alright im angry who wants to be my friend www.skool.com/monk-mode-2024-3591

@edthatsit8035

6 ай бұрын

Your hair sure wasn't ruffled by the wind

@HoodTrophy619

6 ай бұрын

Bro ur right about the economy. My dream is to become a UFC champion but the path is just so rough. Nowadays your lucky if you even move out of your parents house at a young age

@alfredspic481

6 ай бұрын

I have enough online friends

@sir.confident

6 ай бұрын

Bro, I don't even know you personally. 🤣

@speedy0_FPV

6 ай бұрын

sure, whats your plan for today?

The truth is that when you’re “truly making it” the need to show off goes away. Having peace of mind that you’re doing good is better.

@davidt1621

6 ай бұрын

Can we agree that old man plumber's backside is definitely evil though?

@Kraken9911

6 ай бұрын

I "made it" due to a boomer inheritance from well off parents and the day my bank account suddenly turned six digits I went full on hobo and no more posts on social media of anything. The last thing you want is anyone knowing you have deep pockets.

@jeffreyd.4878

6 ай бұрын

@@Kraken9911I only have 5 and I feel more well off than most of my friends and people I work with. Everyone’s always complaining about not getting paid enough while I’m here quiet not saying anything because I save and invest on the side. Everyone in my circle is always broke. I need new friends to motivate me to get more in life. What I’m doing is too easy for me now. Everyone else is struggling while I’m comfortable. We all earn around the same (low wages) but I handle my finances way better and it’s only because I chose to learn how to.

@notmychannelname42

6 ай бұрын

I'm in a weird situation because I don't own a phone or a car or a place and don't have a job. However, I have complete peace of mind and enjoy life. I know everyone else has way more but is way more disturbed and depressed. It's the weirdest thing.

@johnosullivan-nq2wd

6 ай бұрын

Amen brother!!!

"The cost of sanity in this society is a certain level of alienation." - Terrence McKenna Best advice in my life

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

great quote

@DBLUE-bo2qe

6 ай бұрын

The feeling when ur in it is killer 🙁but when ur out 😇it still hurts but a big piece of peace is now visible 😮‍💨

@sfertonoc

6 ай бұрын

And then you have hackers of life. Life is always a mix of fake and real. If you want to say something real, pay your dues to the fake. This is why I never tell the truth as a consultant, but I do as a Tarot card reader. It softens the blow for people to think that you do not really think that and that it is a fantasy from tarot cards. Making sense of the alienation and practical is what it comes down to. In terms of faking it, i prefer tarot cards than the Jesus church thing clean he talks about, I do not want to go totally insane, eat myself and my own soul and go to hell like some do.

@Niffumable

6 ай бұрын

Best quote. Top tier dude. Lol traveling apes

@patches3432

6 ай бұрын

Ah a fellow Terrance follower

This is why I watch motivational videos for men instead of motivational videos for women. Motivational videos for women are like, "get the bag, show ur butthole for money, ur a queen!" Motivational videos for men are actually helpful. "Stop drinking, workout, watch less SM, go for that better relationship." Even as a woman, doing these things have helped me more than advice for women has helped me.

@danymuembo9238

6 ай бұрын

I respect you for admitting this

@TheJoe89jan

6 ай бұрын

This is why women need a father in their lives. Fatherly advice is an important experience every woman needsz

@FriendMariaAdrianna

6 ай бұрын

@@TheJoe89jan Aww. I never thought about it that way.

@FriendMariaAdrianna

6 ай бұрын

@@danymuembo9238 🩷

@QueensNewYorkguy

6 ай бұрын

@@FriendMariaAdriannayeah those so called motivational videos for women are usually all grifters(people lying and taking advantage of naive and clueless people) Plus those female life coaches are usually the same grifting these women out of their hard earned money and their lives are filled with terrible choices like divorce and having kids with same alpha playboys over and over again and are single mothers!! I’ll cut you some slack cause I just scrolled through your page and this comment of yours shows me that you’re different and actually a gem 💎 and what good women should aspire to be!

Agreed. Social media is a big circle jerk.

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

well said g

@North49191

6 ай бұрын

It's a lesbian sausage party.

@WaywardZombie

6 ай бұрын

Correction: the biggest

I'm 47 and struggling to rebuild my life. It's not easy, because I'm not young anymore and times have changed drastically. Everyone, regardless of age or gender, needs to accept we've all been lied to and manipulated by both ends of the political spectrum. Living well isn't about getting everything you want, but wanting what you have. People should be valued for their accomplishments and good deeds, rather than what they have.

@antoinesubitlescoups338

6 ай бұрын

Wow that was cool. I hope you the best man. Life's shit for everyone. We all are trying but honestly we don't know what we're trying at. Hope you get what you want

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

keep going G you got this

@cashmererose1101

6 ай бұрын

As a 37F I agree. We have been screwed. We own nothing these days everything is subscription or lease to keep us working. Thank god I don’t care for that stuff. Sometimes I dream to earn enough and move into the countryside.

@rupertradar7424

6 ай бұрын

I am 58 and alone now. I look at the world around me and wonder. I do what I can and get on with it. It looks like you are too. Well done to you sir.

@christophersteingart2237

6 ай бұрын

I've lived in both America and Canada. I want to thank everyone for showing me people still have empathy. I don't have a clear vision of what I want my life to be, but I've been through enough to know what I don't want. If there's anything I'm going to regret missing out on in life, it's not gettIng to have children. I do at least have a dog, and he's one in a million.

Bro. I dont like faking it that much. But when i tell the truth people go away, there is this other thing i've realized. People love being lied to.

@Clara-jz3yv

6 ай бұрын

i think its bc those people lie too, they have not learned how to talk about REALNESS and if its ok to talk about casually

“ you want me to tip at subway?” I felt that. If you don’t serve me my food and take away my trash I’m not going to tip you.

