For anyone curious, Carmella has no custody of any of her children neither does Josh. Both boys got adopted as well as the baby. All kids are doing much better!! (The plaintiff was my aunt and her son is my cousin)

@beasty909

2 жыл бұрын

that. is. fan-freaking-TASTIC to hear/read!!! Thank you for letting us know bug :) x

@100BD

2 жыл бұрын

what drugs does your aunt take?

@kay22100

2 жыл бұрын

That’s good to hear. Glad the kids are doing good

@firefly-fu3ce

2 жыл бұрын

Very happy for those children, but i have some sympathy for their mother. Awful to lose all her children. Quite sad. 😞

@heathergialluca7111

2 жыл бұрын

@@firefly-fu3ce you don’t know her. It’s for the best.

Always the children who pay the hefty price for so call adults' mistakes.

@miko_28

2 жыл бұрын

@@snowycatinseattle The worst thing ever is that they don't have any other choice but to stay with their deadbeat parents.

@nthgth

Жыл бұрын

Them, and other adults who pay taxes

I feel so sorry for the poor 10 year old who "ended up" in a behavioral health unit for 10 days, and now in a "therapeutic" foster home... I pray for that little boy...🙏

@rogerargueta5769

2 жыл бұрын

If praying worked... you should pray for all 3. They are all fucked.

@erhardjackel4822

2 жыл бұрын

Awful grown ups, simplygiving a shit about the poor children

@kylas4969

2 жыл бұрын

Right?!? How do you just give up a child like that because of his behavior?? The answer is to discipline and fix the behavior, not separate him from his brother 😔 That’s awful! I get that kids can be difficult, but to just give up on a child like that is sad..

@rogerargueta5769

2 жыл бұрын

@@kylas4969 Well... she did that to a step child. Not her blood. Or her high... Judge Judy is no joke. She saw the drug use through the the slurred speech. Poor kids.

@beasty909

2 жыл бұрын

i blame the parents & the grandparents & the great-grandparents ect ect, its a nasty cycle that will never end unless they choose it /: x

Poor innocent babies. This is a horrible living situation. The grown ups already messing up their kids bc of drugs and wrong priorities. God help all children that go through this 🙏🏼

@stephanielynch5146

2 жыл бұрын

Steve was obviously offended by your comment, he must have horrible living conditions as well...

@notyours1612

2 жыл бұрын

@Steve You must be one of them.

@Wes36Man

2 жыл бұрын

I would say it's becoming more and more common nowadays as Steve is living proof. Personally I think there should be a law banning certain people from having kids.

@AGdawn

2 жыл бұрын

@Steve So, how long have you been a drug addict? Obviously for you to take such offense you must be exactly like them. If you have kids I feel sorry for them. If you don't, please do not have any because their life would be a living hell.

@s.s.5928

2 жыл бұрын

@Steve lol no I am blessed by God with children, a home, and an awesome husband. But that doesn’t sound bad in old age with the hubby 😉

So clearly nobody wants the kids but want the government assistance & the right claim them on their taxes. I pray these kids finds love through someone who will love them properly ❤️🙏🏾

@bermin11

2 жыл бұрын

These poor children do not deserve these crap parents 😢 claiming them on taxes of income they probably don't work for

@Bbyb00gangsta

2 жыл бұрын

Very sad children are pawns to some parents

@kepecos

2 жыл бұрын

I think the dad wants them and he’s been struggling financially

@kathrynshields8221

Жыл бұрын

VERY SAD FOR THE CHILDREN.... EVERY CHILD NEEDS LOVE AND CARE.

@brandirichardson1491

Жыл бұрын

Things like this makes me so angry!

No wonder the 10yrs old child was rebellious, I pray he will turn up ok later in life. Love JJ for correcting her with the meaning of separation and divorce.

@sandlotkrew8778

2 жыл бұрын

Future school sh00ter.

