How I figured out what to do with my life 🤷🏻♀️
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Casual car vlog sharing how I figured out my career & what to do with my life. This was unplanned so it's messy & I didn't share all the details or tips that I could have. But hope you still got something from it nonetheless 🙃 Your early twenties are a time for self discovery and figuring things out (aka "soul searching). But it's also a beautiful time to decide HOW you want to create yourself and your life. That's what being an "artist of life" means.
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"I've always been a good student, I knew how to get good grades and do well in school because there was a syllabus and homework and guidelines, and I felt like I had the rules set out and I knew how to work within the rules, but when life happened, I was like, there are no rules to life, it's too open-ended that I don't know what to do with my life." GIRL, SAME!!!
@donutcare6929
4 жыл бұрын
Yes. What scares me the most. Life have no rules or instruction manual for us to follow. You yourself need to figure it out.
@ToriH
4 жыл бұрын
SAME!!!!
@rndmkt
3 жыл бұрын
True 💯😭
@tinafang5168
3 жыл бұрын
exactly this is so relatable
@laur7841
3 жыл бұрын
That kinda reminds me of Kafka's little fable
feeling of failure is way more bearable than regretting not doing something and continue wondering what if i did it what could have happened
@NenaLavonne
5 жыл бұрын
Abd Rahman 👏👏👏👏❤️
@carrielo5478
4 жыл бұрын
really grateful for this, this quote really made my day
@dilarakal4333
4 жыл бұрын
It’s still taking me a while to learn that
@sylviasadiah2001
3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU, I NEED THIS! Was looking for a sign until I stumbled upon this. ❤️
@squidward9
3 жыл бұрын
needed to hear this !!
I’m in my late thirties and wish I had this advice in my twenties. I am now on a different path and spent many years struggling due to not finding my passion. But one piece of advice for those of you still searching, if you love your job but find that it doesn’t tick all the boxes, you can still have side hustles and hobbies or even volunteering on the side to fulfill other parts of yourself. Especially if you feel like it would be too tough to leave your job completely.
@theluschmasterjournals
4 жыл бұрын
yes .. also one of the encouragement I wish I had received when I was younger would have been to explore side hustles while I had my first job because I think it was after that job that I just became more confused at people throwing jobs, learnerships and studies at me that I had no passion for .. which, I guess had me jumping from job to job .. but also, I probably had to go through those things to learn certain things about myself and the life that I am supposed to live .. thanks for sharing ..!
@zdango9279
4 жыл бұрын
I'm 29yrs. But age doesn't matter,keep on moving and be positive.❤
@teenytinyteetee
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this comment !
@rndmkt
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, we'll never stop learning til the day we die.
@huynhmai7385
3 жыл бұрын
I am at the beginning of 30s now and I wish I heard these advices earlier. I am trying differnt side hustles. Hope I can figure out what actually align with me soon!
“your failures will lead you to where you’re meant to go” 🙏🏼🙏🏼 ty aileen!
@lavendaire
5 жыл бұрын
yes!!
@NenaLavonne
5 жыл бұрын
Lynne Zhang ❤️🦋
@barryseaworth
5 жыл бұрын
What if you're meant to go to a bad place? Lol
@InnerResearcher
5 жыл бұрын
Lynne Zhang amen yes!!!!
@aanchal2303
3 жыл бұрын
I failed my college entrance exams today
Unrelated but I just want to say I love your makeup in this video. The way the sun is hitting your cheekbones is just beautiful.
@lavendaire
5 жыл бұрын
aw thank you 😊
@idfkidfcidgaf7711
3 жыл бұрын
Hey guys!! What’s up? It’s your favourite 😍 Bald headed 👩🏾🦲 Bit*h✌️
"passion is the result of action, not the cause of it" - one of my favorite quotes, which seems to fit very well with this video!!
@Possibleivlogs
5 жыл бұрын
Nicole Leary this is so true! I feel like that’s where the true potential lays within people, the power to Do
I find it fascinating when people know at least what makes them feel joy. I tried a lot of things, tried college, tried working, but never found joy. I'm 24 living with my parents and just failed again in life. Not knowing what you like it's frustrating. But seeing time passing with no accomplishments and no money it's even worst.
