought it would make my life easier and cheaper) but when I saw you reading to the trees I burst into tears. Thank you so much for making this video - now I want to get back to these little, beautiful things 💕
I was recently in a bad accident, and I've been recovering my ability to walk for the last two months. In that time, I've been watching your videos for comfort to ease my anxiety and to relax. Seeing that you have a new video made me so happy! I've been following your health journey too, and I wish you a quick and speedy recovery. If you have a P.O. box, I'd love to send you a care package. Happy Spring, and get well soon! 🌺✨❤️
@jasminefremdehake2354
Жыл бұрын
It’s so sweet when a follower would like to send a care package. It really feels like a community.
What a timely video for me! I was diagnosed in January with several autoimmune diseases (including Rheumatoid Arthritis), so I have quite a lot of "bed parties" haha. What started as a massive bout with EBV/Mono in 2019 just continued to spiral and seems to have "activated" the AI issues...nasty things viruses! They can take quite a toll on one's physical and mental heath, but all your recommendations are just amazing for boosting one's spirits (which certainly plays a huge role in feeling better physically)! Sending lots of love and calming, restful vibes your way 💜
@Julie-si3hi
2 жыл бұрын
I hear you,take care x
@spinstercatlady
2 жыл бұрын
@@Julie-si3hi thank you and you as well 💜
Desi, I’ve recently discovered your channel and I have to say: I’ve never watched a creator who made me so badly want to get up and DO things (in addition to binge watching, of course). Thank you for putting so much love into crafting your videos. You are truly inspiring others. 🥰
I know I'm not the only one who can actually feel Desi's videos. It just has that soothing vibe 🤍
It's so lovely to see you again! I've been very ill after getting my booster vaccine, it's coming up on two months of being bed bound now, so I've been desperately in need of a reminder to do what I can to make every far special
@RinaValentina
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been wondering if her illness is not from long covid but the booster….
@gailsprangers9388
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you have been ill so long. It can be depressing even for the most positive person. I hope you are better soon. I only had a day of being ill after my booster, but then got covid months later. Luckily I was able to get back after a few weeks. Best wishes.
@Nwladylaura369
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry you had Covid. It can be a killer for some. Good you are on the mend. I was sick for about a month. However I am now fully vaccinated, as being a senior one must be extra careful. Do live each day the best you can and always enjoy the little things.
this couldn’t have come at a better time. my anxiety and depression are spiking along with my chronic illness, and been spending a lot of days in bed. this video made me feel a little bit better about it. 💕
Going through a break up right now and Ive found that immersing myself in another era has helped distract me and keep me sane during this hard time. This video was so helpful too! Thank you! 🤍May we feel better soon and have a very happy year! I think we deserve it!
I feel you girl i was stuck in bed during months at the pic of the pandemic when the entire world was in lockdown and i was very very sick, praying every nights to not have to go to the hospital, it was so difficult and i thought I was dying. But when I was healed it was the best moment of my life. So grateful! ❤
This is such a perfect characterization of some beautiful ways to show gentleness and compassion toward yourself when you are having a hard time. Self care at its finest. When things are dark, it's the small pleasures that can make a bit of light. Thank you.
Omg Desiiiiiiii !!! I missed you and your videos!! So excited to watch this!!! 🥺💝
This was a really wholesome video, that really inspired me to be more kind to myself and enjoy the little moment you can give yourself as a treat. You were the first video that made me aware of our own ability to romanticize your life. It doesn't just happen (sometimes maybe).. it's created. So thanks and I hope you feel well soon. All the spring flowers have arrived here, I hope they'll come your way soon
As someone who is chronically ill, I needed this video. Thank you ❤️
this is the first video of yours I've watched...and WOW. You put so much care and thought into your videos: the camera angles, the shots, etc. Not to mention, everything about this video just made me feel cozy and happy. I also really appreciated the quote you ended the video with, and I've been trying to find the video of his that the quote is from!
