FTM Phalloplasty Appointment Turned Pre-op

I went down to San Francisco for an appointment with Dr. Chen and unfortunately was met with some bad news.
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  • @Codytalks11
    @Codytalks116 жыл бұрын

    For some reason the last like 10 seconds of my video gets cut off but most people won't notice because who watches to the end anyways?! Anywho, if you made it to the end, thank you for watching, peace out, and I'll see you next time :)

  • @technicoloryaya549

    @technicoloryaya549

    6 жыл бұрын

    Cody_talks... I'm not sure if it's because I have this compunction to finish what I start or because I actually like what you chat about, but I actually watch to the end... XD Just kidding. ;-)

  • @LoganJoannesRollerCoaster

    @LoganJoannesRollerCoaster

    6 жыл бұрын

    I was like, “oh I guess he is done with us. No “Peace out””

  • @SoulAmatus

    @SoulAmatus

    6 жыл бұрын

    Cody_talks I made it till the end because I love your videos!

  • @MissAmandita

    @MissAmandita

    6 жыл бұрын

    #ialwayswatchcodyuntiltheend

  • @micaiahhendrickes471
    @micaiahhendrickes4716 жыл бұрын

    You’re so handsome AND you’re such a kind soul.. not really fair to all the other men on the planet

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    haha aw thanks, made my day :)

  • @whatgenderami
    @whatgenderami6 жыл бұрын

    so sorry to hear about the reoccurrence of the stricture. definitely seems like a lot to process and i am grateful that you keep being open with us, even when it's difficult and you don't owe anyone your story. keep staying strong. i'm rooting for you from all the way on the other side of the US. :)

  • @erisisthename
    @erisisthename6 жыл бұрын

    Cody! So sorry to hear. God speed and good luck with the surgery and recovery. ❤️

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! :)

  • @rustyshackelford18
    @rustyshackelford186 жыл бұрын

    Hoping for the best!

  • @olivershomepage5319
    @olivershomepage53196 жыл бұрын

    Sup Cody!! You are so awesome!! So excited!!

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    aw thanks haha excited to meet you! :)

  • @kevinsokolovic9934
    @kevinsokolovic99346 жыл бұрын

    Stay positive Cody 🦋

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Will do :)

  • @philipjfrys
    @philipjfrys6 жыл бұрын

    This is probably an odd comment, but I’ve been watching you for the past few months. Your videos are very soothing to watch, but uncomfortable to know you’re in pain due to a bit of phalloplasty complications :( wish you the best of luck, man! You’re wonderful and your videos honestly brighten up my day. I adore hearing about your day. Kind of like the enjoyment you get out of listening to a friend or partner chat away about their day. Again, sorry for the odd comment, haha. Please know I as well as all of your subscribers enjoy you and your content

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Aw thanks! Not an odd comment at all! Thank you so much for watching and for the support! Makes me happy to know someone enjoys it! haha

  • @stuff1784

    @stuff1784

    9 ай бұрын

    Yeah, his song choices and his voice are so calming!!

  • @dietriche6798
    @dietriche67986 жыл бұрын

    Well, dang it... really sorry to hear you are having a set back. You will bounce right back though. Sounds good to pre-think the ativan stuff. Perhaps, just knowing you have that available will reduce the need for it! Life, what a crazy journey! OH...I do watch your videos to the end. Got my shirt, LOVE IT!!!!

  • @alisonschmidtcarson4547
    @alisonschmidtcarson45476 жыл бұрын

    When you said "turned into a pre-op for urethroplasty" my heart sank for you. I'm so, so, so, so sorry you have to go through it again. I know, and I hope you know, you're gonna get through it and it will all be okay. But, it is a gut punch for sure. We're all behind ya, and you can always lean on us through the tough stuff. Sending lots of love and preemptive healing energy.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    aw thank you

  • @bananapatchmambo1061
    @bananapatchmambo10616 жыл бұрын

    No journey is ever complete without hitting a few potholes. Makes you more appreciative when you're traveling along smoothly. Good luck and prayers :)

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Most definitely! Thank you! :)

  • @stuff1784
    @stuff17849 ай бұрын

    The dogs are so cute! Especially your brown one 🤎🤎

  • @Brokenpieces88
    @Brokenpieces886 жыл бұрын

    so sorry to hear that Cody but as always you'll do great keep smiling handsome it looks wonderful on you!!