@julinielawrence1903
4 жыл бұрын
Same girl. I'm 22 and I'm not working atm but I'm using this time to study spirituality, yoga, meditation, chakras and trying to understand why we're all here. I find myself being at peace and then I started watching martial arts videos and I'm trying to get into "krav maga" (best self defense art for women) and then I'll get a part time job to work around my schedule. I have a feeling it'll bring me joy and take away all this feeling of failure. But I'll stop ranting, maybe you can look for a hobby or volunteer. Goodluck 😘
@ame_vagabonde
2 жыл бұрын
I hope you're doing better now! But if not, it's alright, because your only real job in life is to figure yourself out. That said, I really think the best advice is to try more things and keep going. There is so many things in the world that obviously we haven't tried them all. So, let's experience more things, new sports or manual activities. Have you ever gone hiking? Did you try pottery ? Sculpture? Learnt a new langage? What about teaching young people, carving wood, scuba diving, planting crops, taking care of animals, decorating a room?
@kumadori9627
Жыл бұрын
@@ame_vagabonde thank you, this helped me a lot!
@wenjunbleeker6020
Жыл бұрын
I'm 26 and I relate so much to what you say! I just dont know what I would like or have passion in...
*Don’t worry about figuring it out...* Figuring life out is the fun part!
@cheska3002
5 жыл бұрын
Truth!
@Vrinder94
5 жыл бұрын
Fun? I'm not finding it that much fun tbh...
@anthonymonterosso7472
5 жыл бұрын
I hate it! Im so stressed and feeling so much pressure to figure out what i want to do. Im 21 and I have absolutely no clue! Feels like everyone around me knows what they want and I cant even figure out what things I like
@sofiasantiago2293
5 жыл бұрын
I find it fun but im not sure how to explain why I find it fun to people that don’t find it fun 😕 can’t seem to find the words
@karstdeviz3858
5 жыл бұрын
i hate it
_"How can you be 23, still struggling in life, struggling to make money, struggling to figure out what you're supposed to do."_ To be honest, I'm so happy to hear this. Currently 23, just graduated and in lost. It make me think how if you can do it, I should be able too. I am so glad I found your channel. Been marathoning your lifestyle videos and you've inspired me so much.
@yoongis.tangerine
3 жыл бұрын
i am 23 and i am currently unemployed. i feel so so lost
"Your failure will lead you where to go" love that part.
your aesthetics of your videos and how they have a great purpose is amazing love you so much 💜
@lavendaire
5 жыл бұрын
thank u & love u dear
I love that you mentioned you were envious of other KZreadrs' lifestyles, but instead of harboring or spewing malice, you saw it as a huge clue as to what you really want for yourself. That's very mature of you on an emotional level. I think people need to learn how to transform that emotion into a positive like you did.
@lavendaire
5 жыл бұрын
your envy is really telling :) it's a clue of what you desire, and instead of letting it be negative, you can let it fuel your growth!
@navi3430
2 жыл бұрын
@@lavendaire Definitely! If you ever find yourself jealous, it is better to use that person as an inspiration for what you want!
I am 22, recently graduated. I am currently in that situation whereby I'm so confused and even starting to doubt as to whether I did the right course. However, this video has really encouraged me. Thanks Aileen😊❤
@l0lliezoe3x
4 жыл бұрын
debra mayisela same! What did you do about this x
Your videos are just pure magic✨
Lavendaire is like an amalgamation of art, an open journal, a book club, a mentorship, a peaceful retreat, taking tea and chatting with your amazing bestie and so much more all at once dressed in love, beauty and empathy! It’s hard to express how proud and grateful I am... Thank you so much Aileen. We love you! 😍
@lavendaire
5 жыл бұрын
Aww I appreciate this. Thank you & love you!!
@madib.2567
4 жыл бұрын
Awwh. This is so sweet. I feel the same way but you said it eloquently
Her hair is giving me life ..and so is her message.
