Bride Feels Completely Overwhelmed Trying To Pick The Perfect Dress | Say Yes To The Dress UK
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Joma needs a dress to help her feel super confident on her big day, but gets completely overwhelmed when she can't find the right one.
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She is the very proof that losing weight doesn’t mean you instantly love yourself and how you look. It took me a while to find the perfect dress but I’m so glad I haven’t had to change my shape to feel comfortable in it. I’ve found the dress that fits me and I’ve not made myself fit the dress. Such a shame people feel this way.
@lishaannjose349
6 жыл бұрын
The Daisy Jaynes soo true...!
@lillmango
5 жыл бұрын
I found it hard too when I was shopping. I was so not happy in my body and I’m sure I tried on at least 30 gowns too. Thankfully I had a really helpful consultant who helped me feel beautiful.
@aurora5481
5 жыл бұрын
Fat people, fat women especially, are being very much sold the idea that all your problems will go away if you just lose weight. It's worth remembering that someone is profiting off it, whether through diet pills or having to buy less fabric. There's not a magical weight or size where you'll love and be happy when you get there, you'll be happy when you are love yourself regardless of how your body changes or what it looks like.
@alcyonae
5 жыл бұрын
Aurora Häkli Confidence is everything, and nobody should feel insecure about their shape or who they are. I love self acceptance as long as it’s not to the detriment of self-improvement. You can look and should feel beautiful no matter the weight, just know that in the long term, excess weight causes problems, if not now, but in a decade or two. At the end it’s one’s choice and the more power to them. It’s not about being judged, but about living a fulfilled life.
@aurora5481
5 жыл бұрын
@@alcyonae Can we stop adding that to the end of sentences when talking about fat people not wanting to hate themselves? They know, they are already told that every time they visit a doctor to the point where even medical professionals won't look at other causes for their symptoms. Especially when us skinny people don't get that half as often, even though weight loss and undernourishment are often more deadly than the same changes to the other direction.
She really is too hard on herself. She didn't look ridiculous in any of those dresses!
@PadmeAmidalaEdits
6 жыл бұрын
SoCalledKaty o agree with u 100% for that
@susanmurphy958
5 жыл бұрын
She's beautiful. She just lacks confidence. Where is her Mother to reassure her and be there for her?
@cherylcoomes6739
5 жыл бұрын
Agree
@JustActNormal
4 жыл бұрын
Stop virtue signaling
@mariafernandavelascohernan5839
4 жыл бұрын
@@JustActNormal she looked gorgeous in every dress she wore.
We women need to be more confident snd unapologetic about our bodies! Her figure is so nice i wish she knew that
@WorldofVinee
6 жыл бұрын
Ese Kanayo just loved ur thought...most of the body shaming starts at home.. So. That should be stopped.
@lunav.1428
6 жыл бұрын
Ese Kanayo 🙏👑
@Ok-vr8fu
6 жыл бұрын
noRebrand she’s not obese lmao
@Ok-vr8fu
6 жыл бұрын
noRebrand ?? What do you know about her to be assuming she “experiences” all those diseases?? Sure it’s a common thing that happens if you’re obese but she’s not obese, maybe she’s a bit overweight but definitely not obese lol and there’s a difference. Also, you can’t judge a person based on how they look, it depends on her BMI and her lifestyle. If she’s eating healthy and does exercises regularly, she’s considered healthy. And she’s on a journey trying to be healthier so geez no need to be so rude lol
@kajka982
6 жыл бұрын
ily xx Exactly!! She even mentioned that she's trying to lose as much weight as possible! I believe this uneducated human being (norebrand)just saw the thumbnail and didn't even bother to watch the video before coming into the comment section and bodyshaming this beautiful girl... I'm seriously not surprised that she is so insecure if she has to deal with dickheads like this all her life
Her entourage are so supportive too. Love it.
@cicia949
6 жыл бұрын
Fazerella right, beautiful friends! !!
I really felt for her when she was crying. I hope she feels confident during her wedding day but also every day. Adjusting to a new body after weight loss can be difficult!
