FTM Phalloplasty Stage Two | Penile Implant

On September 12th I will be having stage 2 phalloplasty with Dr. Chen in San Francisco. In this video I discuss which implant I decided to go with and why.
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  • @Codytalks11
    @Codytalks115 жыл бұрын

    Hey Everyone sorry for the flickering that starts around the 5 minute mark of this video when I tried to put up images. Something happened during the rendering process apparently. Was a total accident and wasn't happening when I reviewed the video. :(

  • @NoaLeighMaxwell

    @NoaLeighMaxwell

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh! And here I thought it was a deliberate thing to fool the censors lol (people do something similar with, like, disney videos to stave off the copyright detection bots). xD

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    haha nope total accident, thinking about re-uploading it and trying again

  • @AmandaTitus85

    @AmandaTitus85

    4 жыл бұрын

    Thought i was trippin 😂

  • @darko_lad_777
    @darko_lad_7775 жыл бұрын

    I'm serious about thanking you right now, because you are such a gigantic help to me about all of this. And thanks for being relatively/more open about this then most people. Not a lot of people are willing to talk about stuff like this, but you do, and it's more of a help then you might think it is. You're also so chill and, I don't wanna say descriptive exactly, but ya know. So, thank you.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    haha aw you are welcome :) I am so glad it is helpful!

  • @seheabol

    @seheabol

    5 жыл бұрын

    Mr. 777 whaaa? There are tons of trans men online who’ve documented every detail.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    I wouldn’t say tons. Not even tons have had phalloplasty. There are a handful though.

  • @darko_lad_777

    @darko_lad_777

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@seheabol Yeah, I agree with Cody. There's not a 'ton', nor did all of them have phallo. Even so, Cody has just a really good vibe I guess and I like his stuff better.

  • @MindyReedJones
    @MindyReedJones5 жыл бұрын

    I am an older woman, could be your Mom. I agree you definitely should get this device. You deserve to feel as whole as possible. I am happy for you. Good luck and I'll be praying for you. Sending healing love and light.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aw thanks so much I appreciate it!

  • @allsupergirl
    @allsupergirl5 жыл бұрын

    Seizure warning flashing/ flickering images.

  • @stephaniehamilton6217

    @stephaniehamilton6217

    5 жыл бұрын

    At around 5:24 mark!

  • @maryzogbi3461

    @maryzogbi3461

    5 жыл бұрын

    I was worried it was my phone acting up! Thank you for clarifying!

  • @MaxRebelliousPirate91

    @MaxRebelliousPirate91

    5 жыл бұрын

    Twice here

  • @Marixpress2
    @Marixpress24 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad you're giving your body and spirit time to chill before going through with the next big surgery. All the best!!

  • @poohbearny
    @poohbearny5 жыл бұрын

    If you lived in Texas maybe having the semi rigid one would be ok cause you can just say you have a concealed weapon lol.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    LOL annnnd best comment goes to you 😂

  • @its__kimi7999
    @its__kimi79995 жыл бұрын

    So proud of how far you've come ❤️

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @the_cass_castilian3653
    @the_cass_castilian36535 жыл бұрын

    I’m so thankful for all of your advice and all of your videos, I’m starting T in a few days too! All of your progress with your surgeries make me excited because I know that there’s hope to finally look how I need to. Thank you so much for making your videos. You’ve helped me a lot ^^

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aw hey congrats!!! So happy for you! Enjoy the journey, lots of exciting things ahead :)

  • @C_A_McKenna
    @C_A_McKenna5 жыл бұрын

    Great video! Funny and informative! I love it. You've eased my mind on so many things through these videos. Thank you!

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching!

  • @reginarichardson7233
    @reginarichardson72335 жыл бұрын

    Cody, I'm excited for you! Go for it! Stay positive!