@InnerResearcher
5 жыл бұрын
M. Jenkins haha YESSS!
You're so right Aileen. I'm just 23 but I've been experimenting with my life for quite a years now until I realised what I really want in my life. I started my career as a supervisor in one beauty company and then got promoted as a beautician and MUA in the same company after went to several classes they held. After that I quit and started my music journey. Work in a music class as a tutor. But then quit. Work as a model and quit. Work as an actress and quit. It's just not I want in my life. And then I took over my family business and never been happier. I never realised that all I want is being close with my parents. Even my financial is way more stable compared to all the works I've done before.
yeah I need to figure out what I need to do with my life!😂❤️
@HangNguyen-ex4fx
5 жыл бұрын
hello
@HangNguyen-ex4fx
5 жыл бұрын
ohhh.
I'm in the middle of questioning my life. I want my life to be meaningful. But I don't know where to start. And then I stumble upon your video. It's a mind opening one. At least, I got myself an idea what to do first. I really thank you a lot for this video. Love from Indonesia
this was possibly one of my favorite videos of yours! and i love a lot of your videos, it was so personal and engaging and inspirational and informative. :-) ALL AT ONCE!
@lavendaire
4 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you Amy!!
Thank you for that! I'm 22 and due to my personal situation I'm just going to Uni this year. I have this weird feeling that it's really late for me because most of my friends are already graduating and I'm just like...trying to figure out what to do with my life, still having Uni to get started... What I know for sure is that I don't wanna work in all those boring, generic places like corporations and so on. I just feel like it's not something for me even if it's a "comfort zone" option. Just always wanted to do something meaningful and well-payed. I know that in my early twenties, I still have time to find myself and figure out what is the best for me, but it feels like everything best around is already running out of time. Trying to convince myself that it's the wrong way of thinking, so despite of it I'm going to buy a guitar this year and start learn to sing as I always wanted (I think so) and will see if it'll work out. Maybe it's not too late ;) If not, well, I'll try something different again. Btw, lately I started listening to your podcast and girl! I'm grateful. People like you gives me hope. Thank you.
@aidanamer555
5 жыл бұрын
Hi, Sherly! I’m glad you’re pursuing your educational goals. People go to university even at their late 40s. Besides, ‘it’s never too late’. Good luck at your beginnings🦋
@julessound
5 жыл бұрын
Hey girl! I’m 21 and also searching for a degree to get at the university. Even though I tried studying linguistics for 1,5 year I dropout because it wasn’t enlightening to me. My goal is to find something finally and leave from Russia but I can’t choose because of the financial situation too. Also, I have a hobby which is singing and that’s great that you decided to try guitar! Go for it ☺️ Maybe you’ll start writing your own songs someday.
@sagejunkie7089
3 жыл бұрын
I did my degree at 40 and Masters at 50! You are never too late 🧡
@arshpreetkaur9
3 жыл бұрын
Hey are you me ? Each and every thing resonates with me. It's so depressing. But now it's been 2 years. How r u and things ?
My main struggle is to work and make money but also love what I do😧
@Lady_Cassandra
5 жыл бұрын
It sounds like such a simple desire but it's so difficult to attain. I feel you. I'm in the same boat right now in college. Hope you find what you're looking for ☺
@nameavailable987
4 жыл бұрын
Nadeen Rajab you and the rest of the world ):
my goodness I can totally relate. I used to be a dancer then I also tried modelling. Then I worked as an accountant. I tried blogging. Until I end up as a KZreadr. Finally it just feels so right! I know I'm on the right path. Thank you for your message. It encourages me and everyone for sure. ☺🤗
@komorebi3803
5 жыл бұрын
@Simply Pinay I took a quick look at you channel. Even though it isn't the kind of content that I'm into, I just wanted to tell you that everything looks very anesthetic 🤗 Keep going
@KatrinaAglipay
5 жыл бұрын
@@komorebi3803 ohh thank you! 🤗😍
Lavendaire definitely deserves more subscribers! Everytime i watch a video i feel inspired!💖🥰
“Sometimes you don’t know that it’s right for you until you get there…” This hit me hard! I’ve finally accomplished my childhood dream job but now I’m unsure if I fit into this or if it’s even right for me… But I still don’t wanna give up and gonna try find my way to make it best suitable for me. 💫😌
It’s no an accident that I saw this video!!! I’m a creator myself, and a girl sent me a DM saying how much my videos have helped her & told me to check you out as she thought i’d love it. Well, I LOVE YOU, and everything that you talked about resonates with me so much. I went to an acting school & thought it’s the life I wanted , but - shocker - it was not! I’m so committed to building my life as a conscious creator and I want to be a content creator like you. You inspire me SO MUCH, and it’s the only video I’ve seen of you. You’re amazing. THANK YOU.❤️❤️❤️
I needed this so much.. I just lost my job today.. I haven't been happy there anyways, but I didn't have the gut to leave my comfort zone. This talk is very helpful. Thank you so much. You are achieving your goals and keep inspiring us ❤️
@blacklightaura6777
5 жыл бұрын
Samar Suwaid something that worked for me after leaving a job I wasn’t happy at was looking at my every day passion (makeup) and doing that commercially at cosmetics counters. I would never get promoted at restaurants bc they could tell I hated it but with makeup I got promoted in less than one year!!!! Look at what you do every day that you don’t notice :) even if it’s something weird like organizing your house or something. There’s a job for that you just need to be creative about it
@InnerResearcher
5 жыл бұрын
Samar Suwaid its all for a reason❤️❤️ something even better is on the way!!!!!
