Groomzilla “Will Have His Opinion Heard” | Say Yes To The Dress: Bridesmaids
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Heather brings her fiancé along to the bridesmaids' dress appointment, but his strong personality sparks tension between him and the bride.
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After he said, are you going to pick something ugly so you look better, she should tell him where to go. Not to the altar.
@Noorjahan-NJ
4 ай бұрын
She should have said” that is exactly why I picked you darling”
@annagraser5088
4 ай бұрын
She is suppose to look better than the bridesmaids.
@anapineda3860
4 ай бұрын
Hombre más feo, los hombres no te tratan así, espacialmente de novios, I’m so sorry for her
@dolorescastillo2518
4 ай бұрын
I would have called off the wedding
@agnestrzeciak7996
4 ай бұрын
Exactly
The words coming from this guy’s mouth are horrible! He is insulting the bride’s intelligence and beauty. He has clearly demonstrated his control issues and contempt for her opinions. She should run now or better yet, say “I don’t at the altar.
@dietotaku
4 ай бұрын
if i had a nickel for every time some bride comes in with her controlling, abusive fiance and reveals that HE CHOOSES HER CLOTHES FOR HER, i would be able to buy twitter AND elon musk himself.
@buckwheatusfeatus4825
4 ай бұрын
Things are only going to get worse too with his loud mouth. Especially if he is as spiteful and threatening as he is about the tuxes.
@dreamsofturtles1828
4 ай бұрын
The bridesmaids all looked scared.
@leona200771
4 ай бұрын
So groomzilla he is that he had to interfere with the bride's & bridesmaid?? Has he got nothing to do for himself?? OMG, it will make me think many2 time to get married to him if I'm in the bride's shoes....
I would have handed him back the engagement ring and walked out. the amount of disrespect the groom showed is ridiculous
@ros8986
4 ай бұрын
she should keep the ring.
@MarlaJMatney
3 ай бұрын
She needs to break up with him
I don’t like the groom’s attitude at all. She better think twice before she marries him.
When she said he had picked out her outfit that day, you knew he was there to control the whole day. I'm glad she stood her ground on her choice, but I think she is in for some major struggles.
@t.s3994
4 ай бұрын
Also the way she said, "If he thinks something that's how it is." That's more than a strong personality, that's controlling
@annephillips1870
4 ай бұрын
He practically has coercive control tattooed on his forehead.
@BE-bs8oe
4 ай бұрын
Yes and how come it is not sexy at all and fully covering ?! It shows for him it's all about seeing sexy chicks on his weddingday, a huge dangerous no go for this narcissist pervert
@dreamsofturtles1828
4 ай бұрын
@@t.s3994 That is a huge , bright red flag about the size of Texas. This is not someone to learn & grow up together with.
Ok he needs to shut up and go away. I don't see the marriage lasting.
@user-vl8qw8hp1g
4 ай бұрын
I don't see this wedding happening
Wow....she may be the only female on THIS EARTH that would marry him!! God bless her.
@Ayichick
4 ай бұрын
hhahahahahaha, I totally agree
@kellymadison3351
4 ай бұрын
I bet they’re divorced by now!
@J.W.vanVeen
4 ай бұрын
Good luck with "it"!! 😂😂
Holy red flags, Batman! The fact that he feels entitled to “punish” her with padfor defying his “authority!”
@dreamsofturtles1828
4 ай бұрын
He openly admits hes vindictive. Honey, if its like this with dresses, its going to be like this with every other issue that comes up. I predict disaster- or her just learning to curl up in a ball and lose herself. Not any way to live.
@Darapsa
4 ай бұрын
I dread how he would treat their children.
His attitude is concerning
@sarahnewby2044
4 ай бұрын
I totally agree. He needs to go. There are quite a few BIG RED FLAGS! I married someone similar to that. Finally got rid of him. No way would I ever be with someone like that.
@devangel3614
4 ай бұрын
Yes, RUN!!! Cancel the wedding and have a party.