@Chris-iq5pr

6 ай бұрын

What?? But they woke up this morning, drove to work, clocked in and are working so hard! How could you not give a $20 tip on top of your $20 meal!?

@miszlen00

6 ай бұрын

@@Chris-iq5pr yeah, and it's employers job to pay them - not me paying twice for the same thing - a fckin sandwich :P the US tipping 'culture' is broken

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

bruh

@nickbermel4726

6 ай бұрын

I am going to be honest, I never tipped a job that was not a waiter and now I work at subway it is literally the best thing ever!

@djyoutubo

6 ай бұрын

We have more than enough now, so what follows is flexing on what you could have had.

One word. Validation. People post their lives all over social media for validation from other people who don’t even got their shit together either

@islixxn

6 ай бұрын

wah wah attention seeker

I noticed it in school, everyone is faking. If you won’t fake - they will attack you with “prove it” and “you say stuff, but you got nothing to show for it” Playing guitar saved me from this - you can’t fake daily 1h practice

@Ixe2077

6 ай бұрын

Real (I play guitar, I'm obligated to say I play it.)

@yearginclarke

6 ай бұрын

I'm older now at 38. A very mediocre and unsuccessful life is the best I've done for myself. I rarely play guitar for people, but when I do they usually seem shocked at my abilities...they always say something along the lines of "wow I never would have guessed YOU would be that good" Actually I'm not really talented if you compared me lots of these YT guitarists, but to non-guitar players I guess it really seems like something.

@w8what575

6 ай бұрын

@@yearginclarkeu know, I had two “friends” that had the nerve to sit at my kitchen table and talk shite to me about living in a mobile home and being poor white trash…I started laughing and saying I know right! What trash I am! My goodness! I should be living in a camper in my parents backyard and driving a pos vehicle I DONT OWN! Lol…they asked who my landlord is still laughing at me…I replied I own it….and the land…and I also own my 4 year old car that had 60,000 miles on it at the time….and I own it without any debt! And continued laughing at them…they both lived in old campers that were parked in their parents backyards and using a bucket for a toilet and were using me for my shower and kitchen lol…then one of these “friends” tried making me feel like I’m worthless and no one likes me lol…ok…then why are u here? Oh yeah…it’s because people like creeps that use others and then treat them like dog shite right! If u all don’t like me then stop coming to my home and stop calling me when u need something cuz I’m sick of wasting my time on losers who think they’re better but in fact are nothing but losers sucking the life out of those of us who do take care of ourselves without taking it from someone else….I don’t have much and what I do have isn’t very nice but it’s mine…I used to feel bad about my situation in life but then after those attacks, I realized why they attack me…they’re jealous and don’t want others to succeed at anything because they’re losers and want everyone else to be worse losers then they are…so don’t think that ur mediocre etc…what u have is a lot more then what others have had and threw away because they didn’t think it was good enough…my niece was able to buy a brand new Honda after she was rear ended in a car accident leaving her injured with a totaled out vehicle…she got a big check which paid for the Honda in full and left her a big chunk of money left over….a year later, she’s traded it off for a used suburban that is sitting in her parents driveway not being driven because the dealer ripped her off…she doesn’t like driving old vehicles or used vehicles etc…one of those types of people…well…she is now stuck driving a really old car that she picked up for a few $100 in order to get to work, living with her parents again cuz she blew all her cash in junk competing with her loser friends and is now broke and friendless…idk if she learned her lesson or not cuz she won’t speak to me cuz I live in a mobile home and drive an older vehicle and am single and refuse to be used by anyone anymore….shameful cuz they came from the same lowly life I came from…don’t let the comparison game make u believe u haven’t enough or whatever…ur doing alot better then others who will try pulling u down to their level…

@mike4802

3 ай бұрын

@@yearginclarke People who engage in their passion, not purely for attention, experience a deep level of joy, unlike people who engage in their "passion", purely for attention.

Wasnt expecting that intro 💩

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

its a powerful hook, it will hopefully catch peoples attention

@kilobyte629

6 ай бұрын

Intros always gotta be fire to catch the eyes. :) heh

@candles6103

6 ай бұрын

Its shocking and weird

@westernsellers9148

6 ай бұрын

Reality is disappointing

@adamjutras7024

6 ай бұрын

​@@Denmosocial jokes on you I watch girls taking a dump all the time. Muahahahahahahaha! I'll see myself out....

I feel so fortunate after watching this, basically because I'm 64, and never had much to begin with. Never owned my own home, or business - but I've lived "as I damn well please" for the most part. Never married, no children - but i own two motorcycles, and i love my work as a motorcycle mechanic! I actually feel great about myself now!

@GooseBurt

4 ай бұрын

I hope I never become like you.

It's not ego. It's realizing people can care less about your life going good or bad. Everybody is on airplane mode and would like to just fake it instead of telling all their business to someone who really doesn't care or maybe do care but has no solutions and honestly ask how you're doing just to be polite or break the silence then check out after that sad but true

Finally, a Canadian on KZread openly admitting that sh*t is wrong and people are suffering in this country because too many won’t admit that their life is Fake as s***! Kudos for speaking the ugly truth.

@giovanniparracino4104

6 ай бұрын

This guy is brilliant, he’s right too, there are a lot of fake wankers out there

@the80386

6 ай бұрын

plenty of canadians openly admit their life struggles and the reality of life in canada right now. but most Canadians are mature and knowledgable enough not to put the blame on the immigrants. the real issue is the economic system in force which affords huge influence to the few over government policies that negatively affect the many.

@djleejames-techno9183

6 ай бұрын

if you're suffering...it's also on you. He says he's lucky and doesn't have to worry about the same issues. He's leading into....effing learn about yourself...take responsibility and take charge...change it up and friggin truly strive. Don't sit in your lame ass job and then say hey...i got my ged and have a job...i can't afford a new house.

