Ex-Lover of Wannabe Pilot Obsessed with Gabby Petito Goes Missing | Maddi Kingsbury Case Analysis

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Пікірлер: 619

  • @14catsand1human
    @14catsand1human24 күн бұрын

    Never tell them they should not hit you again, just leave.

  • @gunsrfun378

    @gunsrfun378

    24 күн бұрын

    yep!!! Mental abuse too, so hard to spot if your young.

  • @MegaLivingIt

    @MegaLivingIt

    24 күн бұрын

    Agree. She failed to recognize or at least believe real danger signals unfortunately, but Dr. Grande being a professional did see them. 😢

  • @saraehernandezz

    @saraehernandezz

    24 күн бұрын

    I couldn’t like this comment enough.

  • @jackiekjono

    @jackiekjono

    24 күн бұрын

    Also don’t do a dramatic confrontation. If ever there was an appropriate time to ghost your ex, this is it

  • @14catsand1human

    @14catsand1human

    24 күн бұрын

    @@jackiekjono it is tempting to telll them you have won but actions are better and safer by leaving.

  • @cybermandan1960
    @cybermandan196024 күн бұрын

    You know the killer f'ed up when Dr. Grande says "that's pretty much it for exculpatory evidence." 😂

  • @ds7900

    @ds7900

    24 күн бұрын

    Yup.

  • @Adam-Shanko

    @Adam-Shanko

    24 күн бұрын

    Grande is right about this one. be critical towards everyone, some people are flat and without emotions :/ …

  • @aubreyfolwick2159

    @aubreyfolwick2159

    24 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @rachelmansoor8323

    @rachelmansoor8323

    23 күн бұрын

    Very true 😂

  • @OnHighway61

    @OnHighway61

    23 күн бұрын

    😂

  • @WynnterGreen
    @WynnterGreen24 күн бұрын

    Do not EVER accept physical violence in your relationships. You CANNOT fix them.

  • @vandolmatzis8146

    @vandolmatzis8146

    24 күн бұрын

    amen.

  • @chrisjones6496

    @chrisjones6496

    24 күн бұрын

    That goes for BOTH sexes.

  • @enjoystraveling

    @enjoystraveling

    23 күн бұрын

    @@chrisjones6496 of course

  • @elianazuniga6541

    @elianazuniga6541

    23 күн бұрын

    ​@@chrisjones6496obviously. Why even mention this?

  • @chrisjones6496

    @chrisjones6496

    23 күн бұрын

    @@elianazuniga6541 Actually the top comment should read both physical AND verbal abuse should not be tolerated at all. I mention both sexes because a lot of men (especially young ones) are embarrassed to speak up or leave a toxic relationship because they think it makes them look weak. It’s obviously a huge sign of strength to get out of a bad situation. I find domestic violence extremely disgusting and cowardly and therefore all the comments here obvious. However perhaps some might need some reinforcement knowing it’s ok to be a man and seek help and that it’s not a sign of weakness. In fact for anyone leaving a toxic relationship they should be praised and admired for their strength. What’s obvious to you might not be obvious to another person. Obviously.

  • @tracievendetta1908
    @tracievendetta190824 күн бұрын

    Never tell them! Get out when they go to work. Or won’t be home. Tell no one!!

  • @deew7014

    @deew7014

    24 күн бұрын

    🎯

  • @B_COOPER

    @B_COOPER

    24 күн бұрын

    Or you could just not murder people

  • @1stdebunker

    @1stdebunker

    24 күн бұрын

    You can't Trace a Vendetta. It's Nature for a Beast

  • @ChrisMissal

    @ChrisMissal

    24 күн бұрын

    Totally, I helped a friend bolt over a weekend once. Just a few close friends helped out.

  • @tracievendetta1908

    @tracievendetta1908

    24 күн бұрын

    @@1stdebunker not true! I’ve done it!

  • @kendra31
    @kendra3124 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for being so empathetic to Maddie. The only safe way to leave someone who has put their hands on you is either with no warning or in a group setting. Like "only go back to get your stuff with a police escort" group setting. She cared for him so much that she wanted to be honest with him that she was leaving, and now their two kids won't have either parent around anymore.

  • @sheviper

    @sheviper

    13 күн бұрын

    Even then they can still come get you if they know where you are

  • @blueboats
    @blueboats24 күн бұрын

    The "technology expert" rips the cameras out of the drywall to remove the SD cards . . .

  • @yayinternets

    @yayinternets

    22 күн бұрын

    And he thought turning off location services would do the trick as well.

  • @yvito125
    @yvito12524 күн бұрын

    If I disappear, my spouse killed me. Like, that's the kind of a hunch that you should listen to 😵‍💫

  • @ShraddaNiche

    @ShraddaNiche

    24 күн бұрын

    I always wonder why they risk going back to a clear and present danger. we are flawed us humans.

  • @geraldfriend256

    @geraldfriend256

    24 күн бұрын

    @@ShraddaNichesome are afraid to leave. It does trigger many abusers when they get abandoned.