@devangel3614
4 ай бұрын
She will be made to hear about this in some way again and again for not valuing HIS opinion and emasculating him and his belief that HIS decisions and value is ABOVE her. RUN baby RUN. This behavior in public hints at a future of emotional abuse and possibly DV. If you have been there, you know what I am talking about.
@paulaosborne6478
4 ай бұрын
Yes I have been there and know exactly. Mine did turn violent. I got free. I found a wonderful man and have been remarried happily for 24 almost 25 years. I hope she realizes her misfortune before she says I do.
@devangel3614
4 ай бұрын
@@paulaosborne6478 I am so sorry that this happened to you too, you are brave and it is important that all women who have been there speak out. Too many women stay due to being ashamed, fear, finances and are not getting away and getting help. Some die. I am glad you survived and are happy!!! Thanks for sharing, this is so important.
This whole episode feels scripted to me and if it is not, she must run as fast as she can AWAY from this bombastic person. He will grow worse, not better.
That bride needs to RUN in the opposite direction of her groomzilla
Hope the bride canceled the wedding and ran far and fast away from him.
@debisybesma5855
4 ай бұрын
she said she zeroed in on him at first sight so then it's a question of how much crap she wants to eat and for how long. and then too.....there ARE people who "need" to be.....?......?......yeah..... personally i wouldn't last for 5 minutes even being around him but that's jus' me....peace.
@ameliafroehlich2577
4 ай бұрын
They ended up married.
This is a red flag in any relationship. Watch out & be very careful 🙏🏻
I love how the groom thinks he knows fashion and yet the picks he did were just plain awful
@jeswainston
4 ай бұрын
Honestly I liked the dark blue one in the last round of dresses, I didn’t like the red one either LOL
@Jupiterseason
3 ай бұрын
@@jeswainston I didn't like ANY of them 😂
YIKES, major warning signs. This guy is a control-freak, and he has very little consideration for others. He's also manipulative, and he's viewing marriage as a power struggle rather than a relationship where both submit to the other, always looking for the others best interests. THOSE are happy marriages. This guy is going to be a nightmare to be married to. I feel for her!
Wow is he serious? He's awful to her, why can't she see how spiteful he is?!? I wonder where they are now
Bride.... RUN He's a damn jerk... He's threatening you! Threatening to ruin it.... That's NOT lovingly planning your wedding WITH you
He doesn't want his guys next to an ugly dress so to spite the bride he's going to put the guys in ugly tuxes? She needs to re-think her decision to marry this guy.
What he means is, "I'm going to have the last say", because he isn't taking into account what his bride to be wants and throws out that it's his wedding, too, to shut her down. Asspole
If I were in her place the only thing that would go far away would have been the groom himself. he is behaving like a high school bully.
I am curious if this marriage was a success or a fail. I see struggles for them in the future.
THEE WRONG ONE 😂😂😂
This marriage isn't going to last more than a couple of years. This woman's about as vibrant as gray lint, and it's clear by the groom's tone of voice that he's starting to reach a point of "NO MORE". Geez, if people spent more time getting to know the person they declare their forever person than they do evaluating a pair of shoes the divorce rate might go down.
While I appreciate a groom saying "it's my wedding too" and wanting to be involved instead of just leaving it as "woman's work", the only places he really gets no say is with the bride's dress, and anything to do with the bridesmaids (within reason). Everything else, your opinion is equally valid, but not on the dress or bridesmaids, full stop.
Imagine his arrogant attitude while he's raising children ... little children ... teens ... What a nightmare from hell.
@dietotaku
4 ай бұрын
lol bless your heart if you think he's going to have anything to do with raising the children, as opposed to just barking orders at his wife and criticizing her execution of his wishes.
@WhirledPublishing
4 ай бұрын
My comment refers to the hell this lunatic will create for the children living in his home - if you're saying he will have no impact on the raising of the children, go bless your own ignorant arrogance.
This poor bride is in for a rough marriage. Totally passive aggressive!
Yaaa... this would definitely be in my memory bank of whether or not to go through with the wedding. 😅
HOW DARE HE? He is so far beyond AWFUL! Get him, not outta THERE, but out of the bride's LIFE! He wants "a wonderful, long marriage with her"?