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    haha aw thanks Jenna

  • @Brokenpieces88

    @Brokenpieces88

    6 жыл бұрын

    Cody_talks you are quite welcome! ☺️

  • @psychedforlife7176
    @psychedforlife71766 жыл бұрын

    That was a fun car ride with you both through San Fran! I loved going with you!Anyway wishing you well! 💗 I had a breast exam the other day and I gasped at my pits, I felt like a baby Sasquatch I was so hairy.

  • @AJWalsh-xc6qp
    @AJWalsh-xc6qp6 жыл бұрын

    It’s a setback, but you will get through this and continue on with your brave journey. Know you are admired, supported,,prayed for, and have many fans that watch your videos to the end. (Guilty) :)

  • @sherryelise1
    @sherryelise16 жыл бұрын

    So sorry you have to go through all of this Cody. Hopefully one day you will be done with the surgeries.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thanks!! Yes, one day I will be!

  • @lovehiking1065
    @lovehiking10656 жыл бұрын

    Bummer news. But I loved seeing SF through your eyes. Hang in there!

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thanks!! :)

  • @Mellowtonin247
    @Mellowtonin2476 жыл бұрын

    Dang dude you seem to have the worst luck with this!!! Sending positive vibes your way

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Haha I've seen worst luck but definitely could have better luck! :P Thank you!

  • @kevinsokolovic9934
    @kevinsokolovic99346 жыл бұрын

    Enjoying your great content thanks Cody for sharing your life . Do you have the recipe for your breakfast 🥞 that you made at the start of your video

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching! And yes It is in my Full Day of Eating Video :)

  • @zombiedollkay6631
    @zombiedollkay66316 жыл бұрын

    Sending you love and healing

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! hahah you might be the only one that noticed :P

  • @LeoCurtis
    @LeoCurtis6 жыл бұрын

    This was great! Good luck with the pee-problem 😩

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Haha thank you! :)

  • @sashsmith4425
    @sashsmith44256 жыл бұрын

    Hey Cody! I'm so sorry you have to go through having the catheter in again I hope your surgeon and doctor fix this for you asap and I hope you feel better asap too! 💖

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!! :)

  • @sashsmith4425

    @sashsmith4425

    6 жыл бұрын

    Your welcome cody 💖

  • @lesarasure2740
    @lesarasure27406 жыл бұрын

    I wish you well Cody. Sometimes the best things in life take a bit more effort. It is a bummer to have plans changed, but sometimes things work out even better than we expect after the fact. Not trying to minimize your set back, but more like maximize the positive fact that you are still you, and maybe it's better to have these things happen sooner than later. When all things are working as they should, then that door can be closed. You have already chosen your path, so maybe just a little fine tuning work will get you back on track. :)

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yes! Can only hope this will be a minor setback and I will come out stronger in the end :)

  • @lesarasure2740

    @lesarasure2740

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yes! That's what I mean. Positive is powerful. I wish you the best! :)

  • @SoulAmatus
    @SoulAmatus6 жыл бұрын

    EARLY SQUAD WHERE YOU AT THOUGH???? Hi btw and have a nice day!

  • @shawnlee4246
    @shawnlee42466 жыл бұрын

    You're really having a tough go of it. It's crazy. How is this all worth it? I'm just really trying to figure this out. I know stretching the urethra is the most difficult part because it wasn't made for this, but this can't be normal.

  • @deenad3562

    @deenad3562

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes this one is hard for me to relate to, not being in their shoes, but I wish him best results and happiness.

  • @paige5333
    @paige53336 жыл бұрын

    Are some people more prone to strictures than others or is it based on something done during the surgery/healing process itself? Sorry to hear you're dealing with this again but I wish you a speedy recovery!

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately yes, it kind of has to do with how your body scars and builds scar tissue. Thank you!

  • @Sansanbizzy
    @Sansanbizzy6 жыл бұрын

    Like the titanic music lol! Your face was priceless

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Hahaha oh Andrew. Such a goof.

  • @susetta92
    @susetta926 жыл бұрын

    Oh no, not the panic attacks :( You will be fine

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    haha thanks for watching till the end! :) And yea.. less afraid of surgery, more afraid of panic attacks from the catheter lol

  • @markmcfrederick8932
    @markmcfrederick89326 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes you just need a mental health day from life. As a RN, there were times when I called off because I was having trembling, irritability, being distracted easily, and I knew that I just could not perform my work duties at my best for my patients and colleagues. It's just as serious as any other part of your body such as broken arm, have the flu, grandparent died. Things happen and the best thing we can do is to be constantly aware of our functional ability and if we can function well enough not to put ourselves or anyone else in jeopardy.

  • @traceysmith4963
    @traceysmith49635 жыл бұрын

    It's like shearing sheep.. LOL I almost fell off of my bed I laughed so hard!

