A Cozy Cottage Night Routine | Productive + Dark Academia & Vintage vibes 🕯☕️🌙
Today I want to share with you my calm and productive night routine! It's productive but cozy and calm all at the same time. Lots of dark academia and vintage Little Women aesthetic vibes as well. My evening routine includes spending time learning a new language, researching, reading, baking, writing with a fountain pen, listening to classical music and lighting many many candles.
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"You just have to look at things in a non ordinary way. And all of a sudden things have more meaning, because you give it meaning." YES! I LOVE THIS!!!
Anyone noticed her husband eating Nutella with a spoon out of a jar? That‘s a whole mood 😆 btw I‘m German and the sentence „die Bibiliothek ist in der Nähe“ was absolutely perfect hahaha!
@emmajohns338
3 жыл бұрын
Her accent was so cute haha!!
@abyrupus
2 жыл бұрын
Yup. Desi - wearing fall-themed color coordinated clothing, eating healthy leftovers and fresh water in a mason jar. Her husband - wearing comic-book t-shirt and eating a literal jar of nutella for dinner. Somehow, I identify with both these people.
I hereby will forever know you as "Flourescent Anne of Green Gables"
@lpsromy7146
3 жыл бұрын
Same
So, i am from Germany - and seeing you study German makes me so happy, i don't even know why😅 you're doing great☺️❤️
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you! Thanks so much for the support 🥺🙏🏻 I really appreciate it!
@ishouldbestudyingrightnow5368
3 жыл бұрын
Im also from germany. I'm from the blackforest
@LauraaFoxx
3 жыл бұрын
@Icy Elsa I study German at school, I like it a lot but it's a difficult language sometimes ^^
@emmajohns338
3 жыл бұрын
Yea it's really nice to see someone learn Germany, despite many people disliking the language.
@feli1925
3 жыл бұрын
Same! Makes me want to study another language too!
“Hello, my friends!” You’re like a cottagecore Mr. Rogers and your videos bring me so much comfort 🥺💛
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
That’s the nicest thing to say 🥺 I loved Mr. Rogers as a kid. So being compared to him is the highest compliment 🥺 Thank you so much, Danielle! 🧡
@user-yd4yr5hr3s
3 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking the same exact thing and said it out loud to myself🤣😂 omg first time watching and I am literally gonna romanticize her life we have so much in common not sure who has who beat on the books though lol just love this sweet adorable sister here❤️💕
@enchantedsundries683
3 жыл бұрын
So true!
@lubbsnoopy9607
10 ай бұрын
😅❤
i have to say i'm so jealous watching videos like that. I feel like I'm slaving away at my dead end job to pay my bills and feed my children. I'm passed 30 and I wish I would have realized sooner what my goals in life is. But i guess I should be happy that I found them. now. And that I have a bunch of life left to live. I hope I have reached the biggest goals (finishing my education, getting my license and moving back to my hometown) in 2 years. Fingers crossed! I'll always have these videos for inspiration
@carolewall4083
3 жыл бұрын
I wish you all the best in your goals. You can and will do. You can go back home knowing you are where you are ment to be. Good luck. Please update us how you go on. Carole
@Laura_94
3 жыл бұрын
You can do it!! 🤍
@bluearsh410
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@mysilverscreendiary
3 жыл бұрын
I completely identify 💖
@hippyelise1
2 жыл бұрын
You go girl! I think you are still young and are doing all of this at the perfect time. ♥️😊
The combination of technology and old world in this video is amazing.
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
Haha thank you! I’m an old soul who also needs all the technology 🙈
I think it is so important to remember that you can still learn out of school. Like you said when you are in school learning doesn't feel very fun anymore because you were forced to and learning should be fun and what you want. I think it's sad that not many people like to learn anymore. Just wanted to hop on here to say that! 😊
@chemirestyles3572
3 жыл бұрын
I was homeschooled so I get falling out of learning in the way she described.
