When I made girls the main focus of my life, everything else suffered. I couldn't focus at work, I skipped workouts to go on dates, absolutely no way I was waking up early to work on a side hustle. I know I could have put it in moderation, but honestly it's addictive - for all the reasons you mentioned. Imo this lifestyle only works if talking to girls and your line of work coincide (e.g. dating company, dating content creator) - but for everyone else I think it can get pretty destructive. I don't date lots of girls anymore, I date one girl, and every other area of my life improved

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

interesting I can see how it can do that in the early days but once your life is dialed in you don't make the same mistakes

@anthonyalexanderjohn

7 ай бұрын

@@Denmosocial idk man even hamza has talked about settling down early and not chasing after girls, I'm not sure when I would get to a point where it wouldnt be addicting

@fernandomoralesyt

6 ай бұрын

I completely agree with you. It's addictive, distracting, and ultimately, unfulfilling. It ends up being impulsive pleasure without any depth. Dating multiple women is a "teenagers fantasy", nothing more.

@nobodysperfect06

6 ай бұрын

Why did it help you in other areas in your life

@anthonyalexanderjohn

6 ай бұрын

@@nobodysperfect06 it frees up more time and more mental focus

Who here likes Grilled Cheese. www.denmo.social/socializer

@kilobyte629

7 ай бұрын

Well you know technically I prefer cheese that's not grilled but uh you know grilled cheese is good too cause like uh, it's grilled and uh, it's cheesy. Ye I think imma watch tha video. But ye

@user-ht1qn2qm3u

7 ай бұрын

I like Slovakia and I went there in winter and it is able to meet them (you said the thing of Slovakia in 24:27) By the way, you should do to the museums of Kosice (Slovakia) they are cool

@mr.jenkinsawesomecoolteach7280

7 ай бұрын

I love grilled cheese!!

@Military.FutureUrbanCamo

7 ай бұрын

Not me

@sir.confident

7 ай бұрын

Me ✋🏾

I honestly don't give a fuck about dating, traditional marriage is the answer, family values are the answer.

I'm new to this so today I went to the grocery store with the goal of just talking to 1 cute girl. I walked in and they were everywhere. There were like 10 hot girls and they were all there by themselves. So I'm walking around and I was just going ask one what they are making, if they have any good recipes, let's exchange recipes, and so on. I walked around for 20 minutes and did not talk to one single girl. I didn't have the confidence. Then as I'm going through the check out line the old ass cashier lady goes, "So, what are you making?" And in that moment it's like the universe was calling me a pussy. That old lady had more balls than I did. I've got to fix this. It's pathetic. I'm going to try again tomorrow before work.

@Layman927

6 ай бұрын

Don’t “try” anything bro, do it! Tell yourself you’re going to do it, don’t give your subconscious any possible way to talk you out of it. Make it a binary. You got this bro, I know you can do it! We all can!

@recklessnotion1899

6 ай бұрын

Listen to the guy above me. Just open your mouth, possibly fumble, and regardless of whether you get her number or she has a boyfriend or not you're going to instantly feel better that you had the balls to do it. Then you'll do it multiple times before you even leave the store. You got this man.

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

sounds like you might need direct help brother. Denmo Social or Socializer, and if you cannot afford those, plenty of free resources on this channel

@RobStanley2001

6 ай бұрын

No it wasn’t the universe calling you a pussy. What it was is that you saw how a human who has never consumed these KZread videos, and has lived in a different time makes conversation with strangers. That’s it. Don’t build this up in your head as “approaching women” just go stand by them and look over and ask what they’re making or what they’re looking at and have a conversation.

@thebrainwash

6 ай бұрын

My son, adjust yourself and reapproach....

Third secret word “King”. As a 22 year old that’s never been in a relationship (not by my own choice), it’s really hard for me to stay motivated cause I just feel unwanted. My biggest obstacle is getting a girl to hangout, I’ve talked/texted girls and gotten some numbers from the gym but it never gets past conversations and idk what else to do. I joined your discord today and introduced myself in the “introduce yourself” page and was considering the socializer thing cause idk what else to do. I just hate having this pressure on myself for being inexperienced and feeling behind

@chives3034

5 ай бұрын

Talk to everyone! And anyone.

@itaekumba33

Ай бұрын

you have to flirt more and put them in a seductive mood, being to friendly turn woman off / be more funny, spontaneous and slip flirting in there from time to time... you 22 - you got time cuz (reference to meme)

@dbuck1964

5 күн бұрын

Bro get your passport. This is a USA problem for the most part. Go to the Caribbean, Latin America, or southeast Asia. Your girl problems will disappear overnight.