@DarlingDesi
2 жыл бұрын
Ahhh thank you so much!! 💕 And for the quote at the end, I linked Cameron’s tiktok in the description! The quote is from one of his earliest videos :)
I'm sick and I recently began integrating the concept of "romanticizing my life" into each day. This couldn't have been a more perfect video to watch during these times. Thank you! ❤
I like that you read to the trees, when I’m driving through the woods sometimes, I’ll roll down my windows if I think the trees will like the song I’m listening to, and I’ll almost always sing along
A lovely reminder that we can find joy even when we're struggling. I also got Covid in the beginning of January and while I was only "sick in bed" for a week or two, almost two months out I'm still dealing with getting my "normal" back. I look well from the outside, I even feel well, but lingering symptoms continue on that exhaust me. People can see the the part of me that is functioning, but can't see the extra effort it takes when, for example, I've been up most of the night trying to stop a coughing jag. It's made me reflect a lot on the hidden struggles we all deal with in one form or another.
Been struggling with nausea and fatigue in my first trimester of pregnancy, and your video gave me a little hope and comfort. Thank you
@glowyaf
Жыл бұрын
Is the baby here yet? I’m due in December and I also had some really bad nausea and fatigue and also a lot of mental health stuff going on in my first trimester. It was hard for me to enjoy my life but it’s getting better now. Hope your pregnancy is going well or you have your little baby! 🎉
@PioggiaNelVento
Жыл бұрын
@@glowyaf yes dear, my baby is now 1 month old. Keep holding on, time heals everything, and don't be afraid to ask for support. My nausea disappeared around 14 weeks and never came back!
I'm so sorry you're still not feeling well, but like everyone else who's commented, I was SO excited to see this video pop up! And while I'm not feeling sick, this is a very relatable and helpful one. I don't necessarily live in a scenic environment where I can frolic and do all the other things like in your other videos - but these activities I can do :) Hope you feel back to normal soon!
Yay! You posted!! 🥰 I hope your feeling better! 🥺🙏 I LOVE watching your videos!!
Relating to this so much right now!! I'm on day 5 of covid :( it's definitely getting better but thank God for my cozy floral duvet and my cats. Videos like this help. Blessings♡
Just what I needed 😫❤️ hope you’re feeling better!
So happy to see you back Desi! Can’t wait to see more 🥰
Thank you! I wish you health and peace in 2022! 🤗
This is definitely a reminder we all need to hear. Thank you for this! You’ve been our thoughts and prayers, continue to get well Desi💕💕
This video is so helpful and relaxing. I've been feeling anxious and depressed lately and romanticizing my life is exactly what I need right now 💕 I hope you're feeling better, lots of love 🎀
thank you for this 🤎
I hope your feeling better Desi! I’ve been checking your channel everyday for updates! So excited for this video! 🍄🌱✨
I needed this so much this week. Thank you for sharing your light with all of us.
Your videos are like a warm hug. I hope you feel better soon.
thank you so much desi.❤️ i hope you feel better soon
I love that you're back! I just adore your videos, Desi! Take care and wishing you continued recovery!
I hope you're feeling better Desi, and thank you for this video
You’re so strong to share your struggles and what helped you! Thank you so much, Desi! Love you and praying for your recovery 💚
I could almost cry right now. This is just what i needed.
Welcome back, Desi! I hope you feel better soon! 💗 this was a beautiful video you made out of a difficult trial. Thank you!
oh you're back! a big and warm virtual hug 🥰
so glad to see you're feeling better desi!! my inner child feels so healed when i watch your videos
So glad you took the time to take care of yourself ❤️
I really needed this today. Thank you for making this beautiful video! I hope you and Jared are doing well and start to feel better soon ✨🖤
I’m happy your back! Your videos are so beautifully done!
Love the quote at the end! Beautiful video, so glad you are feeling better and taking time to rest 🌹✨🌹
Feel better soon Desi 💗 thank you for sharing this even though you’re feeling ill 💗 sending all the beautiful healing vibes
Thank you for being so real...and sk you! It is refreshing!
This is just what I needed today. I’m so very glad you are on the mend. Thank you for lighting up the hard day I was having. I’ve missed you!
I almost started tearing up when I saw that you had a new video out I’m so happy you’re back! ❤️
I’m so glad you’re back!!
