FTM Phalloplasty Fistula Complication Update | Packer Giveaway
I had another appointment with Dr. Chen yesterday to find out what the next steps were in order to help me pee catheter free. I didn't get the best news, and had quite a time getting things put down my phallus, and trying to pee in front of a stranger. Despite the news, it is at least nice to have a little more of a game plan.
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Glad the doctor is so caring and really does pay attention. Hang in there and I'm still doing the pee prayers
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Yes he is awesome! Thank you!!! :)
"He came over, grabbed my dick" wtf lmfao that part made me crack up! 😂😂😂 Hoping for the best for you dude! You got this Cody! 💪😊👍
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
haha quite possibly the weirdest ive had in awhile :) Thanks dude!
Healing thoughts your way, man! Stay positive 🙏 Dr Chen sounds like an awesome dr- not many would go that far and be so kind.
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
He is awesome! And thank you!
Hey man, I love watching your updates. I really appreciate you sharing such an intimate journey with your viewers to understand better what a realistic transition looks like. Can't wait for the next update!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Aw thanks!! I appreciate the support!!
That paper skirt really painted a picture Cody😂very glad that Dr. Chen saw everything, he really sounds like a good MD. Will be praying for healing. You are so strong, I would have fainted at first sight of that probe! ***DO NOT NEED PACKER, thanks***
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
haha luckily I didn't faint! Thank you for the healing prayers!
I've heard a lot of good things about Dr. Chen. Thanks for sharing your experience with us!
It must feel better having a idea of what's going on. I'm glad they should be able to fix things in September. Please don't push yourself to hard to go back to work , I don't want anything to happen that'll complicate your recovery and next surgery date. Best wishes to you.
I cannot believe you are putting yourself through this!
Praying for a successful repair and congrats on scrotoplasty!
Thanks for updating, dude. I'm sorry you have to keep the catheter in for now, that sucks. I'm really rooting for everything to heal up fast for ya. Stay strong!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
Hope your healing process gets better. Much love
Hope you'll heal fast ❤Best wishes for your recovery .
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
hope it feels/heals better soon cody!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
Gosh, Cody, so sorry about the fistula complication. I know about your anxiety as I have it too. I wish things turn around for the better soon.
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, me too! :)
You're awesome Cody!! You are so strong and I know in the end all of it will work out! Healing vibes your way darling!! And I totally would get that packer for my boyfriend!! ❤️
Your arm video did show up in my feed. Wow lots of pain to go through to be the boy you are. I wish you all the happiness in life. Never listen to ignorant people.
@Codytalks11
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
Oh man, phalloplasty really seems like quite the ride! I hope all goes well for you soon. (and oh man that story cracked me up)
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
It is quite the ride indeed! And glad it could make ya laugh! haha.
Good luck with everything, man!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
I feel your videos are getting funnier. I always laugh. :D but you seem to be getting better! go cody go :)
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
haha I think I am just having more awkward moments than usual! :)
thanks for sharing your experiences, i hope it heals on it's own for you!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
He sounds like the best doctor ever
Good luck, with everything, things will eventually work out.
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
Thank you for keeping us updated ☺❤
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the support!
Really digging these videos! Best of luck!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks!! :)
Well I'm much older than you and married but I have to tell you that you're one foxy guy! I hope that you heal up nicely and get back to all the things God has planned for you to do. Continue to tell your story because I'm sure there is someone out there listening. God bless!
@Codytalks11
6 жыл бұрын
+armywife4life78 aw haha thank you! :)
I know it's one week today. Just want to let you know that even though I have just found your channel, I am praying it all goes well and that you heal. :)
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
Best of luck man! I hope all ends well even if its a long ride
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
Yay!!! So glad to hear it's not as bad as it could be! Much love 💛😽👌
Praying for pee man 🙏🏻! I love looking at your updates.
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
OMG you poor fellow I know that hurt yes catheters hurt even for girls I'm glad that you had a good dr to help you God bless you
Praying for a recovery for you man
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
keep up the good work and the healing!!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
Your video helps me prepare for what I am in for.
I hope that you fixed it - how does a fistula develop?
I would love that packer please. :D I hope the complication sorts itself out, or your doctor at least puts it right in September. At least he has more of an idea what the problem could be now!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Yea, hopefully it all works out!
That sounded like quite the adventure!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
It was! lol
Is the reason you didn't feel the doctor insert the rod,because of loss of sensation or none at all?
So I'm having peeing issues too... but my surgeon wants me to remove the catheter... Also a lot of burning through the fistula site. Any advice? I should mention that I had a ring metoidioplasty.
I could really use one...can't afford it. Good luck with everything and sharing what you go through:)
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, and best of luck in the giveaway :)
Love you Cody! Stay strong dude ❤ much love
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
aw thank you! :)
@cornflakejackson2704
7 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks ahhh you replied
At least you have answers now! Also couldn't stop laughing through out this video. Good luck on the healing! Prayers as always. I also don't need the packer. Just commenting to comment.
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment just to comment :) Appreciate it as always! Haha yes I am happy to have some answers at least!