Okay, so, funny story- my grandma’s name was Naomi. When her grandkids were small we couldn’t say “Grandma Naomi” so it came out “Grandma Omi”. We called her that for years when she found out that Omi means grandma in German. One of her grandmothers was Swiss (second gen immigrant) and the another grandfather was German (first gen immigrant). It was a nice bit of serendipity and I’ve already decided that when I’m a grandma someday I want my grand kids to call me Grandma Omi in honor of her. ❤️
@em-tc6zr
3 жыл бұрын
Aww Grandma Omi. That's actually really sweet and pretty. My grandma's deported KJSDHLFHS SORRY, I ALWAYS USE THAT.
@natalyaporter5730
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve heard Grandma in German is Oma. That’s what I call my Oma. What a sweet story
@thesmileshow9651
3 жыл бұрын
@@natalyaporter5730 Same, I thought so too. I was like, "Have I been calling my german grandmother the wrong thing this entire time?!" lmao.
@maja__5047
3 жыл бұрын
@@natalyaporter5730 Yes, Oma, Omi, Omama,... there are lots of different names in German;)
@catiatavares7757
3 жыл бұрын
so sweet
This video is so relaxing... Feels like its coming from a book..
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
That’s such a nice thing to say 🥺🙏🏻
I do the same! I learn for fun and to better myself. I deal with alot of negative thoughts, anxiety, and exc. To study subjects that I've always wanted to learn back in school makes me feel so good. It's really important to find something productive that my mind could put focus on.
I love that you claim research as one of your favorite hobbies because honestly, same. its so relaxing and it really gets my creativity flowing. its so mentally stimulating.
@chemirestyles3572
3 жыл бұрын
I enjoy research too.
Here I am, rewatching this this year and still getting emotional when Desi runs through the field in her red cloak with her dog. So much joy and love and peace. Xoxo
As a German I’m always super impressed when English speaking people learn German because it’s such a difficult language but you’re doing so well! Good luck!
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I honestly always feel bad for anyone learning English. I think it’s so hard and half the grammar is ridiculous. I’m lucky because I have my mom (who speaks German fluently) to help me out 🧡
@brimfulofbooks
3 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi yeah it’s so helpful having someone who already speaks the language!
@hsoderberg9929
3 жыл бұрын
I disagree. English is a Germanic language. For an English- speaking person there are many languages that would be harder to learn.
@rosemacey
3 жыл бұрын
@@hsoderberg9929 there’s always going to be harder. But German is definitely not an easy language to learn. But I see where your coming from :)
I love the way you fell in love with life
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
It’s really all about perspective ☺️ I hope you can live your dream life and achieve all that your heart desires ☺️✨
another cinematic masterpiece 😍😍
@chemirestyles3572
3 жыл бұрын
I agree. She is very talented.
Your vintage vibes with the laptop opened to google is the aesthetic I want for my everyday life.
13:46 - sitting cross-legged on a kitchen counter drinking grapefruit juice off of the plate by candlelight. MY AESTHETIC
That was so lovely to watch. I agree with learning being more fun as an adult. I didn’t exactly love school, but always loved exploring random topics. So don’t worry if you are searching for random things, I think it’s amazing how many „useless“ facts aren’t useless at all and most times add to a bigger picture after a while.
late night baking is like dreaming while awake
So cozy !! I’m really wanting to add candlelight to my nighttime routine now , it’s so atmospheric. Watching your videos is always a cinematic experience and the highlight of my week!
My family and I traveled a few Summers ago to Garnish-Partenkirchen and I can't image a more magical place. Add it on your manifesting list. ✨✨✨✨
@fee1051
3 жыл бұрын
U need to go to the Allgäu then it’s just as pretty! And honestly stay in the south of Germany the north is not thaaat exciting (in my opinion:)) love from Germany!✨✨
That was so cozy!!! I wish I lived in the mountains. For me a cottage in the mountain area is a dream come true. 😍
Dartagnan is a big ball of adorable cuteness and I love him!!!!! Thank you for your great videos I cannot have enough of them.
@Puty0urlipstick0n
3 жыл бұрын
I am so happy for your Patreon
„I love Bavaria“ just made me smile 🥰 So happy to hear that from you, you wonderful person. Sending you hugs from Bavaria 🥰
I wish my life is that simple and calm ! School and work are taking my whole time
I really get the impression from this video that you've embraced your true self and I love that. You have such a wholesome style!