@infiniteworlds5
6 жыл бұрын
Heck yes! after being a size 22 and having weight loss surgery, I feel like all my friends are mad at me for being smaller than them. I HATE it!
@oyinb337
6 жыл бұрын
Infinite Worlds you need some new friends! Congratulations on the weight loss!
@infiniteworlds5
6 жыл бұрын
I FEEL like they are, but they are proud of me in reality. Thanks so much!
@alixe4226
6 жыл бұрын
Infinite Worlds keep doing what you’re doing! Congrats on the weight loss :)
@mademoiselleso6587
6 жыл бұрын
Its hard to look at yourself after weight loss, because you see parts that needs "work" even more. I was a size 16(Canada) and I am now size 6, and in front of the mirror, many times, I still see size 16. Wishing for a more toned tummy and getting rid of the thick thighs. I feel her somehow, we are our worst critic.
All the people discussing that men prefer curvy over bony or anything..loving your body is about you not about men..I would love to be a perfect figure for myself not for what men prefer..for once ITS NOT ABOUT MEN
@dghappier
5 жыл бұрын
Rashi Koranne amennnnnn loveeee that
@alexwhichone
5 жыл бұрын
Preach girl
@whataboutredlorry
5 жыл бұрын
I'll say - who gives a FUCK what men like. Look how YOU want to look and feel comfortable... if dumbass men have a problem with that, too bad.
@kpopfreak1777
5 жыл бұрын
If u are happy with your body, don't worry about men, because then you will attract the right one either way. He will like u the way you are, not the way your body is.
@mangoteeth1290
5 жыл бұрын
amen!
She pulls off a mermaid dress better than anyone I've seen. I usually don't like them. Also, she seems super sweet and chill.
it wasnt that she felt unhappy about her body in the second dress, it was that she felt pressured to like it and didnt know how to express it. she looked beautiful but she didnt feel confident and comfy and herself in that dress and she shouldnt have to compromise for the consultants. she made a confident choice of not choosing it and that was awesome.
The consultant was a little harsh to the bride which made her emotional but David was very warm and her friends were very supportive
The second dress was beautiful o n her 😍 Be confident girl you are beautiful 😘
@kimberlyk912
5 жыл бұрын
Maina woo bin I AGREE with you, if she would have been more confident....the 2nd dress looked GREAT ON HER!!!
@pin0520
5 жыл бұрын
We have the same thought
@lozzylols
5 жыл бұрын
I agree the second dress was amazing, the halter neck was soooo her! It makes her boobs look fab x
@ankitanath7338
5 жыл бұрын
That looked BEAUTIFUL
@fostermomjudy6962
4 жыл бұрын
Agreed - the second dress was lovely and flattering on her.
The first dress looked amazing on her. They should have added the veil with that dress to show her how good she looked. With the right makeup and hairstyle she would be a total stunner.
@jonquilgemstone
6 жыл бұрын
Martinitime She seemed like she could barely move. Plus, it just wasn't right for her. You liking that style better doesn't mean she would have loved it.
@userbunny14
4 жыл бұрын
Even if she loved the way it looked, it's clear she couldn't move well in it. Who wants to shuffle down the aisle?
@ewachowaniec1407
3 жыл бұрын
yes, this first dress was great! the point is, she could not move in it... so it was not comfortable to wear for many hours... - this is important, too
This was an emotional episode. The bride is just so sweet and looks AMAZING and the entourage is just so nice.
She says she’s being fussy and not liking the dresses when she’s only tried like 2 on hahah it takes time and lots of tryings on!
@3489805jpm
6 жыл бұрын
Olivia Violet she's tried 2 there but around 1:38 she says that she's tried over 30!
@infiniteworlds5
6 жыл бұрын
They only show a couple of the dresses they tried on.