Insane value here, Jack. To be honest, have not watched your video for a year or so now, I got more than enough from self-improvement content without being addicted to it. This was a great watch!

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

awesome man send it to your friends, ill be uploading more longform content like this

I hate to be that guy but from MY experience the only thing that girls and dating have done for me is waste my time, lower my self esteem, cause me to not trust people, lead to constant (and consistent) disappointment, and overall stress. Now the problems I’ve had my whole life with dating and girls people say it just because of what age I am, but I have been starting to not believe this because people my age have luck with it and they don’t really even do much while I’ve done my research and have tried pretty much everything in the book. Some people just “have it” and hearing and seeing the expectations with dating and relationships for certain ages does nothing but make me feel worse and loose more hope

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

Sorry that you had negative dating experiences bro

@Stefan6664

6 ай бұрын

Try a self-awareness / meditation routine bro, it can help you to let go of expectations and know yourself better. Then you can know who is worth your time.

@Hello-jn5pu

4 ай бұрын

Hello I have a question how much common is false accusations in US?

Trad baddie 🤙 been watching your videos a lot lately, much love dawg!

Keep it up king. I went through a lot of dating courses and got coaches but my reason was I wanted to re-learn how to date coming out of a 5yr long relationship. I recently got really de-motivated to talking to women or wanting them in my life. Hoping to re-watch this video and get inspired by it. The points you make are great and I agree with them. The amount of advice online regarding girls is overwhelming to be honest but your message is more down to earth and I like the vibe. Thanks for putting it up!

Uploaded at the perfect time to listen to on my daily long ass walk to the gym

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

ayyy perfect

I actually really prefer the longer videos. Definitely value your perspective here

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

next few videos are gonna be hella long

King! Appreciate your work, Denmo

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

gotchu bro

Slovakia mentioned 🤓 With more money you feel more confident... I am making about 9k euros netto per month and average here is like 1.2k netto. When I got to that level my confidence basically doubled.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

big shoutout to slovakia

@Proposal12

7 ай бұрын

Fake confidence...what you got is external

@Oixry

7 ай бұрын

@@Proposal12 what do you mean?

@Proposal12

7 ай бұрын

@@Oixry you´re basing your confidence off money =external Real confidence comes from with in... Are you still that confident should you loose every thing tommorow!? ....

@iAmJoshC

7 ай бұрын

Just curious , What do you do to make 9k? Where i live we can't expect that salary not even as doctors

Thanks for the video man.appreciate you ❤❤❤❤

KING your second video I've watched good mindset Legend 👍

king im a university student from asia &staying in europe, 2 months ago i broke up with my european gf, we spent 1 year together ..now my great grandma also passed away. im doughting about everything n im doing gym. i just spotted this channel, its amazing.

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

good man, glad you been getting help

@Camroc37

6 ай бұрын

I just got cheated on and left, my dog died, and my grandpa is sick. It has given me the strength to improve myself. You got this bro!

Trad Baddie, King. Appreciate the advice bro, you inspire me to talk to more women whenever i have the chance

Denmo I just got the girl back after I fucked it up and lifes pretty great. Hitting the cold plunges, Going to gym even more consistently and cleaning up the enviorment of my life. Appreciate you getting me through it gang. Its been a struggle

GRILLED CHEESE Trąd baddie KING Theese longer videos are great

Was a pleasure watching this HOUR LONG banger while in full BLACK AND WHITE 😎🤙 dopamine is kept to a MINIMUM these days, boys.

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

my man! Got lots of long videos dropping this month

@fishlestat

6 ай бұрын

My phone is constantly on sleep mode, this yellowish thing, my eyes even hurt if i look on a TV lmao 🤣 Don't know what's life-sucking blue light anymore. It's great! 😃

Bros, don't be hard on yourself, I'm 21 and still having my "v" card. I tryed and nothing happened. Remember everyone has own path and who's not a 'v' will never have a chance to become a magician, hehe. Focus on career better or do things u love. Value the fate u were given cuz some of us are dieing of starvation like a tour guide from Tansaniya I had a conversation with or in trenches being shelled..