I wish you well on your recovery :)
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@mattsnameis
7 жыл бұрын
you're most welcome :P :)
Sending positive thoughts and positive vibes your way regarding the hole healing up!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
Is there not a way the exit hole can be taped or somehow covered to test his hypothesis about the 'path of least resistance'? I feel like there'd be a simple way to test...but i guess all that is healing. (still would think there'd be a temporary fix by 2017).
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
I wish but he didn't really say.. just said it needs to heal. It will be fixed in Setpember but wish I didn't have to wait that long.
I feel for you must have been such a horrible experience hope it goes better in the future! 🙂
When can u start back to working out? Geez! What an ordeal. Hope u on antibiotics. Omg, going back to work! Glad to see u r smiling.💕
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
I am not sure :( Not on antibiotics but I am supposed to take a couple pills the day he changes my tube. I can't wait to workout again but I have no idea when that will be.
Oh my gosh God bless you I had things put up my urethra too and it's so painful
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
haha yea it was not so pleasant!
I feel so bad for you but much love!
Heyo can I enter the giveaway if I'm in a different country? Also, I hope the complication gets worked out soon, and thanks for all the great vids
Aww dude' I'm sooooo pee shy! I have to do that in front of my probation officer...it's horrible!! 😂 I think it's kinda benefiting me, tho, cos it seems she requests to see me less often cos it takes 45 mins for me to pee in front of her! Hahaha!!! 😂😂 Sounds like they have a much better idea of what's goin on with you now...so that's good. Slow progress, but you're getting there! *Edit* No need to add me to your packed drawing! I'm a cis female, and my boyfriend doesn't pack. I'd hate to have my name go in a random drawing and come out a winner , as I'm sure there are loads of guys out there who really need it and to whom it would mean a lot! 😉❤️
Wonder if you could have just videoed it?
Love your videos dude!! I just subscribed
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! :)
Sorry to hear, bro!! Hope it gets better!!! And I hope to win the packer!!!!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! And best of luck :)
Cody Boy, I am sending good thoughts to you from Texas.
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
You look great with a beard btw
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
Just started watching you, you're great! I'm actually a transwoman getting my sex change in a couple months! I'm so scared and excited all at the same time!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Hey thanks for watching and congrats!!! That is super exciting!
@connerdog497
7 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks my pleasure! Ill definitely continue watching on my free time! And, I know right! I'm super excited, slightly scared, but super excited!
I've just now started to accept myself and come out to people close to me (like my girlfriend) as a trans guy and honestly even though I've just found them, your videos are definitely the most helpful videos that I've seen when it comes to phalloplasty and honestly watching your journey so far gives me a lot of inspiration to keep going and not get discouraged with my own journey and transitioning, so thank you. Also, does this count as an entry for the packer? (if it's still open)
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Hey I am so glad that my videos are of help! That makes me so glad to hear! Congrats on taking the fist steps in your journey. Unfortunately the packer giveaway has ended but there will be more in the future so stay tuned :)
Sorry you are going through this but like I'd said before it will be worth it in the end... I'm kind of hesitant on wanting the surgery now tho but I don't know :) keep your head high. ilysm
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks! And despite the complications if I had to do it all again I would... still worth it :) Just trying to be patient lol
@taramcdowell9307
7 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks :)
Can i enter the packer giveaway if i live in another country?
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Yes! :)
I am just... humbled at how brave you must be as a trans person (not just you, any trans person) to make this choice. I can also empathize with the notion that it's even more frightening to live a lie. But wow, I guess, as a cisgender female, I am just glad I don't have to have such painful sounding surgeries. And... I hate to say this and feel like I am obectifying you, but holy god, you are a beautiful person... so incredibly handsome and your confidence is so sexy. x
@lisalentile177
5 жыл бұрын
I said that too I would date him but I'm old enough to be his mom
Are you stlill doing the packer giveaway?
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
The current one is closed but there will be more in the future! :)
Hang in there Cody
Wish I could send you a tiny fistula cork...
I want the packer so bad!!
Hey, no judgement here but it looks like you might have blunt stains on your teefs. I get that too and i just add a bit of rubbing alcohol to my toothpaste and it takes it right off. >3> Love you. Thank you for sharing these things. I have a hell of a journey ahead. Pre-T and everything. Whoof
Great video
Probably shouldn't be laughing as much as I am. Sounds horribly awkward but hope the fistula heals on it's own. Good luck with the stomach catheter and the torture stick. Boldly go, my friend. *not in need of the packer :)
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
hahah I am glad it made you luagh!! Thank you! :)
I had to pee in front of a nurse I've never seen before, for a urodynamic test 😐 The test in it itself is very uncomfortable and a bit embarassing. Ended up needing to take meds for my bladder lol. Ahhh the joys of childbirth lol. Luckily the meds have fixed my problem 😊
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Glad the meds helped!! Peeing in front of someone is no easy task lol
hey cody, i'm a young trans boy struggling to find the right words to come out to my mum. she will be really sweet about it, but i just don't know how to word it. any advice ? - Riley
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Hey! Hmm, I would say just tell her how you feel, speak from the heart and tell her your truth. :)
@knitting4premies
7 жыл бұрын
Hey, if you talk to your mum from the heart that is all the words you need. Good luck spuddy. X
@MsCherade9
7 жыл бұрын
pjoj As the Mum of a trans teenager the best thing to do is to be honest and straightforward. The chances are that your Mum will already have some suspicions that there might be something you're not talking to her about. I don't know her but I do know lots of other parents of trans children and teenagers here in the UK. I belong to a charity called Mermaids for both the trans children and their families, there are lots of us across the UK of all ages. Some parents do struggle, but the vast majority just want to know what's happening so they can love and support their kids.
