I appreciate these videos as a nurse practitioner because we didn’t learn any of this in school. UF BSN ‘92. FAU MSN ‘96. I appreciate your honesty about your confusion with your Christian walk. I’m glad to see you didn’t reject God, because he hasn’t rejected you! Thanks for your honesty & bravery.

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

My doctor mentioned that they don't even learn anything about trans healthcare in med school! I hope that changes! Thank you so much for watching!!!

@mcrchickenluvr

6 жыл бұрын

Cody_talks some med schools are starting to educate people on trans health care. My niece recently graduated from nursing school and she learned some stuff in her last semester of school. She said she’s learning more in practice than she did in school. But I think that happens in any profession. But at least schools are starting to teach these things. Yes it’s slow and a long time coming. But it is happening.

You're such a Rockstar! Every video of yours always makes me smile and watching your videos just makes me feel like I'm on this journey with you. Keep being awesome, kid! ❤

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

aw thank you!! :)

I'm so glad you're doing good! I have to admit though, I giggled pretty hard when you were trying to explain stuff and you giggled and said your mom watches these videos. LOL. You're such a brave soul, Cody. Thank you for the update and the giggle! :)

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

haha :) Aw thanks for watching! :P

@kaitlynnheflin6573

6 жыл бұрын

Cody_talks Of course! Even have my notifications on 🙂🙂💜

I like the way in which you tell your story, you seem like a very cool person, thank you for being so open and honest.

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching!

Hey, Cody, I have so much respect for you. You are so very thoughtful and sincere. I do enjoy your videos so much and find them very educational. You manage to relate such personal and delicate subjects in a way that is clear and, at the same time, very respectful toward yourself and to those of us that follow you. I hope only the best that life has to offer you comes your way. You deserve happiness and much peace. -Pam-

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Aw Thank you so much Pam! I appreciate it!

Oh my god I love your mum, she really is one in a million ❤️❤️ Your exceptionally honest and that touches me. Well done on the being able to do the thing you can’t talk about because your mum is watching 😉 Big big loves. Xxx

Congrats on Five months! From what I understand it takes about a year to get full sensation and the tingling is a very good thing because that's the nerves connecting. :D Dude you're just under the half way mark! It's all uphill from here!

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Yes! It does take some time, so patience is key! it is just kinda scary to just wait and hope haha. But at least I have the tingling for sure. Yesss so crazy I am almost half way to a year! Thanks for the support!

@DJohn83

6 жыл бұрын

Ok. Im almost 1 month post and just now got one 3 wks post..Seems like there should be another solution than 2 just let it heal by itself.. doesn't it seem like a simple stitch up or surgical glue would suffice. I been using medi honey . It's slowly working.. I guess or it could just be the time factor .

I wish I had your confidence man! Congratulations! Stay strong and keep your head up high. Love you man

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Ah thank you! I appreciate it! :)

Congrats on 5 months! Thanks for making this informative update!

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

Your updates are so thorough! Thanks for letting all of us join and support you in your journey :)

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching!!

Time flies! I find it really cute how awkward you are talking about this but still do it. I'm almost for months on T and currently working on my letter for the judge for my name and sex change. Hope your sensation will increase soon. Love every video of yours. Best wishes from Germany :)

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much!! haha what can I say I am awkward :P Congrats on your next steps in transition!

I was flicking through KZread and stumbled across your post and I thought what’s wrong with your arm. I did not know what phalloplasty meant I’ve been following your progress and have found it very interesting so thank you for that good luck in your future as the real you xxx

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for looking into phalloplasty and learning more about it! Not many are willing to do that! I appreciate your kindness and willingness to learn :)

Excellent progress Cody, so happy for you👍❤️

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

You are very thorough with your information!

Congratulations on your first week!⭐💖🎉🎁

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you :)

Hi Cody and congrats on 5 months post op - its all up hill from here mate - you're doing great and well done for getting through your first week of work that in itself its huge.

@user-bk4ow9uu6y

6 жыл бұрын

Don't you mean downhill? You're the second one to do that. Lol

@itsreallyimportantman

6 жыл бұрын

I do understand what your meaning - i also meant as in positive uphill and negative downhill - it may mean something different in the states but here where i live that's what it means.

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks man I appreciate it!! Uphill, downhill, doesn't matter I know what ya meant haha. :)

Kudos to both you and you Mom!