@theoldgods8229

6 ай бұрын

The Canadians voted for this. They are importing a record number of migrants during a housing crisis and wonder why home ownership is out of reach???

@ravensfinancial

6 ай бұрын

Incorrect, he's almost there. However, he still supports Justin. Which is one of the reasons why Canada has gone to crap.

I agree. I’m 24 and just head down grinding now about to graduate with a degree in CS but comparing yourself to others in your age group sucks. I think the goal is to just separate yourself from social media because it isn’t a good place for the natural human mind. It isn’t reality.

@Tfwd1891

6 ай бұрын

Not good for the formative stages of the young mind especially. I avoided it in my 20s I was ostracized by my peers lmao. I’m off now I’ve dabbled and I despise it more than ever. I’M a BrAnD no you’ve only been of working and voting age for like 3 years lmao. Couldn’t wait to get older. Here I am and everyone seems to be regressing because they are overdosing on “culture”. Yea. Teenage dirtbag culture let’s grow tf up less nonsense that way.

@thaddeusdriscoll3079

6 ай бұрын

every ones peak growth has an amount of time, and an age that its during.

@sir.confident

6 ай бұрын

I'm 20, and I go to community college. University isn't my thing. Aiming for a business degree.

@Roderickthegray

6 ай бұрын

Word, sometimes I gotta remind myself to go at my own pace find out more about myself and just grind🤙🏿

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

you got this bro. keep going

Everyone is a mess. Just some people have gotten really good at hiding it and projecting a façade of perfection, but I promise you, if you get to know anyone well enough and you’ll quickly learn how fucked up everybody is.😂

Life in modern society is devoid of meaning and very alienating. We run around like headless chickens, and for what? I've stopped caring. I am trying to live frugally and work the bare minimum necessary to get by. I'd rather die than work full time. There's no community spirit anymore and it is impossible to make new friends let alone find a partner. This world is in a bad way and I do not see things getting better unfortunately.

@chriscox1535

6 ай бұрын

Honestly when I was traveling to South Africa it had change my life a lot . Most people in the township in South Africa wish they have the life what we have in Canada . And traveling to second world and third world country I can make friends faster compare to first world my opinion

@jurassicthunder

6 ай бұрын

​@@chriscox1535please keep in mind that second and third world countries like having richer networks.

@chriscox1535

4 ай бұрын

@@jurassicthunder that’s understandable man but at the same time is nice to visit these countries to experience life and also see what we appreciate now

@TeeTheguru

5 күн бұрын

@@chriscox1535exactly the planet is huge , just go and see more it’ll really put alot into perspective

When you go through fakeness withdrawal you’ll start to find yourself processing all the different emotions you’ve suppressed. It can be challenging to let go of the fake persona you have created for work, school etc. But it's worth it.

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

fakeness withdrawal lmao

This is the untold consequence of social media, it hurts people more than it helps, you focus on everyone else and not yourself. That’s such a miserable way to live, I’ve struggled with it for years. I want to thank you for this video my man ❤

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

facts bro hope you feel better

@kenkentaylor9690

6 ай бұрын

Oh yeah, it's a double-edged sword for sure. The parts about not giving a f*** anymore about what everyone else thinks to the point of controlling your life resonates with me the strongest as someone who's dealt with anxiety the majority of my life. I had to take about a year and a half break from anything academic after high school because my mental health shot down to the lowest I've ever experienced. To the point where it was manifesting in physical symptoms: flip-flopped sleep schedule. Could hardly eat due to foods suddenly making me nauseous and struggling to swallow it half the time. Doom-scrolling reading about negative stuff that took a good chunk out of my days. The worst of it lasted for about a few months or so and then slowly but surely, I managed to crawl myself out enough to actually start something--ANYTHING to work towards improvement. I was tired of the metaphorical shackles I was locked in, causing such paralyzing decision-anxiety. Getting overwhelmed even with some things that aren't big-deal life decisions. Finally fed up and hungry for change, I decided to slowly break free. No matter afraid I would feel. After all, they say courage isn't the absence of fear--it's doing something in spite of it. Am writing this mightily sleep deprived so I apologize if this isn't super well written, but I felt a strong urge share this here. Now at this point 7 years after high school, I'm still doing it. Still working towards improvement. I started an associates but then kinda paused on it for a bit while I'm snatching up some certifications in healthcare to gain some experience (got antsy and wanted to try what piqued my interest!!). I got like 3 classes left on that associates though so once I do finish with my current program, I am DETERMINED to finish it. Then afterwards, I'll take about a year or two break to let myself really get my hands dirty in experience and earn money. In the meantime, will also be thinking about where I could head next. Radiology? Sonography?? Who knows! I just know that regardless of what I might still struggle with to this day to an extent, it is NOTHING like how it was. Waking up every day used to be what I dreaded. Convinced that I had nothing to show for myself or would even live much past 18, but here I am. 25 and still kicking!! Not perfect by any means and still much more room for improvement, but I can honestly say that my life and everything in it thus far has become something I treasure. Something that I look forward to every day I wake up. And with every day that I wake up is a new opportunity to make the best of things. Enough about me though!! I hope that some way or another, thinks improve for you as well if they haven't already. Another thing that people tend to do a lot too is focusing so hard on the destination that they forget about the JOURNEY that it takes to get there. Rome wasn't built in a day. It's ok to take time to plan, strategize & execute those goals but also to enjoy yourself along the way. Progress isn't super linear either. There can and will be setbacks, but that shouldn't take away from your overall progress and the things you do manage to achieve.

@Gettothegone

6 ай бұрын

We were warned but in a willful illiterate society people think this is new. It isn’t “History doesn’t repeat but it often rhymes”

Happiness is an illusion, and some of us will go our entire life chasing it without realizing that it is all just in your head ..