@cruzyii
7 жыл бұрын
Did you talk to her,how did it go?
@Sasha-up9er
7 жыл бұрын
If you're still having problems getting the words out, try just writing a letter and giving it to her to read or texting her or something. Sometimes things can be easier to say through writing rather than out loud.
Still trying to win me a packer because I can not afford one myself! But most of all feeling like I am taking this journey with you. Everytime I see a video of yours I immediatly start thinking ooh how is he doing. Is he peeing allright? 😀And how you told everything that happened with the appointment made me smile so much haha
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
haha glad it made you smile! You are entered for the giveaway! Best of luck :)
@raphraph3260
7 жыл бұрын
Awesome thank you so much Cody 😀
Love the channel!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
Is it possible to get phalloplasty without urethral lengthening?
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
yes it is!
@2eleven48
5 жыл бұрын
E T.....you can have phalloplasty without urethral lengthening, but this means you will still pee out of the urethral opening above your vagina.
I'd love a pack!
Hope it all works out for u 😀😃
How much do this doctor get paid......
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
More than me!
Hi Cody!! I commented on your last video talking about how my boyfriend is trans and we are having a hard time affording a packer of any sorts!! It would be amazing if you could pick me! It would help him so much with his dysphoria! Thank you and I love your videos! I hope you heal fast!! I'm praying for you!!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Hey thank you!! Best of luck in the giveaway! :)
IF THE PEE TAKES THE PATH OF LEAST RESISTANCE, CAN YOU PLUG THE HOLE WHERE THE PEE IS COMING OUT WITH YOUR FINGER SO THE PEE FLOWS DOWN TO THE HOLE AT THE TIP?
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
I have been trying that! Luckily I have had a bit more luck with it passing up the hole at the base so that is good!
@snowboardingfisher135
7 жыл бұрын
OH THAT IS GOOD NEWS. I HOPE THAT THINGS CONTINUE TO IMPROVE FOR YOU. MAYBE GET YOU OUT PEEING ON TREES BEFORE THE SUMMER IS OVER?
I'd like to enter for the packer!! 😊😊
Praying for u
I am hoping you heal before surgery so that way you don't have to wear a cath for too long. And that paper dress sounds like the newest fashion. Lol
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks! hah and oh the paper dress was fabulous :)
Please enter me into the drawing! Thanks man!
Keep your head up❤️
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Will do :)
Hi, I want to enter the giveaway. Recently started to watch your video's I really enjoy them.
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
You are in! :) And thanks for watching!
What's the packer look like?
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
The classic packy from ftm essentials :)
@legendaryboss54
7 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks ok that's pretty sweet
i hope everything will heal and I am not sure if i would want a packer or not because i am waiting for Phalloplasty. what if the person that wins is Cis?
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Then they will not be winning a packer unless they have someone they know who is trans and are giving it to them lol :)
@Bloody_Corpses
7 жыл бұрын
ok :)
I like watching your videos!!!
Good vibes from London!
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! :)
Hello Cody how are you doing first I want to thank you for sharing I know it was not easy and to also use the bathroom in front of another person dam made things worser I wish nothing but better health and I will keep you in my prayers take care God Bless 💋
@Codytalks11
5 жыл бұрын
aw thanks so much :)
Entering the packer comp
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
hey unfortunately it is over but there will be more very very soon! :)
Yooooooooo the packerrrrrr
I'm sure this is one of those duh suggestions, but have you tried covering the hole at the bottom?
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
haha not dumb, luckily the bottom hole has closed now :)
@katiestrauss7449
7 жыл бұрын
Cody_talks oh wonderful, good luck with continued healing!
i admire your open & honest view of "things"...very enlightening to this gay man, meee ;)
@Codytalks11
6 жыл бұрын
:) thanks for watching!
If I ever have the money to do surgery, it'd be top surgery. I can just use a packer. I'd rather them not mess with those parts of me.
Also, can we spam?
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
no haha. Please refrain from spamming. One comment will do! :)
This makes me stressed out for ur poor pp :( I hope that bad boy heals
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Me too! :(
Hi hope I could start testosteron
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
You can!
Watersports awakening right here lmao
Oh that looks pleasant
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
haha so pleasant :P
What is a packer and what is it used for?
hope you get better!!also I would like to be entered in the giveaway.
@Codytalks11
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! And you are entered :)