Yeah, i'm having a hard time to figure out what i want to next at age 35, after 7 years working for a company.After stop, i spent a year basically not doing anything but travel and wander around and doing yoga. I'm still on the way finding my new path, by doing different things like taking course, travel more, meet more people... Dont know if it success to be honest, but i dont regret at all. Just take it on move and see how :).
I’m glad I clicked this video! I’m 23 and lost. But you gave me hope that maybe I can find something I like to do!!
@InnerResearcher
5 жыл бұрын
Momotan same!!❤️
once again your videos always come in good time 😭 I'm in mu early twenties and I'm fretting over my future and I tend to overthink a lot so thank you for sharing with us your points
@InnerResearcher
5 жыл бұрын
Grace Lum yes me too! Such perfect timing!!!!
Omg this is so me. I was always the good student and kid and I still struggle living life. There are no rules and I am lost. Thanks for creating this video. It sparked some ideas
Your words remind me of Steve Jobs’s speech at Stanford -- “keep looking, don’t settle “. Trust your gut, be brave, and keep exploring, as life is a beautiful journey. You are really inspiring, and now I also decide to record my own journey of growing, learning, and succeeding ❤
This was so nice!! I definitely approve of the vlog-in-your-car format :)) and very helpful as well, exactly what i needed!
@lavendaire
5 жыл бұрын
^_^ glad you liked this chill chat
oh my god. This is NOT a messy car vlog. This is the best vlog I've seen on KZread. It's very, VERY informative and helpful. At 31, I'm still trying to figure out what I really want in life. I actually thought I had it figured out when I was 26. But things are changing now and I'm lost again. Thank you so much for this, Aileen. Thank you so SO much.
@InnerResearcher
5 жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes i feel the same way!!!!!!!
@rainahigane5133
2 жыл бұрын
True . Me too I'm 31 and all along I thought I am doing the things I wanna do and I already doing my passion and my purpose but.... I have empty feeling right now.
@tetiana3933
Жыл бұрын
@@rainahigane5133 same for me
Vietnamese & Japanese subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributor listed in the description 💕
🌟 Check out the Create Your Dream Life Course! lavendaire.com/dreamlife ∙ I created this as the course I wish I had when I was lost in my early twenties. These are all the life lessons I've learned about creating yourself + your dream life over the past 7+ years. Back then, I was frustrated that there wasn't a step-by-step program to guide me to figure myself & my life out, so now I've created one for you! ∙ This course will guide you to discover yourself, build a success mindset, get clear on what you want, make a plan of how to get there and enjoy creating your dream life.
@thegoldenchild740
5 жыл бұрын
Lavendaire hello! There is a really nice and great small you tuber who needs support, she never gives up and makes AWESOME quality videos So can you please please put her name out there? Get channel is- Caitlyn Horton
@rainmelodiess
5 жыл бұрын
hi eileen! been watching your videos for a while now but i was wondering, do you make podcasts? if not, i’d totally would love it and listen to it if you started! you’re so inspiring!