Your videos are like seeing a movie! I love them🤍
The vibes you spread are so beautiful! Thank you for these little snippets in your life
This gives me such anne vibes!
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
She is one of my favorite literary characters! So I take that as one of the highest compliments possible ☺️🧡🙏🏻 Thank you!!
I always get so excited when you announce a new video. There's nothing better than making a big cup of tea, lighting a candle and getting inspired by your peaceful content! ...and wow, that cottage DOES look dreamy! I'm sure you'll be able to achieve your goals one day, Desi
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Hannah! 🥰 You’re so nice! I’m so happy you enjoyed it 🥺
Coming back yo this vlog for the millionth time in two years because this past spring I experienced a health-issie-induced spike in anxiety that I have never had that triggered with early dark nights pre-daylight savings. While the anxiety has died down significantly, I want to make sure I take the time this fall to ease into the darker evenings with peace ad productivity.
this just makes me happy period.
I hope your channel grows, you offer one of the most beautiful "worlds" on YT. And production value is clearly superior. Regardless of the topic, I'm always inspired after I watch your videos!
Love this, Desi, it's so peaceful and relaxing. I'm a huge fan of hygge and do my best to make home a peaceful oasis. I love all the candles, cozy blankets, and "off-screen" time I can enjoy after work. Thanks for sharing your routine with us. :)
Watching your videos literally transports me into another world and brings me away from reality, thank you!
Aesthetic queen 🙌 your videos are all so beautiful and calming! The work you put into them SHOWS. You are an inspiration and remind me how important it is to be curious.
It makes me so happy that you are learning another language. It motivates me to continue learning.
These videos are just so motivating for me to get my act together and work on my apartment. Getting it to look nicer. I deal with depression and anxiety so many times, I get a bit frustrated and lose interest in things for various reasons so, I am working my way back into getting it together. Even if that means I have to start chunking some stuff and starting again and getting better organized. I have been in my apartment for almost 9 years and its still hard for me to find places for stuff, even during a time I didn't have nearly as much as I do now! It is beyond frustrating! LOL So, maybe I just need to keep these on throughout the day along with other things that help me mentally and emotionally. just relax, then get moving! (and maybe put down my switch too..lol..I tend to get lost in that little world and end up on it for hours unintentionally)
@CassieWinter
3 жыл бұрын
As someone who also struggles with depression and anxiety I hear you. Have you tried an accountability partner or co-working buddy to help get stuff done? I particularly love co-working on video calls with people. 😊
@jager896
2 жыл бұрын
I also suffer from depression I find it helpful going to bed with a good book that good book being the Bible I hope you can move on best wishes Eileen
You’re winter videos have been bringing me so much joy!🤍
@chemirestyles3572
3 жыл бұрын
I know right! Winter blues be gone!! ☺️
Oh god, I am addicted to your videos. So peaceful, so calm. Love it ! Thank you so much to bring peace & inspiration to our lives !
Your Videos give me such Peace ........Thank you !
I absolutely love how magical this is
It was so refreshing to hear the way you speak about learning another language! I feel exactly the same way!
Your videos are always so calming to watch
i also really enjoy keeping my evening/night routine very calming yet at the same time.. productive! im really interested in studying French
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
French is one of my favorite languages to listen to! I love how beautiful it is 👌🏻
Your videos are bringing me so much warmth and comfort. I love them ! Thank you.
My Oma (on my dad’s side) was also born and raised in Germany during that time period! My Opa was from the US and in the military - he spoke German and married my Oma in Germany, and my dad was born on a military base in Frankfurt! LOVE your videos, by the way!! 🫶🏻
I love your channel, Your hair, books, enthusiasm and smile❤️
Thank you KZread’s algorithm for bringing me to this perfect channel! Just wonderful and inspirational ✨💗✨
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
Aww that makes me so happy that you enjoyed it! 🧡 Thank you so so much! I hope you’re having a fantastic weekend ☺️✨
your videos are always so so calming :)) i study german at university (i'm from the UK) and i promise that articles will get easy!!! It just takes a bit of time and experience and you will have them no problem ;)
I just recently found your channel and watched already all your autumn related videos. They are perfect and I feel so cozy and relaxed after watching them. 🍁🍂This year I‘m totally excited for autumn and enjoy it thanks to you romanticizing this season. It‘s so nice to see you learning German in this video!☺️ Best wishes from Germany! Keep up your awesome work! ❤
Yay!! I always look forward to watching your videos. They comfort me so much! ❤️
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I’m so happy you enjoy them 🥺🙏🏻 I hope you have a wonderful day!