Love these long videos

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

love your comments they motivate me

Thank you man, you are the true king, agree with all the points

I felt soo great when you said "if you solve your own problems first, you can start solving others problems, like you can find a cure to the cancer" because thats what my dream is. I am a medicine student and I was always interested in cancer cells since I started learning biology. The cure of the cancer is the thought whenever I think of a thing that will help humanity. Last day I gave this example for persuade my friend that solving my girl problem is actually going to make me a better person and make me do so much better stuff. Well then she said "I can do this by giving myself to work, I don't need anyone, I like being alone blah blah blah", maybe she is right for herself, everybody can have different ways but it makes me feel soo good to know that I am in the right way.

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

Glad you understood my point. Lots of angry people will not but this is super important

@fishlestat

6 ай бұрын

Ever heard about Doc Thomas Seyfried? He's been getting great results by zeroing sugar on diet and glutamine blockers definitely check it out.

It`s 5:39 of the video so far! And I want to disagree so much hearing ,,If you haven`t had sex or had a girlfriend you are not real man, you are boy", but I will just shut up. I`m just done

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

its true though bro you need to sort this out

@freedomclubofficial3471

6 ай бұрын

​@@Denmosocialbro come to Ohio we can fight and see who a boy and who a man is...

@Timmy-mi2ef

6 ай бұрын

Yeah sounds like its just contributing to the part of a bigger problem. Hopefully ppl don't actually take it seriously

@teodortodorov1662

6 ай бұрын

@@Timmy-mi2ef People who tell this take it seriously

The problem with Denmo videos isn’t the messaging, it’s the belief that any guy can just go and get plenty of women to like him. The world doesn’t work like that for most men, which then makes the messaging basically meaningless

@nickb3345

6 ай бұрын

Any guy can. Go out and keep talking to multiple. Doesn’t matter if your Shrek.

@bobbyrebholz2183

5 ай бұрын

It actually does work like that for all men. The problem is your instant victim mentality. You already put the disbelief in your head therefore, you don't achieve. You can do it man.

Super interested in the socialized school but can't afford. I'm only 20 and have just started with building a business wish me luck boys 💪💪

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

all good i still post free stuff on here keep up the good work

@classycajun7806

6 ай бұрын

@@Denmosocial ❤️❤️❤️

I knew a guy in college who caught a false accusation-he came from a rich family and the girl he hooked up with felt jilted. Thankfully she was a dumbass about the whole thing (didn’t even make a police report), while he and his family treated it super seriously with lawyers. She ended up leaving the school over it, and if I recall correctly his family was at least considering suing her for defamation

@boomynote

6 ай бұрын

To be fair, filing a false police report would open herself up to even worse repercussions when proven false

King - this is the first of your videos I’ve seen. I’m trying to figure out if this is like Alex Hormozi doing a deep fake to get into another niche, or you’ve just cultivated your voice specific to sound like him. Either way- I’m stoked on your perspective. I’m reflecting on dudes in my life and how their strategies have panned out. All kinds of training- including dating seem to be or modern initiations. Men are made, not born.

"Trad Baddie" i love these videos you put out Denmo!

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

cheers man

Grilling cheese for my trad baddie 😂 thanks Denmo.

I took my first initiatives for approaching girls today. I asked 4 for girls I like for their number and got 3. I was then quite happy and told a friend who was like "that's dope". Someone else got that information out of me, and then proceeded to twist it in a weird way to make me seem like some kind of play boy. I get the point but throughout all my past relationship, I was always loyal and never wavered. I want to meet a girl I like and then stick with her, and the other can just become friends. Anyway, that guy is always depressed, does nothing to change his life, have no guts, but manage to make my first day of conquering my fears to approach, into an annoying day

I appreciate the foresight.

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

gotcha bro keep working hard

I actually loved how you talked about reaching a limit mark where, you should like start focusing on your life, i started approaching and like experience how i was just only wanting to keeop on goung but atleast there should be a limit

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

most men never get to that point, most women do

@bepassionate336

6 ай бұрын

Yeah..

You give me hope man

TRAD BADDIE, Grilled Cheese! Been peeping Denmo content since the Hamilton party dayz lol😊

I've historically just dated the girls that hang around me and say things like "hahaha hiiiiiiiiiiii:) I'm just wondering if uh you could help me find the uh... This uh file for this project". I have honestly never approached a girl I specifically wanted until recently. I'm not sure if this is really a good thing, like you said when you're younger you just sorta take whatever comes your way. Now's the time where I start choosing what I want (although, will I be able to say no to the next girl that walks up?)

King! ;) Medical student here, that part about finding a cure for cancer after solving your girl problem, that's literally my life summed up. I was completely useless with girls, and that impacted my academic performance in mutliple ways. It was so bad that I had to take a break from trying to study just to lose my virginity and go on a bunch of dates, hook ups etc, and afterwards it got so much easier to concentrate on my studies and research project, it's wild.