@chilledart1269

2 жыл бұрын

Preachhhh

How sad for the 10 year old. Separated from his siblings and his parents.

@kellharris2491

2 жыл бұрын

Being separated is probably for the best. He is acting aggressively to his siblings. For they're sack he needs to be moved to a place that can give him the support and help he needs. A sibling can be just as abusive as a parent. Also these druggy parents aren't stable at all. They caused this boy's issues.

@carriemindplsable

2 жыл бұрын

@@kellharris2491 the dad seemed ok. I hope he gets custody. I agree the child needs help but he needs his dad too. The mom seemed like an addict and a hopeless loser

@dcg590

2 жыл бұрын

It’s the adults fault he’s acting out. Poor kid. They all suck.

@carriemindplsable

2 жыл бұрын

@@dcg590 yes he is paying the price for their out of control lives

@jennahseabolt2215

Жыл бұрын

@@kellharris2491 ever think he was “aggressive “ bc of everything going on. Kids see and know more than you think and you could look at the raisins for his behavior not blame the kid for what the adults do.

“Divorced you mean?” JJ: “Not divorced you were never married” 😳🤭😬

@Mrs-O

2 жыл бұрын

Chileeeeee they gone learn! 🤣🤣🤣

@Meela234

2 жыл бұрын

@Steve Can't claim divorced if never married. Idc if you LIVED TOGETHER for 30 years.

@ninabtha1

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂

@judekanawati7467

2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly why legal and rightful marriage is preferable over civil partnership! It’s a cycle that always involves either adults abandoning the other, or even abandoning the kids to foster homes or healthcare facilities

@lolabombshell8978

Жыл бұрын

she was cold for that 😂😂

STOP HAVING KIDS YALL CANT CONTROL/AFFORD/BE RESPONSIBLE FOR JEEZ LUISE!!!

@marjtab1530

Жыл бұрын

There’s BC, why don’t people USE IT!?

@BCMoon-nd3fl

Жыл бұрын

@@marjtab1530 and abortion when BC fails.

@crylune

2 күн бұрын

@@marjtab1530 More like why don't people stop being peer pressured into having sex as if it's the most important thing in the world?

So they ruin the life of the 10 year old but instead of helping him, they give him away. They all sound like horrible people.

The 10 year old wasn't aggressive living with his father however, became aggressive while in care of the mother / step grandmother. It makes me wonder if something illegal / traumatic happened to him. That's what CPS should investigate.

@traceyjackson4470

Жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right 💯

@missJolie85

Жыл бұрын

The children doesn't live with them anymore, the youngest two are adopted and the oldest (poor guy) is still in the foster system.

@gRinchY-op5vr

6 ай бұрын

I think he was going without the attention and emotional nourishment he needed and began acting out, people like that find it's easier to put the child into care than actually try harder with the child. He should have been handed back to his father if he wasn't acting this way in his care but they didn't want him claiming taxes on him 🙄

Did judge judy have to stop herself from saying “Shut the F up” 😂

I always feel so bad for the kids stuck in the middle of these kind of messes.

She said “Stop moving pages” 🤦🏾‍♂️😂😂😂

My mom and dad were like this, I'm 57 and haven't spoke to either in 47 years. Don't miss either

Yo there's always at least one person on this show that's always out of work, looking for work, on disability, or on welfare. 😤

@dalibukauri3202

2 ай бұрын

And food stampe 😂😂😂

J.Judy driving home the "if you're not married then your claim is bullcrap" thing in every relevant case gives me life

Judge Judy called him Mr. Menendez, when his name is Mr.Mendez…she had true crime on her mind 🤣

imagine your family giving up on you and sending you into foster care because you’re “too hard to handle” the plaintiff is fucking EVIL

@honeyvinyl6119

2 жыл бұрын

exactly, she shouldn't be getting those kids. the baby and 8 year old could be too hard to handle sooner or later for her and poof she gives them away. I dont understand people with kids bro, you cant give up on your kids just because you dont want to talk to them or get them real help not some boot camp. Be a parent and grow up damn. Parenting is not a hard thing to do when you put your kids first in any situation when it become to their mental and emotional health. people out here acting like they wasnt kids too

All I can think is that poor 10 year old. God only can know what he saw or experience with 2 drug addict parents and instead of ppl being patient and loving him through it they dispose of him like a dog to a shelter. Hurts my soul.