If she marries him she is crazy.
@J.W.vanVeen
4 ай бұрын
Poor girl.. 😢
The groom’s thought process is ,”Do it my way, or I will get revenge”
Her friends didn't seem to like him, an that's so telling. They're there because they love her, but they're gonna celebrate if she leaves him
@user-nt9yx7ph1h
4 ай бұрын
IKR. Her friends seem to be afraid of him. You can tell the poor bride is. He is definitely mentally abusive. Let pray he's not physically abusive also. I kinda feel that he will turn physical.
Jason claims to know about fashion. REALLY??? He picked out one of the ugliest dresses....lol
Found the original video airing from years ago. One of the bridesmaids left a comment, Meagan. She said the drama was manufactured for the show. It's all fake. They are still married. Everyone is happy and fine. The only reason the bridesmaids looked uncomfortable was not because they were afraid of Jason, but because they were young and felt awkward in front of the cameras.
@edgygyal
4 ай бұрын
Why did he come to appointment in first place??
@mylifeaslori5629
4 ай бұрын
I'm not buying it.
Red flags girl - red flags so get out now.
Does he realize this is his future wife and not a private in the army that he can command around? Not sure he does.
@rachelmm05
4 ай бұрын
For some guys it's actually a struggle not to be harsh and demanding at home especially when the job calls for it. Turning off the military leader and just be a normal husband is a challenge for many
@oreotookie
4 ай бұрын
@@rachelmm05 I know 4 military couples. Three of the four have terrible marriages/are divorced because the military spouse was demanding at home. The fourth is an amazing husband and is really kind. His kids respect him but he respects them too. He asked to not be sent to an embassy in a socially regressive country because he didn’t want to do that to his daughters. He knew the military had final say, but they respected his request. He made it clear to his girls that he was going to do everything in his power to do what’s best for them. I respect the hell out of him and his family. The other three families… the military spouse is an ass. If you can’t turn it off, don’t start a family and put them through that.
Cancel the wedding, this marriage ain't worth the paperwork !
Yeah he's so self-controling she's got her eyes blinded
He is one big red flag! He picks out what she will wear that day? He got his fashion sense by shopping with his mom? Does he not know only the bride wears white? He is very controlling. RUN GIRL Run!!!
Maybe you shouldn't marry him
She should run from this guy!! She is making a BIG mistake.
Why do the bridesmaids look like they are abused?
@mariesmith1616
4 ай бұрын
Because they feel the tension between the bride and groom.
@J.W.vanVeen
4 ай бұрын
And because they are!!
Oh honey! Run far and quiick!
I get that it is his day as well as hers, but he says its a joint decision then tells her unless she picks what he wants then he is going to ruin the groomsmens outfits tbh he is acting like a control freak and making himself look like a AH
Hes giving off warning signs big time...run
He’s gonna make a horrendous spouse … she should run now❗️
The groom talks like he is paying for the wedding instead of the brides family!
I really hate that guy 😡😖
Opinionated? Bully is more like it!
I didn't have a wedding dress as such, but we went together and chose something we BOTH liked. And I looked great. We chose his suit together. And HE looked great. And we had a fun time.
Yeah there’s a marriage that won’t last long. Run for the hills girl.
He’s a fashionista? Ahahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂
He "chose" her outfit. I hope he's not the type who tells her what to wear, how her hair should look, etc. I'm seeing definite red flags here.
He’s not worthy
DON"T marry this spiteful bully!!!!! PLEASE!
This video makes me glad that my fiancé wants me to take over the whole wedding. It’s stressful and can make for some awful arguments between folks. I only need one cook in the kitchen. 😂
Odds on this marriage never happened OR she took his copious ass to divorce court within the first year. He's impossible. I wouldn't marry that under any circumstances.
No!!! The navy blue with off the shoulder train (?) is perfect!