  • @yvito125

    @yvito125

    24 күн бұрын

    @@ShraddaNiche humans love the drama

  • @HostaMahogey

    @HostaMahogey

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@geraldfriend256staying clearly didn't work either

  • @Kalleesto

    @Kalleesto

    23 күн бұрын

    @@geraldfriend256I see many comments like the above and get annoyed at how much they just don’t get it. These men are misogynistic murderers. She DID leave. That’s WHY she’s dead. Like Nicole Simpson and I’ve always thought that Gabby Petito must’ve finally told Laundry it was over ….

  • @theovolz3073
    @theovolz307324 күн бұрын

    _Never_ stay with someone who lays a hand on you.

  • @scotabot7826

    @scotabot7826

    24 күн бұрын

    NEVER!!!

  • @Itsjcold0

    @Itsjcold0

    23 күн бұрын

    Yep if you stay it means you welcome the next time it happens.

  • @ilonakarlsson537

    @ilonakarlsson537

    22 күн бұрын

    ​@@Itsjcold0 It does not. Stop putting the responsibility on the victim.

  • @Drak3_710

    @Drak3_710

    21 күн бұрын

    @@Itsjcold0what year where you born

  • @melfreemans

    @melfreemans

    8 күн бұрын

    ​@@ilonakarlsson537who has the responsibility to leave an abusive relationship then? The abuser sure isn't going anywhere. Putting the responsibility to leave on the person being abused isn't a form victim blaming. People have to be responsible for protecting themselves. No one else will protect you.

  • @InvisibleWarrior279
    @InvisibleWarrior27924 күн бұрын

    Oh Lord. These dark relationships are so sad. Narcissism is really running amok in the world 😢

  • @wanyatelborn

    @wanyatelborn

    24 күн бұрын

    Yes untreated mental illness

  • @the11theleven

    @the11theleven

    24 күн бұрын

    Instead of pathologising 'the world' with narcissism, it'd be more helpful to acknowledge that there just isn't enough mental health services available to support people with psychological issues that prevent them from being able to have functional relationships.

  • @drakedrones

    @drakedrones

    24 күн бұрын

    It’s been like this since dawn of times. Glad we all are waking up and confronting

  • @spyroluver0951

    @spyroluver0951

    24 күн бұрын

    people also need to be held accountable for not wanting to self improve or look towards supports when offered.

  • @alexialira3839

    @alexialira3839

    24 күн бұрын

    The only types of people who entertain narcissists are those with unresolved issues and toxicity themselves. Narcissism may be running amok, but there are always fools that will bend over for them & create offspring with them who will more than likely become narcissists or suffer from other psych issues. The cycle never stops and that's because many adults rather become victims or play the victim than do the work to become a healthy adult and choose better partners & father's/mothers for their innocent kids.

  • @cherylm9770
    @cherylm977024 күн бұрын

    How sad. Those poor little children Lost both their parents ! May she Rest Easy 🙏

  • @roya340

    @roya340

    24 күн бұрын

    They lost their mother, a father like him is better not to have in the first place.

  • @sharonhoyt2133

    @sharonhoyt2133

    24 күн бұрын

    I'm sure they are better off without their father and I hope a member of Maddie's family will get custody of the children.

  • @JRKonungrinn

    @JRKonungrinn

    24 күн бұрын

    When one parent is a possessive, abusive, murderous monster, it's never sad that the children lost both parents, only sad that they lost the parent who was the victim.

  • @alexialira3839

    @alexialira3839

    24 күн бұрын

    @roya340 She picked him to be their father. She had a hand in bringing this male into their lives. The decisions and actions of two toxic adults led to offspring and then led to them not having stability nor parents. The only victims are the kids.

  • @roya340

    @roya340

    24 күн бұрын

    @@alexialira3839 I agree,🙏🙏

  • @tessaducek5601
    @tessaducek560124 күн бұрын

    Even with traceable electronics CCTV. People think they are smarter than the devices. I get early 00s. But these days its downright stupid. What was gained? Mourning family and children with neither parent. Poor lady could not escape this treacherous beast.

  • @melindadurchholz3738
    @melindadurchholz373824 күн бұрын

    Boy, that last sentence sums up the last chapter of their relationship. It’s very sad when women can’t see evil in an ex even when it right in front of them. If they put their hands around your neck, it’s only a matter of time. That’s the one common theme on killer spouses’ news shows.

  • @SinisterScoundrel6562

    @SinisterScoundrel6562

    24 күн бұрын

    Women can't even see evil in the men they choose. All that gets em wet is the sight of a tall rich heartthrob. Blind and dumb!

  • @kaos3383
    @kaos338324 күн бұрын

    People need to quit harming one another. It's a shame.

  • @margipinto7925
    @margipinto792524 күн бұрын

    More children left without parents now 🥺😡

  • @jimbob9086

    @jimbob9086

    24 күн бұрын

    I'm sure they'll miss their father of the year

  • @rabbit9905

    @rabbit9905

    24 күн бұрын

    Right and people wonder why "this generation blah blah blah"

  • @user-xn7uu9jt9q

    @user-xn7uu9jt9q

    24 күн бұрын

    😢😢😢

  • @Fruitdrink2000
    @Fruitdrink200024 күн бұрын

    This is so sad 😢 the poor lady and kids.