@Gamertag9819

Жыл бұрын

I was a foster kid, don't judge them for giving the child up, you can't help the other two if you can't handle the oldests behaviour, I've seen it all

i seriously dont get how people can dress casually to court.

50 bucks a week… That’s pocket change

@IamYogiYoung

Жыл бұрын

For some people. There's others who would really struggle having to pay out an extra $200 a month.

@Gamertag9819

Жыл бұрын

As someone who sometimes doesn't even have that after bills and rent for food, it is alot for me, for some other people it's not, open your mind and get the silver spoon outta your mouth

Grateful that despite it being a struggle my parents actually raised me. Too many just get dragged up theses days.

I can’t imagine family reunions with this crew. Geeeezalooo!

STOP MOVING PAGES!! bro picked a bad day to move pages 🤣🤣🤣🤣

It amazes me that people involved in this kind of train wreck will go on national TV and expose their idiocy for all the world to see. And now that it's memorialized on KZread, they'll never be able to hide from it.

There’s a blonde lady behind the defendant who I swear is at nearly every JJ case 😂

@mahmudulhaque3580

Жыл бұрын

shes gorgeous

@Frankybroadcast

10 ай бұрын

@@mahmudulhaque3580 you mean crazy eyes? 🤪

So sad and pitiful that the ten year old isn’t with his siblings . This breaks my heart. He is only ten. If he is acting out the solution isn’t to move him out 😡. All these so called parents don’t deserve to have kids. Boy they don’t want to keep kids by line up to get paid because of the kids

@beasty909

2 жыл бұрын

if they don't want the kids, maybe the should've had good old Johnny helping them out /: makes me sick that people just want the money not the child they made, if they want money that badly, they should just go sell themselves, not the kids x

@kellharris2491

2 жыл бұрын

Not if the boy is being aggressive to his siblings to the point he had to be temporarily committed. A therapeutic fostering is the best place for him.He is probably in a more stable situation then his siblings. Keeping siblings together isn't always the best thing. Sometimes the sibling is abusive.

@barose1

2 жыл бұрын

It sounds like the 10-year-old was probably “responsible” for the other siblings. This is A textbook reason for being aggressive to the other siblings.

@marissayushi2591

2 жыл бұрын

@@kellharris2491 you sound like a horrible person. ew.

@AnikaBren

2 жыл бұрын

Unless the adults are willing to change their behaviors towards him and let go of their ideas of who he is, then nothing will get better for him. Sometimes it is best for the child to be away from that dynamic.

These poor children of the world, discarded while their parents have their fun and leave a hurricane of chaos in their wake.

No time for the kids but time for court ! Smh .

@ShweMyaukMyauk

2 жыл бұрын

Cause they get flown to LA for free and the fees will be paid including the claims etc all are paid by the production. So the show attracts low lives

Granny not only needs to tone down her anger, she needs someone to guide her in dressing for court versus for a luau. She needs a tall glass with umbrellas in it.

@criticRN

2 жыл бұрын

Lol a luau 😂

@lifeofalady

2 жыл бұрын

Facts! Why do they come to court this way..smh

@gRinchY-op5vr

9 күн бұрын

I was watching thinking lady you're angry with the wrong person here focus your frustration on your drug addled son and daughter in law

I haven’t even watched this yet but I clicked on it so fast. Seriously? Who gets to claim the kids on taxes? What an unbelievable preventable mess

She's looking very professional for her court TV appearance.