@kajka982
6 жыл бұрын
Olivia Violet Agreed, but I kinda understand her. I am also ashamed of my body (the only difference being that I'm really skinny and in my eyes it just disgusts me - not saying that skinny women aren't beutiful, but I just can't look at myself and go "wow, I feel confident in my own skin") and I can imagine how frustrating it is to be choosing the "perfect" dress for your big day. I would probably break down after two or three dresses as well... ^^"
@vilwarin5635
6 жыл бұрын
True, and it seems they picked the wrong shape for her too, is not her fault
@infiniteworlds5
6 жыл бұрын
It sucks that society has made us hate our own bodies. Try to not think of how you look, but what you do. Go out and DO things you'd never considered. DO fun things! LIVE!! As you'd never allowed yourself to.
People pleasing is a problem..I have it too...I totally understand her...
The first dress made her figure look so slim with a hourglass, how did she hate it🤔🌹
@jonquilgemstone
6 жыл бұрын
Jana 101 It was uncomfortable, and just not for her. To be honest, it made her belly more prominent. The others accented her slimmer waist without showing that little belly-bulge, and they suited her personality more.
@itsameprincesspeach
5 жыл бұрын
She said it was too tight. I mean shes gonna be eating and dancing and sitting. That might be constricting
@ThePOPDIVA24
5 жыл бұрын
I think it was the bottom portion of the dress that she was unhappy with.
@K.aylarenae
5 жыл бұрын
ThePOPDIVA24 And the fact that is was so tight she could barely breathe 💀
@kjs498
5 жыл бұрын
It looked like her boobs were gonna fall out of that one at any moment.
Her head is wrapped around what her fiancé wants, what he likes to see and nothing about what she wants and how she wants to look. I work with brides day in and day out and I think groom shouldn’t have a say what a bride should wear. Let the girl wear what she wants, you are marrying her no matter what!
Her eyes are so big and pretty
@MMmm-bg9li
6 жыл бұрын
Snizz .I pretty sure it’s because of the glasses
@Ok-vr8fu
6 жыл бұрын
Yea I was really curious about it, I kept looking at the eyes xD it’s so adorable lol
@bambi7563
5 жыл бұрын
Erin x it's cause the glass in her glasses is really fat and is distorting her eyes to look like that
@kbunzzzz
5 жыл бұрын
God damn it's her glasses the struggle is real with glasses
I think she looked the best and the slimmest in the first dress. It’s a shame she couldn’t see how great she looked in it.
@vilwarin5635
6 жыл бұрын
She said it was unconfortable, and I think I would feel the same. That kind of shape forces you to walk in small steps and is very weird if you are not used to it. Is like high heels, they are amazing, but if they doesn´t feel ok they are a nuissance
@danielledenis9863
6 жыл бұрын
I thought she looked AMAZING in dress 1!!!
@jonquilgemstone
6 жыл бұрын
Catimus Prime I thought the discomfort was too evident to really say it was the best for her. I say the way the wearer carries herself accounts for over half the look, and she seemed like she could barely move.
@nein2883
5 жыл бұрын
She felt uncomfortable in it, its not about you its about her and her big day
@userbunny14
4 жыл бұрын
I think she saw it, she even said she liked how it sucked her in. Some brides just don't like the restrictiveness of a fitted gown regardless of how they look. You have to be comfortable too! I love how that dress looks, but I wouldn't wear it on my day because its physically too tight around the thighs to be able to walk and move how I want to.
Aw I love her. I wish I can give her a hug and tell her how beautiful she is
The 2nd dress looks stunning on her!!!
@laurelflint3153
4 жыл бұрын
I agree!! I was shocked, that she reacted so negatively about it...Poor honey! She looked beautiful in all three of the dresses.
This girl doesn't realize how beautiful she is. Girl you have a great body. Rock it!
2nd dress looked so pretty on her !! She looked beautiful in every dress !!
The first dress looks terribly uncomfortable.
I said Awwwww out loud when she put on the third dress. She looked so amazing.
Lovely bride with such lovely friends. It’s so good to see friends that a truly supportive.
I think that it’s crazy how I see her body as beautiful and incredible (just like most of the ppl watching) and she does not see it. Makes me sad cause I feel like she thinks that everyone else sees and thinks what she does but we’re not and I wish she knew that
I really love Joma 's floral printed dress !!!