  • @Kinann

    @Kinann

    24 күн бұрын

    She seems like a really nice person that's smart and conscientious. She cared too much for this loser.

  • @mikehunt6160

    @mikehunt6160

    24 күн бұрын

    @@Kinann smart?

  • @Kinann

    @Kinann

    22 күн бұрын

    @@mikehunt6160 Yeah. Smarter than him. SHE was the breadwinner. He couldn't be bothered.

  • @agirlyman
    @agirlyman24 күн бұрын

    "He keeps telling me to shut up..." ~ Gabby Petito

  • @bthomson

    @bthomson

    24 күн бұрын

    This is heartbreaking!

  • @agirlyman

    @agirlyman

    24 күн бұрын

    @@bthomson heartbreaking and haunting I can't ever unhear that😔

  • @alexialira3839

    @alexialira3839

    24 күн бұрын

    They were both toxic people. That's why they got together and stayed together. Not sure why people gloss over the fact that she'd abuse him frequently too. Neither should have been with the other nor with anyone else until they got mental help or at least matured. But they did and look how it ended. I don't see either as a victim of the other. They were both crazies.

  • @xxBRANDYSAURUSREXxx

    @xxBRANDYSAURUSREXxx

    24 күн бұрын

    Which is crazy cause one of them was the victim of MURDER.​@@alexialira3839

  • @anneflynn9614

    @anneflynn9614

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@alexialira3839 So that makes it okay that he murdered her?

  • @francislarv3012
    @francislarv301224 күн бұрын

    Adam is a dim bulb if he would be oblivious to the fact that he would be suspect #1 and put under a microscope

  • @ingwopwetrust

    @ingwopwetrust

    24 күн бұрын

    I don’t think he cared, some guys see it as “if I can’t have her nobody can”

  • @martiwaterman1437

    @martiwaterman1437

    23 күн бұрын

    @@ingwopwetrustThat’s very true. There are also guys that believe they can outsmart everyone and get away with murder, literally.

  • @RB01.10

    @RB01.10

    21 күн бұрын

    And he truly thought his statement about Petito would fly as a “joke”. I fail to see any humor in his statement, it sounds like someone who gets in trouble for something they said and try to cover by saying “it was only a joke”.

  • @bthomson
    @bthomson24 күн бұрын

    That licensed plate dodge says it all!

  • @jamesoncross7494
    @jamesoncross749424 күн бұрын

    He was so lazy he couldn't even dig a hole.

  • @peacelove7437

    @peacelove7437

    23 күн бұрын

    I was thinking about this watching true crime with bm killing bw. The black men never ever buried the body. Heck they don’t even move the body, lol, they just leave the dead body.

  • @kambrose1549
    @kambrose154922 күн бұрын

    Very hard to move far enough away when you have kids and a job without the abuser getting wind of it. So sad she didnt escape this predatory monster. Poor children too!

  • @renee1961
    @renee196124 күн бұрын

    Poor Maddie had to be just Terrified! And her Innocent Children have lost their Mother, because of their Father!! Heartbreaking!🥀🥀🥀🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @HiNickCares

    @HiNickCares

    24 күн бұрын

    She picked him😂😅😝

  • @scotabot7826

    @scotabot7826

    24 күн бұрын

    Father??? Sperm supplier only!!

  • @jackieblue1267

    @jackieblue1267

    24 күн бұрын

    @@HiNickCares Yes us human being aren't perfect. He doesn't have the right to murder her which is why he was arrested.

  • @HiNickCares

    @HiNickCares

    24 күн бұрын

    @@jackieblue1267 Uh, pick a non-murderer to be your boyfriend!

  • @jackieblue1267

    @jackieblue1267

    24 күн бұрын

    @@HiNickCares Well she didn't know he was a murderer did she? If everyone could avoid evil people we wouldn't be reading about this type of thing.

  • @yonikki
    @yonikki24 күн бұрын

    From personal experience with a sociopathic malignant narcissist (formally diagnosed in 2005), she did NOT willingly "tell" him that she was in another relationship. I guarantee you that he got in her face and FORCED it out of her ... then became full of rage and planned her elimination. I experienced this myself, and it was only AFTER hours of demanding interrogation that I told him (now ex) I wanted out permanently. We have 4 children together ... and he still threatens to kill me to this day (10+ years after our separation). I don't believe for one minute that she told him to rub it in his face .... absolutely no way!!!

  • @Rebecca-hc5ju

    @Rebecca-hc5ju

    24 күн бұрын

    You're right! She definitely wasn't like, "honey, sit down, I have something to tell you...."

  • @itchysheets1222

    @itchysheets1222

    24 күн бұрын

    That or he was tracking her, stalking her, going thru her stuff and he put it together himself. Been there too. Even when you’ve never cheated, you’re always a cheater, always the one needing checked up on. It’s torture.

  • @user-fi6dc8dw9f

    @user-fi6dc8dw9f

    23 күн бұрын

    You found this out after having 4 kids with him? Maybw more women should use birth control and leave sooner so there’s no “forcing info out”. Bc you’re just gone.