You and your dog frolicking just MELT MY HEART🐶💕
This was so sweet! Also, the effort you put into these videos is admirable!!
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Knowing that people like you like the videos is what gives me encouragement to keep working harder to make my videos even better ✨
Your videos are so whimsical and relaxing and exactly what I need to help get through these rough times. I’m not trying to copy your lifestyle but I’m definitely trying to emulate it by learning to enjoy the little things and get back into reading and focus on my interests
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
I love that! Please do 🧡 Take care of yourself and prioritize anything that calms you or makes you happy. And thank you so much for watching and leaving such a nice comment 🥺🙏🏻
YAY seeing someone else slurrrrrrrrp off a pretty plate ...waste not want not and usually the tastiest bit ... we love to do that in our little Cottage in the woods xx
Thank you for sharing the website of vintage music!! I love old records and the cracking sounds. 😍 so cozy!
I just love how peaceful your videos made me feel
Your videos are so sweet, and I recognize myself so much in it, thank you for the comfty vibe!
Thank you for sharing your coziness with us ❤
Hi Desi! This video was simply refreshing! Thank you for creating the content you do! 🌻
Desi, Thank you so much for this treat! Always wait for your videos to come out with great excitement! Duolingo is a great app! I’ve been studying Spanish with it and it is truly great! I love your evening routine and baking after dinner is such a great idea! I love baking but haven’t been able to do so much since covid started. I am a nurse so we have been a little overworked. But I’m looking forward to baking again and to more of your videos! They truly help me to forget about work in the end of the day. Thank you!
I am so happy KZread recommend this video :’)
I call my grandma Omi as well! (Her father was directly German but she never learned any cause she was raised in America during WWII)
@jager896
2 жыл бұрын
Oma is also south African my son in law is from South Africa that's how I know Eileen
@jager896
2 жыл бұрын
Oma is also south African
i am so happy for this video and i'm not even halfway through, i always wanted to be productive but being super calm at the same time, it's so easy to get stressed with so many things to do, I love your way of seeing learning. thanks for sharing this video😊
I just found your channel and I LOVE it… I am a book lover and a tea drinker and a dreamer like you… so satisfying to watch. Thank you
I absolutely LOVE Germany!! It's one of my fav places I've traveled to. It's amazing!
Your videos always make me feel so calm and peaceful and just completely melt away my anxieties. The perfect videos to watch cuddled up in bed at night! I'd love to see you do a closet tour or something similar, where you show all your favorite items of clothing or outfits and where you got them! I envy your style and would love to learn more about it :)
Made me smile to see you searching for houses online. I do this too ! I live in England and it is becoming ever more expensive to live in the countryside so I have been looking at derelict cottages for renovation with land for a smallholding in Ireland in the hope of manifesting my dream home ❤️
Ohh my sweet sister I share living in Germany to when my dad was in the service. We were in France for the most part. I would love to learn German and French. I know a tee tiny bit of French. My mom has French blood and it’s all my grandma spoke even though it was a little different being from Louisiana. It was like French creole. Thank you so much for so much whimsical hygge inspiration that you give. Love you my sweet sister 🙏🏽♥️♥️♥️
I love how calm your videos are, I love to meditate while listening to your video
Adds “Emma” to my to-be-read list. Great video! You’ve inspired me to learn something new.
I just love your desk, it is so beautiful ❤️
I love your winter vlogs. It makes me dreaming.
Luke's cup!! Coffee, coffee,coffee🤗
Never have I ever related so much to someone in my life! So glad I found your channel!! ♥️
I look forward so much to your videos. They make me feel so cozy & peaceful 💕
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much for watching! I’m so happy you liked it 🧡
I love this video so much!!! I too am currently trying to manifest living in the UK again. My dream is Scotland though lol!!! I studied abroad there back in 2015 and have visited once since then and so desperate to go back and potentially live there for longer than a couple of months!!! I can’t wait for the world to open up again so I can try to make this dream a reality!!!!