@1.Dstarr

2 ай бұрын

🎯

I was just talking to my husband about this topic. I was saying we all have a shared expectation of what a persons response should be to the question, “how are you doing?” and 10/10 people say I’m doing good. When someone gives a real answer it seems folks don’t know how to respond to a real answer 😅

Yes, all the hot young girls who travel and do cool shit all the time even tho they’re still studying are either trust fund babies, have sugar daddy boyfriends or are thousands in debt.

@AshzxQuidYT

6 ай бұрын

Don't forget some of them are paid through the resort for content. It's not coming out of their pocket. The idea that they are enjoying themselves is curated for social media.

Instant sub. In an increasingly fake-ass world, its awfully refreshing when occasionally, somebody has the balls to say what most (all?) of us think in the safe privacy (for now) of our own minds.

When people ask my dad how he is he always answers “living the dream.” It’s so layered and sarcastically honest. I used to get irritated when I would hear guys say that but now I can appreciate its brilliance.

@ethanieldude1

5 ай бұрын

Another day in paradise

Although not in my 20s, i can tell you this is relevant to older ppl as well. I was going through some crap last year and needed to talk to few ppl that i trusted. Lo and behold, they were going through even worse crap than me, but i thought their lives were great. It feels like the past few years has put a lot of stress on our society (im in canada). Social media really has been a double-edged sword. I'm old enough to remember being an adult without it, and honestly, we were better off without it.

Everyone has something to say to justify whatever crap they’re doing in life. Social media made people to go full nuts.

Glad this video popped up. I’m 23 Female and I just had a realization today that I need to stop thinking that I’m far behind when everyone is fake. I need to stop living for this world and live for what makes me happy and comfortable with the season I am in my life. I plan to go on a social media detox soon and get my priorities straight. I’m currently looking for a new job and setting goals for my health. I know God is with me beside it all but I need to be the change. Thank you for the video!

@djleejames-techno9183

6 ай бұрын

if u sit on your ass and good things happen..thank god.....take charge and thank yourself !!! (with god's help if that's your thing)

@Vengeance6611

6 ай бұрын

Keep it up.

@semekiizuio

6 ай бұрын

I mean life is a struggle life is suffering but there is also point in like when we are happy we are loved. That is life, highs and lows. Thats why people who comit to suicide are cowards and go out the easy way. It may sound cruel saying that but its them not being able to handle the burdens of what is life.

@bravobooty2107

6 ай бұрын

I can’t image even getting a date with a reasonable woman in these times

@TauruSeason

6 ай бұрын

​@@semekiizuioif you are so mentally strong it's your moral duty to empower the weaker suicidal people. Otherwise you're just a weak satanist.

Society was never mature enough to handle social media, ... and it never will be.

Female here, I’ve mostly been on monk mode the past 4 years and also saved & made the most money so far in my life! How did I do it, I took risks and didn’t care about being lonely. Switched careers! Now I have savings! And my future can start! 👏

@Girlyppop

6 ай бұрын

I was in monk mode for all 2023 NOW i have 0 friends and can DO all my shit ALONE now 😭 I’m ALOT more focused and looking back at my past life peeps all them dude are still lost😂 glad i value myself enough to do something of myself.

I remember back before smart phones and social media people took real photos where they didn't always have to smile and look like they were having the time of the life all the time. Those photos were real. Everyone now a days wants to pose like they are in a magazine shoot.

Right now I'm passing through a breakup (1 year of dating). This relashionship was making me weaker as each month passes, stoped the gym, stoped to work on my business, I was getting castrated. Right now she's going out, trying to make me jealous. I have deleated Instagram, took out all the alcohol I had in my house. I just could not agree more with this video. Today I'm 21, and you are the older brother I have never had. Thank you, Denmo. I'm feeling this fire in my heart again and it is so good. Greatness waits for me. Cheers from São Paulo, Brazil.

@ncuxap12444

6 ай бұрын

good for you young man, this is the way, no point in dwelling in your suffering post breakup and entertaining pathetic, childish manipulation tactics (I'm refering to her trying to make you jealous), this is the time to improve your life and get stronger

@kishcub

6 ай бұрын

Great move on deleting instagram it really can bring your mood down and trigger you depending on how you’re feeling I did the same and I don’t miss it I’m 47 by the way

@simply-living8523

6 ай бұрын

You’re doing amazing! You’re so mature for taking the direction you’re. I hope everything falls in place for you keep focusing on yourself. God Bless you ❤

@PedroPlanas777

6 ай бұрын

Jesus is the solution

@andrejz8954

6 ай бұрын

No it ain't lol. Just drop it with all this religious crap man, it's 2024.@@PedroPlanas777

This is why neurodiverse people are so valuable. A lot of people care about meaningless bs and what strangers think about them.

Greetings from Austria, it is the same thing over here. I went through therapy and my therapists admitted that most people are completely without real friends just faking everything about their life.

Very rare that I make a comment but thank you for this video. I’m a 20 year old male that comes from the hood, but I’m fully sober. I don’t even vape, i don’t go to clubs or anything. I just work and go to the gym and try and stack money. It’s definitely a lonely feeling when I scroll social media and see everyone having friends and partying. But I’m an oddball, I don’t make any posts. I just do me and work on my cars etc. I’ve earned everything I have legit but I still don’t feel good, I have this perception that everyone else is so much happier than me partying every weekend and going to restaurants. As i get older I realize that truthfully I don’t want that, but FOMO makes me imagine I do want that. Considering where I come from and what I’ve already achieved at my young age I should be proud but I’m not. I can admit that I am lonely and depressed still, that I spend too much time watching pornography and hooking up with girls to try and fill a void. I’m real about it, and it’s scary and lonely. This video has helped remind me that these rich kids and party people on social media aren’t truly happy and are most likely in debt. Starting to accept that I’m doing it the right way grinding it out and not posting anything about my life, just working in silence and rebuilding myself and breaking the cycles of trauma. No one will read this but I’m leaving this here so I can come back when I’m 21 at the end of 2024 and see if I have kept improving like I deserve. Thank you Jack, Merry Christmas.