  • @yonikki

    @yonikki

    23 күн бұрын

    @user-fi6dc8dw9f yes ... we went to years of counseling after baby #2, and that's when I found out what a malignant narcissist was for the first time. I thought I could help him change because I was young and ... dumb honestly. Narcissists will never change because it's part of their personality. Also, I learned in counseling to never blame a victim for not leaving soon enough ... clearly, you've never been in that position. Good for you.

  • @silverianjannvs5315

    @silverianjannvs5315

    17 күн бұрын

    ​@@yonikki'young & dumb' is used over & over again

  • @TheScapegoat420
    @TheScapegoat42024 күн бұрын

    I just don't get people who want to constantly track someone and always have to know exactly where someone is and who they are talking to. Seems incredibly exhausting. I could see doing it for a week if you think you are being cheated on and have children, but constantly, no. It's time to go. Rip Maddi. God bless her child and family.

  • @chi-chi6354

    @chi-chi6354

    24 күн бұрын

    Control is the name of the game for abusers .. always trying to control others while having very little self control

  • @Jess-kn8vl

    @Jess-kn8vl

    23 күн бұрын

    I agree. Just break up and move on, there are billions of people in the world.

  • @TheScapegoat420

    @TheScapegoat420

    23 күн бұрын

    @@Jess-kn8vl Sometimes it's very difficult if there is financial abuse and children involved. They are going to smear you and make you look crazy. CPS is going to believe them. Especially if the narc is the mother.

  • @josephl6727

    @josephl6727

    23 күн бұрын

    That is because they are up to no good and get paranoid that you're doing the same thing. Self-righteousness can really make a person twisted. Double standards are a common issue as well.

  • @karis7649
    @karis764924 күн бұрын

    Dr Grande your consistency can’t be overstated & your dry humor is so enjoyably understated - The perfect daily dose.

  • @Legendary_Archfiend

    @Legendary_Archfiend

    24 күн бұрын

    You’ll have my children and you will be a loyal partner I don’t care what plans you had - you dedicating yourself to our children Now

  • @Grimlooper

    @Grimlooper

    24 күн бұрын

    @@Legendary_ArchfiendI think you should take your meds

  • @marielleo4715

    @marielleo4715

    24 күн бұрын

    Yes,but who are supporters of this killer?

  • @scottr2279
    @scottr227924 күн бұрын

    Dr Grande is like the father I never had 😅

  • @LUCKSREVENGE

    @LUCKSREVENGE

    24 күн бұрын

    ❤ true that. If you ever saw him and his wife, you would want them to be your parents.

  • @Yasser.Osman.A.Z.

    @Yasser.Osman.A.Z.

    24 күн бұрын

    He won't diagnose you, but he will speculate who your mother was!

  • @cybermandan1960

    @cybermandan1960

    24 күн бұрын

    I'm just waiting for mine to come home from the shops with the milk. The waiting line must be crazy, it's been 15 years! Any day now...

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    @doanlove

    24 күн бұрын

    fr

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    @Dale-jd4nj

    24 күн бұрын

    I wanna thank you guys for generating an interesting dialogue ☺️

  • @ursinha115
    @ursinha11524 күн бұрын

    One coward being the idol of another... sad! I appreciate your analysis, Dr. Grande!

  • @saraglickman5889
    @saraglickman588924 күн бұрын

    Very sad case! It's unfortunate Maddi couldn't escape from the abusive relationship.

  • @peterwilson7532

    @peterwilson7532

    21 күн бұрын

    She chose not to leave, women need to stop rewarding these despicable men's behaviour.

  • @renee1961
    @renee196124 күн бұрын

    Dr. Grande, I learn a lot from your Analysis, every time! And I love that shirt!

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    @LUCKSREVENGE24 күн бұрын

    Hi everyone, Dr. grande is great !!! even giving us something on a Sunday

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    @SmilingBeaver-ou7nc

    24 күн бұрын

    He uploads everyday of the week, and we look forward to it. Have A Wonderful Weekend ✌️

  • @philipbest364
    @philipbest36424 күн бұрын

    I'm still laughing at "Squirt Monsters 2" 😂

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    @l-train7876

    24 күн бұрын

    Same😂

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    @GenXfrom75

    24 күн бұрын

    Yep 😂😂😂😂

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    @Le_coq_sportiff

    24 күн бұрын

    Same👍👍👍👍👍

  • @bunberrier

    @bunberrier

    24 күн бұрын

    Yeah I paused it and went to a website where I could get a more, ahem, in depth view of the person under discussion.

  • @privard89

    @privard89

    24 күн бұрын

    The judge must have watched and enjoyed squirt monsters 2 to give that demon lady 10 years for what she did

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    @melaniesmith131324 күн бұрын

    What a pleasant surprise to find a new video from Dr. Grande. Excellant, as usual.

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    @sallywillis1448

    24 күн бұрын

    Yes indeed. Clever analysis!