It speaks volumes about the strength of their relationship that they're both trying to out-spite each other. He's declaring he'll pick the ugliest tuxes and she's declaring she'll be MIA on her wrdding day, and all over what the wedding party is gonna wear! Seriously??? THIS is what you deem a strong enough relationship to bond yourself to? Priorities. Are you getting married for the show of the day, or are you getting married to bond to one person for life because they're they ONE? It's really pathetic.
@citytrees1752
4 ай бұрын
I can only imagine how horrible he will be regarding decisions about kids.
@dietotaku
4 ай бұрын
i hope for her sake she IS MIA on the wedding day.
But I just love how those girls kept quiet through it all out of respect for her but when it came down to it, unanimously picked the bride's favourite! She's got some good friends on her side.
He is horrible.
I don’t think she should marry that man.
@citytrees1752
4 ай бұрын
nobody should
Bride says he has a strong personality that’s putting it mildly-he’s a jerk and she deserves better
I love how the brother is backing up the groom on the spite tuxedos when the bride picked the dress HE picked out! 🙄🤣 You know inside he was secretly doing a pirouette!
Those bridesmaids looked terrified of the groom.
DONT WEAR WHITE TO A WEDDING!! ONLY THE BRIDE CAN WEAR WHITE WHAT THE HELL IS HE THINKING!?
‘then we’re gonna get a drink’ 💀💀 i love lori
I've been with my husband 7 years and never once has he picked out my outfit. Thats control my dear. Run...fast.
Here's a snapshot of your future.
He's a walking red flag. Poor woman is in for some likely DV if she didn't leave him
Dear Bride: RUN
The way hes weaponizing the choices SHES supposed to make is SUPER MANIPULATIVE
"We finish each other's sentences!" But his first thought is to sabotage your entire wedding if you don't just blindly follow his awful taste in bridesmaid dresses... I guess you didn't wanna finish that particular sentence for him!!
The groom is sounding very controlling. And that's the BIGGEST red flag.
Divorce in 2 years
@BasicYTHandle
4 ай бұрын
WAY less than that.
He is toooo Sasssyyyyy
He wants the bridesmaids to look sexy? Run, bride, run
I pray this was acting. If not, she should say, "Here's the ring back. See ya later, dude."
As well as his appalling behaviour, the fact that her entourage clearly f-ing DESPISE that vile man is a gigantic red flag. I really hope the bride is safe and well.
Girl ......RUN!!! That man is wrong!!!!!!!!!!
Shut it JASON - you are only expressing your "WILL" to act contrary and vindictive - hope you know what's at stake. Marriage is all about love, respect, and the willingness to compromise. Your first big test is a FAIL
Can't even stand watching this episode - that man is so rude.
He wants to spite her? Run, girl!
The way he wants them to look it's like he don't want to look at his to be bride 🤣🤣🤣
According to the Groom "We will make our decision together. Just as long my decision is the one that counrs!"
What a horrible, petty, nasty and controlling wretched groom he is. Don't hear them ending each other's sentences as she claimed. He is too unpleasant to be considered for marriage!
Best wishes to the happy couple. 😳
@ginaandseason2774
4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😮
Pretty sure they are divorced by now.
Bride: we finish each other's sentences! Reality: he won't let her finish a sentence without interrupting
Narcissist. He should marry himself.
She needs to run away! Just because you fell at first sight, you can still change your mind. This is a taste of what your life will be like
As they say... Well that's how the fight started.😅😅
She says she doesn’t want the bridesmaid dresses too sexy, but her wedding gown is a sheer lace, lingerie type top on it!
What a jerk! I'd love to know if they're still married! 😮
He also picked her dress for the day.. 😵
Holy shit he is so rude if my partner ever said or tried to pull that stunt I would tell him where to go and he would never see me again
The groom has no say so. He should worry about the groomsman. It's the brides decision not his.
This guy his narcisst. If she marry him. I can assure to the most 1 year. She will file for divorce.
Why would I want to marry a guy who wants to gawk at the bridesmaids??? You can see the bridesmaids dont like him
That guy had all the signs of being very controling! He could also be an abusive husband...all the signs were there!! Run girl...RUN!!
Run don’t walk away 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️