Dude I literally am dealing with this currently. My sons mom got a restraining order on me to keep our house and has been trying to keep my kid from me ever since. It’s been almost 3 years and ten grand down the hole for custody stuff and I’m still dealing with it.

I’ve always had social issues and a bit of autism. I’ve given up on getting girls I’m also unattractive. I’m lost. Grilled cheese

Grab life by the balls! Much praise and applause for these genius insights Bro! Learned a lot of insane value! 👏🔥✨

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

glad to hear brother

To be a king, don't chase after others, chase after the crown.

@SuperVoidBoyz

6 ай бұрын

Also at 40:13 un oh.. coomer alert.

Even if your busy stacking your money hitting the gym learning how to dress bettter it’s probably better to just have casual hook up/ getting to know females but nothing serious..once u get into some serious it drains your pockets/focus

This guys talk out of my soul …

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

meant to resonate with you bro

Last videos: girls, girls, girls, girls... We get it. Women are social proof, social proof attracts more social proof... okay. Then what besides women? I know it is marketing and mfs rather watch how to get women than how to better themselves or something like that. But something seems kinda off...

@victordamasceno4006

7 ай бұрын

And if you play only by marketing, it's okay. I work with marketing too, but I'm just telling that the last few videos been concentrated on women. And as I said, I know if we get the analytics, the audience would rather watch that than something else (AMS already been there, done that). Not trying to criticize, I know it's part of the "game". Just commenting.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

these videos get the most views which means most men cannot solve other problems until they solve this one

@victordamasceno4006

7 ай бұрын

@Denmosocial I didn't mean to discredit your work. I understand and I've been there, and once in a while always pop a knowledge I didn't know before, even if I feel good with myself. I guess what I meant is that maybe there are other ways to work on this problem if we focus on some other things. Maybe mental health, therapy, study, exercise, etc. But I also get that you focus on one aspect of it, and this aspect usually get more views, and etc. And it's okay too. Maybe I'm just trying to say that even though these videos get more views, I also appreciate the other content you do. And I'm not trying to be selfish, I know I'm not your only viewer haha So do your thing, but keep that in mind.

King - greetings from Bulgaria!

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

big shoutout to Bulgaria baby

@djomadoto6921

6 ай бұрын

@@Denmosocial Oldest country in Europe, babyy!!

Trad baddie. King. Thanks man!

Trad baddie. I'll continue when I'll finish my charge at work.

King!

King👑

Have to say, in the first minute in this vedio, as a female the feeling didn’t feel nice to me. But slowly moved on, especially the part about the pretty girl part, I really do agreed sooo much, as well as the part that the girl complained about a guy which she really knows nothing about him. Trad baddie!

King 👑

Trap baddie out here getting some inspiration in!

Grilled cheese.!! Like this video im only 16 starting to go out frequently with different women and am starting to see differences i think that because im still learning how to speak to them im taking the honesty approach where im honest with girls and if they do have like an annoying personality i challange them and idk if that makes me seem like arrogant or a dick or makes me seem like i stand my ground. I think my mistake is im prioritizing it right now getting out and talking to women.

The only problem with getting it out of my system, is i have a girlfriend who is pregnant and that i wouldnt even wanna leave otherwise. I have a low bodycount about 5 and yeah even though i have a healthy relationship I have huge insecurities around this

Grilled cheese. When I had a beautiful long term girlfriend I was invited out a lot more and had much more interest from competing women. Having a desirable girlfriend in the minds a lot of women means the guy she’s with must be valuable or desirable.

"Spit on my face!" Thank you Jordan Peterson lol

muito bom

king 🔥

Grilled cheese bro. LOL.

I like you, bro 👊

King

Grilled cheese, bro! Cheers👍

How you used that Jordan Peterson video is top notch!

chilled geese

PIAHAHAHHAHAHA, I like the Jerome thing so much hahahahhaaa

King ❤

King❤

4:30 relief disapearing? ahahahah

this guy actually predicted no one nwill see this video

king

These first 10 seconds have me dead💀💀💀

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

bro rough times lmao

King cheese trad baddie. Funny guy, like the rants...

Girls take me too much off focus well more than one does

I am still struggling in approaching girl didn't talk to girl in 2023 . In my gym ther is girl she is beautiful but i am sacred to talk to her because i dont know how to start conversation with her. On monday i only said to her are you using that dumbell then she said no then i take dumbell and done my exercise .please help me i want to talk to her 😭.