@lavendaire
5 жыл бұрын
@@rainmelodiess yes i have a podcast! It's called The Lavendaire Lifestyle - on iTunes/Spotify/etc! lavendaire.com/llpodcast
@altheapo
5 жыл бұрын
Is there a specific age group for this course?
@catherinemiles7260
5 жыл бұрын
I fully enjoyed this car vlog, I love the vibe. And it was just real relaxed. Thank you for this awesome video!!! #lavylove
I finally figure out “be a vblog”is my true passion for my fabulous 50+ life. Thank you for all your inspiration!
I really enjoyed this raw, in-the-moment video - I felt like I was sitting with a caring friend. Thanks, Aileen!
I love how you have kept taking action and testing and expressing your creativity to find what finally clicked for you and felt right. 💛 taking action even if you have no clue if it’s going to work is SO important!
@lavendaire
5 жыл бұрын
yes! action will bring clarity
I agree that often it can be trial and error combined with some deep digging to figure out what your passions really are. Thanks for sharing your inspiring story. The most important thing in life is to truly live your purpose and figure out what you were meant to do! Cheers!
I’ve been trying to figure out which career path I want to manifest, but you just helped me find the answer. Instead of focusing on one particular career, I should instead focus on the guidelines/criteria I want out of a career. Thank you for the enlightenment ✨
You are so right!!! It is scary to not give up when you’re still finding your calling... but we must continue on- thank you! Love all your content!
Thank you so much for this video. Your heart of gold just radiates. I can literally feel how genuine you are about trying to uplift others. Stay you🌸
Wow. A youtube video hasn't felt this personal to me before. I really love the way you articulated yourself and it really motivated me. Thank you, I needed this. :)
I don't know how to look for my passion, what to try or how to know when something feels right, do you get me ?
Thank you for doing this! “Don’t settle for less”
Thank you for sharing all these positivities with us!! To everyone reading this: *Hope you have a nice, positive day!* 🌈☀️
@inkart74
5 жыл бұрын
Aww you too❤
Thank you for sharing this! 🧡 I think I feel the same when you've just started Lavendaire. Next month it's going to be a year since I left my day job and started to pursue my dream. Same as you, I didn't have any income for a whole year, and a very little proof that I'm doing the right thing for me. So far the only thing that proves that I'm on the right path - is my own feeling of joy when I push my own boundaries and create a new character or a new level. I'm just not ready to give up without a fight, without knowing that I've done everything I could. Thanks for giving me hope!
8:15 The fact Aileen made/makes her videos from a perspective of documenting progress, I believe, is one of the exact reasons why Lavendaire is so brilliant and why we connect so much with her! She’s teaching through sharing her own process of growth, overcoming her fears, learning from her failures and celebrating her successes big and small, authentically and in real time. The way she collaborates with and interviews other Artists of Life through her podcast and videos too is beautifully done. As well as the hard work and focus, it surely must require sooo much vulnerability and selflessness to open up like this? Honestly it’s just so special, refreshing and inspiring!
@usajohn1399
5 жыл бұрын
True
I want to cry during i'm watching this video. I'm just so stressed because i'm lost, I have no job, I don't know what to do with my life and i don't even have a person to share with.
@GoldenKay19
5 жыл бұрын
Hang out it is gonna be ok sometimes struggles help to find ourselves be strong hope this help
@phuonguyen1995
5 жыл бұрын
@@GoldenKay19 thanks a lot ❤️
You can always give me so much inspiration to continue to figured out who I am, and what to do with my life. Thanks so much! I will keep trying
It's such a perfect timing to see this video since I feel lost and don't no what to do with my life recently. I'm having a pretty good job right now, but it just doesn't make me feel happy and it doesn't give me the life that I want. Thank you for giving me the courage to step out and try to find my own way ❤️ Though it might take some time, I'll still try and listen to my heart. Hope I'll find it soon✨ Thank you again for what you have done, Aileen! ❤️
Every time I watch your video, I have stronger mind to face with the challenge and the environment. Love you so much~
I’m right now figuring out what I want to do in life and this video is exactly what I needed!! Thank you so much you really are making a positive impact in the world💕
It's incredible how people from different parts of the world go through the same things , how the sentences resemble with my thoughts is really magical, once again thank you for existing
Relate 💯. From rules/step in school to no rules in life: the transition is hard.