Such a good and peaceful video! Thank you for this cozy and safe moment!!
Thank you so much for this video, it was truly inspiring and I really needed that today 💛 sending you love!
so glad to have you back😊 loved this reminder to find the smallest of happy moments even in the bad days💕 please continue to take all the time you need to recover!
Girl, we've missed you lots!! So happy to see you again :) And I hope you can fully recovery soon. Sending lots of love to you.
Getting a notification for this video was the best possible way to start my week. Thank you for bringing us such beautiful content, take care of yourself, and I hope you feel better soon! 💜
This was so needed! Thank you for always sharing the beauty & hope of life even amidst the hard days!💕🤗🌷
This was beautiful and much needed and your voice is so soothing ❤️
So happy to see you post Desi! Hoping you & your husband quickly feel back to normal & thanks so much for sharing your journey with us!
This was beautiful and I love the parting thoughts at the end. Well done on making such a great video when you’ve not been feeling great. I hope you feel back to yourself very soon. Thank you for the lovely video ❤️
I got so happy just seeing this notification. I have missed your content often going back and rewatching some . I hope you feel better soon and know that we have all missed you. Thank you Desi !! You are truly amazing !!
It's so lovely to have you back Desi🌿🧚♀️
this video made me feel so loved, thank you desi you have a kind soul, i can tell x
I’m currently sick right now. I love to rewatch this video whenever I’m sick. It keeps me comforted 💕
Thanks for posting! I had a hard day at work your video is just what I needed.
ive been bed ridden for the past 24 hours feeling so awful from my chronic illness. thank you for this video ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for this i appreciate that you still did a video and all the best health wise
I missed you so much I almost starting crying when I saw you posted!! I so hope that you're doing okay! Thank you so much for making us beautiful content even with what you've been going through!
thank you for this 💗
Yay thank you for creating as best you can during challenging times. Rest up. We’ll all be here when you’re fit and well again ❤️
Such an inspiration
So lovely to see your posts again. I've been checking daily. Glad to see you've spent time to recuperate mentally and physically. People always forget to look after themselves holistically. Take care and keep up your amazing work.
watching this video felt like the warm long hug I desperately needed ❤
your videos are truly so comforting, especially in these hard winter months🤍
I've been sick for the past two weeks and I just keep rewatching this video. It's such a comfort. 💙
Your videos always feel so comforting and never fail to leave me feeling relaxed and happy. Hope you and Jared are starting to feel a bit better 💜
Your videos are always such a huge comfort. I hope you feel better soon!
thank you for this
you have no idea how much I needed that. I’ve been feeling quite depressed and anxious and those tips helped a lot to see a silver lining. Thank you 🧡
This video was so comforting, it felt like a warm hug or the first sunbeams of spring!
I really resonated with this, remembering a time many years ago when I would only stay in my room and sometimes couldn’t get out of bed. I spent months with winter blues and being sad all the time. It’s a hard place to be, and I commend you Desi for getting out of bed, keeping up with your reading and even when you don’t want to go outside, you do anyway and spend it with nature. Just know, it won’t last forever, darkness always fades to light xx
Omg Desi!! I never clicked on a video so fast hehe I know this was a lot of work for you to make, thank you 🤍✨
So happy you're feeling a little bit better Desi! This video was so relaxing and totally something I needed rn in my life 💕
Omg this upload instantly made my day. I miss ur comforting and aesthetically pleasing videos. Hope you are feeling better now and hope everyone is having a wonderful day or night wherever you are!
Awe. It was nice to see you again! Wonderful video with a thoughtful message. I think making space to acknowledge you’re down is important, while also trying to move forward with positivity and self care mentally and physically. Your parting thoughts at the end hit me in the feels. 💜📚
Thank you for making this for us, even though you're not feeling 100%. Your videos are like a warm hug that I really needed. Hope you continue to feel better x
So sorry you've been so poorly,glad your back. Thank you for this video,so relatable to my situation and daily battle with chronic illnesses x I try to appreciate all the little things; feeling well enough to shower,watching the birds in the garden,audiobooks x