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    @piotrekszczepanski5125

    24 күн бұрын

    Ummm, surprised? Were you being ironic? Dr Grande puts out a new video every single day without fail, and has done so for many years. He is as dependable as his daily video release is predictable, and good on him for being one of the hardest working youtubers out there!

  • @melaniesmith1313

    @melaniesmith1313

    24 күн бұрын

    @@piotrekszczepanski5125 Yes, I was being ironic. 🙂 I look forward to his frequent uploads.

  • @piotrekszczepanski5125

    @piotrekszczepanski5125

    24 күн бұрын

    Apologies for my comment then. More and more people online don't seem to understand the concept of irony, I'm glad that we both do. 😁

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    @ramfaki1256

    24 күн бұрын

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    @AbuAfakski24 күн бұрын

    Dr. Grande, Can you do a video analyzing people who feel the need to reply “First!” on KZread vids? Perhaps you could do a humorous video with a bunch of short answers to oddball requests you get

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    @dicedrice7216

    24 күн бұрын

    My favorites are those people who are so overzealous that they post the typo "Frist!"

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    @DarkAngelOfTexas

    24 күн бұрын

    I miss Dr. G’s KZread shorts

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    24 күн бұрын

    I love these ideas 😂

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    @Rebecca-hc5ju

    24 күн бұрын

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    @Rebecca-hc5ju

    24 күн бұрын

    I'm FIRST!! 😅🤣😂

  • @mirandahickman3352
    @mirandahickman335224 күн бұрын

    Dr. Grande, I am interested in your analysis of Max Azzarello. He was the man that self immoalted outside of the courthouse.

  • @WobblesandBean
    @WobblesandBean24 күн бұрын

    I'm angry that the authorities had so many chances to put this man away, and failed. The same goes for Brian Laundrie. Two women would still be alive if only the law took DV seriously. But no, they don't do anything until it's far too late.

  • @cleopatra597

    @cleopatra597

    24 күн бұрын

    same happened with Nicole Brown Simpson , useless authorities did nothing even with all her evidence of abuse , we all know how it ended with that psycho o j

  • @matthewakian2
    @matthewakian224 күн бұрын

    I think you might need to see a psychologist about that cactus obsession you got, doc.

  • @sarahjaye4117

    @sarahjaye4117

    23 күн бұрын

    So dry 🙃

  • @jaxl1931
    @jaxl193124 күн бұрын

    Doc, thank you for another fascinating video! As one of your #1 fans for years; I have a request. I sometimes think about the short you made with your wife where you wished her a happy birthday and wedding anniversary and said, "long term relationships may be a lot of work, but they pay high dividends". If at all possible, could you please, Pleeaasse make a video speculating, of course, 😊what makes a long-term relationship successful? Is it similar interests and personalities? Can two people really just naturally be a great fit for one another? What is the key to a successful relationship/marriage? I know so many people who are divorced, unhappy with their partners, and have often been told, nothing lasts. I would love to know your thoughts on this topic. Thank you doctor Grande and congratulations on all your success !❤❤❤

  • @zenawarrior7442
    @zenawarrior744224 күн бұрын

    Another very sad case. Excellent analysis, quips, lessons. Too bad some people can't get away sooner from an abusive partnership. Thanks Dr G😊💙💙

  • @micheleshively8557
    @micheleshively855724 күн бұрын

    I just watched a 48 hours here on KZread yesterday about this case. So sad. So senseless. Thanks for doing this one Dr Grande! ❤ Blessings to you from Texas

  • @RB01.10

    @RB01.10

    21 күн бұрын

    I did too. I couldn’t believe some of the things I heard on it.

  • @stephenabbott7259
    @stephenabbott725924 күн бұрын

    Incredibly sloppy murder. The only thing left he forgot to do was go to Home Depot.

  • @sondragramse1770

    @sondragramse1770

    24 күн бұрын

    Or Walmart

  • @micnorton9487

    @micnorton9487

    24 күн бұрын

    Well he could have queried Google "am I an idiot if I try switching license plates AND GET CAUGHT ON VIDEO doing it",, or "will someone find my wife's remains if I just leave the body unburied on a property I used to manage"...

  • @RB01.10

    @RB01.10

    21 күн бұрын

    @@micnorton9487Exactly How could he be so clueless as not to know nowadays cameras are pretty much everywhere?!

  • @micnorton9487

    @micnorton9487

    21 күн бұрын

    @@RB01.10 I can only guess that people who resort to urder-May AREN'T very smart to begin with...

  • @cats2905
    @cats290524 күн бұрын

    As someone from southern Minnesota.. I haven’t heard most of this information. I think parents are hiding a lot.

  • @Lisanoencasa

    @Lisanoencasa

    23 күн бұрын

    I followed this from Iowa when it popped on the news. She seems like such a nice person, sorry to see she couldn’t walk away soon enough. This dude is a real pos.

  • @renee1961
    @renee196124 күн бұрын

    Good 🌆 evening, Dr. Grande! I hope you're doing well! Thank You!

  • @gogreen7794
    @gogreen779424 күн бұрын

    Why do so many couples stay in "tumultuous" relationships and have kids together? Do they like the drama or even danger? Are they afraid of being single?