Glad you're doing good, Cody! I found what you were saying about stretching at the incision site really interesting. I'm 6 weeks post op top surgery today, and am trying to figure out if I'm supposed to deliberately stretch to get my reach back, or just wait for it to return on its own. I don't know what the hell I'm doing lol. Anyway, I'm really glad you aren't getting as much pain in that area now!

I so admire how open you are!

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

haha thank you! :P

Yay congrats on your 5 months Cody!!

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you!! :)

@MaxRebelliousPirate91

6 жыл бұрын

Cody_talks you're welcome! ;)

I've thought about phallo for a while, and I've always wanted the end result, but was wary of the methods to achieve it. Mostly what'd I'd found was pictures of arms that were still relatively fresh and heard about limited mobility, but having watched your progression and hearing your take it doesn't seem so daunting. Sure it's a big recovery and yes the scar is still big, but I'll still have a functional arm and finally what I'm supposed to have between my legs, so thank you for sharing so much with us. It's helped a lot.

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

+HenryInTexas If I can get through it you can! Definitely a big recovery but worth it in the end. Glad sharing could be of some help!

Five months and looking good overall!

5 hugs for 5 big months! Thank you for sharing them with us. Adore ya! XXXXX ~ hugs

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching!! :)

your arm looks really cool. I have bad scars too and I like them now.

OMG that looks sooooo painful man!! I think that anyone that wants to be a transphobe needs to watch these videos and see what EXACTLY a man goes through to be a man. I have mad respect for you going the distance and will pray for you to have a less painful experience. My heart really goes out to you in this journey... I swear I am having phantom pain with the appendage I dont even have just thinking about what you are going through...It is so worth it to live your truth...mad love Cody!

These are really interesting! Can't wait for month 6

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

:) Glad you find them interesting!

Thank you for sharing your journey :)) its so interesting!

Thanks man! Congrats

"Nope. It's fall". Lol. Hilarious.

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

haha oops :P

glad you're doing well

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

i have a scar on my finger where all of the nerves got cut and are still reconnecting, it's almost a year old. i'm guessing it's somewhat comparable? good to know since i'm planning to get phallo probably

Would it be possible for you to show us your results? (Not through KZread of course)

What does it feel like to have it between your legs? Is it an uncomfortable feeling? Are you able to sleep on your side with one leg on top of the other?

Yay!! Good for u😍😍

Goodjob to you Cody! ^^

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

+Doctor Conejalou thank you!

I'm so happy for you I see your smile and I'm so happy for you I'm MTF and I feel like things are way harder my voice doesn't change naturally like yours does I'm a bigger frame things seem tougher from the side transitioning then for you that's tough for me to think about and deal with. but I don't get as dysphoric watching your videos as I do other MTF especially ones younger than me I feel like I wasted a good 10 years in my life trying to ignore who I was. and now that I'm coming out I feel like I'll never be where I want to be I'll never be normal and I'll never have that natural smile like you do I'm very happy for you I just subscribed I wish you world of luck

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Oh I feel you on watching trans folks who are younger and have so much more life to live as their true selves! Thanks for subscribing and you are already normal don't let anyone else make you think otherwise!

Thanks man for sharing big help

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching! :)

Good on ya, Love you!

I have anxiety using the restroom too. I get looks in line. People distance themselves so I try to make them feel more uncomfortable. Lol I told my best friend about my shame and resisting the urge of being trans and she asked, why? She told me to embrace it. So, I tell you, embrace it when you use the restroom. She told me I was using the wrong restroom. Lol thank you. I wish we could hang out. Lucky p.s. today's my birthday, Nov 13th.

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Hey Happy Birthday!! :) And yes, I agree with your friend! Embrace it! :)

@ralphaelesangbedo7395

6 жыл бұрын

Your videos gives me hope and its inspiring.

Wow thats pretty dope from one post~op to another

i’m the same in terms of my right side having sensation and not my left - i heard it’s because the main nerve they take is located on the right side of your pre op junk (it has a name but i can’t remember it) and so the first part to get feeling is usually the right and then it spreads... the left side is just further away from the beginning of the nerve, and the left nerve in your pre op junk isn’t touched during surgery

@avantgarde93

6 жыл бұрын

also which ED are you looking into? i’m in the same boat... i’m frustrated w the fact that there are really not many options to make me able to penetrate sooo the ED seems like one of my only choices but i’m so nervous bc there aren’t ones specifically for us

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

+Alex G interesting thanks for the info! As for the ED I was thinking the inflatable... I wish there were better options. Have you tried the elator? It’s so damn expensive.