NO MOTHER-IN-LAW IS GOING TO GIVE ONE OF MY CHILDREN AWAY AND KEEP THE ONE I HAD WITH HER BIOLOGICAL SON. That’s despicable. The mom, dad/stepdad, and the grandmother should be ashamed of themselves. If you can’t get your life together for a child, don’t have one, let alone have three! The only victims are the

@JenniferGormley

Жыл бұрын

unfortunately, it doesn't seem like the mother even cared. she seemed to come to court impaired or withdrawing. Sad situation, I hope she gets help.

"Stop moving papers!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

It’s always the kids that get hurt worst of all…

First of all…….. the mother of the child that the grandmother gave up DIDNT EVEN TRY TO GET HER CHILD BACK?!

@heathergialluca7111

2 жыл бұрын

She had 4 kids she lost all custody of all of them and never tried to get them back. She’s a terrible person. I still pray for her other three everyday

These THREE chikdren have my utmost sympathy. The mom,dad(s) n grandmother,,,,? Not One bit of sympathy!

@sarabrown7488

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. It hurts me that the ten year old was moved out

@angelinajackson7684

2 жыл бұрын

@@sarabrown7488 the cousin of the boys is on the comments, they said all three were adopted

"Stop moving pages." 😹

Poor children!!! I hope and pray all of them find the love they deserve!!! It's so sickening how greedy and selfish people can be!!!

$50 a week 🤦🏾‍♀️

Why didn't she grill the "mother" about paying child support for all the years he had full custody? That's rhetorical.... we already know why.

@lindamcdingdong557

2 жыл бұрын

But why??

@1hanagima

Жыл бұрын

The mother most likely had no employment or she paid her half of the child support so there was no need to mention it. If the parents don't have a 50/50 split the one granted visitation has to pay support unless the primary caregiver says they do not need it/ work out a deal.

As a straight man that enjoys women my own age… Judy’s lipstick is always ON POINT 😂

Meth is one hell of a drug.

@mganczak

2 жыл бұрын

Preach

@Bebedollie

2 жыл бұрын

How can u tell I just thought they was slow

@lorieharris2776

2 жыл бұрын

The mother's boyfriend has healing pick scab scars, the regressing jaw and mouth slump. The mother has upper lip lower nose skin discoloration. These are signs that they are both abstaining. The mother in law may be a opioid (pills user ) she's twitchy. Unable to keep herself from fiditing, and has an ending almost slur to her speaking and inability tokeep her eyes focused as well as unable to keep from inturupting verbally. The mother's "slowness" is her response to trying to maintain control to process her responses before replying. She's likely following her rehab program and been clean (or at least clean from the harder drugs ) for awhile.

Poor kiddo :( sorry buddy, your mother and your guardian failed you completely, especially your mother. I hope your life is much better now.

GLAD THE CHILDREN ARE DOING WELL NOW..........SOME PEOPLE DONT DESERVE CHILDREN!!

It's all about the money and not the kids how sad. I feel so bad for all the kids especially the ten year old.

Some people should NOT have kids, smh. At the end of the day, they are fighting for money and the kids are suffering. Sad.

Wish I could hug the children

I wonder why the oldest has aggression issues. 🙄

Omg love ❤️ you judge 👩‍⚖️ thank you for serving people in a very sincere manner

My ex went back to his hometown and claimed the children on his taxes when I had them. This mysterious lady from Revenue Canada started harassing me on the phone as she reversed the claim stating that he had the children. I provided documentation 3 times to Revenue Canada proving that the children were in my custody yet they still have not done an adjustment to my taxes. I spoke with a local taxation lawyer and he advised me to cease taking calls from the worker back east (I reside on the west coast) as she had obviously done something illegal. This is going back 10 years now and Revenue Canada has yet to rectify the claim properly. I don't know how government agencies can withhold the money they owe you when a corrupt worker has taken advantage of the situation on someone else's behalf. The most ridiculous thing about this is HR Block was requesting documention of a rental receipt from my landlord, a utility bill in my name in order to prove the children were with me. When I had a Revenue Canada worker on the phone I asked him how these documents proved that the children were residing with me. I told him that I literally could have gone to 10 different neighbors and had them write up affidavits stating this to be true. Would that not be more proof than a hydro bill??? RC needs to seriously revise their requirements as to what information they are collecting as proof. This is utter BS.