@thetravellingnanny5669
6 жыл бұрын
It's a dress from ASOS from about 5 years ago. I have it in my closet 😊
At 5:35 The Exorcist's theme plays, LOL what the crap??!
@hotbambi2010
5 жыл бұрын
UltraCalibur was thinking the exact same thing lol
The second dress looked great on her. Poor girl
Okay but can we also appreciate how gorgeous she looks in that floral dress she wears to the appointment 😍
@gardenjoy5223
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry, can't agree.
the dress she chose compliments her body & I like it
I love how the bridal shop hugs and really steps in to create a wonderful experience for the bride, especially brides whose parents aren't there. Cudos!!
Her friends are so kind and encouraging
“Spin round dahling”
Awww her crying made me cry!! It really is heartbreaking how she was feeling about herself and how many can relate but she looked absolutely stunning in all three!!!
Say yes to the white dress really sparks one and is a comfy wedding prep
My heart breaks for her. I can completely relate as a bride to be who lost a lot of weight and found it difficult to pick a dress because I’m also a people pleaser. In the end I finally picked the dress of my dreams, but it was a very anxiety provoking process and I second guessed myself on every dress until I found “the one”. Lots of love to my fellow brides out there ❤️
Bless her! I can totally understand! And, that woman!!! “I am concerned for you that you are finding fault with every dress.”!!! Really??? What a reassuring statement! NOT!!! I hope you found your dress, Bride 💕💕💕
Joma if I had your skin I would be super fricking confident, relax haha
Any odd else appreciate the poltergeist music in this episode 😂
The second one looks lovely on her omg 😍
Aww sweetie don't cry you are beautiful
I love the top! But my fav part of this was seeing how her confidence transformed and her friends are so supportive and the consultants did a fabulous job as always being there to be the main confidence boosters anyone could ask for.
I felt her so much. I understand . I am so glad she didn't settle and continued to try until she was happy!
Wowsa made me cry that those were her inner thoughts :( so glad she has great friends!!
I love all the support she got from her friends and the staff.
That third dress was the only one that didn’t really look that good on her. The other two dresses were amazing on her.
I love how positive her friends were
Her eyes are so beautiful 😍
I want to hug her so bad, when I saw her crying I started tearing up a bit, I wish she knew that she is beautiful , she has such a great personality and a beautiful figure.
the 2nd dress was it ... she looked amazeballs
I know she said the first dress wasn't too comfortable but it looked the best on her!
No dear don't apset u looking so beautiful and geurgeos be happy
@anastasiyaa_96
6 жыл бұрын
Sahil Khan yes I agree
@syedaafsanakeya8126
6 жыл бұрын
Upset* Gorgeous*
@emiliawilson4378
6 жыл бұрын
Syeda Afsana Keya You want a cookie?
@syedaafsanakeya8126
6 жыл бұрын
Gay Gallavich Love is he your boyfriend?
What a lovely and gorgeous lady. She looks great! So glad she found the dress for her ❤️
Wow! She looks gorgeous in every dress she tries on!
The 3rd dress was lovely, yet I do think the 2nd dress looked great on her, she just wasn’t ready to accept it which was a pity!
it really doesn’t matter what size as long as you pic a dress that compliments your figure that’s y they have so many styles
The princess dress is absolutely beautiful on her. She looks AMAZING
That last dress was STUNNING on her. Her friends were so supportive as well. Having lost weight myself, I really struggled to even see a slight change in my body when I looked in the mirror, even when everyone else said they could see a noticeable change. Joma looks amazing and I’m so glad she found a dress that she loves!
The second dress looked great!The final dress was nice,too💙
She looks AMAZING in these dresses. I love the first one! Her curves are amazing.
I sort of understand how she feels. Im also trying to lose weight. And there are days that you feel that you're winning the battle, but there are also days that everything feels and look wrong. Honest complements and support from love ones really helps
She looks stunning, it's a shame she can't see how amazing she looks.