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @eli3568
    @eli35685 жыл бұрын

    Good luck with everything Cody.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @milesjustice8638
    @milesjustice86385 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the review of the options! Best of luck with your upcoming procedure.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @MaxRebelliousPirate91
    @MaxRebelliousPirate915 жыл бұрын

    As long as it makes you happy, I'm happy for you! Good luck and congrats!

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks!

  • @allanfisher5120
    @allanfisher51205 жыл бұрын

    Awesome video. Good luck with everything.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @oolongteaforjoyluck17
    @oolongteaforjoyluck175 жыл бұрын

    Go for it Cody! Live your best life!

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    :)

  • @ChasingBlue-wd9cw
    @ChasingBlue-wd9cw5 жыл бұрын

    Great video, good luck with everything!!!🤗🤗

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you :)

  • @babsy332
    @babsy3325 жыл бұрын

    this is exciting news! (No pun intended ;) also, side note: your eyebrows look perfect! I might have missed the touch up video but they look SOO GOOD!

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Haha thanks!

  • @sashsmith4425
    @sashsmith44255 жыл бұрын

    Hey cody 😊 your looking really good! Your vlogs are awesome and your really brave to do what your doing its more private were you've put your guideline info I'm keeping my fingers crossed that all goes well for you with that and for your operation! 💕💖💕

  • @chellemotsinger1200
    @chellemotsinger12005 жыл бұрын

    Hey Cody I'm glad I've been watching about those and the men who have them feel way more like a man

  • @chellemotsinger1200

    @chellemotsinger1200

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you I think you should why not you gone this far you should. Finish right

  • @AJWalsh-xc6qp
    @AJWalsh-xc6qp5 жыл бұрын

    Onward and Upward Coach Cody! Good choice, after all, can't be Mr. Happy 24/7. :)

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    hahahah yeaaa im good with only happy when need be :P

  • @marcusbrownjr6556
    @marcusbrownjr65565 жыл бұрын

    Crazy shit man cant wait! 😂❤️

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am excited too! Nervous but excited haha.

  • @kavitadeva
    @kavitadeva5 жыл бұрын

    Hi Cody. I am an older cis woman. One may wonder why I am here. I want you to know that I find your videos so informative. I know you feel awkward at times but your willingness to share the more intimate things sets you apart. I like your chill presence. I wish you the best with up coming surgery for the device. Thanks for making this video.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    thank you so much!

  • @mfanwelikeit3760
    @mfanwelikeit37605 жыл бұрын

    It’s so cute how you blush but push through to educate ☺️

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    haha thanks 😂

  • @Bloody_Corpses
    @Bloody_Corpses5 жыл бұрын

    congratulations!!! I chose to not get any ED implants because I am waiting for better options available in the future and my sex drive is non-existent so it's pointless for me and I'm still waiting for my second stage and the dysphoria of not being able to STP is unbearable to live with and it's getting worst by day

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear about the dysphoria I can certainly understand that! Hopefully they come up with better ED options soon!

  • @Tanny.M
    @Tanny.M5 жыл бұрын

    The inflatable sounds like the better option. If I were in your shoes, I'd choose the same.

  • @fuzzybeargville
    @fuzzybeargville5 жыл бұрын

    Good for you Cody! big bear Hugs.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    🤗🤗

  • @cydcatzcatz8967
    @cydcatzcatz89675 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love watch you and your videos. I hope you know you don’t have to be perfect to please your partner. Don’t stop posting after your surgery.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @triggered5197
    @triggered51975 жыл бұрын

    I love your eyes and smile and laugh Cody

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Aw shucks 😊 thank you

  • @pmbluemoon
    @pmbluemoon5 жыл бұрын

    It will be so wonderful when they can come up with a device that's non-invasive, not so obvious and bodies like mine can handle having foreign stuff implanted. I've chosen no lower surgery just because I know my body, and it's SO sensitive that I can't do implants of any kind so far. I would like to see if they can grow one from our own cells some day if that would ever be possible, best outcome/least traumatic on the body for sure. Good luck and thank you for the video! :)

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    That would be amazing if they could do that some day!