Nobody cares about the kids but everyone's mad about the money. Odd.

I have 2 kids with my ex. We just each claim one... But the way it supposed to go is the Custodial parent claims them unless there is a court order

As a teacher, I always say that the kids suffer the consequences of their parents choices. And they bring that weight to school, it is so sad for them.

Interesting case . He shouldn’t of claimed them on his 2016 tax return bc they didn’t live with him .

@ismaelsabajo7742

2 жыл бұрын

Shouldn'tve* or Shouldn't have. Let's do better.

@beasty909

2 жыл бұрын

he shouldn't have indeed bug, or maybe he should've just used a johnny /:

@jilliandeleon6354

2 жыл бұрын

@@ismaelsabajo7742 oh you’re one of THOSE aren’t you . How sad

@ismaelsabajo7742

2 жыл бұрын

@@jilliandeleon6354 it's a thankless job, but I must persevere.

@AmandaJ__

2 жыл бұрын

@@ismaelsabajo7742 👏🏻😂

Absolutely awful. These people should really not have children at all

$50 a week??? For 2 children? He got off easy!

I HATE these folks. That poor boy 😣 I’m sick thinking of what he’s going through, just a child and victim of these buffoons

That mother showed up to court high. That should be the most embarrassing thing a mother could do when it comes to her children’s welfare…show up high to court.

they're worried about taxes???? greedy and wrong smh.

So sad to give up 1 child and not the other you could just imagine the pain that child is oing through wondering why him soooo sad.

"This is your daughter in law" "Yes it is"

@JenniferGormley

Жыл бұрын

lol I didn't even notice that.

I feel so sad for the 10 year old. How sad that they gave up on him 😞

Dudes getting with women that already have kids is beyond me

I have 2 siblings. My mom would claim 1, dad would claim 2, then switch the next year. When 1 aged out, they just each claimed 1. And when she aged out, they went back to switching every year with me. Very mutual. And my father payed child support

@everythingashleymarie

2 жыл бұрын

Unless everyone all lived in the same household, that’s not how it works. Whoever the child lives with for 6 or more months has the right to claim the child. That’s the irs law. Irs trumps family court.

Some ppl should just be spayed or neutered! Smh.

She talks about that little boy like he’s an animal smh. Shame on you. This isn’t an animal shelter, these are children. If they don’t “work” for you you exhaust all options and specialists not give them up. People should have pets before kids.

Children are the ones who suffer the most.

How bad a parent must be for the government to take all your kids away from you 🤨

So I'm going to court, on TV, and I'm gonna wear my 7$ yellow tank top. Perfect!

@ReneeR877

7 ай бұрын

😅😅😅😅😅

$50/week for childcare? what a guy!

She came to court in a night gown

J.j can do this case blindfolded, she spent many years doing cases like these

I don't understand why she wants to take care of somebody else children but they are arguing claiming their children of their taxes come on and all this unnecessary drama for what just sad and ridiculous?

Throw all of them in jail . Disgusting people

So the parents are fighting for money instead of their own kids

You know this is a tv show when the judge is going on and on about the history of who had the kids, when that doesn't matter. For tax purposes, outside of a court order, it's all about physical custody. Who had the kids for the most days of the year. Full stop. Child support doesn't come into play when it comes to determining dependents. If a court order says one parent can claim the children on their taxes, then that supersedes the the physical custody portion. Grandma only had the kids for 3 months of the year. If the kids were with their mother the 9 months, then the mother gets to claim the kids, regardless of if custody should have been with the father. Tax law in some situations really isn't that hard. *source - I used to work for the IRS.