  • @l-train7876

    @l-train7876

    24 күн бұрын

    I’m going to guess you’re single and have no kids.

  • @gogreen7794

    @gogreen7794

    24 күн бұрын

    @l-train7876 Just because I question why so many people get into and stay in bad relationships? I hope you aren't one of them.

  • @user-io7yk7qb1k

    @user-io7yk7qb1k

    24 күн бұрын

    Never underestimate the power of a narcissist and how they manipulate, coerce and control good people.

  • @l-train7876

    @l-train7876

    24 күн бұрын

    @@gogreen7794 never married and no kids here.

  • @itchysheets1222

    @itchysheets1222

    24 күн бұрын

    @@l-train7876exactly. Once you have kids, it’s a whole other thing at that point. If that person takes their mask off…..you have to do whatever your and your children’s life depends on, not what “makes sense” or is “right” or “obvious” you have to survive until you get a safe chance. And those are rare when someone is so controlling.

  • @barthansard7058
    @barthansard705824 күн бұрын

    I get so tired of the prevaricating family members who make dumb and uninformed excuses for deadly relations. Better are the people who value decency of morality and justice for the victims rather than trying to uphold the "family name". Adam is obviously another sad horrendous domestic partner who has to have his way, even if it literally ruins lives. Thanks for another supremely informative segment, Doc! Hope folks can learn from you before they may make some tragic life altering mistake. But I bet none of your fans and viewers would ever be in that designated group of villains!

  • @peps1943

    @peps1943

    24 күн бұрын

    You spelled pretentious wrong

  • @barthansard7058

    @barthansard7058

    24 күн бұрын

    😂

  • @micnorton9487

    @micnorton9487

    24 күн бұрын

    ​​@@peps1943Prevaricating, people, partner - those are the only three p words in his entire post, how could he have misspelled pretentious?

  • @Ephemeropteraa
    @Ephemeropteraa24 күн бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video. Just what I needed after working all weekend!❤

  • @jackhynds175
    @jackhynds17523 күн бұрын

    *me, moments before I flawlessly explain precisely what happened in exquisite detail* "This is just a theory. My opinion."

  • @rileysmith9843
    @rileysmith984324 күн бұрын

    Can you analyze the suspects in the case related to Jordan DeMay’s death? I would like to see the mental health and personality factors surrounding this case.

  • @bold810
    @bold81024 күн бұрын

    Best Storyteller in my feed.

  • @RullXov
    @RullXov24 күн бұрын

    Why would he switch the license plates? I don't get the logic of that.

  • @jacksgl777

    @jacksgl777

    24 күн бұрын

    So the authorities would think it was someone else’s car since license plate didn’t match Maddie’s. So non-clever of him.

  • @RullXov

    @RullXov

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@jacksgl777 The police would know what vehicle the plates should be on as soon as they ran the plates numbers. He is a stupid man.

  • @rolandm9750

    @rolandm9750

    24 күн бұрын

    @@jacksgl777 Yeah that "someone else's car" was *his* though. He used his own plates! Guy is beyond stupid. He may as well also left a business card on her body to "throw the police off"...using his own business card. It doesn't sound like he had a profession anyway, but yeah, that's the smarts of this guy.

  • @standardsarhy5319

    @standardsarhy5319

    22 күн бұрын

    That's because there *is* no logic to it, given that the plates are in his name. That's right up there with wearing contacts instead of glasses when robbing a bank so you won't be recognized.

  • @Reading_the_comments
    @Reading_the_comments24 күн бұрын

    Dr Grande is apart of my daily routine. Love this channel

  • @davidhumphries1146
    @davidhumphries114624 күн бұрын

    I remember following this case from Australia. 😢

  • @diannacotwright4892
    @diannacotwright489224 күн бұрын

    Thank you for the information and your analysis.

  • @kindacrazyAna14
    @kindacrazyAna1424 күн бұрын

    Hellloo I am here early! Love from Jamaica!

  • @francinejones2524
    @francinejones252424 күн бұрын

    Thanks Dr Grande for another great analysis! Love from New Zealand 🇳🇿

  • @BucketHeadianHagg
    @BucketHeadianHagg24 күн бұрын

    Dr Grande is so sweet ❤ (It’s almost time for his snazzy spring fashion button-up shirts!)

  • @livingonhighvibe
    @livingonhighvibe24 күн бұрын

    I refreshed a bunch of times to see if there is a new video already today!

  • @QuirkyQuillify
    @QuirkyQuillify23 күн бұрын

    Another really great analysis, thank you Dr. Grande! I started following the channel since about two years ago, and have never missed a day in watching your daily uploads. I am simultaneously amazed at your ability to produce high quality content everyday, and worried that you will burn out and then leave us with no videos. Take care and do the work you love on the schedule that suits you, and not the algorithm.

  • @williamrichardsonjr9731
    @williamrichardsonjr973124 күн бұрын

    The profundity of that last sentence Doc! Salute🔥

  • @elaineelias2588
    @elaineelias258824 күн бұрын

    As always, so interesting! Thank you dr grande😊

  • @aarondavis8943
    @aarondavis894324 күн бұрын

    He was obsessed with an incompetent murderer and then lived up to and exceeded those aspirations. This is a slam dunk case because the killer is an idiot.