@suesheification
5 жыл бұрын
Yep. 39 and still haven't figured it out
Your story is really inspiring. Got so much practical insights from it. I love to know about journey of successful and inspiring people. Loved it..
YOU JUST SOLVED A PROBLEM THAT A 17 YEAR OLD WAS SUFFERING FROM FOR WEEKS. YOU HELPED ME FIGURE IT OUT! THANK YOU! PLEASE TREAT YOURSELF, YOUVE DONE SOMETHING THAT SOLVED WHAT WEEKS OF WATCHING KZread COULDNT!
I've come to the conclusion that failing is actually the MOST important part of the journey! If you don't fail, how will you really know what success feels like? Love this style of vlog!
Hey Aileen, loving the car vlogs and vlogs in general so hope to see more of them, love your content videos too. Great share today 👑💖 Keep searching through experimentation and never give up or compromise on being happy 😊
When I thought no one could understand my struggles when i decided I want to drop everything and pursue my dream and I found you. I cried watching this video AiLeen . I really felt like this video was a recorded message from you to me. i had amnesia for the past weeks because i was panicked that is already June and was afraid because I havent been seeing progression and failing over and over again. i know I should be prepared to faced all of these obstacles and challenges but sometimes i just want to hear some kind words and motivation to get back on track. I want to thank you deeply Ai Leen at least i know I can refer to this video when I need to.
I am so thankful that I found lavendaire. I am really struggling on what course I am going to take for college, but after watching this video, Aileen gave me an idea to explore until I find what I truly love . I love you so much Aileen😘
thank you for always radiating positive energy! keep creating, love🌸
I literally watch your videos every morning
I relate so much to you, I feel like I could’ve said all that, I so want to do well on here but, keep making excuses. Thanks for the video 😘
Thank you so much! I was working hard these weeks and in my university deliveries..and now I was really exhausted but thanks to you I know what to do next, thanks Aileen!
This video is so genuine and I felt all words comes from your heart, it's felt me amazing and so motivated Aileen, thank you! Especially commitment and mental clarity are a must. 🙌
Just what I needed! Thank you so much for making this video 💕
I looooooved this video!!! I know I have to try more things to find out... thank you for your encouragement ☺️💜
You are so right about trying out so many things to find your true passion. Going through the journey is the scariest and the most exciting part about it.
Currently on the path of trial and error. I still haven’t found what I want to do with my life yet , not sure if I ever will and it just might be going from job to job. But no matter what job I have or where I have it, I always try and find the things I liked and the things I didn’t like and grow from it. I never regret the job choices I’ve made because I’ve learned so much from each job. Thanks so much for the video and your wisdom!!!
Oh my goodness Aileen, it's so true. Even when we fail and feel like we are starting from zero, it's not really zero. I just shared on my insta today. Thank you for this, life took many turns and I'm still trying to figure it out but with every failure, I feel one step closer. I might take longer than others being 34..but maybe I'm a late bloomer. hahaha! :p
Thank you for following your dreams! - maybe you should make a second channel showcasing how people can get started on KZread and tips\courses we can do to get started and become better - all from your perspective of course 😘
You are such an inspiration!!! I adore you. Keep on doing you! 💖
Ok, this is so relatable. I become bored with my 9-5 job so I went to learn how to bake cake. But I could not make anything out of it. I tried some other things too... I thought something was wrong with me. But I guess it's because I've not discovered what brings me joy and gives me pleasure. But few months ago I started journalling and I'm beginning to have clarity, a lot have changed for me so far. Though I'm not where I want to be but I'm getting there.
Good car vlog. Fighting!
Thanks so much for sharing your story! It was very inspiring but you did not mention how you supported yourself through all these creative pursuits.