@avantgarde93

6 жыл бұрын

Same, I really like the inflatable I'm just so worried about complications or having to have emergency surgery to get it removed, etc. It's more scary than stage 1. I don't have the elator bc of its cost lol but I did get the stays-hard device and it doesn't fit (it was only like $65 and the same concept, you just don't get like a custom one)... the length was perfect but the rings to put around the tip and base are WAY too small... they even look too small for cis-dudes. And the material isn't a stretchy rubber so like idk who's supposed to be able to use it?? lol

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

good to know... I almost ordered one. why are they so small haha. I have a friend that just ordered one so we will see how it goes for him.

@avantgarde93

6 жыл бұрын

if it's Nash - he asked about it when I first got it back in August and I told him the issues I have w/ it and he asked what size I got the other day haha. I just don't understand why the material isn't stretchier - then it would be able to fit around more sizes. I kid you not when I say it's REALLY small.... like it must be for a really skinny dick??

I have so many questions about this procedure.

Congratulations on 5 months! You have no idea how helpful (although it seems awkward for you it seems to speak on certain things, but you still do it and thanks for that) so happy that things are getting better in terms of getting back in to the work routine and being more comfortable using the urinal. You have a winning spirit, never give up! I have so many questions, but feel a little leery about asking here. I have a consultation with Dr. Chen in December. I noticed you mentioned in one of the videos I saw of yours, that you have Blue Shield. I have Blue Cross Blue Shield, so I guess I'm wondering how much you paid out of pocket and how much your insurance covered, but that may too personal (lol). Also, I'm wondering how it works with hair removal in the donor area and it that's covered by insurance? Thanks so much for the informative videos you take your precious time making to help others like myself:) Take care of you.

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Hi there, I have blue shield and my out of pocket cost was 2k I believe they charged my insurance 200k I have a co-insurance of 20% but I have a max out of pocket of 2k so all in all not bad at all :)

Wow 5 months already. That's crazy im very happy and excited for u! Much love respect from a fellow trans guy from Hollywood CA 😎

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Oh hey Hollywood! :) Thank you!!

@rickyricardobeltran6689

6 жыл бұрын

Haha no problem

Whew what a journey...

I really love your eyebrows 😍

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

+Bosque Keliklan Wow, thank you, usually people hate them haha.

Just remember about the erecting device that if it causes you dysphoria that there are lots of cisgender males that can't get erect. You're an amazing person and I hope you are able to get done what you hope for in the future xx

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you :)

@mypupismup

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah for real. Viagra is THE biggest selling drug in THE WORLD. Erectile Dysfunction is extremely common.

Do you moisturize your arm and if so what do you use? I was watching Finn and he said in a video that he uses all sorts of great oils and stuff. I’m interested to know your regime if you have one!

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

I do! I use an essential oil blend that a friend made from me from her business called Sassy's Solutions.

This is kinda personal so you don’t have to answer, but how were they able to create balls, I find it fascinating. If possible you should make a video on it!

Is the lymph not draining?

Congrats on 1 wk @ work. I transitioned on the job so I know how you feel. Also, did you get the typical fistula underneath the penis at the base? If so, how long did it take to heal.

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks! And yes I did unfortunately. It took 8 weeks to heal. I had the SP catheter in for those 8 weeks because all of my urine was coming out of that fistula. That is also where my stricture developed later on.

Congrats

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks!!

Hey.... getting an implant can be a scary thought... I haven't had bottom surgery yet... are you aware of what an "elator" is? I think that's how you spell it. I've been looking into the couple different things that you can do and I came across the 'elator' you should look it up if you're interested.

@elicoolnchill3214

6 жыл бұрын

kzread.info/dash/bejne/i4F6lM-KcdeZZpM.html

Ur a gorgeous man! Kudos to u my friend

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you :)

Have you heard of 2UNDR underwear? I hear it is very good for post phallo

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

I haven't yet but I have heard of them!

Feels just like yesterday I was trying to sleep but couldnt because I was nervous and wondering how you were feeling from surgery haha.

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

haha aw, and here I am 5 months later! Feels like just yesterday to me too!!