Actually I loved all the dresses on her. She's absolutely lovely ♥
Lovedddd her in the first dress!!! She is beautiful in whatever!
She looks lovely. Sad that she doubts herself. Brought me to tears.
Her eyes are amazing!
I’m not sure why but I really really liked this girl, and I’ve watched dozens of these brides try dresses on. Something about her. I really really hope she develops the confidence she deserves!!
She chose the right dress. She can move with it, she feels comfortable in it. It's her.
@gardenjoy5223
3 жыл бұрын
It fits more to the ugly duckling, she is leaving behind, than to the beautiful swan, she is turning into.
She has great friends!
She looks beautiful in everything Low self esteem is a devil
She looked amazing in every dress I don't know how did she felt ridiculous in any of them. She's beautiful 😍❤️
Bless her. I hope she finds her confidence and can overcome her self doubts. She seems so sweet but is putting too much pressure on herself and her looks to validate everything about her.
her eyes are so so pretty
She is such a beautiful and lovely lady. One of life's gems.
This is the best channel ever
@sarahkinsey5434
6 жыл бұрын
Kailee Becker I can't stop watching these clips!
I think the first dress was grt n fitted her well,but afterall its her day n her choice
I just wanted to give her a hug.
her eyes are so beautiful!!!
The first one seems to be too unconfortable for most of the people IMO. Is too tight around the knees, and force you to take very small steps. Perhaps another one with higher waist would be nice for her too (though I liked the choosen one) The one they choose with the v-neck was ridiculous on her
Wow she can pull off any dress, lovely!
Girl, you look amazing.
I love her entourage sm 😭😍
SHE LOOKS AMAZING!!!!!!
Poor girl. She is really insecure. So she tried to find fault in every dress she tried on.
@ratata365
6 жыл бұрын
MAY Pornpan idk the first two were crap dresses
@yammay29
6 жыл бұрын
ratata I find the first one looks good on her tho
@ratata365
6 жыл бұрын
MAY Pornpan i don't think it was supporting her, tbh. And enhancement of the chest area is making her look overall bigger than she is. The third one is definitely the most slimming and elegant :(
@dancingfirefly7761
6 жыл бұрын
MAY Pornpan Exactly! She finds fault with the dresses, but it's herself she's not happy with.
@K.aylarenae
5 жыл бұрын
Karen Fuller The first one was too tight That not “finding fault” 😂 I’m pretty sure she wants to be able to breathe and move The 2nd one just didn’t look good on her And she right, it was ugly as hell 💀
She is sooo pretty in the final dress!!!
She found a dress that suits her personality and makes her feel comfortable
She looked AMAZING in the second dress.
She looks lovey in this dress!
'im scared your finding faults in all the dresses' she's literally tried two? wtf give them more options!
@halliehurst4847
6 жыл бұрын
Nadir they try on loads more they don’t show
@jonquilgemstone
6 жыл бұрын
Nadir She said she had tried on 30 dresses in other places that day.
@MissGio12
5 жыл бұрын
It was that comment that made her cry... not cool
@angelicavargas2314
5 жыл бұрын
MissJoannis it’s a comment that made her realize what she was doing which brought her to tears, it’s good that they pointed it out or else they probably never would’ve gotten to the issue.
@Angie-zk4ei
4 жыл бұрын
@@MissGio12 I agree. I found that very rude. She has the right to dislike the dresses they picked for her to try on.
My husband loves my curves and if I lost weight he would still love me. If he lost or gained weight I would still love him. Hes my everything!
@RamaNasikkar
3 жыл бұрын
That's really sweet ❤
The dress she chose was precious. I am glad she found what she was looking for. I hope her confidence improves. She is a very pretty girl.
She looked amazing in her dress😍
The first dress is beautiful
She looked gorgeous in the last one 😍
I absolutely loved the second dress on her
She looked beautiful in the first. But I’m glad she found a dress that she loved 😍
Friend goals
2nd dress is the right dress for her..its beautiful and fit to her..
Love the dress she chose...looks so. beautiful on her x