  • @sdrockrgirl
    @sdrockrgirl5 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love learning from you. One of My best friends is FTM trans. Love him!

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

  • @cj504
    @cj5045 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much for sharing, Cody. Hearing your thought process is extremely helpful in my own weighing of these options. Do you recall what longevity Chen is quoting these days for the pump? Usually see 3-5 years and latest peer-reviewed article seems to put ED implants overall at about 36-40% removed or replaced by 4 years. Is that what Chen also says? Wish you the very best for stage 2.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I need to double check on the longevity of it. I will ask and then confirm in another video! I want to say it is longer than that now but I am not for sure.

  • @eliasklein9311
    @eliasklein93115 жыл бұрын

    In Switzerland there's an implant that's specifically designed for transmen, I'm getting the ZSI 475 FtM. I don't know if that helps because it's not approved for the US, just thought I'd tell you^^. (I'm not from Switzerland either but from Austria btw) And about the pumping up thing: I think that can be easily done during foreplay or quite inconspicuously, like cisguys need to touch themselves sometimes to in order for them to get hard, so I wouldn't worry about that. Also, I heard that you just need a few squeezes and it's done :)

  • @antoniow.1430

    @antoniow.1430

    3 жыл бұрын

    How do you like the Zsi 475? Is it rigid enough that it doesnt bend during sex?

  • @garrett7101

    @garrett7101

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm getting the 475 in February. How's it been for you? Thanks

  • @eliasklein9311

    @eliasklein9311

    Жыл бұрын

    The 475 is great. Sex works just fine, great feeling for me and them. It can be a bit tricky if it's not pumped up all the way and/or the hole is very tight. But so far everything worked out in the end. It is a bit less rigid than a full bio erection I'd say, but it does last as long as you want so that's a plus. The skin around the prothesis doesn't get hard obviously, that's why it isn't quite as hard as bio erections, but it does create the feeling of a bio dick because the skin can move around. Pumping it up is done very quickly but you do have to be careful to fully inflate it but not overinflate it. It can make a very small squeaking noise but my boyfriend for example only noticed it the first time after like 8 months of having sex. So I wouldn't worry too much about that. The first few times it can take a while until you figure it out, I thought I was exceptionally inept at first but it's normal to struggle at the beginning but I got the hang of it very quickly when I was alone. In front of the surgeon it wouldn't work. Oh and he pressed it super hard and in a way that it would hurt and he said that it would always hurt and the others just got used to it, but when I did it alone the next day after he did it the first time it also didn't hurt at all. So you just have to do it the right way and it's not painful whatsoever. If you keep it inflated for a while it can start to hurt a bit though, but it's more like a pressure.

  • @garrett7101

    @garrett7101

    Жыл бұрын

    @@eliasklein9311 Thank you for all the information. At what facility did you get your ED? I had my phallo in 2008 so I’ve been waiting a very long time.

  • @eliasklein9311

    @eliasklein9311

    Жыл бұрын

    @@garrett7101 I got it in Austria at the LKH Graz, surgeon's name is Dr. Laback. It's a public hospital and my insurance paid for everything.

  • @marcmessner1554
    @marcmessner15545 жыл бұрын

    🤣🤣I've wondered the same, how many pics has he gotten? You're soon to be pumping it up, I know horrible old man joke.

  • @peterojas2740
    @peterojas27405 жыл бұрын

    Vivid description provided here to have an understanding of what have given much consideration about right here.

  • @jake_from_statefarm7209
    @jake_from_statefarm72095 жыл бұрын

    Bruh, you are swole! Also, congrats!

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    haha thank you!