This is one of my favorite videos from you. I love the casualness and yet the conviction you have in this one. 😊
i just had this conversation with my family asking them what to with my life and this video just showed up. Perfect timing!! i needed to hear this. Thanks
More videos like this Aileen! It feels like I am having conversations with a friend. 💕
Thank for spreading your positivity & sharing your life journey 🌻🌈🌞
@NenaLavonne
5 жыл бұрын
artwork kh 👏👏👏❤️
Thank you! I needed it, because lately I've been stuck with my fear of failure and I didn't know what to do. But now I know what to think "If you failed it means you tried" and the place where I am now feels good, I don't want to give up because my fears hold me back! Thank you, it meant a lot to me ❤️
Literally my life rn!!! 23, a year out of graduating with a music degree, and spent the last year questioning my career path and feeling unfulfilled when I kept thinking about the commitment to music. I love music and I love playing with people, but the lifestyle was something I didn’t want anymore. Now I’m slowly trying out visual art, digital art, illustration, and finding what I like and don’t like about it, and I’m loving this process because I’m learning so many new things about myself, my wants, and my needs.
I‘m 36 and still struggeling. 😅 thank you for sharing your inspiring words.
It's so nice to see your vedio ..it's always leaves my mind with positive vibes...You're so positive,happy soul and beautiful inside out...Keep going...love you.
You have no idea how much I needed this 💚 thank you. Thank you for remaining authentic and remaining loyal to intuition. So much love and appreciation gurrrrl xxx
Just wanted to say thank you for being so open and honest in sharing your personal experiences. I can relate to so many things that you've said. Thank you for inspiring
Hello, I’m korean boy!! 🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷 I love your video 🙆🏻♂️🙏🏻❤️
@coquinomada
5 жыл бұрын
Hello korean boy!!😂😂😂🌼♥️🌼
@lavendaire
5 жыл бұрын
hii!! haha thank you
@mercywendychebet8228
5 жыл бұрын
@@lavendaire hi I love Koreans
@iaoshua
3 жыл бұрын
do you know korean girl? she is my friend
I am so inspired by you and I watch your videos every day
Best of luck to you. You are wonderful! I am on your course. You deserve all. You bring me so much joy. You radiate light.
I really needed this video! I told my boss last week that I quit. It was so scary but I couldn't stay in a place that wasn't fulfilling. Right now I have absolutely no idea what to do, what career to pursue etc. But I will try until I find what's mine. Very beautiful message, thank you!
I love to see you more in car yay 😍👏 The sun is beautiful out there 😍🙌💜
I loved this vlog! You should do more vlogs in your car 😛 And such a positive and refreshing video this was💓
Girl, I found you at the exact moment I needed to in my life. I have been listening to your channel non-stop. I am going through the EXACT same thing. I have no idea what I'm doing but trying to do the same.
A shoutout to your video and the right pop ups time to show. This is like acknowledgment for me that trial, error and afraid of failure should be the ways to identify align path towards dream life. Thanks.
Im 40 and naw I need to figure out what I need to do with my life!
@kpoppearls472
5 жыл бұрын
Katarzyna K the age doesn’t matter and it’s never too late to take control of your life 😊
@katarzynak3889
5 жыл бұрын
@@kpoppearls472 :)
@katarzynak3889
5 жыл бұрын
@Doris Schäfer I am sorry to hear it. This is a serious illness. I hope You have taken the treatment. There is nothing to be ashamed of..... You are still very young. Remember that regardless of everything there will be a New Day and New Possibilities.
@katarzynak3889
5 жыл бұрын
@Doris Schäfer It's nice that you are fighting for yourself. The ending of a toxic relationship requires courage. When you understand what you are wise and strong everything will change. Good luck
@Vrinder94
5 жыл бұрын
@Doris Schäfer mid 20s here and im the same :(
Thank your for uploading this
Honestly, this is one of the best video from you. I think the reason why I love this so much is because of how raw and honest it is. My friend recommended this channel to me about a year ago. Before that my all-time favorite KZread or was Jenn Im. Now I can honestly say that you are my favorite KZread or. I will continue to watch your videos follow your Journey to become a better artist a better person while I will also work on my own journey and combat with my own struggles. Also just enrolled in your online class. Super duper excited for this. Thank you so much for continuing to be such an inspiration for all the young entrepreneurs out there 😍
I admire your determination and strength to find where your piece of the puzzle fits in this on growing society. I've been watching your videos for about two or three years now and currently, I'm getting close to a new chapter in my life, college. Watching your content inspires me to better myself and take a step back to look at a bigger picture. This video particularly calmed my fears of entering what they call "the real world."