@DerRaphy

6 ай бұрын

Feel ya brother 🙏🏻 Stay on track

@jakecarroll5

6 ай бұрын

Congrats on fully Sober! I've been on this journey too. Even went full Carnivore and ditches Sugar and Carbs.

@possessedgaming853

6 ай бұрын

@@DerRaphy thank you brother, same to you

@possessedgaming853

6 ай бұрын

@@jakecarroll5 thank you man, my foster brothers friends also ask me “how do you do it?” And they always seem so surprised. I feel like drug and alcohol culture is so engrained into the youth that’s it’s bizarre to not be blasted out of your mind 24/7. I for some reason never ever had an interest in it. Cheers to you for being on the same path. I try to eat clean but it’s hard on a budget for sure but do my best. How do you personally feel on that diet? Physically and mentally?

@josephang9927

6 ай бұрын

I mean, watching porn is a valid way to cope and cheaper that women. I did not ask to be born a horny undesirable man, so I don't feel compelled to fight for roles and expectations I have to work 10x more than a good looking man. I may not be happy but I will not be miserable paying way more for what others get for free.

I’m a55 year old woman and I LOVED this video!!! I am currently in hibernation right now, creating a course and writing another book! Videos like this fuel my fire to create the seven figure life I’m trying to create (and tell absolutely NO ONE ABOUT)! Thank you!🙏🏽 ❤

@user-zr6pl6nb6z

6 ай бұрын

Good choice. Don't tell people you encounter personally about your plans. People are so jealous and vindictive nowadays, they'll try to sabotage you somehow.

@lucycat4305

6 ай бұрын

@@user-zr6pl6nb6z That is a sad, but honest truth. There are usually only a few people in your life (if that), who truly want to see you succeed. Most likely, you know who they are.

In my old life. I quit my law enforcement job. I loved the pay but the energy their and structure suck balls. Majority of my ex co-workers were always complaining. I quit back in 2022 and sold the majority of my shit. I went to YellowStone to work seasonal. I now do Instacart and freakin love it. I get to see my whole area in the part of the United States i live. I've even met more women doing it. I live with my parents and I love seeing my parents every day. I'm 36 and I feel like my life has just begun. I still have challenges with fapping, but I've come a long way. I keep my lifestyle very mimilastic and I love it. Now I live with a family member that I do not like(not my parents.) That family member is hell. That person has left me alone some what. But still at times trys to test me but I stand up to myself. My life is improving as the day goes by. I had a 3week semen retention so far as we text. So I'm continuously working on myself.

@MrSebastianBlake

6 ай бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 your already a legend bro

@Krokussify

6 ай бұрын

based

I started making a serious effort about two years ago to be honest when anyone says "hey how are you?!", I used to do whatever everyone else does and just say "good man!!", but thats a lie. So now when people ask me, I'm honest, sometimes I'll say "ehh I've been better" or "Idk I've been going through it lately".. and unfortunately the majority of the time this happens, the other person will hear my honest response and just stare at me in bewilderment not knowing what to say, because they don't actually care how I'm doing, the fact that they even asked in the first place is just their brain on autopilot mode.

I am nearly 40 and never cared a lot about my friends in the past because I traveled a lot etc. My sister insisted allwaayss that I should care more about them. So I did. I have my own family now and I am so so glad I cared for my family and friends. It is very hard to make good friends after 30 so please take care of your social circle ❤

@benhudson4014

6 ай бұрын

Actually great advice, to share experiences with others is to be human!

“Act like you can’t afford the bread until they find out you own the bakery.” Not my quote but such solid wisdom. The key to all this is learn to be happy with yourself and work toward self-acceptance. The truly wealthy don’t need to brag. Stay low key and work to only impress yourself. Then No one can fuck with you.

I once roofed a apartment building with sixty units by myself. I had some guy tell me i couldn't do it by myself. I told him dont put your limitations on me. I will do what i want. It is amazing how many people limit themselves and wonder why they never get ahead.

Man your speaking a shit load of facts and it’s good to hear. Sometimes you think you’re going mental in this world until someone like yourself lays it out

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

gotchu brother

@franchisebeauty

6 ай бұрын

💯

I'm a 56 year old Canadian, he's spot on about Canadians. I'm conservative, so I'm in the minority. They all want " free stuff " . Sorry guys but live is a long slog of work to get by.

Guys I am not using social media from like 3 years now, this is the biggest flex I have at the age of 18

I'm 35 and I feel stuck and depressed if that makes any of you young bucks feel any better. Keep that head up 💪

@MSDjMichaelSlash

6 ай бұрын

Don't you think that its sad to see people with 20s, 18s giving up and being discredited already? Whats wrong? I Guess society

@martinledermann1862

6 ай бұрын

​@@MSDjMichaelSlashThe Western world has basically destroyed itself

@FallouFitness_NattyEdition

6 ай бұрын

35 is still plenty young. I work as a nursing aide, and I've heard plenty of stories of nurses who went back to school when they were 40. It keeps me going. It's never too late

Just graduated college and I’m starting a new job, got a new place and am trying to get my life straight. Cutting out bad habits, starting good ones. I’m not a boy anymore, I’m a man now. It’s time to make myself the man I’ve always wanted to be.

@martinledermann1862

6 ай бұрын

Good luck, lad

I know I'm doing something good in life because my friends and relatives started to envy me and be jealous. I want to influence them positively, but it is easier for them to hate than to change for the better. That's why I decided to move away and live away from toxic people.