  • @deepblue1909
    @deepblue19092 жыл бұрын

    wish i knew where do you get all the money for these surgeries

  • @hym3910
    @hym39105 жыл бұрын

    Success with your choice! I'm interested in following this journey, I stopped at phalloplasty. At first I wanted implants but I'm content now. The dysphoria isn't bad enough to go through the trouble in my case. I know about the implant in Europe you were talking about, they do it in my country (Belgium) but I haven't heard too many positive responses to it from people I know who tried it or have it. It's a permanently hard rod (bendable), it can rip through the head if you aren't careful or the feeling hasn't returned to the phallus. And it's possible a sexual partner can feel it and find it uncomfortable.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    oh man that doesn't not sound like a good option.

  • @0tx.lun4
    @0tx.lun4Ай бұрын

    Okay so I’m scared to do phalloplasty and doing the skin graph but the pros of phalloplasty are what I want like STP, the size and aesthetic, but I’m just scared of the skin graph and the cons of what could happen to my arm I’m really scared of just the thought of the outer layer of my arm gone…I really want to know if it scared you too or not and what to do to prepare

  • @humboldtparkguy4177
    @humboldtparkguy41775 жыл бұрын

    God bless u ....

  • @nourann5099
    @nourann50995 жыл бұрын

    Never thought I'd see a video titled "I'm getting an erection" lmao Good luck with that surgery ! Btw your video was weirdly flashing when you showed pics of the device and also at 5:23

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks yea something happened during export apparently. Ugh haha.

  • @riverrowanphoenix1876
    @riverrowanphoenix18765 жыл бұрын

    Was there a rendering issue or was the flickering video on purpose?

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    rendering issue. Damnit haha.

  • @samasiaskipperable
    @samasiaskipperable5 жыл бұрын

    Cody this sounds dumb by I assume with the external device one guesses the long bar inserts into the vagina that sounds uncomfortable❓❓

  • @garrett7101

    @garrett7101

    Жыл бұрын

    Do what?

  • @TTimeFTM
    @TTimeFTM5 жыл бұрын

    Hey Cody! Happy to hear, you've made a further decision in your transition. Good luck to you, my friend!! As for the FTM erectile devices: It's Switzerland. And the pump and the semi-rigit device are the zsi 475 and the ZSI 100 (here is a link www.zsimplants.ch/en/products-en/phalloplasty/zsi-100-ftm-malleable-penile-implant)

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @garrett7101

    @garrett7101

    Жыл бұрын

    Hey.. Did you get the ZSI 475 or 100? I'm an American getting the 475 in Belgium in February. Just wondering how your experience went if you had the implant.

  • @TTimeFTM

    @TTimeFTM

    Жыл бұрын

    @@garrett7101 if you're asking me, I didn't get either of them. I tired the coloplast twice, but it didn't work. Next time I'm considering zsi. I'm sharing my experience on my channel.

  • @garrett7101

    @garrett7101

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TTimeFTM Ah - what happened with the Coloplast?

  • @TTimeFTM

    @TTimeFTM

    Жыл бұрын

    @@garrett7101 several things Here's my journey: kzread.info/head/PL6QOTGn3s4mNGid0o9hD4pMCTC6LiKeP6

  • @alishahjadoon2684
    @alishahjadoon26843 жыл бұрын

    Sir I need a help

  • @cindyslavik5391
    @cindyslavik53915 жыл бұрын

    That’s wonderful. What an incredible medical world we live in! I think you made a wise decision. Can I ask a question, you don’t have to answer if it’s too personal, but when you get aroused do you feel it in your penis? Similar to a clitoris? And is it just the nerve endings? I think someday they’ll come up with a way for blood to flow in to cause an erection. If they can transfer nerve endings, why not veins?

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    I do feel it.. I feel like I get a phantom boner haha 😂

  • @carlgeneux
    @carlgeneux5 жыл бұрын

    I have it, love it and you do not feel resivor

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    🙌🙌🙌

  • @carlgeneux

    @carlgeneux

    5 жыл бұрын

    Cody_talks I think that is why I’ve never done urethra lengthing. At the time I transitioned it wasn’t successful in 70’s. And since I put the pump I haven’t quit having intercourse long enough to mess with ureatha! That’s good news for you too.