There are way to many incapable people who makes babies way to easy. And it is always the children who suffers.

As hard as it is to hear about the 10 yr old being sent away, sometimes it is better for the child to be away from the home dynamic. The adults get into patterns of behavior towards the child and get locked into their beliefs about what they expect from the child(good or bad) which locks the child into patterns of behavior that are destructive but gets him what he thinks he wants. By him being outside the home and in a new environment, with adults who do not have a preconceived idea of him and know how to guide him into productive behaviors and how not to react to his destructive behaviors(so he is not inadvertently rewarded), he has a chance to learn and grow in the right direction. Hopefully the adults in his life take that time to learn how to parent him in a more constructive way and learn how to work with him with an open mind. If the adults do not take the time to change themselves, he goes right back into the same dynamic and will revert back to the way he was acting. From a previous post by a cousin it sounds like the young man was adopted into a new home and is doing well.

I'm sick if my taxes going to these people!

"Stop shuffling the papersss" - Byrd

He's got a massive bald spot.

Shame on those parents! Bring kids into this world and the kids pay the price for having no good parents!

$50.00 a week in child support is peanuts. When I was a baby, my deadbeat Dad only paid $37.50 a week. Sometimes, he didn't even pay any at all, always a BS excuse like "I forgot", "I don't have any money", etc

That’s messed up for the 10-year-old she gave up on him after 10 days for one for two days is your grandson I’m glad my mom is not like this lady

Lord bless those children!

@ericrivera8410

Жыл бұрын

They don't sound blessed to me

@CanadianMonarchist

Жыл бұрын

@@ericrivera8410 That was my point.

I mean damn, you’re coming before this judge and the world and that’s what everybody wore?

She gets food stamps but has that expensiveasss Pandora necklace

My son has all custody of his son. The state DCFS showed up at our house and said he’d been placed on a safety plan. Then wouldn’t tell us why. About a week later they came back and let us know his mom had delivered her new baby and it was taken at birth over substances ( she did this with my grandson and had cases pending ) A year later the court said she was completely unfit as she didn’t bother to show up to any court dates or visitation with her son. Guess who claimed on taxes again this year !!!!!!! No flipping court order was made on taxes. Her rights were terminated in October last year , 2022, She claimed him anyway and got her return and we now have a lawyer. She’s claimed him every year and we’ve had him full time for 2 of those years. We never asked her for anything at all. We just begged her to get help and bond with her son. Smh so more lawyer money. It’s outrageous what goes on with taxes for kids. This lady never has had her kids during this time of claiming them . She should go to jail and pay back the money 100%

The dysfunction is strong with this one. Holy hell.

"They were never married " poor decisions and irresponsible adults ruins the life of young Innocent kid's.

Why is the mother in law wearing a summer nighty. Yuk

@rhondaouwenga7429

2 жыл бұрын

Lol

@raa8504

2 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣

JJ was about to tell that woman to shut the f up but she caught herself.. lmao

That woman has Got to stop having babies. She is clearly not able to look after them and it is unfair to those she has to be shuffled around all the time.

Stop moving pages 🤣🤣

The defendant looks REALLY familiar. But I can't place him to save my life!

This is my understanding. If they are talking about 2016 taxes, it's for the prior year which would be 2015. I believe he had the right to claim the kids because they probably lived with him the majority of the time.

Years ago when my daughter was born We never allowed the system at the hospital or anywhere to put a number on our daughter Denoting social security voluntary acquiescence and giving the system power over over us and our Daughter. Do any of you out there in the world of the United States understand the contract that you are putting your children under when they are born. ? ? Time for you to start looking into what you are giving and the power you are giving to the state by doing this voluntary contract. Enjoy

🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️…I can’t even…..