People always ask me. How can I work two jobs. The reason is I like my life style. It’s not fancy. Yet I always like to be ahead of the curve on disasters. 2024 is my $100,000 year. I just feel it. Just grind.

I completely agree with this video. Like I've been a loser for a long time. I wasted so much time being all depressed and hurt over my gf leaving me. But lately I've been doing my best to improve myself. To grab onto my infinite potential. Yeah my life sucks. Working a 9 to 5 job, I have mental issues. But I refuse to give up on myself again. I want to live man

@jamesremus07

6 ай бұрын

You got this homie 🤜🤛💓

Truth bomb right there! I deactivated my fb 2 years ago when I realized that posting my good times makes other people unhappy, depressed and angry that I have a good life and theirs is not. I now have instagram to keep in touch with a handful of people that I want to communicate regularly and posting recipes for my kids just in case if they crave what I cook for them and I’m not around. What I observed is that people who are broke are showing off and those who can afford don’t need validation from others. ❤️🙏

dude the faces you make when imitating people are awesome

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

lmao I'll do more

@KenGold666

6 ай бұрын

LOL this

@mariozerrini1408

6 ай бұрын

@@Denmosocial yes pleaseee

@1andonlytrapstar

6 ай бұрын

10:37 “ Heeyyy , Ayididayyy”

The thing that gets me is whenever I talk to someone about me taking my time a single guy in my early 20s to get out of debt, pursue a license at my work to make more money, and workout (pretty much all I do) and they're like "oh dude, you gotta enjoy your life. Go travel, do fun stuff, Yada yada." On one hand, I get it. Yes, I will only be 25 once, single with no kids and whatever, so I have minimal responsibilities. It's the easiest time to travel and do that stuff, but you know what else it is? It's the easiest time to figure your life out. That way you aren't 35 with a wife who you 2 have a combined $100k in consumer debt, a mortgage, 2 kids, no emergency fund, and a job that you hate. How hard does that sound to get out of? Drives me nuts that so many people fight me on this. Like I don't want to be like you. I want to own my life, not be slave to it and supplement everything to make it look like I'm doing well. I want to ACTUALLY be doing well

@hanseyl

6 ай бұрын

That's the exact discussion I keep on having with everypne around me. No one understands where I'm coming from

@albertguldbrandsen969

6 ай бұрын

yep of course have a day of once in a while but sort your shit out first for a couple of years and dont force yourself to have kids before you've lived and are stable

@ots9358

6 ай бұрын

I always tell people this and they look at me like I’m CRAZY! We have way too many examples around us to show us what works and what doesn’t. Being over 30 with no financial stability and with children is just not for me. Not following the norm will have people judging you. Backwards world we live in.

@denisblack9897

6 ай бұрын

The f are you talking about? People don’t have it together in their 40 20-25 is still kindergarten

@kishcub

6 ай бұрын

You do you bro ignore others opinions

Very honest, to the point of probably shtting on most of your audience. Wildly entertaining. A goal of mine for 2024 is to enjoy real life results, not social media presence. I’ve found myself spending more time in the last quarter of 2023 scrolling… and it brings no contention, happiness, but only distraction or envy. Not the way I should live my life. But I still like IG because it is a great place to store my memories and let people know what I enjoy (not food, not drinks, not travel).

I feel like if everyone had the confidence to be honest to themselfs and others we would make the world a way better place.

@TauruSeason

6 ай бұрын

I'm like that. Start by valuing me.

Everybody poops

I’ve learned the reason people lie and don’t admit things is because once you do friends and family talk more 💩 and kick a dog while it’s down or ask stupid questions like well have you done this? Why haven’t you.??? Etc. Instead of helping they usually just kick you down more and make you feel stupid

Love this, it's so true. I'm always honest if people ask me how I'm doing but most people can't handle the truth, they'd rather live a life of lies. I think people avoid me a lot of the times because I am too honest, they don't know how to respond

@sirlolsirbons2296

6 ай бұрын

Let's be honest if you were a npc wouldn't you ignore and trying to escape the truth?the answer is the the your answer

This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZread channel 10 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,866 subs and > 2k hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

Word up brotha , 2 jobs and uni full time we out here grinding no time for social media superficial crap

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

damn bro respect the grind

@Krokussify

6 ай бұрын

bro gonna make it

You just explained many problems of the modern day society very well. Social Media turned individuals into brands.

Thank you so much for giving these people a reality check.

Jack Harlow said it best, if you have enough money you don’t have to worry about anything. That’s in itself, is the ultimate flex. Not the car. House. All that jewelry. It’s just never stressing over bills and what you want. You did a one on al job expressing your thoughts here. Extremely clear, and concise. Subscribed. Make more videos like this. People need to wake up

@Girlyppop

6 ай бұрын

Jack Harlow put SO much women ON to that mindset! Now we doing a lot better than our fellow brothers, sons, fathers LOL 🧚🏻🫶🏻

I had some light mental health problems this year and decided to speak with schools psychologist. While I was there, she said there were a lot of people who had it much worse than me in the school. I've always thought everyone have perfect lives, but this made me realize we all fake it. We don't show it.

This isn’t an insensitive video, this is the truth! We are avoiding hard conversations like this! Appreciate somebody with a big following is saying what needs to be said

He touched up on every point why I closed my Instagram lol. I was way too caught up in what everyone else was doing but than I looked at my followers and I’m like “there’s only 2-3 people on here I even talk to, I don’t post anything, most of these people have nothing significant going on and I’m tripping because I think there life is better than mine while in the meantime, they’re just as lonely as I am or have self esteem issues deeper than tree roots”. Ngl our generation is an absolute joke, most people on the internet sugar coat the f*ck out of everything and not to mention the easy way out “solutions” most of these mental health KZreadrs give you all the excuses you need in order to stay stagnate in life

This video is exactly what I need! You don’t understand how accurate and valid your points were. I’m so happy I deleted all of my socials and gone into monk mode. Thank you bro💯

Definitely a tangent lol went from talking about high real estate cost at beginning of video, to end video about buying a house (great video btw) Everything you said is what I’m truly going through at the moment. Aside from hating the work I do & the ppl I work with, I work in fancy hotel in a real busy city & out here, just about everyone has adopted this NPC, sheeple, mindset. Ppl are afraid to be real. The spirit of camaraderie is dead.