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
Yesss 🙌🏻 manifest your dream life 🙌🏻 And I totally agree. We were supposed to spend last summer in England. I can’t wait for the world to be open again ✨ I’ve never been to Scotland before but it is very very high on my travel list. It looks beautiful 🥺
@mahsaasadian1504
3 жыл бұрын
Me too guys. I really love to live UK. Im going to apply for their university. I hope all of our dreams come true🎀
@zeroingin7600
3 жыл бұрын
@@mahsaasadian1504 I studied at the University of St Andrews and loved it there!!! They have great programs and activities for students. Also a nice plus is a lot of the students are American. If your worried about moving somewhere without anyone who might be able to relate to you, I would consider asking the universities how many American students attend! That helped me a lot when I was abroad!
@zeroingin7600
3 жыл бұрын
@@DarlingDesi The world can’t open up fast enough!!!
I love your love for your doggo so much 💜
Cozy evenings are just the best ♥☕
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
They really are ☺️🕯✨
“ everything has meaning because you give it meaning “
I think it's so sweet and cute that you shared your favorite hobby and that it's researching because I love researching too!! But I never realized it was a hobby 🥰
I loved this so much. Made me feel so calm and cosy :)
Omg i really like the aesthetic of ur videos and the effort u put in them thnks for making our day better 🥺💕💕
u are my inspiration i really am thankful for u being alive and having the chance to see ur channel iam having a hard time lately its the point where i have to choose my way of live alone make my own decision and u make me see everythink in a positive way thank u really from my heart thank u 😙 i love uu
Your video is so comforting.
You are so talented! It's amazing!! 💕
I was going to save your winter videos for winter here but I just can’t wait that long! Must binge!
I love your videos they are amazing ❤️ Keep going 😘
something i love doing, even in summertime, is make syrups and jams and bread. it takes almost all day and makes the house smell wonderful, and at the end you get to eat what you made! right now im making a big batch of pumpkin spice syrup
really excited to see your channel growing!!!
I watch your videos while having breakfast before the day starts. They change my mood from neeehjh to wiiihaaa in 2 seconds!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@DarlingDesi
3 жыл бұрын
Aww really?! That’s amazing! Thank you so much 🧡🧡🧡✨✨
Really enjoyed your new video. It's so much fun to hangout with you throughout your day. I love the relationship you have with your dog. Pets are so wonderful and comforting. The cottage in the English countryside is so beautiful. I hope it will be yours someday. Looking forward to your next video.
You’re such a beautiful soul!
It's about darned time I got over to this video. I always put your content into a special folder.
D'Artagnan is so beautiful.
Oh my gosh my parents also met in Germany! My dad was in army intelligence and was stationed there in the mid 70's. My mom was working as an apprentice in a bakery. She used to sneak into the local disco to go dancing (she wasn't old enough to get in lol), and my dad would hang out there with her older brothers. They were just friends at first because she was so young, but they eventually started dating a couple of years older. My dad's time in the army was going to be up a few months after they started dating. My mom could either marry him and come to America or stay in Germany and never see him again. She chose to marry him and they were married for 41 years before they passed away unexpectedly a few years ago. They used to speak German in front of us any time they didn't want us to know what they were saying lol. It's so cool that your parents met the same way! Funnily enough, my mom was a Spaniard living in Germany, so all the German in me actually comes from my dad's side.
Watching your routine makes it clear that I need more definition to my routine. I shouldn't it call it because there's things that I do but without a set time frame and sometimes I don't do a thing or two and I don't feel ready to sleep, like there's still so much I could squeeze in but I wouldn't because I'm tired and done. Thank you for sharing a part of your evening. I feel motivated to take time intentionally to end my day so that I can feel better rested.
*Wow how beautiful are the mountains at your place* 😍 *And I love your taste of furniture and decor! It's also funny, because I just came back from the forest filming the first part of my evening routine* 🤣 *As you're learning German: Wunderschönes Video, wirklich toll gefilmt! Ich freue mich sehr auf deine zukünftigen Projekte und wünsche dir einen schönen Abend* 💚