  • @probablyalex
    @probablyalex6 жыл бұрын

    Good luck

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @cristyramirez7329
    @cristyramirez73296 жыл бұрын

    Lol. I went to the doctor once and he had to look at my legs and it was winter so I told my doctor " sorry I only shave below the knees" and he told me " I don't shave either" and he showed me his hairy legs lol In regards to cannabis, there are 2 types; sativa and indica . Sativa makes me paranoid and feel anxious. Indicas relaxes me and I don't feel paranoid. It's more like a body high. If you are looking for medicinal purposes you can try CBD oil. Research Rick Simpson oil. You will do fine with your surgery. This is just a little set back that's preparing you for a come back! You are a good guy Cody and only good things will happen for you.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Aw thanks Christy! And yea I’ve tried both strains and what seems to help the most is when there is a good amount of CBD oil mixed In with the cannabis to balance it out

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Also your doctor is awesome hahaha that’s funny

  • @Sevastra23
    @Sevastra236 жыл бұрын

    Omg this video was hilarious. Hahaha "I'm single and it's winter". 🤣🤣🤣 and I'm totally gonna make some shit waffles

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    hahah :P Yay shit waffles :)

  • @stuff1784
    @stuff17849 ай бұрын

    It’s so interesting how you only live 3 hours from San Francisco!

  • @jooliebeanpajoolie4244
    @jooliebeanpajoolie42446 жыл бұрын

    10:30 😂 Adorable. 😍 Sending love and support Cody. ~ hugs 💛💙💜

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @thebazile2229
    @thebazile22296 жыл бұрын

    His smile ❤😊

  • @C_A_McKenna
    @C_A_McKenna6 жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear about the stricture. Prayers and best wishes that all goes well and you never have to deal with it again. Your friend mentioned the Elator... I've done a lot of research and that is a great alternative to the implants. TheElator.Com

  • @carlarichardson4557
    @carlarichardson45576 жыл бұрын

    Best wishes I love your smile

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! :)

  • @ronancarrillo2235
    @ronancarrillo22356 жыл бұрын

    Lol wow Cody, Dr. Chen had no Chill. However, I've had friends say that they wouldn't shave to go see their Doc. Because they don't want to make it seem that they are getting ready for sex. But I on the other hand will always clean up. I'd rather be clean and neat. Besides, most Dr.s are professional. And, perhaps they appreciate the clearer view 😉 And I'm sorry to hear about the restructure. That blows. I wonder if I could do my own dilation.... I don't struggle with my injections like most guy's do. Anyway... feel better. You'll be in my positive thoughts. Take care.

  • @Chefken23
    @Chefken236 жыл бұрын

    Where do you live

  • @summercoles8168
    @summercoles81686 жыл бұрын

    I thought you were making death waffles for the dog with all that chocolate on it

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    lol hell no!

  • @melissafoster7968
    @melissafoster79686 жыл бұрын

    Hey Cody, is there a way to message you privately?

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Hi there yes :) coachcodyharman@gmail.com

  • @melissafoster7968

    @melissafoster7968

    6 жыл бұрын

    Great thanks!

  • @ElPollitoLoco23
    @ElPollitoLoco236 жыл бұрын

    Does Andrew have a youtube channel?

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Not as of yet!

  • @ElPollitoLoco23

    @ElPollitoLoco23

    6 жыл бұрын

    You guys should make a video about his journey...if he's comfortable sharing his story of course.

  • @MustBePie
    @MustBePie6 жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jessicawebber2445
    @jessicawebber24456 жыл бұрын

    Hey cody hru

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Good thanks :)

  • @moviemaniacandmore895
    @moviemaniacandmore8956 жыл бұрын

    So is the testicular implants the only surgery left to complete the package

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    yep! One day I will be complete lol

  • @moviemaniacandmore895

    @moviemaniacandmore895

    6 жыл бұрын

    Cody_talks so at this moment ur not really sure about getting the erector devices

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yea I just don't want to deal with the complications from the device.

  • @moviemaniacandmore895

    @moviemaniacandmore895

    6 жыл бұрын

    Oh ok must be higher complications then some of the other surgeries

  • @johnathank7583
    @johnathank75836 жыл бұрын

    dude u eat waffles everyday

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    I sure do :)

  • @technicoloryaya549
    @technicoloryaya5496 жыл бұрын

    Do what you need to do to take care of you... It'll all happen. Remember, you's a mover and a shaker... ;-)

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    6 жыл бұрын

    haha thanks dude :)