I feel like I really needed this video. I HAVE been putting my life together, somewhat. Still have a long way to go. Still, NYE hit me a bit in my mental. Always does. I still feel like a failure. Still feel like I wasted my life. I still feel behind everyone else. Dunno where I was going with this. Godspeed this year, everyone. Hopefully things get better.

@jeffashley8172

6 ай бұрын

You’re not alone bro new years was really hard on my mental health as well last night. I feel the same way about putting my life together somewhat but there’s more to be done for sure. I still feel like a failure pretty much every day but this video made me realize how much of that is because of how I compare myself to others in my age group (mid 20s). Let’s kill it in 2024!

@beeleigh23

6 ай бұрын

NYE is a hollow celebration but everyone celebrates like they've won the lottery. Its essentially just a made up date. The real new year is the beginning of Spring when energies increase and the sun shines. Make that your NY & let others celebrate a fake calendar date.

I needed to hear this, I have been feeling so disappointed in myself lately, even though I've done great in the past few years, but always felt 'less than' ; I was feeling like I was going batsht crazy. Thank you very much man.

Good stuff buddy, I subbed. We need to talk about shit like this more. It’s bloody hard out there as a young man. I’ve usually been a pretty honest guy and I’ve noticed that the friends I used to have almost never admitted their mistakes/failures, it was only me. After some time I just felt like a complete failure, why is it always me with problems and not my friends? Anyway, Denmo summed it up pretty well.

imagine this is the first video someone watches from denmo and only watches the first 14 seconds lmao

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

lmao im hoping for that

@aj-ig6mg

6 ай бұрын

That's me! Never seen this dude before and I was fucking lost! Lol glad I stuck around for the rest.

A video nobody wanted but I for sure needed. I'll rewatch this every time I feel inferior and put myself down. Coming from a person with Asperger's syndrome, thank you for this testament 🙏

Sometimes, I feel like I'm the npc doing everything predictable and being below unique... just existing. I definitely know I am more than that; however, the way the world allows me to perceive it, it will always tell me I am nothing. So I have to tell myself I am something, and keep on improving.

amazing vid. been telling my friends about the exact same things and they call me "motivational speaker" instead of actually taking it in and actioning on it 👏🏾

Thanks for this Jack. Honestly needed it, been going through some shit recently and you came in clutch. Thanks buddy.

Assholeness helps to get out of the matrix. Keep it up dude. I'm 46 and still not out of it but your words are helping keep my eyes on the prize. Joining the app group

Hey new subscriber here, SO refreshing to hear an honest opinion. People are SO fake and I'm fed up of it. Leaving the matrix started 4 years ago, and I'm trying to give less of a toss about others opinions of me. Everyone IS struggling but pretending life is awesome. Life seems to be just a mirage to some.

I absolutely loved this video, especially the beginning. I once dated an underwear model. We went away on a trip for 7 days, 4 of which she spent with stomach flu and a cough. I spent 4 days watching this porcelain doll go through fevers, cough and diarrhea. The first few months of dating she acted like she never farted in her life but if she did, her farts would smell like jazmin; and she had a tendency to look down at everybody including me. Then nature humbled her inflated ego during our trip to the point that on our way back she quietly said "listen, if you no longer want to see me, that's ok, I understand". I responded with "yeah, I bet it'll be hard to look at me straight in the eyes after what we went through, and I say 'we' because trust me, that was brutal to watch." Normally I not only wouldn't say such thing, but wouldn't chose not to date someone after seeing them go through something I have been through myself, but her concern wasn't me, it was her knowing that I had seen her at her worst so far and she wasn't able to be reminded every time she saw me. But honestly, she looked hot even while power spraying the toilet and coughing! lmao

@HazzyWazzey

6 ай бұрын

Lmfao what a story 😂

@steaustin8789

6 ай бұрын

You grim farkers

@briskettacos

6 ай бұрын

Y'all both sound immature

Jack, you've changed my perspective on so many things. Keep crushing it bro. You're changing lives out here💪

@Denmosocial

6 ай бұрын

gotchu bro i wont let you down

You sound just like me 2 days ago, I was talking about how no one has a backbone anymore, scared to say no, always faking it.! I stopped living like that & I'm better now. It is impossible as a human to be happy 24-7, we are not made that way!!!

I got rid of all " look at me" friends, and it's worth it

@ItsAlwaysZero

6 ай бұрын

Yup 💯

Thank you for making this video. I remember that when I was a teenager (early 2000s), my family could afford to go to the mall and buy 3-4 carts of groceries with no problem whatsover. It was prior to the introduction of the european common currency, the Euro. Since then, purchase power went downhill and then the 2007 crisis hit. Hard. For years, I thought that the problem was that my country, Italy, was the issue, because of low productivity and relatively high levels of corruption. I thought that countries like the US, the UK, France and Germany were doing much better. Then I actually visited those countries and spoke with the locals and I realized that everywhere in the world: inflation and renting is skyrocketing, people are not as happy and wealthy as they pretend to be, the job market is getting difficult to access for everyone and... the wealthy are getting richer and richer. We were middle class, now the middle class is struggling, perhaps even vanishing. I'm not a communist and I root for a competitive free market, but the global situation is getting ridiculous. Eventually, when AI will cause a lot of lay offs, unemployed and desperate people will get on the streets and blood will be shed, like in the French revolution. Many believe that young generations are spineless retards glued to their phone, IG and Tik Tok, but eventually the wealthy privileged people will be targeted and violent times will come back. I'm afraid it's inevitable, and politicians will provoke some major war to postpone this

yeah forget social media, focus on optimising as many aspects of your life as possible without burning out ofc. Stay optimised stay empowered, don't just be a passive observer, dont be content with mediocrity. Create your hyper masculine character, become the best version of yourself, and cherish every day of your life doing it, its going to take years of hard work, persistence and discipline, embrace that

@laaaliiiluuu

6 ай бұрын

Exactly! Just do the best you can without destroying your health in the process. Everything else is just a distraction.