The risk of a woman ruining my life just for saying hi to her despite how low it may be is enough for me to say no and only talk to them for work or something.

@masculinityproject3183

6 ай бұрын

Really silly lil bro, do you never enter a car because you could have a car crash? Look at the positives.

As you said Denmo 😅 i am religious and i try to archive the dream that grandfather's had or not but yeah one right women is enough and if not than it is what it is. And thank you for your videos. But i disagree with you are still a boy if you did not lose your Virginity this is not determine if you are mature or not

@jonathan6480

7 ай бұрын

I'm Catholic, how about you? Agreed with everything you said.

@jonnyblaze6153

7 ай бұрын

@@jonathan6480 I am orthodox and yeah I believe we can get a women who Denmo said in the beginning the chances are low but there are outside also people like us so God knows what he is doing just believe in him and he will plan it all out 🙏

@jonathan6480

7 ай бұрын

@@jonnyblaze6153 Orthodox Jewish? I'm trying to find Catholic groups to join to meet girls with the same faith.

@jonnyblaze6153

7 ай бұрын

@@jonathan6480 orthodox greek I did not know orthodox Jewish existed xd

@jonnyblaze6153

7 ай бұрын

@@jonathan6480 well the best place as Denmo said in his other videos is outside and in church but even my Moslems friends said many girls are really unfaithful and already lost their virgintiy and fake it and I am scared that we end up with one but maybe she is the right one to many thoughts about that but God has his plans

Well that’s just not an option for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂I think I’m going to remain single for good

as a girl i need to know that🙃

Trad Baddie 🙌

I am a selfish guy im the type to wanna be single and eat whatever i want

I think my head would explode

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

it might but it would feel unreal

@blizzardwolftv5957

7 ай бұрын

There's a difference beetween fun partying with girls and enjoying time alone in peace away from psycho head fcks who drain your sanity. Work on business first then, gym and get more money then focus on girls. The reason why men are unsuccessful is because they focus on pssy too much at the wrong time in their life. There's a time for everything.@@Denmosocial

Grilled cheeses, trad baddy, king 💪

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

G

Eu quero uma Trad Baddie também! Greetings from Brazil my master!

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

bom dia!

King ;)

Grilled cheese baby

Step 11 - false accusations, it blows my mind none of the guys who get accused never ask for a polygraph test to be done on the girl and him to prove his innocence, as a girl can't lie on a test

Is grilled cheese still grilled cheese if you bake it in the oven only?

@sdfg-gj9to

6 ай бұрын

A trad baddie that makes bakey grilled cheese.

Me

grilled cheese, trad baddie, king

1M hours in CoD? Rookie numbers.

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

bruh

Is it okay to do my best friend every Sunday also go on simple dates during monk mode?

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

absolutely

bro u remember myself to much...we both have a weird ass name, we are like idk 5.8" and I went trough all the process you talk about here since I was like 15 and now I am 26 making bags trading crypto and working on legal from my laptop witouth even a degree...life gives you what you work for, and dating is key to success in any men's life.

GRILLED CHEESE GANG

chilled grease, veit grideo

"King"

Where is that clip of JP from?😂

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

lmaooo

"Getting it out of your system" is somewhat of a myth IMO when considering that even once you get it "out of your system" it returns after the refractory period. lol Maybe we're not fully on the same page, clearly I'm referring to sex drive. I'm over 30, definitely not a virgin but the desire is Always there and I believe it will always be there until I am loyal to my duty to procreate. Another reason I don't like the terminology you use is because a lot of men confuse lust with desire but lust is never fully satisfied and will always demand an additional sacrificial lamb.

Problems 2 & 3(mentioned in video) will be 10 times higher than all benefits you get. At 24 moved to big city and flood of gates opened. There was time when i was going on dates 5 times a week meanwhile fucking 3 different girls a week(fuckbuddies). Now just hit 30, stopped counting bodies after 20, probably close to 50, and i feel exhausted. Bitch management takes to much energy. Have two fwbs and few numbers for booty calls right now and sometimes i wish they were gone. But I can't... Got addicted to this bullshit lifestyle. This won't make you happy or confident, or better with people. This makes you indifferent and numb. Rose glasses falls of. There is no magic talking with women left. You start seeing them as meat, toys, catch and let her go. Invest your time somewhere else. It's not worth it.

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

see you take it for granted but these lessons are priceless. most men don't ever learn this lol

Grilled cheese