  • @kleedasantos3236
    @kleedasantos32365 жыл бұрын

    Omg, I love you! You should become a speaker on trans. You're so relatable, likeable and funny. I feel like you could help CIS people understand who dont. ❤

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    aw thanks that means a lot!

  • @ahriannamacias7921
    @ahriannamacias79215 жыл бұрын

    You get to choose the size?? 🤔

  • @kikomartin-pr
    @kikomartin-pr5 жыл бұрын

    What is the reservoir for? I’m not being rude, nor trying to be. My brother is trans and we watch your videos together. Last night he broke down badly. He was yelling at me because I was born a male and he said it wasn’t fair. He even hit me a few times but my sons and I were able to calm him down. Your videos calm him as well.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    The reservoir holds the saline that fills the phallus to make it erect. Sorry to hear about your brother. It does get better though. Tell him I promise it gets better

  • @Brwneydgrl69
    @Brwneydgrl695 жыл бұрын

    I used to date a guy that was diabetic... Had E.D. because of it... He went in and got the inflatable balloon in there ... We were already broke up but his current wife seems happy!

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    haha good to know :P

  • @thewomaninacape
    @thewomaninacape5 жыл бұрын

    I wanted to ask if you still consider yourself a Christian and how you reconciled that for yourself? This is coming from a place of love as a actively practicing religious person, (Catholic) who is LGBT as well.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    I don’t anymore actually. Still in a place of exploration when it comes to spirituality but I also think that it is okay to be a Christian and LGBT

  • @thewomaninacape

    @thewomaninacape

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@Codytalks11 thanks for replying I was curious.

  • @allsupergirl
    @allsupergirl5 жыл бұрын

    Will this device possibly affect your structure ? Hopefully not.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    It shouldn’t :)

  • @allsupergirl

    @allsupergirl

    5 жыл бұрын

    Oh jees I meant stricture, I'm sure you figured that out already .

  • @fastdeliveryl708
    @fastdeliveryl7082 жыл бұрын

    i jusstt talk to a guy from YT. he has a semi rigid and ive talked too him. he does gym, go out etc . hess able to conceal it no problem.. the only thing he said hhes afrraid iss while at work because hes work in the medicall field and sometimes patients , he nneeds to get close to themm but ootherr than that, thatts it. he ssaid he didnt want to deal with the pump orr any malfunctions un future , so he went witth semi rigid.

  • @ElPollitoLoco23
    @ElPollitoLoco235 жыл бұрын

    #relatable

  • @Theneighborlywombwitch
    @Theneighborlywombwitch5 жыл бұрын

    *knock on wood* 😂😂😂

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    Lol legit how many times I thought I was done with surgery 😂

  • @TransKameron
    @TransKameron5 жыл бұрын

    I'm with you Cody! When I have stage 3 I'm pretty sure the pump is the way I'll go as well! One plus to being trans is we get to control our boners :) haha!

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    LOL that is most definitely true!

  • @ellenrichardson8701
    @ellenrichardson87015 жыл бұрын

    Dude, your making me blush! No doubt your girlfriend had a say in this, so you and her can do the nasty! At least in a better way.

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    I have no idea how you came to that conclusion. :P

  • @stuff1784
    @stuff17848 ай бұрын

    You are still recovering from ALL THE OTHER SURGERIES. I don’t know why you’d risk this one too!!

  • @malindamooradian5664
    @malindamooradian56645 жыл бұрын

    You’ll never be complete! Sorry

  • @Codytalks11

    @Codytalks11

    5 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry you just wasted your time typing that like it mattered lol

  • @HK-oh5ml

    @HK-oh5ml

    4 жыл бұрын

    I think self completion is ones own state of mind We are not the one to judge and definitely not the one to comment Are you complete as a human being no right Carry on with your transformation don't let life have a regret that you didn't do something as we only live once