@ots9358

6 ай бұрын

This is literally the path I want to follow. Thanks for simplifying it for us brother!

@redpack7694

6 ай бұрын

Nah, people being content with mediocrity is the only reason others can become someone who isnt mediocre. Mediocre is average and without average you cant have "above average". Telling people to stop being content with what they already have is foolish.

@Newshustle

6 ай бұрын

Forget social media? This guy you just watched and who influenced you is a part of social media...

@joeorca5087

6 ай бұрын

Oh brother!!!!!

When you talked about not even standing up to bullies at work, it hit so hard because this was exactly what happened to my friend in the same workplace by the managers. They lied, manipulated and used those working under them, that it was borderline abuse and knew they could get away with it. I called it quits and left just as it got worse (wish I gave them an earful before then) and finally convinced my friend to leave too. Stop being a carpet, because your mental health, time and energy will be the expense. Thank you for this video, needed to hear these words.

It’s crazy how I’m 30 and it feels like he’s talking to me like he’s my big brother man 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 honestly love this bro immediately subscribing

I felt this video too much at 23 i feel like all ive done in life was be in the military and everyone looks like they got it together

This is incredibly valuable, start being honest and stop comparing yourself to everyone

Thank you Den, a lot of people need to see this. Coming from someone who has worked hard as well.

Man that intro was golden. I’m literally 60 seconds in and you got a like😂

Pictures of beautiful young women wearing bikinis chillin' on a yacht with the back drop of the light blue Mediterranean sea, but we don't see the wrinkly old men standing around who funded the whole experience 😂

This video is amazing and it’s crazy because I just did a shroom trip and it changed my life I’ve been hitting the gym for the past month and been working on my self. Just because of a trip I’m 21 in college and my heads down and I’ve been grinding. Keep prechin brother.

@ethanieldude1

5 ай бұрын

Shrooms saved my life 2 years ago. They're a fucking amazing thing. Haven't done them in a year now but the lessons they taught me and mental strength they gave me are unparalleled. There's a reason they're a Schedule I substance

This was a great video that really made me think. Sadly, a lot of what has been said is so true and it hurts to just stop and think for a moment how much social media is bad for our mental health, yet we keep giving in to this terrible way of living. Honestly I think here in the USA people are so lost, have way too much information overload and constantly need reassurance from fake anonymous people online. Social media is so toxic and creates this unrealistic expectation on people that they think everyone is living such perfect lives. Guess what, they don't live such great lives. You far better off focusing on yourself and just doing things that make you happy. I've already reduced my social media presence quiet a lot and probably will do more this year. I must say the pandemic also really damaged many peoples relationships. I lost a 20+ years old good friend of mine after the pandemic. It just created so much divide we ended up growing apart not talking to each other anymore.

The algorithm randomly recommend this video to me and damn I gotta say… I love your sense of humor and commentary so much! You’re literally my inner monologue LOL. Your perspective on people is so fucking spot on haha even down to your impressions of them is perfect 😂

Thank you for this video. I'm sure everyone these days believe everything they see on social media, seeing people living these flashy lives and showing only the highlights while the watchers are living some normal life "boring life" at home would make them depressed, it is extremely unhealthy.

You cannot beat apathy. Or indifference. I don't have any social media. I agree that pretending to be good when you arent just to appear better than you are is cringe. I think people who have to broadcast their lives are insecure, lacking purpose and thinking that if they put up a facade of one then they will get validation and that will artificially make them think better of themselves. It is all a joke really. You are what you are. For good or bad.

@swiftxrapid919

6 ай бұрын

youtube is social media lol

@Kevinleehiltonjr

6 ай бұрын

@@swiftxrapid919 is it really? I don't consider interactions few and far between amongst strangers to be very social media. More like social media-esque.

@TauruSeason

6 ай бұрын

​@@KevinleehiltonjrKZread is just social media for autists.

@lucycat4305

6 ай бұрын

@@Kevinleehiltonjr Exactly. It's not the same as fakebook or instagram. I've had more meaningful exchanges with strangers in the YT comments section than the fake exchanges I've seen on FB between people who know each other.

Nailed... every talking point in your outline - NAILED. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

Felt like I was having a real convo with a brother 🙏🏾 this was much needed.

Keep up the great work! Finally true, raw content about things that matter. You'll go far with this going forward

I do believe people say that they’re good because people want to hear the short version. I asked you how you were doing because it’s a polite thing to do. I didn’t ask you how you were doing for you to actually tell me. And sometimes I feel that we fake it just to get out of bed. And I think this guy is absolutely right we do need to stop caring about what others think of us. That includes people who sit there, and mock what we do to get through our day our lousy jobs, annoying girlfriends playing video games at the end of the day. It’s that person‘s business, because everybody else is doing their thing and it won’t affect them in the slightest. Yes life sucks. My life sucks…… and so what if I don’t wanna talk about it.

Nice to hear some real shit being called out. I have to say after being addicted to Social media in the beginning. Especially when smart phones came out and finally waking up one day and realizing it was stupid I've felt so much better. It's hard to stay happy in this world I'm down plenty but I focus on the beautiful things I do have.

Thanks, man. It is really hard to admit we have a problem, and most of the time we choose to pretend that we're fine