Wow you're so amazing and so brave I'm a 56 year old sex change, had my bottom surgery done 1999 everything's working out fine except for having to dilate all the time which I hate but my God you're going through such such craziness you hang in there baby you look fabulous and everything's going to work out the way it's supposed to you are so brave and courageous and a handsome boy and I'll keep watching my name is Rani by the way

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks Rani! I appreciate it! It is nice to meet you! You are incredibly brave yourself to have gone through your own transition!

@parism555

6 жыл бұрын

Hey Rani. I am considering getting my bottom surgery. I have wanted it since I knew it was possible. Though many of my friends who me completed theirs were unhappy afterwards. Could you give me thoughts on your experience? I know that I sound fearful-- because I am slightly. But this is something I have wanted for ages.

One suggestion to your doctor (without wanting to cause any offence, I am not a doctor, it's only a suggestion) Try to stretch the skin with saline balloons, it's been used in other surgeries and it works, I just think the type of scar I leaves can act like a target or a brand for future prejudice...and the all process is already hard, maybe it would be nice to consider a better solution for the skin grafts, but nevertheless it is an impressive job, all the best for the future and maybe work a bit on your voice (again...just a bloke to a bloke opinion)

I wonder how u feel today

the scariest thing abt getting these surgeries for me is the recovery afterwards, it sounds so painful and as if you're starting all the way back to the beginning with flexibility oof

Did you have integra for your arm? I guess you are going for the inflatable erectile device? Even the three piece you should be able to keep for up to seven+ years if you don't have complications. The semi-rigid device can last twenty+ years.

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

I did! And yes I am looking into the inflatable as I feel the semi-rigid might not be the best for me in particular although having it last longer is appealing haha.

I'm glad you survived your first week back to work. I'm wondering on the ED if it needs to be replaced 5ish years later if the replacement can be done by regular doctor or if you need to go back to dr chen for replacement? It's good to hear you're going slow with getting back to normal in the gym. The tips you gave on dealing with hand swelling are very helpful!

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

That is a good question.. I have a feeling I would have to return back to Dr.Chen for the replacement... or that is who I would trust the most at least. Something I can ask him!

Time is flying

Can you cover it with tattoos or something

@sebastianbrooks3172

6 жыл бұрын

( Arm )

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

+Sebastain Brooks yes! I will probably do so but you have to wait a year and a half I believe

@sebastianbrooks3172

6 жыл бұрын

Did you went private? I will have my first appointment i about a week!

Nerves can take even a year to grow

I've always asked and wondered this, because I'm going to get the same surgery when I can. My question is when are you able to be sexual?.

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

+Amrey Knapp supposedly 8 weeks post-op but I’d honestly say 12

".... take my pants off and youtube doesn't like when I do that" BAHAHAHA this was a funny sentence

Also as far as erectile device have you looked into The Elator? Google it lol its also on youtube.

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

I have haha however, it is almost $300 holy shit. I will need to save my pennies. :P

I will like to see your arm how it looks know

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Good idea! I am definitely due for an arm update.

Have you had intercourse and was there any problems?

you are adorable. that's all

They skin the hell out of your arm. Will that heal more? It’s a shame they can’t take the skin from the back of the thigh or something.

@sshs13sax

6 жыл бұрын

Your sister from another mister they can take it from many other places but the arm is usually the best option because it offers the most sensation and also there is an extra nerve they can use in your forearm

@mcrchickenluvr

6 жыл бұрын

Sammy.T not only that, but not every guy wants the girth that comes along with the thigh or the back.

😢

Your hand swells because of your surgery Not exercise

@Codytalks11

5 жыл бұрын

No shit Sherlock

you should search finn the invincible on youtube and make contact with him, he his about 2 months behind you with regards to surgery but seems a lot more advanced with healing, beard growth, scar tissue and different types of pain, Maybe he has some tips or u can share the experience together x

@LoganJoannesRollerCoaster

6 жыл бұрын

The Sneezing Sniffler Finn had his stage one I think two years ago and has been on T years longer than Cody.

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

+The Sneezing Sniffler yea he had his stage one awhile ago but he just recently had his urethral re-hookup. I’m also only almost 3 years on T so there is not much tip wise anyone can do to help my beard growth. Also I know him :) we are for a pee collab.

You are such a strong person to share your very personal journey with the world! Very handsome very strong man is what I see! Thankyou for sharing your journey ♡

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching!! 😊

you are adorable. that's all

@Codytalks11

6 жыл бұрын

Haha aw thanks!