  • @micnorton9487

    @micnorton9487

    24 күн бұрын

    Yeah even his goofy license plate ploy more SUNK him than helped him... BESIDES, if the vehicle WAS seen, which it was, the license plate DIDN'T MATCH the correct vehicle so this boner just screwed the pooch all the way around... Gotta figure though,, people who resort to urder-May AREN'T very smart to begin with...

  • @Yasser.Osman.A.Z.
    @Yasser.Osman.A.Z.24 күн бұрын

    Dr. Grande finds the most obscured cases ever took place. I don't know where he finds them

  • @davidhumphries1146

    @davidhumphries1146

    24 күн бұрын

    It was not obscure

  • @allegrobrio968

    @allegrobrio968

    24 күн бұрын

    Actually, not that obscure.... this case recently was featured in an episode of 48 Hours (CBS).

  • @Rebecca-hc5ju

    @Rebecca-hc5ju

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@allegrobrio968 yes, I was just going to say! Excellent episode.

  • @Yasser.Osman.A.Z.

    @Yasser.Osman.A.Z.

    24 күн бұрын

    @@allegrobrio968 sorry, I didn't make my comment clear enough, so I did not mean this case in particular, I was just speaking my mind, just in general, or more accurate, I should say, I was typing my mind 😉 ☺

  • @Angiesensei.

    @Angiesensei.

    24 күн бұрын

    @@allegrobrio968 yes. 48 hrs

  • @megatherion2695
    @megatherion269524 күн бұрын

    Thanks, Doc!

  • @ghoststarstalk
    @ghoststarstalk22 күн бұрын

    Dr. Grande does so well with a plethora of cases. How does he do it? His dry wit at times is appreciated, although one has to be paying close attention. His final thoughts remain the most interesting and clearly encompass ingenuity.

  • @EdwardClinton
    @EdwardClinton24 күн бұрын

    Excellent analysis

  • @zyrne7297
    @zyrne729724 күн бұрын

    Thank you dr grande this was a good summary

  • @enjoystraveling
    @enjoystraveling23 күн бұрын

    I think that it would’ve been a good idea in high school to give some real life courses. History, literature math is traditional school courses, but students need a few real life courses in their last year of high school such as financial courses so they don’t get too much in debt and also relationship courses so they know how to steer clear of someone that might treat them badly.

  • @AfroGaz71
    @AfroGaz7124 күн бұрын

    I'd like to see Dr Grande's opinion on the recent Cass report.

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson160224 күн бұрын

    Always interesting Thank you❤

  • @MikeInHalifax
    @MikeInHalifax24 күн бұрын

    I saw a documentary about her last summer sometime.

  • @carnifaxx
    @carnifaxx24 күн бұрын

    I wonder what's the point of turning off tracking devices and switching license plates (for his own, ffs) and then leaving the body on the property of your own parents and even admitting you were there... was he thinking that police would assume that nobody is that stupid and that it therefore had to be arranged by someone else to point at him? :D

  • @Vietnamthwcountryhuman
    @Vietnamthwcountryhuman23 күн бұрын

    As a person who was able to survive a similar relationship the only explanation I can give for continuing to stay in the relationship for so long is, hoping or believing that person would eventually change for the BETTER

  • @amybe3
    @amybe324 күн бұрын

    Yes, you can analyze such case, Dr. Grande 😅Thanks

  • @rondarivadeneira172
    @rondarivadeneira17224 күн бұрын

    Good to see you

  • @padussia
    @padussia24 күн бұрын

    So sad. Condolences 😢

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ23 күн бұрын

    Thank you again Dr. Grande🙏 There were so many warning signs for this young lady. Unfortunately this is a common outcome in many cases.

  • @AbuAfakski
    @AbuAfakski24 күн бұрын

    Very sad Adam is an evil man

  • @Legendary_Archfiend

    @Legendary_Archfiend

    24 күн бұрын

    No - you leave a man you had kids with You get what you get As it should be

  • @JavaT6437

    @JavaT6437

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@Legendary_Archfiend no one deserves to die

  • @sherunswithscissors

    @sherunswithscissors

    24 күн бұрын

    @@Legendary_ArchfiendGrow up.

  • @purrple.shadows

    @purrple.shadows

    24 күн бұрын

    ​@@Legendary_ArchfiendVery harsh opinion and unjustifiable.

  • @Legendary_Archfiend

    @Legendary_Archfiend

    24 күн бұрын

    @@purrple.shadows you need need to justify what is just “Harsh opinion” Psh, no it’s a sacrament, if you break it you will suffer the consequences… you’re little condemnation means nothing

  • @Roc-Righteous
    @Roc-Righteous24 күн бұрын

    I agree Mr Grande. Good video!

  • @DG-si2vp

    @DG-si2vp

    24 күн бұрын

    Dr Not mr

  • @aprilcanipe2614
    @aprilcanipe261424 күн бұрын

    You'll adjust?" Wtf

  • @GenXfrom75
    @GenXfrom7524 күн бұрын

    The title grabbed my attention and so, here I am!

  • @ghostwalk2446
    @ghostwalk244624 күн бұрын

    Never inform your abusive partner of your "new lover"

  • @TheBub26
    @TheBub2624 күн бұрын

    how do i explain the scratches on my face? they'll look at my searches, so i'll search "are dog scratches on face dangerous?". maybe i should just ask if dog scratches are dangerous minus location? yeah, that would look less suspicious

  • @sarahjaye4117

    @sarahjaye4117

    23 күн бұрын

    What a moron

  • @TechGorilla1987
    @TechGorilla198724 күн бұрын

    The best thing about your content is the fact that watching it vs listening to it gives a particularly stereo-style appearance. Only when the two channels are combined does the content truly make sense and 'sound' the best.

  • @jaclynvonhohen9220
    @jaclynvonhohen922023 күн бұрын

    Would love to see your reaction/analysis of the Watcher scandal.

  • @futurepath
    @futurepath24 күн бұрын

    Hey Dr. Grande, been a fan for many years now. You should cover Kelly Ellard and her murder of Reena Virk at age 15. Kelly is now known as "Kerry Marie Sim". Very sad story with a lot of interest in Canada. Kelly Ellard has had further challenges since she was granted day parole including domestic violence against her ex-spouse.

  • @marciabosteder9781
    @marciabosteder978124 күн бұрын

    ❤ It seems to me, This young mother was quite Naive. I'm so sorry for her children and her family.

  • @fragrancememoir2350
    @fragrancememoir235024 күн бұрын

    God bless this sweet precious young woman & her family 😞🙏 ... If you're in a similar relationship, LEAVE. IT ALWAYS ALWAYS ONLY GETS WORSE.

  • @bobburnitt5761
    @bobburnitt576123 күн бұрын

    It is scary to me how often things like this happen. What a shame.

  • @gabrielleandrew542
    @gabrielleandrew54223 күн бұрын

    What a terrible tragedy . This lady just didn’t leave soon enough . When the hands encircled the throat .,. It was definitely time … and thanks so much Dr Grande

  • @OzzieJayne
    @OzzieJayne24 күн бұрын

    Much love to the children. Dr Grande, could you have a speculative glance at the Aussie case of Julian Buchwald and Carolyn Watson, from 2008, please and thank you.

  • @marymonroe7042
    @marymonroe704224 күн бұрын

    So sad.

  • @michelleloveday6929
    @michelleloveday69292 күн бұрын

    That is so sad.

  • @jasonstoutamire177
    @jasonstoutamire17724 күн бұрын

    Dr. Grande could you do a video on Max Azzarello?

  • @freshlimejuice
    @freshlimejuice24 күн бұрын

    The title alone makes my head explode lol

  • @egoborder3203
    @egoborder320324 күн бұрын

    instead of warning other people that Adam would hurt her, she should have incapacitated him and kept herself alive

  • @thatguy7085

    @thatguy7085

    24 күн бұрын

    And she would be in prison…

  • @750dollarman2

    @750dollarman2

    24 күн бұрын

    If my daughter told me she was afraid to be murdered by someone..

  • @monacoofthebluepacific2571

    @monacoofthebluepacific2571

    24 күн бұрын

    Or just move without telling him when and where she was moving to.

  • @HiNickCares

    @HiNickCares

    24 күн бұрын

    Or just not pick him to begin with.

  • @egoborder3203

    @egoborder3203

    24 күн бұрын

    @@thatguy7085 maybe, but she would definitely be alive and not dead in some field

  • @sondragramse1770
    @sondragramse177024 күн бұрын

    They started search parties very fast to try and find her!! Another Minnesota story about murderers. There was really no other suspect. Sondra from St Paul,

  • @JefftheSabaDude
    @JefftheSabaDude23 күн бұрын

    I grew up in southern MN although not near Mabel but people I know who have connections to that area always pronounced it like the woman's name Mabel, not May-belle. But Dr. G sure does his research on those Australian place names to get them right, impressive!

  • @avestaali3957
    @avestaali395724 күн бұрын

    Can you make a video about the personality disorder of Matha Scott in the Baby Reindeer?

  • @JP-wx6uh
    @JP-wx6uh24 күн бұрын

    There are some very strange people in this world 🌍

  • @scotabot7826

    @scotabot7826

    24 күн бұрын

    You mean EVIL and SICK!!!!!

  • @vivienneobrien1557
    @vivienneobrien155724 күн бұрын

    Super-athletic shifty eye Dr Grande!

  • @enjoystraveling
    @enjoystraveling23 күн бұрын

    I agree she should’ve left when he first started abusing her and not told him she gone. I think it’s harder when you have children to leave and that you probably don’t wanna believe that your husband will do that again if he apologizes. Also, it’s not a good idea to tell your ex or your spouse you’re leaving about sure new spouse, or new lover, just get out of there. and better to be fully separated and moved.

  • @ShadesOClarity
    @ShadesOClarity24 күн бұрын

    How do people think they can get away with any crime now with cameras everywhere?

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